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- 0:01Speaker 1: I've done the scene challenge, the word I'll be the.
- 0:13Speaker 2: Scene Bill, So tu this time.
- 0:23Speaker 1: Loos, welcome back to ay Drinking with Dog Emergency podcast.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Today it is Thursday the no I'm sorry, Yeah, it's
- 0:35Speaker 1: Thursday four seventeen, twenty twenty five.
- 0:38Speaker 3: Uh.
- 0:39Speaker 1: Obviously, if you live in the town of Milford, you
- 0:40Speaker 1: kind of know what's been going on. If you're you know,
- 0:42Speaker 1: not in a ditch or anything, you know about what's
- 0:45Speaker 1: going on downtown and the music scene. So uh, obviously
- 0:49Speaker 1: I'll know. I work at Stonebridge, I've been for twenty
- 0:51Speaker 1: five years and my guest today is now one of
- 0:55Speaker 1: the owners of Stonebridge pill Conine. Thank you for coming on.
- 0:59Speaker 1: So so let's write off the rip to spell some
- 1:03Speaker 1: online maybe rumors of what this is all about. It's
- 1:07Speaker 1: not a town thing, correct, It's not like a porch
- 1:11Speaker 1: fest would be shut down. It's not any other bars
- 1:16Speaker 1: really other than us.
- 1:19Speaker 3: It's just us.
- 1:20Speaker 1: It's just us. So all right, let's rewind a little bit.
- 1:29Speaker 1: We all know who's coming after us, the whole town does.
- 1:32Speaker 1: It's the Dave, the owner of Bistro bask and what's
- 1:36Speaker 1: the other one there, El Barrio, and he owns that building,
- 1:40Speaker 1: and we've had a long history with him, dating back
- 1:43Speaker 1: what twenty years probably Daniel Stanner Street and all that.
- 1:47Speaker 1: We don't have to hash back, you know, our relationship
- 1:50Speaker 1: with him back then, but he pretty much is signaling
- 1:54Speaker 1: us out with whatever. This old archaic rule is that
- 1:58Speaker 1: depending upon interpreting how you want to interpret it yourself,
- 2:02Speaker 1: you're lower against our lawyer. But basically, Phil, where are
- 2:07Speaker 1: we at at this current moment?
- 2:09Speaker 4: So we are in violation of a zoning. The zoning regulation,
- 2:14Speaker 4: which is kind of loose language, just says no bands,
- 2:18Speaker 4: no DJs on a deck or a patio or whatever.
- 2:21Speaker 4: It says just pre recorded music. But not pre recorded
- 2:27Speaker 4: music if you're paying a DJ, Because if you're playing
- 2:31Speaker 4: music on your phone or you're plugging in a computer
- 2:33Speaker 4: and I'm paying you to do that through our speakers,
- 2:35Speaker 4: I think that's the same thing.
- 2:37Speaker 1: Right, so you know, they need to pre recorded.
- 2:39Speaker 4: So technically that is the way it's written. Downtown the
- 2:45Speaker 4: town finally called us on it for the first time
- 2:50Speaker 4: in like ten, I mean they they sent us out
- 2:51Speaker 4: a thing keeping it down, you know, like ten, twelve,
- 2:54Speaker 4: fourteen years ago. But it's been very kind of just
- 2:56Speaker 4: under the radar.
- 2:57Speaker 1: Just keeping the levels down, yeah, not shutting it down, right,
- 3:03Speaker 1: But they finally.
- 3:04Speaker 4: Yeah, called us on a send us a season desists,
- 3:08Speaker 4: and we have to go in and see if we
- 3:12Speaker 4: could just update the language, which we've made some you know,
- 3:17Speaker 4: like written down the days we would do it. We
- 3:20Speaker 4: were making some provisions for taking away the DJ outside
- 3:25Speaker 4: which play through our speakers music. Anyway, it's gonna be
- 3:28Speaker 4: fine as like a good faith but yeah, I mean
- 3:31Speaker 4: it's how many weeks?
- 3:32Speaker 3: Is that? Fourteen weeks? Two days a week maybe?
- 3:35Speaker 1: I mean, let's be honest, what do we do for
- 3:38Speaker 1: like live music Sunday? We do Sundays and it ends
- 3:41Speaker 1: around eight eight thirty, yeah, and we do Friday happy
- 3:45Speaker 1: hours never really low acoustics, and every once in a
- 3:48Speaker 1: while we'll throw in a Saturday band, but they are
- 3:50Speaker 1: done at the same time too, right, So I don't
- 3:53Speaker 1: really know what feathers are being ruffled there.
- 3:56Speaker 4: Occasional Thursday, the Havana night you're doing pianos.
- 4:00Speaker 1: You know, and then that random Tuesday for Tony g
- 4:02Speaker 1: you know, like pretty much have you tay the liquids
- 4:04Speaker 1: of a band?
- 4:05Speaker 3: There's no band there for Tony, No, no, and.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Tony is not trying to shut this down as the
- 4:10Speaker 1: spell of those online rumors.
- 4:12Speaker 4: Tony's a big support I know Ben Blake, Yeah, was
- 4:15Speaker 4: a big supporter of us.
