Latest / Clyde Confidential / The Man Behind Hollywood’s Most Exclusive Hotspots with Jeff Klein
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, Welcome back to another episode of Clyde Confidential.
- 0:04Speaker 1: It is Friday afternoon in Los Angeles, and I have
- 0:06Speaker 1: hotelier Jeff Klein joining me this afternoon, and I feel
- 0:10Speaker 1: so lucky that he's on.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Thank you, Megan. I feel likely to be here.
- 0:14Speaker 1: I'm so excited to chat. I feel like this chat
- 0:17Speaker 1: is actually very long overdue. We've never really sat down.
- 0:20Speaker 1: But I'm a member of one of your clubs for
- 0:23Speaker 1: a couple of years now, actually, so I'm excited to
- 0:26Speaker 1: learn about it.
- 0:28Speaker 2: Thank you. Yes, excited to reveal myself.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Yes, where are you right now? Jeff? I must ask.
- 0:35Speaker 2: I'm in my chef's office in Santa Monica because I've
- 0:39Speaker 2: had this crazy day and I wasn't able to make
- 0:43Speaker 2: it back to my own office. So you see clipboards
- 0:46Speaker 2: with orders of food expected and some chef uniforms on
- 0:51Speaker 2: the other side. So and there's a big sign do
- 0:54Speaker 2: not do not bother me jefly Well, I'm.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Home and hopefully my dogs aren't too disruptive, but there
- 1:02Speaker 1: in the background, so you'll you'll see both of them.
- 1:06Speaker 1: I'm actually coming to your Santamonica location for dinner tonight,
- 1:10Speaker 1: so maybe, yeah, maybe, we'll catch each other.
- 1:14Speaker 2: I love that. Yes, yeah, cool.
- 1:17Speaker 1: I mean literally there every weekend, so it is. It
- 1:20Speaker 1: is the best. But okay, so you have a bunch
- 1:23Speaker 1: of properties across the world. Let's go through them all
- 1:26Speaker 1: for people who don't know who you are and you
- 1:30Speaker 1: know what you're all about. So in La you have
- 1:34Speaker 1: sense a Tower.
- 1:35Speaker 2: I have the Sense of Tower. I also have Hotel
- 1:38Speaker 2: eight fifty and uh Sanma Sente Bungalows in West Hollywood,
- 1:44Speaker 2: Santa Sente, Santa Monica, and then in New York, I
- 1:49Speaker 2: have Sana Cente West Village, and uh that's pretty much it.
- 1:57Speaker 2: I mean, when I bought a building in New York,
- 2:01Speaker 2: there were all these youth hostel rooms in that building
- 2:05Speaker 2: that we still have. So I don't know if you
- 2:07Speaker 2: noticed you've been to New York, right.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Yes, I live between LA and New York. So I'm
- 2:13Speaker 1: also a member of the West Village.
- 2:15Speaker 2: So I don't know if you've ever seen the euro Hostel.
- 2:21Speaker 2: It's called the West Village euro Hostel. It's a separate entrance.
- 2:25Speaker 2: It's actually in the building. So when I bought the
- 2:28Speaker 2: entire Jane Hotel, there were all these like permanent tenants
- 2:33Speaker 2: and small rooms which shared bathrooms that we created like
- 2:39Speaker 2: a separate entrance and separate elevator for and then we
- 2:42Speaker 2: have the club on the other side. So it's almost
- 2:44Speaker 2: like we put a wall through the center of the
- 2:46Speaker 2: building and created two separate businesses. So I also have
- 2:48Speaker 2: that youth hostel.
- 2:50Speaker 1: Yes, how long had that been up and running? I'm
- 2:53Speaker 1: sure there's a legal thing that you were walking through
- 2:56Speaker 1: that when you were when you were building the West
- 2:58Speaker 1: Village property. How did you do that?
- 3:00Speaker 2: Well? So the building was I should really know. This
- 3:04Speaker 2: was built in I think nineteen oh eight. It was
- 3:07Speaker 2: created as a maritime hotel for sailors. In fact, when
- 3:12Speaker 2: the Titanic, they brought a lot of the survivors of
- 3:17Speaker 2: the Titanic to stay there. So it's a really interesting building.
- 3:23Speaker 2: When I bought it, there was like all these hotel
- 3:26Speaker 2: rooms scattered all over the building, and a lot of
- 3:31Speaker 2: them had shared bathroom. All of them actually have shared bathrooms,
- 3:35Speaker 2: and there's tiny rooms, which because they were really for
- 3:38Speaker 2: sailors and there all are some people that live in
- 3:42Speaker 2: those apartments on one floor. So I couldn't change it,
- 3:47Speaker 2: is why I had to keep it the same. But
- 3:50Speaker 2: then I took back all the space I could and
- 3:52Speaker 2: turned it into club space. So if you had been
- 3:55Speaker 2: to the Jain Hotel before I bought it, people are like,
- 3:59Speaker 2: where's all this space? Well, it's former rooms that I
- 4:01Speaker 2: took out of service and added to club space, like
- 4:04Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, like the billiards room, for example,
- 4:09Speaker 2: and that whole there's another dining room on the fifth four.
- 4:13Speaker 2: We call it the tap room. That those were all
- 4:15Speaker 2: hotel rooms when I bought it. And there's a kitchen
- 4:19Speaker 2: on the fifth four which services the tap room and
- 4:21Speaker 2: also the roof above it, because the roof is on
- 4:23Speaker 2: the sixth floor.
- 4:24Speaker 1: So you've done I mean, you've done such an incredible
- 4:27Speaker 1: job at that place. When I was in my twenties,
- 4:29Speaker 1: I used to go to the Jane Hotel and dance
- 4:33Speaker 1: on the couches in the living room and stay out
- 4:36Speaker 1: too late with all my friends. So it's nice to
- 4:39Speaker 1: be back and feel a little bit more sophisticated in
- 4:42Speaker 1: my thirties. But I love still walking up the stairs
- 4:46Speaker 1: to go to SCB now and it feels like, you know,
- 4:48Speaker 1: if I close my eyes, I'm almost going back to
- 4:50Speaker 1: the Jain with my friends. It's the same exact stairwells.
- 4:53Speaker 2: So funny.
- 4:55Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm now sitting in that same living room
- 4:58Speaker 1: having like a work dinner.
- 5:00Speaker 2: It's just, you know, it's great. I love that one. Yeah,
- 5:04Speaker 2: the woman who designed it rose in the I think
- 5:07Speaker 2: she did such a fantastic job.
- 5:08Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's stunning. It's the best.
- 5:10Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you.
- 5:12Speaker 1: You really did such a good job.
- 5:14Speaker 2: Thank you. I mean, I love all my children, the
- 5:18Speaker 2: all the clubs. I'm in Santa Monica right now. It's
- 5:22Speaker 2: like every time I walk in here, I have to
- 5:23Speaker 2: pinch myself because it's like I feel like I'm on
- 5:26Speaker 2: like the Italian coast every time I come here. I
- 5:28Speaker 2: don't know if you can get that vibe, yes, but
- 5:30Speaker 2: it's like I just think I'm on like the ca
- 5:32Speaker 2: It's so lovely. I mean, right now i'm in the
- 5:34Speaker 2: chef's office, it's not that lovely. But when I'm actually
- 5:38Speaker 2: chef office, and as far as chef's office goes, it
- 5:44Speaker 2: is actually really nice.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Okay, So with all of your properties and clubs, do
- 5:49Speaker 1: have a favorite one out of all of them?
- 5:53Speaker 2: Well, I'm oh my gosh, God, he's gonna kill me.
- 5:56Speaker 2: I'm really not allowed to have a favorite but I
- 6:00Speaker 2: they're they're also different, which is like kind of part
- 6:03Speaker 2: of my business model that they're all very unique to
- 6:06Speaker 2: the space itself and to the location itself. But again
- 6:10Speaker 2: I would say Santa Monica just does this thing to me.
- 6:14Speaker 2: But I mean all of them have a massive effect
- 6:17Speaker 2: on me. I mean, obviously they have to, like I
- 6:21Speaker 2: created them all, but there is something about Santa Monica
- 6:24Speaker 2: that I just find like really really kind of crazy special.
- 6:30Speaker 2: I mean there, but New York does too, and West
- 6:34Speaker 2: Hollywood man.
- 6:34Speaker 1: That you know.
- 6:35Speaker 2: I was at Lengthwood today and it's like remembering when
- 6:38Speaker 2: I bought that place, and O G yes so and
- 6:43Speaker 2: the sense of tower. I mean, I love them all,
- 6:46Speaker 2: but I would have to say, if by like a centimeter,
- 6:52Speaker 2: probably Santa Monica is.
