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Reddit Stories With Unexpected Twists: The Updates You Won’t See Coming · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my precious little unicorn. How are you doing today? Good, good.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're here. That's all that matters right now,
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  Speaker 1: isn't it? Just us hanging out, reading some drama in
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  Speaker 1: judge them all we want. Let's do it! Hello everybody
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  Speaker 1: and welcome back to my YouTube channel. I'm Comicris, you
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  Speaker 1: can call me Cris, and today we're reading Reddit. We're
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  Speaker 1: reading Reddit again. We're doing true crime Reddit, true crime Reddit.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why we've gotten into this pattern. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna throw in a vlog somewhere in
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  Speaker 1: here on one of these Saturdays, but I've just been
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  Speaker 1: really enjoying this and you guys have been really enjoying
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  Speaker 1: it too. So let's just stop talking about it and
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  Speaker 1: let's just start reading. All right, let's get into it.
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  Speaker 1: Send help. Friend wants to wear this to a wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Pray there's a picture. Descriptions are fine, but I prefer pictures, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Please help! A friend and I are attending a black
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  Speaker 1: tie wedding. I'm the plus one. Without hesitation, I've already
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  Speaker 1: selected a standard tux and plan to add my own flair. However,
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  Speaker 1: the dresses my friend is selecting worry me. She's convinced
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  Speaker 1: the bride, who is marrying one of the friend's college pals,
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  Speaker 1: won't be angry about this dress appearing at any of
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  Speaker 1: her events. Oh my god, I think it's white. I
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  Speaker 1: won't go into any backstory, but suffice to say, this
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  Speaker 1: isn't the only white dress she sent me. Oh no,
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  Speaker 1: she thinks she's the main character. It is, unfortunately, the
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  Speaker 1: only remaining white dress she says she's going to buy
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  Speaker 1: and bring anyway, to not just one, but two separate weddings.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow. Okay. She really does have that main character syndrome.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently my word as gay bestie and fashion etiquette experience
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  Speaker 1: with weddings means very little to her. This girl, you
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  Speaker 1: need to warn the brides or like get the, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if you know that. I mean, yeah, you're
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  Speaker 1: the plus. Oh, you're the plus one. Shit. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know the bride's numbers. Maybe find them on Facebook, you know?
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  Speaker 1: Cause there's two, you're talking about one wedding, but you're
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  Speaker 1: saying there's two weddings, but I would find them and
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  Speaker 1: be like, hey, please reach out to her and say like,
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  Speaker 1: don't wear white or something. I don't know. Sorry, I'll
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  Speaker 1: keep reading. I suspect she knows it won't fly as
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  Speaker 1: she refuses to send photos of any of her pics
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  Speaker 1: to relevant maids of honor or bridesmaids for the two
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  Speaker 1: upcoming weddings. So please, internet strangers, help me convince her otherwise.
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  Speaker 1: Stop it! Don't do it, okay? Your Auntie Krista, don't
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  Speaker 1: do it. Oh, this was recently. This was like less
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  Speaker 1: than a week ago. Shh. Hopefully she sees this.
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  Speaker 2: Hopefully.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God. We have a picture. We have a picture.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody shut up, sit down, grab a snack, grab a blankie.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody calm down.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: You're shitting my right now. First of all, I really
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  Speaker 1: like this. It reminds me of like something Kate Hudson
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  Speaker 1: would wear or something, but it's white and it's so
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  Speaker 1: it's could be like a beach bridal gown. Well, unacceptable. Unacceptable.
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  Speaker 1: Show her this video. All right, show her this video. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: don't do that. Okay, don't be that. Don't be that girl.
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  Speaker 1: But what do I know? Let's read the comments. Let's
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  Speaker 1: see if I'm being ridiculous. Genuinely give her an ultimatum.
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  Speaker 1: You do not need to go down with the ship. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't go. Oh my God, I would not go
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  Speaker 1: with her. Holy shit. OP said, I think I'll have to.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see this as normal behavior and I refuse
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  Speaker 1: to be seen standing next to someone in a white
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  Speaker 1: dress who isn't the bride.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, she's refusing to send pics to the maid
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  Speaker 1: of honors. Was she asked to? That makes it sound
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  Speaker 1: like it's not just ignorant, but malicious. Yeah. Like she's
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  Speaker 1: just trying to upstage these brides.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. This is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I'd give her an ultimatum. And then if she's just like, yeah, okay, whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I would just, I would go as far as to
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  Speaker 1: contact the brides and be like, there's this girl is
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  Speaker 1: coming to your wedding. She's going to be wearing white.
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  Speaker 1: Like you shouldn't disinvite her. I'll be saying, yep. Starting
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  Speaker 1: to wonder about that now. I'm realizing this might have
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  Speaker 1: been a blind spot for me because of the friendship.
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  Speaker 1: She's not generally petty or malicious, but she can be
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  Speaker 1: wildly ignorant at times. Now, everyone knows, everyone knows she's
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  Speaker 1: not sending it to the maid of honors for a reason.
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  Speaker 1: She's being calculated and malicious and just like, Narcissistic, pretty much.
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  Speaker 1: I don't buy that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no.
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  Speaker 1: Ooh, and we have a little update. We have a
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  Speaker 1: little update. Let's read it. Okay, mini update. Same day. Okay, update.
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  Speaker 1: I think she already owns the dress, but she won't confirm.
