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Do narcissists BELIEVE in God or a higher power? · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on, beautiful people?
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  Today we're going to be answering the age-old question,
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  Do narcissists believe in God? If you're new here, my name is
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  Lee Hammock. I'm a self aware narcissist and
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  welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code.
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  Boom. Yes folks, this is the question
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  of the decade, isn't it? Do narcissist, toxic people,
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  narcissistic people? Do they believe in the God, the
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  Lord Almighty? Before we hop deep into today's
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  episode, y'all, if you haven't already, check out my kids book
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  your fault. It's a good conversation
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  Remember, it's not your fault. But yes, y'all, I'm telling you,
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  narcissistic talk to people. Some of them do believe in God.
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  Now are some like, OK, let's get into it.
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  Let's just say it. There's a rant bubble coming at
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  the front of this episode. A good old rant bubble.
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  Big fat rant bubble. Yeah, a lot of narcissists are
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  situational believers in God. They believe in God when it,
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  when it, when it serves them, when God can serve a purpose in
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  their life. They believe in God, right?
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  Are there some narcissists that are that do believe in God?
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  They might try to follow it. Yeah, possibly.
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  They possibly exist, but most narcissistic people that I
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  encounter are fake religious people.
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  They are fake religious people. They use God as a shield for
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  their toxic ass, horrible ass behaviors.
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  This is what they are. This is what they do.
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  This is who they are. You know, very very rarely is
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  there any middle ground here. It's either you're toxic as
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  hell, manipulative as hell, and an evil person that tries to use
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  God as a shield or you might believe in God like I I.
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  This is what I see though. This is the most times I see
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  that the narcissists who believe in God are bad people.
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  Y'all, This is what happens most of the time they're doing bad
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  things. And because they're situational
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  believers in God or religion, they use that to wash away their
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  sins. So Lee, what the hell you mean
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  watch what they're saying like they do in communion.
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  No, this is it's a it's like an obscure version of the Bible
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  that they that they believe in. They believe in the Bible that
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  says, hey, no matter how much bad stuff you do, if you ask God
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  for forgiveness, you will be forgiven.
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  That's the version that they believe in.
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  That's the version that serves them right there.
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  No matter what I do, no matter how I treat people, no matter
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  how I behave, if I ask God for forgiveness, I get forgiven.
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  That's the version that they believe in.
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  That's the version that most of them believe in right there.
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  Like you. Some of them will tell you, some
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  of them will tell you, Yeah. And I hate it so damn much
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  because most of the narcissistic people that you see, like
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  especially the the ones that are out in public, in the public
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  eye, political narcissist, like boy, these are some evil ass
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  people. They're doing horrible ass stuff
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  and just saying God said this and God said that.
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  And people fall for because they hear the word God.
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  This is yeah. They not praying to the same God
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  you are. They are.
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  They are not. They can't be.
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  How are they behaving this way? But praying to the same God that
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  you are, you a good, kind, empathetic person, You have
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  compassion, You care for people, you do good deeds for people and
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  expect nothing in return. Like, that's good.
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  That's good. Narcissistic people do do good
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  deeds for people, but they expect something in return.
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  Even it's the validation to be able to tell people just, hey,
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  look, I just donated to charity. I donated $1,000,000 to charity.
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  Y'all look at me. Y'all didn't do that.
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  Nobody, nobody else did that. Y'all didn't donate it.
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  I donate it. You said that's what happens,
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  like y'all God. And the thing about this is
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  right here, the thing that happened so much right here, it
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  is so many people get caught up in this right here.
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  They, they, you get caught up in the space because you might be a
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  believer, you might be a good person and you want to believe
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  that there is good in everybody and that God can heal everybody,
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  that Jesus can heal. You know, the Holy Spirit can
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  cleanse people and whatnot. Yo, faith without works is dead.
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  It just is. Like they can pray all they want
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  to, but if they're not willing to put any type of work in, then
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  what happens next? You see what I'm saying?
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  What happens next? This is the space that so many
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  people fall into right here. This is this is what happens.
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  Like narcissistic people will tell you that they believe in
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  God. They'll like they'll you'll
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  break it with them. They'll Hoover you back in with
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  promises of change, promises that their behaviors have gotten
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  better, promises of this, promises of that, blah, blah,
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  blah, Boo Boo Boo BBB. Just so many damn promises, so
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  many fake promises that they make right.
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  They'll do all of that and but hasn't done any work.
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  They'll tell you that God has changed them like their life.
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  God talk to me. It's, it's, it's here's another
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  rant right here. It's amazing how God, God spoke
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  to me and told me this. Yeah, it could have been the
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  devil. God ain't telling you to do this
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  horrible ass stuff. God didn't tell you to cheat.
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  God didn't tell you to beat your partner, hit your partner, lie
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  to your partner, manipulate your partner, gaslight your kids,
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  turn your kids against your at your spouse, turn your kids
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  against your ex, make your make your partner's life hard to
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  sell. God didn't whisper that into
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  your damn ear. That's the devil.
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  That's a devil in a in a God mask coming to you, whispering
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  into your ear. Be a horrible human.
