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Men Don_t Have To Put Up With This Abuse · THINK BEFORE YOU SLEEP

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  Speaker 1: Hi Steve.
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  Speaker 2: So after seven years married and five kids, my husband
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  Speaker 2: is constantly calling me crazy. It's something all you men
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  Speaker 2: say to your women and it's really annoying. It riles
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  Speaker 2: us up. So here's an example. We were at a
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  Speaker 2: wedding and I came out of the bathroom to find
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  Speaker 2: him laughing and smiling with another woman. So my immediate
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  Speaker 2: reaction was to ask him what's so funny and who
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  Speaker 2: is that? So his instant reaction was to call me crazy.
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  Speaker 2: So I want to know, Steve, why do men call
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  Speaker 2: women crazy and what do they really mean?
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  Speaker 3: Why do men call you crazy? It's because you are crazy.
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  Speaker 4: Well, the person thinks the loss of mind, they're not crazy.
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  Speaker 4: The people that think they're not crazy, they're crazy.
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  Speaker 3: So this question comes from the absolute goldmine that is
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  Speaker 3: the Steve Harvey Show, and it's during this segment called,
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  Speaker 3: What Do Men Really Want? Steve Harvey gathered up a
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  Speaker 3: big audience of women to ask questions, and then gathered
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  Speaker 3: up a big audience of men to answer those questions
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  Speaker 3: through a poll. In this particular video, the poll is
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  Speaker 3: kind of irrelevant, so I'm not going to go over it,
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  Speaker 3: but I thought I would use this special to remind you,
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  Speaker 3: or introduce you if you're new, to all the behaviors
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  Speaker 3: that you don't have to deal with when you go MGTOW.
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  Speaker 3: Take Angie, for example. She's our Exhibit A. Angie is
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  Speaker 3: a woman who is confused as to why her husband
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  Speaker 3: of seven years called her crazy. And she gets really
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  Speaker 3: pissed when her husband says it, too. Listen to her
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  Speaker 3: voice again.
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  Speaker 2: My husband is constantly calling me crazy. It's something all
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  Speaker 2: you men say to your women, and it's really annoying.
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  Speaker 2: It riles us up.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe it's just me, but have you ever noticed that
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  Speaker 3: the only people who get super offended at being called
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  Speaker 3: crazy are people who are crazy? I mean, if she
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  Speaker 3: wasn't crazy, she would just laugh at her bad behavior
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  Speaker 3: and then course correct for the next time. Instead, she
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  Speaker 3: got pissed off because she has no intention of actually
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  Speaker 3: changing that behavior when really her husband was being nice
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  Speaker 3: and using a euphemism when he called her crazy because
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  Speaker 3: he should have called her controlling and abusive.
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  Speaker 2: We were at a wedding and I came out of
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  Speaker 2: the bathroom to find him laughing and smiling with another woman.
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  Speaker 2: So my immediate reaction was to ask him, what's so funny?
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  Speaker 1: And who is that?
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  Speaker 3: He is on such a short leash that he can't
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  Speaker 3: even so much as enjoy speaking to another woman in
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  Speaker 3: polite conversation. And she is the one who is offended
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  Speaker 3: when he calls her crazy for running up to him
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  Speaker 3: and saying, Who's this hoe? I'm picking up on a
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  Speaker 3: severe lack of class here. She's treating him like he
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  Speaker 3: is guilty until proven innocent. That's not how sane people
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  Speaker 3: treat others. This is how a sane person would handle
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  Speaker 3: this situation. where she thought her husband may be trying
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  Speaker 3: to cheat. You walk up to him after going to
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  Speaker 3: the bathroom and say, Hey, I was just going to
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  Speaker 3: get a drink from the bar. Do you want one?
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  Speaker 3: When the woman he is talking to sees you, you say, Oh, hi,
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  Speaker 3: my name's Angie. Nice to meet you. Then she might respond, Hi, Angie.
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  Speaker 3: My name is Cheryl. Nice to meet you, too. How
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  Speaker 3: do you know John? Oh, John and I have been
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  Speaker 3: married for seven years.
