Latest / The Inspired Stories Podcast / Andrea Belfanti on Identity, Career Loss, and Why Being the Host Is Still Being the Boss
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- 0:04Welcome to another edition of the Inspired Stories podcast,
- 0:08where leaders share their experiences so we can learn from
- 0:11their successes and be inspired by how they've overcome
- 0:14adversity. As you listen today, let one
- 0:17idea shape what you do next. My name is Anthony Kotaspodi,
- 0:20and today's guest is Andrea Belfonte, Chief executive
- 0:24Officer of the International Society of Hospitality
- 0:27Consultants, better known as ISHC.
- 0:30They are a global nonprofit network of more than 200 senior
- 0:34hospitality consultants spread across 6 continents.
- 0:38They advance the industry through trusted advice,
- 0:41research, and professional development.
- 0:43Members use the society to share knowledge, mentor peers and help
- 0:47hotel owners solve complex problems.
- 0:51Under Andrea's leadership, the society has expanded into new
- 0:54regions, and she also overseas the ISHC annual conference,
- 0:59several regional forums and the group's awards programs that
- 1:03celebrates innovation in hotel design.
- 1:05Andrea has worked in hospitality for more than 25 years.
- 1:09Before becoming CEO in 2022, she served as ISHCS Executive
- 1:15Director for more than a decade. She is a regular speaker at
- 1:19events like ALIS and High Cap and sits on the Advisory Board
- 1:24for the University of South Carolina's Hotel, Restaurant and
- 1:27Tourism Management School. Now, before we get into all that
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- 2:22today, the CEO of ISHC, Andrea Belfonte.
- 2:26Thanks for making the time to Share your story today.
- 2:28Thanks, Anthony. That was a great introduction.
- 2:30I feel like I should hire you to kind of talk about the society.
- 2:34We're going to pump you up today.
- 2:36I love it. So 25 years long time to stay
- 2:40committed to 1 industry. Most people drift into
- 2:43different, you know, career avenues.
- 2:44Was there a moment early on for you where you thought this is
- 2:48where I belong? Yeah, you know, honestly,
- 2:51there's there's the humorous one where I was in college at the
- 2:56University of South Carolina. I didn't have a major and my
- 2:59older brother's girlfriend was a hospitality major and she talked
- 3:03about a wine and spirits class and I was like, well, that
- 3:05sounds great. So I took the intro class.
- 3:09I loved it. I loved the idea of doing fun
- 3:13things, working in bars and restaurants and hotels.
- 3:16So that's kind of how I first really learned of the industry.
- 3:21And then I when I started doing internships, that's when I was
- 3:25like, oh, OK, I got this. This is this is what I love.
- 3:29So that's when I really understood what it was and.
- 3:33That's it. So it was the class where you
- 3:37could get credits for drinking. That kind of was the first hook.
- 3:41And then you got your foot in the door and you're like, oh,
- 3:44now that I see what this is actually about, I still love it.
- 3:47Sure. I'm 18 and I hear about like,
- 3:50you can actually take a class where you drink.
- 3:52That sounds like heaven, right? That's magic.
- 3:55I'm like, I don't know, My other friends are taking economics.
- 3:58Turns out I had to take economics too, and accounting
- 4:01and all of those things. But I thought, let's let's at
- 4:04least take the intro class, you know, let's see what this is all
- 4:07about. So as an 18 year old you were
- 4:09allowed to drink in the class. No, no, I couldn't take that
- 4:11class. No, I took the intro class and I
- 4:13what's funny is I never ended up taking that class because it
- 4:17didn't fit in with all the serious classes that I really
- 4:20needed to take. Like I never ended up taking the
- 4:23wine and spirits class. It was just the allure, the idea
- 4:26of this class that first sort of sparked your interest, OK?
- 4:29Yeah, yeah. I'm surprised not every 18 year
- 4:31old is in that class, right? I would think that there's
- 4:34something in the way of that today, but I would.
- 4:36Think so. Yeah.
- 4:38So let's pick one of your formidable stops in hospitality
- 4:42that really kind of helped to shape you as a leader.
- 4:45Tell us about that. You know, I would say there were
- 4:50quite a few of my first couple jobs out of school.
- 4:54I had nightmare bosses, like, like from the movies, the
- 4:59stereotypical just nightmare bosses.
