Latest / Honey Badger Radio / Return of the "Libertarian Feminist" Hannah Cox & the Worst Red Pill Dating Advice | Rantzerker 203
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- 0:00Coming to you live from deep within an icy, now muddy, radioactive wasteland.
- 0:07We are the survivors of the all right Keck Apocalypse. The few well
- 0:11I'm using the word kek. I guess that's so passe now, huh,
- 0:16okay, relevant than ever, it's more Oh, it's okay, it's it's
- 0:20ten ten years on and Kex still goes pep remains a dream in our hearts.
- 0:26Yeah, it's still uh, it's still going strong. All right.
- 0:30So in my opinion, I mean, we are the survivors of the all
- 0:33right quick Apocalypse, once more, wading into battle against the froggy lobsters zombie
- 0:39hordes with rant Zuker Number two oh three, Return of the libertarian feminist Hannah
- 0:46Cox Cox. I know, ray, excuse me, I am a child
- 0:55and the worst red pill dating advice ever evall or she will be responding to
- 1:02the worst. This is important, not not that, because she's obviously only
- 1:07got the best advice, the best advice, huge advice, the finest advice.
- 1:12That's what they tell her. That's what they tell her. It's not
- 1:15she would never say that, but that's what they tell her. Okay here
- 1:19you yeah, yeah, all right, Well let's uh, let's let's get
- 1:26into this response option then, because I think we're responding to a response to
- 1:30a response. Uh sort of, Yeah, she's she's going through a it's
- 1:36like a series of tweets from the red pill the manosphere, which is a
- 1:44vaguely defined term, and whenever something is kind of broad and vaguely defined,
- 1:51that makes it like ripe for people to straw man so that they can promote
- 1:56their own voice. So, uh, yeah, we'll just start with her
- 2:00intro and see, let's see, like it's not a super long video,
- 2:04but unfortunately today we don't have a Karen as her car broke down. Yeah,
- 2:09Karen's car broke down, so she's not with us right now. And
- 2:14I'm sorry for the misleading image. So there she goes, she's gone.
- 2:19She was on there because I was waiting for Karen to join the call,
- 2:21but we had a problem with her. We will, we will bring her
- 2:23on when she no longer has a car that isn't working. But yeah,
- 2:30we might, we might actually get through the whole thing today maybe maybe because
- 2:37we don't we don't have Karen. I do have a transcript for this video,
- 2:39so if we need to, like look for something specific, I can
- 2:43just search it and go to that time code. So okay, but all
- 2:46right, good things, all right, So, oh do you want to
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- 6:09let's get a little bit in here. Yeah, let's get into this
- 6:12video. So this is Hannah cox Hannah cox Is, while basically she is
- 6:15a self described libertarian feminist and I mean like black and yellow and cap style.
- 6:23According to her, this is a definite like it's probably would be considered
- 6:30by people on the outside that don't know the opposite of Maria mclennen, who
- 6:34is the woman we've been responding to in the last few ranzerkers, who is
- 6:39more of a probably like a second wave, like you know, hardcore turf
- 6:46type feminist that doesn't that thinks that she's completely reasonable. But you will soon
- 6:51learn that Hannah cox Is is on the same side that every feminist, no
- 6:57matter what they what they're pre are, whatever, Yeah, whatever the pre
- 7:00what do you call it? The prefix is whether it's oh, I'm a
- 7:03libertarian feminist, I'm a liberal feminist, I'm an intersexual feminist, I'm a
- 7:08radical feminist, I'm a second wave feminist, I'm pro I'm a sex positive
- 7:11feminist, I'm a sex negative feminist. At the end of the day,
- 7:15none of those prefixes matter because they're all in the same party, the Party
- 7:19of Women, so point out that it's not even the pretty much everybody who
- 7:26thinks that everywhere that feminism isn't as a hell hole for women is basically like,
- 7:30I mean, if you think that feminism makes people human, you're a
- 7:32feminist, Yes, But I would I would argue that the connection between Hannah
- 7:42Cox and Blast Blast from the Past, Yeah, is these internal focus on
- 7:50what you're owed as a woman as opposed to how you can serve your fellow
- 7:57citizen and your society or a part of Yeah, so focus on rights instead
- 8:01of duties. Yeah, rights and responsibilities or even just recognizing that right.
- 8:05Rights cost and you know, don't kneecap the people who are paying for that
- 8:15cost of that. No. That's really really getting my goat is like that
- 8:20Twitter thread you had with that young woman who says, oh, these people
- 8:24are taking away are my rights as a woman. Well, first of all,
- 8:26all the rights that she notes are rights that men don't have because men
- 8:33have never had the right to walk away from their responsibilities period and never in
- 8:39human history have had men been allowed to walk away from their responsibilities. And
- 8:43she's talking about it. She's talking about, Oh women can we're going to
- 8:48get the right to separate consent to sex, to consent to parenthood taken away.
- 8:52Well, men don't have that right. They don't even have the right
- 8:54to separate being raped from consenting to parent it. As in, if a
- 8:58man's right and a child is conceived by him being raped, he's responsible for
- 9:05it. No, if sands are but strict liability, you know. And
- 9:09she's like talking about, oh, we'll lose new fault no fault divorce,
- 9:13which is really telling because no fault divorce is supposed to be gender neutral,
- 9:16right, But she sees that as a loss of women's rights. Huh,
- 9:20I wonder why you know, and all of this other stuff. And I'm
- 9:24like, what you're talking about is situations where women are treated better than men.
- 9:31So what you're complaining about is actual equality. You're basically saying, Oh,
- 9:37these people, they want to take away all the rights that women have
- 9:41that men don't. Well, yeah, welcome to actual equality. Plus you'll
- 9:45have to go he'll have to be conscripted. That would be actual equality.
- 9:48And it's like this, this is the thing. We are now at a
- 9:52stage where women have because we do not have a clear understanding of men's issues
- 9:58and the situation with the legal situation, the literal legal situation for men that
- 10:03men are in because we just lie and lie and lie and lie. We
- 10:07have a generation of women who think that the rights that they have, or
- 10:13the situation they're in, our rights equal to that of men, rather than
- 10:20realizing that these are things that men don't get at all. They don't get
- 10:22the right to walk away from their responsibilities like women do. They don't get
- 10:26the right to just not be made responsible for protecting the state in wartime.
- 10:33They don't get any of that. And she's convinced that this is taking away
- 10:37her rights, and it is, but it's only making her equal to a
- 10:41man like And this delusion about where we are with our rights is because we
- 10:52don't actually see men's issues. We don't actually see the situation that men are
- 10:56actually in. All right, So we got a bunch of delusional women asking
- 11:01for more and more, and they're never satisfied because they're comparing their situation to
- 11:07their hallucination of what men experience. And literally they've constructed this fantasy in which
- 11:16men experience nothing negative that they they for some reason, a man just walks
- 11:24into the world and the substance of reality bends to his will to construct a
- 11:31perfect utopia, and that power is patriarchy, and they're comparing their life to
- 11:39that because we are constantly lying about the situation that men are actually in.
- 11:50And good luck having people this delusional about reality and the costs of what they
- 11:58get in their life, have them having power over everything, like them being
- 12:03the majority electorate. And it's just getting worse because you know, single women
- 12:07are the biggest increasing demographic. They're probably increasing faster than immigrants. You know,
- 12:13they are going to be our rulers. Well, they are our rulers,
- 12:18and they're absolutely delusional because they don't even know a man. They don't
- 12:22know a single man who won't lie to them about reality. M h.
- 12:28And then they have the power to well, we've essentially given them the power
- 12:33to destroy their own largess. Okay, let's talk. All right, let's
- 12:37play the video so we'll get into Ana Cox. So here we go.
- 12:39We're gonna play the video. Hey guys, I'm Hanna Cocks with based Politics
- 12:43back with what I guess is going to be a mini series I'm going to
- 12:46call Historyonics, where I discussed the extreme views coming from the left and right
- 12:52when it comes to women's issues. Frankly, if you're a normal woman like
- 12:56me, going online is getting increasingly weirder and weirder. Cheating is the best
- 13:00thing I've ever discovered. Cheating on my significant other is he best thing I've
- 13:05ever discovered in my entire fucking life. Like the conversation, Uh, just
- 13:09pausing for the banana, but go ahead, what okay? So essentially what
- 13:13you're complaining about is red pill. Guys are kind of just as bad as
- 13:18women have been for the last twenty years. I'm sorry. This is stuff
- 13:20that we have talked about. I've talked about and Honey Badger Radio has talked
- 13:24about it's gotten worse since the advent of social media. But women crow about
- 13:33cheating, right they crow? Yeah, it's just said now that men are
- 13:39starting to like be more vocal about it too. Now it's a problem.
- 13:41Now I have to make a video, Now I have to say something.
- 13:45And all of a sudden, now that guy he represents like the average guy,
- 13:48I guess, as opposed to the women we're supposed to be told.
- 13:52Oh no, no, those are fringe examples, like the woman that's like,
- 13:56get fucked you care about a girl's body count? Get fucked. And
- 14:00then when when people say, wow, this seems like this is a problem
- 14:03that I touched the nerve, And what happens is women like this will come
- 14:05out and say, well, those are just those are just really extreme examples.
- 14:09Can we just get back to my status quo of you not complaining?
- 14:15I'm sorry, go ahead, But I honestly like May I May West.
- 14:22Who's somebody that I actually I know this sounds strange, but I think that
- 14:26she's in some ways admirable. She said, And I keep coming back to
- 14:31this quote. When women go bad, men go right after them. And
- 14:37I think she's absolutely right. Yes, when women stop actually representing a virtue
- 14:46of society, men do too. Men move in the shadow of women's desire.
- 14:54Yeah, And it's it's just it's not I guess we can either recognize
- 15:01this and deal with it, or we can continue along this road. And
- 15:07the funny thing is is that women like this and she's talking about the extremes
- 15:11of the red pill. Okay, this guy who's discovered cheating on a significant
- 15:16under other is awesome, you know, that doesn't really have anything to do
- 15:18necessarily with that. That's just his own personal opinion, is his own personal
- 15:22arrangement of his life. I don't know how long it's gonna last when he's
- 15:26broadcast this on the internet for everyone to see, but you know whatever,
- 15:33it's how he's decided to live. The one that I've been hearing a lot
- 15:37is all the red pills who want to take red pillars who want to take
- 15:39rights away for women, and all the women who are getting upset over that,
- 15:45and oh yeah, oh yeah, like and but here's the thing,
- 15:46I mean, as if they have a chance of actually succeeding at that,
- 15:50which is why I think it's hilarious, Like it'll never happen, Like women
- 15:54would have to literally vote their own rights away. That's the only way it's
- 15:58gonna happen. But sure they'll get a said anyways, it will happen.
- 16:03Okay, this they will collapse the system with their incessant demands. They will
- 16:07actually they will go to the replicator, which just sort of the way it
- 16:10is. Single women, the party of single women, will go to the
- 16:12replicator and they will demand contradictory things. They will demand things it can't reproduce
- 16:18quick enough and then call it depression when it can't. It'll they'll demand of
- 16:22high volumes, low volumes, all of specific glittery shade that is completely individual,
- 16:30and they're gonna blow the fuck out of the replicator essentially, And when
- 16:33that happens, most likely they will have to reduce their rights, because they
- 16:41literally think that their rights are the ability to input whatever they want into the
- 16:45replicator without any consideration of what capacity it can actually sustain. I don't know
- 16:51if anybody is understanding this analog Yeah, no, I understand. Oh great,
- 16:55somebody does. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, I know.
- 16:59I mean, but then but then they're just gonna blame men again.
- 17:02It won't matter because at that time they will I mean, there'll be nothing
- 17:08left. Yeah, it's just And the funny thing is is that I've said
- 17:12this. I don't care how women fix this, Like whether or not they
- 17:18want to go back to the kitchen to incentivize men doing the work necessary to
- 17:23keep the replicator up and running, that's fine, Or if they want to
- 17:27go out and do, you know, roll up their sleeves and help do
- 17:33the work to keep the replicator running, they can do either. What they
- 17:37can't do is neither do the work to keep the replicator running and fail to
- 17:42motivate the people who keep the replicator running. The replicator will break down if
- 17:48you don't either help help repair it or help incentivize the men who will repair
- 17:56it. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, Because this this is not
- 18:00a long term solution, friends, This is not a long term Men still
- 18:06do the majority of the work necessary to keep society running. And if women
- 18:10are not going to pick up the slack and they are not going to incentivize
- 18:15men to do that work, that work is not going to get done.
- 18:17And it doesn't matter how many feminists cry and screech and say, I don't
- 18:22want to live in a society where men want to be incentivized to do the
- 18:26work to keep society running. Let it all bad. I just don't want
- 18:30it well good, because you won't be You know, if you're a mom,
- 18:33you're gonna enjoy watching your kids grow up in a society where that doesn't
- 18:37happen anymore. Right you are. If you are I don't know, middle
- 18:42aged right now or a little bit younger, you're gonna grow old in a
- 18:45society where that doesn't happen anymore. You'll get to live in that society if
- 18:49we continue to do this. But who knows. Maybe we'll just keep limping
- 18:55along for the next couple generations, and it is a species in the most
- 19:00undignified way possible. All right, all right, play some more. We're
- 19:06just getting started here. By the way, Chelsea says, I'm gonna be
- 19:08calling out both sides. You guys probably know how annoyed I am with that
- 19:12very idea of saying both sides. It just bugs the shit out of me,
- 19:19Like you act like you're not a part of this problem, like you're
- 19:23somehow just like on the ninth dimension, looking down on the ants that are
- 19:29the human race and saying, why are you guys doing things so wrong?
- 19:33Well, I mean, how does she say we should do them right?
- 19:34Okay, let's get into it. No degree of humility, all right,
- 19:37let's play the Deersians I see taking place online, I never hear actually happening
- 19:42in the real world around me. And I don't know if that's because this
- 19:45is just coming from extremely too online trolls, or if people around me actually
- 19:51think like this, And I'm really concerned it's the latter. This week,
- 19:55I want to discuss some of the worst dating advice I've seen on the internet.
