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Do You Sleep In Seperate Rooms And Your Relationship is Thriving · The Erica Show

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  Do you and I five it's Erica DeLong and Trevor and I just read a
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  stat So I want to know what what happens at your house, Trevor.
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  That couples that go to bed together at the same time, they are happier
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  overall, they feel connected, everything's great. I would say ninety eight percent
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  of the time hezus and I go to bed at the same time. It
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  does not happen like that at our house, not at all, because we
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  got kids. I'm putting the kids to bed. Boston's still working like it's
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  a little bit of a chaotic situation at night. So we're in a stage
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  where that does not happen. But I want to hear from couples that are
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  happy and thriving that do not sleep together, like they don't go to the
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  bed because my in laws they haven't slept in the same room in years,
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  really in years, and they're fine, they're like happy. I don't know
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  what they do like that or anything. But see, I'm glad that nobody
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  could see that hand signal made. Hopefully didn't look like that either. But
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  nine one night eight six zero one five to one, you have not slept
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  in the same room or together in years or however long, and you're thriving,
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  do you and if I stay? Ericase you Erica and Trevor asking who
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  who is thriving? But you sleep in separate rooms. Research shows that if
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  you go to bed at the same time and you sleep together, you're a
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  happier couple. We're having trouble though. People aren't calling saying that they sleep
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  separately. I know there's couples out there that sleep separately, but they're still
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  super happy, Missy. Are you one of them? Me and my wife
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  we go to bed every night together, and it makes a big difference.
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  So if you get mad at each other, do you go to bed at
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  opposite times as punishment? No, ma'am. I tell her that go to
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  bed good and none like good, a good night's sleep. Get over.
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  We'll deal with it, you know, we'll get over. We'll be eight
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  in the morning. They said marriage is the work of progress. Every day
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  it is it is. It gets easier though, I feel well, at
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  least in our household. The beginning was a little tough, but then now
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  it got much easier because we've learned each other's quirks. Yeah, with tell
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  her maybe it's seper to stay married. Let's do this. That's so true.
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  Do you know? Five? It's Erica DeLong and Trevor asking, do
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  you go to bed at opposite times or even sleep in separate rooms and your
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  relationship is thriving? Which, Cindy, you say it works better for y'all.
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  Yes, so we sleep in separate rooms and it works better that way.
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  Okay, so we got a couple halfily sleeping in separate rooms. How
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  did it all start? When we moved into our new place where just like,
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  Okay, we'll get two bedrooms and we'll just be in our own bedrooms.
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  And it works great because he works outside of the home and I work
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  inside of the home, so and it's great to just like spread out in
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  your own bed all on your own and not have to share covers or any
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  of that.