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- 0:24Money touches almost every part of our lives, but budgeting doesn't have to
- 0:28feel stressful or restricted.
- 0:30You're listening to MoneyWi$e on Talking FACS, where budgets meet real life.
- 0:36We're talking simple money strategies, everyday decisions, and practical ways
- 0:41to make your money work harder for you.
- 0:44In this podcast, we're going to break down budgeting into three realistic steps
- 0:48that help you spend with purpose, save with confidence, and feel even more control
- 0:54of your financial future.
- 0:56My guest today is Kelly May, Senior Extension Associate for Family Resource
- 1:02Management. Welcome, Kelly.
- 1:04Thanks, Mindy. I'm so happy to be here today.
- 1:07Budgeting does seem kind of scary to some people, especially if they've never done it before.
- 1:12But really, it's just a plan, and we talk about planning all the time on this podcast. Yes, we do.
- 1:19Budgeting is just a step-by-step plan, and you pick a period of time,
- 1:23and you just look at what comes in and what goes out.
- 1:27So what comes in, that is our income, your gross income and your net income.
- 1:32So what's the difference between those two?
- 1:34Your gross pay is your total income before taxes and other deductions are taken out.
- 1:40I like to think to myself that it's gross that some of that money goes to somebody
- 1:45else because you don't get to keep it all.
- 1:48The net pay is what you actually take home or your take-home pay.
- 1:53And that is the total you have left after all those deductions are taken out.
- 1:58So when you're planning your monthly budget, don't plan with the number they
- 2:02promised you when they hired you because that's not what you actually take home.
- 2:06Plan with that net pay so that you know you have an income source that is accurate
- 2:14to what you're actually receiving and then also count any other income you might have.
- 2:20So sometimes there is occasional income like bonuses.
- 2:25You might have regular income like benefits, child support, alimony, or other payments.
- 2:31So as you build your budget, make sure you count all of the different income
- 2:35you receive in, let's say, a month's time for your household.
- 2:39And in this day and age, we have lots of people who have a side gig or a second job.
- 2:44So those also count as income. Absolutely.
- 2:49Let's talk about expenses now. We're going to really focus on expenses,
- 2:54those we can't change, those that might change over time, and then of course
- 2:59those that are not something that happen every single month.
- 3:03So let's start with our fixed expenses first. What are those things that we need to talk about?
- 3:08So your fixed expenses are the things that are the same amount every month.
- 3:12So you know exactly how much that bill is going to be,
- 3:16whenever it comes in each month. So usually your car payment is a fixed expense,
- 3:22your mortgage or your rent payment, some of the other expenses you have might be fixed, like your.
- 3:32Electric bill, for example, it could be fixed or flexible.
- 3:35If you have one of those plans where it evens it out for the whole year and
- 3:40then there's one month where it catches up,
- 3:42then it will look more like a fixed expense to you because they've estimated
- 3:46over the year how much you normally spend monthly on average.
- 3:52But really, things like your electric without that kind of payment plan are
- 3:57a flexible expense because it depends on how much electric you use.
- 4:00If you run the air conditioner or the heat a lot more one month than another
- 4:05month, then your electric bill is going to be higher if you have electric heat.
- 4:10If you leave all the lights on and leave all your TVs on and plugged in and
- 4:15everything's charging all the time, then that's going to boost that bill up a little more.
- 4:20And so there are things you can do on those flexible expenses to make the payment
- 4:25less if if you're trying to cut back a little bit.
- 4:28Well, and another flexible expense is what we spend on food.
- 4:32And that can really vary greatly. Oh, definitely.
- 4:36Depending on where you choose to eat. Right, absolutely. So.
- 4:39I mean, even just shopping at the grocery, I know everybody picks on your coffee
- 4:44of the week or the day and going to restaurants and all of those things.
- 4:49But even the food you buy for your home meal planning can vary greatly depending
- 4:55on what you're deciding to cook. How fancy does that meal have to be?
- 4:59You know, what do you need to have to get your family's nutrition in?
- 5:05And what are you buying just for fun that everybody likes to eat?
- 5:09There's no wrong answer. You've got to figure out what's right for your family.
- 5:13But those all do play into your budget and all of it counts.
- 5:17The restaurants, the drinks and beverages, the food you buy at home,
- 5:23the snacks at the vending machine, all of those things add up.
- 5:27And I think that snacks at the vending machine is probably the category that
- 5:31people forget to include when they're trying to figure out what exactly they spend on food.
- 5:38Often because that's something you put cash in.
- 5:41And this day and age, we use cards for everything. But if you put cash in something,
- 5:46you have to remember that too.
- 5:49Exactly. So then we have occasional expenses. So what are those? Right.
- 5:54So those creep up on you and they can be a surprise.
- 5:58And some months you could have a bunch of them and some months you could have none.
- 6:02So this could include things like
- 6:05your taxes, your annual car taxes or the taxes that we pay each April.
- 6:11This could be birthday gifts, holidays, vacations.
- 6:16A lot of things come up just every now and then. It's not something that we always have to pay.
- 6:23And then, of course, there are those surprise occasional expenses,
- 6:25too, like a flat tire or a car repair or something breaking on your house if
- 6:31you're a homeowner or medical bill.