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  Speaker 1: Found out it's from two years ago. She is almost
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  Speaker 1: certainly bringing it if I don't make an ultimatum. Fair warning,
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  Speaker 1: y'all might be witnessing the rapid end of a very
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  Speaker 1: close friendship in real time. There's more to the story
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  Speaker 1: and I'm learning more. by the minute. Yeah, this doesn't
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  Speaker 1: come out of nowhere. It doesn't come from like, ooh,
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  Speaker 1: like it's a pale yellow. Like, do you think it
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  Speaker 1: would pass? No, okay, then I won't wear it. It's
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  Speaker 1: literally white. There's something there. We need to peel back
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  Speaker 1: the onion layers because she's like loves one of the
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  Speaker 1: girl's husbands or something. And she like dated this other
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  Speaker 1: guy and maybe she was having an affair with somebody
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  Speaker 1: and we need to peel those back because I need
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  Speaker 1: the juice. I need the onion juice, okay? I hope
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  Speaker 1: there's more. There's more updates. Comments say, is she the ex?
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  Speaker 1: This is vengeful. OP said, she said no, but that
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  Speaker 1: is not the story I'm being told by others.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know the brides yourself? Also, if so, tell them. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Great minds. I've warned the bridal party. We're doing this now,
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  Speaker 1: by the way, for yes, for like yes, because this
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  Speaker 1: is the sign for yes. Technically, this is the sign
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  Speaker 1: for no. Technically, it's with two hands, but it just
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  Speaker 1: bothers me that people are like, yes, because it means no. Yes, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I've worn the bridal party for the second wedding as
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  Speaker 1: I have other friends involved, but the second bride is
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  Speaker 1: much less assertive, so I didn't hesitate to let her
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  Speaker 1: wolf pack know. Exactly, exactly, and there's another update. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my God. Thank you to everyone who has responded. Seriously,
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  Speaker 1: this has been such an eye-opening moment. I'm not attending
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  Speaker 1: the weddings with my ex-friend. Damn. It is amazing how
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  Speaker 1: blind one can become when an individual is so good
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  Speaker 1: at compartmentalizing his or her life. Turns out she is
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  Speaker 1: an ex-situation ship of both grooms with messy history. I
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  Speaker 1: f * * * ing knew it! Fully hidden from
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  Speaker 1: me until now. My ex-friend was aware we had mutuals
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  Speaker 1: among the groups, but she severely underestimated how close I
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  Speaker 1: remained to those mutuals to this day. Apparently, she lied
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  Speaker 1: to me repeatedly regarding her friendships with the grooms and
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  Speaker 1: several groomsmen across both wedding parties. I have zero issues
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  Speaker 1: with this, except the fact that lying to me and
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  Speaker 1: choosing white dresses is, as one commenter correctly stated, some
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  Speaker 1: of the tackiest friend behavior I've endured as an adult. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's so... Childish. It's so childish and petty and ugh.
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  Speaker 1: Like you're an adult woman, grow up. My God. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care who she's been with or what their relationships
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  Speaker 1: are like now, but I refuse to be dragged into
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  Speaker 1: any dramatic shenanigans. The white dress choice was intentional and malicious.
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  Speaker 1: Women don't usually work in like ignorant ways. Like a
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  Speaker 1: guy being like, oh, I didn't know what to wear
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  Speaker 1: to the wedding. That makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: A girl?
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  Speaker 1: She then went on to all but admit to inviting
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  Speaker 1: me as her plus one to the first wedding because
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  Speaker 1: she can't afford the hotel or sightseeing unrelated to the
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  Speaker 1: wedding on her own and was and is only attending
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  Speaker 1: the second wedding as I already have accommodations nearby. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: so she's using you as a wallet. cute so in
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  Speaker 1: less than two hours one little help me the dress
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  Speaker 1: is wrong post has brought years of lying financial misuse
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  Speaker 1: and poor behavior to our mutual friend's delight i am
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  Speaker 1: not sticking around long enough to knowingly experience anymore the
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  Speaker 1: stories from others are still surfacing i cannot believe i
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  Speaker 1: was so blinded oh i'm so sorry that sucks to
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  Speaker 1: think that you were in a friendship for that long
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  Speaker 1: and it was just all you know maybe not all
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  Speaker 1: a lie but i mean essentially Like, she chose to
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  Speaker 1: withhold so much information from you and then try to
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  Speaker 1: make you feel bad for what you're saying. It's just all...
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  Speaker 1: toxic and shit. Another commenter said something akin to, I
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  Speaker 1: love how this sub supports brides. And boy, am I
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  Speaker 1: grateful for the community that not only helped me prove
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  Speaker 1: a point, but helped use a dress choice to expose
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  Speaker 1: behavior I will not tolerate in a friend I thought
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  Speaker 1: I had made for life. I leave you with this nugget.
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  Speaker 1: In response to my ultimatum, she made statements to the
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  Speaker 1: effect that she assumed I would just go along with
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  Speaker 1: it because I'm her close friend, not theirs. No ma'am,
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  Speaker 1: I will not. No ma'am, no ma'am, no ma'am. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Easiest choice to end a friendship
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  Speaker 1: I've ever had. Thank you. Crazy. Thank you for giving
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  Speaker 1: me all the onion juice. I don't even, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: even lose a friend. You know, you just lost some
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  Speaker 1: fucking lying dead weight. That's what I say. I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: you got out of that friendship because that's just toxic
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  Speaker 1: as hell. And I hope she finds peace in life
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  Speaker 1: and realizes what she does affects others. All right, next up,
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  Speaker 1: am I the scallywag for charging my friend $ 800 after
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  Speaker 1: she left me four hours from home? Oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited to dig into this onion, tell you what. Becky,
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  Speaker 1: 31 female, and I, 31 female, have been best friends
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  Speaker 1: for 20 years. In high school, we became close with
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  Speaker 1: Ryan and Daniel, and the four of us did everything together.