- 5:02You know, I'd go home most days crying and like, what have I
- 5:06done? And in the hospitality,
- 5:08especially at that age and in that time in the world, I was
- 5:12working 60-70 hours a week. And just like one, for example,
- 5:18I had a boss who was getting his MBA and I was probably 22 at the
- 5:23time. And we had our regular
- 5:25one-on-one meeting. And I said, so you're getting
- 5:27your MBA. Do you think that's something I
- 5:29should look into one day? Is that something you think is
- 5:32valuable? And he said, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 5:35of course. But, you know, if you get your
- 5:37MBA, you'd probably meet your husband and then you'd have
- 5:40kids. And I don't really think you
- 5:41need to spend time and money on education as a woman.
- 5:45Like that's for real? And this was like 1930.
- 5:48Like what was the time period for this?
- 5:50Yeah, Yeah, exactly. Yeah, this would have been like
- 5:531998. Oh my goodness.
- 5:55OK. No, no, actually it wouldn't
- 5:57have been 2002. I got to do my math difference,
- 5:59so it would have been 2002. And so, you know, it was just
- 6:03that kind of my other favorite story.
- 6:05Same boss, my aunt was critically ill and I said I
- 6:11really want to go to Florida and see her.
- 6:12I need to go with my mom. You know this is a thing.
- 6:14I'm going to be gone. I'm going to take two extra days
- 6:16off from my 6 day work week, right?
- 6:20Like I'm going to take three days off.
- 6:22And he said I understand that's fine are you going to need to
- 6:26take more time off for the funeral though?
- 6:29And basically it was like you got to pick you go now or you go
- 6:33later kind of thing. So, you know, there were moments
- 6:38like that that I think I am such a better boss, I'm a better
- 6:45person now because of all that. I try, I'm not 100% successful,
- 6:50but I try really hard if I screw up to admit it immediately.
- 6:55I actually this morning was on a call with my employee and
- 6:59another person and I said something I probably just
- 7:02shouldn't have said. And it wasn't.
- 7:04It was just a little dismissive. And as soon as the other person
- 7:07hung up, I said, I'm so sorry. I've never should have said
- 7:09that. She was like, I didn't even
- 7:10notice it. I didn't even clock it.
- 7:12And I was like, no, I I'm really sorry.
- 7:15That could have been taken the wrong way.
- 7:16And so I work really hard. I think as leaders and as
- 7:20bosses, what we say can have more weight and we don't even
- 7:25realize it. Like we don't, you know, you,
- 7:27you can't be as flippant as you would be with your friends
- 7:31because people take it to heart. Is there a part?
- 7:34Of you. Sorry, Andrew, is there a part
- 7:37of you that's almost grateful for having had those horrible
- 7:40boss experiences because it gave you a framework of exactly what
- 7:45not to do? Yeah, I think you can learn a
- 7:48lot from great bosses and bad bosses.
- 7:50I would say I would rather have learned from the good bosses.
- 7:53You know, I have. I have also had really amazing
- 7:55bosses and leadership. I would rather those lessons,
- 7:59but I don't know if they're as impactful.
- 8:02They don't. They're not as scarring.
- 8:03They don't like sear into you as much.
- 8:07So yeah, I've I looking back, I am grateful now at the time.
- 8:12It's brutal. It's brutal.
- 8:15It's brutal. I mean, you're talking about
- 8:17you're, you know, you're getting up for you're, you're going home
- 8:19from work and you're crying like you're so upset that I mean,
- 8:22that that's not the kind of job somebody wants to have.
- 8:25No. And you know, and really in, in
- 8:27hospitality, it's not as bad. Now, in some cases you work a
- 8:31lot. You know, there are certain
- 8:33industries where you just work. Hotels are open 24 hours a day,
- 8:37right? When other people are having
- 8:39fun, that is when, when we are working.
- 8:42And so you're, you're already giving and sacrificing a lot and
- 8:47then to then be mistreated. It's it's, it's a double whammy.
- 8:52So tell us about a good boss or mentor experience that you've
- 8:56had along the way. Gosh, so my favorite boss in the
- 9:01whole world is a woman named Lori Raleigh, and she is the one
- 9:05that hired me to work at ISHC. And so I was looking for a job
- 9:12and I called her. I was leaving one job really.
- 9:16And I called her not for a job. She was the only employed ISHC
- 9:19at the time. And I just said here's what's
- 9:22going on. And I genuinely hope we can stay
- 9:26in touch. I think I might have even said
- 9:28can we be friends? That's just how much I enjoyed
- 9:31working with her and how much I liked her.
