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Baby Fever · Second Date Update

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  All right, time for second Date Update on Kiss ninety five seven. It's
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  Courtney Walmer, Jeff and Savannah. I think we're headed to South Windsor to
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  talk with Carla. She went on a first date and now she's getting ghosted.
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  Gotta get the answers. Good morning, Carla, Good morning, Hey,
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  welcome to second Date Update. I cannot wait to hear about this great
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  first date you went on. Yeah, it was, honestly, it was
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  like so amazing. It was one of those like connecting ones, like the
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  vibe were just they were so flowing, like you know, we met at
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  this brewery and then our date was at the brewery and we just sat and
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  talk for like hours. Oh my gosh, I love that. And you
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  know what, it's like perfect. This is a time of year that's perfect
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  to sit at a brewery or a winery. Yeah, did you do anything
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  after the brewery? If you know what I mean? Wink wink, geff.
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  No, I don't think, Like he was just such a gentleman,
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  you know. It was just like great like deep conversations and like, I
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  just I had a great time. I like texted all my friends. Oh
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  oh my gosh. Okay, well you texted all your friends. Have you
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  texted him since the date? Yeah, so I have, and like I
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  haven't had a response back, which is like the issue because I just I
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  don't know, maybe like I have, I don't know. I just don't
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  know what happened. All right, So you're getting ghosted. You felt the
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  connection, there was an attraction, the fact that you sat there and chatted
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  for hours. Something's up. Yeah, I think he would have like reached
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  out to you that day or even the next day. So this is what
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  we're gonna do, Carler. We're gonna call Jordan and we're gonna ask him.
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  Just be honest and tell us about the date. If you're ready to
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  find out why you're getting ghosted, we're gonna make the call. Yeah.
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  I think it's just I think it's a mistake or something. Okay, all
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  right, we're gonna call it Jordan right now, because this sounds like a
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  great date at a brewery for hours. Now she's getting ghosted, Savannah,
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  Right, Yeah, I don't know. I mean I feel like there's always
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  there's always something. I wonder we didn't ask she drank too much? All
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  right? Oh? Maybe or maybe he did. Hi is Jordan there?
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  Hi? Jordan's calling. Hey Jordan, it's Courtney. It's Walmart Jeff.
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  Hey, Jordan's Savannah. You're on the air. You're on Kiss ninety five
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  seven. Good morning, Good morning. I probably should tell you why you're
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  on the radio this morning. How Jordan, I am curious. You're on
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  a future we do called second date update. That's basically if somebody goes on
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  a first date and they really had a great time, but they get ghosted
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  and they want to know why they're getting ghosted. We're like the middleman,
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  and so that's why we're calling you because Carla called us to tell us,
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  tell us about the date you guys went on. She said, it was
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  amazing brewery. You sat and you talked for hours. She's reached out to
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  you. She would love to see you again, but now you're ghosting her.
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  Well, okay, so I remember this date. It was it was
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  okay, that's because we went to a brewery and I just really really liked
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  beer. Okay, she was, I mean, the conversation was good,
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  but I he was very like. The conversation was very focused on having children.
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  She asked me, if you know, you know she talked about how
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  bad she wants to have kids, and I was just like, you know,
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  I don't think. I don't know that I want to have kids.
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  She just kept pushing and saying, like, you know, well, why
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  don't you want to have kids? Like you should probably get we're at prime
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  kid having age, you know. And I was just not really interested in
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  that part of the conversation, but it always kept circling back to that,
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  and it just seemed like it was a pretty important point for her. So
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  Jordan, she told us, you guys had deep conversation, but she was
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  I think she's thinking the deep conversation was good, and you're thinking it's a
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  little too deep. It's first date. We're having beer. Yeah. I
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  mean, I don't even really mind deep conversation all that much. It's just
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  the fact that, like she seemed to have a pretty intense desire to have
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  children in the very near future on how much she was bringing it up in
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  the conversation, you know, And I was just like really kind of put
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  off by that, and it seemed like I was I was feeling pretty pressured,
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  and I was just like, I don't think this is right. Oh,
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  I just baby chat. It's not good ladies on a first date I'm
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  just saying, can I listen, Jordan, I gotta be honest. Carla's
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  listening in Carla too much baby talk. Listen. I don't understand, Jordan,
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  because it's not that you said that you didn't want kids. You said
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  you didn't want to raise children. And I don't think that's a deal breaker
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  because like I mean, I know, it's really contemporary for everyone to do
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  it together now, but like I grew up where my mom raised me and
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  my dad went off to work, So like it just doesn't make sense because
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  like what you're gonna have, You're gonna have no kids. He's gonna take
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  care of you. Like that does don't make any sense. Like I mean,
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  I don't know. I just again, I mean look like I mean,
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  you're you're doing it again right now, like you're trying to exact that
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  like having kids is the right thing to do. I mean, it's just
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  what I want. It's like, you know, yeah, but that's like
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  your purpose on this planet. Like I don't under I don't know understand.
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  I think we have very different ideas of our purposes on this planet. Hey,
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  Carla, so funny this actually comes up. So I'm engaged. I'm
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  gonna be getting married in my fiance and I have this conversation because I'm the
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  one that's not sure if I want to have kids, And it's really unfair
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  of you, you know, to pressure him, like, if that's something
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  that you want, then then do it. Then maybe this he isn't the
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  guy for you, but it's not fair for you to like bully him into
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  it. Well, I don't think that I'm bullying him into it, like
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  I'm just looking for a little bit more of a timeline on that. Okay,
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  well it was. Can I just jump in just two things. I
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  just have to say two things. The first thing is, Carla, it's
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  a first date. We probably shouldn't talk about babies on the first date.
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  So I can understand Jordan being no. And Savannah, you are having kids
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  because we need another baby in the studio. I will pressure the hell out
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  of you anyway, all right. So but I get it, Carla.
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  The minute we brought you on, you started yelling at him again about kids.
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  I just I think you guys are probably just in two different I get
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  it. Kids are important, and I think you're just at two different points.
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  Like I feel like, Carla, you are ready to go in and
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  be a mommy. Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm tired of waiting.
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  Okay, I get that too, And I think that if I think Jordan,
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  you're you're not at that point. So it is just clearly not a
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  love match. It is definitely not a love match. Okay, all right,
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  Well then there you go. You got your answers, Carla, and
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  I wish you both well get back out there. You will definitely find your
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  love matches. I'm sure of it. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, guys,