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If you want to change yourself you need to not wait any longer to make it happen, I have explained how to start! · Connor with Honor: AI, Real Estate and Real Life

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  SPEAKER_00: Fat to fit realtor Connor with honor, I do want to reach out to all of my fans out there and the people that listen to my podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today's going to be a little bit of a special episode as we close out 2022.
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  SPEAKER_00: With those of you that are thinking, you know what, I really want to wait until next year, the first of the year, to really start the program.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, most people, businesses, places, on the first, well, some of the gyms are going to be open, but I don't know if you're going to be prepared on the first, because of course what, the 31st of December, everybody's celebrating that great end of the year party and hoping for the best for the next year.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe today's a good day.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're at the 27th, you got the 28th, you got the 29th, you got the 30th, you even got the 31st.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why not ring it in early?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why not take these four days?
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  SPEAKER_00: What, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31?
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  SPEAKER_00: So yeah, you have four days starting tomorrow on the 28th.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why not take these four days to get a jump on it, to get that edge, and then never stop?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because if you actually went through and did what you told yourself you were going to do each and every time, you would be a whole different, a whole different person, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether that's physical fitness, whether it's quitting some kind of an addiction, maybe stopping sabotaging, sabotaging.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sabotaging yourself, maybe stopping something that you're doing deliberately.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you go to bed at night, that question should be asked when you're laying there, right before you doze off to sleep.
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  SPEAKER_00: What have I done today that might have inhibited my growth, might have stopped me from achieving something greater in my life?
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  SPEAKER_00: What was that thing?
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  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't have to be a whole laundry list.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's one thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you smoked a cigarette or a pack or two packs or three.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're vaping.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're addicted to something.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you had a couple drinks.
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  SPEAKER_00: What are these things we do to ourselves?
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  SPEAKER_00: What are the things you do to you?
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  SPEAKER_00: I know what my sins were, and I still have some.
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  SPEAKER_00: I ask myself that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then I bring it out into the forefront.
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  SPEAKER_00: If I'm doing this, then I need to stop that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the stopping, the quitting, if I'm true, that's game day and I'll win and I'll succeed.
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  SPEAKER_00: If it's not true, I haven't failed, I've merely just practiced quitting.
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  SPEAKER_00: Eventually, if you're at it long enough, some people this comes quick.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you've already had enough practice, you're ready for game day to actually quit once and for all.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whatever that may be, however that fits in your life, make it happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: But don't wait until we get to 2023 to do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I would do it early.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you're only listening to this podcast, it's the 3rd of January, 2023, then don't wait till the fourth.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't wait till the fifth, or if it's the sixth, don't wait until the seventh.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do it right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you can, and you can start immediately without delay.
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  SPEAKER_00: A friend of mine was telling me how they've had a jump gym membership for a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're paying you know about 300 bucks out of their pocket so far for these few months, and they've never been once.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I said, Well, why why don't you go?
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  SPEAKER_00: They said, Well, I I'm gonna start after the first of the year.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, well why?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, I think it's a good time.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm just kind of busy right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, how about today after work?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, no, I have stuff to do.
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  SPEAKER_00: How about tomorrow lunch?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well I only get thirty minutes.
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  SPEAKER_00: How about tomorrow morning?
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh I can't get up that early.
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  SPEAKER_00: So there's the problem, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: There's three things that are the problem, but the biggest one is can't is actually won't.
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  SPEAKER_00: I won't get up that early.
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  SPEAKER_00: I won't go after work, I won't go during my lunch.
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  SPEAKER_00: I won't.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that's their choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're not ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: But a person that tells me that they want to, and if I say, Well, let's go right now, well, I I do you have any plans right now?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, no, I was actually gonna maybe, you know, relax.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, well, let's go now then.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that person that says, Okay, they're learning and they're gonna make it.
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  SPEAKER_00: All you have to be is better than fifty percent.
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  SPEAKER_00: With my real estate business, you know, I have a phone number and it's 661-51 homes.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's my number for real estate.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's my real estate business phone number.
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  SPEAKER_00: What's what's great about that is the fact that it's over fifty percent.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's 51.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in my life, I've found that when I've been able to be better than 50% in anything, I've made it as long as I was consistent 51 or better percent of the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of the trainers, some of the coaches, some of everybody that is out there that making names for themselves in public speaking, they talk about 100% or give 120%, 130 folks.
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  SPEAKER_00: 120% is impossible.
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  SPEAKER_00: 100% is all in.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that, for most people, is unachievable.
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  SPEAKER_00: But can you give me more than half of what you're capable of?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sure you can.
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  SPEAKER_00: Can you be consistent more than half the time?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm sure you're able.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do you want to be?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the question.
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  SPEAKER_00: So make those changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sit down and think.
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  SPEAKER_00: What am I doing?
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  SPEAKER_00: What have I done?
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  SPEAKER_00: What do I do to sabotage myself?
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  SPEAKER_00: And you'll find out that there's a lot of you folks, including myself, that do a great job sabotaging ourselves, causing us not to be able to move on, causing us to be at that stuck point in our lives, causing us to never change.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of the biggest blessings are the hardships we face because they push us what?
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  SPEAKER_00: They push us out of our comfort zone.
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  SPEAKER_00: They push us to a place that is so unbelievable, unbelievably uncomfortable, we will do anything to get back in a comfort zone.
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  SPEAKER_00: Get back into the normal humdrum, repetitious loop that we typically live in.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're worrying about the past, what decisions we made, what decisions we didn't make, we should have done this, we should have said that, but we didn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we're stuck on repeat in that situation in all of those memories instead of being where we need to be, and that's present and that's right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right now there are no problems.
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  SPEAKER_00: At this immediate moment, no problems.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you focus on the now, stay present.
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  SPEAKER_00: The past, let it go.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't fix it anyway.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might as well stay now and move forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you're staying now, again, don't worry too much about the next moment either, because it's not been promised to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You haven't gotten there yet because you're in the now.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're listening to this podcast, Fat to Fit Realtor, you're wanting to improve yourself, you hear my voice talking to you with all the passion I can muster, you start now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't wait.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be that 51%, be that person that makes that change for good.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're five year in the future self, when twenty twenty three starts, and you come in twenty twenty eight, and you're able to come from the future back in time and visit yourself, would he thank you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Would she thank you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Or would they say, Really?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why the hell didn't you fix it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Look at me now.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm in the hospital.
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  SPEAKER_00: Look at me now, I had a stroke.
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  SPEAKER_00: Look at me now, I had fill in the blank with regard to the medical issue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Think about that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or are they gonna say, My God, I know my five year in the year in the future self would come back and thank myself for torching off 135 pounds of fat, getting into the gym and balancing my hormones.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thank me big time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Everybody have a fantastic rest of your week.
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  SPEAKER_00: Today is December 27, 2022.
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  SPEAKER_00: We will be back very soon with another Fat to Fit Realtor Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope everybody's well.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when you need me, I'm here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Please reach out.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am Connor McIver.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can Google Connor with Honor or Fat to Fit Realtor, you'll find me online.
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  SPEAKER_00: Check out my YouTube channel, a lot of fun stuff there, a lot of workout videos and such.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll be there for you when you're ready.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for watching.
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  SPEAKER_00: When you're ready, reach out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Connor with Honor, have a great day.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll talk to you soon.