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KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO YOURSELF I DIDNT ASK YOU · Blind But Now I See

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Speaker 1: And we're back for another.
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Speaker 2: Episode of being tired O the funnynother episode of the
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Speaker 2: blombin o Ce podcast. I am the official block stop.
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Speaker 1: And I am the official hot roller.
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Speaker 2: And we all had to sable heroes. And I just
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Speaker 2: came back from orlanda y'all. I'm so tired.
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Speaker 1: Oh he's so tired.
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Speaker 2: But he had a great time, great time networking. So
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Speaker 2: me and French, if you got some things that works.
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Speaker 2: If I got to grab you from the back of
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Speaker 2: your head, girl, I'm taking you along with me. That's
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Speaker 2: been by the way we were going. We're going to
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Speaker 2: the top. I can't leave you. No, we can't be
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Speaker 2: locked in now, you can't.
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Speaker 1: We're stuck.
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Speaker 2: Even if I got it, I put a brick so
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Speaker 2: you can't roll over. Break in the front of breaking
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Speaker 2: the back that will CHI will not be moving. You
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Speaker 2: gonna go. You're so tired. Yeah, I'm so tired.
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Speaker 1: You're fighting it right now.
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Speaker 2: But so great things came out this week, man, so
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Speaker 2: I can't complain. You go ahead. I mean some checks
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Speaker 2: that's about to come in our names.
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Speaker 1: Amen claiming it. It's already signed, so it's in the mailbox.
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Speaker 2: You're just waiting for the inky drive.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's already that, already in the mailbox.
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Speaker 2: Waiting for the post office man to come get it.
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Speaker 1: Hello, you know the government shut down a little bit.
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Speaker 2: My food stamp side for like, Oh my gosh, I'm
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Speaker 2: in love.
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Speaker 1: He's in love and I love the love for him.
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Speaker 1: This is a love podcast now, writes in love.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, sh that was a whore. See, people
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Speaker 2: could change.
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Speaker 1: How's that going for you?
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Speaker 2: I love it. I'm happy you feel it. I've never
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Speaker 2: been happy like this in a long time.
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Speaker 1: That's that's honestly, like for a black man to say that.
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Speaker 2: Literally, she showed the god I have sex when.
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Speaker 1: Just so you guys haven't been No, y'all have sex.
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Speaker 1: We just yeah, because I was thinking, I was like,
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Speaker 1: I'm the celebrated too.
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Speaker 2: Oh no, but I love when I get you.
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Speaker 1: You could just be there. It's not about the say
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Speaker 1: not that he broke.
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Speaker 2: Her face against me. It just felt like everything.
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Speaker 1: Okay, do people have opinions about your relationship?
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Speaker 2: Nobody didn't give me no opinion. But even if they did,
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Speaker 2: who gives.
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Speaker 1: A fuck about the opinion, because there are some people
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Speaker 1: that shouldn't have opinions.
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Speaker 2: On you, not not about my happiness. No, you should
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Speaker 2: not have I.
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Speaker 1: Don't think anybody should have any people.
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Speaker 2: Have an opinion about you going to see an manager?
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Speaker 1: Oh hell yeah.
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Speaker 2: Do you give a fuck about it?
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Speaker 1: Not at all?
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Speaker 2: Are you going to see it?
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Speaker 1: What Sunday?
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Speaker 2: Happy birthday to.
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Speaker 1: Who my man?
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Speaker 2: Okay, take cut through that, take cut.
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Speaker 1: Through there, But no for real. The reason why I
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Speaker 1: said that is because obviously today's episode is about people opinions,
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Speaker 1: and me dating or being with someone that is incarcerated
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Speaker 1: has a lot of people in a tizzy because I
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Speaker 1: have people that used to be my friends. People are
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Speaker 1: calling me and they're like, Oh, this person's posting about
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Speaker 1: if you're holding somebody down in jail, you're stupid, You're this,
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Speaker 1: You're that, you know what I mean. It's just like, damn,
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Speaker 1: you got a fucking opinion, but you was holding niggas
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Speaker 1: down for free, niggas doing you dirty. But I don't.
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Speaker 1: I don't one thing about it. I don't comment on
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Speaker 1: people's relationships because I feel like that's not my business.
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Speaker 1: If you ask me, if you ask me my opinion,
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Speaker 1: i'll give you. If you put me in your relationship
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Speaker 1: and you ask me for the shit, than I will
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Speaker 1: if you're just a friend of your venting to me,
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Speaker 1: then I listen. I'll tell you my little one too.
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Speaker 1: But I'm never gonna be more angry than you. I'm
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Speaker 1: not gonna call you. If I see you posting the
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Speaker 1: motherfucker what them like? What are you doing now supposed
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Speaker 1: to do that? I'll look and I'll judge silently, but
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just go out and come out my face.
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Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know their place when it
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Speaker 1: comes to other people's relationships, and I feel like that's
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Speaker 1: something that people shouldn't have an opinion on it.
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Speaker 2: At the same time, who gives a fuck how you
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Speaker 2: feel like? Keep it to yourself talk behind my back.
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Speaker 1: If I was if I was younger back in the day,
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Speaker 1: then opinions would hurt me, you know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: because it's like, damn, these are people that I love
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Speaker 1: because I used to the people's opinions, the people that
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Speaker 1: matter to me. Their opinions of me do matter somewhat,
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But when you no longer
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Speaker 1: really matters to me, then your opinion doesn't matter.
