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New Blood, Same Drama · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent. Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, gorgeous,
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. I have
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Speaker 1: the human who makes my life or is a piece
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Speaker 1: of my life that makes it makes itself untraditional. Hello
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Speaker 1: Titi Hi, I have Q and as I know, you
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Speaker 1: have to be to the airport. We're all going to
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Speaker 1: Utah for Easan's birthday, little Valentine's baby.
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Speaker 2: Tried to make a reservation.
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Speaker 3: That was the other thing, because birthday it's like everybody, Yeah, we're.
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Speaker 2: Going to Brandon's house, our brother.
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Speaker 4: But like that's the other thing, Like, let's just go.
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Speaker 2: Grab a bite to eat where nowhere Donalds.
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Speaker 4: I do like it, little bit.
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Speaker 2: Gina Lucia wants to know. Should I got to know?
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Speaker 2: Why are your episodes so short?
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Speaker 1: Now? I still love listening, but it's a bummer. By
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Speaker 1: the way, I get this a lot. You are seen,
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Speaker 1: you are heard. I don't like change. No one likes change.
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Speaker 1: You guys talk about the app. I get it. I
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Speaker 1: totally get it, and I just want you to rock
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Speaker 1: with me because your listenership is like you guys are
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Speaker 1: like my friends. It's the one place I can come
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Speaker 1: to share about my life, be open and honest. The
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Speaker 1: pod meaning you guys, that I've created is so incredible
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Speaker 1: and I appreciate you sticking with me. This podcast I
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Speaker 1: love doing, but it's also responsible for helping me provide
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Speaker 1: for my family, so I just want to say thank you. Also,
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Speaker 1: I know that the episodes at times have been short.
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Speaker 1: We're going We're going back. We hear you, we hear you,
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Speaker 1: We're going back, we got you, We're in motion. Ten
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Speaker 1: Heather fourteen asks I am losing my daughter to alcohol.
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Speaker 1: Is there anything I can say or do to get
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Speaker 1: her to change? This one actually broke my heart because
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Speaker 1: I feel that back when I was struggling and deep
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Speaker 1: in my alcoholism, had anyone said anything, and by the
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Speaker 1: way people did, I was not ready to hear it.
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Speaker 1: In fact, I would push them away. They were ruining
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Speaker 1: my good time. I had to come to it on
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Speaker 1: my own. And I think that this is the most
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Speaker 1: difficult thing that you're going to hear. I think you
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Speaker 1: have that conversation with her and express your concerns, but
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Speaker 1: you have to accept that you may have to love
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Speaker 1: her from afar. I saw the other day Mom sent
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Speaker 1: me a message that the girl and I'm blinking on
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Speaker 1: her name. She used to be on Real Housewives of
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Speaker 1: OC and she had two daughters. It was a Lexus
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Speaker 1: and one another and if you guys remember like season two,
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Speaker 1: I think the girls like loved to drink Lynn thank you.
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Speaker 2: Her name is Lynn.
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Speaker 1: One of her daughters was spotted in Orange County missing fingers.
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Speaker 2: Didn't have teeth. She said.
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Speaker 1: Her family lives in San Diego. They've disowned her because
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Speaker 1: she couldn't get sober. She dabbled in heroin and then
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Speaker 1: went to feentanyl and her life went downhill from there.
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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine as a parent having to go through
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Speaker 1: that and just praying to some something beyond you to
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Speaker 1: like make my child see the light and have them
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Speaker 1: come back to me. I am sending you so much love,
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Speaker 1: and I hope you know that you're not by yourself,
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Speaker 1: and I hope the Easton and I can give you
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Speaker 1: hope that your daughter will will see the light. And
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pray for you. Melpite. What does your daily
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Speaker 1: routine look like with the kiddos. My daily routine.
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Speaker 2: Looks like this. We wake up at seven. Ocean wakes
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Speaker 2: up with me.