- 19:59It's getting really bleak out there. Almost every woman I know is not
- 20:03having a great time dating. They go on apps, they get disrespected,
- 20:07the men say weird things to them. They let's see what this says.
- 20:12A dreamhole must include an outdoor shower to immerse you in the surrounding nature,
- 20:18a toilet with stunning views of the landscape, and a sex dungeon. This
- 20:22a woman, this is hinge. No wonder you're alone? So Shawna Weissman,
- 20:32you want what? Okay, but she's open, she's saying. She
- 20:36opens the dating app's oh is this like a pole? This pole? And
- 20:40then she closes the dating app? Oh, I see phil Like, okay,
- 20:48all right, you're very delicate. Show Shawna. Let's keep going ghost.
- 20:52I don't understand why you're not drinking. I told you I don't.
- 20:56I don't even know why you ordered to drink. If you don't drink,
- 21:00you're going to pay for this. No, no, no, we get
- 21:03around his shots from my friend room. The list goes on, and so
- 21:07the suggestion there is he's planning on drugging her. Why would she share that
- 21:11clip otherwise? And how do we even know that's real? Go ahead,
- 21:17Alison, Okay, well that was weird. She can walk away, she
- 21:25can be like Okay, well I guess I'm not getting having brunch with you.
- 21:29Yeah, but but if you got up and walk away instead of recording
- 21:32it and posting it online, you wouldn't get as many hits. It really
- 21:37has made me question, like where are the normal men? What is wrong
- 21:41with the men? And I don't know if I've solved the whole puzzle,
- 21:45but I think I've at least found a piece of it is online day advice
- 21:48from ahead. Let's note this what is wrong with the men? Are we
- 21:52going to get the what is wrong? Oh? By the way, you
- 21:55got the transcript? Do we get the what is wrong with the women?
- 21:59Oh? No, there's no what is wrong with the women in this video?
- 22:02No, that doesn't even come up. There's nothing wrong with the women.
- 22:06Okay, So what we've done right here is we have found an example
- 22:10of some online pole which was posted by someone on Twitter. No idea,
- 22:17what's the source? Maybe it was just some generic like ice breaking thing like
- 22:22as a sex dungeon. Really that crazy at this point, I mean it
- 22:26is twenty twenty four. He's mentioning a sex dungeon. Like immediately like oh,
- 22:30my god, that's ah. I thought I thought she was a libertarian.
- 22:34I thought that was like, that was like weed. I thought that
- 22:37a sex dungeon was just the free market, like responding to demand or something.
- 22:42Okay, so we got we got one tweet with a pole that references
- 22:48a sex dungeon. All right, we do not know who the pole is
- 22:52from. We don't even know if it's some sort of like thing that just
- 22:55a joke that's being sent around or anything. And uh, and then we
- 23:02have this one dude who's being weird about drinking, which admittedly like if he
- 23:07did that with me, I'd be like, you know what, goodbye,
- 23:11And I wouldn't even say it. I just disappear. I'd go like I
- 23:14go to the the Uh, I'd go to the bathroom or something and not
- 23:18come back to the bathroom. I'd go to the front desk. I'll be
- 23:19like I'm paying for whatever I got and I'm leaving. And then yeah,
- 23:23and just lock them like, yeah, that's that's gross behavior. Guys don't
- 23:29do that, but this is not But I don't even like saying guys don't
- 23:33do that, because I'm almost one hundred percent sure that everybody in our audience
- 23:38would is is just their hair is raising on the back of their neck with
- 23:42what the fuck? Yeah, but that's not like the problem is she's saying,
- 23:47what's wrong with men? You showed me one man, lady, That
- 23:52was one dude. That was one dude who does actually sound like he might
- 23:56be a dark triad which is probably why he's getting as with the ladies.
- 24:00You know, they do exist, these dark triad men and their incredible body
- 24:04counts because women love them. They do exist, you know, and they
- 24:08get a lot of play. And I'm guessing that he's he's expecting her to
- 24:14comply, and if she doesn't, he's on to the next one and he'll
- 24:18find plenty who will with their skh deep dark fantasies of gore or whatever.
- 24:23But that's one dude, And what have you done here? You said what's
- 24:29wrong with men? Yep? All right, Well let's find out what she
- 24:36says. So if she basically says that a red pill gives terrible dating advice,
- 24:40so let's let's look at that red pill bros who probably also don't have
- 24:44girlfriends. First up, I have to read you a thread from Twitter that
- 24:47I can Oh, oh, they're in cells. Hey, did you know
- 24:51that red pill guys are probably in cells and their arguments are invalid? Yeah,
- 24:56like the worst thing a man could be as a virgin. But men
- 24:59who take advantage of men women sexually are awful too. Okay, we already
- 25:07according to the completely the completely sound study from our friend Alex Syke, red
- 25:15pill men have as much sex as any other dude. Right, so they're
- 25:21not hurting in that department, Lady, there is something wrong. I'm sorry,
- 25:26her lips, there's something wrong with them. Oh, I don't know.
- 25:30Is okay, Let's let's play someone. I feel like action to something.
- 25:37Huh. I feel like she's having an allergic reaction to something. No,
- 25:41I think it's just it's just pause face. She's got bad pause face.
- 25:45Is absolutely It's from an accountant's handle is Dark Psych for Men, and
- 25:51it begins with the following advice, do not compliment her looks. Leave her
- 25:55to wonder why everyone sees her as a big deal, and you don't don't
- 25:59be the regular guy who goes around simping. Only compliment her when she does
- 26:03something and she does it right. Like this sounds like an advice should get
- 26:06somebody for how to train their dog what. No, it doesn't. No,
- 26:14it doesn't. Do you think this is bad advice? No, I
- 26:18do not think it's bad advice. I think this is classic advice. Like
- 26:23if you go back to Cassan Novas in like the seventeen hundreds, they say
- 26:30stuff like this, do not compliment a woman on her looks because if she's
- 26:40good looking, she's hurt it a lot. If she's not good looking,
- 26:45she's probably not gonna believe it. And they also advise, you know,
- 26:48the best thing to compliment her and hon is her skills are her mind?
- 26:55What is wrong with that? Honestly, you have to like if if a
- 27:07woman needs to feel like a constant big deal, she's not wife material.
- 27:11If she needs to be the focus of attention, she's not wife material.
- 27:15Like. If she can just exist, she's not wife she's wife material.
- 27:21Like. And honestly, I don't see this is really innocuous. I mean,
- 27:26unless she's advising women to constantly compliment men on their looks, like,
- 27:32of course she's not. I don't know that she's going to you are I
- 27:36offer compliments on your looks? Yeah? You just not owed compliments on your
- 27:45looks? No, you're not. O of that, and also I think,
- 27:49I I think that she's she's taking this message literally but not seriously.
- 27:56So I think there is something to be said or men who overly compliment women
- 28:03in the hopes that it will gain favor with those women. And I think
- 28:07what this guy ultimately is saying is if you do that, women actually don't
- 28:11find it attractive. When men are constantly saying, you know, like,
- 28:17oh my god, you're so beautiful, oh my god, you know,
- 28:18and et cetera, they it bothers them. And you can kind of see
- 28:23this like on the internet, so like, you know, a girl posts
- 28:26a picture of herself on Instagram, maybe it's a little bit sexy, and
- 28:30a bunch of men and a lot of foreign men will comment on it and
- 28:34be very like, you know, well they won't even necessarily say anything explicit,
- 28:40but they'll just comment on her body or comment on her face or whatever.
- 28:42And then that woman will inevitably, this is like a pattern. She'll
- 28:45inevitably come back out and say, you know, I don't appreciate like the
- 28:49way that people are talking about me. So I think that, like it's
- 28:53probably a good idea not to do that, and let let don't don't let
- 29:00their looks be a distraction from their character. I guess, you know.
- 29:07And so I don't think this is I don't think this is bad advice.
- 29:10I don't even think it's badly written. I think that she's choosing to take
- 29:12it the wrong way. And I don't know why. Only compliment her when
- 29:15she does something and she does it right, Okay, yeah, you merrile
- 29:19mentor when she gets gets a she finishes, she gets she gets gold in
- 29:26the freaking Olympics. Only compliment her when she pulls off and you know,
- 29:32the conducting the orchestra. Only compliment Yeah, actually does something worth complimenting.
- 29:37That's what that means. Yeah, yeah, what's wrong with that? More
- 29:41frugal with your compliments first? And what is that? Why is she saying
- 29:45it's like training a dog? I mean there's literally a book that feminist road
- 29:48or women rode. I don't even know if it's feminist women about how to
- 29:52train their men like dogs? Is that is that? Like? Okay?
- 29:56Well no, I mean she would say no because she said, I'm not
- 30:00on both sides, right, She just doesn't really, yeah, I'm on
- 30:02both sides. She'd be like, oh, no, I call those guys
- 30:04out too. There's a what you wait, there's a video come in.
- 30:07I'm gonna I'm really gonna give it to her for saying that about men.
- 30:12Okay, look, what she's saying is only compliment women when they do something
- 30:18worth complimenting. There is nothing wrong with that. That is not training a
- 30:22dog. Yes, it seems like really sensible advice. And incidentally, nobody
- 30:29owes you compliments. So basically what you're saying like, they're okay, the
- 30:33men are like, okay, we've cooked these cookies, right, men,
- 30:37we all cook the cookies. Well, we shouldn't have to give the cookies
- 30:41out for just anything. We should give it out when we want to give
- 30:45those cookies out. And what the hell's your your your your statement here,
- 30:48lady? Those cookies are my cookies? Oh they aren't. Yeah, it'll
- 30:53make me work for those cookies. Men get to choose how they deliver compliments.
- 31:00Right there you go, and until women are delivering as many compliments as
- 31:06men. You know what when women get to choose the compliments that they deliver,
- 31:11and it's not like men get many, so you're not giving a help.
- 31:15Maybe that's what this is. Like, She's like, I want to
- 31:18be able to give out cookies, but I don't want to have to give
- 31:19out cookies. I want to have the power of incentivizing behavior, but I
- 31:23don't want to have to do the effort of giving out cookies. Yeah,
- 31:29maybe that's I'm just I'm just making a huge That's right, Let's play some
- 31:33more. Yeah. I'm not saying that women have figured out dating or the
- 31:37opposite sex either, But what I am saying is that when I see women
- 31:41talking about dating online, their solutions are usually involving things like working on themselves,
- 31:48not tolerating disrespect. I mean peace by yourself. Well, working on
- 31:52yourself means not tolerating disrespect, so basically just being combative, Like, is
- 31:59that work on yourself? Oh, I think you are lady like one of
- 32:04the three most keteers. I should challenge you. You have insulted my honor.
- 32:07Have you guys heard of this that women are are women when they're they're
- 32:10always working on themselves. Have you heard this? Have you heard about this?
- 32:15And this novel idea of women saying I wonder what I can do to
- 32:19be like a good catch? I have not. I mean, fortunately I'm
- 32:24not. I'm married, so I'm not like on the market, or but
- 32:27I don't see this around me. I don't see like you know, I
- 32:31don't know. I don't I don't see it, but maybe I'm maybe I'm
- 32:35blind. All Right, I'll play some more. Yeah, until you find
- 32:40men who actually adds to your life and learning to stand up for yourself.
- 32:45Truly independent woman? What do I mean by that? The true essence of
- 32:50independence where you are not affected by somebody else, you are detached, You
- 32:55are your own self. You're not the victim who reacts to him, and
- 33:00you are not trying to prove something to him. We thought you are an
- 33:04emphasy within your and you strive and you growth. They are not. Okay,
- 33:08go ahead. That's really combative, lady. That's really combative, it
- 33:15is, isn't it. It's funny because she thinks that. You know,
- 33:17when I hear women say independent, all I see is I don't need anyone,
- 33:24especially a man. So it's like, well, what is the point
- 33:28of a man? Well, I'll be frank like men sort of need to
- 33:34find their own point outside of women. Well, I agree with that.
- 33:37I've said that myself. But I mean, like, if ultimately we're gonna
- 33:42like continue the fucking species we have to find Yeah, we have to figure
- 33:46out what it is. But yeah, and she's saying, I am,
- 33:52I'm guaranteed she's not independent. What she's doing is she's probably taking more of
- 33:57her self worth from her job with this woman in the video here, Yeah,
- 34:01which you know she's not. That's not independence, whit. She's got
- 34:07that one of those baby on board signs. Holy shit, you have children
- 34:12with a man and you're talking this crap. She does that one of those
- 34:17or maybe that's something like a parody, maybe it's cat on board or something.
- 34:22I hope so good lord, but this is really combative, like right,
- 34:27I'm from the start her examples of women having it together are women who
- 34:32seem to think that a relationship is combat. Oh, you got to make
- 34:37him, treat him with respect. You're acting towards men like you live in
- 34:45a dueling culture and at a drop of a hat you have to duel with
- 34:49pistols at dawn. It's ridiculous. And that's not that is an independence.
- 34:55That's a state of constant warfare. And states at war are not independent in
- 35:02many cases, they're very dependent. You're dependent. You are actually using men
- 35:07as something in your psychology, right, here right now, you see what
- 35:13I'm saying, Like you're using them as a scapegoat. That's what I see.
- 35:20You thrive and you grow? Good lord, Well, everything is about
- 35:24you, isn't it. That's the other thing. Like, so these women
- 35:29that she's presenting as her example of how women are better than men treat relationship
- 35:34apparently, treat relationships like combat, like a zero st game at best,
- 35:38at best transactional, like purely transaction. Are looking at them with an incredible
- 35:45chip on his shoulder, like you're thriving and growing is something you're doing to
- 35:49men? Right? Well, okay, in twenty years you come back to
- 35:54that thrive and grow statement, because all you're doing is aging and sagging.
- 36:00Let's be frank, and uh that's all we'd any of us are doing mm
- 36:08hm is aging and sagging. And when you are no longer able to go
- 36:15on Tinder and find yourself a dick for the weekend, what are you going
- 36:19to do then? Like, how are you going to feel about yourself?