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  Be a horrible human being. It's me, God, by the way, I'm
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  not the devil. It's me, the Lord just let's
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  just do it just be horrible and just say I told you that ain't
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  God y'all, that ain't him, but will narcissist use that as a
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  way to stay into your life? Will narcissist use that in a
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  way to remain relevant in your space?
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  Yes, they will. Y'all, I'm just telling you if
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  you they will be a believer. If you're a believer, they
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  believe in God because you believe in God.
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  If love if, if they're when they're trying to love bombing
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  you, if going to church is a requirement, if being a
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  Christian is a requirement, guess what they might be They
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  might be the biggest Christian you have ever met.
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  I'm a Christian too. Just why I've been looking for a
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  Christian wife. I've been searching behind why
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  for Christian husband. You saw out of my tender
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  profile, right? You saw it in the in the you saw
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  out of my tender profile with me being with me just owner.
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  Yeah, they did. Yeah, yeah, That's why looking
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  for friends, looking for friends with benefits, nothing too
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  serious, but Christian God first in the Bible.
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  Come on, y'all. Come on, y'all.
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  Come on. I feel like God is flowing.
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  God is whispering to me right now to do this video.
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  That's why I did this video. Like I had a bunch of videos on
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  my list. I could have did God was like do
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  this one. Lee, how you know doing the
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  devil, but I'm speaking the truth to you because I'm trying
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  to give you the I'm trying to help you heal.
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  This is me. But my form of compassion is
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  trying to help people right here, trying to help you realize
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  that spiritual manipulation, spiritual abuse is real.
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  Some of the most evil people go to church, y'all, Some of the
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  most horrible people go to church.
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  They go to church on Sundays. They do horrible, they do
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  horrible stuff from Monday to Saturday.
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  They do horrible stuff from early Monday morning to Saturday
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  evening. But Sunday, Jesus is good.
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  Oh, Jesus is good. Yeah, Jesus is all of a sudden
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  they they, they Jesus based, they God based.
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  They've they're God fearing on Sunday, but they were just
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  horrible people throughout the rest of the week.
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  That's what I'm just telling y'all.
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  You have to watch out for these false people.
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  They are not good people. You can't like say you can't do
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  horrible stuff and be a good person.
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  I know. But people I know people are
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  going to watch this video and then are actually in the faith
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  and, you know, dig into the Bible and find somebody doing
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  God told somebody to do something horrible, God hard in
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  their heart or something like that.
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  Yeah, y'all that happened in the Bible.
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  I read the whole Bible from beginning to end.
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  My my journey is God based. I believe in God because God.
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  Yeah, I'm serving God. My message helps serve.
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  I'm serving God by doing this message, by helping people, by
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  helping people heal, by helping people escape the toxicity, by
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  helping people grow. This is my this is me serving
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  God right here because I'm a narcissist.
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  I have a narcissist personality disorder and he has God spoke to
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  me. God spoke to me and said go to
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  therapy. That's what God said.
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  Go to therapy and stay there. That's what God told me.
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  God didn't tell me to do all this other stuff.
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  God said go to therapy 1st and then just bounce off of that.
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  Go to therapy first see how you feel and then move forward after
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  that move, you know, continue to bounce, continue to move forward
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  in your life after that. That's what that's what
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  therapist helped me out with right there.
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  Y'all, I'm just telling y'all, there's like God told me to go
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  to therapy. God intended me to do all the
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  other stuff. Be horrible.
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  Do that. There's the devil.
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  So do narcissists believe in God when it when it's convenient.
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  They believe in God when it's convenient.
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  I got plenty of I got plenty of people.
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  You know, I have another channel.
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  Why do reaction videos and text message breakdowns?
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  It's called Lee actions L EE dot actions, ATACTION Lee dot
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  actions. Why do text message breakdowns?
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  The people sending me text messages or people have done
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  horrible stuff to them and people have seen the screenshots
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  or their ex has done horrible stuff to them and say, hey, God
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  spoke to me and told me to reach out to you and check on you to
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  make sure you were good. I know you have.
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  I know you have me blocked on every possible social media.
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  You have a restraining order. You have everything.
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  But God said break their restraining order.
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  God told me to stalk you. What now?
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  Some of this stuff I'll be reading is insane.
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  God did not put you here to suffer to this relationship, God
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  and tell you to stay with your partner and stay in this abusive
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  relationship to try to make them feel better.
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  No, that's not God. Y'all.
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  God ain't telling y'all to do that.
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  I promise you that. God ain't putting y'all here to
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  suffer. God putting you here to thrive.
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  God wants you to live the best life possible.
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  God wants you to heal. God wants you to grow.
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  God wants you to be here to live your life to the fullest extent
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  possible. That's what God wants you to do.
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  That's why I want you to do as well.
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  I want you to heal. I want you to have fun.
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  I want you to grow. I want you to thrive.
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  That's my job is wanting y'all to thrive.
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  That's why I have my support group called the mental healers.
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  That's why I started in support group.
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  That's why I have my courses. That's why I have my my kids
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  book. That's why I'm writing my own
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  book if I do these videos, you know what I mean?
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  That's what I'm doing my live in person workshop in Austin Now
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