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Speaker 1: Sosa wakes up, I feed the kids, Ocean gets ready
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Speaker 1: for school. I get her dressed, I do her hair,
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Speaker 1: she brushes her teeth. At that point in time, I
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Speaker 1: hand Sosa off to my brother or my mom so
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Speaker 1: that I can take Ocean to school. Once I get back,
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Speaker 1: I usually have Jenna, who's my friend slash trainer, come
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Speaker 1: to work me out while my mom sits upstairs in
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Speaker 1: the playroom with Sosa, because that's where my little workout
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Speaker 1: corner is. The nanny arrives by ten and then I
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Speaker 1: start my day. I always have to be done by
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Speaker 1: around one thirty that I can make it to pick up.
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Speaker 1: If I can't there's something that can't be moved easton
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Speaker 1: or my mom picked them up.
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Speaker 4: You live a crazy life. You usually sorry if I'm
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Speaker 4: far it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if you can't take Ocean to school
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Speaker 3: because you're doing something like what we're doing right now.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, like this morning, I wouldn't have been able to
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Speaker 1: the giegs would have or sometimes you and the geech
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Speaker 1: have just a little something.
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Speaker 4: But you Yeah, your morning routines are pretty well.
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Speaker 1: I'm a creature of habit and I'm thirty five years
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Speaker 1: old with two children and the wind blows in the
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Speaker 1: wrong direction and I start having a panic attack. So
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Speaker 1: it just depends. But I feel like we're pretty structured.
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Speaker 1: I mean bedtime for Sosa. We start getting her ready
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Speaker 1: to go down at six o'clock and she's in bed
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Speaker 1: by six thirty, and Ocean slowly.
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Speaker 3: Follows, Yeah, I don't really know. Yeah, I mean, I
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Speaker 3: see you guys music video.
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Speaker 1: It's dinner time, it's vitamin time, Russia freaking teeth time.
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Speaker 1: Braid your hair, because if you don't breid Ocean's hair,
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Speaker 1: it is a rat's nest. Kathy Hannah four, When is
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Speaker 1: he going to fix his hair?
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Speaker 2: Nothing to fix? Nothing to fix.
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Speaker 4: This beauty, We asked Ocean every buddy. No, I'm on
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Speaker 4: my last leg with this hair that.
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Speaker 2: Makes me so sad. I love it so much.
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Speaker 3: I do want to cut it. It's getting there, I
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Speaker 3: will say, I asked. I asked Ocean. I was like,
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Speaker 3: I'm going to cut it, and she said no, and
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Speaker 3: she almost got teary eyed, and I said, I'm not
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Speaker 3: cutting it. We were in the car. She goes, you
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Speaker 3: can't cut it, and I said, all right, I won't.
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Speaker 3: So now it's like Ocean, could she get over it? Yes,
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Speaker 3: but I think I'm going to go one more year.
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Speaker 2: I think you go one more year.
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Speaker 4: I love it.
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Speaker 2: I think it's so freaking cool.
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Speaker 1: And anyone who's like comments on it that they don't
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Speaker 1: like it, I would just totally ignore them because it
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Speaker 1: doesn't have what you like for years. Yeah, Like, imagine
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Speaker 1: if I went on to some random woman's Instagram and
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Speaker 1: I was like, I really hate your hair.
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Speaker 4: That thing I've like.
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Speaker 3: I'm going on my for you page and I see
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Speaker 3: people that like are a little different, and I guarantee
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Speaker 3: they look at me the same way. And never once
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Speaker 3: have I clicked on it and gone, I gotta fucking
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Speaker 3: write something.
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Speaker 4: No, it's beyond I just go, wow, good for you.
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Speaker 1: So to answer your question, Kathy, three here, it's fixed.
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Speaker 4: It's fixed.
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Speaker 1: It takes a lot of work to get that hair
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Speaker 1: just past twelve. What is the best therapy for an
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Speaker 1: alcohol addiction?
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Speaker 4: Oh, my goodness, I will say routine.
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Speaker 3: And the one thing I fall in love with is
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Speaker 3: I have a five minute journal, uh, five minutes in
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Speaker 3: the morning, five minutes a night. I kind of write
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Speaker 3: out little things that it, you know.
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Speaker 4: Wants me to do.
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Speaker 3: But it kind of sounds stupid, but it kind of
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Speaker 3: puts me in a good, a good headspace for that.
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Speaker 3: And then I hit a lot of meetings on Zoom.