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Speaker 2: People don't even be knowing a whole thing in a
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Speaker 2: real story, and they just.
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Speaker 1: Want to people just see somebody. They see me going
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Speaker 1: up to the jail, and they see me, they see
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Speaker 1: him in a wheelchair, so they automatically assume, Oh, he's
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Speaker 1: using her, you know what I mean, he's playing or
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Speaker 1: da da da da da da da, not knowing the
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Speaker 1: nothing about us.
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Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not going to break that down because
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Speaker 1: I don't have to justify anything to it. We didn't
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Speaker 1: sit there and meet We're not pinpals. We didn't meet
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Speaker 1: through prison, you know what I'm saying. So for people
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Speaker 1: to even.
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Speaker 2: They're vulnerable, she didn't need love, so she went to
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Speaker 2: the jails.
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Speaker 1: None of that exactly. That's what before he even went
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Speaker 1: inside it, amen, and that's what people think. I've known
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Speaker 1: him since twenty twenty. I didn't just meet him right away.
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Speaker 1: We didn't just get right in a relationship like we
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Speaker 1: built our relationship.
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Speaker 2: Oh she's not settling the fuck.
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Speaker 1: That's a real man right there.
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Speaker 2: She's fucking happy.
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Speaker 1: Thank you?
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Speaker 2: Why just kids, she just be happy? Why we can't
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Speaker 2: love the fact that she's just happy. Why we got
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Speaker 2: to have an opinion about the fact that she's going
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Speaker 2: to the jails.
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Speaker 1: Because people are they find something negative in anything, because
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Speaker 1: if you wasn't because they talk about the people that leave,
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Speaker 1: people in jail, they talk about the people that's there.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, They talk about the people
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Speaker 1: that meet them. Did They talk about the people that
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Speaker 1: get married, They talk about the people that fuck off
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Speaker 1: while the nigga's in jail. They talk about you regardless.
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Speaker 1: So it's like at the end that you mun as
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Speaker 1: will do what the fuck you want.
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Speaker 2: The crazy thing about it is you got a pinion
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Speaker 2: and you're not worried about your own life, and your
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Speaker 2: nigga fucking right behind you. He's not even in jail.
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Speaker 1: Listen, I got so much. I could say so much
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Speaker 1: about other people's relationships, but I don't and I'm not
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Speaker 1: even that type of person. And even no matter what,
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Speaker 1: that's what I love about myself, not to too my
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Speaker 1: own horn. But no matter what people do to me,
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it back to them. But I'm
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Speaker 1: not gonna go back on social media and post what
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Speaker 1: I feel about someone because at the end of the day,
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Speaker 1: God will deal with you heathen. So if you're watching this,
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Speaker 1: if you see this clip, this is for you. I
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Speaker 1: don't talk about nobody I used to be friends with.
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Speaker 1: I don't make you a topic, a subject on any
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Speaker 1: type of part of my life because at the end
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Speaker 1: of the day, if we are no longer friends, it's
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Speaker 1: my choice. It's not one person out there that I
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Speaker 1: want to be friends with that I'm not friends with.
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Speaker 1: I've been that girl. I'm gonna stay that girl walking
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Speaker 1: and rolling. And I do realize that a lot of
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Speaker 1: people stay friends with me because I'm in the chair
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Speaker 1: and if I was walking, they wouldn't be friends with
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Speaker 1: me because for some reason they make it makes them
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Speaker 1: feel like a little superior, you know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: Because it's like, oh, she's pretty, but she's in a wheelchair.
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Speaker 1: But bitch, I still get attention when we go outside.
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Speaker 1: But am I your token wheelchair friend?
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Speaker 2: No?
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Speaker 1: And then when people realize, like, my personality is still
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Speaker 1: gonna pop, niggas still gonna want me, even though I
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Speaker 1: don't want niggas I'm happily in love, it's still like
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Speaker 1: I could still pull whoever, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: And bitches do get intimidated by that. They get intimidated
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Speaker 1: about confidence, you know what I'm saying. It's not even
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Speaker 1: just about looks. It's just like the way I carry myself.
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Speaker 1: One thing about I'm gona get dress, I'm gonna fel good,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna look good, I'm gonna smell good, Ima taste good.
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Speaker 1: Bitches can't relate and that's the problem. But again, like
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Speaker 1: I said, if we are no longer friends, you should
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Speaker 1: not have an opinion on me because I don't have
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Speaker 1: an opinion on you. I don't even think about your bitches.
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Speaker 1: I can't remember your bitch's name. You bitches can't as
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Speaker 1: spelled pralte. Yeah, yo, No, never got me here, No
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Speaker 1: Friday popping myself.
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Speaker 2: Fuck pinions. I hate when a person got an opinion
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Speaker 2: about my podcast, our podcasts, and that these niggas ever
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Speaker 2: did an episode a day in their life. Hmmm, they
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Speaker 2: don't know how I feel to be talking sitting on
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Speaker 2: the counter talking people just be talking out to be
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Speaker 2: sitting there, like, are you qualified to even talk to
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Speaker 2: me about this shit? Mmm? Like if you noler. One
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Speaker 2: day somebody was talking to me, I ain't gonna say
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Speaker 2: no name, and they would just talk about the podcast.