- 36:22Then? All right? But anyway, so, but she conceptualizes the relationship
- 36:28as a combative thing, right, as a zero sum game, and everything
- 36:34is me, me, me, me me, So it's not about being
- 36:37in a relationship and you guys, growing and thriving together or helping another person
- 36:44or being there because because you just want some companionship. It's all about what
- 36:49you can get, what you can get, not what you can give,
- 36:52what you can get. And this is this is this woman's examples of women
- 36:57doing it right. And you know what, I'm not actually really when I
- 37:02see guys turning this around and saying, well, what can I get in
- 37:07the most materialistic and base ways possible, I'm like, you know what,
- 37:10you guys, you have deserved you now deserve each other to be right,
- 37:15Frank, I don't see why these women I'm not seeing people who are going
- 37:23to be better at But you get what I'm saying. I'm the per examples
- 37:29these women she's that she's saying indicate that women are doing better, they have
- 37:34a better mindset going into dating. Are terrible examples and she doesn't even realize
- 37:39it. They are competitive, they're zero thumb thinkers. They don't think in
- 37:45terms of oh, what can I do to help another person? What can
- 37:47I do to make another person's life better? It's all me, me,
- 37:51me, me, me me. And then also, if I thrive it's
- 37:54it's it's because I don't I don't need no man, I'm showing I'm showing
- 37:59the patriarchy that I'm perfectly fine on my own. I'm doing it active independence.
- 38:05Okay, Well, what happens when the camera isn't on you, lady
- 38:07and you're not getting any you go girls from your audience? Are you still
- 38:12happy? Because the statistics would suggest no, All right, let's keep going.
- 38:17Yep, all right, to play some more? You growth, they
- 38:20are not discussing mind tricks ways to mess with the guy's psyche. And despite
- 38:24what the red Pill says, most women I see are just talking about how
- 38:29they'd like to find a normal guy who is nice to them. Who what
- 38:35no mind tricks? Yeah, like the like the red Pill, like nagging,
- 38:40and I think that's what she's getting at these kind of this is the
- 38:43game. Yeah, haven't you heard of the rules, lady? Like the
- 38:50women look the rules, which is a the whole set of mind tricks for
- 38:55women to play on men. No, she hasn't because she doesn't know anyone
- 39:00that does it. Therefore it doesn't exist. He just knows about what the
- 39:02red pilt guys are doing with their mental powers, like Seriously, these are
- 39:07just social tricks to not look too over eager, thus turning people off.
- 39:13That's it, what you're described. The women that you're presenting as good examples
- 39:17of how women are coming into dating better than men are playing mind tricks because
- 39:24they're turning everything into combat. She just wants, she says, they just
- 39:30want a normal guy that's nice to them. So obviously we've been doing it
- 39:36all wrong for like the last fifty years. Guys, did you know she
- 39:39just unlocked it. She just unlocked the secret. Okay. The women that
- 39:49she's describing are engaging in combat. For them, it's genuine. The men
- 39:58are saying, this is how you you defend from this combat essentially, and
- 40:05for them it's not genuine. And I guess that's what she doesn't like about
- 40:07it. I suppose she would like, I mean, honestly, what if
- 40:10we saw a man. Let's go back. Let's let's let's go back to
- 40:14the woman that she's presenting as a super super example of how awesome women are.
- 40:19Okay, misindependent, Yeah, let's see what do I mean by that?
- 40:22The true essence of independence where you are not affected by somebody else,
- 40:29you are detached, you are your own self. You are not the victim.
- 40:36Okay, well, imagine this is a man. True independence is you're
- 40:40not affected by her, right, you're not a victim of her. I
- 40:45guess you could say that's I mean, it really sounds like she's talking about
- 40:52something that's occurring in her life or has. I think that it's it's funny
- 40:58because I think that, like when she said, don't oh, you know,
- 41:02don't be overly complimentary to women unless they're like deserving of it, and
- 41:07then this message from this woman, they're very similar, but for some reason
- 41:10she sees them as opposites because it's the same. Like I don't have a
- 41:15problem with a woman saying that she won't like make herself into a victim because
- 41:22a man, I don't know, because of what a man says or does.
- 41:27But she seems to believe that in order for her to be in a
- 41:30position to where that is true, she would have to be able to walk
- 41:37away at any given moment. That's what independence means for women. I think
- 41:40it means the ability to simply leave, which means you have to be at
- 41:46arm's length in terms of your commitment to begin with, because you have to
- 41:50be able to just go right. And she is, you know, has
- 41:54the image of a professional girl boss. So she's like, if a men
- 42:00like rubs me the wrong way or whatever, I can just like take off.
- 42:04I can just leave right away. And I don't know that that's necessarily
- 42:10Like, if you're entering a relationship ready to leave, I don't think that
- 42:15you're gonna find that thing's gonna work out for you, because you're gonna have
- 42:20like this attitude of men have to walk on eggshells basically so that they don't
- 42:25make any mistakes, because you could decide that this is a step too far,
- 42:30no matter what it is, and just leave. And the truth is
- 42:34is that relationships are a lot of work. They will require sacrifice and tolerance
- 42:40and patience to make them work. And women have to have that too.
- 42:45And I think that right now we're at a place where men are expected to
- 42:51simply be happy that a woman is in their presence, and that means that
- 42:54no matter what her qualities are, or her personality is, or if she's
- 43:00bipolar or on SSRIs or just like a handful or one of these combative girl
- 43:06boss types, man is supposed to simply be grateful that she's even giving him
- 43:10like any of her time at all because it's so valuable. And on the
- 43:15other hand, she has to essentially like you know, be ready to look
- 43:23for basically like you know, level up at any given time. And that's
- 43:27kind of like where we are now. So when I think when Hannacock says,
- 43:30all the women I know are having trouble finding a nice man, it's
- 43:35not nice men. They want high status men, and there aren't many of
- 43:38them. And that's what it is. She thinks that means nice, but
- 43:42it doesn't. It means like attractive, high status, that's all, and
- 43:46there's few of those. And the truth is is that most men are normal
- 43:51and most men are mid and most men want mid women, so but mid
- 43:57women want the top men's. I mean, that's not even I don't know,
- 44:02there's nothing controversial about that. It's just it just is. Yeah,
- 44:07it shouldn't be controversial, but Okay, what I'm trying to get at is
- 44:09that this is this is what she considers to be a good approach to relationships.
- 44:17And essentially, what this woman is saying is that she does not let
- 44:22her male partner impact her like and she's either presuming that she's in a relationship
- 44:29with an abusive man, which why is she presuming that, oh yeah,
- 44:34or one that's going that's like libel like basically one that might become abusive at
- 44:38any moment. That's what I'm saying when I say they have to be ready
- 44:43to leave and have to declare their independence up front. Approaching this from a
- 44:47particular mindset, like I said, like a zero, like a combative mindset
- 44:52that she's she's got. She got to monitor him like you you'd monitor,
- 44:58I don't know, like West Germany. East Germany would monitor like West Germany.
- 45:02You got to get those guard towers up, got to get the dogs
- 45:05on the line, got to make sure you're all arm got all the armor
- 45:08up and all of this crap, and keep an eye on him because he
- 45:13might be up to something. And I'm like, do you are you sure
- 45:15this is an appropriate? Appropriate mindset? Like this is your This is this
- 45:22woman's idea of a good mindset like this is this is how women have a
- 45:27better mindset when it comes to relationships than men. No, this woman is
- 45:31presuming she's at war with the person she's in a relationship with m HM,
- 45:37And she's presuming that retaining this emotional independence is the wind condition. Well,
- 45:42why don't you get in a relationship with the guy who you don't feel like
- 45:45you're at war with? Yea, Because this is basically I have a paranoid
- 45:53and and like she sounds like she's paranoid and that she has an exactnxiety disorder
- 46:00around men. This is not something that you should look at and say,
- 46:05hey, this is the ideal. And the fact that this woman, Hannah
- 46:09Cooks, thinks that this is the ideal is a little crazy. Mm hmm,
- 46:16okay, okay, let me see, let me go to I guess
- 46:22it's like right right at the and tricks ways to mess with the guy's psyche.
- 46:28And despite what the red pill says, most women I see are just
- 46:31talking about how they'd like to find a normal guy who is nice to them,
- 46:36who respects them, who treats them well, who sees them as an
- 46:39equal, who puts as much work into the relationship as they do. And
- 46:44it turns out that's really hard to come by. I don't know any woman
- 46:46who, Yeah, it's really hard to come by. It's men's fault.
- 46:52This is a novel, a novel thing. Let's blame men, play men.
- 46:57We have they're not stepping up? Are you freaking kidding me? Again?
- 47:05I think though, Like, here's the thing. I don't know if
- 47:08Hannah Cox knows this, but like for friends who are having trouble finding men,
- 47:13they're probably there are probably thousands of men that they cross paths with every
- 47:22day and they don't see any of them for one reason or another. Too
- 47:28short, too fat, too tall, too skinny, too bald, you
- 47:32know, too hairy, whatever it is. And those men could be have
- 47:37all of those qualities. But the women that the thing is, women are
- 47:43selecting a very tiny proportion of men from the total population of men. And
- 47:49then of that tiny proportion, maybe most of them are either already like called
- 47:54for, like they have someone in their life already, or they have like
- 47:59the wrong kinds of traits, and the red flags come up later even though
- 48:04the initial signals were good, right, like oh that guy looks like somebody
- 48:08I want. Oh he's got you know, a boat, or he's like
- 48:13a broker or whatever it is, and then they find out, oh,
- 48:15well he's he's not nice. There are no good men. Meanwhile, again,
- 48:21thousands of men, the janitor, the fucking high school coach, the
- 48:25guy that's driving the lift, the guy that's your suit, the soux chef
- 48:30at the place where you get your food. All of the men all around
- 48:34you all the time are invisible. The construction workers, the sanitation guys,
- 48:37the garbage truck drivers, the male carriers, et cetera. But none of
- 48:42those men are even on the radar. So when women say where are all
- 48:45the men, the main thing is is that you have literally blocked out,
- 48:47like ninety five percent of the men in your life as not exists, not
- 48:53just not like not just not qualifying, but it's not exactsent like you don't
- 49:00even see them. And so this is why of the small percentage of men
- 49:05you do see that you're like, well, they're not available, they're accounted
- 49:08for, they have women already, or or you know, they have like
- 49:12some negative trait that I didn't see coming or whatever it is. Yeah,
- 49:15it's not her standards because she wants a normal man. It's just that there
- 49:20are no normal men. There are no average men anymore. They're all just
- 49:23outliers. Okay, that doesn't even make any sense, right. If you
- 49:29are not finding a normal man, it's because you're not looking for them,
- 49:32because they're all over the place. Let's be honest here. What she's essentially
- 49:37said is I want the average man. Well, the average man is all
- 49:42over the place. The average man is average though, yeah yeah, and
- 49:45even average men are getting married. So like some of those like a lot
- 49:49of those guys aren't available. They have girlfriends, and like, the average
- 49:52man wants a monogamous, committed relationship, and they want a family and they
- 49:59want children. That's just the truth. So if you're like thirty eight,
- 50:02thirty nine, forty two, forty three, guess what the pool is shrinking?
- 50:08You know, I mean because people are moving on. Yeah, oh
- 50:13yeah. But the thing is that what I'm trying to get at is you're
- 50:16exactly right. The average man is all around her, not a lack of
- 50:22average men that is preventing her from finding one. And the fact that she's
- 50:29saying, oh no, it's actually men's fault, which dull. I mean,
- 50:31that's what they always do. Everything is framed in terms of their own
- 50:35personal benefit, and everything is the responsibility for that always falls on men.
- 50:39What a surprise. You know, this is why I think we had coviture.
- 50:45Honestly, I think this is why, and I think that this attitude
- 50:47is bringing us back there coviture. Yeah, the idea that in Victorian era
- 50:55that men and a wife was subsumed into like the the person of the husband.
- 51:01Oh yeah, and it's because it was just a recognition how everybody will
- 51:07hold the man to blame for whatever circumstance that she doesn't like in her life.
- 51:13So you might as well just codify it in law. Okay, all
- 51:16right, let's let's keep Yeah, we'll do a little more. I just
- 51:20want you to know, I gotta like feed the dog in a couple of
- 51:23minutes, otherwise he's gonna start barking at you knows who it's time to eat.
- 51:28But what we'll do is we'll play a little more and then while I
- 51:30go feed him, you can do some arm twisting. It'll take me,
- 51:32like I'll see you less than respond to that. Otherwise maybe we could do
- 51:37a bit of a shorter show. That's fine too, I mean we can
- 51:40do more when Karen is here. We're sending any kind of super chows in.
- 51:45We aren't getting any support. So it's like it's a really quiet day.
- 51:47It seems like you guys just want to be quiet today. So yeah,
- 51:52I mean there's people watching and some new faces hello new people again,
- 51:55feel free to subscribe and yeah, and then send some comments and stuff.
- 52:00But let's play a little bit avoid YouTube. Let me also say hi to
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- 52:22Monday. Nobody wants to do anything in on Monday. They just want to
- 52:23sit there and try not to feel anything because it's the first day of the
- 52:29week. So I know, Mondays sort of suck Mondays. I hate Mondays.
