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EXCLUSIVE with Kiki Barth: RHOM's Breakout Star · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well. Rain drops on today's episode of Reality
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  Speaker 1: with the King. I am so thrilled because I get
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  Speaker 1: to have an exclusive conversation with the Beauty of Miami.
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  Speaker 1: She is like the fan favorite. She is the one
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  Speaker 1: we all love. We all want her to be a
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  Speaker 1: Give it up for the one, the only, my girl,
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  Speaker 1: the most gorgeous thing walking the streets of Miami. He
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  Speaker 2: What an introduction you deserve it all. I promise guys,
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  Speaker 2: I did not tell him to shout out like this,
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  Speaker 2: But thank you so much. Callers. You know I love
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  Speaker 2: you so much. I admire you so much. I've been
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  Speaker 2: watching you for many years. To have been sitting here
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  Speaker 2: It's like a dream come true.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so sweet of you. Now listen, it's a dream
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  Speaker 1: of mine to have you here. I love you so much.
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  Speaker 1: We folly trumble on social media. I think you are
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  Speaker 1: something amazed and I am so grateful that you said
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  Speaker 1: yes to coming on the podcast. So I want to
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  Speaker 1: say thank you for that.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't say no. I mean, I'm be Carlos. Of
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  Speaker 2: course when where I'm there, Niked, I'll show up. Har
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  Speaker 2: you on me. I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you have the clothes and you look good.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. Well you asked me to come looking decent,
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  Speaker 2: or that's my t would have been out.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to get started with you. Listen. This
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  Speaker 1: season is season seven of the Real Housewives of Miami's
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  Speaker 1: Off the Chain. But before we get into into that, obviously,
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  Speaker 1: this season also has opened up you to the world
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  Speaker 1: in terms of your backstory, and I, along with the audience,
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  Speaker 1: we're so grateful and thankful that we are getting to
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  Speaker 1: know you a little bit deeper. So just talk to
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  Speaker 1: me about that, like what was your decision in telling
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  Speaker 1: us like who key Key really is?
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  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, we must free I'm so sorry,
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  Speaker 2: comes father God Evernily King, We thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: What it is beautiful today. We are grateful for having
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  Speaker 2: us here. Please guide us, help us speak only the truth.
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  Speaker 2: Got us with widom, clarity, wisdom, clarity, and help us
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  Speaker 2: to be honest and speak our truth. And for anybody
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  Speaker 2: energy that has been sent to us, we ask you
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  Speaker 2: to please rebuke it and help us help us. What's
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  Speaker 2: what I'm looking for? Just help us transmute it and
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  Speaker 2: bring everything back to a positive energy. I'm calling Okay
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  Speaker 2: and John Michael to please guide us and protect us
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  Speaker 2: and remove any blackages that we turn our way, and
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  Speaker 2: help us only speak the truth, nothing but the truth.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you God. Amen.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Wait, so you're very spiritual.
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  Speaker 2: I am very spiritual, and I'm kind of weird a
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  Speaker 2: lot of like I know, you guys see me on
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  Speaker 2: the show where I'm super like fun, but I'm kind
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  Speaker 2: of like a learner most of the time. Like I
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  Speaker 2: held trees, speak to the beach. I can spend hours
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  Speaker 2: on the beach, talk to the sunrise sun said. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I like spending time with myself. And yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like a praier warrior too, and people don't really
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  Speaker 2: see that side of me, but they just seem like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: she's crazy. I'm like only if you know on my
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  Speaker 2: phone it's all like praise. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Is that something that you were doing as a little
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  Speaker 1: girl growing up in Haiti with your family? Was that
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  Speaker 1: like embedded in you from your mom?
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  Speaker 2: I started, I started as a Christian and then yeah,
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  Speaker 2: from my mom's side. My dad was never really a
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  Speaker 2: church type of person. My mom still is, by the way,
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  Speaker 2: but I feel like in my team, it was like
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  Speaker 2: in and out. You know. I've been through a lot
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  Speaker 2: of churches. Some of them we can say cold, you know,
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  Speaker 2: but no one really know that side. But I mean
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  Speaker 2: sometimes when things happen to you in life and they
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  Speaker 2: kind of put you in such a dark path, you
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  Speaker 2: don't have anything else to rely on but prayers. And
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  Speaker 2: I can manifest that through prayers. I get me through,
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  Speaker 2: And especially now, I only really mainly lean on prayers now.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm always praying.
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  Speaker 1: I know people find it, but no, I'm the same
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  Speaker 1: way I pray. I pray like hundreds of time today. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm always talking to God. I'm always you know, thank you, oh.
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  Speaker 2: For sure for sure, because I just God, you know,
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  Speaker 2: your your guides and your ancestors. Also they with you.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yeah, yes, my mom's in heaven along with
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  Speaker 1: my grandmother's grandfather's. My grandmother's birthday was yesterday. I told her, like,
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  Speaker 1: happy birthday. I think you're celebrating. So I agree with you.
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  Speaker 1: I think it keeps you connected to a to just
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  Speaker 1: like a higher power source.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: No, but I love that about it.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people don't understand. All you have to
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  Speaker 2: do is just like call on your you know, just
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  Speaker 2: you call on them. They there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you are gorgeous, Like as a little Haitian girl,
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  Speaker 1: did you know that you were a beautiful person? Like
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  Speaker 1: were you aware of like how stunning you are?
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  Speaker 2: Actually?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: Growing up in Haiti, I was always called Zopope, which
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  Speaker 2: is it's almost like a little Barbie but skinny, which
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  Speaker 2: and Haiti, the way I was raised, being skinny was
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  Speaker 2: not really a thing. So I used to get picked
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  Speaker 2: on a lot. But there was always two group. One
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  Speaker 2: group kind of like telling me, oh you too skinny,
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  Speaker 2: your eyes my eyes like very watery. They will call
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  Speaker 2: me out. But then you have another group that like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, like you could totadly be like ceiling
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  Speaker 2: gion you can be a model, you can this, you
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  Speaker 2: can that. So that vision I always because the thing is,
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  Speaker 2: I've learned to learn how to remove the negativity and
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  Speaker 2: focus on the positivity because if two sides of people
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  Speaker 2: telling you wrong and right, I try to stick with
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  Speaker 2: the right side that's telling me, oh, you know, when
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  Speaker 2: you get to the US, you can always you know.
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  Speaker 2: So it become a dream like Okay, well here in Haiti,
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  Speaker 2: they're literally mocking me because I have long legs, i'm skinny.
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  Speaker 2: But then there's another group that's like, when you go
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  Speaker 2: to the US, you're gonna be making, You're gonna be big,
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna this, You're gonna that. So I always knew
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna be somebody. I just didn't know that
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  Speaker 2: I will have to go through all that chaos to
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  Speaker 2: get here where I am today. And this is just
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  Speaker 2: the beginning because I'm a very positive person and it's
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  Speaker 2: gonna happen. You just have to keep manifesting it. And
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  Speaker 2: I'm very strong. I'm manifesting my own life because I've
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  Speaker 2: been to space where I don't even know how I
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  Speaker 2: make it out, but I read it through and look
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  Speaker 2: where I am today.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're doing so well, when you came to America,
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  Speaker 1: How old were you?