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  Speaker 1: There.
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  Speaker 3: Was that so hard? You found out who he's talking to,
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  Speaker 3: You've notified her that he is married and you were
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  Speaker 3: polite about it so that you didn't piss anyone off.
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  Speaker 3: That's how you do it. Despite how easy this all is,
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  Speaker 3: she tries to beat him down for daring to talk
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  Speaker 3: to someone other than her. And then she tries to
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  Speaker 3: come out like a good guy by saying, how dare
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  Speaker 3: all you men call women crazy? You mean, how dare
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  Speaker 3: your husband call out your abusive behavior? How dare your
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  Speaker 3: husband point out that you don't trust him? Now before
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  Speaker 3: next clip.
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  Speaker 4: So the last time I thought my wife was crazy,
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  Speaker 4: I'm a newlywed. I've been married for about two months.
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  Speaker 1: That ain't the last time you gonna say it, homie.
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  Speaker 4: We got a nice wedding gift in the mail. It
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  Speaker 4: was a silver cake cutter server. Very expensive, very nice.
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  Speaker 4: And it came in terrible condition. It was dirty and tarnished.
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  Speaker 4: And my wife was upset about this. She wanted to
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  Speaker 4: send it back. She thought it should be in perfect condition.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't see what the big deal was. I thought
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  Speaker 4: we could just put it in the dishwasher and keep
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  Speaker 4: it and no harm, no foul. Uh, that was the
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  Speaker 4: wrong answer. So this, this, uh, you know, sparked a
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  Speaker 4: huge fight. We argued, uh, she stormed off, she slept
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  Speaker 4: on the couch that night. And I'm thinking, I'm thinking
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  Speaker 4: all of this over a little, you know, tiny cake knife. And, uh,
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  Speaker 4: So eventually I relented, we returned the knife, and everything
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  Speaker 4: was smoothed over and we're fine, but it just kind
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  Speaker 4: of reminds me that crazy can kind of pop up
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  Speaker 4: any time.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think that this guy was really paying attention
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  Speaker 3: to what happened. Maybe he was just thinking, well, I'm
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  Speaker 3: used to it, so this sounds like fairly normal behavior.
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  Speaker 3: This situation's not too bad. Are you kidding me? They
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  Speaker 3: just got married, and his wife thinks that it's a
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  Speaker 3: good idea to have a blowout argument to the point
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  Speaker 3: where she has to go sleep somewhere else. over a
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  Speaker 3: dirty cake knife. In the words of Tom Likas, the
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  Speaker 3: marriage is new, so this is the best it's ever
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  Speaker 3: going to get. It's only downhill from here, and she
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  Speaker 3: is already having a massive fight over nonsense. Do you
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  Speaker 3: know what this really says about her personality and what
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  Speaker 3: this says about their relationship? It says that she thinks
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  Speaker 3: a stupid wedding gift that you can just clean with
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  Speaker 3: soap and water is more important than a happy marriage.
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  Speaker 3: This cake knife is so important that she would rather
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  Speaker 3: risk her relationship than put up with a dirty knife.
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  Speaker 3: She cares more about that damn knife than she does
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  Speaker 3: her husband. Two months into the marriage, he should try
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  Speaker 3: for an annulment or a high-speed divorce. The fact that
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  Speaker 3: he doesn't see this and plays it off as just
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  Speaker 3: crazy is amazing to me. It's amazing how well women
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  Speaker 3: are able to hide their abusive behaviors to most men.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she has her husband so well-trained that he
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  Speaker 3: says he gave her the wrong answer when he stated
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  Speaker 3: his opinions.
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  Speaker 4: No harm, no foul. That was the wrong answer.
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  Speaker 1: The wrong answer.
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  Speaker 3: As if she's the final judge on what's right and
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  Speaker 3: what's wrong. Is this the kind of equality that feminists
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  Speaker 3: fought for? Speaking of equality, the only response he gets
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  Speaker 3: to his story is that the women were unhappy that
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  Speaker 3: she had to sleep on the couch instead of him.