- 6:53Speaker 1: However, answer that, Okay, I wasn't expecting that, But I
- 6:57Speaker 1: was expecting you to say Sunset Tower or or Weho
- 7:00Speaker 1: because those ones are sort of staples.
- 7:02Speaker 2: But those are definitely the ogs and fairness to both
- 7:06Speaker 2: of them. You know, It's kind of like you get
- 7:09Speaker 2: like the more you're with someone, the less you're like
- 7:12Speaker 2: into them. I mean, I've been with my husband twenty
- 7:14Speaker 2: two years and I still worship the groundy wox on,
- 7:17Speaker 2: but like you know what I mean, it's like it
- 7:18Speaker 2: we're like. So maybe that's part of it. Because, like
- 7:22Speaker 2: some tower, I've now owned it for twenty two years,
- 7:25Speaker 2: so it's kind of crazy. You look like you're like
- 7:29Speaker 2: only twenty two years old. So maybe I bought it
- 7:31Speaker 2: when you were born.
- 7:33Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 7:33Speaker 2: I'm not.
- 7:34Speaker 1: I just am a very good dermatologist.
- 7:36Speaker 2: I'm going to take that and run with it.
- 7:40Speaker 1: So nice. Wow, Okay, Jeff Kine thinks I'm twenty two. Cool? Well, Jeff,
- 7:47Speaker 1: you and I don't do very dissimilar things. I think
- 7:51Speaker 1: you and I are actually quite similar in our line
- 7:53Speaker 1: of work because what I do is I curate a
- 7:56Speaker 1: community as well, but on teams and I match make
- 8:01Speaker 1: people to be sort of business partners. And you also
- 8:08Speaker 1: curate a community in your membership clubs, and you're at
- 8:11Speaker 1: the same time interviewing people and getting to know their
- 8:15Speaker 1: personalities and seeing, okay with this person, mesh, well at
- 8:19Speaker 1: this club is this a fit for me? So I'm
- 8:22Speaker 1: curious what your process is like when you are a
- 8:25Speaker 1: trying to build that membership community and build your staff.
- 8:30Speaker 1: What do you look for in each of those things?
- 8:33Speaker 2: Well, it's really hard. I mean people think curating a
- 8:37Speaker 2: club is about, you know, picking famous people are powerful people,
- 8:40Speaker 2: but it's really actually more nuanced than that, and you're
- 8:46Speaker 2: really curating energy, behavior and chemistry. We try to build
- 8:53Speaker 2: a community with a balance of like ages, industries, personalities,
- 8:57Speaker 2: and points of view. The goal is not saneness, it's
- 9:01Speaker 2: interesting overlap. So you want people who are curious and
- 9:04Speaker 2: engaged and respectful of the environment, and who contribute something
- 9:08Speaker 2: intangible to the atmosphere. A great club should feel socially effortless,
- 9:15Speaker 2: and it's hard to do. I mean, you know, people
- 9:18Speaker 2: should feel comfortable having conversations with strangers and staying longer,
- 9:23Speaker 2: and honestly, the hardest thing to do is to curate
- 9:26Speaker 2: the culture. But what I you know to that point
- 9:31Speaker 2: that that, you know, having everything from all walks of
- 9:36Speaker 2: life is really as important as possible. I always say
- 9:38Speaker 2: the greatest party is a wedding because it's three generations
- 9:43Speaker 2: and it's like all sorts of people from all different industries,
- 9:47Speaker 2: and I mean a good wedding. That can be a
- 9:49Speaker 2: bad wedding, but usually those are the most fun parties,
- 9:52Speaker 2: and that's what we're really trying to curate. The greatest
- 9:56Speaker 2: dinner party every single day and night, you know. So
- 10:01Speaker 2: I think that's what it is, and it's not me.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Everybody's like, oh you you pick this. I'm like, I
- 10:06Speaker 2: don't pick anything. There's a committee, there's an actual process.
- 10:10Speaker 2: People go through the applications, which is really fun and
- 10:13Speaker 2: really interesting.
- 10:14Speaker 1: What is the interview process? Like, so I know that
- 10:16Speaker 1: everyone does still out an application and then it gets
- 10:19Speaker 1: taken up to the committee, and I guess there's a deliberation,
- 10:22Speaker 1: but has it ever what's the voting process? Like I guess,
- 10:28Speaker 1: and does it then get taken up A change to
- 10:30Speaker 1: you or do you trust your committee enough to make
- 10:32Speaker 1: those decisions on your behalf?
- 10:33Speaker 2: I trust, I really trust my committee, and so in
- 10:35Speaker 2: the beginning it did. I would try to get involved
- 10:39Speaker 2: and be like, oh I know this person, and I
- 10:41Speaker 2: no longer do that, and it's a little awkward, like
- 10:43Speaker 2: sometimes actually a friend friends of mine have not gotten
- 10:46Speaker 2: into the club, or even people I don't like do
- 10:49Speaker 2: get into it. But I really don't put my thumb
- 10:52Speaker 2: on the scale with the committee because they're doing a
- 10:55Speaker 2: lot of work and I trust them, and so I
- 10:58Speaker 2: want the processes it's really working well or doing a
- 11:01Speaker 2: good job and I always say, like, you know, maybe
- 11:04Speaker 2: there's two percent that they get wrong, but it's still
- 11:07Speaker 2: in a plus, and ninety eight is still an A plus.
- 11:09Speaker 2: So I think they're doing the night plus.
- 11:12Speaker 1: I think they do an excellent job, and I think
- 11:14Speaker 1: that in the in the era of members clubs in
- 11:18Speaker 1: Los Angeles and New York, I not only because I'm biased,
- 11:21Speaker 1: but I do think that Samasinde does the most amazing
- 11:25Speaker 1: job at curating people. And I love being able to
- 11:28Speaker 1: go for dinner on the weekend and always get a
- 11:32Speaker 1: table and walk in and know all the staff and
- 11:35Speaker 1: not feel like I'm the oldest person at the restaurant
- 11:38Speaker 1: or at the bar, because I think of that as
- 11:40Speaker 1: I get older and I go back to New York,
- 11:42Speaker 1: there's a lot of places that I've actually aged out of.
- 11:45Speaker 1: Going to your clubs doesn't make me feel that way,
- 11:48Speaker 1: because I think that, unlike some other places, you guys
- 11:51Speaker 1: are really thoughtful about not letting younger too many younger
- 11:56Speaker 1: folks in and making sure that like there's different tiers
- 11:59Speaker 1: of memos. That's right.
- 12:01Speaker 2: Yeah, you're very purposeful about it, and you're absolutely right,
- 12:05Speaker 2: And thank you for saying that, because I think it
- 12:09Speaker 2: is important that everybody feels welcome, and that makes and
- 12:13Speaker 2: that means I'm doing my job correctly and everybody, you know,
- 12:16Speaker 2: so thank you.
- 12:16Speaker 1: Yeah you are. And how do you select your membership team?
- 12:20Speaker 2: Well, so there's a membership team that works for me,
- 12:23Speaker 2: and then there's a committee that's really like your peers,
- 12:26Speaker 2: and they remain anonymous, and we basically, once again, really
- 12:30Speaker 2: try to pick people that represent all the people we want.
- 12:35Speaker 2: So perhaps it's one woman who's in the music industry
- 12:38Speaker 2: and one guy who's more business like, and you know,
- 12:44Speaker 2: another person who's I don't know, you know, I mean
- 12:49Speaker 2: in fashion, and you know, I mean Gabby, who's the
- 12:52Speaker 2: head of membership, who is really brilliant and incredible, was
- 12:59Speaker 2: a magazine editor. And I wish I could say I
- 13:02Speaker 2: was smart enough to have like foreseen that she was
- 13:06Speaker 2: going to be so brilliant at this, because of course
- 13:08Speaker 2: now I'm like, oh yeah, of course, Like she was
- 13:10Speaker 2: a magazine editor. She edited magazines. That's basically what she's
- 13:15Speaker 2: doing here in private clubs, of course, you know, But
- 13:18Speaker 2: I was just lucky. I just kind of was very
- 13:22Speaker 2: drawn to her as a person and as a mind
- 13:26Speaker 2: and her energy and I just knew she would do
- 13:28Speaker 2: really well, and she has exceeded my expectations.
- 13:33Speaker 1: I mean, she is the most fabulous person on the planet.
- 13:36Speaker 1: And I tried to get her to come on this
- 13:37Speaker 1: podcast and she's terrified, but maybe after.
- 13:40Speaker 2: She listens, Yeah, well we could have done it together.
- 13:43Speaker 2: That would have been really fun. Have you ever seen
- 13:45Speaker 2: that together? We're like an old married couple, like you
- 13:49Speaker 2: love it. No one can say to me like it's
- 13:51Speaker 2: like hilarious.