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  Speaker 2: I was thirteen going on fourteen, and I tell people
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  Speaker 2: it's fourteen, but thirteen going on fourteen because I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: it's like when you're like middle age, you big one. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Was it a culture shock for you? Were you like,
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  Speaker 1: did you love it where you were?
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  Speaker 2: You?
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  Speaker 1: Were you frightened when you came to America?
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  Speaker 2: Was it? I was supposed to come here as well?
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  Speaker 2: First of all, I was one of the smartest girl
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  Speaker 2: in school in Haiti. I was like first in my class.
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  Speaker 2: I was like one of those students that you skip
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  Speaker 2: certain classes because I was so smart. You know. My dad,
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  Speaker 2: my dad had his life together in Haity, was a businessman.
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  Speaker 2: I was in private school. Life was good and Haiti.
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  Speaker 2: So my dad's main thing was we're gonna bring her
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  Speaker 2: to the US. Just I was supposed to come here
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  Speaker 2: for three months. Three months, that's it. And when when
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  Speaker 2: I decided to come and I stayed with my stepmother,
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  Speaker 2: she was only supposed to have me for three months,
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  Speaker 2: and I think when my dad ended up changing his mind,
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  Speaker 2: that's when things changed. Also because she was expecting me
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  Speaker 2: to only be at the house for three months. And
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  Speaker 2: then here I am now decided to be like, oh
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  Speaker 2: we're going to school, we're staying here, and yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, So you get your brains from your dad.
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  Speaker 1: You think what your brains, your smartness, your business is
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  Speaker 1: not what you know.
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  Speaker 2: I'm I'm learning to become a business person, you know.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, some of us we have to be the
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  Speaker 2: face of the businesses. Not all of us were, you know,
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  Speaker 2: But I've been. I've been the faces of many businesses,
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  Speaker 2: but I haven't really explored that side yet. And nothing
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  Speaker 2: to hide, you know. Some of us are better in businesses,
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  Speaker 2: some of us are. We we have to learn, you know.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm surrounding myself with groups of people not that
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  Speaker 2: I can learn from because I always tell this. I
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  Speaker 2: even say this to Mary, so it's never too late
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  Speaker 2: to learn. And it's no. No question is a dumb
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  Speaker 2: question because no matter how crazy it sounds, does the
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  Speaker 2: person don't know? Because that's why they're asking. All you
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  Speaker 2: have to do just answer, don't mark them, don't in
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  Speaker 2: front of them. Just because you know the answer doesn't
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  Speaker 2: mean that everyone have to know the answer. So I'm
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  Speaker 2: not afraid to ask questions. I always ask questions, and
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  Speaker 2: I'll be a business woman some day. But right now
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  Speaker 2: I'm learning.
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  Speaker 1: When you came to America, where the.
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  Speaker 2: Kids did you said America?
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  Speaker 1: America?
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  Speaker 2: You said America America?
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  Speaker 1: I think your mind I was English silent? Now you
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  Speaker 1: ca America? There you go. Were the kids nice to you?
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  Speaker 2: The kids were always, oh, like general kids on my life,
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  Speaker 2: like the kids in school?
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  Speaker 1: Like was it? Were they nice to you? Did you
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  Speaker 1: get bullied?
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  Speaker 2: I remember the kids were nice in general. Because I
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  Speaker 2: feel like when I came here as a teenager, it's
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I kind of started looking cute,
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  Speaker 2: like a little you know, just a little bit of
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  Speaker 2: I don't They were not mean, okay, And I didn't
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  Speaker 2: speak English. I still don't speak English.
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  Speaker 1: So wait, when you came to America from Haiti as
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  Speaker 1: a thirteen and a half year old girl, you spoke
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  Speaker 1: no English, of course not.
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  Speaker 2: I don't speak French. I don't speak English. And mind
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  Speaker 2: you and Haiti, if you don't speak French, it's almost
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  Speaker 2: like you're like from the lowest class. That's how they
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  Speaker 2: classify it. So I mean, my dad put me in
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  Speaker 2: the best school. I could have learned friends, but I
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  Speaker 2: don't know, I just felt like it was not easy.
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  Speaker 2: I can read it, I can write it, but for
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  Speaker 2: some strange reason, it's very hard to speak it. So
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  Speaker 2: I was always a strong creol speaking person. And you know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I came here the people were not
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  Speaker 2: too mean, but I can't complain unless you were not
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  Speaker 2: horrible to me. I'm not gonna complain about that.
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  Speaker 1: So how did you learn English.
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  Speaker 2: From people's mouth? I mean a little bit in school,
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  Speaker 2: but I tried to. Here's the thing with a lot
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  Speaker 2: of Haitian people, when they come here, they stick together.
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  Speaker 2: And since a little girl, especially after I got kicked out,
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  Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, one thing I'm not
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  Speaker 2: gonna do. I'm already the black ship of the family.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna make friends that speak no Creole, and I
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  Speaker 2: don't care if I understand or not what they're saying.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still gonna go ahead and hang out with them.
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  Speaker 2: And that's how I learned. And it's still bad today,
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  Speaker 2: but still I can have conversations. I just super heavy accent,
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  Speaker 2: and you know, sometimes my word get miss misconstrued or
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  Speaker 2: lost in translation. And this is why if I'm speaking
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  Speaker 2: to you, if you interrupt me, I lose what I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to say because I need to take time to
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  Speaker 2: process the word that I'm trying to say. And some
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  Speaker 2: of the girls on the show they helped me. Sometimes.
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  Speaker 2: Mary Soil has been a very good helper, and sometimes
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  Speaker 2: she's like, no, Kiki, that's not how you say. This
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  Speaker 2: is how I say it. And some people will get upset.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm like, no, this is great ive datement and
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  Speaker 2: they correct me. I love that, but I know some
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  Speaker 2: people they'll pubably take offense to it. I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I love to learn. It's okay.
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  Speaker 1: Why did you get kicked out?
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  Speaker 2: I got kicked out because first of all, I felt
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  Speaker 2: like my stepmother really didn't want me there because she
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  Speaker 2: was expecting me to come for the three months and
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  Speaker 2: I ended up staying. And second that's when I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you know what, I really remember what they were saying,
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  Speaker 2: and Haiti that you could be a model and that
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  Speaker 2: maybe I should kind of like try to explore it,
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  Speaker 2: and me exploring it. You know, when you're here, you
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  Speaker 2: don't really know how to start modeling. You don't have
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  Speaker 2: to go to an agency, so you kind of like
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  Speaker 2: I was using model Mayhem, like, you know, trying to
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  Speaker 2: find photographers to shoot with and I'm shooting and someone
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  Speaker 2: will be like, no, you have to shoot like this,
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  Speaker 2: stopless or this and that, and then I was just
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  Speaker 2: excited showing the pictures, like look, I'm going to be
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  Speaker 2: a model, and she just didn't like it. And I
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  Speaker 2: remember my dad was traveling back and forth. He wasn't
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  Speaker 2: Haiti at the time, and she called him and said, look,
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  Speaker 2: she's literally going out there. She's turning into a prostitute,
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  Speaker 2: she's becoming she's taking naked photos. She's that And my
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  Speaker 2: dad just said. She didn't even talk to me. He
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  Speaker 2: just said kick her out. But that's saysan parents. But
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  Speaker 2: for me, I didn't talk to my dad for a
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  Speaker 2: little bit over ten years because of that. That's because
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  Speaker 2: I felt like you could have at least listened to
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  Speaker 2: my side. You did not listen to my side of
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  Speaker 2: the story. You just listen if he had just give
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  Speaker 2: me a chance to explain, because at that time, I
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  Speaker 2: always I also felt like people never let me explain myself.