- 4:17Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm Richard Kelly yep.
- 4:19Speaker 1: So there was supposed to be a meeting Tuesday with
- 4:22Speaker 1: the zoning board and I don't know if it was
- 4:24Speaker 1: a clerical error or the misprint on the whatever.
- 4:29Speaker 4: So they decided tuesday that they needed to ask to
- 4:33Speaker 4: give us a couple Everyone needed a couple more weeks
- 4:36Speaker 4: for whatever reason. But I got to tell you it
- 4:38Speaker 4: has been had profound effects because never has have so
- 4:42Speaker 4: many people been reaching out to us to try to
- 4:45Speaker 4: help and support.
- 4:46Speaker 1: I have been asked to be an admin of a
- 4:49Speaker 1: of a support page. Yeah, I swear to God. I
- 4:53Speaker 1: you know, when I posted this last night, people are
- 4:56Speaker 1: commenting and dming me. You know, I've got stuff like, hey,
- 5:01Speaker 1: you know, I hope this works out to you know,
- 5:04Speaker 1: a lot of vulgarities towards a certain person, and I
- 5:08Speaker 1: don't couldn't own any of that, obviously, but it was nice.
- 5:10Speaker 4: A lot of people reached out that are direct neighbors
- 5:12Speaker 4: that live around us. Yeah, from like old ladies and
- 5:15Speaker 4: grandpas to younger people saying like, oh, I'm.
- 5:17Speaker 3: Gonna go here. It comes right like we're gonna be there.
- 5:20Speaker 3: We hate this right like we love it.
- 5:23Speaker 4: Yeah, and it makes a summer for us, And it
- 5:25Speaker 4: wouldn't feel like summer downtown if this wasn't going on.
- 5:28Speaker 3: I mean, it's got a pulse to it.
- 5:30Speaker 1: Yeah, whoever, And I want to credit the guy, but
- 5:32Speaker 1: I don't have it in front of me. Whoever, Like
- 5:33Speaker 1: first posted this on you know you live at Milford.
- 5:35Speaker 3: Well I think it was anonymous.
- 5:36Speaker 1: Oh that's right, it was anonymous, So you got no credit, dummy.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Actually we were getting accused of that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 5:43Speaker 1: But I pretty much read every comment and some of
- 5:45Speaker 1: my favorite ones were like, you know, I work all
- 5:48Speaker 1: day Saturday or on a Sunday and I get out
- 5:50Speaker 1: and I don't go to Stonebridge, but I always love
- 5:53Speaker 1: driving by and just listening to the music and I
- 5:55Speaker 1: drive slow and it just like kind of puts me
- 5:57Speaker 1: in a good mood. Like who doesn't love music, like
- 6:01Speaker 1: any kind like I just don't wake up.
- 6:04Speaker 3: You get in your car, you play.
- 6:05Speaker 1: Some tunes, right, like it's just and that's that's the
- 6:08Speaker 1: vibe of Milford. We have porch Fest, we have virus Fest,
- 6:10Speaker 1: we have the October Fest, we have you know, all
- 6:14Speaker 1: sorts of stuff that you know, honestly, there's not a
- 6:16Speaker 1: big downtown outdoor bought like like music scene because we
- 6:21Speaker 1: kind of have the biggest area. Archies could, but they don't,
- 6:25Speaker 1: I mean really not too many. You know, my barbill
- 6:28Speaker 1: do the inside DJ sometimes it spills out.
- 6:30Speaker 4: Yeah, the cafe does.
- 6:32Speaker 1: The cafe does live music. You know it's chill obviously, and.
- 6:36Speaker 4: The cafe was not told to not do.
- 6:39Speaker 1: Mean, so here here's yeah, that's what I'm getting at.
- 6:41Speaker 3: Just us.
- 6:41Speaker 1: So we literally are the only target. And when the
- 6:44Speaker 1: city attorney basically gave you the season assist, you asked him.
- 6:48Speaker 3: Well, that's planning and zoning board, okay.
- 6:51Speaker 4: Gives us the seasoned assist zoning officer, right, which I mean,
- 6:56Speaker 4: it's it's it's.
- 6:56Speaker 3: Pretty black and white.
- 6:57Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, we're violation of his own regulation.
- 7:01Speaker 4: There's no way around it. But then when I asked,
- 7:05Speaker 4: I said, well the cat I called Ryan, who owns
- 7:10Speaker 4: a cafe. I said, ma'am, what do you think about
- 7:11Speaker 4: the letter?
- 7:12Speaker 1: Yeah, he goes.
- 7:12Speaker 3: What letter I said, this season desist for the live music.
- 7:15Speaker 3: He goes. I never got one.
- 7:17Speaker 4: I said, what do you mean you never got one?
- 7:18Speaker 4: So then I asked the town. I said, you know,
- 7:20Speaker 4: well they didn't get one, and they they kind of
- 7:22Speaker 4: just replied, well, it's only about you and they're good.
- 7:27Speaker 1: That just I mean, we were just yeah, we're so weird.
- 7:30Speaker 4: Yeah, it felt like I was like dropping a girlfriend
- 7:33Speaker 4: off to a friend and he was like holding her ass.
