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Dirty Little Secret: “Should I Say Something… or Stay Out of It?” — When Secrets Stir the Circle · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to promise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 2: you listen if you want a thousand dollars to the
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  Speaker 2: mixed one or two point nine. Billy the Kid, Candice
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  Speaker 2: slow Pants producer. Who is here in your secrets anytime
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  Speaker 2: you want? Bring them? Eight three to three seven eight
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  Speaker 2: seven one o two nine. I don't care what the
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  Speaker 2: secret is. It's a non judgment zone. Yeah, some people
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  Speaker 2: get mad at me sometimes about that you weren't hard
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  Speaker 2: enough on them.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes it's both, Yeah you're too hard, So hard enough
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  Speaker 3: you judge, you didn't judge.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: If I'm too hard, then we're not going to be
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  Speaker 2: able to get anyone to call them for Dirty Little Secret, right,
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  Speaker 2: So I try to balance it out, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: say our opinions.
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  Speaker 3: But safe space.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah right. If I say, oh, you're ridiculous, you're a dummy,
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah, people are here. I'm not calling up
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  Speaker 2: for that. So eight three three, seven, eight seven, one
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  Speaker 2: oh two nine. And we love to hear your opinions,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, and I think that's why we do it.
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  Speaker 2: You can always call us, you can hit me up
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  Speaker 2: at Billy on the radio. Tell us what you think,
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  Speaker 2: your dirty little secret, you got one.
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  Speaker 1: So my friend is dating this new guy and we've
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  Speaker 1: only hung out a couple of times with him. He's
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  Speaker 1: pretty new, but he seems really great, super nice tweets here. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know, everything is good, so far, right good. I
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  Speaker 1: can't stop thinking about something I overheard a few days ago.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no, what happened? Give us the tea?
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  Speaker 1: You know, we all went to a mutual friend's house
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  Speaker 1: to have a little cookout and watch football, and she
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  Speaker 1: came with her new guy, and one of my other
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  Speaker 1: friends was like, I need to talk to you asap,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, what's up. He proceeds to tell
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  Speaker 1: me she knows this new girl, new guy up. My
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  Speaker 1: girlfriend's new guy. Yeah, And I'm like, okay, how so
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  Speaker 1: she's like one of my friends says that he holds
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  Speaker 1: up with him like more than once, and according to this.
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  Speaker 2: They dated hold on, oh he he he hooked up
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  Speaker 2: with him Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know whatever. You know, people are gonna do
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  Speaker 1: what they're gonna do.
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  Speaker 2: So wait, so let me let me run it down
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  Speaker 2: real quick. So this new guy that you're friends dating,
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  Speaker 2: another friend says, oh my god, I know this guy
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  Speaker 2: because I have a friend who says he hooked up
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  Speaker 2: with him. Oh yeah, which, there's nothing whatever. Whatever people
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  Speaker 2: want to do. It's twenty twenty five. Of course it's fine, right,
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  Speaker 2: but right? Is this weird to you? Or is it
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  Speaker 2: feel weird that I don't know that you should feel
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  Speaker 2: obligated to say something.
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  Speaker 1: That's the thing, like like do I mind my business?
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  Speaker 1: I kind of feel like I should say something like
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, Like I don't even
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  Speaker 1: know if it's true or not. But it's like it's
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  Speaker 1: a weird spot. Do I say something and let it
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  Speaker 1: go and pretend it's nothing like it just it feels
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  Speaker 1: weird to not say anything.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean so obviously old boys on the dal.
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  Speaker 1: Well you don't know that, or maybe you just buy right.