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Speaker 3: Even if I don't like have my camera on or
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Speaker 3: like I'm not being active, I listen. I listen to
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Speaker 3: podcasts too. I can even put a couple down that
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Speaker 3: I that I listened to. I'll put I'll send him
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Speaker 3: to you so you can put it.
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Speaker 1: I would like that because I've been too many therapists,
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Speaker 1: and as you guys know, if you've been following me,
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Speaker 1: I've had a traumatic experience with a therapist. So I'm
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Speaker 1: that's a whole other set of issues, one that I
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Speaker 1: haven't got.
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Speaker 2: In all the self work I've done. There's one.
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Speaker 1: There's things that I go I haven't worked on that yet.
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Speaker 1: Like I'm still very skeptical of therapist for me having
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Speaker 1: for me me.
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Speaker 2: Having my sponsor there it is.
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Speaker 4: I wanted to say, that is because.
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Speaker 1: Her sponsor had a sponsor, and her sponsor had a sponsor,
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Speaker 1: and you have to find the right one.
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Speaker 3: Yes, just because I have to say this or I'll forget.
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Speaker 3: Do you know how far away you are from Bill?
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Speaker 3: Bill w No, I should have ask that. Yeah, I'm
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Speaker 3: only five away, So he sponsored him, and then my
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Speaker 3: sponsor sponsors me. On number five five away from Bill
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Speaker 3: wo wrote the book I'm going to ask it's a very.
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Speaker 4: Good thing to ask. Yeah, so like that's you.
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Speaker 1: I have found my My therapy comes from talking to
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Speaker 1: my sponsor, who has been in the program for very
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Speaker 1: long time. And it's like dating, you have to find
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Speaker 1: the right one. And if you don't find the right one,
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Speaker 1: it's okay to say, like to move on from the
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Speaker 1: the partnership, relationship sponsorship. That is what I think has
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Speaker 1: saved me. That's where all my work has come from.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't tell you how many times I've called
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Speaker 3: my sponsor crying, telling them I feel off. And every
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Speaker 3: time I get off that phone, it's like it's a reset.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, are you still on the peptide train? I know
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Speaker 1: you briefly mentioned it, but curious This is from Moles
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Speaker 1: one two five.
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Speaker 3: Yes I am, but I get to get back on
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Speaker 3: the one the I can cycles.
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Speaker 4: You don't just continue doing.
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Speaker 3: So like I did it when I first got sober
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Speaker 3: August is when I started like the THHC, the thymysin
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Speaker 3: and HC TCH or HCT.
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Speaker 1: I don't think it's any of those, but it's severally
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Speaker 1: not THHC because you would not be.
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Speaker 2: Instead of smoking it, I just jacked.
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Speaker 4: It into my stomach.
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Speaker 3: But whatever it is, I have to wait for six months,
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Speaker 3: and so that six months has come up. So when
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Speaker 3: I get home from my vacation, I'll probably go back
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Speaker 3: in and get the.
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Speaker 1: I finished my cycle, I think the end of October.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can go on it again.
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Speaker 2: If here's why you guys. You guys know I hate shots.
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Speaker 1: I loved the way the peptides made me feel, but
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Speaker 1: the poking myself every day is a lot, and I
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Speaker 1: don't think I can do it.
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Speaker 2: I don't think I can do it.
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Speaker 4: I say she could do it in pill form.
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Speaker 2: That I would do.
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Speaker 1: But I had a needle that was a little doll
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Speaker 1: and I went to do it and it didn't go in,
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Speaker 1: and then I tried again and it didn't go in.
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Speaker 1: And then I went again and tried to push, and
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Speaker 1: I was like, I can't do this.
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Speaker 2: I'm done. I'm gonna throw up.
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Speaker 4: That's for the bad.