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  Speaker 2: And it's still happening to these days. It's like, this
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  Speaker 2: is why I don't talk, because I'm like, well, who's
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  Speaker 2: gonna believe me anyway, so might as well just whatever.
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  Speaker 2: So so I've learned to just let things go and
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  Speaker 2: just be like, I know my truth. But yeah, my dad,
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  Speaker 2: he didn't listen to me. So and I said, if
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  Speaker 2: you're gonna treat me like that, then I will not
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  Speaker 2: talk to you. And once I say I cut you off.
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  Speaker 2: My cutting game is very strong, especially if I feel
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  Speaker 2: like I didn't do anything wrong. And I don't care
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  Speaker 2: if you're my dad, my mom, sometime your family. You
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  Speaker 2: don't know what kind of deities, what kind of monetary
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  Speaker 2: spirit is going inside them that turns them into demands
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  Speaker 2: or I don't know, just because they're your dad or
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  Speaker 2: your sister or they doesn't mean that this person is
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  Speaker 2: for you. Could have been someone from your past life
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  Speaker 2: coming you make your life miserable. I don't know. But
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  Speaker 2: all I know my cutting, I love it. I will
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  Speaker 2: preach no, but that's what I'm saying, Like, sometime you
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  Speaker 2: be your own people, yeah, and I will cut you off.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and not think twice about it.
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  Speaker 2: That's me.
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  Speaker 1: I love that about you. So here you are you
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  Speaker 1: in America. So when you came to America, who was
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  Speaker 1: with you?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm the first child, so I was born
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  Speaker 2: before marriage. So my dad met my mom when they
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  Speaker 2: were super young. My mom ended up getting pregnant her
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  Speaker 2: mom her family because her mom died when she was
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  Speaker 2: eight years old. Her family kicked her out, so she
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  Speaker 2: had to go live with my dad family. So living
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  Speaker 2: with my dad family, they kind of didn't really like
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  Speaker 2: her because she was not the rich, beautiful girl that
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  Speaker 2: they wanted my dad to end up with. So my
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  Speaker 2: mom had On the same day my mom had me,
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  Speaker 2: my dad ended up coming to America. Like he literally
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  Speaker 2: stopped at the hospital, saw my face and came to
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  Speaker 2: the US. Coming to the US many many years later,
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  Speaker 2: he became a US citizen, went by to eighty with
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  Speaker 2: his new wife, and my mom is like sitting with me,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like, well, I never broke up with you,
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  Speaker 2: but this is my new wife. Everyone and Haitian people,
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  Speaker 2: any Haitian was watching this will know the way they
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  Speaker 2: are is if you come from America, they kind of
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  Speaker 2: already put you up there. So my mom stood no chance.
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  Speaker 2: So to this day, my dad never say to my
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  Speaker 2: mom we break up or it just it just happened. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: So this is what it is now. My mom is
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  Speaker 2: here with me, who cares. And another thing that my
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  Speaker 2: dad did that was funny to me, which was not funny.
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  Speaker 2: But I remember coming here and I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 2: you're bringing me here, so maybe my mom is next.
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  Speaker 2: He was like no, no, no, no, no, I'm bringing you here.
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  Speaker 2: Your mom now become your responsibilities. And this is where
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  Speaker 2: it gets stuff when I got kicked out, because I
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  Speaker 2: had not only had to provide for myself, I had
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  Speaker 2: to also provide for my mom. That will start over there.
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  Speaker 2: So with all of that working and stuff, I never
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  Speaker 2: really had a chance to even go to college because
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: work become my main focused so and I think part
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: of that is with my language barrier two, which yeah.
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Where did you go we got kicked out?
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: I went to my Auntie Anti Monique and Bumbach home
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: and Aunti Monich was really really nice, but the thing
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: with her she had already had her tribe of children,
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: so she can give me a place to stay, but
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: she couldn't really take care of me. And that's when
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: I started working at Burger King, and Burger King has
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: been good to me until it was not. I still
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: love Burger King, but he wasn't very He was the
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: people that works at Burger King. As a little girl,
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: they see you, then they pray on you, not pray
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: on you, p r e y And as a youngerl
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: you know, like I don't know any better. And then
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I had to like go to work and they'll put
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: me in like the worst shift ever, like the worst
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: shift with like one am. I'm like walking back home
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: just so for them to try to you know, and yeah, yeah,
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: that was a tough time.
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show. We got a tough
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: life kick here.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but look where you got me. You know, sometimes
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: it's when you go through the toughest time. It's even
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: my dad said this, he broke the football you'll see
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: in one of the episodes. He was like, well, my
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: dad is sarcastic, just like me. Did I say that right? Sarcastic?
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: He was like. I was like, yeah, that you kicked
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: me out you this and that. He was like, well
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: look where he got you. Look at all the cameras around.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: Thanks the.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Credit for That's not the best way to take credits,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: but it is what it is.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: What was modeling like for you, Like were you a
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: part of like the world world, where like Tyra and
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Naomi were like at the top of the game.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: No, this is the thing with modeling. I feel like
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: just because there's different levels today, right, just because you're
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: not in Naomi doesn't mean that you're not a working model.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: You know, some girls make so much money, but they're
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: just not on the cover of every magazine. They're just
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: not on the face of every billboard. But they still
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: getting all these jobs coming in and they're making millions.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: So I was in the space where I was making
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: a lot of money and I was booking a lot,
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: like I made a leading through modeling. But I feel
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: like I was the now Mi Kemball of Haiti. Yeah,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: that's that's the way to put it, because every single
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Hitian you know, will be like, this is our Haitian
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: now Me Kemball. Yeah, So I mean, I mean they
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: have now Me here Haiti.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Guys, kick be clear clock that. So, how did the
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Miami come about?