- 52:34Oh god, that's a bad joke. Ah, you know what that
- 52:38that's referencing, right, Brian, Yeah, garfist school No, no,
- 52:44no, the first school shooter the girl Oh oh why okay, Well,
- 52:50man, your mind went somewhere way darker than mine. When I think of
- 52:53I hate Mondays, I just think of Garfield, Holy grand Well, So
- 52:58anyway, just send us some he send us a comment. And also,
- 53:00somebody put five bucks in the in the hat so I feel like we've done
- 53:05something today. We've gone made progress. All right, let's do it all
- 53:07right, let's play a little bit more. Who wants to date a man
- 53:10who never compliments her looks? Like? Not only is this mean, it's
- 53:15so counterintuitive because if you really believe that women are just being told they're beautiful
- 53:19all the time everywhere they go, Believe me when I say I would leave
- 53:22somebody who was not nice to me and didn't compliment me for somebody who did
- 53:27so fast it would make their head spin next time. You know, they
- 53:30probably don't compliment you on the street because they might get arrested. Oh god,
- 53:34I just had a really snotty thought. Yeah, go ahead, really
- 53:39go into bat for these compliments on your looks, lady. And I'm like,
- 53:44I'm like, I'm like reading that, I'm like, yeah, a
- 53:46man who appreciate me for something other than what I look like, because let's
- 53:50face it, I'm pretty freakin' mid. So somebody will be like, oh,
- 53:53yeah, you really, you really knocked that analysis of the echo nomic
- 54:00situation of thirteenth century England out of the park. You know, somebody who
- 54:06do that as opposed to be someone who be like your fish lips are particularly
- 54:08plumped today, you know, like I'm I'm I'm one hundred on board with
- 54:15a guy who's like, let let's note something other than the tits and ass.
- 54:20And she's like, she's having an existential crisis. And I I hate
- 54:24to say this because it's gonna sound catty, but I think she's worried that
- 54:29she's not gonna like men who are not complimenting on looks are not playing to
- 54:35her strength. Shall we say, if they if they choose to or on
- 54:37analysis, on intelligence, on other skill sets, that I'm gonna lose out.
- 54:47That is kind of caddy, but I like it. Okay, she's
- 54:52just changing ladies. I'm just saying like I'm there. I'm like, you're
- 55:01moving those compliments into a into a sport that I can actually compete in.
- 55:06And she's like, no, we gotta go back to checkers, like gotta
- 55:12be checkers. Well she does. She says that she has a boyfriend or
- 55:15a fiance or something later and that he's great. But so she's fine,
- 55:21she doesn't need your compliments. But I do think it's funny because we don't
- 55:24live in if we don't live in a world where men feel safe commenting on
- 55:31a woman's appearance. I mean, it doesn't like what she would say is
- 55:36well, just be respectful and don't say anything obscene. But like, men
- 55:38don't know what's respect What does that even fucking mean? Like how do they
- 55:43know? I mean, you know, I know that you could like go
- 55:45with the stereotype of wolf whistling construction workers, but like that, that's not
- 55:51the way most men operate. And different different cultures have different ways of doing
- 55:57things too, and women respond to different things. So what are you gonna
- 56:00do? Like this is what I'm saying, Like this, you know you
- 56:04if men aren't saying anything, it's probably best, like they're just they're just
- 56:07being rational, Like oh, look, they've made cat calling illegal in fucking
- 56:13parts of the UK. They've made they've made it illegal in Scotland to boast
- 56:15about sexual conquests in public. Why would men say anything? Why wouldn't they
- 56:22just shut up? And then you're like, why aren't men complimenting my looks?
- 56:24And there are other men literally saying guys, be careful, don't compliment
- 56:29women because you know you don't. First of all, you don't want to
- 56:31blow their egos up, but you also probably don't want to get arrested,
- 56:36you know, like these are the conditions you created. You created these,
- 56:42well at least the loudest voices. Well women, Yeah, women like have
- 56:46and the simps that protect them. But but like Hannah Cox is like just
- 56:51just blaming men, like men are just supposed to ignore this shit. You
- 56:54know. So I got a super chow. Yay. Richard Bierre gives us
- 57:00a superchow and says for five dollars and then five dollars. So I don't
- 57:07know if that's like a bit of support and a super child, but he
- 57:09says the Party of Single Women is sock puppet for the catriarchy. Thank you
- 57:16for that, Richard. Yeah, I should probably take control again, and
- 57:22you know it's really friend Okay, first of all, I want to get
- 57:24this out there. But when you do that, can I just feed my
- 57:28dog while you're ranting? All right, go ahead, I will. I'll
- 57:30be right back to dog. Okay. So one thing I want to point
- 57:34out right, I feel sorry for her boyfriend or fiance or whatever it is,
- 57:40because that's a guy who is never going to be heard and he's going
- 57:46to go to his grave without having had a real relationship with anyone, because
- 57:52I don't feel like this individual has any conception or the ability to extend herself
- 57:58out to understand somebody isn't doesn't look like her and isn't her, and just
- 58:07I just feel sorry for him, especially since her ideal approach to a relationship
- 58:14apparently is deeply combative and paranoid and treating men like somebody who's afraid of spiders
- 58:22would treat spiders, you know, something that needs to be corralled and contained
- 58:27like that. That has to say something about her, although on the other
- 58:30hand, I'm not getting a really strong intelligence vibe from her, so maybe
- 58:35he just dominates her that way. Who knows. Anyway, to go back
- 58:39to the k triarchy, the cattriarchy, the party of single women is sock
- 58:44puppet for the catriarchy. That's what Richard Beer said. And just to respond
- 58:46to that briefly, I was in a discussion on Twitter when somebody said,
- 58:54Okay, I was talking about how saying that women are gonna end up as
- 59:02cat ladies is actually sort of a backhanded insult to men, because men aren't
- 59:09even more attractive than a cat in terms of a life companion. And somebody
- 59:19who was like, was came and I had a comment which I don't remember,
- 59:22and somebody replied to that and said, well, men aren't even successfully
- 59:25competing against cats, And I'm like, yeah, but let's look at this.
- 59:30Let's unpack this. Let's look at the average cat, the average cat
- 59:34human relationship and what it entails. Right, because I have cats, I
- 59:37have three cats. I actually really like cats. I value them as companions,
- 59:42but I have no illusions about them. Okay, now let's comparing the
- 59:46cat. I have a variety of companions. Shall we say I have cat
- 59:52companions, I have a dog companion, and I have a man companion.
- 59:55Right, Okay, let's look at the I have a human companion having a
- 1:00:02cat as a companion, all right, Okay, you will have to accommodate
- 1:00:07the cat's moods. Right. It will walk over your lap with its damn
- 1:00:14claws out, and when you are like, please stop that, and you
- 1:00:16throw you throw the cat onto the ground because you don't want to have a
- 1:00:21series of slashes all over your legs. It will consider you in the wrong.
- 1:00:27Right, so if you don't function is some kind of combination of a
- 1:00:30freaking scratching post and perch to its satisfaction, you will be in the wrong.
- 1:00:37So everything is judged by the cat's interior experience of what is occurring.
- 1:00:45Right. So you like, as a woman, you'd be like, oh,
- 1:00:47well, the cat comes up and scratches you. Well, that was
- 1:00:50your fault as a woman, not the cat's fault. It's your fault you
- 1:00:52did something wrong. Right. So a cat is basically a little narcissist,
- 1:01:00bipolar or no sorry, borderline, and you have to accommodate its moods.
- 1:01:06Right. You also have to give it sandwiches. Let's let's face it.
- 1:01:09You have to make the food for the cat, right, or it's gonna
- 1:01:14fuck off. It's not gonna be want to be with you. So you've
- 1:01:15gotta make the cat sandwiches. You've got to tolerate its moods. You gotta
- 1:01:20pet it when it wants. You gotta make it sandwiches. You gotta take
- 1:01:25care of it. You gotta pay for all of its its bills. Right,
- 1:01:31And it's gonna wake you up in the middle of the night, doesn't
- 1:01:34care if if you have to wake up the next morning at six am.
- 1:01:37No, you're gonna be getting up at three two, uh, because it's
- 1:01:39gonna wild over your head, like just run over your head, and it
- 1:01:42doesn't give a fuck. And there's no there's no conversation to be had with
- 1:01:45the cat, right, You just have to accommodate it and keep accommodating it.
- 1:01:51So, ladies, your relationship with the cat is a relationship with a
- 1:01:54fickle, moody creature that requires continue accommodation. Requires you to pay all its
- 1:02:01bills, make all its meals, pet it, and do everything for it.
- 1:02:08And occasionally it will give you a dead mouse in thanks in your shoe,
- 1:02:14which you will step on at five thirty in the morning when you have
- 1:02:19to go to work, right, you'll be stepping on on half half rotten
- 1:02:27mouse. Sinnerds. Okay, this is this is the cat, all right.
- 1:02:32And yet women think that that companion is better than men. You know
- 1:02:38why, this one simple reason, because they value the companionship of a cat.
- 1:02:46Is as simple as that, and they do not value the companionship of
- 1:02:51a man. Like my husband goes out of his way to you know,
- 1:02:55make coffee, make food, clean up, build shit if I need it,
- 1:03:01if I'm upset, I don't know, he'll perk his ears up.
- 1:03:06And like, for example, there was a comment that someone sent like a
- 1:03:10month ago, and they were saying, you only have yourselves like at HBr
- 1:03:15Honey badgerating we only have ourselves to blame. We only have ourselves to blame
- 1:03:19for sucking right, And that got me really upset for a while, you
- 1:03:22know, and my and my husband sort of noticed this. He didn't say
- 1:03:27anything, but then he got it in his mind to completely renovate the front
- 1:03:32front area of the Badger Cave and put up all of the things that we've
- 1:03:37done over the last ten years. So every time I walk in, I'm
- 1:03:40like, oh, right, man. We've had dozens of meetups. We've
- 1:03:45put on a a convention that was apparently extremely amazing. I didn't get to
- 1:03:52go to it because I was banned from the US for five years. That's
- 1:03:53another thing that was done, and you know, and we've put on that.
- 1:03:57We've actually pursued a lawsuit. Even if we failed, we still pursued
- 1:04:00it. Right, We've done all of these things in the last ten years,
- 1:04:03and he put up images that represent all of that. So when I
- 1:04:08walk in, I'm reminded of everything we do in that ten years. And
- 1:04:11he did that because I was sad that's a man. Now compare that to
- 1:04:16a cat, and I can tell you something. If you're choosing a cat,
- 1:04:24you're an idiot. And the reason why you're choosing a cat is because
- 1:04:29you don't have the sheer amount of stupid baggage that that woman was spitting out
- 1:04:34in that car, Like that woman who was like, oh, I treat
- 1:04:38a man like an unexploded ammunition in my backyard. I treat a man like
- 1:04:45I'm phobic off he's a spider, and I'm phobic of spiders. I treat
- 1:04:48a man like he at any moment, he could turn into a raving lunatic
- 1:04:51who will attempt to cut my head off with a with a I don't know,
- 1:04:57a screwdriver. You know. I treat a man like he's going to
- 1:05:00be a net negative any instant in my life, and he has to prove
- 1:05:02himself constantly, like I mean some goddamn Russian dual novel, okay. I
- 1:05:09treat a man like he's contagious, you know. I treat a man a
- 1:05:15relationship with a man like a zero sum. I'm always looking for anything he's
- 1:05:17getting that I'm not getting. That's why you value your relationships with cats,
- 1:05:25because your attitude to a relationship with a cat is actually healthy. Well you
- 1:05:30know what, it's that probably unhealthy if you think about it, since it's
- 1:05:31so one sided. But the reason why you tolerate all of that is because
- 1:05:35you value the cat's company. And if a man isn't rising above a cat,
- 1:05:40it's because you don't value men's company. You don't value their companionship.
- 1:05:44You act like you're at war in your relationships with men. Okay, And
- 1:05:51if this woman is presenting that as the ideal approach to being in a relationship
- 1:05:57with another human being, I feel for the person that she's in a relationship
- 1:06:03with because that is insane and it's really telling. Okay, yeah, okay,
- 1:06:12I got some super chows yay, so I'm gonna read them really quick.
- 1:06:15Thank you guys. Great Indoors gives us ten dollars and says, I
- 1:06:20don't like mondays with every third bullet missing. You get it. That's like
- 1:06:25a song, like a beast saber reference. You're happy now, Allison.
- 1:06:30You did this. This is all on you, so thank you for the
- 1:06:34ten dollars. Great Indoors. I don't know if that's actually like a song
- 1:06:39request. I guess we can look into it, but that's just activating the
- 1:06:43spurg in me what little of it has rubbed off from you guys. And
- 1:06:48then I got another super chow from Skatcoat who gives us five dollars and says,
- 1:06:56have you guys thought about putting clips of the live streams on the main
- 1:07:00channel? You guys make fantastic points and are able to articulate the annual of
- 1:07:05the world. I think it would get the idea. Huh, even I
- 1:07:09know that, Oh nui, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I can't see
- 1:07:13Nui of the world. I think it would get the idea on we Okay,
- 1:07:17okay, Sorry, I'm Latino and it's racist for you to correct my
- 1:07:21pronunciation, saying I get to do it this time, I get to correct
- 1:07:25Okay, okay the first time, Ammen. English is not my first language.
- 1:07:30I think it would get the ideas out there in a more digestible way.
- 1:07:34I save the recursion discussion from the Conan cancel for Toxic Masculinity stream from
- 1:07:40last year. I kind of remember that. I'm very passionate about toxic masculinity
- 1:07:44and Conan the Barbarian and reflect on it every now and then, and just
- 1:07:47now I am saving the sentiment on zero some women because it was really well
- 1:07:51put, just a thought, well are machines, dude? I have you
- 1:08:00know what? I've been saying this for a while. I don't know.
- 1:08:02I think there's the only issue is I agree with you scapego. And this
- 1:08:06is one of the reasons why I did sort of like start a Riverside account,
- 1:08:12because Riverside has this AI thing where it goes through videos and it creates
- 1:08:15a transcript and it splits the video into little sections, and I thought it
- 1:08:19could be useful for us to upload clips. And maybe it's a good idea.
- 1:08:25You know. Terrence Pop he recently started taking like from some of his
- 1:08:30very old videos and making shorts out of like a singular point and sharing the
- 1:08:34shorts on YouTube. So I don't know, but I'm not the boss.