- 6:34These are all things that aren't in your regular, I have to do this every month.
- 6:40And yet, when it comes up, you most likely either have to or want to get that bill paid.
- 6:46So, we have to count those things too if we're going to have an accurate budget.
- 6:50Say in my family, we have a birthday season because all of the birthdays,
- 6:56whether it's mine and my husband's or our kids', our granddaughter's,
- 6:59or even my parents', they all fall within a period of three months.
- 7:03So that's the birthday season.
- 7:05And then we can think about other gifts afterwards. And so I have to plan for that.
- 7:10Yeah. And well, some people have the birthday season during the holiday season.
- 7:14Exactly. And then it's extra.
- 7:16Exactly. So one of the ways that we know best to balance our budget is to look
- 7:25at what comes in each month and then look at what goes out each month and figure
- 7:29out how those can line up.
- 7:32But how do we determine what to do with extra if we find that either we have
- 7:37more income or we have more expenses?
- 7:40So that is the trick, isn't it? One of my favorite things to say is that budging
- 7:46requires honesty, first of all.
- 7:48Exactly. And then I call that big total at the end, the moment of truth.
- 7:53So you take your income, you subtract your expenses, and you're either going
- 7:57to have a positive or a negative number.
- 7:59It's hardly ever zero.
- 8:02You are a spectacular budgeter if it has come out to zero and hopefully you've
- 8:07counted everything if that's the case. Because if there's one thing you've missed,
- 8:11then all of a sudden you're in the negative.
- 8:13So if there's a positive extra, that's fabulous. That is your opportunity to save money.
- 8:19So you can build an emergency fund, you can contribute to long-term savings
- 8:24like your retirement, you can use that to pay off debt.
- 8:28So if you have bills like credit cards that are part of your regular expenses,
- 8:33or even your mortgage, or your car payment, or whatever it is that you owe money on,
- 8:39you can use your extra at the end of each month to pay down those debts so that
- 8:44you can build up more money over the next month. time having to pay less on those.
- 8:50You can also save it for something fun like,
- 8:54you know, vacation or to keep as a down payment on your next car so that maybe
- 9:01you don't have to get as big of a loan next time.
- 9:04Or college expenses if you have family members who need to think about that in the future.
- 9:09On the other hand, if your number comes out negative.
- 9:15Hopefully, it's not something that happens every month. If it's happening every
- 9:18month, then we need to reevaluate and try to either increase the income or decrease
- 9:24the expenses so that's not repeatedly happening.
- 9:27But if you do end up with a negative budget for that month, that is kind of how debt is created.
- 9:34So something is being owed somewhere. There's not enough money.
- 9:39So something is being left out.
- 9:41And so in that case, you need to look at those flexible expenses in particular
- 9:45and see if there's a way to trim spending.
- 9:49You might have to prioritize something to make sure that your family has what
- 9:54they absolutely have to have.
- 9:56And if there are some extras that are fun that maybe you can live without for
- 9:59a month or two, then that may help your balance come back into line.
- 10:04And you mentioned if this is happening every month. That is really important
- 10:09to note that once you do the budget, it's not forever.
- 10:13You have to re-evaluate it and look and see where you can make changes or where
- 10:20you might have a little extra flexibility.
- 10:23That's very true. And I know we've had articles in our Money Wise newsletter
- 10:29before about something called lifestyle creep.
- 10:32So even when you get a raise and you get really comfortable with that,
- 10:37it doesn't feel like extra money anymore.
- 10:39It blends into all the things you normally spend.
- 10:42And kind of the fun things in life get a little bigger to match.
- 10:46And all of a sudden, you don't have extra money because the things that you're
- 10:50buying have grown to match that extra you got as your raise or whatever it was.
- 10:58You have to think about the fact that there are some costs that are increasing,
- 11:03and we talked about this a couple of months ago, and we don't have any control
- 11:08over that. That's inflation.
- 11:11And so if those are costs that you are finding are really putting a strain on
- 11:18your budget, then maybe it is time to talk about that thing we mentioned at
- 11:21the beginning, a side gig or another way to get some additional income.
- 11:26Sure. That's a great point. Kelly, I love that we're talking about balancing
- 11:32the budget because that's happening all over.
- 11:37We're seeing it in government. We're seeing it in industry. that it's something
- 11:42that we need to also do in our own homes every month or at least every quarter, right?
- 11:48Right, yeah. Re-evaluate at least once a year, a couple times a year.
- 11:53The more often you do it, the more you know what's going on.
- 11:57And truly, that money is going to be spent whether you write it down or not, isn't it?
- 12:02So those bills are still coming in whether you face the facts or not.
- 12:07So sometimes you get a boost to your mood when you recognize that you're really
- 12:15doing a good job in staying within your budget.
- 12:19And so it doesn't have to be something we're afraid of.
- 12:24Exactly. It can be comforting to know that, hey, everything's going to be all
- 12:30right. We can afford this. Yeah.
- 12:32And if you are finding yourself in a situation where there isn't enough money to meet all of the bills,
- 12:38reach out to your local extension office because they have a wealth of resources
- 12:43to help you manage your budget. We're happy to help.
- 12:48Kelly, thanks so much for your time today. If you are just tuning in,
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