- 13:53Speaker 1: I mean, you could not ask for a better right
- 13:55Speaker 1: arm she is. I mean I've known Gabby for years
- 13:59Speaker 1: because I met her when she was at Sunset Tower,
- 14:02Speaker 1: and when I was working as an assistant, I would
- 14:04Speaker 1: always call an email to get my old Boston reservations
- 14:08Speaker 1: and Gabby and your team above and beyond all of
- 14:10Speaker 1: the time. And then one day I remember emailing and
- 14:14Speaker 1: someone wrote back and said, oh, she's actually not here anymore.
- 14:16Speaker 1: She's at Sambacinay West Hollywood. So and that is how
- 14:21Speaker 1: I got into Samba Cinta West Hollywood. Yes, Gabby remembered
- 14:27Speaker 1: me from my assistant days, and I think I've been
- 14:29Speaker 1: a member now for four years. But it's the best.
- 14:32Speaker 1: I mean, it's down the street from my house. I
- 14:35Speaker 1: work out of there with my team. I take every
- 14:37Speaker 1: single meeting in that poolhouse, and it's that one actually
- 14:42Speaker 1: is my favorite, I think, though I.
- 14:44Speaker 2: Know I was going to amend a and say, actually
- 14:46Speaker 2: maybe we but it's so hard. It depends.
- 14:49Speaker 1: It's so hard. I think during the week I'm a
- 14:51Speaker 1: weeho girl, and I'm there Monday to Friday, and then
- 14:54Speaker 1: on the weekend, since I'm the only person out of
- 14:57Speaker 1: my friend group who lives in West Hollywood, I go
- 14:59Speaker 1: to Monica.
- 15:01Speaker 2: That's smart, that's good. That's actually a good way to
- 15:03Speaker 2: do it too, because it delineates between work and you
- 15:06Speaker 2: know weekend.
- 15:07Speaker 1: Yes, exactly the separation. But back to Gabby. So Gabby
- 15:12Speaker 1: was at all of your properties pretty much, so she
- 15:16Speaker 1: was at a sense of tower. How did you find
- 15:20Speaker 1: her originally?
- 15:21Speaker 2: So, I mean i've been actually was you know, I
- 15:25Speaker 2: did something that you really should never do. With one footnote,
- 15:29Speaker 2: I would say I hired a friend. But when I
- 15:33Speaker 2: met her it was twenty two years ago. She was
- 15:37Speaker 2: the editor of w magazine and I just bought the hotel,
- 15:41Speaker 2: and I really wanted her to work for me there
- 15:44Speaker 2: and or with me there, I should say, and she
- 15:51Speaker 2: I tried really really hard, and actually she said yes
- 15:55Speaker 2: at one point and then she won like an award
- 15:58Speaker 2: for best magazine edit. At her there was like some
- 16:01Speaker 2: awards thing they did, and she's like, I just can't,
- 16:04Speaker 2: you know, and she retracted her acceptance and then we
- 16:08Speaker 2: I was kind of angry at her for a year
- 16:09Speaker 2: or two after that, and then we just became friendly.
- 16:12Speaker 2: And then as that world changed and it was much
- 16:17Speaker 2: harder to work in that world, she was looking she
- 16:22Speaker 2: didn't know what her next chapter was going to be.
- 16:25Speaker 2: And I said, you know, we originally met fifteen years
- 16:29Speaker 2: ago because I really wanted to work with you. That
- 16:32Speaker 2: still stands, what you know, And she said, well, i'd
- 16:37Speaker 2: love to. I've always been obsessed with hospitality. And I
- 16:39Speaker 2: said to her what I say to everybody, which is,
- 16:41Speaker 2: unfortunately you have to start like at the bottom. Like
- 16:45Speaker 2: there's there's no way in hospitality to just kind of
- 16:48Speaker 2: like come in and be start as like an owner
- 16:50Speaker 2: or something. So she worked under Dmitri for like two
- 16:54Speaker 2: years and she yeah, when you interview her, and hopefully
- 16:58Speaker 2: you do, I'm going to try to convince her. She
- 17:00Speaker 2: says it was the hardest of her life. She said,
- 17:05Speaker 2: because Dmitri I mean, we love Dmitri and I think
- 17:10Speaker 2: he's very exacting. I mean very yeah. So she you know,
- 17:15Speaker 2: it was tough for her and she but she figured
- 17:17Speaker 2: it out and she does a great job.
- 17:20Speaker 1: So Demitri is actually your longest standing employee.
- 17:24Speaker 2: Yeah, there's there's some others that have been there just
- 17:26Speaker 2: because Demeter is there when we open. There's a couple
- 17:28Speaker 2: of them, like Max in the server in the Tower
- 17:33Speaker 2: Bar also was there at the opening, So there's a housekeeper.
- 17:41Speaker 2: There's a couple. I think there's like four or five
- 17:44Speaker 2: that have been which is very rare in my industry,
- 17:46Speaker 2: quite frankly, especially now.
- 17:48Speaker 1: Mine and mine.
- 17:51Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm very proud of it. And you know,
- 17:53Speaker 2: I think we I think I'm proud of the cultures
- 17:57Speaker 2: that we create. It's an important part of the recipe,
- 18:02Speaker 2: I would say.
- 18:03Speaker 1: I think so. And I mean to go to the
- 18:06Speaker 1: Tower Bar for a meal and to walk in and
- 18:07Speaker 1: Tomitri is the first person that I see and he,
- 18:11Speaker 1: you know, gives me the double kiss, walks me to
- 18:13Speaker 1: my table. We chat for a second. That familiarity is
- 18:17Speaker 1: it's unbelievable. And he has I think he's actually like
- 18:21Speaker 1: the face of Sunset Tower, which you can't. You can't
- 18:24Speaker 1: pick a better person he is.
- 18:26Speaker 2: I know, I completely agree. And you know, for a
- 18:29Speaker 2: while he and Gabby were flip flopped. Dmitri was at
- 18:32Speaker 2: sam Macine and Gabby was it time?
- 18:34Speaker 1: Yes, I remember, and then he.
- 18:36Speaker 2: Went back yeah. And then he went back.
- 18:39Speaker 1: Yes, and he didn't he come over to the New
- 18:41Speaker 1: York Club to train some folks.
- 18:43Speaker 2: He still does. Yeah, I mean, Dmitri is such a
- 18:46Speaker 2: he's like a legend. I mean he's still He was
- 18:49Speaker 2: just in New York like two months ago for like
- 18:52Speaker 2: a refresh and he was there at the opening, and
- 18:55Speaker 2: he'll probably be back, you know, in a few months
- 18:59Speaker 2: as well.
- 19:00Speaker 1: I mean to up, he's the best. How did you
- 19:03Speaker 1: find him?
- 19:04Speaker 2: Oh gosh, so Dimitri. So here's what happened when I
- 19:07Speaker 2: opened up the Tower Bar. I did like a friends
- 19:12Speaker 2: and family night where they came. You basically invite friends
- 19:17Speaker 2: to like as guinea pigs, and you're like, we're going
- 19:20Speaker 2: to screw up on you. It's free. Can you please
- 19:23Speaker 2: just come? And both Mix Glazer the producer and Tom
- 19:29Speaker 2: Ford were at I invited them both and they were
- 19:35Speaker 2: together that night and Tom called me over. This is
- 19:39Speaker 2: like a terrible story. I probably cann't say it. But
- 19:42Speaker 2: Tom called me over. At the time, you could say
- 19:44Speaker 2: things like this, let's just say Mix and Tom are
- 19:47Speaker 2: the same table. And Tom was like, he called me
- 19:51Speaker 2: over and he said, I love this place. It's the
- 19:53Speaker 2: only restaurant I go to in La But if you
- 19:56Speaker 2: if if I sit next to an ugly person again,
- 19:59Speaker 2: I'm not coming back. This is like days of Devilwar's
- 20:02Speaker 2: Product one. Not too This is you know, savage, and
- 20:07Speaker 2: it was savage, and Mitch was like, you should hire Dmitri.
- 20:12Speaker 2: He he'll help you with this, curate this or something.
- 20:16Speaker 2: And I'm like, I'm like, I'm like, what does that
- 20:18Speaker 2: even mean? I am I an ugly person? I mean,
- 20:20Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, like doesn't mean ugly on the inside,
- 20:24Speaker 2: doesn't mean I know. I was like very like, you know,
- 20:28Speaker 2: and they're like, you need to understand how to see
- 20:31Speaker 2: the room. He was totally right, because at the time,
- 20:34Speaker 2: believe it or not, the Tower Bar is the very
- 20:35Speaker 2: first restaurant I ever owned. My boss, who taught me
- 20:39Speaker 2: everything I know in the hotel business, never let us
- 20:43Speaker 2: open restaurants in his hotels because he hated the restaurant
- 20:46Speaker 2: business so much. He would make us lease out the restaurants.