- 9:34And then I ended up she was looking to hire someone.
- 9:37And so then I got to work with her for the next 4 years, which
- 9:41was the lessons learned. She is a woman that is so smart.
- 9:47She was an asset manager. She is her financial brain is
- 9:52unbelievable and super kind. I think, you know, they're that
- 9:58stereotype, especially from 20 plus years ago of successful
- 10:03women, you know, having tight fun, slipped back hair, being a
- 10:06little cold. You remember all the movies from
- 10:08the 80s, like if you were a successful woman, you had to be
- 10:11a little cold, distant, mean. There was some truth to that in
- 10:16the work world, because I think women have to had to especially
- 10:20be a a little cold, a little strict, because if you showed me
- 10:25emotion, you were hysterical. You know, women had different
- 10:28career paths and different ways to go to the top.
- 10:31So she to be able to work with her and she smartest woman.
- 10:36I know also the kind one of the kindest people, period.
- 10:40Not just that I've worked with kindest people period.
- 10:42And the way she took care of, she would walk into a conference
- 10:45and say like at a reception and be like, no one's talking to
- 10:50that woman over there, Let's go meet her.
- 10:52She would make friends in the elevator.
- 10:54She was not super gregarious or outgoing.
- 10:58Like, it made her nervous to talk about herself.
- 11:00She would hate listening to this right now.
- 11:03But she used her strength and her power of kindness to
- 11:08network, to make friends, to make business connections.
- 11:13So working with her was just amazing.
- 11:17It sounds like an incredible role model.
- 11:19You know, and you bring up an interesting point that I've
- 11:21talked about with several other powerful women on this show.
- 11:26And it's this idea of it's hard to be a woman in a place of
- 11:31leadership in business even today.
- 11:34We're recording this in 2026 where you think we're more
- 11:37evolved. And you know, I would like to
- 11:40hear you kind of give voice to your experience on all of this
- 11:44and sort of the how do you balance between, yes, I'm a I'm
- 11:48a woman in a place of leadership and, and I'm also a woman and I
- 11:52want to be feminine and I want to be treated as such.
- 11:56But how do you kind of balance all of this?
- 12:00Yeah, that's a great question. I think it's it is hard.
- 12:05It gets easier as you get older because I think you're my need
- 12:13to impress and make sure everyone is OK and happy for
- 12:20about things I can't control has gone down, which is a really
- 12:23amazing thing about age, right? I don't necessarily love my Gray
- 12:26hair. I don't love these wrinkles, but
- 12:28I love the idea that I'm like, no, I got this, I'm not going
- 12:32to. I don't need to pay attention to
- 12:33you anymore kind of thing. But I think, you know, when I
- 12:37started, when Lori retired and I took over as executive director
- 12:41of ISHCI, remember my very first board meeting, we had the dinner
- 12:45after the meeting and I one of the things I love about
- 12:49hospitality is taking care of people.
- 12:51That is, I love the idea of being there for special
- 12:53occasions and making taking care of people.
- 12:57I am like a consummate host. That's what I want to do.
- 12:59So we're at this dinner and I'm making sure everyone has a seat
- 13:02and everyone has what they want to drink, and I'm just taking
- 13:04care of people. And one of our older board
- 13:07members was like, Andrea, you're the boss now you have to sit
- 13:11down. That's not what you do.
- 13:14And I was like, oh, oh, OK. Because he saw taking care of
- 13:19people and making sure everyone said as a weakness.
- 13:22That's not what the boss does. The boss sits in charge and
- 13:26people bring them drinks and make sure they're taken care of,
- 13:29Right. That's that was his idea of
- 13:31leadership. I remember being like, oh, OK,
- 13:35all right, OK. And then I thought about it and
- 13:39thought about it. And really over years, different
- 13:44waves of recognition have kind of hit where I'm like, no,
- 13:47actually, that's the kind of leader I want to be.
- 13:50Just because that's not what he sees as powerful, strong
- 13:55leadership. That's not my business.
- 13:57Whatever he sees as a leader is fine.
- 13:59The type of leader I want to be takes care of people.
- 14:02And I still, you know, I don't let people walk all over me.
- 14:05It's a fine line, right? But which is hard.