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Well? I will tell you, But first, did you also
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: know I did beauty pageant? You did? I represent Hates
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: so well? I was one of the first ones. Yes,
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I did. But anyway, how did the Real Housewave of
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Miami came about? I? I okay, for Gertie's fortieth birthday.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: She was tending forty. I was I was with well
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: not whatever. For Gertie's fortieth birthday, she had this huge party.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: She ended up connecting with me on social media on Instagram,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: and she was like, hey, you fabulous, Oh my god,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: you Haitian. I'm Haitian. You want to hang out, I'm
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: doing this party like. She was super lovely, and I
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: ended up going to the party. I met her there
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: and then that was the time that we hang out,
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: and then I went home and I ended up moving
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: from Miami to Europe. So as I was in Europe,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I was engaged. I was over there living my life
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: and I made it's an Instagram post talking about it's
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: my birthday. I got flowers. I got this because I
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: don't show up. I don't show so if you're never
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: gonna find my personal stuff in my story, but if
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: it's my birthday, I'm like, oh, I got rosies. I
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: got this because I'm not the tap that will open
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: the shoe box and be like, look, I got new shoes.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: You won't know if these shoes are from twenty nineteen,
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: or if they do you say twenty nineteen, yeah, or
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: if they're from twenty twenty five. So she basically saw
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: my post and she was like, oh my god, Kiki
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: like we She pretty much recommended me to cast for
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: the for the show.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: So when she saw your polls.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: She forgot that. She was like, oh my god, you
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: fabulous you you Haitian, you engage, You'll be greatfu for it.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: And I was like no, I'm like I'm too private
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: for this. This is like no, I'm not going back
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: to America. And she was like no, no, no, no, no, no,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: no no, no, you should try. You should try. So did
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: the first casting and they loved me right away, and
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: then you know, it's a whole process, but these were
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: like the first step, like if you didn't like get
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: if these people didn't want you, wouldn't even get to
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: the whatever, you know. So fast forward they wanted it,
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: and I was like, how did I get this? Because
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I don't think I'm funny, you know, like yeah, I'm
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: like okay. So then I decided things were not working
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: for me over there, and I ended up moving back
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: to Miami and yeah, and that's how I got referred
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: to the show. It's still girty wow wow. But I
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: came in as large as friend.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: That's gonna be. It was weird because I, first of all,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: let's be clear, Miami Housewise is that girl. Yes, I
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: was speachless. This show was good. So I've been watching.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a very good girl.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: No shade to the first iteration of it. The first
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: two or three seasons, I tried to get into it.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: It just it just it's just no. But then it
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: was off the air for seven years and then it
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: came back and I'm like living in Miami at the time,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I was living here. I was living here,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and I was like, let me see these girls are doing.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: And the first episode I said, oh, this show was everything.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: So that's why I'm surprised. I didn't know Gerdy referred
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: you to this show because you came in as Larcen's friends.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Well, there's your whole back story to it. Okay, it's
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: like your whole backstory. So when me and Gerty were
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: supposed to start the show everything, it was like, We're
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: so excited the two Haitian girl, we gotta gold with queens,
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: with this, with that, and then it kind of take
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: a left turn. I think part of it was because
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: like I, you know, I spoke cruel to her. That's
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: that's my understanding. I think she got upset with me.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: The reason I think part of that is I spoke
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Criel to her and and she did not like that.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know what her side is because I'm from
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: what I'm hearing. There's a whole other side of it,
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: but this is my truth. And from that she just
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: decided she was like, well, I don't want to you know.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: We were this was this on camera or.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: It was off well, me speaking Creel to it was
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: on camera. I never made it to the exactly. But
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: then it just I was like, wow, we not together,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: you know. I was just asking questions and I find
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: out like and I was like, okay, well the other
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: girls are my friends too, so and that's how I
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: ended up getting very close with larsa closer because I
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: had already know some of the girls. I got closer
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: to Larsa, a, Mayito and Alexia. And this is why
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: if you go back for the three seasons, you're gonna
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: always see Gerdie, Nicole, and Julia together.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: And I was always with the other people, and this
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: is why now it's like, ok is kissing me. I'm like,
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: but if you look back. These are the girls that
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: I was always with, And it's not that I'm kissing
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: their follows. These girls not only they've been having my back,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: but I fight them too. You don't get to see everything,
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: you know how it is like it's a big it's
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: a big gas Like it's like, what forty five minutes too,
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: it's big. You don't get to see everything. So, yeah,
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: that's what happened.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Did she explain to you why you spreaking creole to
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: her offended her?
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Not really, you can ask her that. But so you
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: felt the distance, Well, it's not that there was a distance.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: It was like I just felt like while we not, like,
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: wh are we not doing scenes? And I find out,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: oh and just look back for the three season and
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: look back. But we worked it, we walk through it,
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: We'll walk through it fast forward to this season. We
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: were like, you know what, Nicole decided not to be around,
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: not to be around, and we were like, you know,
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: everyone's asking for both of us anyway the past. Let's
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: move forward and you're gonna see us a lot this season.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Everything is cool, Everything was supposed to be perfect until.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: I do want to get into that because you know,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: when we see and by we meaning me and the audience.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: What I love about Miami especially is because of the
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: different cultures. And one of my favorite parts of Miami
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: is when Marisol and Alexia break off in their commonization
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: speaking Spanish, and I think, to me, as a person
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: who does not speak Spanish, I love.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: That I'm even learning Spanish from them. I'm speak Spanish
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: I love it. I love when they break off and
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: they speak, you know, in their native language. So I'm
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: assuming with youtubeing Haitian, it was sort of like, oh,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: that would be dope to see you two speaking, and.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Even if you did it, I would have loved to even,
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: like up straight like they say it like that. Like
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: I said, I love to learn, but maybe some people don't.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: They don't like I don't know, but we're all different.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So you have been the fan favorite since the
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: show premiere. Everybody loves some Keiki. People have been begging
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: you to be full time, to have a mohedo. Well,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: we saw the top of season seven it was you
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: diving into your personal story and honey, we all loved it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, we started to really
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: see this situation happen between Gerty and Julia U and
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: one of the biggest moments of the season obviously is
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: when Julia threw the drink towards Gertie's direction and everybody
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: like gag and you were in the middle of it.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of people and I even said this
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: to Kiky, just being honest, where we were like, oh, Kiki,
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: what are we doing? Like, you know, there's there are
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: people who have said.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, trust me, I get the backlash, but I'm like,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: I have no idea, So let me start with this.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: Gerty was always super close to Julia and Nicole. You've
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: seen it. I was always closer to the other girls,
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: not saying that we're all not friends. We're all friends,
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: but the other girls always mix space, like to make
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: sure that they get me with them, you know. So
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: what happened when I find so me and Gerty we decided,
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: I'm just I decided. I was like, you know what,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: we're gonna pass. Let's move forward. We've been hanging out,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: we have been I've seen her at events, We're taking pictures,
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: were posting together. We're good. And then now it's like
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: everybody was asking for me to have personal scenes and
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, you know, even though
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: you barely see me on that side, I was like,
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: come on, come on the boat, let's let's whatever do
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: our things. And I find out what you guys donna
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: see is that I find out that her and Julia
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: was having problems. Julia told me, Gertie told me, and
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like, here's the two girls that I was not
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: the kind of like closest closest to. They were besties
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: at one point. So I feel like, as a friend
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: who's now in the middle, I'm always the one in
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: the middle of everything, and I said, I can bring
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: these two together. So at Mary'sol, even when I came
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: in and Gertie came in, I was hoping that they
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: could talk, and I sat down and between them as
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: you can see, hoping that everything will go the way
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: it goes. But I can contry what Julia decided to do.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Julia decided to do what she did, which was horrible,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: by the way, horrible, and what you didn't see. We
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: all speak on it. It was horrible. But however I
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: got water thrown at me too. Carlos. I always tell