- 20:52Speaker 2: I can get to that later. But anyway, so I
- 20:55Speaker 2: had like hostesses and they were just seating everybody anywhere.
- 20:58Speaker 2: So they'd see Tom Ford and somebody or mc glaser
- 21:01Speaker 2: next to somebody, and mix Clazer would be like, well,
- 21:03Speaker 2: why is you know, al Pacinos sitting on the other
- 21:07Speaker 2: side of the room. You should be sitting next to me,
- 21:09Speaker 2: I know, you know, And that's really part of the
- 21:11Speaker 2: art of seating in a restaurant like that. And so
- 21:15Speaker 2: we weren't doing that the first two or three weeks
- 21:19Speaker 2: until he got Dmitri and then he understood how to
- 21:21Speaker 2: really see the room.
- 21:22Speaker 1: And what do you think it was about Dmitri that
- 21:27Speaker 1: he was able to sort of be your guide to
- 21:30Speaker 1: design the room. What struck you about Dmitri and what
- 21:34Speaker 1: kind of skills were crucial for Dmitri to have in
- 21:37Speaker 1: order to execute.
- 21:39Speaker 2: I mean, it's interesting because Dmitri, so when they introduced
- 21:42Speaker 2: me to Dmitri, he really was like a relic of
- 21:46Speaker 2: the past, like nobody wanted to hire him. He represents
- 21:49Speaker 2: it's so hard to believe now. I mean, it's kind
- 21:52Speaker 2: of like the Sunset Tower itself. Nobody wanted to buy it.
- 21:55Speaker 2: They were like, oh that place, like what is it?
- 21:57Speaker 2: And you know, everybody thought like having a major d
- 22:01Speaker 2: was just not cool. And I really was focused on
- 22:08Speaker 2: making the whole experience of the Sunse Tower feel like
- 22:13Speaker 2: an old Hollywood kind of you know, canteen, and I
- 22:20Speaker 2: knew that.
- 22:20Speaker 1: That's exactly what it is. By the way, that is
- 22:22Speaker 1: that is the whole feeling when you walk in there,
- 22:24Speaker 1: you put on a fancy outfit, you're if you're going
- 22:27Speaker 1: to eat at the Sunset Tower versus San Facente, Santa Monica.
- 22:30Speaker 1: It is a different wardrobe.
- 22:31Speaker 2: Totally, totally, and it's very glamorous and very like old
- 22:36Speaker 2: Hollywood and very you know, you just feel like, you know,
- 22:40Speaker 2: Greta Garbo may step out from behind the curtain and
- 22:45Speaker 2: sit down.
- 22:46Speaker 1: There's always someone fabulous eating there. I must say, it's true.
- 22:51Speaker 2: It is true. And I knew that his act would work.
- 22:56Speaker 2: And I also knew that he understood especially coming from
- 23:00Speaker 2: Tom Ford and make Glazer. You know, I knew he
- 23:04Speaker 2: would understand stand Hollywood, which is very different today. But
- 23:08Speaker 2: the great thing about Dimitri and Gabby too, they both
- 23:11Speaker 2: are constantly educating themselves on who the players are, who
- 23:18Speaker 2: you know, you said you were an assistant. A lot
- 23:21Speaker 2: of people in my industry don't realize how important assistants
- 23:25Speaker 2: really are and take care of them, because, like I
- 23:28Speaker 2: will tell you, like I know so many assistants today
- 23:31Speaker 2: that you know that today are like running companies and
- 23:35Speaker 2: they were ten fifteen years ago. You know, Brian Lord's
- 23:38Speaker 2: assistant or Kevin Vaine's assistant, or you know now both
- 23:42Speaker 2: Brian and Kevin's assistance are like major players at CIA,
- 23:46Speaker 2: and you know, right, and so it's really important to
- 23:49Speaker 2: actually take care of the assistance and not piss them off,
- 23:53Speaker 2: because they do, especially the good ones like you, they
- 23:57Speaker 2: becut not everybody remains an assistant forever, and a lot
- 24:00Speaker 2: of places forget that.
- 24:01Speaker 1: I think, I think, I do think you are probably
- 24:04Speaker 1: one of the rare individuals who really understands that. I mean,
- 24:07Speaker 1: everyone I grew up with as an assistant a couple
- 24:09Speaker 1: of years ago, they all now have these big boy
- 24:12Speaker 1: jobs and big girl jobs, and they will be the
- 24:14Speaker 1: ones running the studios and really the people in your
- 24:18Speaker 1: restaurant for the next couple of years, bringing in their
- 24:20Speaker 1: clients and making the calls and the shops. So I
- 24:24Speaker 1: think it's you always have to be kind to.
- 24:26Speaker 2: Assistant totally, totally, totally I agree one percent. Yeah, and
- 24:34Speaker 2: you know it also, it's also human decency, like even
- 24:40Speaker 2: if they didn't become important, it's just nice to be
- 24:43Speaker 2: nice to be.
- 24:43Speaker 1: I mean, I think, of course, yeah that I.
- 24:47Speaker 2: Mean, I hate to sound like such a crystal wearing
- 24:51Speaker 2: Maybe it's because I'm in Santa Monica. I'm really feeling
- 24:53Speaker 2: the vibes. But it is true. Energy is reflected and mirrored,
- 25:00Speaker 2: you know, so it is.
- 25:03Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you a story. I had a friend
- 25:06Speaker 1: on this podcast, Jake Fleischmann, a couple months ago, and
- 25:11Speaker 1: one of his core memories from being an assistant is
- 25:14Speaker 1: when you upgraded his room at the Sunset Tower Hotel
- 25:17Speaker 1: on one of his first trips to La and that
- 25:20Speaker 1: stuck with him and he remembers that, and that is
- 25:25Speaker 1: he will never forget how kind you were to do
- 25:27Speaker 1: when he was not a manager yet and now he's
- 25:30Speaker 1: a manager. And to your point, it doesn't matter if
- 25:33Speaker 1: you know if they're going to be successful or not,
- 25:35Speaker 1: but that human decency and the kindness and the fact
- 25:39Speaker 1: that you were the owner of the hotel and you
- 25:43Speaker 1: upgraded his room personally with a handwritten note. That's something
- 25:46Speaker 1: that just sticks with people. It's so important.
- 25:49Speaker 2: Well, I love that podcast, which I love all your podcasts,
- 25:52Speaker 2: but I really loved that one. And I remember listening
- 25:54Speaker 2: to that. I had such a big smile on my
- 25:55Speaker 2: face when he said that, because again, it's just meant
- 25:59Speaker 2: that I'm doing my job correctly or I let's say
- 26:03Speaker 2: I'm not doing it badly, you know, because I do
- 26:07Speaker 2: think it's important and I think being in a hands
- 26:10Speaker 2: on owner goes a long way. There's just like Italian
- 26:14Speaker 2: saying the garden of an owner grows better under the
- 26:21Speaker 2: or a garden grows better under the shadow of an
- 26:23Speaker 2: owner or something and I and you know really is
- 26:28Speaker 2: referring to business as well or anything in life, like
- 26:30Speaker 2: if you're if you own something, it's like you have
- 26:32Speaker 2: that love and care that you give. And I write
- 26:35Speaker 2: personal notes still to this day. Every morning I wake up,
- 26:38Speaker 2: I go through all the arrivals since tower. Every single
- 26:41Speaker 2: day I could be on vacation. I did it in
- 26:44Speaker 2: South Africa over Christmas. I did it in Europe. I
- 26:46Speaker 2: mean wherever I am. Every single day I go through
- 26:49Speaker 2: the arrivals and it's the same with all three clubs.
- 26:53Speaker 2: I'm looking at you know, who's coming in, who's you
- 26:57Speaker 2: know I do after they get accepted, look at through
- 27:00Speaker 2: the applications who's joining. I want to see. I want
- 27:02Speaker 2: to know, you know, I want to introduce myself to
- 27:05Speaker 2: people when they come into the club.
- 27:07Speaker 1: I think it's so important and you actually or I
- 27:09Speaker 1: can't actually name any other owners who do that. And
- 27:13Speaker 1: whenever I'm at one of your clubs, I always seem
- 27:17Speaker 1: to run into you. But you're also a face of
- 27:19Speaker 1: the club. You're walking around, you're saying hi to people,
- 27:21Speaker 1: you're shaking hands. You're so involved, and a lot of
- 27:24Speaker 1: people would not be as involved or on location. I mean,
- 27:28Speaker 1: you're literally taking this interview from the chef's office. You
- 27:31Speaker 1: really care about what you've created, and you're still in it.
- 27:35Speaker 1: A lot of people would just hang up the towel,
- 27:38Speaker 1: thank you.