- 7:35Speaker 1: Now I've talked about since since the posters started showing
- 7:38Speaker 1: up in the random windows of his establishments. I've been
- 7:41Speaker 1: talking about it on the show. And you know me,
- 7:44Speaker 1: I my blood runs deep with Stonebridge. You know. I
- 7:47Speaker 1: was just twenty five years old when I started there,
- 7:50Speaker 1: and you know, and now i'm you know, half, you know,
- 7:52Speaker 1: half my life away from that. And you know, I
- 7:57Speaker 1: remember when I started Stonebridge, he was not there. I
- 7:59Speaker 1: don't believe, you know, if three four. You know, it's
- 8:05Speaker 1: just it's kind of that respect that neighbor, like like,
- 8:08Speaker 1: you know, if the band's too loud one night, come over,
- 8:11Speaker 1: tell us your your father does that. He'll call from
- 8:14Speaker 1: home and be like, all right, guys, turning that ship down.
- 8:16Speaker 1: You know, like he's very respectful and and doesn't want
- 8:20Speaker 1: the music to be loud. And it's one of his
- 8:21Speaker 1: biggest things. On the summer nights, like a cool summer night,
- 8:25Speaker 1: guys keep it down because people got their windows open.
- 8:27Speaker 1: You know, it's not an ac night when their windows
- 8:29Speaker 1: are shut. You know, I've never met an owner like
- 8:32Speaker 1: your dad that just is always like self aware of
- 8:35Speaker 1: his surroundings and he doesn't want to really ruffle the feathers. Now,
- 8:39Speaker 1: do bands get out of control sometimes? And think, of
- 8:41Speaker 1: course they do, you know, just some of the bands
- 8:44Speaker 1: we get just run loud. Sure, but right it's not
- 8:50Speaker 1: like it's you know, you know that's a good one.
- 8:57Speaker 1: I mentioned none of my listens and know who that
- 8:58Speaker 1: band is.
- 9:00Speaker 4: It's a it's a Billy Joel tribute. It's a country
- 9:03Speaker 4: themed event.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Right, but it could still get you know, and that
- 9:06Speaker 1: and that's what actually you said, the country theme event.
- 9:08Speaker 1: So we lost May third, right is the is the spring.
- 9:13Speaker 4: We so sprinkling we do fundraiser breast cancers cancer RAISERA
- 9:18Speaker 4: it just you know the dates.
- 9:21Speaker 3: I had to ask him and then.
- 9:22Speaker 1: Tryvis they're picking it up.
- 9:24Speaker 3: They're gonna pick it up great.
- 9:27Speaker 1: I wouldn't ask for a better venue, yea, to do it, it.
- 9:29Speaker 3: Would be good and Yeah, it's just you know, it's
- 9:33Speaker 3: just one of those things.
- 9:33Speaker 4: So may Sex, this is the may Sex. We need everybody.
- 9:38Speaker 4: You don't have to talk, you can just come in
- 9:39Speaker 4: there and show a presence. So we just went in
- 9:42Speaker 4: there seven pm town Hall. May six, seven pm town Hall.
- 9:45Speaker 1: So you were just there Tuesday.
- 9:47Speaker 3: I was just there and we had some people with us.
- 9:52Speaker 4: We didn't want to bring a ton of people because
- 9:55Speaker 4: I don't know, it's a zoning regulation hearing with a board.
- 9:59Speaker 4: You know, I would be like bringing your kids to
- 10:03Speaker 4: like a dentist appointment. I don't know, Like it's it's
- 10:06Speaker 4: very like I don't know, there's like a mallet, like,
- 10:09Speaker 4: there's name things like it. It seems very formal. But
- 10:13Speaker 4: we had a couple of people and actually we had
- 10:18Speaker 4: the people. Certain people didn't have any.
- 10:21Speaker 1: People hmmm, besides lawyers.
- 10:25Speaker 4: But there was a general vibe and an enthusiasm of
- 10:27Speaker 4: the rum. So what we want to do is on
- 10:28Speaker 4: may Sex. And I'm going to be reaching out to
- 10:30Speaker 4: my band people. I'm in the band world. I just
- 10:32Speaker 4: need bodies standing in the rum supporting. I mean, hey,
- 10:36Speaker 4: if you're against it and you don't think we should
- 10:38Speaker 4: be doing it, come on down. Everyone come down. But
- 10:40Speaker 4: I think that what's a surprising majority of it.
- 10:45Speaker 1: Honestly, I I've been at like I said, I've been
- 10:47Speaker 1: asked to, you know, facilitate some stuff. I have said no,
- 10:53Speaker 1: only because you know I work for Stonebridge. I want to.
- 10:56Speaker 1: I want to, you know, the general public to show
- 10:58Speaker 1: their support. Obviously everyone knows what I support, which side
- 11:01Speaker 1: of the fence I stand on. I actually thought I
- 11:05Speaker 1: was going to be there that night, but apparently Stonebridge
- 11:07Speaker 1: has the I'll be probably working instead.
- 11:11Speaker 3: Yeah, you probably will.