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  Speaker 4: Now, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: The whole time you were saying this, do you know
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  Speaker 1: what this audience picked up and they said? She slept
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  Speaker 1: on the couch. That's all I was hearing. She slept
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  Speaker 1: on the couch.
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  Speaker 3: Now, I must be the insane person because what I
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  Speaker 3: see is a woman who threw an absolute fit over
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  Speaker 3: nothing and which damaged her marriage, and the women in
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  Speaker 3: the audience think that the husband is guilty and he
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  Speaker 3: is the one who should sleep on the couch because
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  Speaker 3: he's the man. If this is what married men have
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  Speaker 3: to put up with as normal behavior, then why the
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  Speaker 3: hell would any man want to get married? So thank
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  Speaker 3: you Sandman, thank you Tom Likas, thank you TFM for
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  Speaker 3: sparing me and everyone else from this bullshit. This next
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  Speaker 3: clip comes from a different special, which is just the
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  Speaker 3: opposite special, What Do Women Really Want?
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  Speaker 5: Back in the day when I was in relationships with
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  Speaker 5: a couple of girls, not all at the same time,
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  Speaker 5: but it was more or less she was so concerned
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  Speaker 5: about where I was. So I would get a phone
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  Speaker 5: call and she'd say, hey, where are you? And I'd
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  Speaker 5: be like, I'm just hanging out with my friends doing
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  Speaker 5: whatever we're doing, pretty much nothing. So her question to
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  Speaker 5: me is always, oh, well, would you mind maybe sending
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  Speaker 5: me like a Snapchat or anything to let me know
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  Speaker 5: exactly what you're doing at this moment?
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  Speaker 3: So.
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  Speaker 5: My question is, why is it so dang important for
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  Speaker 5: women to know exactly what we're doing every second of
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  Speaker 5: the day?
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  Speaker 3: There are all these feminist talk shows that women watch
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  Speaker 3: where they talk about the toxic male, the male abuser.
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  Speaker 3: He isolates you from your friends and family. He doesn't
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  Speaker 3: let you do anything without his approval first. He always
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  Speaker 3: wants to know what you're doing. Do you women ever
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  Speaker 3: point the finger at yourself? because I've known many women
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  Speaker 3: to be able to identify an abusive male only to
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  Speaker 3: go right ahead and practice the same exact behavior on
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  Speaker 3: their partner. But this is clown world, so I guess
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  Speaker 3: I'm wrong. Somehow constantly checking where you are is a
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  Speaker 3: good thing when women do it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, this is what we did, fellas. We surveyed this
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  Speaker 1: lovely group of women behind me and we asked, is
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  Speaker 1: it because, A, Women like details is how we're built. B,
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  Speaker 1: we don't trust you. Or is it C, to make
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  Speaker 1: sure we approve of what you're doing? A whopping 71%
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  Speaker 1: of women said C, they want to make sure they
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  Speaker 1: approve of what you're doing.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I get it now. You see, She cares about
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  Speaker 3: you so much that she just wants to check up
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  Speaker 3: on your every move to see if you are making
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  Speaker 3: the right decision. My first thought when I saw this
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  Speaker 3: clip was, what exactly is the difference between we don't
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  Speaker 3: trust you and to approve of what you're doing? Because
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  Speaker 3: there isn't. 71% of women said that they wanted to
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  Speaker 3: approve of what their partner was doing. And 23% of
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  Speaker 3: women said they don't trust their partner. This means that
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  Speaker 3: 94% of women who were polled don't trust their partner. 94%. Now,
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  Speaker 3: I'll wait for someone in the comments to write a
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  Speaker 3: 10-paragraph essay on why most women are still viable partners,
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  Speaker 3: because clearly I'm wrong about this. Or am I? 71%
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  Speaker 3: said they wanted to approve of what their partner was doing.
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  Speaker 3: Why are they behaving like that? Why are they micromanaging
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  Speaker 3: their partners? Why do women do this? It's not because
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  Speaker 3: they care about you and just want to make sure
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  Speaker 3: you aren't making bad choices. It's because they know that
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  Speaker 3: they have very little to bring to the table, and
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  Speaker 3: any other woman is is just as good as she is.