- 27:38Speaker 2: Yeah, well I can't. I mean, I you know, my
- 27:41Speaker 2: background is operations, so I can't let go of it.
- 27:45Speaker 2: As a part of the gift and the curse, I
- 27:48Speaker 2: would say.
- 27:49Speaker 1: Yeah, what has been your favorite part about building these
- 27:53Speaker 1: membership clubs and restaurants and hotels.
- 27:56Speaker 2: That's such a great question. I mean I love that
- 28:00Speaker 2: actual building of them, designing them, is really fun programming them,
- 28:08Speaker 2: you know, finding them is really fun, staffing them, you know,
- 28:14Speaker 2: really creating the whole vibe, the creative process of imagining
- 28:18Speaker 2: how people are going to feel in a space before
- 28:21Speaker 2: it even exists. To me, like magic, it's just worth
- 28:27Speaker 2: a billion dollar. I'd rather that than if somebody said,
- 28:29Speaker 2: here's a billion dollars, or you can create a club
- 28:32Speaker 2: that or a hotel or a space that you know
- 28:35Speaker 2: really speaks to you. I'd picked the club over the
- 28:39Speaker 2: billion dollars. I love thinking about the psychology of the rooms,
- 28:43Speaker 2: the lighting, the music, the flow, where people naturally gather,
- 28:48Speaker 2: where conversations are going to happen, you know, where someone
- 28:51Speaker 2: might unexpectedly meet a future husband or wife or boyfriend
- 28:55Speaker 2: or girlfriend or whatever.
- 29:00Speaker 1: I mean, I would love to be able to say that,
- 29:02Speaker 1: so jury still out.
- 29:06Speaker 2: And then once it opens, I love watching the behavior,
- 29:10Speaker 2: you know, I mean, I'm obsessive about these details that
- 29:12Speaker 2: shape these emotions. And then I love watching how it
- 29:15Speaker 2: works once it's open and what people gravitate towards naturally.
- 29:20Speaker 2: And you know, the clubs are always evolving, kind of
- 29:25Speaker 2: like real life. And I don't know if you've noticed,
- 29:27Speaker 2: like even in Santa Monica, for example. There's so many
- 29:30Speaker 2: things that like were changed, constantly changing, and these are
- 29:34Speaker 2: expensive changes. I mean New York I talked about that
- 29:37Speaker 2: fifth for restaurant that was a co working space for
- 29:40Speaker 2: the first two months.
- 29:42Speaker 1: I remember I worked out of it many.
- 29:44Speaker 2: Times and I was like, it's just not working. It's
- 29:47Speaker 2: just not vibing, it's not feeling. It felt almost like
- 29:51Speaker 2: it was separate. Like and I created this rest you know,
- 29:56Speaker 2: this dining room that people just love and they can
- 29:58Speaker 2: work out of it during the day. So it's not
- 29:59Speaker 2: like I. And there's other spaces that can work out of.
- 30:01Speaker 2: But most people, most operators would be like, I'm not
- 30:05Speaker 2: going to now spend millions of more do I mean,
- 30:07Speaker 2: by the way, in New York, I was like, already
- 30:09Speaker 2: millions of dollars over budget. I'm probably not the smartest
- 30:16Speaker 2: financial you know. I mean, I don't know, maybe I
- 30:19Speaker 2: am in the end, because I do think it all pays.
- 30:21Speaker 1: Off eventually, but it absolutely does.
- 30:24Speaker 2: I really care so much about the experience that I'm
- 30:28Speaker 2: willing to, you know, just go deeper into a hole,
- 30:31Speaker 2: a financial hole, to make it perfect.
- 30:33Speaker 1: I mean, I think the New York Club is spectacular,
- 30:37Speaker 1: and I remember I was so impressed coming back after
- 30:41Speaker 1: a couple months in LA and seeing that taproom just
- 30:44Speaker 1: spring up. It was so I feel like you did
- 30:47Speaker 1: that in five minutes. That was insane.
- 30:49Speaker 2: Well, we did it over the summer, which is a
- 30:51Speaker 2: slow period in New York City because everybody's like in
- 30:53Speaker 2: the Hampton's and Nantucket and excuse me wherever eure ue.
- 30:58Speaker 2: You know, they all kind of like fully the city.
- 31:00Speaker 2: But because it does get awfully hot, it's not like LA,
- 31:03Speaker 2: where like summer people stick around for.
- 31:05Speaker 1: Somewhere, So people do stick around here.
- 31:07Speaker 2: Yes, but I did it over the summer, and I
- 31:12Speaker 2: had everything lined up, which was important. In fact, this summer,
- 31:15Speaker 2: I have a couple of surprises in New York that
- 31:17Speaker 2: you're going to be excited about when you come back
- 31:20Speaker 2: in the fall.
- 31:20Speaker 1: Yeah, very well, I'm actually probably the small percentage of
- 31:24Speaker 1: LA folks who goes to New York for the summer.
- 31:26Speaker 2: So I'll be back Santa Monica. I mean, like even
- 31:30Speaker 2: like Sa Sana West, Sana, Coniti West Hollywood. Now I
- 31:32Speaker 2: would say it's perfect, but I was constantly I am
- 31:35Speaker 2: constantly tweaking little Actually that's not true. I might be
- 31:38Speaker 2: changing one thing pretty significantly one room, but like the
- 31:43Speaker 2: bar used to be a blue we would call it
- 31:45Speaker 2: the Blue Bar. And then we got Grace Coddington to
- 31:47Speaker 2: come and paint murals on the walls and completely change
- 31:51Speaker 2: all the furniture in there because the Blue Bar just
- 31:53Speaker 2: felt too cold. And I love that room in Sana.
- 31:57Speaker 2: I love that room too. It's so magic.
- 32:00Speaker 1: I always tell my friends, I say, if I ever
- 32:03Speaker 1: make it in this life, I want a bar in
- 32:05Speaker 1: my house with that exact hand painted wallpaper on it,
- 32:08Speaker 1: and instead of the little cats will have my dogs.
- 32:11Speaker 1: But that it reminds me of if the Carlisle had
- 32:16Speaker 1: a baby with I don't know. Something is giving a
- 32:22Speaker 1: lot of New York and I think, and I think
- 32:25Speaker 1: as a New Yorker, going to have a drink at
- 32:27Speaker 1: the Blue Bar makes me feel like I'm at home.
- 32:29Speaker 2: So I love that, and that's exactly what we were
- 32:32Speaker 2: going for, and it does, and then it works like
- 32:36Speaker 2: next week you're going to see we're doing some stuff
- 32:38Speaker 2: in Santa Monica. That's super cool. That's changing the dining
- 32:42Speaker 2: room a little bit, and we're also changing the roof.
- 32:46Speaker 2: You know, after being opened for a year, you start
- 32:49Speaker 2: realizing mistake like flow is really important and little things
- 32:54Speaker 2: that you can never know until people start using the spaces.
- 32:58Speaker 2: And I think, you know, one of the mistakes other
- 33:02Speaker 2: operators and owners make is like they build it and
- 33:04Speaker 2: if it's not perfect, like Okay, it didn't work out,
- 33:09Speaker 2: I'm like, no, no, tear it out, redo it until
- 33:12Speaker 2: it's perfect.
- 33:14Speaker 1: Well, I'm so curious to see what you're going to do.
- 33:16Speaker 1: I mean, I really can't think of any notes I
- 33:18Speaker 1: have for your jobs. I think they're they're spectacular. And
- 33:23Speaker 1: I remember when Santa Monica opened, I was part of
- 33:26Speaker 1: the crew in the first couple of weeks that would
- 33:29Speaker 1: go and eat a free meal and fill out a
- 33:31Speaker 1: report card and give feedback. But I never had any feedback.
- 33:34Speaker 2: It was I mean, wow, I really I think it's
- 33:38Speaker 2: you're too generous. I feel like I'm not. In the beginning,
- 33:43Speaker 2: Pantamonica had some issues.
- 33:44Speaker 1: No, well, I think every every members club, or every
- 33:48Speaker 1: restaurant or every hotel has kinks that they need to
- 33:52Speaker 1: work out in the beginning. And that's just that's the
- 33:55Speaker 1: that happens everywhere. That's not you know, anate to to
- 33:58Speaker 1: your club.
- 33:59Speaker 2: So thank you for understanding that. But of course, honestly,
- 34:03Speaker 2: a lot of people expect things to just be perfect,
- 34:06Speaker 2: and it's hard.
- 34:07Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, you have to know. But I'm curious, Jeff, So,
- 34:12Speaker 1: before you started building out Santacente and obviously Sunset Tower,
- 34:17Speaker 1: what were you doing and what inspired you to go
- 34:20Speaker 1: down this path in hospitality.