- 11:13Speaker 1: Be Actually know what, I don't have to work. I
- 11:15Speaker 1: mean I can just go to the thing. It's not
- 11:16Speaker 1: that big of a deal. But I'm excited to see,
- 11:23Speaker 1: like I feel like working at Stonemas for twenty five years,
- 11:26Speaker 1: you know, with yelp and all this stuff, and you know,
- 11:29Speaker 1: good experiences bad experience is too loud to whatever I
- 11:33Speaker 1: feel this is. This is a long time for us
- 11:36Speaker 1: that we've had so much support behind us, and people
- 11:38Speaker 1: are really starting to realize what a staple we are
- 11:40Speaker 1: in town.
- 11:42Speaker 4: It's tough too, man. I mean, my grandfather bought that
- 11:45Speaker 4: property on that corner in nineteen forty nine. What's forty
- 11:51Speaker 4: nine minus twenty five, forty.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Five, fifty one, and so seventy six years ago.
- 11:57Speaker 4: Yeah, so for seventy six years we've been No, I'm
- 12:01Speaker 4: not saying oh and then you know I can see
- 12:03Speaker 4: it now like, oh, you can do whatever you want.
- 12:05Speaker 3: Have you've been there seventy six years. No, that's what
- 12:07Speaker 3: I'm saying. But like it's just nonsense.
- 12:12Speaker 4: We're bending a little bit on it, and I think
- 12:15Speaker 4: that it's gonna be good. May sixth, seven o'clock town Hall.
- 12:20Speaker 3: Huh. It's been nerve wracking.
- 12:23Speaker 1: I I. Yeah, I've been nervous, so have I Like
- 12:27Speaker 1: it's like like like put yourself in my shoes. Now,
- 12:30Speaker 1: who you know is I'm only going to be there
- 12:33Speaker 1: one or two nights a week tops because I got,
- 12:35Speaker 1: you know, the other job now. But when I when
- 12:39Speaker 1: this first came down, actually when it first came down
- 12:41Speaker 1: the side, when the window, I kind of like poo
- 12:42Speaker 1: pooed it. Yeah, Like I didn't really talk to you.
- 12:45Speaker 1: I didn't know there was like this huge season assists letter.
- 12:47Speaker 1: Plus it was the wintertime. So I will fucking straighten
- 12:50Speaker 1: it out before you know, we get to you know,
- 12:52Speaker 1: the spring in the in May, right, and you know
- 12:56Speaker 1: then it kind of became real, and then he put
- 12:58Speaker 1: up the others, Like, here's the thing, why do you
- 13:02Speaker 1: got to put up the signs.
- 13:03Speaker 4: I was fine with the signs until the last sign.
- 13:07Speaker 4: The last sign for me is what I would consider creepy.
- 13:10Speaker 4: I talked to some people. The last sign he put
- 13:13Speaker 4: up is where I kind of was going to bed
- 13:15Speaker 4: at night, and I was like, hmm, that last sign
- 13:19Speaker 4: kind of made me uncomfortable.
- 13:21Speaker 1: Is that the parade sign?
- 13:22Speaker 4: That was a parade sign and all it said was
- 13:25Speaker 4: pointing us out that one of our advertisements, which was
- 13:27Speaker 4: a misprint. Because in good faith we canceled. So we
- 13:32Speaker 4: usually on parade day have a DJ inside and outside
- 13:38Speaker 4: sorry rum Runners inside DJ outside rum Runners couldn't do
- 13:44Speaker 4: the gig this year, they had a bunch of gigs
- 13:46Speaker 4: directly following it, and we figured out, let's try it
- 13:48Speaker 4: one year with that rum Runners, and then we canceled
- 13:51Speaker 4: the outside DJ because like, hmmm, hearing coming up, probably
- 13:56Speaker 4: not a good luck. They had already printed the signs,
- 14:00Speaker 4: so when when David printed that oh in the sign
- 14:04Speaker 4: say to DJs, it was just like wow, like this
- 14:10Speaker 4: is like some psycho X girlfriend stuff.
- 14:14Speaker 3: And then when the problem.
- 14:16Speaker 4: I had with the sign too, is any I know Kenny,
- 14:19Speaker 4: I mean, uh, you know, the dock side guys, the
- 14:21Speaker 4: Citrus guys, my bar. When he listed other businesses on
- 14:26Speaker 4: the sign and said why should stone Bridge be the
- 14:29Speaker 4: only place that should be busy, don't essentially saying don't
- 14:32Speaker 4: go to Stonebridge, go to these other places. It's like
- 14:36Speaker 4: like pulled out my license. I'm like, all right, yep,
- 14:38Speaker 4: Connecticut and United States of America. I was like looked
- 14:41Speaker 4: at you know, like went home. I was able to
- 14:43Speaker 4: get in my house. They didn't have to walk through
- 14:45Speaker 4: any military.
- 14:47Speaker 3: You know. It's very weird and I didn't like it.
- 14:52Speaker 4: I talked to some people about it. Well, I aied it.
- 14:55Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like this, I think broke libel law.