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: people this, what I did for Gertie is the exact
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: same thing I would have wanted a friend to do
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: for me. I've done a lot of healing on myself.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: I've learned to remove myself from situation that can potentially
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: get worse. Now, however, other people could have throw punchees,
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: whatever they choose to do. That's them. But me what
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: I did in that moment, I got up, Alexei, I
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: take Julia. Gertie, come down. I'm even speaking quill to her.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Come down. Because when things like this happen right away,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, like I'm a thinker, I'm a Gemini. It's
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: a to the next step. First thing I'm thinking is
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: this is marysol wedding. Mary Sool is not gonna live.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Alexia is the one putting the event together for Marisol.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Alexi is not gonna live. Larsa has been friends with
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: them for so long. She's not gonna live. Julia is
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: now best with Alexia. No one's gonna leave Gertie. I'm
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: willing to live with you. Let's remove ourselfs Come.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: On, you told Gerdy I'm willing to leave with you.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: I grab her, babe, Let's go. I said it to
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Crell to her. So you've seen it. You see the clip.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Let's go Calm down, babe. When I say calm down,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: not because she's aggressive, not because she's screaming, it's calmed down,
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: let's go. I got wet too. I could have go
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: to hell with Julia. But in that moment, why make
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: it worse when it's already the worst. That's how I think. Now,
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: if anybody else think how they think, that's them. But
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: that's how I think, because Carlos, I I was raised
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: pretty much on the street. I've seen some fu somebody
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: throw somebody at someone. Next minute, it's like you say
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: something and then boom you get Now you're in the hospital,
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: now you're dead. So I've learned. I've done the healing
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: to learn to remove myself from situations like that, And
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: if anybody else want to do otherwise, feel free to
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: do it. But I did what I would want someone
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: to do for me. Now my thing is, even though
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: I remove myself, you decided to stay. You stay told
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: everybody toss the whole thing mind you. I was fine
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: with Gerd Carlos throughout the whole season. Even when episode
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: one came out, we were talking. Episode two came out,
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: we were at an even together for Netflix, taking photos
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: posting episode three came out and I was like, Okay,
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: I saw it. I said, I feel like, let me
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: call her to check on her, because this type of things,
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: when you have to relieve it, it's not easy to have
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: to rewatch yourself. I called her. She didn't pick up.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: She returned, Michael, Oh my god, hey, babes, I was
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: just calling to make sure that you know, I know
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: how you have to watch your show again to relieve it.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Have you seen the episode. I'm so sorry this happened.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: She just went, uh, I'll call you back. This was
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: the last time I heard from Gertie. Okay. So, and
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: that's when the threat started. That's when I'm being called
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: I'm being called racist. Also, I don't all the Haitian
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: people are on mind right now. How dare you not
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: helping this? How dare you not? But I'm like, wow, yeah,
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: so yep. And I'm not telling you this to feel
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: sorry for me.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: It just nosten to somebody who is a producer of
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: reality television, and you're talking to somebody who knows how
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: that ecosystem works when it comes to social media. So
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: you're not listen. You're no one's victim, and you're such
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: a strong woman. I feel horrible that. Look what you
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: said to me makes a lot of sense. That's that's
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: the choice you made in the moment you were there.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: We were not listen you said it. People would have
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: done things differently. What I think I'm just shocked at
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: because I didn't know this obviously was the fact.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: Have you ever seen me aggressive? I'm always been the
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: one like guys like, unless you piss me off, I
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: say what I need to say and then I let
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: it go. Yeah, because all of that is energy, and
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I don't give that away for free. My energy is
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: my money. That's my cash in the spiritual realm, I'm
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: rich and uping realm, and I don't give away that
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: for free. Or I don't give that away for free.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: I don't give away that for So that's why I don't.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I let things go, and you're not gonna find me
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: set media on there ever we coming. I don't do
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: it because I know my truth.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: What I what I'm surprised is because again I didn't
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: know this was the fact that after that incident happened.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Because I wanted to ask you too, like, did you
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: did I'm sorry, did Gerdy ever come to you after
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: that moment happened in real time and say, I felt you.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: You didn't do this for me.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: She did, she did, and I told her, I said, look,
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: I cannot believe you are even calling me a bad friend.
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: And mind you, at that moment, Gerdy knew that she
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: didn't know I was getting death threats, but she knew
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: that the ment like I was getting, like the anxiety
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: and depression was like I had a high peak because
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: of that I'm going through. I was going through with families. So,
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: like I said, what Julia did was unspeakable. But sometimes
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: just because you don't speak about your battles and this
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: is our people mistreat people because just because you look happy,
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: you're trying to be there for the person son and
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: they just assume you have nothing going on. I was
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: in my dark cast moment. Okay, I'm sure you probably
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: started episode. I was already going through that. None of
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: the girls know because I don't like to dump my
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: on other people. But I did kind of tell Gerty
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: even way before, girl, I don't know what's going on,
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: but the anxiety the depression is like and I remember
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: she was telling me about her the heat things she have,
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: uh which which I sympathize with her. What is it,
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: you know when you get the heat wave.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Like all the menopause no flashes.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I remember she was telling me that too.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, man, this is a lot,
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: you know. So we talk about that. I was going
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: through my while all of that was happening, and I'm like,
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: I just I just need to live. You don't want
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: to leave. I asked her, let's go, because I was
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: willing to live with her. Do you think and the
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: other girls on My Friend too, I'm like, let's all
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: live with you, let's go.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Do you think because obviously you and Gerty are the
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: two black women on this show A mocks non black
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: women and this white woman throws drinks on the two
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: black girls on the show. Do you think the audience
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: wanted to see just the two of you have solidarity,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: come together as one. And because we didn't see that that,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: people are now blaming you. They're saying that you're kissing
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: up to the white girls. In the Spanish girls on
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: the show, they said you did not have Gertie's back
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: like a real sister. What do you have to say
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: to those people who feel like you did not stand
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: up for your black sister.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Listen, they are monitoring spirits, okay, because when you done
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: so much chilling on yourself, you getting into a timeline
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: where everything is like going good for you. People will
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: try to come to just and I don't let this
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: thing attract I don't let all these negative comments. I
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: don't even let them affect me. But my thing is
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: these people can think however they want to think at
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: the end of the day, as a human being, I
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: know what I did. It was from my heart and
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: it is what it is. If they want to do
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: something differently, that's them. And I understand they want to
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: see the two black girls together, yes, but at the
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: same time, do you also want to just want to
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: see the two black girls that get because you have
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: to understand for me also, it's a trauma thing when
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: things like this. It could have been anyone in the cast,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: not just Gerty. I would have done the same thing.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: That's the way I need to put it. It could
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: have been anybody that would have been my exact same reaction.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: So they want to see me throwing punches. I'm not
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: gonna be fake. I got wet too, But just because
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: I got wet, I also know that that water was
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: not aim at me, So me punching Julia, remove yourself
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: in the situation, because we'll have plenty of time to
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: speak to Julia. And people are gonna get mad at
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: you regardless if you don't do what they expect you
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: to do. Carlos, what can I do? After that whole incident,
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: she didn't call me. I was like waiting on a call,
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: and then I'm starting like guessing, like, Okay, maybe if
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: something else happened or you know, because I'm like, I
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: don't know, we live, You're gonna see like nothing happened
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: the whole season with her. And I actually was closer
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: to her this season than any of the other girls
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: that I was even closer to, And not until I
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: saw a post that an interview that she did. And
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: then on the interview there was a comment that was
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: made that she made and somebody wrote it down and
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: posted say said by Gertie, and the thing said that
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I tried to hold her hand and portray her as
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: the angry black woman. I was like, what, I'm like,
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: It's one thing you being called racist by the audience,
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: they don't know it's okay, But for you now to
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: even take it to the next step by making it
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: seems like I'm also an actual isn't that what you mean?