- 1:08:40I don't call the shots. And there is something about our channel that's a
- 1:08:45little like the main channel. There's a problem with it. An algorithmic,
- 1:08:48right, mom, there's a problem with all of them. Like, I'll
- 1:08:53be quite frank, I don't know what the like. Uh Now, admittedly
- 1:08:58I have really updated anything in the main channel for a while. I'm probably
- 1:09:03going to get back to it, mostly because I'm just overburdened. I know,
- 1:09:09people like when I say that it's extremely difficult to write creatively and then
- 1:09:15write for a YouTube channel. I mean, maybe there are people who can
- 1:09:18do that. I'm not one of them. I will tell you that when
- 1:09:23I look at the writing of YouTubers, like the creative writing of YouTubers,
- 1:09:28I am not impressed. And I'm not singling out anybody in particular. Well,
- 1:09:33I'm singling them all out except for maybe one or two very minor example,
- 1:09:40or one or two like exceptions YouTubers. It really I don't think you
- 1:09:46can do both. So I haven't really updated the main channel. I will
- 1:09:49probably do something. I'm actually well, I think why. I think that's
- 1:09:54why you're suggesting that if we like just take clips from our live streams.
- 1:09:58I know, you know, there's a we do a lot of coal shoveling,
- 1:10:00but sometimes you find a diamond, and I think that if we can
- 1:10:03find the diamonds, we can put the diamonds up on the main channel,
- 1:10:06like as a clip as well. Well. The only thing we'd need is
- 1:10:09somebody to do that, because I'm honestly yeah, yeah, yeah, if
- 1:10:12we if we could get someone to go. And I mean there's some useful
- 1:10:15tools, Like I said, Riverside does. It's called Riverside dot FM,
- 1:10:19and they they will use AI and then maybe that AI gets like as a
- 1:10:25turn gets thrown around a lot. But it basically goes through the video and
- 1:10:29it like finds, you know, it breaks it up into sections, and
- 1:10:32it creates a transcript of the whole thing, and then you can like find
- 1:10:36like, oh, this was a great little clip right here, and then
- 1:10:40make that into its own video and maybe like even if somebody wanted to,
- 1:10:45they could add a little bit of you know, b roll footage or something
- 1:10:48so it's not like talking cartoons, and then that can just go up on
- 1:10:53the channel. I think that's what I think would be good. But I
- 1:10:56know that that could be cool. I just need somebody to freakin' do it,
- 1:11:00honestly, because yeah, so if you know anybody, frank uh.
- 1:11:05At the moment, it doesn't look like I'm doing a lot of work,
- 1:11:09but I am actually putting in full time days trying to figure out the writing
- 1:11:14thing. And from my analysis of the situation, I think that storytelling is
- 1:11:21going to be a vital component of anything going forward. Oh yeah, yeah.
- 1:11:27Jonathan Paget has been doing that too. He's he made a uh he
- 1:11:31did a classic version of the story, Snow White Story, and we have
- 1:11:35the book and it's really really beautiful. Mm hmmm. So anyway, not
- 1:11:43just recreating old stories, but also no, I know, surely a synthesis,
- 1:11:47but uh yeah, I just honestly it'd be nice to just you get
- 1:11:54some people together to do that, and I would certainly be up to putting
- 1:11:58it out on the main channel as a snippets. Although what I wanted to
- 1:12:00do with the main channel I was getting to that is I was thinking of
- 1:12:03doing more analysis of female characters and fiction because I think people are sort of
- 1:12:10fascinated by that and I'd like to get into more how women have are now
- 1:12:15have almost completely lost all of that historic like if you read old fairy tales,
- 1:12:24there is character development in the female characters and they're doing stuff, they're
- 1:12:29facing things, and we've lost all of that in female storytelling. Lost that
- 1:12:34responsibility to your family, that responsibility to people you love, that responsibility to
- 1:12:40your community, that kind of call to be courageous, you know, not
- 1:12:45always in the way that men are necessarily or courageous, but to have courage,
- 1:12:49to have self discipline. All of the old stories had that for female
- 1:12:54characters. They don't have that anymore. Like I again, like, what
- 1:13:00what do male female characters have to learn in modern media? Uh? They
- 1:13:04don't actually have to become better people. They just have to learn that how
- 1:13:08powerful they are when the when the patriarchy ain't keeping them down. Mm hm
- 1:13:14that. Oh no, it's responsible for your power. You got to get
- 1:13:18more of it and you're possible to nobody. Yeah, all right, so
- 1:13:27thank you skatego for that. I think that it would be a great idea
- 1:13:30if we can get a little help. And if you know anybody that's willing
- 1:13:31to help us out with that, leave us a comment, or if you're
- 1:13:36in the discord already, you know, send a message offer your assistance.
- 1:13:41All right, And they got another one from sick Fox gives us ten dollars
- 1:13:45and says here are two comments a couple of streams ago Alison said the Javier
- 1:13:47Amlie's talk at the w F W e F was blue screen, but that's
- 1:13:51not true. There's a bunch of evidence that he was really there. Yeah,
- 1:13:56I was. I meant to say that before when I learned I learned
- 1:13:59that like shortly after that show is over, because I was like really and
- 1:14:01then I and then people were showing me there's like different I was. It
- 1:14:05was a different thing that I was referring to. I was referring to a
- 1:14:10comedian. There was a comedian that that injected himself into Yeah, he does
- 1:14:15that. He puts himself in like not just like WAF talks, but like
- 1:14:19you know, kind of what do you call them, like news spots where
- 1:14:23they have talking heads come out. Yeah, yeah, I know who you're
- 1:14:27talking about. A confusion. I'm sorry, I was wrong, Okay,
- 1:14:30let's go Yeah, I was uh and then he says, uh, let
- 1:14:35me see so oh and Both Sides is a safe, easy narrative for dim
- 1:14:40slash midwits that insinuate insulates them from the need to think, while also allowing
- 1:14:45them to manufacture a sense of superiority without having to provide anything a substance.
- 1:14:48Yeah, thank you. And I know absolutely one hundred percent love it and
- 1:14:53I do get because you know, it all comes from the same place like
- 1:14:57Anna Cox here and Maria mcclennan from the previous video and these like both sides
- 1:15:04people that you see I see like there's like a big, big thread on
- 1:15:09my Twitter. I don't know, I'm like getting the fire fucking twitters started,
- 1:15:14like I just share a simple thing and it's turned to this big thing
- 1:15:16and there are people doing that in there, and they're like saying, you
- 1:15:20know, I don't like either extreme I don't like the red pill or the
- 1:15:24feminists. Aah, you know, checkmate extremists. And I'm like, wow,
- 1:15:30one hundred million IQ take from the galaxy brained guy on Twitter that doesn't
- 1:15:33really know what we stand for telling me where we are and it's it's annoying,
- 1:15:39but I know where it's coming from. It's it's it's a it's a
- 1:15:42failure of their pride, it's their ego. They can't say, you know,
- 1:15:47I might be wrong about this. I should look into it. And
- 1:15:50because they lack this humility, they never find the truth. They just say
- 1:15:56I'm not on either side, and then they act like they just I don't
- 1:15:59know, won the game or something, but you don't really like, I'm
- 1:16:03not interested in winning. I'm interested in the truth, and I'm interested in
- 1:16:08people participating in the discourse of the truth. That's all. Maybe, and
- 1:16:13I always say this, maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I've been wrong about all
- 1:16:15of this shit, But I want someone to show me and engage me like
- 1:16:19an adult and not just be like, I know what you stand for.
- 1:16:23You're on team Blue or Team Red or whatever, and it's like, you
- 1:16:26don't even know what I'm talking about. Like I'm like, what is the
- 1:16:30middle point between a man and his children? Like, is where's the fence
- 1:16:36when there's a father denied the right to see his child? Where's the fence
- 1:16:41when a man had destroyed because a woman made an allegation against him? You
- 1:16:45know, when this happened, a Johnny Depp like women that would probably have
- 1:16:49otherwise thrown him under the bus or any other man under the bus came forward
- 1:16:54to defend him. And I think part of it had to do with the
- 1:16:56fact that they thought he was attractive. Because now that like this thing is
- 1:17:00happening to Trump, he's getting way less support from women. So it's like,
- 1:17:03well, why, what's the difference. What's the difference between Trump and
- 1:17:06Weinstein and Bill Cosby and Johnny Depp and fucking you know the guy from that
- 1:17:13seventy show who got thirty years? What's the difference? Don't I don't play
- 1:17:18those games. And I think when people do, I think they're just protecting
- 1:17:21their ego. It's like, put you know, put it down. Let's
- 1:17:25just look at what's just and what's not just for a second. It's okay
- 1:17:29to be wrong. It doesn't mean you're a bad person. It just means
- 1:17:31you don't have all the info. Be open to that. And I think
- 1:17:34Hannah Cox is doing that. She's she's like her whole The tone throughout this
- 1:17:40whole video is I'm I am the libertarian feminist, and I think a lot
- 1:17:45of people and I'm sorry because I do have a lot of libertarian like values
- 1:17:50in me. I find libertarians to be some of the smuggest people like the
- 1:17:55smuggest most like self righteous, hyper intelligent, high thinking people that are just
- 1:18:01midwits. They're just there and they're moral cowards because they don't want to say
- 1:18:06this is just and this is unjust. They want to be like, well,
- 1:18:10I mean, there's two sides to the story. And it's like,
- 1:18:13well, you mean, like the woman who stabbed her man like a hundred
- 1:18:15times and didn't go see a day in jail. What's the where's the middle
- 1:18:20ground? There? Where's the fence? Show me? Show me the middle
- 1:18:23ground. I will, I will, I will push back on some of
- 1:18:29that. Okay, okay, with okay, first of all, with Cosby,
- 1:18:36stuff is coming out that suggests that he was convicted based on doctorate evidence.
- 1:18:43Yeah, Sean, weird. Again, some other stuff is coming out,
- 1:18:48all right, every person who is accused deserves due process. That's how
- 1:18:54they're all the same. Yeah, that's that's what I'm saying. Uh,
- 1:18:58Johnny Depp, the difference is that he is such a one extreme. Like
- 1:19:09the thing is that you could you could argue that Weinstein and Cosby or whoever
- 1:19:14else they're doing something. Okay, Johnny Depp was the victim, like he
- 1:19:21he in these guys, you know, they may not have had victims because
- 1:19:28due process. And I'm not completely convinced. It seems like Weinstein was more
- 1:19:32like a quid pro quote than anything. But aside, Johnny Depp was the
- 1:19:38victim who was then falsely accused. So this is like, this isn't like
- 1:19:42a whole other realm of just horrifying bullshit. And it was so stark I
- 1:19:48think a lot of women couldn't hang on to oh well he could have been
- 1:19:55the aggressor, or oh well, he's sleezy or oh well, because Johnny
- 1:20:00depth not only is it was attract is attractive, he also played a certain
- 1:20:03type of character that had a certain type of vulnerability. So I think there
- 1:20:06was like a perfect storm around Johnny Depp and they and it was the fact
- 1:20:11that he was the victim and he was the one and that he all like.
- 1:20:15She also threw it in his face like who's gonna believe you if you're
- 1:20:19if you say you're the victim? Right? Remember that? Sure, I
- 1:20:23remember one of the things that that's one of the things that really blew it
- 1:20:26up. So yeah, it was partly because he's attractive, but I think
- 1:20:30it's also because he wasn't like, let's face it, well, well let
- 1:20:33me let me I agree that that, But I think that the reason I
- 1:20:39think that it helped that he was a person that women liked for other reasons
- 1:20:44that they were willing to look into the case more than yestie. That's what
- 1:20:47I'm saying, Like, yes, you know, if you look at Justice
- 1:20:51Brett Kavanaugh and the accusations levied against him specifically just to prevent him from getting
- 1:20:57on the Supreme Court, let's let's let's be real. That's all it was
- 1:21:00about and we talked about how hard it is for men to like handle false
- 1:21:08allegations, especially rape allegations. They they're like, they're psychological trauma. Like
- 1:21:15there was the story of Alec Haloka, who you guys might know from Gamergate.
- 1:21:19He killed himself because Zoe Quinn accused him of rape and and people believed
- 1:21:25it even after he died and it came out that it was all like there
- 1:21:30was no evidence, no evidence at all, and he killed himself. And
- 1:21:33even after that, his sister was like, well, I believe victims.
- 1:21:36It was you know. So I mean, I'm saying that, no,
- 1:21:40you don't. Your brother's one. Obviously, yeah, your brother is one.
- 1:21:44But I'm saying that I'm not dismissing that Johnny's Depp's cases is unique in
- 1:21:51its own way. I'm saying that because he is Johnny Depp, he was
- 1:21:56given some monicum of a benefit of the doubt because there were and it was
- 1:22:02a lot of women that were coming to his defense. But if it weren't
- 1:22:06for the fact that he was Johnny Depp, he wouldn't have gotten that benefit
- 1:22:10of the doubt. I think that was a big part of what made people
- 1:22:13say, wait, a minute, that's not the guy I know, or
- 1:22:15you know, I like, I'm going to look into the case more.
- 1:22:17Yeah, I think that's the reason, or at least one of the major
- 1:22:21reasons. No, I'm not going to disagree. But at the same time
- 1:22:24as the I think that the case itself, like, oh absolutely, I
- 1:22:29mean the equivalent would be if the women were raping or what would be?
- 1:22:35Yeah, actually I will go with that. If the equivalent would be if
- 1:22:39we found out evidence that, for example, Cosby had been the one who
- 1:22:44had been drugged and raped. And I'm not saying that that's what happened.
- 1:22:46I'm saying that that the reverse had actually happened, and that it was a
- 1:22:51false accusation against him. So, I mean it's a bit different because the
- 1:22:56level of egregiousness, I think is substantially because it's not just a false accusation
- 1:23:02of the man, it's falsely accusing him of what you yourself are guilty of.
- 1:23:09Right, And I don't think anybody's saying that Weinstein was raped by the
- 1:23:14women or Cosby, or is there evidence that that was the case, Whereas
- 1:23:18with this situation with Johnny Depp, there is significant evidence that he was indeed
- 1:23:25a victim of what he was being falsely accused of, which is a level
- 1:23:29of egregious bullshit that is just I think it just elevates it above the other
- 1:23:34situations, even though they're not great either, because people deserve you process.