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  Speaker 1: Becky has always been fixated on Ryan. If he liked
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  Speaker 1: a girl, she would tear her apart or make passive
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  Speaker 1: aggressive comments until it was uncomfortable. I love these types
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  Speaker 1: of people, you know, pick me. Oh my gosh. This
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  Speaker 1: is like, just, I knew these people growing up. I
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  Speaker 1: knew these girls growing up. When he had girlfriends, she
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  Speaker 1: would openly criticize them and act like they weren't good
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  Speaker 1: enough for him. Eventually she started doing the same thing
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  Speaker 1: to me. Why are we 20? Why is there 20
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  Speaker 1: years of friendship? Is that if that's what she's doing
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  Speaker 1: to you and you know it. I'm going to not,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to keep reading. reading and not judge immediately
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  Speaker 1: She would make comments to downplay my friendship with Ryan
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  Speaker 1: or subtly compare us like she needed to prove she
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  Speaker 1: mattered more It felt competitive for no reason but I
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  Speaker 1: ignored it for years 20 to be exact seemed like
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  Speaker 1: fast forward to Ryan's wedding last month Oh, no. We
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  Speaker 1: have another vindictive, malicious person. Oh, no. Becky and I
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  Speaker 1: drove together and shared a hotel. The passive-aggressive comments started again.
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  Speaker 1: She said I would not even be at the wedding
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  Speaker 1: if it was not for her. Even saying things like
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  Speaker 1: that in front of other people. Later in the hotel,
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  Speaker 1: she complained that Ryan did not spend enough time with her. about.
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  Speaker 1: She actually said, sorry to you and Daniel, but he
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  Speaker 1: should at least want to spend time with me. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: be so for real right now. Another main character person.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: After years of this, I snapped and said, what a
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  Speaker 1: weird thing to say out loud. Exactly. She immediately escalated
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  Speaker 1: and said, Oh, what? You really think that Ryan and
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  Speaker 1: I aren't better friends? And brought up that he asked
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  Speaker 1: her to help design the engagement ring. I'm sure she
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  Speaker 1: loved that. I said, I don't care who's closer, but
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  Speaker 1: it's weird that you care this much. It's not our
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  Speaker 1: fault you're in love with him. She stormed out and
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  Speaker 1: instead of coming back, she drove off and left me
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  Speaker 1: stranded four hours away with no way to get home. Oh, what?
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  Speaker 1: My gosh, where are you? Are you at least at
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  Speaker 1: like an IHOP, like a Denny's or something? Like are
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  Speaker 1: you at a restaurant? Can you get food at least?
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  Speaker 1: This is terrible. Also, like I don't know where you are,
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  Speaker 1: but a lot of places don't have taxis like the
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  Speaker 1: town I live in. There's no taxis, there's no Ubers.
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  Speaker 1: So the next morning I couldn't rent a car because
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  Speaker 1: I only had a debit card. Oh my gosh, that
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  Speaker 1: is so messed up. So my only option was a
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  Speaker 1: same day flight back to where I live across the country,
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  Speaker 1: which cost $ 800. I can't believe people like this exist.
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  Speaker 1: I sent her an angry text and a Venmo request.
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  Speaker 1: She hasn't responded and we haven't spoken in a month. Okay, easy.
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  Speaker 1: Done skis. Another friend. Another friend bites the dust. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Another friend bites the dust. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even, I didn't plan it like this. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't realize this was gonna be about a friend bite
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  Speaker 1: the dust again, but... Good riddance. I'll admit saying she's
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  Speaker 1: in love with him was harsh. And the text I
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  Speaker 1: sent after was not my best moment. She, she left
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  Speaker 1: you stranded four hours away and you had to spend
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  Speaker 1: $ 800 to get home, man. We're supposed to talk tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Am I the asshole? No, no, no. She, again, she
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  Speaker 1: knows what she's doing. She knows what the words that
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  Speaker 1: are coming out of her mouth. She knows, she knows
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  Speaker 1: that she's like the ultimate pick me. Can't help herself.
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  Speaker 1: She's in love with Ryan. She wants to show up
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  Speaker 1: in a white dress, I bet, to this wedding. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my goodness. It's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 2: Easy.
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  Speaker 1: Easy, not the asshole. Drop this person. I'm getting so
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  Speaker 1: black and white like all the Redditors. It's like divorce,
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  Speaker 1: you know? Not the asshole. Ditching your friend without a
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  Speaker 1: way home is a safety issue. You had every right
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  Speaker 1: to be upset, especially when that came with an $ 800
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  Speaker 1: plane ticket. I wouldn't say she's a friend anymore. Yeah, easy.
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  Speaker 1: easy work. Unfortunately, you will never get money from her,
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  Speaker 1: and I doubt you would win in small claims court.
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  Speaker 1: Best to move on and go no contact with her,
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  Speaker 1: not the asshole. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't, I wouldn't even bother, like,
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  Speaker 1: taking her to court or doing anything like that. Just
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  Speaker 1: take the loss and take the gain of just gaining
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  Speaker 1: time back where you don't need to be in that
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: bitch's life, you know what I mean? Oh, we have
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  Speaker 1: an update, though. Nine days later, oh, ooh, I wanted
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: to address some common questions, comments first. Four hours versus
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  Speaker 1: across the country. I'm in the US and flew from
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  Speaker 1: the West Coast to East Coast. We wanted extra time
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  Speaker 1: together since we don't see each other often. So I
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  Speaker 1: flew into my hometown about four hours from the wedding
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  Speaker 1: instead of somewhere closer. This sounds like teenage drama, totally fair.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's part of why I snapped. It felt like,
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  Speaker 1: are we really still doing this at 30? It's also
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  Speaker 1: a sign I should have addressed this sooner. She's going
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  Speaker 1: as far as to abandon you in a situation, not
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  Speaker 1: talk to you for a month and stonewall you. This
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  Speaker 1: isn't a friend. This is a leech. She's just like
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: an energy leech. Like she just wants to take your
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  Speaker 1: pain and misery and just feed off of it. Like
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  Speaker 1: a- Leech. Rental car issue. I was told I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: use a debit card unless I had a license from
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  Speaker 1: the state. Otherwise, it had to be a credit card.