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: You're American? That's that's pretty much saying that I'm she.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: So you're saying Gertie made a comment saying that during
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: that moment to.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: Read it to you, I haven't sure I'll show it
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: to you.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, So she made a comment about you. You're you
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: holding her hand and you were pretty much trying to
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: make her seem like the angry black woman. And for you,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: as a black woman, you just felt like, wow, it's
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: one thing for the audience to think one thing about me.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: Now you're pushing You know, you and I both know
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: what this is.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: Like. This is not funny. Do you know how hurtful
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: it is to have Haitian people calling you non Haitian
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: when you're like the most Haitian person.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: You know, the Haitian community is upset with.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: You pretty much a lot. You know, it's it's and
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: it's like wow, because I've always been very Haitian. It's
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: not a competition. But anyone who knows me know I
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: stand up for my country. I'm all Haitian, Like I
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: will go to Hadi for breakfast and come back for dinner.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: And it's like it's one thing for the audience defense
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: to speculate whatever or think whatever they think, but for
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: you to know where we at. And then you went
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: on and made that comment. That's when I was like, Okay,
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: I see what's going on here?
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, when was, well, we know you I tape the reunion,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: so but prior to the region taping, when was the
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: last time you and Gertie spoke?
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: Well, at the reunion, I say what I needed to say,
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: and then after that, I kind of like I said,
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: I'm the type of person one s I sea my
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: truth and I'm like, okay, I'm over it. I don't
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: hold That's why I'm always going to look young. I
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: don't want to grudge this, you know. So you know,
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: normally after renial we all kind of like, you know,
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: so I went to her and say hi and whatever,
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: and that was the last time I spoke to her.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: You recently unfollowed Gerdy.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: Why I unfollowed her? And a lot of people are
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: speculating that it was after the region it was before
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: the reunion. I think people find out after it was before,
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: and part of it was because of that comment. Because
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, now I see you for who you are,
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: because this was not the way to go about it.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: I didn't like that comment at all because if anyone
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: know me, I'm not racist and don't want to be
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: portrayed like that. And it's up. It's up, and I'm
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: not here playing victim or anything. It's up. Especially I'm like,
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: what's the issue here? We know we gotta throw shed,
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: we all got to do this and that. But what
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: did I do to you to make you to make
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: me to make you you know what I'm trying.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: To say, Yeah, no, to make you say something, but
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: sometimes you know.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: And I decided to unfollow because I was like, sometimes
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: you just need a break. You just don't want to
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: You just need to cut that cord for a second
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: and breathe and regroup. So I need a break.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Gertie responded and said, oh, I didn't know that, and
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: I see that I'm not following you either. Did you
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: block me?
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: So you blocked Gertie.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: Yes, I told you for me to.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Listen, like, I love your honesty. Yeah, you blocked that.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: I block a lot of people too, like many many people,
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: And I always tell people this, like I don't normally
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: unfollow people or black people, not black people, block lock.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: Black people.
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: But it takes a lot like for me to like
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: get because I'm always like the one like you know.
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: Of course, like I said, I can be tough. When
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: someone says something to me, my comeback will always be
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: like oh, But then I'm like, let it go. We're good. Now,
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: we're good. But once I feel like, deep down, even
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: if I had done something to you, was it really
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: that heavy for you to call me a racist?
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: And I'm your own imagine, imagine I call you a
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: racist right now. It's it's worse. It's one thing to
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: call a white person racist, but it's another thing when
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: you call your own black person.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm Aliston. I'm being racists before. No, now,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: so I can't imagine. Let's I will say this. I
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: love Gertype.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Surely I've experienced racism too, and I'm like, really, yeah, okay, No, it.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: Had to hurt because listen, I love Gerty, I love you.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: I love the fact that it was two Haitian women
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: on the show. And look, it doesn't mean still.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: To Haitian women on the show.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: Yes, and of course listen, as a black person we
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: were like, yes, like we want you all to be
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: a team, and I'm just being very honest with you. Listen,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: we know that in some situations. It doesn't mean y'all
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: can't not disagree, but I think for all of us
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: we want some solidarity. We do want you guys to
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: just you know, be respectful, and it does hurt.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: We do that. But the problem is people need to
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: understand not everyone go around throwing punches not. We're all different,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: all nine of us. We make this group work because
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: of different personalities. Okay, I can be like Alexia, like
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: I can't. She's like, you know me, I'm more like whoa.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: You know, some of us are here and some of
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: us are like calm down, like not or not all
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: of us can be like Rise because we all have
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: different personalities. Some people are controat and some people are
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: a little bit more among the chill side. I don't
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: respond to things that people do with being more aggressive, unless,
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: like I said, sometimes I get out of and I'm like, okay,
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: calm down, fix it. That's why I'm always the first
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: one to apologize. Whether people are like oh yeah, she's
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: always kissing, She's apologized. Listen, Sometimes you just got to
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: be the bigger person, because when you know, when you
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: apologize to someone, it actually helps you, not them. I agree,
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: and people like, I'm not gonna apologies. I'm gonna hold
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: it and we'll hold it in. That's why you're gonna
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: keep getting all sort of diseases and all this and
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: that because you're holding too many things. And how about
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: you go by the bitch start screaming me Because I'm
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: not shy. I will literally go and hugge tree and
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: talk to the tree and be like take all my
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: pans away. And people look at me like I'm crazy.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, but guess what I feel light inside? Yeah,
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: you got to learn to release and let go. You
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: can't judge everyone just by the way you will want to. Okay,
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: how can I say it? You know how like let's say,
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: right now, somebody do something to you. You will break this.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: You can't expect everyone to do the same thing that
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: you will do.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh no, So listen, what you're trying to say
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: is this, you can't expect everyone. I understand the reaction
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: that you would have.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: I understand the fan where disappointed. They wanted me to
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: do more. But in that moment I thought I was
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: doing more just because you want me to. You know,
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: it just not within me. And like I said, I
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: would have done the exact same thing with anyone. It's
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: not a girty thing. It's not added this thing or
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: that thing. That's how I am because I've done so
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: much healing on myself. I don't get to that level.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: I try to fix situation unless I'm really, really, really pissed.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: You're gonna see that side of me, and then I'm
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: the first. Just take me and Lisa as an example.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: Last year, you know, people was like going off calling
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: Lisa all sort of nonsense. You know what I was doing.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: I was online. No, don't say this about her. She's
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: not racist. Come on, guys, we're a group of friends.
