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Fathers, Daughters, And The Emotional Blueprint · Grandpa Bill's Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome back to another edition of the BH Sales Holistic Healing Hour with your host and moderator, Grandpa Bell.
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  SPEAKER_00: Gonna segue right in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I want to get this one in today.
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  SPEAKER_00: 14 years of podcasting overall.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is another edition of the Maine Daily Digest.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is a follow-up to a video and a Facebook page entry earlier today, on October 10th, taping from the great state of Maine at just about 4 40 p.m.
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  SPEAKER_00: Eastern Daylight Time.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fathers, your daughters need you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Amongst the father's most important roles is the way he models healthy masculine behavior and healthy male-female relationships for his daughters.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's also applicable for grandfathers and their granddaughters.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I want to talk to you about healing the generational thread.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why fathers and grandfathers matter to our daughters.
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  SPEAKER_00: Deep calming breath.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome back, BH Sales Holistic Healing Oh, Grandpa Bell.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're diving into a deep topic that touches the very core of emotional health, generational resilience, and holistic well-being within our families.
• 2:11
  SPEAKER_00: We often talk about physical health, nutrition, and mental wellness here, workouts with geriatrics, aka silver streakers, good for all kids from 1 to 92, one of my two aforementioned daily shows, Audio West.
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  SPEAKER_00: But today we're talking about relational healing, specifically the irreplaceable role of fathers and grandfathers in the lives of their daughters and granddaughters.
• 2:37
  SPEAKER_00: Pardon me.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a truthful, a powerful truth amongst fathers, most vital roles in how they and he individually models healthy masculine behavior and healthy male-female relationships.
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  SPEAKER_00: And of course, the wisdom applies to our sons and grandsons as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is a different twist.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sugar and spice and everything nice.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is about daughters and granddaughters.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're placing a special dedicated focus on the young women and girls in our lives.
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  SPEAKER_00: How a man shows up today creates the emotional blueprint for how his daughter andor grandmother treat her tomorrow.
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  SPEAKER_00: The blueprint of healthy masculinity?
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's unpack it and find out.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not about being rigid, untouchable, or dominating.
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  SPEAKER_00: Healthy masculinity is about safety and stability.
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  SPEAKER_00: Being a calm, grounded anchor when the storm of life hits.
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  SPEAKER_00: Respectful interaction, how you speak to their mother, their grandmother, women in general, how you treat them in public and private, and how you speak directly to them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Emotional availability.
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  SPEAKER_00: Showing that strength includes empathy, listening without judgment, and admitting and you're wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: When a daughter sees her father act with integrity, honor, and kindness, she internalizes that standard.
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  SPEAKER_00: She learns deep in her bones that this is what respect looks like.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is how a man of worth behaves.
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  SPEAKER_00: When she grows up, that blueprint protects her.
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  SPEAKER_00: It helps her spot toxicity a mile away because it doesn't match the love and respect she experienced at home.
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  SPEAKER_00: Segment two very much so we silver streakers, the grandfathers and the grandfather effect generational wisdom and anchoring.
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  SPEAKER_00: Our roles are equally profound.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now stay with me when I say if not even more unique, there is nothing more unique than being a dad.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's a certain sense of neutrality with grandfathers.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because grandfathers offer a special kind of holistic healing to a family unit.
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  SPEAKER_00: We bring the long view of life, unconditional acceptance.
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  SPEAKER_00: While parents are often in the daily grind of discipline and routine, we grandfathers were obviously parents, and that was applicable to ourselves sometimes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Grandfathers can provide a safe haven of pure patients.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some of us grandfathers others of us work on the patients category just a little bit, and encouragement.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stories and heritage Well grandfather shares his life stories, challenges and lessons with his granddaughter, he roots her in a rich history.
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  SPEAKER_00: He gives her a sense of belonging and identity.
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  SPEAKER_00: A second layer of security.
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  SPEAKER_00: Knowing that there is another strong, gentle elder in her corner boosts the young girl's self worth exponentially.
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  SPEAKER_00: Grandfathers, their presence tells your granddaughters that they are treasured, seen, and protected across generations.
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  SPEAKER_00: Holistic steps for fathers and grandfathers I can only speak as both in my capacity of a father and a grandfather.
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  SPEAKER_00: Self assess.
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  SPEAKER_00: How do we put it into practice?
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether you're a father raising a toddler, navigating the teenage years, or grandfather, watching your granddaughter, granddaughter's plural were applicable, step into adulthood.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here's four plans, four templates, four entries that I put in my journal.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be present, not just physically, put down the screens, look them in the eye when they talk.
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  SPEAKER_00: Listen to their dreams, their fears, their ideas with genuine curiosity.
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  SPEAKER_00: Model healthy conflict in yes there is a version of healthy conflict.
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  SPEAKER_00: Show them how men handle disagreements with patience, calm speech and respect, never with intimidation or disrespect, and most assuredly, of course not with violence.
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  SPEAKER_00: Offer verbal affirmation.
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  SPEAKER_00: Tell them you are proud of who they are.
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  SPEAKER_00: Who they are, their character, their kindness, their intellect, not just what they accomplish, which is indeed very important and warrants the pat on the back, the encouragement, the acknowledgement.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to have both in my humble opinion.
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  SPEAKER_00: Create shared witch rituals like a weekly walk or regular conversation.
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  SPEAKER_00: I tease my son and granddaughter a little bit there, but in all honesty, whether it's weekly, you know, today's world plays right into this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it just can't be weekly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's not monthly.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then young adulthood, come on.
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  SPEAKER_00: As they become daughters and granddaughters.
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  SPEAKER_00: I put a little blurb in my Facebook page, which is basically my only social media venue.
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  SPEAKER_00: Very rarely do I go anywhere else.
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  SPEAKER_00: Instagram occasionally.
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  SPEAKER_00: Usually I try to make my extent at Facebook and social media with a couple of poems, prose, poetry for a really long time, probably ten years.
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  SPEAKER_00: Of course, no charge.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just information.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just love respect.
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  SPEAKER_00: Especially imparting on our legacy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for tuning in to the BH Sales Holistic Healing Hour.
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  SPEAKER_00: If this message did or does resonate with you, thank you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Share it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Share it with a dad, a granddad, a granddaughter, a daughter.
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  SPEAKER_00: The sons of course and the grandsons or a family who needs to hear it today.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_00: These are tough times as the world spins moving forward definitely off of its askew axis.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be a bumpy ride.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be a bit of a detour.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bye bye for now.
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  SPEAKER_00: And may God bless.
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  SPEAKER_00: Peace everybody.