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  Speaker 1: No credit card. I had debt in my early 20s. Girl,
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: you don't need to explain yourself. That's fine. Why not
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: bus or train? I looked into it. Neither would have
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  Speaker 1: gotten me back in time for my return flight. A
• 14:33
  Speaker 1: train home would have taken almost three days and cost
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  Speaker 1: about the same. My options were flying out of the
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: closest airport or trying to get back to my original
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: airport four hours away. Either way, I needed a same-day flight.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: Venmo request, I sent it out of anger. I told
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  Speaker 1: her later, I don't expect her to pay me back.
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: Now for the update. We had the call and it
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: wasn't productive. Shocking. I apologize for what I said and
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  Speaker 1: that it was below the belt, especially the in love
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  Speaker 1: with Ryan comment, even though it's true. I acknowledged it
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  Speaker 1: was hurtful and told her I wouldn't say things like
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  Speaker 1: that again because I will never be seeing you again. Right? Hopefully.
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  Speaker 1: I apologize for the text and Venmo request explained they
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  Speaker 1: came from anger and made it clear I don't expect
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  Speaker 1: her to pay me back. Okay, so you're taking the road...
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  Speaker 1: That's in heaven right now. I explained that her comments
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  Speaker 1: have been a long-standing pattern I never addressed, but should have.
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  Speaker 1: When I brought up being left stranded, she didn't acknowledge
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  Speaker 1: it at all and became defensive. So she's taken the
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  Speaker 1: detour through hell. Okay, no high road here. She started
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  Speaker 1: crying and asked if we could just go back to
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  Speaker 1: how things were. Oh, wouldn't that be easy, Becky? Wouldn't
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: that just be the easier thing to do for you?
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: It's just a race set. I told her I didn't
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  Speaker 1: think that was possible. After the call, I realized this
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: isn't something we can come back from. I'm willing to
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: work through a lot, especially when I have a role
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  Speaker 1: in things, but the lack of remorse or even acknowledgement
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  Speaker 1: for leaving me stranded made that clear. As many said,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: this hasn't been a real friendship for a while. It
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: wasn't always like this, but over... It sounds like it was.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: It sounds like that's exactly what it was. It wasn't
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: always like this, but over time, the dynamic shifted in
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: ways I kept overlooking and brushing off instead of addressing.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: I think I held onto it because of the history. Again,
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people do that just
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: because it's like, oh, we've been friends for 10 years. Like,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: what am I gonna do? Never talk to her again? Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: You know, you can do that. During the month we
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: didn't talk, I actually felt at peace, which says a lot.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: I realized that not dealing with her behavior earlier probably
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: contributed to it becoming a more explosive conflict than it
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: would have been if I had addressed it sooner. I
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: appreciate the honest feedback. I'm still sad about letting go
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: of a friendship I cared about, but I know I'll
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: be okay. You will. And like you said, you're going
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: to feel a wash of inner peace. and you're gonna
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: notice that, whoa, I don't smell the toxic sulfur demon
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: shit that's coming off this girl, you know what I mean?
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be all right, you're gonna be all right.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: Friends help pick you up from where you're abandoned, you
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? This just makes me upset for you,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: so I'm glad that you got rid of that person.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: You deserve better. What do you guys think? Have you
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: guys gotten rid of a friend, like a long-term friend?
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: Let's read one more. Am I overreacting? My husband doesn't
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: believe our four month old is his and asked for
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: a paternity test. These ones always scare me. These ones
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: always scare me. Cause it's like, you just went through
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: all kinds of trauma giving birth and then the kid
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: comes out not looking exactly like the dad. And then
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: he's like, it's not mine. And it's like the last
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: thing you should be worrying about right now. And I
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: know there's situations where it's not theirs, but I feel
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: like every Reddit post I've ever read, it's just, it's
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: always theirs. Anyway, I'll keep reading. My husband. 29. And I, 22.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: I already have the dynamic there. Have been together for
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: two years now.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: And officially married for one. For some context, he is Pakistani,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: dark eyes, dark skin, and hair. And I'm white, blue eyes,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: light brown hair, and pale. So of course, our child
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: was going to be a mix of features. And I
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: love how people just don't understand how genes work. I
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: think maybe he assumed that he would mainly look like him.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: But when our son was born, he was purplish color
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: with dark hair, which is actually what I looked like
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: when I was born too. He was so in love
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: with him, very much an attentive father, and his favorite
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: thing in the world was the rush into our flat
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: and to see him after work. Oh yeah, I guess
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: he's four months old when you're talking about this. Okay,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: at least it wasn't the day he gave birth. That's good.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: It's been four months since he was born. His dark
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: hair fell out, and now is growing in blonde. He
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: has blue eyes and light skin, so he looks like you.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: Got it. These past few weeks, he has been very
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: distant towards him, not as excited, and just more in
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: his thoughts. I finally figured out why last night. He
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: frankly asked if I cheated on him, and I told him,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: of course not, and then he kept yelling at me
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: and saying I was lying. I asked him why he
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: thought this way, and he said that it was because
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: he looked nothing like him. Facially, my son has a
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: lot of his features. His eye shape and nose. He's
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: four months old, dude. They're still like, they don't even
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: have their skin yet in. Like, you know what I mean? Like,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: their final form. It takes years. It takes years. But
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: because he has lighter coloring, he is saying I cheated.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: In the argument last night, he referred to him as
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: my son, not our son. I'm so sorry. That has
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: to be so heartbreaking. You're going through postpartum and he's
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: just being a dick. Honestly, I've never been more hurt
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: in my life. I started crying saying he was his
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: son and saying I cheated on him was unforgivable. I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: think she wrote that wrong. I would never have suggested
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: I cheated on him if I were in his position.