- 1:23:39Yeah, not sure that that's what happened, at least when it comes to
- 1:23:43Cosby. Sure, well, I guess what I'm saying is it doesn't like.
- 1:23:46My central point is that there is a lot of certainty, and going
- 1:23:53back to what the guy posted about on both sides, I'm saying that,
- 1:23:58you know, there are some things that are just true if you're willing to
- 1:24:03sacrifice your ego and you know, allow for that. Because go ahead,
- 1:24:11here's a challenge to them of both sides. How are both sides right?
- 1:24:15Yeah? Exactly, And actually I can actually you give me a moment and
- 1:24:19give me some time to set it up. I will argue that that feminism
- 1:24:24actually provided a function to society. I will argue, and I'm going to
- 1:24:28present that point, and I think it's critical to understand it. I am
- 1:24:30not saying it is correct, and I'm not saying that it's going to be
- 1:24:34functional long term, but I think that it did do something positive for society.
- 1:24:41So I'm willing to go there because and then one of the reasons why
- 1:24:44is I'm hoping to do something a little less toxic, you know. But
- 1:24:50so here's the challenge from both sides. How are both sides right? Not
- 1:24:55just both sides are wrong? Yeah, okay, okay, so let's play
- 1:25:00some more. I don't think I got any more super chats or child's or
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- 1:25:57a bit left. You know what, we might have to go through the
- 1:26:00first bit with Karen. We'll just have to be quiet while she looks at
- 1:26:04it and fumes, well, this bit that we've been playing, how much
- 1:26:08longer are we going to go on this one? Then? Oh, let's
- 1:26:11see, let's let's get a little bit further in. All right, up,
- 1:26:15they say, do not seek her validation. Seeking approval from a woman
- 1:26:18is the number one way to inflate her ego to the moon. Leave craving
- 1:26:21for approval to women. Don't forget, guys, the best way to hang
- 1:26:25on to a woman is to make sure you're doing nothing that makes her happy.
- 1:26:28Next up, they say, wait, wait, wait, wait what
- 1:26:30what did that woman just say? Yeah? I know, right, see
- 1:26:38is when when women do it, it's it's okay when women do it.
- 1:26:41Okay, So what are we looking at here? All right? She puts
- 1:26:45up a video of a woman who says exactly what's said in this comment,
- 1:26:49and that is the attitude that women should have in a relationship. I mean,
- 1:26:54honestly, I think that this dark psychology guy, you know what,
- 1:26:59I don't know, maybe he's right, because it does seem like women,
- 1:27:01like the Dark Triad men, Let's be honest, statistically, they're doing well.
- 1:27:05I mean, like the Dark Triad men are having no problem with this,
- 1:27:10this this situation. Like they're they're they're making bank, they're they're they're
- 1:27:14crushing puss like never before in human history, you know. Like, so
- 1:27:18maybe dark psychology has a point. Now, I would honestly say that if
- 1:27:26a man is at all within the realm of normal human emotion, most likely
- 1:27:32in a relationship, he is going to end up seeking her validation. Because
- 1:27:38that's that's what I've noticed about men. It makes for a lot of men,
- 1:27:45It makes them happy to make their partner happy, you know, and
- 1:27:48it used to be a little bit more reciprocal. You know, he'd change
- 1:27:53your tire, you'd make him a whole week's worth of sandwiches or something.
- 1:27:57Right, So, I'm not even sure if this guy's accurate. Dark psych
- 1:28:04for men. Lady, maybe don't quote dark psych for men because you,
- 1:28:10oh, no, she's she's got to find the most extreme example, and
- 1:28:14then you use that for a few like everyone that even like is remotely connected
- 1:28:18to what she considers the red pill slash manisphere. No, this is just
- 1:28:23men. She didn't even qualify the red pill men. She's just saying men,
- 1:28:27what's wrong with men? She did say what's wrong with men? So
- 1:28:31she said that the what's wrong with them is that they're taking advice from red
- 1:28:34pill like reline. I want to point something else out right, she is
- 1:28:41quoting someone called dark psychology, dark psych for men, a dating advice from
- 1:28:50the dark side, and what she has shown as dating advice, and this
- 1:28:56is this guy. I'm pretty sure this branding dating advice from the dark Side
- 1:29:01is gonna be the dark side of dating advice, you know, So it's
- 1:29:05gonna be the stuff you can get, Like he's gonna go for the stuff.
- 1:29:10That's exactly he's gonna I just want to I just want to point that
- 1:29:19out. Okay, So this this is the dark side. He's She's found
- 1:29:25the dark side when it comes to men's dating advice. This is this is
- 1:29:29the sith she's found the sith Lord. She's found Lord's dating advice twitter always
- 1:29:36are Okay. You see, is that sith Lord's dating advice for men is
- 1:29:45equal to what she thinks is a good thing for women. Like, she's
- 1:29:50like this, this is this is what women should do. This is women
- 1:29:55when women should be. We shouldn't seek their validation. We should we should
- 1:29:59regard relationship as a battleground. We should be paranoid, we should be constantly
- 1:30:03And because that's what that woman was talking about. That was the attitude that
- 1:30:08women have. That woman had exactly the same attitude as the sith lord.
- 1:30:15Okay, but she was just she was good. This woman was like,
- 1:30:17that's good. That's the way women should be. And she was average.
- 1:30:23So the average woman's attitude towards dating is equal to when men turn to the
- 1:30:29dark side. I'm just gonna point that out. Did you see that?
- 1:30:34Is there a way to learn this power? She's proven everything her opponents have
- 1:30:42said about women. She is walking proof, and she is presenting proof.
- 1:30:48The average Apparently, the average woman, or at least the woman that she
- 1:30:54thinks is ideal and has the ideal attitude to dating, has the equivalent and
- 1:31:00attitude to what to this to the sith frecking lord of dating for men?
- 1:31:06Okay, but if it's if it works though, Like if it works,
- 1:31:10what she's saying is that what what is that that lyric a woman's soul is
- 1:31:16created below? This is like this is like, this is the the law
- 1:31:20of unintended consequences. She's basically proving that that that song right a woman well,
- 1:31:28and that's also she's also drawn to respond to this. So you're kind
- 1:31:31of proving like you're getting you you uh, are giving this person attention,
- 1:31:38which kind of validates this guy's existence, and then you're responding to it.
- 1:31:45But it you know, and it also kind of lines up with the women
- 1:31:48that you're presenting to, so like you're into this. Yeah, But like
- 1:31:53I just astounded that she's just she I don't think she realizes that she's proven
- 1:31:58the point of everybody's criticized women dating today's attitude is equal to the dark Like
- 1:32:03you're you're you're bringing You're going down into the ninth level of hell. I
- 1:32:08think there's only seven, but we're gonna propose that there are nine. You're
- 1:32:11going down to the ninth level of hell and asking Satan what his advice for
- 1:32:15men is. And Satan's advice for men is equal to the to the attitude
- 1:32:20and the approach of the average woman to dating. Are you fucking kidding me?
- 1:32:24Are you mental? Hannah Cox? Did you intend to prove everybody who
- 1:32:30you are apparently calling out right? Do you see what I'm saying? Mm
- 1:32:35hmmm mm hmm. So basically men have to deal with Beelzebub in dating,
- 1:32:45and that's just the average woman apparently, or or the ideal woman, according
- 1:32:48to Hannah Cox, is basically oral version of this sith lord yep, oh
- 1:32:56god, Okay, let's keep going. That makes her happy. Next up,
- 1:33:00they say, never ask for commitment. This is a pull away move,
- 1:33:03and it is mental. That's how it works. Know how to action
- 1:33:06speech over the phone or face to face. Don't let your actions speak volume
- 1:33:11of what you want with her? Oh my god, never ask for commitment?
- 1:33:15Well go ahead, yeah, but okay, So this is the implication
- 1:33:19here is he actually wants commitment, and he's doesn't want to lay it out
- 1:33:26because because it would make him sound desperate and that will be a turnoff in
- 1:33:30that. And I think it's true. Yeah, I think that men.
- 1:33:33I think that women should be asking men for commitment. It gives them,
- 1:33:38like not to make it into like a power struggle, because there shouldn't be
- 1:33:41one, but like men have to have like if women are going to control
- 1:33:45the reins to sex, men should control the rains to commitment at least,
- 1:33:48you know, so that they know that this isn't one sided. So yeah,
- 1:33:54I mean I don't think this is no, this is radical advice.
- 1:33:59Really, I would say this is fairly milk toast. And again no,
- 1:34:01but she reads it with this like, oh my god, can you believe
- 1:34:04this? You know, that's like how she's that's what she's trying to suggest,
- 1:34:12men don't owe you necessarily commitment. Like yeah, again, this is
- 1:34:15turning this into a battlefield. But she's presenting women's attitude making it into a
- 1:34:23battlefield. And then here men are responding to it, like do you think
- 1:34:28that if a man is like, hey, would you like to get married
- 1:34:30and the woman was, oh, yes, yes, I'm so, this
- 1:34:32is the happiest day of my life, do you think they would have a
- 1:34:34problem expressing their commitment. No, all right, this is in response to
- 1:34:40what they perceive women want, and they perceive that women will consider them to
- 1:34:45be desperate because for whatever reason, there seems to be like this huge thing
- 1:34:49that's influencing women to regard a relationship with a man as a battlefield. I
- 1:34:54don't know if you've noticed that there seems to be this gigantic push or movement
- 1:35:00or ideology that's influencing women to regard their relationships with men in the most hostile
- 1:35:10terms. It's it's about it's almost everywhere, Like, you turn on a
- 1:35:15show, you see it. You know, you turn on the the you
- 1:35:17read a media outlet, you see it. You know it's it's in government
- 1:35:21programs, almost everywhere. It's ubiquitous, and it's constantly telling women that,
- 1:35:27you know, men are out to get them. Maybe maybe in response to
- 1:35:30that, women have made relationships into a battlefield and these guys, this,
- 1:35:36this the sith Lord is telling men, Hey, don't don't play your cards.
- 1:35:43Keep your cards close to your chest, because if she's going to play
- 1:35:45it like it's a battle, you gotta be careful. Yeah, protect yourself
- 1:35:48basically. Yeah, But I don't know, Hyanna Cox, could you recognize
- 1:35:55that there might be a force in our society that has turned the relationship between
- 1:36:00men and women into one defined by oppression? Like did you recognize that at
- 1:36:09all? But that's impossible because she's a libertarian feminist. Do you think that
- 1:36:14she means something? H Do you think that men's you know, are Honestly,
- 1:36:17do you think if women responded well to men asking for a commitment that
- 1:36:25they wouldn't do that? Yeah? I mean this is the flest frustrating part
- 1:36:30of this. Not only do we have a gigantic ideology basically turning men and
- 1:36:35women's relationships into a battlefield, you know, And there's no other way to
- 1:36:40look at that. If you're going to frame men as the primary way that
- 1:36:45men relate to women through is through oppression and desire to hurt them for their
- 1:36:49own benefit, you have turned the relationship between men into women and women into
- 1:36:54battlefields. And I'm afraid that the sex that embraced that, that whole conception
- 1:36:59of the relationship between men and women being defined by oppression was women. So
- 1:37:03this is a response to that because you went there first. And I know
- 1:37:09it's this that they'll say, oh, this is a but what about ism?
- 1:37:13No, you went there first. You your presentation of the ideal way
- 1:37:18that a woman should go into relationships was that woman who regarded them as a
- 1:37:24battlefield. Right, So this is this is a response to that women have
- 1:37:29decided relationships are a battlefield. Men have decided to respond to that by hiding
- 1:37:36the fact that they really want love to love a woman. Congratulations, ladies,
- 1:37:44congratulations, she's as statis. Fuck yes, Like, at this point,
- 1:37:51what I think you want with her is to maybe tie her up in
- 1:37:55your basement. You don't have to ask for commitment. That way, she
- 1:37:58can't get out. Next they say, eyes, your problem, lady,
- 1:38:03that seems a little uh, that escalated rapidly. Yeah, what the okay,
- 1:38:13don't immediately jump to talk of commitment. Okay, Yeah, that's uh.
- 1:38:19That's basically tying a woman up and putting in her basement. Yeah.
- 1:38:24Not libertarian feminism, everybody, Lord, somehow, I don't think the libertarian
- 1:38:30part is really anything except like window dressing. I don't think it means anything.
- 1:38:36Really. Proud hides your goals above her. You must miss out on
- 1:38:40a date with her occasionally. This will show her that she cannot distract you
- 1:38:43from your goals. This will bring her ego down, and she will inherently
- 1:38:45respect you. This one might have a grain of truth to it. Nobody
- 1:38:49wants to be with somebody who doesn't have their own thing going on. Most
- 1:38:54women certainly don't want to be with a man who lacks ambition or discipline.
- 1:38:57Or dedication, and only very insecure and needy people need their partner to be
- 1:39:01with them twenty four to seven. But you shouldn't be doing those things to
- 1:39:04bring your partner's ego down. You should be doing them because you actually have
- 1:39:10goals and ambitions of your own that don't clue destroying your partner. Psyche is
- 1:39:15an advice from the sith Lord. Lady consider the branding, Well, I
- 1:39:23don't really, I don't think. I think that she doesn't realize that there
- 1:39:27are men who will and women that will sort of like abandon their own goals
- 1:39:36because of the prospects of a romantic partner. And I think that there is
- 1:39:41a sympathetic way to understand that. So I think he's giving good advice,
- 1:39:46But she thinks something a lot more sinister from this because she has a low
- 1:39:53opinion of this person, but also of the men that are reading this stuff,
- 1:39:58you know, I mean, would would the average man really do any
- 1:40:03of the things that she's suggesting this guy things men will do? Would the
- 1:40:09average man tie a woman up in her in his basement? Probably not?