- 14:59Speaker 1: I mean I doubt he. I know he didn't for
- 15:01Speaker 1: sure ask Kenny from Citrus to put Citrus on the sign.
- 15:04Speaker 4: So maybe for them, but I guess it doesn't because
- 15:06Speaker 4: you have to show losses. Like if you printed something
- 15:09Speaker 4: about me and it like hurt, hurt your business, and
- 15:12Speaker 4: I like lost money, then I guess that's maybe. I'm
- 15:14Speaker 4: not a lawyer, but that's where it becomes like legal.
- 15:16Speaker 1: I just think I don't even talk about legalities. I
- 15:18Speaker 1: think it's least respectful.
- 15:19Speaker 3: We had a record breaking day that day, right, I mean.
- 15:22Speaker 1: Yeah, we break records every year.
- 15:25Speaker 3: It just hurt.
- 15:25Speaker 4: You know, you just come across the street be like hey,
- 15:27Speaker 4: turn it down, or maybe you know, like to bring
- 15:30Speaker 4: it to like the litigating town level. Like Harry SBC
- 15:36Speaker 4: gets a question, he comes over, he talks to me,
- 15:38Speaker 4: like Richie Smith seven sees has questions, like he talks
- 15:41Speaker 4: to us like we all talk. We're all family downtown.
- 15:44Speaker 3: But he's just it was a blow man.
- 15:47Speaker 1: I've always said, you know, I play a lot of golf.
- 15:50Speaker 1: I play in a lot of golf tournaments. Every bar
- 15:52Speaker 1: in Milford is represented at these golf tournaments when it
- 15:55Speaker 1: comes to raffles and gift cards except for two.
- 15:58Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know.
- 16:00Speaker 1: I know this for a fact. I'm at every one
- 16:02Speaker 1: of them. I never see support from him. And also,
- 16:05Speaker 1: you know, it's just a funny thing. It's just it's
- 16:08Speaker 1: it's you know, you can hang all the signs you want,
- 16:11Speaker 1: you can get all the lawyers you want, but you
- 16:14Speaker 1: guys are neighbors like like that. Like it's at the
- 16:18Speaker 1: point now where it's just I don't feel like it
- 16:19Speaker 1: could get better. Like when do you guys sit down
- 16:21Speaker 1: and break bread and be like all right, like you'll
- 16:24Speaker 1: make a concession. He'll make a concession. You guys just
- 16:27Speaker 1: get along. And obviously spent twenty years and we had
- 16:30Speaker 1: the rocky road to start with him, you know, back
- 16:33Speaker 1: in the Dale Street days, and I just those signs
- 16:37Speaker 1: and all of them bothered me. I just think it
- 16:40Speaker 1: was especially when like he won.
- 16:42Speaker 4: You know, wait, let's clarify something too, because online people
- 16:45Speaker 4: are talking about well, why should Stowbridge be allowed to
- 16:47Speaker 4: do bands but not him?
- 16:49Speaker 1: Right, that's another thing. It's he didn't want bands.
- 16:51Speaker 3: He doesn't do bands.
- 16:52Speaker 1: Right.
- 16:53Speaker 4: It's not only that he's being told. People think like, oh,
- 16:56Speaker 4: well he's being told he can't have bands, so and
- 17:00Speaker 4: Stoneward shouldn't be able to either.
- 17:01Speaker 3: No.
- 17:01Speaker 4: No, the story is that he doesn't like us having bands,
- 17:07Speaker 4: and then the cafes having bands, but he ain't.
- 17:09Speaker 3: Complaining about them, No, just complaining about us, which.
- 17:15Speaker 4: I it was weird. That's weird. I fell that under weird.
- 17:19Speaker 1: Now you actually are? Are you? Every time I approach
- 17:23Speaker 1: you since this kicked up again, you're like, you know,
- 17:27Speaker 1: I like David, you know, like, like, I get along
- 17:30Speaker 1: with him.
- 17:30Speaker 3: I do like David. Actually, I mean this really.
- 17:33Speaker 4: Yeah, ruts me off a little bit, right, Like everybody,
- 17:36Speaker 4: I like everybody.
- 17:39Speaker 2: And.
- 17:42Speaker 3: Actually, let's be honest.
- 17:44Speaker 4: I think what it early is I want everyone to
- 17:46Speaker 4: like me, so I gets sensitive, you know, like it
- 17:49Speaker 4: breaks my heart that this guy's like like, damn, what
- 17:52Speaker 4: are we doing here?
- 17:53Speaker 1: Like what do we I've had.
- 17:55Speaker 4: The weirdest conversations of my life over the years. I've
- 17:58Speaker 4: had some great conversations. I used to go there, like
- 18:00Speaker 4: he was a huge Albario fan.
- 18:02Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.
- 18:03Speaker 3: He's like, why are you in here?
- 18:04Speaker 4: I said, I like your drinks and your bartenders are nice.
- 18:07Speaker 4: I'm like, what are we talking about?
- 18:08Speaker 1: Right?
- 18:09Speaker 4: And he's like, give me a weird look, and it's like,
- 18:14Speaker 4: oh my god, look at how big this rosemary plant.
- 18:16Speaker 4: He's like, what kind of fertilizer are you giving it?