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: He then said he wanted a paternity test. And if
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: he found out I cheated on him, we were getting
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: a divorce. I told him this whole thing was asinine,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: that some babies get darker as they grow up, and
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I was white haired until I was four. He just
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: wouldn't listen to me. I just feel extremely betrayed that
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: he would ever think that I cheated on him. So
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: even if we do a paternity test, which he wanted
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: to do tomorrow, I feel like the trust in our
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: relationship is gone. I guess I want some perspective. Do
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: you think he was right to ask for a paternity test?
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Is it right that I feel like our relationship won't
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: be the same regardless of the results? Which I know
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: will come back with him as the father. I just
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: don't know what to think. This is the first time
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: posting on Reddit. So sorry for formatting mistakes. I don't know.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: It's just weird. Like he's a 29 year old man.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know how genes work and that the baby
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: can just look like you and have like some of
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: his features and that his skin color changes and all
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: this stuff. It's just, it's giving immature, obtuse, idiot, just
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: mean dumbass to me. You know, and I mean, the
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: test is going to come back and he's going to
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: see it. Then what, then what happens? Then what do
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: we do? I don't know. You, I feel it's completely
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: valid for you to feel completely not attracted to him
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: after he has accused you of something when there was
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: no proof of it, by the way, no actual good proof.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Like there's no phone stuff or anything besides the baby
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: just not looking exactly like him. It's just ridiculous.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: I'm curious what the comments say. My mom is Arab
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: Indian and my dad is white. I have blue eyes
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: and auburn hair. It's definitely possible to look more Caucasian
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: and still have Desi blood.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, duh. The fact that he's even going so
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: far as ignoring the baby and not referring to him
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: as his anymore is almost the worst part. Absolutely. My God,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I can't even That's gotta be so heartbreaking. Not only
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: does he not trust you, he hasn't even gained any
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: real affection for your shared child in all these months.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like any decent human would have a hard
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: time snubbing an innocent baby like this. You are nar.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: Your husband actually sucks. I'm sorry. Yeah, you're not overreacting.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: at all. I kind of wonder if he's decided he's
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: over having a baby and wants an excuse to leave
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: that doesn't make him look like a jackass. I mean,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: that would just be stupid because it does make him
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: look like a jackass because he's going to get the
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: paternity test and it's going to be his kid. Like what?
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: So dumb. When was this? Oh crap. I don't know
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: if we have, I I'm sorry guys. I thought there
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: was an update. I don't know if there's an update.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Please don't hurt me. Oh no, there's none. Oh no,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: there's none. Did anybody else have a baby? And then
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: it came out and you're like, who is that? Let
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: me know down in the comments. Since there wasn't an update,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: we'll do one more. Okay, we'll do one more. All right, me,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: 20 female, with my boyfriend, 20 male, of two years.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: His student is suddenly being too friendly. Oh, dear. Okay.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Hi there, Reddit. Apologies for the throwaway, but I know
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: that she browses Reddit. As such, some names and ages
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: are also modified a bit. All right, so my boyfriend, Robin,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: is a tutor for our university. He's got many, many students,
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: and I'm perfectly comfortable with the amount of time he
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: spends with them. No more than an hour per session,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: and no more than three per day, since he also
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: wants to devote time to both schooling and our relationship.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: One student in particular, Lucy, 18 female, has been spending
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: quite a bit of time with our friend group recently,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: and once again, I'm okay with that. The more, the merrier,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: you know? Okay, so you're chill as f * *
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: * ing cool as f * * *. Love that
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: for you. Well, Lucy seemed nice enough at first. Good
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: sense of humor, witty, and in general, a nice person.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: It wasn't until she had been in the group for
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: two weeks that both myself and Robin started noticing some
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: odd things. Anytime we sit together with our friends for
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: a meal, Lucy always has to take a seat next
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: to Robin. Always. I don't need to read anymore. She's
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: in love with him. But I'll keep reading. She texts
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: him constantly, asking him what he is doing and if
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: he can come over to her place for some activities.
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: After tutoring.