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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say this person's name. I'm a teacher,
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Speaker 1: and my anxiety has been crippling watching you on VPR
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Speaker 1: and Insta. My joy that brings you joy, brings you
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Speaker 1: so much joy to me, I know that feeling of
10:07
Speaker 1: having anxiety where you're like this is completely debilitating, but
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Speaker 1: like you have to show up for your kids and
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Speaker 1: teach our youth. And I hope you know how much
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Speaker 1: I you're seen, you're seen, but also how grateful we are,
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Speaker 1: like you're in charge of the future. Yes, thank you
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Speaker 1: for finishing my sentences. I just think about this all
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Speaker 1: the time, that we're paying basketball players to you dribble
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Speaker 1: a fucking ball around hundreds of millions of dollars.
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Speaker 2: Then these teachers.
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Speaker 3: One point five million dollar salary minimum.
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Speaker 2: That's what are we doing? What are we doing?
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Speaker 1: How is this making any sense? So thank you and
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Speaker 1: I am very humbled by this message. And also I'm
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Speaker 1: so happy vander Pump Rules could bring you some joy.
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Speaker 2: I hope you haven't made it to season I love
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Speaker 2: and yet because you may not like me anymore.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, by the way, this is.
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Speaker 2: To be the last time I mentioned season eleven. I
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Speaker 2: am shutting the Scarlet letter.
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Speaker 3: Fuck it.
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Speaker 1: Sarah duceet for tips for saying sober while getting back
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Speaker 1: into dating or without friends.
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Speaker 2: Oh, out with friends?
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Speaker 4: Sorry, out with friends? Fuck I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I do.
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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't. Yeah, before you date, Yeah, don't
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Speaker 4: date if you're so I I mean, I that's the thing.
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Speaker 4: I don't even know how to date because I don't. Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I just think every time I go out a couple
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Speaker 3: of deep breasts. I am enough. I am enough who
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Speaker 3: will find me?
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Speaker 1: Will find and find find your drink, like I have
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Speaker 1: the equivalents. And by the way, this is going to
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Speaker 1: be I also have Amy is a kent that is.
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Speaker 2: So funny on into the family instead of a music hunt,
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Speaker 2: a music hunt that is so good I want That
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Speaker 2: is my Instagram name.
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Speaker 1: Anyway, back to this, find your find your drink of choice,
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Speaker 1: like I have equivalents. My vodka soda is like my
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Speaker 1: diet coke. That's that's the equivalent. Or like if we're
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Speaker 1: going to a club, which never happens, I have a
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Speaker 1: red bull I've like and and I'll put it.
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Speaker 2: In a shot glass and like take it with whoever
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Speaker 2: is I'll get it.
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Speaker 3: I'll get a red bull and I get it in
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Speaker 3: a cocktail glass. So if you want a can and
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Speaker 3: I say can, I get it in a cocktail glass.
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Speaker 3: Or I'll do a pineapple juice for my.
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Speaker 1: Little pineapples, pineapple and a short glass because it's flash
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Speaker 1: of soda water li i'me on the side, I'm fucking
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Speaker 1: it up.
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Speaker 4: I'm thinking.
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Speaker 3: Is the one thing that I have found out going
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Speaker 3: out sober is it's weird for the first like five
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Speaker 3: or ten minutes because you're like, what do I do?
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Speaker 4: Why am I here?
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Speaker 3: But then everybody around you kind of gets drunk, and
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Speaker 3: then you're like, all right, I'm sober, everybody's drunk. Now
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Speaker 3: I can kind of calm down, and then something in
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Speaker 3: the hand is really what kind of calms me down?
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Speaker 4: Or I'll get like an o'dul's or like a heigh
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Speaker 4: and easy ara now.
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Speaker 2: But some people can't handle that.
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Speaker 1: Like I'm able to drink non alcoholic beverages without feeling triggered,
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Speaker 1: but I don't want to tell someone go do that,
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Speaker 1: because it could be everybody's sobriety.
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Speaker 2: Journey is different.
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Speaker 1: Yes, you have to know that when you're a sober person,
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Speaker 1: you have to be staying sober for yourself because the
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Speaker 1: world around you does not change. Life still happens. People
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Speaker 1: who are normies go out and have cocktails. There's gonna
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Speaker 1: be things around you that could be triggering. So what
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Speaker 1: do we have control over ourselves? If I know that
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Speaker 1: having a glass of non alcoholic rose, which is everywhere,
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Speaker 1: there are so many brands because gen z is like
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Speaker 1: anti alcohol, I have to know this is something I control.