- 1:40:14Like, like, so what are we afraid of? Like it's like you're
- 1:40:17you made this Boogeyman. And and now the Boogeyman is reading all these things
- 1:40:24and taking them not just literally, but like you know, in like a
- 1:40:28straw man fashion, like oh yeah, what is it prioritize your goals above
- 1:40:31her? So what are you gonna do? Like lock her to the stove
- 1:40:35and like just like that, Like no one's saying that. But if a
- 1:40:40man has his own things, maybe he's gonna be less needy and that's probably
- 1:40:45good for him. Well, she admitted that, but she seems to be
- 1:40:47having trouble with the idea of dating advice from the sith Lord here. Yeah,
- 1:40:53like she's having trouble with the branding. Oh my god, this is
- 1:40:57this is the branding here is just okay, yes, because it's dating advice
- 1:41:00from the sith Lord. Why are you conflating this with all men? Literally,
- 1:41:05it's right in the frickin' title here, dark psychology, right, dark
- 1:41:12psych for men. He's doing a particular thing, right, He's doing a
- 1:41:16thing here. The advice is very milk toast. He's just giving it a
- 1:41:23little zing. He's putting a little paprika on it. Sizzle and the sizzle
- 1:41:27on the steak. Yeah, that's it. Like and you're like, oh
- 1:41:30my god, look at the sizzle. But yeah, don't right, and
- 1:41:34don't conflate this with all men. Mm hmm, all right, let's go.
- 1:41:40I got a superchow from Richard. He gives his five bucks and says,
- 1:41:43we find your terms to be accountable. Uh, thank you for that.
- 1:41:47Ah and uh yeah, we'll play a little bit more of this.
- 1:41:53Oh next, they say, dress very nicely when you go out with her.
- 1:41:58The goal of this is to take the attention from her and give it
- 1:42:00to herself. She's going to step up her game and compete with you.
- 1:42:03I have thought for some time, and I've seen nothing to disprove this.
- 1:42:09That man, what that's that's freaking adorable? Like I feel like she's not
- 1:42:15getting the stick. Yeah, Like it's like she's she's she's gone to a
- 1:42:23comic con and she's seen a Darth Vader like cosplayer and the guy is getting
- 1:42:30out his fake lightsaber and he's making to stab someone with it, right,
- 1:42:35and she's like, no, get the security. She's gonna kill someone.
- 1:42:40Oh my god, get him out of hair. She's not getting the stick.
- 1:42:46She's just sitting here and having it bounce off her head like she's a
- 1:42:53lemming or something, just like a cow. I actually think cows are more
- 1:42:57smart. But you know, like something really dumb. It's just not getting
- 1:43:02it. And I don't know if it's deliberate, but it's stupid. And
- 1:43:06she's really not seriously, she's she's unintentionally demonstrating. Why that whole statement about
- 1:43:16don't don't compliment a woman on her looks, compliment her on skills she has,
- 1:43:21or intelligence or her insight? Why that freaked her out? It's really
- 1:43:26becoming a parent. Okay, yep, all right. Any of the men
- 1:43:32in the red pill community want to be women themselves so badly they are so
- 1:43:38mad that women be getting out. Whoa are you dumb? I don't know
- 1:43:46why she's so hostile towards the red pill man? Why is she so?
- 1:43:53Why is she so? Why has she chosen stupidity as a life style?
- 1:44:00You have chosen stupidity because Saman saying that, so, do you not know
- 1:44:11that you are demonstrating the thing that you think you are calling out, like
- 1:44:17the attitude towards women. You are demonstrating, Oh, these guys want to
- 1:44:21be women, so women want to have attention on them or they do have
- 1:44:28attention on them. Okay, so let's see women, what is it exactly
- 1:44:32you're admitting to? What exactly are you admitting to here? Hannah? Yeah?
- 1:44:45What? What good? And she's so happy because she thinks she's got
- 1:44:47them by the balls? Ye got them? Okay, let's let's go a
- 1:44:54little bit more out that women get presents bought for them, women get compliments,
- 1:45:00that women get attention. The jealousy they have of women is palpable.
- 1:45:05He goes on to say, Oh, well, I guess I guess that
- 1:45:12gets men are putting more effort into their relationships with women than the reverse.
- 1:45:20Is this the own you think it is? Yeah? Right, you know,
- 1:45:25like you just basically said the men are giving out the compliments that men
- 1:45:30are giving out, the gifts that men are giving out, the attention the
- 1:45:34men are putting the work in. You have just said that, right,
- 1:45:42And what what what is the problem if men are like you know, I'd
- 1:45:46like some of that. I'd like some work put in by women. You
- 1:45:54know, I would like equality in this relationship. You don't how to treat
- 1:46:00me like your cat, but you know, maybe you could treat me a
- 1:46:04little bit in the same way that I treat you. She's just revealed a
- 1:46:08lot here, And I'm like, does she not have a sense of object
- 1:46:14permanence? Is that's what's going on here? Like, does she not have
- 1:46:17the ability to contain, you know, like keep a concept and retain it
- 1:46:23in her short term memory long enough to not make a fool of herself Because
- 1:46:30I don't know if people realize it, because maybe this is just my way
- 1:46:33of thinking, but she's making a fool of herself, right, she's discounting
- 1:46:41everything she's saying. First of all, she presents a woman who has the
- 1:46:44same attitude towards men as this sith lord. Dating a vice from a sith
- 1:46:49lord for men has towards women, even though one presumes that one one is
- 1:46:57LARPing a is a sith lord. Their day advice is gonna be on the
- 1:47:01dark side of things. But that is equivalent to the average woman or the
- 1:47:06ideal woman. She's presenting her as the ideal woman that all women should adopt,
- 1:47:13and that's equivalent her their dating advice. Her attitude toward dating is equivalent
- 1:47:18to the attitude of a sith lord. Okay, that's a bit of an
- 1:47:21own there, lady. You're showing a lot and now she's admitting that men
- 1:47:27do more in dating, and she's like, oh, I'm going to own
- 1:47:31them because I'm gonna say, oh, you guys are just jealous that that
- 1:47:35women do so little, you know, they get away with so little and
- 1:47:40get so much out of dating. I've owned you. It's okay. Us
- 1:47:47women, we're lily, we're really lazy, but we can't even be bothered,
- 1:47:51and we don't give gifts to compliments, and we're terrible companions. And
- 1:47:57I can't believe that you guys are jealous of how lousy we could be.
- 1:48:00Ha ha ha sucks to be you. Okay, that's okay, all right,
- 1:48:08you kill it. Yeah, we're really bad companions. Ladies are really
- 1:48:15bad companions. Haha. We get away with it basically, Oh god you.
- 1:48:24And what's amazing to me is that she doesn't seem to be aware of
- 1:48:28what she's doing. You know what I'm saying. M h, I bet
- 1:48:33she has a huge channel compared to ours. Let me see, I'll tell
- 1:48:40you in a second. I'll look. I think, Yeah, she's probably
- 1:48:43bigger than us for sure. Yeah, no, actually she's not. Wow.
- 1:48:48Her personal channel has only five thousand, five point two six thousand subscribers.
- 1:48:54But but I think that she's done like that. The video were on
- 1:49:00into a while back where she was talking about, oh, I don't remember
- 1:49:03libertarian feminism. We responded to her a while ago that was on a bigger
- 1:49:09channel, like one of those like Reason magazine type libertarian channels. And for
- 1:49:15me, I think that the important thing is to be aware of is that
- 1:49:20this is essentially this is essentially feminist entryism happening, and that you have to
- 1:49:30be careful because everyone assumes that feminism is just about, you know, equality
- 1:49:33between the sexes, right, and it's not. It's it's not it's the
- 1:49:39party of single women. It's it is anti family, anti male, anti
- 1:49:45children, and ultimately anti everything, like it'll just destroy everything. Like whatever
- 1:49:49it is that you're worried about is being caused in some degree from the division
- 1:49:56between men and women. And finally people are starting to catch on, you
- 1:49:59know. I quoted Scott Adams the other day who said that the problem we
- 1:50:01have is one between men and women, because when men and women are together
- 1:50:06and they're married and they're making families, they're not trying to destroy societies.
- 1:50:12So it's it's because there's like a lot of people with time on their hands
- 1:50:15and no. Everything, everything I'm telling you, guys, yeah, everything,
- 1:50:18take a moment. Everything traces back to the problem between men and women.
- 1:50:24Yeah, immigration, because that's where it starts from. Yeah, that's
- 1:50:28literally where life begins. It's where men and women, where societies come from.
- 1:50:32It comes from, yep, connecting men and women's instincts to reproduce.
- 1:50:36And we have really complex instincts around reproduction because we're very social and we're you
- 1:50:42social in a lot of ways, so we have these really complexes. You
- 1:50:45tie that into the creation and the perpetuation of a society. Bam, you
- 1:50:50got a civilization. There you go. That's where it starts. I can
- 1:50:54tell you this because that's that's my thing. Like deconstructing things down to their
- 1:50:59basic elements is like that. That's my jam. That's what I'm at.
- 1:51:05You can compliment me on that. By the way, guys, I appreciate
- 1:51:09that. You don't have to just compliment me on my looks. You know,
- 1:51:13I'll accept compliments on how brilliant I am as well. Yeah, all
- 1:51:20right, I gotta wrap it up soon because I gotta take the dog out
- 1:51:24and but but we'll do one more clip and then wrap it up. This
- 1:51:30is a heat because no woman but that pearl thing. Whatever, right,
- 1:51:33these kinds of things look at other women. Ah, that pearl thing.
- 1:51:40You. I don't feel bad. I don't feel bad about any of my
- 1:51:43comments about you. That pearl thing. Okay, okay, yeah, yes,
- 1:51:48take glances at other women. It's already creates a notion in her mind.
- 1:51:54That's not good grammar. But I guess what he's trying to say is
- 1:51:56you should stare at other women in front of her to put a notion in
- 1:51:59her mind. Yes, it'll put a notion in her mind that you are
- 1:52:02a creep and a weirdo. In another post. Oh okay, uh,
- 1:52:11well, maybe there's another way to look at it. No, man,
- 1:52:18I think it again. It's just a response to turning the whole relationship into
- 1:52:21a battleground. Yeah, I don't. I honestly, a lot of this
- 1:52:30stuff is very combative. But again, you have to consider the source.
- 1:52:33It's from a sith lord. Yeah, like, this is not this is
- 1:52:40not like average average dude weighing in on this is this is this is dark
- 1:52:46psychology. And I'm just I'm confounded by the fact that she doesn't realize that
- 1:52:51that dark psychology might be going on the dark end of things, you know
- 1:52:56what I mean, Okay, let's keep let's all right a little bit.
- 1:53:00You don't know, you you had something to say, It's right, I
- 1:53:03no, no, no, don't really remember. I'm well, I'm just
- 1:53:09saying that. You know, men, here's the thing I think men are.
- 1:53:12We're gonna notice other women because he says, go ahead and look.
- 1:53:15If you notice them right now, you could say, yeah, that's that's
- 1:53:18kind of rude to the woman you're with. But I think that the takeaway
- 1:53:23that most men are gonna get is I'm not an evil monster because I notice
- 1:53:29a woman and the woman with me like she I don't know, like maybe
- 1:53:35it's just like a desire, like there should be an understanding that men checking
- 1:53:40out other women, however briefly, is not like an eternal scar on the
- 1:53:46woman they're with, because they're still with her. It's not a promotion of
- 1:53:49cheating. It's not like it's not suggesting anything else except you know, if
- 1:53:55you see it, then see it now. Maybe the idea is there's like
- 1:53:59a mental game being played we like keep them you know on. I don't
- 1:54:02know, like feeling a little insecure enough that they are gonna work harder to
- 1:54:09like maintain your commitment to her. And you could say that that is manipulative,
- 1:54:14but again, like women do it too, and they've always done it,
- 1:54:17They've always played these games. I don't like games personally. I wouldn't
- 1:54:21tolerate it, and I don't think people should if that's not what they're into.
- 1:54:25But I don't think there's anything evil going on. I don't think it's
- 1:54:29creepy. I think creep is is kind of a stinky word that gets overused
- 1:54:34by women. So I don't Yeah, I don't think that's a problem.
- 1:54:40All right, So I've worst it's rude. Yeah, at worst, it's
- 1:54:45it's rude to your partner. This will be the last way I shouldn't be.
- 1:54:47Like, so I've gotten like I've gotten caught checking out other women,
- 1:54:50but like the woman I'm with will be checking them out too, because if
- 1:54:55they're really putting, you know, putting things out on display, I mean,
- 1:54:58how can you not notice. It's like a trap, you know,
- 1:55:03and women know what they're doing. Like you go to the gym and there's
- 1:55:05like somebody wearing almost nothing and she's working out and you catch a glance.
- 1:55:10I mean, I'm a man, I have blood running through my veins.
- 1:55:14I can't help it. It doesn't mean anything. So yeah, let's finish
- 1:55:20this one because I'm curious how she's going to be offended by it. Okay.
- 1:55:26In another post, he says, never be too quick to have sex,
- 1:55:29even if you were there for the sex. Never let her know that
- 1:55:31your real intention is you being thirsty and you just only want to get under
- 1:55:35her skirt. Make her feel that is the last thing you want to do
- 1:55:39with her. Women already assume that that is the first thing you want to
- 1:55:42do with us. It doesn't really matter what kind of mental games you try
- 1:55:45to play there. We're not gonna be like, oh, this one's different.
- 1:55:47He just doesn't like sex. No, we're gonna think you have a
- 1:55:49rectile dysfunction. In another he says, this woman is Yeah, it is
- 1:55:56a little bit infuriating, right. I think this is when my race was
- 1:56:00filling out. What an asshole you are? Oh God, I I I
- 1:56:10you know what I'm gonna wish on this woman menopause, enjoy enjoy being old.
- 1:56:19Well, it's gonna happen, so I don't really have to wish it.