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Robin is very, very firm about his one hour per student,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: three student per day rule. Okay, well that's good. At
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: least he's like laying down the law. My boyfriend loves
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Ramoon? Strawberry Ramoon? I don't know what that is.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Sounds good though. One day he opened the door to
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: his dorm and found a crate of it all from her.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: So she's like literally obsessed with him. This is literally
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: a stalker movie in the making. Okay, got it. We
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: are pretty big fans of Attack on Titan. Dude, I
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: fucking love Attack on Titan, dude. And we do wear
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: shirts and the like a lot. One day, she shows
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: up in full Scouting Legion attire. That's not normal attire,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: by the way. Which costs hundreds of dollars. She claims
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: she's a fan. But when I asked her opinion on
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: a certain character, she got the character completely wrong. For
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: those who care or are wondering, I asked her opinion
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: on Commander Erwin, but she launched into a long, full
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: of wrong facts explanation on Pixies instead. That's pretty funny.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: We're also big fans of Gravity Falls and therefore planning
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: to dress as Dipper and Pacifica for Halloween. She's insisting
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: on being part of the costume as Wendy, who Dipper
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: had a giant crush on throughout the show. Wow, she's
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: like not even a little bit subtle. Wow, that's wild.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: That's wild. Like she's just gonna show up, show up
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: in a white dress and a little suit for him
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and a little ring with a little... A little Elvis impersonator,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: you know? Just a little, just like a little wedding ceremony.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Another point, we were talking about bearded ladies once. One
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: of my friends cracked a joke about such people being
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: perfect for myself and Robin, since we're both openly bisexual.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Robin snorted and said, I prefer my women like I
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: prefer my men, brunette and clean shaven. Got it, so
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: that's probably what his girlfriend looks like, the OP. While
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: winking at me, Lucy started laughing and said, and here
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: I thought you preferred your women blonde. Because you know
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I'm blonde. Me? Lucy? F * * *.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Off, Lucy.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I could go on and on about her odd behavior,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: but I think you guys get the gist of it. Yeah,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: she's in love with him, she's obsessed with him, and
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: I'm scared she's gonna murder you at some point, I think.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: What's going on, Reddit? She's gonna murder you and she's
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: gonna try to take your boyfriend, I think. I've seen
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: enough movies, I know. She was not like this at
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: all before, according to my boyfriend. He's A little stupid
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: because he's a boy. In fact, she used to shy
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: away from him whenever he reached over to take her
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: paper to correct it. Yeah, because she loved him and
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: she had a crush and she was not confident yet.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: We are both very, very uncomfortable with her behavior. Okay,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: so just drop her as a student and don't hang
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: out with her anymore. But I have no idea as
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: to how to approach it. Speaking with her is out
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: of the question. She makes a big deal out of
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: small things. Something I learned when she took her computer
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: to the university ITs where I work and we don't
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: want to cause any scenes. What do you mean? Dude,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: phones exist. What are we doing? Just text her. Get
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend to text her and be like, I don't
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: want to hang out with you and I don't want you.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: I can't tutor you anymore. Easy peasy. Thunskies. Why are
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: we talking right now? I appreciate it though. That's my
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: advice though. I would literally just have a conversation with her.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: If you want to be extremely cordial, you know, you
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: can invite her over. The two of you can sit
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: down with her and be like, hey, we don't really
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: want to hang out with you. He can't do this
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: anymore because you're making us uncomfortable.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Who gives a You know what I mean? It sounds
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: like you've already talked to him about it and he
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: doesn't like her behavior either. If that's true, he needs
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: to be clear about how uncomfortable it makes him. This
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: means speaking to her about how she cannot give him
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: any more gifts, explaining she cannot join your costume because
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: it is a couple's costume and he wants to be
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: personal with just the two of you, possibly dropping her
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: as a student and finding a replacement. That's literally what
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I just said. Okay. I understand this might be hard
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: if you guys don't like confrontation, but trust me when
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I say it is absolutely necessary. She's young and she's
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: probably doesn't realize how aggressive she's being, but you don't
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: want to make the situation any more awkward than it
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: will be by allowing her crush to grow. Nip it
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: in the bud ASAP. Yeah, agreed. OP said, we will.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Thank you for the input. He's going to speak with
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: her during their session tonight.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Which with luck won't be canceled. We are both already
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: prepared to tell her that we will not tolerate any
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: more of this behavior. The only thing is, as I've
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: stated in the other comments, she can be quite the
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: loud one. We don't want that sort of attention. Do
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you think there's any way we can speak with her
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: to avoid that? What do you mean she's loud? What
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: are you talking about? Talk with her in a room
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: without people around. What are we, what are we talking about?
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Just text her. That's what phones and emails are for.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about? What are we, I'm sorry.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I'm getting upset. It's the end of the video. I
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: start to crash out a little bit more. I start
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: to get mad and a little short-tempered with these people.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: They're young. They're young. They don't know yet. They don't know.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: They don't know. They don't know that they could just
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: be like, shut the fuck up. I don't want you
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: in my life anymore. I'm literally going crazy right now. Well, okay. Wait, wait, wait, wait.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: So a comment said, what were the other things? I'm
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: glad your boyfriend shoots her advances down. It's honestly refreshing
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: after reading all these awful threads. I can't stop. It's
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: like novellas help. Same. She says, oh Lord, I'm glad
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: as well. For all the stories you read about terrible guys,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I'm glad Robin at least isn't one of them. As
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: for the other things, jokingly asked him how big his
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: member was. When he asked her why, she answered with,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: just so I know what I'm up against. Okay.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: If a woman came up to my husband and said this,
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying you'd see her name in the newspaper
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: the next day.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: All right. All right, what else? Baked her whole group
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: a plate of cookies, handed the first one to Robin.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: She ran out by the time she got to me,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: but she served herself first. Oh, that's so nice. Robin
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: once showed up in nice pants. Robin's butt looks good
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: in nice pants. I eyed that booty and Wolf whistled
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: at it because, bam. I love that. According to one
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: of my friends, the moment I turned away from the booty,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: she made an attempt to smack it, but Robin took
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: a step away at that instant without realizing that she
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: wanted that booty. That's awesome. There's a bunch more, but
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: they're just all terrible. Holy crap. Then we have an update,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: so let's just read the update. Last night, Lucy came
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: for a tutoring session. At the time, I was helping
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Robin with his laundry. So when she knocked, only Robin
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: went to go answer the door. I decided to stay
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: behind in the room. Ease drop, drop, drop, ease drop, drop.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: So I decided to stay behind in the room, continuing
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: to fold his laundry. But listening in case I had
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: to step in. Everything started out normal at first with
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: her putting her books down and trying to make small
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: talk with him. Robin is a very polite man, so
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: he answered her small talk questions accordingly. But the moment
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: they sat down, according to Robin, she actually scooted her
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: chair closer to his, so much that their legs were
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: nearly touching under the table. Robin got to business. Oh, Robin!