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Speaker 2: This triggers me. I'm not having it well.
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Speaker 3: And that is yes, see for okay, And that all
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Speaker 3: what I will say is keep to what doesn't trigger you.
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Speaker 4: But having something in your hand, even if it's water.
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Speaker 2: I know. But that's why Amy is a kent. My
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Speaker 2: wife is seven months sober.
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Speaker 1: Can you please share some encouraging words slash things that
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Speaker 1: helped you. It's such a hard it's such a hard
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Speaker 1: point to go through when they first get sober.
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Speaker 2: Seven months, that's that's.
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Speaker 1: A You've got a good amount of time, but it's
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Speaker 1: still a very vulnerable state. And keep in mind, very
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Speaker 1: humbling thing to think about is you could be sober
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Speaker 1: for twenty four years and in a matter of seconds
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Speaker 1: you are back in the room a day winner. Like literally,
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Speaker 1: you could have all the time in the world. But
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Speaker 1: someone who's got you know, seven years on me, we're
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Speaker 1: both one slip away from being at the exact same
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Speaker 1: point in time. I think the only thing that I
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Speaker 1: can say to you is I think ask your wife,
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Speaker 1: do a check in every day? How are you feeling
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Speaker 1: in your sobriety? Are you If she says that she's struggling,
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Speaker 1: that's a okay, that's normal. How do we work through this?
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Speaker 1: What can I do to take the load off of
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Speaker 1: you so you know you're not in this by yourself?
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Speaker 1: I think constant communication is massively huge.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot active too, because most you know, most
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Speaker 3: alcoholics myself I'm kind of speaking for I would just
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Speaker 3: drink and do nothing.
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Speaker 4: So like once I was sober, it.
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Speaker 3: Was like, I need to go out and be in
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Speaker 3: the world because if I'm not, my only thought is
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Speaker 3: I'm sitting here.
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Speaker 4: I want to drink, So I need to go out.
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Speaker 1: Miss beck Burke, what is different filming the Valley than
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Speaker 1: VPR Just the name I've done to I've talked about this.
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Speaker 1: Vanner Pump Rules was a well oiled machine. By the
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Speaker 1: time I came on, they had done four seasons. They
15:45
Speaker 1: were also in their you know, mid to late twenties,
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Speaker 1: early thirties, still trying to figure out life and we
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Speaker 1: it was just chaotic and easy. Everyone had nothing to lose.
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Speaker 1: The Valley they've only done two seasons. I came on
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Speaker 1: the third. There were a lot of times where I
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Speaker 1: was like, Oh, this is different. These these people haven't
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Speaker 1: done this before, and I can tell.
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Speaker 2: But I also I think.
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Speaker 1: The biggest thing was I didn't know my place because
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Speaker 1: even though I'm friends with Michelle and Janet, I've never
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Speaker 1: filmed a show with them. It's a different freaking beast.
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Speaker 1: Brittany I filmed with a million times. She fucking knows
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Speaker 1: the drill. She knows what's going on. Dody fucking knows
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Speaker 1: the drill too. Of the most iconic reality TV personalities
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Speaker 1: on the planet, like we were all good there, the
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Speaker 1: rest of them, it was like, oh, okay, we need
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Speaker 1: we need some more years under our belt because we
16:38
Speaker 1: don't quite know how to do this. And then the
16:41
Speaker 1: way that they start up drama like what happened last week.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, bro, I'm off the clock. Honey, I'm
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Speaker 1: off the clock. Let me know when when cameras picked
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Speaker 1: back up, and I'll give a shit about this.
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Speaker 2: Until then, I just want to text this sexy.
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Speaker 1: Man and like not give one damn about any of that.
17:02
Speaker 1: Like I'm living in in Lauren's world now. Laala will
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Speaker 1: back in in a minute. Starshine one two four. Is
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Speaker 1: Laala going to be on the Valley as a full
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Speaker 1: time cast member? Yes, my love, I hope that makes
17:14
Speaker 1: you excited AofA underscore x Laala? How did you cope
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Speaker 1: with not vaping when pregnant? Just found out I'm pregnant? Congratulations, congratulations?