- 1:56:23Wait, I I you know, like that whole the threatoid. I
- 1:56:29wish you would be or I wouldn't even rape you. Okay, I'm wishing
- 1:56:31menopause on you. Godspeed. Mm hmmm, it's gonna happen, right,
- 1:56:39you are going to become sexually invisible. Enjoy enjoy that moment. Yeah,
- 1:56:49it's just like, oh, we think you have a rectile dysfunction. God,
- 1:56:55what a bitch? Yeah believed? Well what No, it's just even
- 1:57:03if you are there for the sex, never let her know that's your real
- 1:57:05intention is being thirsty. Okay. You know that you probably have had sex
- 1:57:10with a man who's faked orgasm, lady, And I'm not saying that you
- 1:57:14in particular. It's just something that you know a lot of men have done,
- 1:57:17and they's just women would never know because I want these assumptions. They
- 1:57:23have these assumptions that you are making right now that every man wants to have
- 1:57:28sex with you, and if they don't, it's because there's something wrong with
- 1:57:31them. Medical. Yes, you are fucking disgusting. Like and honestly,
- 1:57:36I'm not I'm not really fond of like dating advice from the sith Lord here,
- 1:57:42but at least he's not like pretending that he's anything but what he is.
- 1:57:46He's dark psychology for men. You know it's gonna come from the dark
- 1:57:50side. That's the branding. But you are pretending to be something that you're
- 1:57:58not to be what you are, which is abusive, which is approaching a
- 1:58:06relationship in exactly the same way. And you think that that's the ideal that
- 1:58:11all women should aspire to, to approach a relationship as a game, as
- 1:58:16a battle, as some kind of paranoid thing. Because the woman that you
- 1:58:20would put as your ideal, what did she have to say? Don't let
- 1:58:25him influence you? What do you think this guy's talking about? Exactly the
- 1:58:29same thing. So all that I'm seeing is that you're upset because sith Lord
- 1:58:34here is as bad as the woman you present as every woman, average woman
- 1:58:39should be and is your ideal. You're looking in a freaking mirror and you
- 1:58:45don't like what you see because you're actually seeing it being applied to you.
- 1:58:55All right, And also men have a right to not be interested in you
- 1:59:01sexually, right, And they have a right not to be shamed by you
- 1:59:08for not being interested in you sexually, because you have revealed a hell of
- 1:59:12a lot about yourself, Hannah. You don't think you have, but you
- 1:59:18have. You are not a nice person. You are not a gentle person.
- 1:59:25You're not the kind of person who respects the boundaries of your partner.
- 1:59:30Yeah, you're you're a person. You know what what happens when your fiance
- 1:59:35gets old and maybe has some trouble. What are you gonna say to him?
- 1:59:41What are you gonna do? Are you gonna shame him? You're gonna
- 1:59:45say? Are you a bag? You're not much of a man? I
- 1:59:50is that what you're gonna do? Look at you. You can't satisfy me.
- 2:00:00Are a fucking monster. And I'm pretty sure the dyke psychology. If
- 2:00:04I said, yeah, you're you're doing the whole you know, uh,
- 2:00:08dating advice for men from a sith Lord thing, he'd probably laugh and say,
- 2:00:12yeah, he knows what he is. He knows what he's doing.
- 2:00:15You have no clue because you have never been told. You've never been told
- 2:00:21that you're being an appalling monster. Oh it's okay to do that to men.
- 2:00:29You got to come along thinking it's okay that you're that women don't compliment
- 2:00:34men, that they don't give them presents, that they don't appreciate their company,
- 2:00:41that they don't treat them as valuable, that they are actually losers when
- 2:00:45it comes to how they treat their partners. I mean, if women were
- 2:00:48men, you would consider them monstrous losers. And yet you don't consider yourself
- 2:00:54that because you don't hold yourself to the same standard that you're holding men to.
- 2:00:57And that at the same breath, you think that your standards, even
- 2:01:00though you're holding men to a hot, much higher standard of complementing, of
- 2:01:05gifts, of attention, of providing and provision, you insist that they that
- 2:01:15you're not holding the men and any standard all that this is just what you're
- 2:01:18owed. So you bring less to the table, and when men pointed out,
- 2:01:26you mock them for it. Well, we're supposed to be losers,
- 2:01:30don't you know that women are supposed to be losers in the relationship. That's
- 2:01:33what we're supposed to be. We're supposed to be the weak ones, the
- 2:01:36incapable ones, the helpless ones. We're supposed to be the ones that don't
- 2:01:41bring anything because we're useless fuck trds. Don't you know that? Men?
- 2:01:45And if you aren't able to accommodate for our weakness, and inability and helplessness
- 2:01:50and stupidity. Then it's your fault. Wow, what a self own?
- 2:01:59And then you have the gas of saying, oh, we just want normal
- 2:02:00men. Well, you sure as hell don't want the male equivalent of yourself
- 2:02:06because you're looking at the male equivalent of yourself and you're like horrified, who's
- 2:02:12this? This is dark psychology? God, he's just saying what I would
- 2:02:15say about men. How dare he? Good? Lord? I feel for
- 2:02:23men. And this woman has a fiance she does not deserve. I think
- 2:02:30she does not love one, she does not deserve one, but she's got
- 2:02:34one. How how you hit her that? There's a lot of men that
- 2:02:42will only value like they they all they care about is that the woman doesn't
- 2:02:45look like she's been hitting the head by the shovel. You know, that's
- 2:02:48it? Mm hmm, even though I think she's had stuff done to her
- 2:02:57lips like every woman does at this point in time. But oh yeah,
- 2:03:00man, women are getting all kinds of work done these days. It looks
- 2:03:03like she's having some kind of allergic and men aren't. Men aren't actually making
- 2:03:08demands unless like dark Triad men are, and they're thinking that dark triad men
- 2:03:13are all men and they're responding to that. But yeah, because that's what
- 2:03:15they find attractive, the attitude. Yeah, well yeah, they like I
- 2:03:18said, when it comes to the opinions of men, they're only looking at
- 2:03:21the top guys are the ones that get the most attention or the ones that
- 2:03:24are most popular, and they're like, oh, that's all men. It's
- 2:03:26like, you know, there's like thousands of men you don't even see that
- 2:03:30are around you all the time. It's just like when feminists say, you
- 2:03:32know that they feel unsafe, like like walking home at night because they heard
- 2:03:36about this incident with this one like man that did something to a woman.
- 2:03:41And it's like, yeah, but how many men do you pass every day
- 2:03:43in your life, every day that don't do anything? How many do you
- 2:03:46even see them? Of course not. You can't even like realistically observe the
- 2:03:53world if you're if everyone is invisible to you, that's like beneath your notice.
- 2:03:57I just I'm freaking like she is, Like she's basically just showing her
- 2:04:02ass in this entire video. Mm hmm, good lord. Like that really
- 2:04:08fucking disgusts me when when people sexually shame others like that, because you know,
- 2:04:15if he, her fiance or her boyfriend doesn't perform to her satisfaction,
- 2:04:19he's gonna get, you know, a blast from both barrels. Yeah,
- 2:04:25Like, imagine that. Imagine being attached to this and having her say that,
- 2:04:30you know, you might be tired, or maybe you're overworked, or
- 2:04:33maybe you're stressed because of her bullshit, or maybe it's just the constant grind
- 2:04:39of being in a relationship with this woman is finally taking its tole, you
- 2:04:43know, and she just blasts you with both barrels. Like how I don't
- 2:04:47know, Like, I don't see how she's attractive enough to tolerate this bullshit
- 2:04:51coming out of her mouth. But that's just me. I'm a woman,
- 2:04:55you know, Like I'm always amazed at how men just tolerate the shit that
- 2:05:01women dough. All right, well, I gotta wrap it up because Jojo,
- 2:05:09I can give him some attention. He he hates something that disagreed with
- 2:05:13him, and he hasn't been doing really well, but hopefully it'll pass.
- 2:05:17I don't know what he got into, but he's been Yeah, he's been
- 2:05:23having a bad couple of days. So I'm gonna take care of him.
- 2:05:26But getting in some enzymes. He may be having some trouble with digesting his
- 2:05:30food. Yeah, yeah, Lindsay's been giving him stuff. He'll be okay.
- 2:05:34It's just gonna take a little time. He's strong like boul but it's
- 2:05:40just he's just got to get through it. But I did get another super
- 2:05:43Chow from Laptop two fifteen for twenty bucks. Thank you laptop, and says
- 2:05:48unrelated, but I was wondering, since you run a game channel, have
- 2:05:51you considered doing a let's play of The Coffin of Andy and Layley. It's
- 2:05:57a controversial game. I don't know what that is, but I'll look in
- 2:06:00to it. The gaming channel is called Honey Badger Arcade. If you want
- 2:06:02to go subscribe, I'm gonna be doing some of that later today, So
- 2:06:09yeah, go ahead and check it out if you've got some free time.
- 2:06:12And I think I'm gonna try and do a call in show on Friday if
- 2:06:15I can get someone to be the screener. If I can get a screener,
- 2:06:21I assume that that would be okay, right, Allison, unless you
- 2:06:25have something else in mind for Friday. Allison, are you there? Did
- 2:06:32she drop out? No? I did not drop out. I was muted.
- 2:06:35Sorry, that's fine. You know, I'm probably gonna be uh,
- 2:06:41I'm going to be doing some I'm gonna upload some videos of my response to
- 2:06:45that particular comment that was saying, oh, you only have yourselves to blame,
- 2:06:51because I think that, you know, that's true. We do only
- 2:06:55have or at least I only have myself to blame. Of course that's always
- 2:06:58true. I suck. I recognize that, but I think there's some other
- 2:07:01things that we can blame, like being targeted by Dark the Department of Homeland
- 2:07:05Security and the algorithm and all kinds of crap that's happened. And you know,
- 2:07:11sometimes I think that, you know, there's trade offs, right,
- 2:07:15Yeah, we're doing something. You know, let's make this a show.
- 2:07:21If you want to support the show, Feedbadger, dot com, slash just
- 2:07:26support, And you know, I think it's really critical to support our show
- 2:07:30because I think we're getting into a more of the meat of what's wrong on
- 2:07:38here. Like I think we get distracted with the politics, which is intentional
- 2:07:42in my opinion, but it does really come back to the relationship between men
- 2:07:46and women. If we don't have that, we don't have a positive relationship
- 2:07:51between men and women. Then what you look at, what you see is
- 2:07:56that men don't have a good relationship with themselves. They don't have a good
- 2:07:59relationship with other men, And women's relationship with men sucks. Their relationship with
- 2:08:03themselves starts to really suck because look at this, like, she is revealing
- 2:08:09a lot about her attitude towards herself. Right, she isn't somebody who is
- 2:08:16cultivating skills that she would like compliments for, or cultivating insight that you would
- 2:08:22like compliments for. It freaks her out that she's not gonna get compliments on
- 2:08:26her looks. I'm like, yeah, bring it like I'm I'm okay,
- 2:08:30I don't compete well on the issue of looks. I'm fine with. Let's
- 2:08:33let's get compliments for something else, you know. That's that's good. I'm
- 2:08:37good with that. She's not insecurity. And the thing is that you don't
- 2:08:43have to feel insecure about that. Go out and cultivate a skill. Become
- 2:08:48a gardener, right, go knit, you know, make something of yourself,
- 2:08:54be something more than just attractive for what it's worth, right, do
- 2:09:01something more. Maybe take it upon yourself to look at your partner and say,
- 2:09:07what can I do to be strong for him. You know what can
- 2:09:13I do to make his life easier? Develop yourself on that way? You
- 2:09:18know that that's not happening. And because it's not happening, she lives with
- 2:09:20insecurity, anxiety, and paranoia. Those are her constant companions, which is
- 2:09:26why she's looking at this sith Lord and saying, oh, this is all
- 2:09:30men. No, it's just the sith Lord. His advice, if you
- 2:09:33take away the branding edge, is just milk toast. Right, don't be
- 2:09:37thirsty, Yes, don't you want wit men not to be too thirsty?
- 2:09:43Right? Have your own thing going. Yeah, she even agreed with that,
- 2:09:50have your own thing going. Like this is all very simple, straightforward,
- 2:09:58non controversial advice that the sith Lord is just giving a scythy spin to.
- 2:10:03That's it, and she's turned it into some freaking attack on womanhood by
- 2:10:07the average man. It's ridiculous and it really speaks to an attitude of persecution
- 2:10:13that she has. And all of this means that she's got a really shitty
- 2:10:18relationship with herself, which has only become comparent when you know, my curse
- 2:10:24comes to fruition, I wish menopause upon you. That's when her shitty relationship
- 2:10:30with herself will become very apparent to her and she could start working on it
- 2:10:35now. Like she said, oh, women are doing the work. Are
- 2:10:39you really like that's the other thing? What did she say? She said,
- 2:10:43women are doing the work. Men aren't doing the work. Well,
- 2:10:46what about all of that about how men are doing the compliments, they're doing
- 2:10:50the attention, they're doing the gifts, right, you don't think they're also
- 2:10:52trying to do whatever work on themselves that they think women want, Like what
- 2:10:58work from women? Doing the work that women are apparently doing is bringing a
- 2:11:03whole bunch of munitions and cluster bombs to the battlefield that they're going to create
- 2:11:09their relation, turn the relationship into Okay, I should have just been concluding
- 2:11:13this. I'm sorry, Brian, that's all right, And I figured that
- 2:11:18this was gonna good. That we need to start working on the relationship between
- 2:11:24the sexes, right, we need to start calling out attitudes like this,
- 2:11:30she not doing She's not doing herself any favors. Okay, she is.
- 2:11:39Look at that one thing where she's saying, well, women are losers and
- 2:11:41relationships ha ha ha. Don't you wish you were able to be women?
- 2:11:46When losers too, like, what the hell was that? When women don't
- 2:11:50make any kind of effort in their relationships? Ha ha ha. Don't you
- 2:11:54wish you were us? Ha ha ha, Like are you fucking kidding me?
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- 2:12:48actually have Karen on to talk about this. I think that she's gonna have
- 2:12:52she's gonna have a riot, like she's gonna I think she's she's gonna really
- 2:12:54enjoy this one. What do you think, Brian, Oh, yeah,
- 2:12:56she's she's this is gonna he's gonna have some things to say. Oh yeah,
- 2:13:03many things to say. Yeah, she'll have some words words, many
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