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: We love Robin. Reddit, what happens next is completely unreal.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: I don't even know if I had only dreamed of
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: all this or not, but I truly do wish I
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: could have made this up. Unfortunately, I'm not creative enough,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: nor am I capable enough. I would never have thought
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: that such a seemingly normal girl would turn out like this,
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: but I suppose there are unexpected ugly sides everywhere. Nevertheless,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: here is what happened. Oh, I expect the worst from
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: this girl. From what you said. Holy crap. Robin immediately
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: started out telling her that lately he's noticed that she's
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: been trying to insert herself into both his and my
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: hobbies for quite a while. He's also noted that she
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: seems to be spending quite a bit of money on
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: him lately as well. Noting the strawberry Ramoon, sorry if
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I'm saying that wrong, crate. And I didn't even know
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: about this one, the Attack on Titan ring set. Oh, wow.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: He said that while he is flattered and appreciates the gifts,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: he wants her to stop because it is not appropriate
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: behavior between a tutor and his tutee. Tutee, I didn't
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: know that was a thing. Okay, tutee. I think she
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: may have tried to say something because Robin said rather
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: quickly after that, and I'm sorry, but even from a friend,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I can't accept gifts that extravagant. Okay, good on you, Robin.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: She was quiet for a bit. I actually had to
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: sneak shuffle my way over to the doorway, staying out
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: of sight, of course, since they would be able to
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: see me from the table, not to hear anything. But
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: it sounded like Lucy started crying. I'm sorry. Womp womp,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: you know? Okay, Lizzie. Or sniffling at the very least.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: Next thing I know, she burst into tears and rambling
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: something that afterwards, even Robin couldn't comprehend. Oh no. She's
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: doing the... By the time she was able to be
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: comprehensible again, that's when shit got weird. She started blubbering
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: about star signs, about how it was written in the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: stars that not only were they compatible, but they were
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: destined to be together. Oh man, dude. She has made spells.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: I know she has. She has done seances and she has,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: she's put some shit on the floor, some candles on
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: the floor and she's done some shit. Okay. Check her
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: room for voodoo dolls. She told them how she had
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: read in her horoscope or fortune or something like that,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: that her true love would be her greatest teacher and
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: she the wisest of students. She also went on and
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: on about how it was meant to be that they
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: would meet for tutoring, then fall deeply in love and
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: carry on a forbidden romance until he could, and I quote,
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: shed the shackles of his duty and false lover so
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: that they may walk forever amongst the stars. Oh, she's crazy, crazy.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying horoscopes are crazy. They're fun to read. Whatever.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I think there's something to it.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: But, you know.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: This is another level, alright? This is another level. She
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: took it to the top floor. She took it to
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: the penthouse. You know what I'm saying? By now, both
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Robin and I were shocked. speechless. While we perfectly respect
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: those that truly believe in fate, this was something that
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: we simply couldn't get our heads around. I honestly wanted
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: to walk out and say something, but kept quiet because
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: then she started on another tirade. Oh no, I would
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: have been just listening, recording in the corner. She started
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: going on and on about how it was written in
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: wherever she is getting this from that I was undeserving
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: of Robin's love and that I was only there because
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: I wanted to lead Robin astray from the true path
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: of love. She also said that once she fulfilled her
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: duty of lifting the veil from Robin's eyes, they would
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: travel the world and together raise three beautiful children. Yeah,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: she's done, she's done some She's done some witchy shit.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: All with Robin's eyes and her hair. You know what?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm actually starting to get concerned about her
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: a little bit. I feel like I'm a little concerned
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: about old Lucy here. She would teach them how to
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: be good, kind people, and he would pass on his wisdom. Together,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: she claimed they would become king and queen of the world. Okay.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: So I went, you know, we've been making fun, but
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I'm actually concerned. And from what you said too, you're like,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I literally can't make this up. Like, This is concerning. Anyway,
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Robin stopped her right after that and said that veil
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: or not, he's most certainly not going to leave me
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: and that even if he did, he had no feelings
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: for her beyond a student and maybe a friend. Robin,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: we're not friends with her anymore. He also said that
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: on top of that, this was not about some destiny,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: but about her behavior and his request that she stop it.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: He asked her to understand that the costume in question
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: was a couple's costume and thus he wanted to make
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: it special for just myself and him. Why aren't we
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: kicking her out the door right now? What are we doing,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: you know? He told her that while he appreciated that
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: another person shared the same interest as us, that she
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: was going too far with them. Lucy immediately countered with,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: if my name truly loved you, she would not be
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: cheating on you right now this moment. Okay, so now
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I'm back to just being like, oh, she's just a bitch.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: I saw her three different guys on my way to
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: your room. Why? So she, no, she's literally, she's literally,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: she's not okay. She needs to like talk to somebody.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: This is like, like just fantasy, pathological lying. This is like,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: this needs to be addressed. I'm actually concerned about Lucy now. Wow.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: But you need to walk out very dramatically now. Now
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: that got me pissed. Yes.