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Speaker 2: Oh you should do that, you should do that, just that.
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Speaker 2: And third, and my grandfather walked past me and say,
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Speaker 2: if that nigga can tell you all life, you should
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Speaker 2: start one. And I love and I hugged my grandfather.
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Speaker 1: I said, Yo, nigga says, I hug my grandpa.
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Speaker 2: I just didn't know the right way to say it.
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Speaker 2: You feel me like you're not qualified, so shut the
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Speaker 2: fuck up. Right.
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Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, it's a lot
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Speaker 1: of people that are starting podcasts, And even though I
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Speaker 1: may not never watch them, I would never sit there
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Speaker 1: and tell somebody, oh, you shouldn't do is, because at
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Speaker 1: the end of the day, what's not for me maybe
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Speaker 1: for somebody else While you're giving an opinion, only you
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Speaker 1: can't give an opinion on somebody else's Opini becauset the
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Speaker 1: end of the dy's silling to say their opinion right
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Speaker 1: or right. Absolutely, you could talk about facts. We can
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Speaker 1: argue facts, but we can't argue opinions. So it's really
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Speaker 1: no point. If we don't agree, then we just don't
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Speaker 1: agree right.
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Speaker 2: Right right or right right. No cat, when a person
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Speaker 2: got an opinion about me being chestising my kids, I
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Speaker 2: hate that ship. Mmm, I hate that ship. Oh.
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Speaker 1: I was on a bus the other day, but wait,
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Speaker 1: I got a good one. I was on a bus
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Speaker 1: the other day and Brent is doing something like he
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Speaker 1: was doing like he was literally making slow faces, and
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck A, But he's fucking with me,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, so the
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Speaker 1: guy is like, oh, some guy, he just looked two
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Speaker 1: stops so crazy his damn self. And we coming from
8:37
Speaker 1: Long Alans, you know, Long Island people were really more friendly,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So he's just like, oh,
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Speaker 1: you know they they got these gotta be kidful screaming
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Speaker 1: them because they got these new little nigga is my child.
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Speaker 1: He came out my pussy and I'm gonna do what
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Speaker 1: the funk I please, because guess what, when when the
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Speaker 1: he gonna say, I want to go with my momy nigga,
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Speaker 1: So shut the fuck up.
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Speaker 2: When the kids gonna be kids, Nah, kids ain't gonna
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Speaker 2: be careds. I'm checking my kids off a bit. If
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Speaker 2: it's bell, like time for get money for that? Are
9:05
Speaker 2: you giving me money for Bell? No, don't don't tell
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Speaker 2: me how to raise my kid, even.
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Speaker 1: Even parents, even parents because my mom sometimes, like I
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Speaker 1: had to tell my mom the other day, and I
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Speaker 1: love my mother to death because she's an amazing grandmother.
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Speaker 1: I had to tell her. I said, Mommy, you're doing
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Speaker 1: what Grandma used to do to you to me. If
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Speaker 1: I'm telling my son something, don't undermine me in front
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Speaker 1: of him, because then he's gonna.
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Speaker 2: Think he can.
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Speaker 1: He's gonna think because he's looking for Grandma to save him.
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Speaker 1: And I have to tell my son. I said, don't
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Speaker 1: nobody fucking word matter when I'm around. If I'm telling
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Speaker 1: you to do something, that's what you do.
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Speaker 2: Tell my son that all the time, because I mean,
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Speaker 2: shout out to my mother. I know they don't mean
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Speaker 2: on home, that's all I said. I don't know. I like, yo,
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Speaker 2: stop stop because now when he get older and get
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Speaker 2: then there's like, now you want me to.
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Speaker 1: Step up because parents parents didn't get older and forget
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Speaker 1: when they become grandparents. They tend to forget that they
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Speaker 1: were parents themselves and having children their first time for themselves.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. At the end of the day,
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Speaker 1: this may be my first kid, this may be my only,
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Speaker 1: but this my motherfucking kid. He came out your balls,
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Speaker 1: mine came out my mother fucking coochie. So I didn't
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Speaker 1: I be damned if a motherfucker telling me. And we're
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Speaker 1: doing this shit with disabilities, So it's a it's a
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Speaker 1: different level for me because I'm a female. On top
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Speaker 1: of that, my son's gonna be bigger than me. And
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Speaker 1: not only is he gonna be, he gonna be bigeran
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Speaker 1: me real soon, because I'm already seated. You understand what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I have to put a certain level
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Speaker 1: of fear in him so that he knows he cannot
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Speaker 1: play with me. And it's it's not just fear like
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Speaker 1: it's it's mostly respect, you know what I mean. Because
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Speaker 1: my son, he loves me, he adores me, and I
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Speaker 1: adore him. At the end of the day, I'm raising
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Speaker 1: a black boy, and I'm not raising him for myself.
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Speaker 1: I'm raising him for the world black king, Amen, a
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Speaker 1: black king. I'm raising him for the world king, not
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Speaker 1: just for myself. So I have to prepare him for everybody.