- 18:18Speaker 3: He's like, I don't know.
- 18:18Speaker 4: Maybe that made him more mad, the rosemary plant he's
- 18:24Speaker 4: got in there.
- 18:25Speaker 1: You know, the French can be tricky people. I guess,
- 18:27Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I really don't know. Uh.
- 18:31Speaker 1: I think with just reading the comments and what I've
- 18:37Speaker 1: received personally, I think this is good for us, not
- 18:42Speaker 1: necessarily good for him. I don't wish any restaurant in
- 18:46Speaker 1: downtown Milford, or any any restaurant in the country to
- 18:52Speaker 1: see a drop off in business, you know, I know,
- 18:54Speaker 1: you know the off subject a little bit. Eli's unfortunately left,
- 18:58Speaker 1: and that was very sad to me. I loved everyone
- 19:00Speaker 1: over there. I still do. But now we got Blind
- 19:02Speaker 1: Rhino coming in and and.
- 19:04Speaker 3: I love the Drews a dock side.
- 19:05Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Drews at dock Side and I live on
- 19:08Speaker 1: that side of town now, so I see him there
- 19:09Speaker 1: a lot. We love dos and we'll you know, open arms,
- 19:12Speaker 1: will bring Blind Rhino in and get some wings and
- 19:15Speaker 1: uh and see what what they're up to. That's exciting.
- 19:18Speaker 3: We're excited for Blind Rhino.
- 19:20Speaker 1: Yeah, a little sports on there. Yeah, I know they're
- 19:23Speaker 1: switching up a little bit in there. I heard today.
- 19:26Speaker 1: I have a fun guy that I work with that
- 19:27Speaker 1: knows the owners, and they're trying to make it more
- 19:30Speaker 1: like the like the Fairfield uh inside like more like
- 19:33Speaker 1: the Fairfield location.
- 19:34Speaker 3: I think removed the bar from the middle now.
- 19:36Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. The bar is going to stay.
- 19:38Speaker 1: I hope they take that stupid little lip out though,
- 19:40Speaker 1: you know that little that little like yeah, that sticks out. Oh,
- 19:44Speaker 1: I hate that.
- 19:45Speaker 3: Like can I have beer?
- 19:47Speaker 1: It's like and when it's packed, it just blocks traffic
- 19:50Speaker 1: and then like as a bar tender, you can't reach anybody.
- 19:52Speaker 1: Ohey there, I don't anyway, that's that's neither hear nor there.
- 19:55Speaker 4: So the elephant in the room on this once again
- 19:57Speaker 4: Tuesday May six pm, town Hall.
- 20:01Speaker 3: Please come support us.
- 20:02Speaker 1: Yes, I've already had people. I know people are making
- 20:06Speaker 1: T shirts. I know people are making signs.
- 20:08Speaker 3: I'm making T shirts.
- 20:09Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Uh, there is going to be a
- 20:13Speaker 1: couple of pages created within the next couple of days.
- 20:15Speaker 4: Remember Ferris Peeler's day off. Of course it's save Ferris. Yeah,
- 20:19Speaker 4: I don't have to make a sience like save Ferris.
- 20:20Speaker 4: But like Ferris is crossed off, its is stone Bridge.
- 20:23Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. I'm down Dude's indicator.
- 20:31Speaker 4: But the elephant the room is this. And I talked
- 20:33Speaker 4: to myself about this. I say, well, Phil, but if
- 20:37Speaker 4: it doesn't go good and we got to see about
- 20:40Speaker 4: of the bands.
- 20:41Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I love the beginnings. We'd we'd be fine,
- 20:46Speaker 3: it'd be different, it'd be damn different.
- 20:48Speaker 4: But we'd have to we'd have to move on, you know.
- 20:50Speaker 4: And but that is a possibility, like cut up. Is
- 20:56Speaker 4: a board gonna get swayed by eighty people in the.
- 21:00Speaker 1: Probably not no, but you know, uh.
- 21:07Speaker 4: I was scared at doing when I saw the board,
- 21:08Speaker 4: they seemed like all business. I'm very smart.
- 21:10Speaker 3: When I opened.
- 21:12Speaker 1: When I opened Bar three thirty three, we had to
- 21:14Speaker 1: go in just for a uh try to get their
- 21:17Speaker 1: liquor license to become a cafe license instead of a
- 21:19Speaker 1: restaurant license. And the way the lynches were, They're like, ah,
- 21:24Speaker 1: it's zz pasy, we walk in, they fucking sign off,
- 21:26Speaker 1: we fucking walk out. And then like four random people
- 21:30Speaker 1: I didn't know showed up to oppose us even opening
- 21:34Speaker 1: the bar because we were next to day did they care?
- 21:38Speaker 1: And then they were they were residents like across the street.