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: Shit was already pretty nuts, but really, if you're going
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: to lie about me cheating, at least have the courtesy
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: to make me seem less stupid. Either way, I was
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: so done at that point. And in a fit of anger,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: I took hold of one of the articles of clothing
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I was folding and marched the The look on her
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: face was priceless. Here she was, caught in a bold-faced lie.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: And there I was, waving Robin's boxers around. I knew
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: it was going to be his boxers. And going, she's right, Robin.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: I'm f * * * ing leaving you. I'm sorry.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: But I'm more in love with your boxers. We could
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: have worked on that line, but that's fine. That's fine.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: You had your moment. Robin can't take it. He just
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: starts cracking up. It almost falls out of his chair.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: He may have been done for the count, but I
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: wasn't done. I immediately marched up to Lucy and told
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: her that, sorry, not sorry, she is no longer welcome
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: in our friend group. I told her that I did
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: not like the way she was trying to steal my
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: boyfriend or the way she kept butting into things that
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: we planned to be just us sort of things. I
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: also very empathetically told her that the both of us
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: were not welcoming to people who who would dare to
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: spread lies about either of us. And the entire way through,
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: she cried and cried and kept mumbling things like fate
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: and destiny and all her mumbo jumbo. I don't know
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: if it's mumbo jumbo. I think she really believed it. Eventually,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Robin managed to compose himself enough to start talking again.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: He told her that he agreed with me and that
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: while he would have eventually forgiven her attempting to come
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: between the relationship and acting inappropriately towards him, he could
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: never forgive someone attempting to lie to him about someone
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: he loved dearly. So with that, he got up, gathered
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: her stuff for her, and gestured her to the door.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: But of course, Lucy had to go in for one
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: more attempt. What does she do? She pulls out her...
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: She did the... She pulls up her shirt and he's like, oh,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: never mind. All right, I'm walking out the door with her.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: All right. She had come in wearing rather revealing clothing,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: which is actually quite normal for her. But apparently she
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: wasn't wearing a bra and maybe no underwear at all
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: underneath it. She just pulls down her collar and bam!
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: Robin immediately recoils and looks away because while he's fine
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: with seeing breastises, he's taking quite a few different anatomy classes.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: He's just always been the sort of person that would
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: rather just not see... Those waving at him. And oh boy,
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: is she waving those things around. Practically screaming at him
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: to look at them. This is so embarrassing. Lucy, what
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: are we doing? Dude, I wanna sit Lucy down and
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: really just talk to her and be like, you're better
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: than this, honey. Practically screaming at him to look at
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: them and understand that it is her she desires, not me,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: because her bits are bigger and better and because they're
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: destined to be together. During this whole time, I'm just,
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: I'm speechless. I can't even comprehend what's going on anymore. Luckily,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: it just so happened that she was so loud that
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: the RA knocked on the door and I was at
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: least functional enough to run and open it. She was
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: too far gone to even notice the knock So when
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: our lovely RA looked in, all she saw was Robin
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: yelling at her that it was inappropriate to put them away.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: While she was yelling at him, that one look at
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: her and all of his desire for me would transfer
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: to her. Once the RA managed to recover from, well,
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: the shock of what the was happening, she immediately stormed in.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: She's a tiny woman, but was raised by a father
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: in the Marines, a very tough nut to crack, and
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: took control of the situation. She had come because residents
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: were complaining about the noise in Robin's dorm, so she
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: had to investigate. She sat us all down on the
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: couch and had us tell our stories. Robin and I
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: remained firm with our accounts, telling her about Lucy's behavior
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: and what had happened this night. Lucy was crying and
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: blubbering her little destiny spiel, trying to put lies in
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: there about how I scratched her with my fingernail, bullshit
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: just from looking at her and my nails, she had
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: no scratches on her and my nails are cut down
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: to very blunt, and about how I seduced Robin and
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: stole him from her and blah blah blah blah blah.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: The RA knew me personally enough to know that I
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: was Robin's girlfriend and that I would never attack another
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: person for no reason. So of course, Lucy's account is
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: taken with a grain of salt. From that point on,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: it was only a matter of waiting for campus security
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: to arrive so that Lucy could be taken away for
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: disturbing the peace and indecent exposure. Oh yeah, that's a crime.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: You can't do that. They wanted to take myself and
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Robin too, but my RA managed to convince them that
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Lucy was the only one yelling, which she was, and
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: that if anything, we were the victims. We may get
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: pulled in for further questioning, of course, and the matter
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: itself is still under investigation, so there is a chance
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: that Robin and I may receive write-ups for the incident
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: or something, but such a chance is low. I'll update
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: again when I can, but for now, it's over. We're
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: cutting her off from our friend group. I freaking hope so.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Robin and I blocked her on social media and her number,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: and if it becomes an absolute necessity, we're getting a
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: restraining order. Yeah, I'd recommend that, because that's, this is,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: this is bad. I know the story is wild and
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: crazy and just unbelievable. I know that. If I had
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: not witnessed this, I would never have believed it myself.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: If you told me when I first postponed my original
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: post yesterday that I would bear witness to a crazy
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: girl attempting to shove her bits in my boyfriend's face
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: and screaming about how they were destined to be together,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: I would have asked what you've been smoking and if
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I could have some of that. But there you go.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not asking you to believe me. I'm just asking
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: that if you're capable of coming up with something like
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: this to send me whatever it is you have that
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: lets you do that. That is.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: There's no other updates.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Thank God.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: That's a lot. There's a lot. Well, again, I never
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: plan these. I just kind of like look for Reddit
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: posts in real time and they were all cutting off friends.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: There you go, we had a theme today. We had
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: an unintentional theme today. Just cut off those toxic friends.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: Or yeah, you know, like friends that wanna, you know,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: be king and queen with your boyfriend and take them
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: away and have three children. Yeah, I don't know. If
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: this isn't real, great storytelling. That's wild. If it is,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Lucy needs some help. Let me know what you guys think.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: That's it for me today. I will see you in
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: the next one. All right, bye.