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Speaker 1: He's not gonna talk to you nice. Everybody's not gonna
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Speaker 1: treat your nice. But no matter what or how people
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Speaker 1: treat you, you still gotta carry yourself in the manner that's
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Speaker 1: presentable for how I raise you. It's gonna reflect when
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Speaker 1: you go outside, you're literally a reflection of me. And
10:51
Speaker 1: that's why I teach my kids. So whenever anybody says
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Speaker 1: around my momm he likes my mother likes to baby
10:54
Speaker 1: him and all this shit. We ain't doing all that.
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Speaker 2: And opion, don't tell me about my disablement. If you're
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Speaker 2: not disabled, like please this this, this shut up. Shut
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Speaker 2: the fuck up. If you want to, if you want
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Speaker 2: to practice, and then you want to come go to
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Speaker 2: Amazon order your stick and then come holler at me.
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Speaker 2: I hate when people are, oh, now you're doing it wrong,
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Speaker 2: and I'll just be looking like.
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Speaker 1: How the fun You're gonna tell me how I'm doing
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Speaker 1: it wrong?
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Speaker 2: If this worked for me, They're like, it's like, yo,
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Speaker 2: you're doing it wrong.
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Speaker 1: You suck, and this is the motherfucker I can see.
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Speaker 2: I just got quiet. I just looked at the name.
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Speaker 1: What clearly you can see you can They said it right,
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Speaker 1: and he just.
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Speaker 2: Like my bad, Like yo, just just just go go.
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Speaker 1: Oh. People are always seeing me when they see me
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Speaker 1: pushing this. This nigga said to me the other day,
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Speaker 1: he said, oh uh, why you He said, you just
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Speaker 1: you you rolling that you did that by yourself. I'm
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Speaker 1: thinking he about to give a compliment like, oh, you're
11:43
Speaker 1: doing you know what I mean? He like, why you
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Speaker 1: don't have somebody with you? I said, you just had
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Speaker 1: to disrespect the fuck out him. I said, you see me,
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Speaker 1: You just asked me if I just buy myself right?
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Speaker 1: He said yes. I said, so, why the fuck you
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Speaker 1: asked me? Why said that? You stopped me from what
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Speaker 1: the fuck I gotta do? And you stopping the flow
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Speaker 1: And I could have been where I need to do faster,
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Speaker 1: but she would look like I'm struggling. I'm out of breath.
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Speaker 1: People walking get out of breath.
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Speaker 2: Some people are paying just be ignorant because.
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Speaker 1: They just want they have to say something. It's like
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Speaker 1: the token thing to say to it. It's like they
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Speaker 1: have to say something to a disabled person. I have
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Speaker 1: to speak to it. It's like it's something and I'm like,
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Speaker 1: oh no, I gotta say it. I gotta do it.
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Speaker 1: Even bus drivers like I'm sitting there on the bus earlier,
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get on and she's she's like, oh,
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Speaker 1: she takes up more time with im. I ain't gonna lie.
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Speaker 1: I'm handy, capable. I get on that shit. I'll hop
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Speaker 1: on hop if I pop on pop. If I lift
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Speaker 1: the chair up, I do all that shit locket and
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Speaker 1: she She's like, oh, because I'm like, I could do
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Speaker 1: the hooks, but you're taking more time. Should I'm sucking
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Speaker 1: my teeth about getting the bus and a wheelchair because
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Speaker 1: you taking more fucking time.
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Speaker 2: Then let's go.
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Speaker 1: All for the straps. She said, Oh, don't touch the straps,
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Speaker 1: and straps is dirt. I'm like, miss, I touched my
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Speaker 1: wheels every day. I gotta wash my hands. My hands
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Speaker 1: is fucking dirt. Let me touch the strap and let's go.
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Speaker 1: This is New York. I've been a kid in the city,
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Speaker 1: in the streets. You know what I'm saying. I was
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Speaker 1: playing in dirt when I was motherfucking My immune system
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Speaker 1: is up. Let's go, please, let's go, let's go. I
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Speaker 1: got heresizer, got any well, that opinion.
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Speaker 2: People got opinions that they should have. Oh boy, that
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Speaker 2: old boy got a less Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I don't really know how to articulate this the right way,
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Speaker 3: but I think white people should stay out of black business.
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Speaker 2: Hello fucking low and I agree.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you should stay out of black business.
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Speaker 3: And one of the things that I really don't like
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Speaker 3: is when white people are making arguments like you're ten
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Speaker 3: times more likely to get killed by a black person
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Speaker 3: than you are a white person. It's like, it's like
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Speaker 3: one is so frustrating that even like for me to
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Speaker 3: even answer this the right way, I gotta go so
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Speaker 3: deep into history and break so many things.
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Speaker 4: Now I'm already tired mentally, you know what I mean.
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Speaker 4: But it did.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it deserves that much though, because I got it, Like,
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Speaker 3: and why the fuck do you think that is? You
13:44
Speaker 3: know what I mean, like stay out the room. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: but that's something that urts me, you know. And I
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Speaker 3: had a clip that went I don't know if it went,
13:50
Speaker 3: but it did good. And like I started to clip
13:52
Speaker 3: off by saying like I got serious angers toward white people,
13:54
Speaker 3: and I wish I could change it and be like
13:56
Speaker 3: I got serious anger toward white supremacy, you know what
13:58
Speaker 3: I mean.
13:58
Speaker 4: So I've been arguing with people all week about this.