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: No Lisa, Lisa, She's no way. But imagine if I
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, yeah, you know, and that's my truth.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: Some people will do different and that's them speaking of Lisa.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: Is Lisa always that late? I don't know, Listena, I
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: don't know too many people, Kiki that will miss a
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: flight to Spain, maybe have to catch another plane and
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: then a train and an automobile and a scooter. Like
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: what is she like is that exaggerated.
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, listen, Lisa is always gonna be Lisa. Okay,
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: I've come to realize that Lisa, and I'm just gonna
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: accept her. You know, if you can change them, I'm
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: not trying to change anyone. Sometimes you just have to
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: adjust to the person. When you try so hard it's
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: not working, you just suggest them.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Whose side are you on between the Larsa and Lisa beefs, Like,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: do you think Lisa should unfollow Marcus? And do you
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: understand where lars is coming from? Or do you think
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: lars is over exaggerating.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm actually on Larsa's side, and I'm gonna explain
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: why I'm on Lars's side only because Larsa introduced Lisa
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: to Marcus, just like Larsa introduced me to Marcus. I
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: was following Marcus. Marcus was following me also, even though
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: when Larsa and Marcus broke up, Larsa and I were
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: not in a great place. Like like I said, everybody
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: thinks I'm like always like with the girls, but they
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: don't understand I fight these girls too. You don't see everything.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: Larsa and I was not in the best place, so
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: I was like, no, because she introduced me to him,
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: it will be weird to even stay in touch with him,
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: because at the end of day, this is my friend.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: Women not be in the best of places, but this
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: is my friend. So I don't follow Marcus without even
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: lars I even have to ask me. But with Lisa,
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: I think Lisa should have done the same thing. Now
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: with Jody, that's a different story. Jodey is a man.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: Lisa cannot control his decision. He built up a friendship
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: with Marcus, that's them. But Lisa, however, her loyalty I
• 50:41
  Speaker 2: feel like because Larsa was the one that introduced Listen,
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: if you introduced me to the person you break up
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: with them, are bringing up with them too?
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: Period?
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: That's it. That's that's you know.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So just like we love Todd when he was
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: with Alexia, now we can hit that. We love Lenny,
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: now we hit Lenny. I'm that type of friend. You're
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: with them, I love everything about them. You're not with them.
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: I hate their gods. I'll probably just go out and
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: when I see it, I'll be like, you are what's
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: a horrible person I've ever met in my life?
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: Do you think Todd and a lexiy I, well get
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: back together?
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, really positive. The thing is with Alexi,
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: I feel like she needed even though all of us
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: were like this, this isn't that and blah blah blah blah.
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: I think she was not ready. She's like me, the
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: whole world can tell you do this and do that.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: Unless you're ready, you're not gonna do it. And I
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: think she's at that space now where she's like, you
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: know what, I'm ready and she did it. Yeah, so
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: now we're both single.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: You're a single.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: Excuse me?
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: You don't have a man. No, you don't have like
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: a like you know, do you have a benefactor?
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: What the.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: Sound like that person? And then when you died?
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: Okay? So a bee factor is when you have a
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: man that you know you guys, aren't boyfriend, girlfriend, but
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: he takes care of you. He gives you money, cars,
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: Because I'm beautiful and supposed to have someone taking care
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: of me.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: Get you back to reality.
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: All the beautiful women in my life that I know,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: they all have a benefactor.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Let me explain it to you. I broke off my
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: engagement three years ago when I like two weeks before
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: I started the show because that was like three four years.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, three years ago, no, like yeah, yeah, like.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: Three three years yeah. So like when I started the show,
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: I had just broke off my engagement, and after that,
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: I did it people, but I just couldn't really connect
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: with him because for me, it can't just be about
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: looks and money. At one point it used to be that,
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: but then I'm like, I've grown, you know, myself. And
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: then after that, I feel like from all my previous
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: relationship it was always like, you broke up with this one,
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: someone's already in line. You broke up with that one,
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: two weeks later, you're already with someone. I'm talking about
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: serious relationship, like serious relationship. I will be with this
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: one for five years as soon as I break up
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: with them. Then I get with this one a week later,
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: and I stayed with them for three years. And then
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: do one from five years now. I say, oh, we
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: only broke up for one week. I want to get
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: back with you. I'm like, well, too late, because I'm
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: already with that one. So it was kind of like that.
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: And then after I broke up my engagement, I was like,
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: you know what, maybe don't get into anything serious, start
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: dating here and there and see. So I started going
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: out on dates and then I saw that didn't work.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: And if you watch the last season, I said, oh,
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: I ended up meeting that nice guy in LA And
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: then I find out this guy, even though he was
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: with me, we broke up. He went to his girlfriend
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: and he broke up with her. Then tried to come
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: back and be like, oh, I broke up with her,
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: Can I get back with you? I was like, no, No,
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: you know what I'm going to do. I'm going to
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: take that time and heal myself, find myself because I
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: find out the problem is me. I keep blaming everyone. Oh, yeah,
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: you're wrong, You're wrong. But meanwhile I'm like, why do
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: I always scape from this one to that one? And
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: then they all last longer, But still why do I
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: keep doing it? So I was like, let me take
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: time for myself. So I decided to take some time
• 54:24
  Speaker 2: for myself. And of course, and taking time for myself,
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: it was the whole vibrated thing too. I was like yeah,
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: and then after a while he gets lonely and then
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: I was like no, then I just want celibate, focus
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: on my spirituality and I've been celebrated. Yeah, since last year.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: You've been celebated for a year, for over year, for
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: over a year.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: Actually March was a year.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you miss it now?
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: Because when you're focused now, become more like I want
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: my kingdom spouse. Like I wanted to do the work
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: on myself to really ground myself. Another thing, also, I
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: feel like I was very copend copend.
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm called dependent co dependent.
• 55:07
  Speaker 2: And I just was like, you know what if I
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: start doing the things that I want other people to
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: do for me, and I started to do them for myself,
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: then I went to force people to do it because
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: I'm already doing it for me, so I will attract
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: what I'm doing. So I'm like, go, take off your
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: own bill, take care of your car notes, take care
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: of your kids, take care of this, and now domains
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: are coming. They all got that together and it's me
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know yet if I'm
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: ready because I'm doing everything. I buy myself flowers, I
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: go out on dates. You if you ever seen me
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: at a restaurant, buy myself being dinner. I don't think
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: I'm crazy because I do it all the time. I
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: have lunch by myself. I go to the beach. But
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: everything that I would want I used to want someone
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: to do for me. I do it for myself. Yeah,
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: and that's my thing now so and I'm enjoying it.
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: I'm looking younger, finer. No one is stressing me out.
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: My kids are getting wealth and I'm doing it all
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: on my own. No stress.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: You look good.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: I look really good. I'm sorry, thank you. I should
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: think I should say I know, because why I'm like,
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: why is it? Thank you?
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: And I already know, like everybody should feel that way. Yeah,
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: who's the most famous guy you dated?
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: Oh? I can't say how famous? Is he very famous?
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: Is he still on TV?
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: Some of them are famous, but some of them are
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: just high profile that I still can't say.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: Politics or movies or TV?
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: Politics, movies not TV? Well movies are TV? Right?
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: Music?