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Speaker 1: It was actually not that hard because I knew, I mean,
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Speaker 1: with Sosa was very like I knew that I was
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Speaker 1: going in to be inciminated well before, like the process
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Speaker 1: had started months in advance, so I knew, I have
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Speaker 1: to give this up because I'm trying to get pregnant.
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Speaker 1: And then once I was pregnant, it was like, I
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Speaker 1: obviously I.
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Speaker 4: Can't a bit easier, Yeah, and for that somebody.
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Speaker 2: That, yeah, but I should give for my kids now.
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Speaker 1: But there was just some It's like, I have this
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Speaker 1: little baby in my stomach, who I am, who is
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Speaker 1: depending on me to live healthy so that they can
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Speaker 1: be healthy, and there's already so much that could go
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Speaker 1: wrong that I'm not going to like do anything that
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Speaker 1: could make.
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Speaker 2: Shit go wrong. And it just was very easy.
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Speaker 4: Now.
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Speaker 2: There weren't moments where I saw Easton. There were moments
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Speaker 2: east when.
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Speaker 1: It hit the vape and I'd be like, oh, the
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Speaker 1: moment I dropped this kid and I'm dumb breastfeeding, I'm
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Speaker 1: fucking smacking the shit out of it.
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Speaker 2: Honestly, chew a lot.
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Speaker 4: Of gum, toothpicks.
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Speaker 2: Toothpicks, you'll be fine.
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Speaker 1: Just every time you want to hit it, remember you've
18:39
Speaker 1: got this like innocent baby growing inside of you. There's
18:41
Speaker 1: enough shit that could go wrong. You don't need to
18:43
Speaker 1: help with that. Don't pick up the vape, please, for
18:47
Speaker 1: the love of God. I know it's hard, but it
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Speaker 1: ain't worth it. There are sometimes where I'm like to
18:53
Speaker 1: give up the vape. You know what I need to do.
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Speaker 1: I need to get pregnant. Oh sure, I give it up? Then,
19:10
Speaker 1: Sid Price. How does one know when to walk away
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Speaker 1: from a relationship? I'm so scared, but it's bad. You know,
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Speaker 1: now is the time?
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Speaker 4: If you're asking if it's the time, it's the time.
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Speaker 1: I learned this in sobriety, but I think it applies
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Speaker 1: to every part of life. You don't need to wait
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Speaker 1: for the elevator to hit the bottom floor before you
19:30
Speaker 1: get off. If it's bad, get the fuck off the elevator.
19:35
Speaker 1: I would start teeing up my game plan.
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Speaker 2: Don't let him know.
19:39
Speaker 1: I don't know if what your situation is like what
19:42
Speaker 1: I know is you said it's bad. You start looking
19:44
Speaker 1: at your financials, you start, I don't know if you
19:47
Speaker 1: share kids, but start teeing.
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Speaker 2: That shit up.
19:50
Speaker 1: And is it just a boyfriend? She just said a relationship,
19:55
Speaker 1: And get the fuck out. Life is way too short.
19:58
Speaker 1: You blink and it is over. There's a lot of
20:01
Speaker 1: heartbreak happening in the world. But if you can find
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Speaker 1: the beauty in any capacity, you should. And it sounds
20:08
Speaker 1: like you're living in hell. Get the fuck out and
20:12
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. You say that you're scared.
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Speaker 1: I was scared too, but I was given no choice
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Speaker 1: but to leave, and I found a strength and an
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Speaker 1: independence that I never in a million years thought that
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Speaker 1: I possessed. I look at that girl who had the balls.
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Speaker 1: I was in fucking autopilot. I was skin and bone
20:38
Speaker 1: because I couldn't even eat. I was so stressed and sad.
20:43
Speaker 1: And I look at her and I'm like, that girl
20:45
Speaker 1: is the strongest human on the planet.
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Speaker 2: And I look at where I am now happy, I
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Speaker 2: don't have any stress.
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Speaker 1: I get ready, I'm not I mean I sit in
20:55
Speaker 1: my bathrobe, but because I want to. I'm not depressed
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Speaker 1: about it. Get out, Get out of there, babe, abort mission.