14:01
Speaker 1: I see that, Yeah, niggas, I got serious anger towards
14:05
Speaker 1: white people. Yeah, I did see that one. It wasn't
14:07
Speaker 1: expecting that one from you. But then it was just
14:11
Speaker 1: like the way it came off, it just seems like.
14:13
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, But I hate the way
14:15
Speaker 4: that I said it though, you know, because it's.
14:16
Speaker 1: Like the angry black man.
14:18
Speaker 4: I don't want innocent people catching strays, you know what
14:20
Speaker 4: I mean?
14:21
Speaker 2: Because it's some nice, nice, beautiful white people out here. Yeah,
14:26
Speaker 2: there are live I live next to some live next
14:29
Speaker 2: to whole respectable like they like they don't do too
14:34
Speaker 2: much like I love it, like, hi, by are you okay?
14:39
Speaker 1: Man? That not in not in not in my Black
14:42
Speaker 1: History Year. We ain't doing that ship on here. This
14:44
Speaker 1: is black the revolution will be televised, my brother, I said,
14:49
Speaker 1: Black History Year, nigga. Another opinion that I don't like
14:54
Speaker 1: is men need to stay out of women's business.
14:57
Speaker 2: Yeah.
14:57
Speaker 1: I feel like that's one that I keep saying, Oh
15:00
Speaker 1: a woman do this? If a woman did that? That
15:04
Speaker 1: shit is That ship is annoying. It irks me, and
15:07
Speaker 1: it's like y'all put us against each other. I don't
15:09
Speaker 1: want to go against the man. We need men, men
15:12
Speaker 1: need women and women need men. They're putting there trying
15:14
Speaker 1: to make it seem like it's a.
15:15
Speaker 2: World sak like that.
15:17
Speaker 1: No, I'm not even in my wheelchair. I'm in this.
15:20
Speaker 1: This is what the media chair.
15:22
Speaker 5: Oh I say, yeah, look he chir y'all see he
15:29
Speaker 5: thought it was me that was squa screen.
15:32
Speaker 1: I said, God, because I'm getting anxious? Should I I
15:35
Speaker 1: ain't gonna talk?
15:36
Speaker 2: You don't let me?
15:37
Speaker 1: So. Yeah. So it's just like I feel like a
15:39
Speaker 1: lot of men have so much to say about a woman,
15:42
Speaker 1: and what should I even see men saying how a
15:45
Speaker 1: woman should wash or what causes yeast infections? Stupid ship?
15:50
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, like different things on a
15:51
Speaker 1: women's body, and it's like you cannot comment on it.
15:53
Speaker 1: You cannot comment on what single motherhood is like. Even
15:56
Speaker 1: if you had a single mother, you still don't know
15:58
Speaker 1: what it's like to be a single mother because you're
16:00
Speaker 1: not one. You can't have an opinion on something that
16:03
Speaker 1: you've never went through. And if you do have an
16:05
Speaker 1: opinion with it, keep that shit amongst people that think
16:07
Speaker 1: like you, not nobody that didn't ask for it. If
16:09
Speaker 1: I ain't ask your mother fucking opinion, shut the fuck up.
16:11
Speaker 1: If you see me walking outside with my kid, don't
16:13
Speaker 1: assume to think that we struggling, We unhappy, and we
16:16
Speaker 1: need a man and all and a dad in all life.
16:18
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We don't. Don't assume that.
16:20
Speaker 1: Don't assume that like, don't assume anything about a woman
16:24
Speaker 1: at all, period.
16:25
Speaker 2: That's it. And women need to stop putting a business
16:30
Speaker 2: in this shit too, which you mean a lot of women,
16:34
Speaker 2: A lot of women have opinions when it comes to
16:38
Speaker 2: men business.
16:38
Speaker 1: Like what oh, I feel like women should stay up the.
16:42
Speaker 2: Streets like absolutely, like women gassing man up to like
16:47
Speaker 2: a women give their opinion that they feel is facts
16:50
Speaker 2: and start confusion against men only opinion fights and everything.
16:55
Speaker 1: Only man, I'm giving my opinions too, is my mother
16:58
Speaker 1: fucking me?
16:58
Speaker 2: And and that's how it supposed to.
17:00
Speaker 1: I ain't giving my opinions a bunch of other niggas
17:02
Speaker 1: as that's that's not I don't. I don't want to
17:03
Speaker 1: argue with niggas. And that's what I'm on Facebook, on
17:06
Speaker 1: Instagram with that social media ship. Even in the comments,
17:09
Speaker 1: if you ever seen me respond to the comments, I
17:11
Speaker 1: really politely dubbed them like we're not about to do this,
17:13
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I don't want to
17:15
Speaker 1: your picture. No, I'm not talking about pictures or nothing
17:18
Speaker 1: like that. I'm talking about just period in general. That nobody,
17:24
Speaker 1: nobody commented, nobody.
17:27
Speaker 2: If you're happy, you happy. That's all that matters, like
17:30
Speaker 2: people are. I'm a person.
17:31
Speaker 1: I don't have no back to what the fuck you
17:34
Speaker 1: said though, because you said that women comment on men ship.
17:37
Speaker 2: All the like, what everything?
17:40
Speaker 1: Like what I give examples?
17:43
Speaker 2: You give examples.
17:44
Speaker 1: I give examples of how men being women business.