- 21:41Speaker 1: I was like fucking shaken. Yeah, Like I just invested
- 21:44Speaker 1: all this money. I don't even care about the license
- 21:46Speaker 1: at this point. I don't want to make sure that
- 21:47Speaker 1: business fucking goes in there, you know, fucking nutty anyway,
- 21:53Speaker 1: I would love to see everyone rally everyone you can
- 21:55Speaker 1: DM me, DM Phil, I meet personally. I am not
- 22:00Speaker 1: organizing anything, but I will know a lot of people
- 22:03Speaker 1: that are, and uh, if we can get uh, you know,
- 22:08Speaker 1: a group together, I think it'd be I think it's
- 22:10Speaker 1: be awesome, you know, especially in Milford. You know, everyone's
- 22:13Speaker 1: gotta you know, everyone's protests and everything just just the
- 22:17Speaker 1: way of the world. So fuck it. Let's let's let's
- 22:20Speaker 1: get involved and uh, it'll just be a fun night.
- 22:23Speaker 1: It'll be chill, be cool and uh and then maybe
- 22:26Speaker 1: oh ship, we can't go back to stoverage that I know,
- 22:31Speaker 1: we got the privacy? Can we postpone to the thirteenth?
- 22:34Speaker 3: I know, I mean I got the summer. Like, no,
- 22:37Speaker 3: I'm joking against the entertainment.
- 22:39Speaker 1: Yeah, uh well, let's uh, we're gonna make this quick.
- 22:43Speaker 1: We're gonna wrap this up. Let's make uh you know,
- 22:46Speaker 1: let's let's obviously hope that we don't have to cancel
- 22:48Speaker 1: any bands. Let's assume, and I hate to assume, that
- 22:54Speaker 1: everything goes well. You right now promote some of the
- 22:59Speaker 1: awesome sodas and stuff coming up this summer. Well, you
- 23:02Speaker 1: have the floor before we sign off.
- 23:05Speaker 4: Thursdays, it was the Dueling Pianeos first Thursday of every month.
- 23:08Speaker 4: Awesome little show, a little theater kind of dinner show.
- 23:11Speaker 4: Last Thursday of every month, an a night. Very great,
- 23:15Speaker 4: stepping into a different sort of dimension culturally and musically,
- 23:19Speaker 4: something that I used to. We're doing a live band karaoke.
- 23:22Speaker 1: Oh wow.
- 23:23Speaker 3: You can get up and actually sing.
- 23:24Speaker 1: With it with the band like rock or anything.
- 23:26Speaker 3: Whatever you want. Yeah, it's all the band from Zach
- 23:29Speaker 3: and Fried.
- 23:29Speaker 1: Oh Jesus, just awesome.
- 23:31Speaker 3: We're doing that once a month. That's a little more staggered.
- 23:34Speaker 1: That's a Thursday, yeah.
- 23:36Speaker 3: And then Sundays the bands.
- 23:38Speaker 4: We got three Nashville nights, giving away trips to Nashville them.
- 23:42Speaker 1: I'll be working all three of those.
- 23:43Speaker 4: We got Heady tribute band, Oh Wow, which would be
- 23:46Speaker 4: awesome out of Massachusetts. Great, really pumped about that. We
- 23:52Speaker 4: have Zach and Fried. We got Gub and Adrian coming
- 23:55Speaker 4: down from Twittle.
- 23:56Speaker 3: That's something great. We got Derek and the thumb Bangs.
- 23:59Speaker 1: Yes, we have the Zoo so Derek and the Fun Back.
- 24:01Speaker 1: I just had Derek on last week. Can I kind
- 24:04Speaker 1: of cross promote something so next Friday. You know, I'm
- 24:08Speaker 1: a Stonebridge guy, but I do want to promote. His
- 24:10Speaker 1: show is at Anthony D's next Friday Night. It's his
- 24:13Speaker 1: first show since January third. I believe he's been fighting
- 24:19Speaker 1: that fucking awesome fight he's fighting. Ye, he's got stage
- 24:23Speaker 1: four prostate cancer and he got some good results in
- 24:27Speaker 1: and he was he did nothing for three months, but
- 24:29Speaker 1: see doctors and nurses and now he's I think he
- 24:32Speaker 1: just had a practice the other night and he's you
- 24:34Speaker 1: can follow him live. He posts everything. He's very he's
- 24:37Speaker 1: very out front with his disease and he's going to
- 24:40Speaker 1: be there. I'm going Friday night when you pop in
- 24:44Speaker 1: when you get out of work. But yeah, so fun.
- 24:46Speaker 1: But then he also told me that I think it's
- 24:48Speaker 1: around the July fourth, like his birthday's around there, right,
- 24:51Speaker 1: it's like kind of his birthday show something like that. Yeah,
- 24:54Speaker 1: he's going to be a Stonebridge and that's that's that
- 24:56Speaker 1: excites me. I can't wait. I might even just take
- 24:58Speaker 1: the night off and just the fucking hang out, you know. Uh,
- 25:03Speaker 1: but yeah, what have we got Memorial Day weekend?
- 25:05Speaker 3: So let me just actually pull this. Yeah, there we go.
- 25:12Speaker 4: Or we're doing a show with Hazzard County, which is.
- 25:14Speaker 1: Gonna oh yeah, that is that at Nashville Night or.
- 25:17Speaker 4: So we're doing a show just with them, okay, and
- 25:19Speaker 4: then they're actually with us on a Nashville like awesome,
- 25:23Speaker 4: and we love Hazzard n They're top notch country band.