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  Speaker 3: If you were a man out in a place with
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  Speaker 3: other women, then you might discover that you could just
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  Speaker 3: trade her in for a better model. If she was valuable,
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  Speaker 3: if she had more to offer than just children and sex,
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  Speaker 3: then she wouldn't care where you were out going because
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  Speaker 3: she knows that other women wouldn't be able to compete
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  Speaker 3: with her. That is why all of these women are
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  Speaker 3: so insecure. They know they haven't built anything that would
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  Speaker 3: make them more valuable than any other woman on the street.
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  Speaker 3: That is why they have to abuse their men into
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  Speaker 3: staying with them.
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  Speaker 1: Now, okay, ladies, let me ask you a question. Are
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  Speaker 1: you curious about the grumblings that you're hearing from the 2,000 men?
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I think that when you answer 71% of you
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  Speaker 1: say it's because you want to make sure that you
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  Speaker 1: approve of what we're doing. They think they don't need
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  Speaker 1: your approval. But, fellas, but listen to this, though. It's
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  Speaker 1: really better than them saying they don't trust you. Because
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  Speaker 1: that's how we take it.
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  Speaker 3: That's how we take it? That's because that's how it is.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds better than them saying they don't trust the
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  Speaker 3: men they are dating? Of course it sounds better, because
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  Speaker 3: they are lying about their behavior to make it look
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  Speaker 3: like they are doing something honest and good. So now,
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  Speaker 3: not only are you dealing with a woman who doesn't
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  Speaker 3: trust you, you are dealing with a liar. That lack
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  Speaker 3: of trust is just her behavior projected onto you. She
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  Speaker 3: knows that she is a liar, therefore to her, everyone
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  Speaker 3: is a liar, therefore her boyfriend is a liar, and
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  Speaker 3: he is guilty until he proves himself innocent with Snapchat. However,
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  Speaker 3: it's not like they're consciously doing this stuff. It's worse
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  Speaker 3: than that. They care so little about other people's needs
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  Speaker 3: that they are completely unaware that this is bad behavior.
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  Speaker 3: Look at their response to the guy's outrage. They can't
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  Speaker 3: see that they are dishonest. They can't see that they
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  Speaker 3: are abusive. They can't see that everyone hates being micromanaged.
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  Speaker 3: If you don't care enough to notice things like this,
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  Speaker 3: then what makes you think that men would want to
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  Speaker 3: put up with someone who is not willing to look
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  Speaker 3: at herself and her situation critically? So much of this
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  Speaker 3: is just completely antisocial behavior, behavior that makes you entirely
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  Speaker 3: undesirable to other people in general, so the only way
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  Speaker 3: you can get those people to be around you is
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  Speaker 3: to manipulate and abuse them. This is the kind of
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  Speaker 3: behavior that I work against. You don't want to be
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  Speaker 3: antisocial because every opportunity you get is going to start
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  Speaker 3: with good communication skills. Take their bad example and run
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  Speaker 3: from it because clearly these women are not effective communicators.
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  Speaker 3: MGTOWs should be men who are highly desirable. And the
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  Speaker 3: reason that is, is because you will save far more
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  Speaker 3: men if you are a desirable person than if you
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  Speaker 3: are an antisocial basement dwelling loser, because you will be
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  Speaker 3: someone who other men want to be like. And if
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  Speaker 3: you want to get back at women for all of
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  Speaker 3: the abusive things that they have done, then the greatest
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  Speaker 3: way to do that is to be the best version
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  Speaker 3: of yourself, despite that abuse. Bad people hate it when
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  Speaker 3: other people are successful. And when those bad women start
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  Speaker 3: orbiting you, you can leave them in the dust. Be
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  Speaker 3: that one cake she can't eat. Be the one gallon
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  Speaker 3: tub of ice cream she can't have. And you can
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  Speaker 3: be the kind of person who won't put up with
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  Speaker 3: any of the shit described on this Steve Harvey special.
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  Speaker 3: And with that said, I think that will be enough
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