17:46
Speaker 2: With yours like you said street ship?
17:49
Speaker 1: Okay, what else?
17:50
Speaker 4: What about specific though, like if.
17:53
Speaker 2: Like me and my friend going through something, me and
17:56
Speaker 2: my friend going through something, Oh no, you ain't fucking
17:59
Speaker 2: with this nigga, this nigga, this like, can I be
18:02
Speaker 2: a man?
18:03
Speaker 1: Mmm?
18:04
Speaker 2: I've seen women do that ship?
18:06
Speaker 1: But see, but what if your woman feels like it's
18:10
Speaker 1: to protect you? Like, okay, I see this fake and
18:14
Speaker 1: this nigga because I want my man to tell me
18:16
Speaker 1: if he sees some floor shit in one of my friends.
18:20
Speaker 1: I respect my man's opinion. He gonna tell yourself, but
18:23
Speaker 1: that's not street ship. That's just protecting. That's the protecting mechanism. No,
18:28
Speaker 1: my man, he'd just tell me sometimes.
18:30
Speaker 2: I was just like, I don't mean to sound like yeah,
18:32
Speaker 2: get shut the fuck up that I keep it to
18:37
Speaker 2: myself like I went my homemiane, I see that girl
18:39
Speaker 2: coming on the line and all that, and I just
18:41
Speaker 2: I don't say nothing, and it's like, yeah, that nigga's
18:44
Speaker 2: a nigga, this, that, and the third. It's like it
18:47
Speaker 2: could just be a little conversation that you could just
18:49
Speaker 2: have with your your brother, that's your brother, a little conversation.
18:53
Speaker 2: Females put extra ship on it when you just think,
18:57
Speaker 2: like yo, like.
19:01
Speaker 1: So you feel like women need to show that's fair.
19:04
Speaker 2: I'll take that.
19:04
Speaker 1: I just wanted a little bit more insight as to
19:06
Speaker 1: what so you're saying. They just put themselves insides men
19:09
Speaker 1: and inserted.
19:11
Speaker 2: I could be on the phone, you grabbing the phone
19:12
Speaker 2: and give me your opinion. Nobody asks you, Oh no,
19:15
Speaker 2: that's kind of crazy. Nobody asks you you have had
19:18
Speaker 2: a homie like that?
19:19
Speaker 4: What had a homie like work?
19:21
Speaker 2: Like, I'm talking to my homie and my girl is
19:25
Speaker 2: giving her opinion, Like somebody asks.
19:28
Speaker 3: You, see, I see this a little bit differently because
19:31
Speaker 3: the truth is the reason why she feel that way
19:33
Speaker 3: because you was what you tell her when that nigga's
19:35
Speaker 3: not around, so.
19:35
Speaker 4: She feels very involved in the situation.
19:38
Speaker 2: It's some girl that just gotta added two cents.
19:40
Speaker 1: In, But that's because certain if you don't want them
19:41
Speaker 1: to add don't have certain conversations around around. Yeah, I
19:44
Speaker 1: feel like that's that's what we advocate too, because I
19:47
Speaker 1: know I won't have certain conversation, I won't have certain
19:49
Speaker 1: conversations about people in front of certain people if I
19:53
Speaker 1: don't want them to have any input on it.
19:54
Speaker 2: Because I say, it goes back to what you said,
19:56
Speaker 2: niggas need to stay out of female business.
19:57
Speaker 1: Because that's like if I'm sitting there, yeah.
19:59
Speaker 2: Like like you said, they need this, Like I hear
20:02
Speaker 2: female talk and all that, I don't got nothing to say.
20:05
Speaker 2: I don't gotta I don't got a.
20:06
Speaker 1: So you never told you never told any one of
20:09
Speaker 1: the women that with like, that's not your friend unless
20:12
Speaker 1: you come and ask me. Oh no, see I don't.
20:15
Speaker 1: I don't like niggas like you. You need to talk me, not.
20:18
Speaker 2: If you if she's doing you wrong and everything else.
20:20
Speaker 1: But I'm like, if I'm coming to you as if
20:22
Speaker 1: I'm coming to you as my mean and I'm telling
20:24
Speaker 1: you like if you come come to me your man. No,
20:27
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that.
20:29
Speaker 2: If you coming to me, of course I'm gonna give
20:31
Speaker 2: you my opinion, but I'm not gonna sit there and
20:33
Speaker 2: listen to you talk on the phone and just be
20:36
Speaker 2: just waiting to give my opinion. But there are a
20:39
Speaker 2: lot of guys that females.
20:41
Speaker 1: A lot of guys don't got a dog.
20:42
Speaker 2: I don't got a dog in this fight. I'm cool,
20:45
Speaker 2: But babe, what you think about this? She did this
20:48
Speaker 2: just on the third.
20:49
Speaker 1: See, I'm giving my opinion that if I'm hearing some
20:52
Speaker 1: somebody doing something wrong to the person that I'm with,
20:55
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna give my mother fucking opinion because you're
20:57
Speaker 1: gonna hear me out. You, my nigga, when I said, oh, so,
21:00
Speaker 1: what did you do that?
21:01
Speaker 2: And now we arguing, I don't got a dog? That's right.
21:04
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. I'm not gonna.