- 34:23Speaker 2: I always knew this was what I wanted to do
- 34:26Speaker 2: with my life. I never knew I was going to
- 34:28Speaker 2: own stuff. I started as a bellman. I graduated from college,
- 34:32Speaker 2: I had to get a job. I became a bellman.
- 34:34Speaker 2: I worked for this guy, Bernard Goldberg, who became my mentor,
- 34:40Speaker 2: ended up teaching me everything I really know. He's the
- 34:42Speaker 2: one who wouldn't let us open our own restaurants in
- 34:45Speaker 2: his hotels, and he was one of the pioneers of
- 34:48Speaker 2: the boutique hotel industry. There was really him, Ian Schrager
- 34:52Speaker 2: and this guy Bill Kimpton out of northern California. No
- 34:56Speaker 2: one else was doing small boutique hotels. And I worked
- 34:59Speaker 2: my way up from bellman and I became a front
- 35:02Speaker 2: desk manager and the housekeeping manager, and then I was
- 35:04Speaker 2: in sales and marketing, and then I became a general manager.
- 35:07Speaker 2: And then I you know, kind of was like mister
- 35:10Speaker 2: Goldberg's like right hand, I would say, And he sold
- 35:14Speaker 2: his company and me and my other boss who was
- 35:20Speaker 2: like his CEO, and this other guy, we opened up
- 35:24Speaker 2: our own hotel in two thousand and one in New
- 35:27Speaker 2: York City on forty fourth Street, and that was the
- 35:30Speaker 2: first hotel that I ever owned. Again. We leased out
- 35:33Speaker 2: the restaurant and then I bought the Sense of Tower
- 35:37Speaker 2: in two thousand and four. They couldn't give it away.
- 35:41Speaker 2: They kept on lowering the price. Nobody wanted it, nobody
- 35:44Speaker 2: had a vision for it. They at the time, it
- 35:48Speaker 2: was all about being trendy in hotels, like the mandri
- 35:51Speaker 2: On was the coolest hotel on earth, which was so
- 35:54Speaker 2: funny now because Mandrion like can't like Hilton just took
- 35:59Speaker 2: it over purely, and so you know, they said. Everybody
- 36:03Speaker 2: was like, you got to paint it white and put
- 36:05Speaker 2: a DJ in the lobby. And I was like, no, no, no,
- 36:07Speaker 2: this is going to be like this old It's going
- 36:10Speaker 2: to be like a West Coast version of the Carlisle
- 36:12Speaker 2: bit younger, and you know, and they're like, that's so dumb.
- 36:16Speaker 2: No one in la is sophisticated. And I mean, but
- 36:20Speaker 2: I was. I'm glad that I stuck with my vision
- 36:23Speaker 2: because it really did work. And then I bought the Samacente,
- 36:28Speaker 2: and that was also something that nobody wanted. You know,
- 36:32Speaker 2: I have to kind of find these spaces that nobody
- 36:35Speaker 2: wants because I can't, you know, when you're looking at
- 36:38Speaker 2: hotels unless they're really distressed. And usually when they're stressed,
- 36:43Speaker 2: it's for a reason. You're competing with like Katari shakes
- 36:50Speaker 2: and stuff. And you know, there's a lot of trophy
- 36:52Speaker 2: buyers in my world. So I can't compete with them
- 36:56Speaker 2: because it's really hard. I need to make money. I mean,
- 37:00Speaker 2: I have investors to pay, I have employees to pay,
- 37:03Speaker 2: you know, bank loans today, and so I need to
- 37:07Speaker 2: find value where no one else can find it. And
- 37:09Speaker 2: so part of that is seeing what no one else
- 37:11Speaker 2: can see. So when I bought the Sanma Sente West Hollywood,
- 37:16Speaker 2: it was a gay bath house. Trust me, there was
- 37:18Speaker 2: not one cute guy. If there were, I probably would
- 37:21Speaker 2: have just kept it what it was. It was like
- 37:24Speaker 2: it was. It was really grim. It was really like
- 37:27Speaker 2: a drug place, really grim.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Yeah good, I'm sorry.
- 37:36Speaker 2: And there was no trees or green or flowers. It
- 37:39Speaker 2: was just like a concrete courtyard and all those bungalows
- 37:43Speaker 2: which were really dilapidated, and so I brought all those
- 37:47Speaker 2: trees in there, most of them are over one hundred
- 37:49Speaker 2: years old, planted all those flowers everything, so I, you know,
- 37:57Speaker 2: I had you have to have a vision. The same
- 37:58Speaker 2: with Santa Monica. You know, Monica was a law office before.
- 38:02Speaker 1: I was trying to remember what was there before and
- 38:05Speaker 1: I couldn't.
- 38:06Speaker 2: I mean nothing, it was a law office. It was
- 38:08Speaker 2: you know, it was like really weird, cheap kind of
- 38:13Speaker 2: like those what are those It's like a wall that
- 38:16Speaker 2: doesn't go to the ceiling, but you have like like
- 38:18Speaker 2: so you can fit like thousands of people, you know. Yep.
- 38:22Speaker 2: But it had a gorgeous view of the ocean, which
- 38:24Speaker 2: is ironically so rare in La so weird that we
- 38:29Speaker 2: live on the Pacific Ocean and yet there's no real experiences,
- 38:33Speaker 2: hospitality experiences on the ocean.
- 38:36Speaker 1: The only time I look at the ocean and enjoy
- 38:39Speaker 1: the ocean in La is if I'm having dinner at SCB.
- 38:44Speaker 2: I love it. And the same with New York. You know,
- 38:46Speaker 2: New York. I bought it during COVID. The owner, especially
- 38:54Speaker 2: during COVID, was like I don't hear. You know, they
- 38:56Speaker 2: owned lots of hotels, Sean McPherson, Richard Bourne, and Rucker,
- 39:01Speaker 2: and they were like, we don't know what to do
- 39:04Speaker 2: with this one because it's shared bathrooms and COVID no
- 39:07Speaker 2: one wants to share bathroom and such tight quarters. And
- 39:10Speaker 2: I was like, I'll take it, and I mean, it's
- 39:14Speaker 2: a great location, is a great building, and it's historically
- 39:17Speaker 2: protected architecturally, which I love. If you look at all
- 39:22Speaker 2: my projects, they tend to have that Santa Monica doesn't
- 39:26Speaker 2: because it's you know, it's just Santa Monica is such
- 39:29Speaker 2: a new city, But the rest of them do have
- 39:32Speaker 2: historic protections, which I love, and so I have to
- 39:38Speaker 2: really find these kind of like jewels and understand how
- 39:41Speaker 2: to polish them to make them shiny and amazing.
- 39:45Speaker 1: Well, it's been doing a fantastic job. And I think
- 39:48Speaker 1: having started off your career as a bellman and then
- 39:52Speaker 1: working even in the housekeeping department and shadowing this huge
- 39:58Speaker 1: hotelia at the time, you really did see every sector
- 40:01Speaker 1: of the business and you spent time with people at
- 40:04Speaker 1: all levels, and that is why you are so good
- 40:06Speaker 1: at your job.
- 40:07Speaker 2: Thank you, Oh my god, you and my mom are
- 40:09Speaker 2: the only ones. I really feel that so strongly, but
- 40:12Speaker 2: thank you. No.
- 40:14Speaker 1: I think everyone across all industries, you have to start
- 40:17Speaker 1: at the bottom. I think if you want to work
- 40:19Speaker 1: in a people facing business, you have to go start
- 40:22Speaker 1: at the bottom. Be a bellman, Go work in a restaurant,
- 40:25Speaker 1: Go work in a hotel, Go babysit, go learn people,
- 40:28Speaker 1: and go learn hard work. And that's those are the
- 40:31Speaker 1: only areas you're going to really learn it in.
- 40:33Speaker 2: And also it's important to see what doesn't work. It's
- 40:36Speaker 2: like that's almost as important as what's seeing what does
- 40:40Speaker 2: work so that you can learn to avoid those mistakes.
- 40:43Speaker 2: And of course we still make mistakes because there's always
- 40:45Speaker 2: new stuff to screw up, but I think it's really important,
- 40:49Speaker 2: So I agree it's crucial.
- 40:51Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I want to ask, so, what are some
- 40:55Speaker 1: green flags for employees versus red flags for employees? If
- 41:00Speaker 1: you are hiring someone to come work with you.
- 41:04Speaker 2: That's really hard green flags versus red flags. I mean,
- 41:09Speaker 2: the employee thing is really tough, and it's only gotten tougher.
- 41:13Speaker 2: The biggest green flag for me is emotional intelligent intelligence.