- 25:29Speaker 4: We got Beatles ladies. He were doing a Beatles tribute
- 25:33Speaker 4: show Labor Day Sunday. Actually were pumped about this.
- 25:37Speaker 3: My neighbor. We're doing Labor Day Sunday with Kathy Thompson band.
- 25:42Speaker 1: They have been your neighbor.
- 25:43Speaker 3: Yeah, she was right behind me. Kathy.
- 25:45Speaker 4: She that band been playing for years. Is so on
- 25:50Speaker 4: the money now, Like I mean, it's so weird. They've
- 25:52Speaker 4: always been great, but for whatever reason, I've been seeing
- 25:54Speaker 4: them in clips for the years. Recently they're just so
- 25:58Speaker 4: on I'm like, damn. It was like when I saw
- 26:01Speaker 4: what Up Funk after COVID and they like stated in
- 26:03Speaker 4: practiced it was like the best what Up function I've
- 26:05Speaker 4: ever seen in my life.
- 26:06Speaker 3: My damn, Like right, why line, It's.
- 26:10Speaker 4: Like, holy shit, they're funking it up like crazy.
- 26:13Speaker 1: It's like it reminds me of like rum Runners when
- 26:14Speaker 1: they play an oyster Fest. Yeah, it's like always their
- 26:17Speaker 1: best show of the year for whatever reason, right, because
- 26:19Speaker 1: you know, I hear them a few times during the
- 26:21Speaker 1: years or during the year, and it's always like, man,
- 26:23Speaker 1: it's just there's something extra about that night that makes
- 26:26Speaker 1: you sound better.
- 26:27Speaker 4: Memorial Day we always do it every year with Jimmy
- 26:29Speaker 4: Peno and the guys from free Play. Free Play does
- 26:31Speaker 4: not play out that often, fantastic band. We're doing the
- 26:35Speaker 4: Billy Joel tribute again on the Saturday Memorial Day and
- 26:39Speaker 4: the Saturday before Labor Day. It's always fun. Female fronted
- 26:44Speaker 4: Billy Joel.
- 26:44Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, she's good though. She's got a great voice.
- 26:48Speaker 3: Yeah awesome.
- 26:49Speaker 1: It's weird at first and then you kind of just
- 26:50Speaker 1: like dive right into it. Oh yeah, all right. So
- 26:54Speaker 1: we just had that little talk about all the bands.
- 26:56Speaker 1: So now again everyone, May sixth, this is this is
- 26:59Speaker 1: my first ever I think emergency Well no, I did
- 27:02Speaker 1: one earlier, but that was because it was I hate
- 27:03Speaker 1: Lebron James, so that was a totally different thing. But
- 27:07Speaker 1: my first emergency podcast in a long time. Phil, Thank
- 27:10Speaker 1: you so much for coming on. I know you're like
- 27:13Speaker 1: dancing around with the kids today. You got baseball and
- 27:15Speaker 1: all sorts of stuff. Thanks for squeezing out a half
- 27:17Speaker 1: hour with me again. May sixth, hate the harp on it.
- 27:20Speaker 1: Let's go look for some stuff on Facebook and Instagram,
- 27:26Speaker 1: and I know people are are, you know, putting some
- 27:28Speaker 1: stuff together. So it's gonna be fun. Let's win this
- 27:30Speaker 1: one and we'll see at Stonebridge this summer regardless. And
- 27:37Speaker 1: I'm gonna finish. I'm gonna play a little. The last
- 27:40Speaker 1: half of Kevin Bacon's speech and Footloose had it talks
- 27:44Speaker 1: about dancing, you know, renly reason why I did the
- 27:46Speaker 1: Footloos on it. A lot of people were like relating
- 27:50Speaker 1: this to the Footloose movie online.
- 27:52Speaker 4: I got to give a shot out really quick about Footloose.
- 27:54Speaker 4: And this is surprising because he's younger. So Ryan p Yeah,
- 27:58Speaker 4: favorite movie.
- 27:59Speaker 1: The original though, right, yeah, okay, because there was one
- 28:02Speaker 1: in like twenty thirteen or something.
- 28:03Speaker 3: It's a huge because with this one thing, he's like,
- 28:05Speaker 3: it's like foot Loose.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, understand that reference movie was fucking before You're Born.
- 28:12Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna finish that little speech. Phil. We
- 28:14Speaker 1: got this May sixth I can't wait. Uh un, let's
- 28:17Speaker 1: move forward and uh we don't have to worry about
- 28:21Speaker 1: you know who, hopefully ever again.
- 28:30Speaker 2: Ecclesiastes assures us that there is a time, every purpose
- 28:37Speaker 2: under heaven time to laugh, a time to weep, a
- 28:47Speaker 2: time to mourn. There is a time to dance. M h.
- 29:05Speaker 2: And there was a time for this law, not anymore. See,
- 29:08Speaker 2: this is our time to dance. It is our way
- 29:12Speaker 2: of celebrating life. That's the way it was in the beginning.
- 29:22Speaker 2: That's the way it's always been. That's the way it
- 29:26Speaker 2: should be now