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Would You Let You Boyfriend or Girlfriend Movie in With Opposite Sex · The Erica Show

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  Wow. No. Backs to the Erica Show on G one oh five Erica
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  DeLong and Trevor with a listener Diloma from Stacy Stacey wrote out, reached out
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  and said that she's really bothered at the fact that her boyfriend of seven months
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  is planning to get in an apartment but with another girl. This girl is
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  very cute too, and would be typically his type. She said, I
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  would have loved to move in with him, but I can't with my current
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  living situation, so it'll be a while before that can happen. And he
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  couldn't afford it by himself, so he needed a roommate. He needs a
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  roommate, which obviously that makes sense in today's climate, But she said,
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  I want him to live with a guy, not a girl. What should
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  I do? Is this grounds for a breakup? Nine one nine eight six
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  one o five one Trevor, What would you do? Oh? Well,
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  I mean like your husband, or you would live with the Have you ever
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  lived with another guy before? I've lived with a couple before, a guy
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  and a girl. But okay, I wasn't dating anybody at the time.
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  Ooh, I can see why she'd be insecure about that. Yeah, I
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  mean I would have a you would not let that fly if it was if
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  she was super cute looking like some Megan Fox, I'd be like, oh
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  no, huh, I'd be over there all the time and not to be
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  insecure, but I'm just keeping it real, Like you don't want to flaun
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  it in their face and make it more tempting. So wait, if she
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  wasn't attractive in your eyes, you like, now, I'm just kidding.
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  I'm just kidding. I honestly would feel more comfortable if it was you know,
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  I mean, I would prefer it to be a guy. But in
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  this current climate, you do need a roommate, honestly, Like, you
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  can't really afford people's rent right now is more than my mortgage, So it's
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  hard to afford to live by yourself. And if this is the only option,
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  she might have to suck it up and it would be a testament or
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  a test of their relationship. It's a tough one. We gotta go to
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  the phones nine one nine eight six zo one oh five to one. Would
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  you be bothered if your significant other, your boyfriend or girlfriend moved in with
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  the opposite sex? Do you want to if I as the Airica Show,
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  Erica and Trevor. A listener dilemma from Stacy, who is concerned that her
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  boyfriend of seven months is now about to get an apartment with another female,
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  a cute female, and she's really bothered. Wants to know is this grounds
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  for a breakup? Nine one nine eight six zho one oh five to one.
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  Jessica, what do you think? I don't think it would bother me.
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  No, Like, I feel like I have a high like I trust
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  people very easily, and I trust people until they give me a reason not
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  to. So I guess if my significant other lives with a girl and he
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  fed up, then then the trust would be gone. So No, I
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  guess it wouldn't really bother me. And was like, unless there was a
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  reason why I needed to be bothered by it. But he's like in he's
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  putting himself in a situation where I feel like it could easily happen. Yep,
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  to a girlfriend of mine who is no longer with her significant other.
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  Let a few friendships get a little close and then things happen not you know,
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  It's kind of like the argument can opposite sex be friends. I agree
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  that they can, but you don't want to adjust the pickles too much or
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  the carrot, or whatever you want to call it. So what you strange?
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  People call it the pickles? Do you want to have vi as the
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  er because you have Erica and Trevor? And what would you do if your
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  significant other was about to move into an apartment with the opposite sex a cute
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  girl. Stacy rode and says she's concerned, is this grounds for a breakup?
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  Because her boyfriend of seven months is now getting ready to get the place
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  with a cute girl because he needs to split the rent? So what do
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  you think about this? Nine one nine eight six h one oh five one
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  Deborah, what do you say? That really depends on the whole situation?
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  To me, akaa, it depends if she's cute? Oh one? Would
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  you have any other conditions for them to live together? What's their relationship?
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  Like? It's two randos? Is it a cousin? Okay? That one
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  will pass you're a family member. It depends what state you're in. Well,