- 41:19Speaker 2: You know, you can teach technical skills, but it's much
- 41:21Speaker 2: harder to teach instinct and warmth, self awareness, how to
- 41:26Speaker 2: read a room. Great hospitality people notice things before they're told,
- 41:32Speaker 2: and they anticipate needs, and they stay calm under pressure
- 41:37Speaker 2: and genuinely care about the guest experience without making it
- 41:40Speaker 2: feel performative, which is why Gabby is so successful in
- 41:44Speaker 2: this industry. I also love people who are naturally curious
- 41:49Speaker 2: and observant. Hospitality is really about paying attention. And you know,
- 41:55Speaker 2: the biggest red flags are entitlement. I mean that's a
- 41:59Speaker 2: huge one, something that we deal with a lot today.
- 42:03Speaker 1: And that can be true for an employee or a member,
- 42:05Speaker 1: a member feeling really entitled.
- 42:07Speaker 2: Oh yeah, anybody. Yeah. Absolutely, defensiveness ego, you know, gossip
- 42:14Speaker 2: about their last job when you're interviewing somebody is always
- 42:17Speaker 2: a red flag. People who blame everyone else for other things,
- 42:22Speaker 2: you know, as a good red flag. I am a
- 42:26Speaker 2: big kind of accountability person. I don't think there's anything
- 42:28Speaker 2: wrong with making a mistakes, but I'd like to own them.
- 42:33Speaker 2: Another red flag is when you know someone treats certain
- 42:36Speaker 2: people better than others, Like we were talking about with
- 42:38Speaker 2: assistance based on status. I think that's kind of not
- 42:41Speaker 2: a good sign of someone, you know, but real hospitality
- 42:47Speaker 2: should feel gracious and consistent with everyone.
- 42:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, and I think that also can be
- 42:53Speaker 1: true across the board. You know, I think when anyone
- 42:57Speaker 1: is interviewing someone on their team, they of course want
- 42:59Speaker 1: them to feel like they want to be there. There's
- 43:02Speaker 1: no ego. They aren't gossiping about who just is, who's
- 43:07Speaker 1: just left the restaurant, who's coming in tonight because a celebrity.
- 43:11Speaker 1: You know, that's obviously very important. Yeah, it's I think
- 43:16Speaker 1: it's universal. What about for members? So when someone is
- 43:20Speaker 1: applying to be a member, I guess who is the
- 43:23Speaker 1: ideal member candidate?
- 43:25Speaker 2: To you? I mean that's tough, because you know, we
- 43:30Speaker 2: want such diversity with the memberships. I mean it's not
- 43:34Speaker 2: it's definitely not necessarily the richest or the most famous
- 43:37Speaker 2: or the most powerful person room. It's it's really again,
- 43:40Speaker 2: it's someone who contributes positively to the energy. You know,
- 43:46Speaker 2: I think we look for interesting people, curious, respectful, socially
- 43:52Speaker 2: aware people who understand how to exist in a shared environment.
- 43:59Speaker 2: I think, you know, I think kindness and emotional intent,
- 44:06Speaker 2: emotional like intention and intelligence really matter a lot for
- 44:10Speaker 2: a member application. The You know, it's nice to you
- 44:17Speaker 2: have to be nominated by an existing member. So usually
- 44:20Speaker 2: we do get to meet a lot of the members
- 44:23Speaker 2: who are applying, and the membership team will write notes
- 44:26Speaker 2: about the people they meet, so like, if they're gracious
- 44:29Speaker 2: to staff, that says a lot, or if they're rude
- 44:32Speaker 2: to staff, that says a lot. We don't want people
- 44:34Speaker 2: there that are route to our team, you know.
- 44:37Speaker 1: Biggest red flag. Oh my gosh, biggest red flag in
- 44:40Speaker 1: the entire world. I think that's yeah, that's a big
- 44:44Speaker 1: no no for me.
- 44:45Speaker 2: But I mean, I think a great club should really
- 44:47Speaker 2: feel like a living ecosystem, you know, not a monoculture.
- 44:51Speaker 2: So it's like, we really want a mix of people,
- 44:55Speaker 2: different industries, different ages, different perspectives.
- 44:58Speaker 1: So okay, So and now I definitely understand the membership
- 45:02Speaker 1: process better. And I really think that you and all
- 45:07Speaker 1: of your employees do such a good job at making
- 45:08Speaker 1: everyone feel welcome and curating a room full of people
- 45:13Speaker 1: who are complete strangers. But somehow you just make it work.
- 45:16Speaker 1: I mean, I remember I was at the West Village
- 45:19Speaker 1: location last summer working and it was before or maybe
- 45:25Speaker 1: it was last prying. It was pre tap room being
- 45:27Speaker 1: turned into the tap room. When it was still a
- 45:28Speaker 1: co working space, and I was sitting at a table
- 45:31Speaker 1: right next to this guy Angelo, Justanto, who I'm sure
- 45:35Speaker 1: you know, and he overheard me talking about my job
- 45:38Speaker 1: and then he slithered over and said, I think we
- 45:40Speaker 1: could work together. I'm a travel agent and now I
- 45:43Speaker 1: send him a ton of clients. He's my own personal
- 45:46Speaker 1: travel agent. We are friends all because of your club.
- 45:50Speaker 2: Yes, I love that.
- 45:52Speaker 1: It was a very lovely meet cute story about samasonte
- 45:56Speaker 1: West Village.
- 45:57Speaker 2: So that's great.
- 45:58Speaker 1: I have you to thank for Angelo.
- 46:00Speaker 2: He's wonderful. He is really great.
- 46:02Speaker 1: Yes, but no, I think you guys are crushing it
- 46:05Speaker 1: and I feel very privileged to be a member and
- 46:08Speaker 1: keep doing exactly what you're doing.
- 46:10Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you.
- 46:12Speaker 1: Of course, what do you think sets your clubs apart
- 46:16Speaker 1: from the rest? So I mean I'm biased again, so
- 46:19Speaker 1: I love them all, But what do you think it
- 46:21Speaker 1: is personally that sets it apart from the rest of
- 46:25Speaker 1: the clubs out there? Because there's so many membership clubs
- 46:28Speaker 1: now in New York and Los Angeles.
- 46:30Speaker 2: I think, you know, we just we don't want to
- 46:33Speaker 2: be the biggest or the hottest club company. When I
- 46:36Speaker 2: say biggest, like most clubs. We want to be the
- 46:39Speaker 2: best and in select cities, and this means growing carefully,
- 46:44Speaker 2: and so I'm very We're very careful. We know who
- 46:48Speaker 2: our customer is, and we only want to open in
- 46:51Speaker 2: places that they're going to be and we only want
- 46:54Speaker 2: to deliver a product that they're going to really appreciate.
- 46:57Speaker 2: And when I say product, I mean like the physical space.
- 47:00Speaker 2: It's the location, the design, the menu, the level of service.
- 47:05Speaker 2: To me, I always love saying this. I'm obsessed with ames.
- 47:08Speaker 2: There's a really a really good podcast on amez if
- 47:12Speaker 2: you ever want to listen to it, but they air
- 47:16Speaker 2: mez is like this inspiration to me because they really
- 47:20Speaker 2: protect quality and scarcity instead of casing scale and hotness.
- 47:26Speaker 2: And I like to say to my team members all
- 47:30Speaker 2: the time, I'm always like, we do the same thing
- 47:32Speaker 2: with our membership and expansion, and this creates a very
- 47:35Speaker 2: different business. It's more permanent and a more discerning members,
- 47:41Speaker 2: a more discerning you know, base of members, higher retention,
- 47:46Speaker 2: and a lot of clubs you know, are really about
- 47:50Speaker 2: access or volume or status signaling. For me, the real
- 47:54Speaker 2: luxury is privacy and trust and inacy and curation. And
- 47:59Speaker 2: you know, we're just really careful about all these things,
- 48:02Speaker 2: and I think that's probably what separates us most importantly.
- 48:08Speaker 2: We protect the culture aggressively, and that's why the clubs
- 48:12Speaker 2: feel different.
- 48:13Speaker 1: Absolutely, And Gabby's monthly newsletter reminds everyone that if you
- 48:17Speaker 1: step out of line, you're out of here.
- 48:20Speaker 2: The rules are important. She loves following rules.
- 48:23Speaker 1: I mean, I think that's also what sets it apart. Right,
- 48:26Speaker 1: You guys actually care to the extent of, Hey, we
- 48:29Speaker 1: take this really seriously. And if you come to my
- 48:31Speaker 1: club and you take a photo of another guest dining,
- 48:34Speaker 1: or misbehave or do something that's really disrespectful, you're out
- 48:37Speaker 1: of here. And a lot of clubs, I think don't
- 48:39Speaker 1: take it as seriously, and I really respect the fact
- 48:42Speaker 1: that you do.