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: Music? Yeah, but in the music, not the music.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: Not the artist.
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, give me an initialw no lot of it gave
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: us NBJ.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: We all thought it was Michael Jackson or Michael whatever,
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: and she, well, we got it right at the end.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: She was right.
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: I thought it was Marchael Blixon.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: Buck Black, but I love her. Listen, this season is
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: so great. I happen to love Stephanie. I love this season.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I happen to love Stephanie, but there's like this love
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: hate with Stephanie. What can you tell us about her
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: that we may not be seeing on you know the show?
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: Like do you like Stephanie?
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, let me tell you something. I feel like
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: sometimes you guys forget that. Sometimes I'm like, oh my god,
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: I feel like nobody's listening to me. I'm not being hurt,
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: so it's not you know, and I know girls saying
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: this now too, but I'm like, I've been saying that
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: too sometimes, like nobody listened to me. Nobody does nobody that.
• 57:50
  Speaker 2: But Stephanie came came on. She went on and said,
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: I actually I like you, but I think you talk
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: too much about it. And I was like, well, welcome
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: to the group. She came like the first thing she
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: said to me, you talk too much about PEPPI. I'm like,
• 58:08
  Speaker 2: she was, I love you, and she was like, I
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: freaking love you. And she was like, look, you know what,
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: I want to do something nice for you. I want
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: to do this and do that, blah blah blah blah,
• 58:17
  Speaker 2: and she was just nice and I was like, oh, okay,
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: well this is what happened. When you start doing the
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: healing work on yourself, people just start dropping, like you
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: got a car, you had a car, not that she
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: gave me a car, but you know what I mean,
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: would I will take that dinner burken too.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: That no.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: Part of my healing is learned not to say no,
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: except don't listen. If you don't count on me saying no,
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: I will not everything. Yes, yes, please, can you make
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: that double? Matter of fact, triple it. I'll take it.
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: I'll take it to go.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell you.
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: Stepan is amazing. I think she's a very great addition
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: to the group. She coming in hot, she's very strong.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: But I also think you know her working also, like
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: she said, like she's like a very hard business woman.
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: And you know, I love like that because I get
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: to learn a little bit from each one of them,
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: you know, believe it or not, I learned a little
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: bit from every single one of the girls, whether they
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: like it or not. I learned a little bit about everybody,
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: not about from everyone.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's been this big debate about who's the most
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: narcissistic person on the show.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, I think we all have a little
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: bit of narcissistic thread threat and us. But well, all
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: I know, I'm not the most narcissistic one.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Who is it?
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I think some of them are literally
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: like head to head, like right there, like who's gonna win?
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: There's no space in between. Well, we have a few
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: in the group.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how are things going with your son? Because I
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: love seeing your children on the show.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: God, he's good. I'm actually dropping them off tomorrow because
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: he's going He was here on for the summer at home.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: So he's going back to school for his second year
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: now his sophomore year, which they're getting nicer home dorm
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: or whatever. I've never been to college, nicer dorms and stuff.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: So I'm so proud. And tomorrow for him, I have
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: to get up and drive him to school, and I'm
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: missing already. Yeah. But my daughter started kindergarten today and
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: she came home. She was like, Mom, I didn't get it.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: Was so excited we didn't have to go to sleep
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: to that. I said, no, you're not going to go
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: to sleep. This is no longer daycare. You and big
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: girls school. Now. You wanted to go to big girls
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: school so bad. She was so excited that she didn't
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: have to go to sleep. She's like, we didn't have
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: to go to sleep. Yeah, she started school today.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: Congratulations. Seriously, being a mom, I think is the most
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: important job in the world.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a mom is very important. But it's very tough,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: especially it's a single mom because I've been taking care
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: of my son since he was four years old. Like,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: his dad does not give one sense. And I remember
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 2: a couple of years ago I finally was like, well,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: you know what, maybe I need to put you in
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 2: back Chelsea. But he was like, well if you do that,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: guess what, I can actually get more money out of
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: you now, Because I was like, okay, let's forget about
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: this conversation.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah damn yeah, he is his father. Do they speak
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: or he just now they speak.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: He loved his dad more than me, probably because since
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: four years old, every single birthday, Christmas or I didn't
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: say every Christmas for like many years, but whatever holidays,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: I will literally buy him gifts and say, your dad's
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: on you this, your dad's in your money. Your dad.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: Because I was always the top that don't want the
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: kid because it's not the fault. I didn't want the
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: kid to think that his dad he's like not a
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: good dad. Now we understands he's seeing the different, like
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: I'm paying for this college, all the fees and stuff.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: So now he's like whoa, because you have to call
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: me for everything. But before that, he love his dad.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: And I think, even though you know, doubt that is,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: that doesn't really help because he loves him so much,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: because I've never made the dad look bad, and that's
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 2: with both of my kids. Why why mess up the kids'
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: mental health for your own choosing the wrong men. It's
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: not therefore, and it was not about choosing the wrong
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: men because my son was born out of love. It
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: was like playing like we're gonna have a baby, gonna this.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: It's just that just didn't work out. And some men
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: just want to hold and I think I always peak
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: the wrong man. Also because of my dad, if you see,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: he's a player, like and this is why I needed
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: to do healing on myself and take time off and say,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: you know what, if you start doing the work on yourself,
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: you're gonna stop attracting these holes or this.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah good for you, Yeah, good for you. That's very very,
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: very smart and wise.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 2: Why were you so surprised that I'm celebrated you crazy
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: because let's.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: Say you are gorgeous and you want to check. I mean,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure college you can, but because I'm sure
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: there's all around, you know, throwing at you. Child Home Deeple,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: you know, well, I.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: Love home Deepot, but the whole house.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: Mela Delilah's kikiS on the river.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: I don't those type of I don't even want. Those
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: are not the places that, even if I have to
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: find the men that I will go to. And plus
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: I'm in a space now like I don't even want
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: to go find one. They're finding me period.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, list said last question for you, would you like
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: to be a full time housewife?
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: You know, I came in on the show knowing that
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: I was going to be a friend of and I'm like,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: I don't understand the concept. A lot of people always like, oh,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: she's just fighting this because she's trying so hard to
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: be a man cast. I'm like, I'm so happy that
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: God is blessing me that I'm around a nice group
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: of friends I can call upon. We can cry together,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: laugh together, and do things together like this is exciting.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: Whether I'm a friend or make cast, nothing happened before
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: it's time, and what do I have to lose, So
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: it's better to start here and you can only go
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: up from there. I'm always gonna look at it to deposit,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: so but I have no desire. If it happened, thank God,
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: this is great, Thank you God, thanks for the blessing.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: But if it doesn't, I am grateful that I get
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: to spend time with my friends and I get to
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: do things I get. I don't get it, like listen,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: if it happened, I'm happy. If it doesn't happen, I
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: am as happy as to where I am because I'm
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: enjoying every single bit of it. And that's on my soul.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you the truth.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: I see it. Thank you, Kiki. That wasn't so bad,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: was it?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: It was so horrible, Gertie the whole half of the time.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: Thank you, My love, ladies and Jalapan Key key bart Yeah.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership with the Lack
• 1:05:18
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• 1:05:21
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