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  Speaker 2: You don't know what's going on in his life now,
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  Speaker 2: Jason five. I'll be honest, I don't think you do anything.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I hate to say that because you don't
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  Speaker 2: even know. By the way, your friend might know exactly
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  Speaker 2: what's going on with him in his situation. She just
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  Speaker 2: hasn't told you girls, so he might. She might go, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you might make this a big deal, and she goes yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I know, okay, and yeah, and then you look like
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  Speaker 2: and you look like your stern up drama. So if
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  Speaker 2: it were me, I might just go I didn't hear anything.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on. You do whatever you
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  Speaker 2: want to do. I don't know what's happening. What would
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  Speaker 2: you do? Canis anything?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 3: I mean I would talk about it unless someone unless
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  Speaker 3: like people in your group are like this is how
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  Speaker 3: they date down for whatever. But if you know, like
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  Speaker 3: most of them, aren't you.
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  Speaker 1: Know what I mean, some sort of like you know,
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  Speaker 1: I really came up, you know, like, yeah, don't you know?
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  Speaker 2: Your friends are like right, I guess. But what is it, Matten?
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  Speaker 2: Does it meant that she's dating a guy who might
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  Speaker 2: be by Does it matter?
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  Speaker 3: She would know if her if it would matter to
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  Speaker 3: her friend or not. If it doesn't, then it doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't say nothing.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't either me and you rarely are we on
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  Speaker 2: the same page.
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  Speaker 3: You never agree with me, but like, let'm just tell you,
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  Speaker 3: And what if it wasn't and they just knew the
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  Speaker 3: other friend that that person was with.
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  Speaker 2: Then when you say something you don't even know if
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  Speaker 2: it's true though, you don't even know if it's true,
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  Speaker 2: so you're gonna start talking about stuff you've heard, you know,
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  Speaker 2: hearsay this friend said this. It's all come on, we're
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  Speaker 2: growing up. The crazy person just talking and yap and
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  Speaker 2: it starting. I can't do that, and you.
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  Speaker 3: Know your circle more than anybody.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say anything. I'd tell another friend to say something.
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  Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, you say something, Yeah, who say something?
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  Speaker 2: That's what I would say. So you're leaning towards just
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  Speaker 2: kind of not saying.
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  Speaker 1: Anything my friend. Who right?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Or maybe that's what you say. Maybe like, hey, I
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  Speaker 2: don't want this to be weird, and I'm not saying
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  Speaker 2: there's anything wrong with him and his lifestyle, but I
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  Speaker 2: feel obligated as a friend to tell you this is
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  Speaker 2: is what I heard. I don't know if it's true
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  Speaker 2: or not.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I want to know someone's history if my
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  Speaker 3: friends know it either way, and no matter what it is,
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  Speaker 3: you do, Yeah, even if it's something about their job
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  Speaker 3: or their family or like the details.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well I don't blame you, I do.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't mean that because it's a guy.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, right, I'm not saying you're focused on that.
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  Speaker 2: You want to know if it was a girl that
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  Speaker 2: you knew, yeah, or a girl that you knew through
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  Speaker 2: a friend. Right, Okay, Well you know your friend better
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  Speaker 2: than anybody, so think about what you think she would
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  Speaker 2: want and then go from there. I will which we
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  Speaker 2: helped you nothing. We didn't help you at all.
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  Speaker 3: We can't always help.
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  Speaker 2: We can't. We're not. We can't fix everything, but we're
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  Speaker 2: here to listen to your and your problems and your secrets.
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  Speaker 2: So let us know what happens though, and give us
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  Speaker 2: a follow up if you can, and good luck.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it's just a different group chat over here.
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  Speaker 2: Start a group chat, that's right, just random gets it
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  Speaker 2: we're doing right now. Yeah, that's what we're doing. We
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  Speaker 2: could do that a start a group chat. Just send
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  Speaker 2: it out, hit send and yeah, forget it. Have the
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  Speaker 2: friend with the androids send it so they don't know
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  Speaker 2: who the green bubble is.
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  Speaker 3: Green bubble, Yeah, the green.
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  Speaker 2: Bubbles always causing drama. You know, good luck, okay, all right,
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  Speaker 2: thanks you