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Speaker 1: If it's bad.
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Speaker 2: You have the luxury of leaving, and you can do it.
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Speaker 2: I promise. If I can fucking do it, you can
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Speaker 2: fucking do it real.
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Speaker 1: And you're once you leave and you get situated and
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Speaker 1: you're like finding your grounding.
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Speaker 2: God, You're gonna feel so good. The future is beautiful
21:22
Speaker 2: for you. I know it.
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Speaker 4: But you gotta get out.
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Speaker 1: Adriana Dominguez, Where do you separate yourself from the other?
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Speaker 2: Is it hard for Easton to have an identity from you.
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Speaker 4: Here and there? Yeah? But no, yeah no, I haven't
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Speaker 4: tried though. That's the other thing.
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Speaker 1: But you've expressed to me many times that you feel
21:41
Speaker 1: like you don't have an identity outside of me.
21:43
Speaker 2: And you said, when things.
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Speaker 1: Get wild on whatever show you're on, I have DMS
21:50
Speaker 1: from people and I have nothing to do with it,
21:52
Speaker 1: and it has bothered you.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that I mean I that isn't I have
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Speaker 3: my own life separate from you, whether people know that,
22:01
Speaker 3: because I don't post stuff. I don't post when I'm
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Speaker 3: out with my homies. I don't post when I go
22:04
Speaker 3: to dinners. I don't post when I'm at the beach.
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Speaker 3: I don't post things with them with my friends, you know.
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Speaker 3: So it's like if people if I were to post that,
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Speaker 3: I don't think people would assume it either, because they're
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Speaker 3: assuming from what they see.
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Speaker 4: That's how I feel. Yeah, but I because I don't,
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Speaker 4: I'm not a look at what I'm doing. I should
22:22
Speaker 4: post more? Should I post more? Tell me?
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Speaker 2: Yes, you should post more when you're so funny.
22:28
Speaker 4: Like that's the thing.
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Speaker 3: I'm always doing shit away from my family. That's what
22:30
Speaker 3: people don't understand. Like I'm always doing something away from
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Speaker 3: you guys. I don't post it, but like I have
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Speaker 3: my own identity. It's the people who follow you who
22:39
Speaker 3: know me that assume that or think that. Yeah, and
22:45
Speaker 3: I will tell you this, Bravo world is a very
22:48
Speaker 3: very very very tricky, weird world totally of everybody has
22:54
Speaker 3: something to say, and everybody who says something is pretty
22:57
Speaker 3: much hurt.
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Speaker 4: It's crazy, which is great.
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Speaker 3: I love that about that everybody has a say, but
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Speaker 3: it's also like one person saying some one thing can
23:05
Speaker 3: steer the whole narrative that way, I know, and that's
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Speaker 3: not what it is. I have my own identity outside
23:12
Speaker 3: of my sister. I don't show it, but I'm starting
23:16
Speaker 3: to think I might.
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Speaker 1: Please by all means, I would also like you to
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Speaker 1: do that. People think I hold you in mom hostage
23:23
Speaker 1: Moms and about.
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Speaker 2: She's with Claudia.
23:26
Speaker 3: She's like Julie, like, I'm going it, just like I
23:30
Speaker 3: go with my buddies and grab coffee. Like a couple
23:33
Speaker 3: of days a week, I go. You know, I'm going
23:35
Speaker 3: to six Flags. I'm doing so much shit. I just
23:37
Speaker 3: don't post because I don't I get it. Yeah, but no,
23:42
Speaker 3: I have my own identity.
23:43
Speaker 4: Because I'll do it.
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Speaker 3: I'll post for everybody else to see how I have
23:46
Speaker 3: my own identity as well your identity.
23:49
Speaker 1: One more time, the drinking if you every time you
23:52
Speaker 1: hear this word, have a drink.
23:55
Speaker 4: Fill them up.
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Speaker 1: You guys, Thank you so much for listening to a
23:57
Speaker 1: bonus episode of Additionally La La, I love you so much.
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Speaker 1: I'm going to catch you guys next week on Wednesday
24:04
Speaker 1: for a regular episode and Monday's remember Boner's up.
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Speaker 4: Love you, Bye bye