21:06
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna argue with you because
21:08
Speaker 1: I can. I'm able to see different aspects. I'm able
21:10
Speaker 1: to see everybody's point of you, not just my own.
21:13
Speaker 1: That's like the blessing and curse that comes with being
21:14
Speaker 1: in gyminal people.
21:16
Speaker 2: See, I just feel like people just have I just
21:18
Speaker 2: feel like people have an opinion, but they can't handle
21:20
Speaker 2: it when you give it back.
21:22
Speaker 1: Okay, I can respect that, so so to be fair,
21:25
Speaker 1: people that shouldn't have opinions it's people that aren't able.
21:28
Speaker 2: To take your to receive it, to receive your opinion,
21:31
Speaker 2: to receive it. That's fair because somebody can saying say, oh,
21:33
Speaker 2: I don't think this person is for you. I don't
21:36
Speaker 2: know what we're really going through or whatever the case
21:38
Speaker 2: may be. And when I can sit and say, well,
21:40
Speaker 2: I don't think your nigga, I don't think your girls
21:42
Speaker 2: for you hate people like and it's like you mad
21:46
Speaker 2: at me. You're not talking that. Wo. You should have
21:48
Speaker 2: kept your opinion to yourself when it came to my relationship.
21:51
Speaker 2: I'm doing it. I'm doing it for you.
21:54
Speaker 1: I do hate people like that like that, to be.
21:57
Speaker 2: Honest, especially like like I don't have like people around me,
22:01
Speaker 2: like bro, I don't think she it wow. Wow. You
22:06
Speaker 2: can't even tell me why.
22:08
Speaker 1: Because people are superficial. A lot of people will look
22:11
Speaker 1: and they'll think like, oh, this is what's for me.
22:13
Speaker 1: Is not your It shouldn't be your cup of tea anyway.
22:16
Speaker 2: I don't need you. If she makes you happy and
22:19
Speaker 2: you love it, you like it, I love it. I'm
22:22
Speaker 2: got no dog in this fight.
22:23
Speaker 1: I've had people have opinions on me and then they
22:26
Speaker 1: try to like like oh, she's a hole, she said.
22:29
Speaker 1: She's that. You know.
22:30
Speaker 2: Sometimes you give you a pinon, they turning on your ass, like, wait,
22:34
Speaker 2: what the fuck this happened?
22:35
Speaker 1: What the fuck like, how did that become a fucking hell?
22:37
Speaker 1: I didn't even.
22:38
Speaker 2: Know, mean personally, I just I don't know. I just
22:41
Speaker 2: keep my just keep my dog to myself because I
22:44
Speaker 2: don't want to put my dog in nobody fight. I'm
22:47
Speaker 2: one of those man. I can hear. I can hear
22:49
Speaker 2: the guys up and all that them spidery fuck like
22:51
Speaker 2: I act like I don't hear tuning it out. I'm
22:54
Speaker 2: not one of them niggas that guys up. Wait, baby,
22:57
Speaker 2: get off the phone. On the phone and you you
22:59
Speaker 2: hear your they get a background. Nah, Yo, she fucked up.
23:02
Speaker 2: She is a whole. Wait, bro, are you a female?
23:06
Speaker 2: Sit your ass down, nigga, turn on ESPN. I don't
23:09
Speaker 2: got a dog in this fight. I don't now my baby.
23:14
Speaker 2: Come and tell me something. Yeah, I'm gonna tell you. Nah,
23:16
Speaker 2: could have handled it different or ya. Now she is wrong.
23:18
Speaker 2: All you gotta watch your different shit. Yeah, I absolutely
23:22
Speaker 2: do that. That's just me. But I feel like the
23:26
Speaker 2: biggest opinion people have is people relationships that's true. No, No,
23:31
Speaker 2: it's just people relationships.
23:32
Speaker 1: And then their relationship isn't perfect on its own. Even
23:35
Speaker 1: the people that portray for their relationships to be perfect,
23:37
Speaker 1: they are not. They shouldn't even be able to give advice,
23:40
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because those people. If you
23:42
Speaker 1: have an opinion or feeling on someone else's relationship when
23:46
Speaker 1: nobody's asking you, you're not happy in your own relationship
23:48
Speaker 1: because I don't even have enough time to have the
23:50
Speaker 1: energy to tell you about how I feel about your relationship.
23:54
Speaker 1: If I'm focused on.
23:55
Speaker 2: My own, you're losing sleep giving me your opinion while
23:57
Speaker 2: your man is outside, don't God knows what why outside
24:00
Speaker 2: doing gardens?
24:01
Speaker 1: What you need to be the only time I'm have
24:03
Speaker 1: an opinion on someone's relationship is if they're really being
24:06
Speaker 1: done forul and they.
24:08
Speaker 2: Get your guys a friend and beat it on.
24:15
Speaker 1: I'm gonna always tell the truth, like look, listen, and
24:17
Speaker 1: even I tell my cheat on. But I'm a woman,
24:22
Speaker 1: so it's different from me because these people cry to me.
24:25
Speaker 1: I hate when people cry to me. Don't come to
24:27
Speaker 1: me crying to me about your ship if I can't
24:28
Speaker 1: get my opinion on your ship. Absolutely, because anybody that
24:32
Speaker 1: I went crying to, I took it and I listened.