- 48:43Speaker 2: I agree, I absolutely agree with that. And you know,
- 48:47Speaker 2: privacy is part of what sets us apart. And so
- 48:50Speaker 2: if we're not enforcing it, like, how could it work
- 48:54Speaker 2: for the brand? So it's important to enforce and you know,
- 48:58Speaker 2: but the rules are important just in general. I mean,
- 49:01Speaker 2: you know, it's not just about taking photos or leaving
- 49:05Speaker 2: your guests unattended. That's another big no no. And you know,
- 49:10Speaker 2: every morning we get these reports and it's like if
- 49:12Speaker 2: people violate some of these rules, some of them are
- 49:14Speaker 2: just warnings. It depends what the rule is. I mean,
- 49:16Speaker 2: if you know, somebody answered their phone at the table
- 49:20Speaker 2: and then walked outside to take the call, we're not
- 49:22Speaker 2: going to like suspend them, but we would send a warning,
- 49:25Speaker 2: you know, just want to remind you. But if somebody
- 49:28Speaker 2: took a video of or a photo at the table,
- 49:31Speaker 2: we will absolutely supend them. We don't care who they are.
- 49:34Speaker 2: They can be, you know, the most famous person in
- 49:38Speaker 2: the world, but they still have to follow the rules.
- 49:42Speaker 1: Everyone asked all the rules. Yeah, besides Dimitri and Gabby,
- 49:47Speaker 1: do you have an assistant who helps you stay organized
- 49:51Speaker 1: so you can organized for everyone else and be.
- 49:54Speaker 2: Jeff Klein, Well, I do have an assistant, and I
- 49:59Speaker 2: probably couldn't find and we're without her at this point.
- 50:02Speaker 2: You know, she's What makes a great assistant isn't just organization.
- 50:07Speaker 2: It's like judgment and discretion and calmness under pressure, and
- 50:10Speaker 2: she's really great at that. I also have a CEO
- 50:18Speaker 2: of this guy, Jess Wilner, who's wonderful and he's really
- 50:24Speaker 2: great for me. We make a great team. I would say,
- 50:29Speaker 2: I think one of the most important things as a
- 50:31Speaker 2: founder is recognizing what you're good at and what you're
- 50:34Speaker 2: not good at. And I'm very creative and instinctive and
- 50:37Speaker 2: obsessive about experience, culture, design, atmosphere, all these things and
- 50:43Speaker 2: the emotional side of hospitality. But to build something real
- 50:47Speaker 2: and lasting, you also need operational rigor and systems and
- 50:51Speaker 2: structure and execution. And Jess, I really love working with him.
- 50:58Speaker 2: We really are a wonderful team, and I think the
- 51:04Speaker 2: healthiest partnerships are, you know, when there's mutual respect and
- 51:07Speaker 2: complementary strength, and we have that. Hospitality at this level,
- 51:13Speaker 2: it's just incredibly complex behind the scenes, and so having
- 51:17Speaker 2: a strong leadership around operations, communication and execution is critical.
- 51:21Speaker 2: And so I'm really lucky to have him. I really
- 51:26Speaker 2: really am fantastic. Yeah, I mean I feel really lucky
- 51:31Speaker 2: with like almost every ninety seven percent of everybody that
- 51:35Speaker 2: I work with. I'm really really lucky.
- 51:42Speaker 1: It's absolutely still.
- 51:43Speaker 2: I would be lying ifout it was like everybody's perfect,
- 51:46Speaker 2: because they're not, but ninety But you know, I always say,
- 51:50Speaker 2: like sometimes people are like, god, you know, this is tough,
- 51:53Speaker 2: and I'm like, yeah, Harvard's tough, but it's one of
- 51:56Speaker 2: the best schools. You know, if you want to work here, like,
- 51:59Speaker 2: it's not going to be like a walk in the
- 52:00Speaker 2: park where we if you know, somebody has to wait
- 52:04Speaker 2: too long for their drink, We're going to get upset.
- 52:06Speaker 2: Like that's not okay, that's not who we are as
- 52:08Speaker 2: a company. And you know, if if something isn't right,
- 52:12Speaker 2: if a sofa has a stain on it, like that's
- 52:15Speaker 2: somebody's responsibility and it's important.
- 52:20Speaker 1: Yeah, you really do care so much. I mean from
- 52:22Speaker 1: the couch stain to the drink time, to knowing people's
- 52:26Speaker 1: faces and saying hello and writing notes. I'm very impressed
- 52:29Speaker 1: chefs line thank you. So what advice would you give
- 52:33Speaker 1: someone who is, let's say, in their twenties figuring out
- 52:37Speaker 1: their life, maybe wants to grow up and become a
- 52:40Speaker 1: Jeff client, own a restaurant group, or own a hotel
- 52:44Speaker 1: group one day, or a members club.
- 52:46Speaker 2: I'd say, develop real taste and real conviction, and don't
- 52:51Speaker 2: just chase trends or copy other people and what's working today,
- 52:57Speaker 2: because everything that's working today, I promise you will not
- 53:00Speaker 2: be working tomorrow. And you know, the people who build
- 53:04Speaker 2: lasting brands usually have a very clear point of view
- 53:07Speaker 2: and the patience to stick with it, and details matter
- 53:11Speaker 2: more than you think, and tiny things compound, and the
- 53:14Speaker 2: way you answer emails, how you treat staff, how consistent
- 53:18Speaker 2: you are, whether people you know trust your standards. All
- 53:21Speaker 2: that becomes your reputation over time. And you know, these
- 53:26Speaker 2: are very important things. And finally, I would say, don't
- 53:28Speaker 2: confuse attention with success. A lot of things become popular
- 53:32Speaker 2: very quickly and disappear just as fast, and longevity is
- 53:37Speaker 2: much harder and much more valuable. And you know, we're
- 53:41Speaker 2: not trying to be the biggest, We're just trying to
- 53:43Speaker 2: be the best. And a lot of clubs, you know,
- 53:47Speaker 2: can't say that we're obsessive about atmosphere, every detail, lighting,
- 53:52Speaker 2: all this stuff. But most importantly, we protect, you know,
- 53:58Speaker 2: the culture. And I that's my advice to someone coming
- 54:02Speaker 2: in this business. You know, protect the culture aggressively. And
- 54:06Speaker 2: that's why the clubs feel different.
- 54:10Speaker 1: I think that's so important. I mean, you guys really
- 54:12Speaker 1: do such a good job at starting with the people
- 54:15Speaker 1: and making sure that everyone has the same cares about
- 54:20Speaker 1: the same things, and is aligned. And you crate amazing rooms.
- 54:24Speaker 1: And I do think that your clubs will be around forever.
- 54:27Speaker 1: I think SUV is gonna be is going to be
- 54:30Speaker 1: the last one standing. Honestly, I think it is fantastic.
- 54:34Speaker 1: It is my favorite. If anyone listening is curious about joining,
- 54:37Speaker 1: couldn't recommend more. Seriously, it is my own way from home.
- 54:42Speaker 2: I love that. I love that. Thank you. It really
- 54:45Speaker 2: means a lot to me. It's like music. Man, I
- 54:47Speaker 2: can't tell you, I never can get sick of hearing
- 54:49Speaker 2: Matt No.
- 54:49Speaker 1: I actually think I'm a Sanpa Sine poster child because
- 54:53Speaker 1: I use it for everything, my meetings, my work, dinners
- 54:58Speaker 1: and friends and family. It's whenever someone comes into town,
- 55:01Speaker 1: whether that's New York or LA, always bring them there.
- 55:04Speaker 1: And the SUV role is my favorite thing in the.
- 55:07Speaker 2: World, in the world, and you're using it exactly how
- 55:11Speaker 2: it was created to use. I mean, it's really supposed
- 55:13Speaker 2: to be a second home. And that makes me so happy.
- 55:17Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I don't have an office, so to
- 55:20Speaker 1: be able to go there as as a young entrepreneur,
- 55:23Speaker 1: to go to your club and to feel, oh my gosh,
- 55:26Speaker 1: I have the most luxurious office in the world.
- 55:30Speaker 2: That's great. That's great. Yeah, that's great.
- 55:33Speaker 1: So thank you, thank you.
- 55:35Speaker 2: I'm so much I'll see you in Santa Monica tonight.
- 55:37Speaker 1: Yes you will. Well, thank you so much, Jeff Klin.
- 55:42Speaker 1: I feel it is a total privilege, and I just
- 55:45Speaker 1: think the world of you and what you've built.
- 55:47Speaker 2: Is incredible and it's very reciprocal. I'm very at everything
- 55:52Speaker 2: that you've created and built and your podcast is wonderful
- 55:55Speaker 2: and really honored to be hon it.
- 55:56Speaker 1: So thank you, thank you. All right, Well, I'll see
- 55:59Speaker 1: you later.
- 55:59Speaker 2: Thanks you alright, dok soon Bye.