24:34
Speaker 1: And that's what I told bitches, because when I was
24:36
Speaker 1: going through what I was going through, when I was crying,
24:38
Speaker 1: everybody telling me, oh leave it baby, through that cool boom,
24:41
Speaker 1: I took it. I listened. I ain't getting mad, and
24:43
Speaker 1: I started giving advice to bitches about they niggas. Everybody
24:48
Speaker 1: hated me, then I was the problem.
24:49
Speaker 2: No not. If they come to you crying, then you
24:51
Speaker 2: have everybody people, can you if.
24:53
Speaker 1: You come to me crying, I got the right to
24:55
Speaker 1: say what I feel like saying. If I'm the if
24:57
Speaker 1: I'm the fucking shoulder to cry on, damn need the
24:59
Speaker 1: dictor ride on you bitches come to me with you'all
25:02
Speaker 1: motherfucking proms. I'm gonna save what the fuck I want
25:03
Speaker 1: to say.
25:04
Speaker 2: I just hate the people that come to you for
25:05
Speaker 2: your your opinion and when you give it to your
25:08
Speaker 2: day start moving. Funny told you like yeah, mm hm,
25:12
Speaker 2: I damn. If you don't, I'll just speak up.
25:15
Speaker 1: So tomorrow of the story is don't give no motherfucking opinion.
25:19
Speaker 2: Being a band to yourself, amen, And that's the episode.
25:22
Speaker 2: Because you're to yourself. I don't know what I mean
25:26
Speaker 2: entertaining this opinion. Ship manya business. You're not disabled, maya business.
25:31
Speaker 2: You're not doing podcasts. Man your business. You're not in
25:34
Speaker 2: a relationship. Man your business. If I don't come and
25:37
Speaker 2: ask you how you feel about this, mine your fucking business.
25:40
Speaker 1: If it ain't your birthday, mind your business?
25:44
Speaker 2: Are you for real?
25:46
Speaker 1: Seriously?
25:47
Speaker 2: Don't ask about the blob and I see podcasts. Mind
25:49
Speaker 2: your business.
25:50
Speaker 1: Mind your business. Don't ask us about anything about friend.
25:53
Speaker 2: She got her man hold on her son. Y'all don't
25:55
Speaker 2: know the dynamic, and y'all don't know the relationship with them.
25:58
Speaker 2: Mind y'all fucking business does. She's smiling, she's happy. That's
26:03
Speaker 2: all that matters.
26:04
Speaker 1: And my baby was smiling too, And they say, he
26:06
Speaker 1: looks just like his stepdaddy.
26:09
Speaker 2: I'm dad. I ain't got an opinion.
26:12
Speaker 4: That's you see that right.
26:14
Speaker 2: People need to learn from that. I ain't gotta appear today.
26:17
Speaker 2: Mind your my business, my business. So I said whatever
26:23
Speaker 2: I said on the podcast, and they're like, oh, he's bad.
26:26
Speaker 2: The love bug for the mind your business. People grow,
26:29
Speaker 2: Mind your business.
26:31
Speaker 1: And people have to also understand that people are allowed
26:36
Speaker 1: to change. If someone changes don't sit there and hold
26:41
Speaker 1: them in the prison of what they use of who
26:43
Speaker 1: they used to be. Give people grace, allow them to
26:47
Speaker 1: be this new person, and allow them to be great,
26:48
Speaker 1: and allow them to do it without doubts. Don't doubt
26:51
Speaker 1: the person, because that makes a lot of people just
26:53
Speaker 1: want to stay away from you, or it makes them
26:55
Speaker 1: go back into their old self because you're not believing
26:57
Speaker 1: in who they can be. Allow people to bro You
27:00
Speaker 1: might have knew me, but you no longer know me.
27:02
Speaker 1: If you're not in my everyday circle, then you don't
27:06
Speaker 1: know me. You see me, you might see what I'm doing,
27:10
Speaker 1: You might have some ideas or whatever.
27:11
Speaker 2: The case may be.
27:12
Speaker 1: You might be building up this whole facade. You still
27:14
Speaker 1: don't know me anymore. You knew me.
27:17
Speaker 2: Because me I grew. That's it.
27:19
Speaker 1: And you can't have an opinion on somebody that.
27:23
Speaker 2: I could be a bed man. Yeah, it's and that's.
27:30
Speaker 1: Do you have any Do you have any motivational words
27:33
Speaker 1: for the people this week before we close?
27:34
Speaker 2: Yeah? The motivational words is maya motherfucking.
27:36
Speaker 1: Business Manya motherfucking business I think great.
27:38
Speaker 2: To the point, maya motherfucking business Wait till that person
27:41
Speaker 2: come and ask you your opinion, and you give your opinion,
27:43
Speaker 2: but just waiting just to give her opinion. No, maya
27:46
Speaker 2: mother and this is another episode of blind business, is
27:51
Speaker 2: another episode of maya motherfucking business.
27:55
Speaker 1: We're tired of fun. Yes, good night everybody, and happy
28:00
Speaker 1: birthday to my men.
28:01
Speaker 2: Her me and her man. And I know you're gonna say, oh,
28:04
Speaker 2: she said her man, Ma, your motherfucking business bit. I
28:08
Speaker 2: ain't saying all that I said, bitch, I said it.
28:12
Speaker 2: He were out though, right,