- 14:09But I still I can be the host, I can be hospitable, I can take
- 14:14care of people and be nurturing. I can be feminine and still be a
- 14:18boss. Kind of fits into this category
- 14:21of servant leadership 100. Percent.
- 14:23Yeah. So there's different different
- 14:26styles of leadership for different types of
- 14:28personalities. And this gentleman was trying to
- 14:32impose his personality, his approach to leadership upon you.
- 14:36And because he's in a position of seniority leadership, that
- 14:40probably carried some weight with you at the time and took a
- 14:43little bit for you to unlearn. Absolutely, Yeah.
- 14:46I mean, I really did think through it for board meetings to
- 14:50come. I was like, should I do this?
- 14:51Should I do that? Like what should now I'm like,
- 14:54again, the the benefit of age. I'm like, no, this is exactly
- 14:58who I am. I got here because of who I am.
- 15:02So I'm going to keep doing what I know I need to do.
- 15:06OK. So let's talk about the services
- 15:08that you provided ISHC, Why is somebody a member?
- 15:11What are they getting? Yes.
- 15:13So we actually survey our members every few years and they
- 15:17consistently say networking and idea exchange.
- 15:20So we spend a lot of time focusing on creating
- 15:24opportunities for members to spend time together.
- 15:27We work really hard to make sure it's not transactional, that I
- 15:32jokingly say it's more like a round of golf than speed
- 15:35networking. And I hate speed networking and
- 15:37I don't play golf, but I think that kind of illustrates what we
- 15:41do. So we don't talk about how many
- 15:44referrals you're going to get, how many leads you're going to
- 15:46get. We don't talk about any of that.
- 15:48We say here opportunities for you to learn from your fellow
- 15:52members or other people in the industry or people outside the
- 15:54industry and here opportunities for you to genuinely and
- 15:57authentically spend time together.
- 16:00So what that does is create a environment where people bring
- 16:05their spouses to our conferences.
- 16:07People want to come. We have people that say like
- 16:10their lifetime friends are from ISHC, they travel together
- 16:15outside of work. So it's a really special, it's a
- 16:18very unique group. So for those who are unaware,
- 16:24they're outside sort of your sphere of the universe.
- 16:27What is a hospitality consultant?
- 16:31So it's, you know, if you think of.
- 16:33So I like to use this analogy. If you won the lottery tomorrow,
- 16:37then you were like, I'm going to buy a hotel.
- 16:40This is what I want to do with my money.
- 16:42I want to own a hotel. So you would hire a lawyer to
- 16:46help you buy a piece of land. You would hire a consultant to
- 16:50help you figure out if you wanted to be a brand or
- 16:53unbranded. You'd hire a consultant to help
- 16:55you do a feasibility study to figure out how many rooms and
- 16:58what type of hotel it would be. Then you'd hire a designer and
- 17:01an architect, maybe a food and beverage consultant, a spa
- 17:04consultant, a revenue management consultant.
- 17:07We have a water park consultant, maybe a spa consultants, so you
- 17:11all the people that you hire that have very specific areas of
- 17:15expertise to help make sure that your hotel is profitable.
- 17:20So then we also outside of hotels, we have tourism
- 17:22consultants, destination consultants, restaurant
- 17:25consultants. But I think that if you think of
- 17:27the life cycle of a hotel, for example, then you're going to
- 17:30want a consultant to help you sell it.
- 17:32You're going to want a consultant if you have to have a
- 17:35lawyer. If you have an issue with a
- 17:37guest or with the brands, do you need a lawyer to help you with
- 17:40that? So all of those folks along the
- 17:42way. So these are lots of different
- 17:45niches within the hospitality world, OK.
- 17:49Very much. So the roughly how many members
- 17:51do you have? 270. 270 and so these are not
- 17:56270 people that are doing approximately the same thing.
- 17:59No, there there are clusters of folks that I would guess are
- 18:02doing similar things. Yeah, no, it's they're really
- 18:05and they're also all over the world.
- 18:06So even if you have someone that is a lawyer doing transactions
- 18:10actions in the US very different than a lawyer that's doing
- 18:14transactions in Asia, the markets are super different.
- 18:18They're different challenges, different banking systems,
- 18:21different, all that kind of stuff.
- 18:22The common thread to be a member, you have to be an owner
- 18:26partner in your firm and you have to have been consulting for
- 18:30at least three years with 10 years in the industry.
- 18:32And then we have a pretty rigorous process to become a
- 18:35member with the idea that we want really good quality people.
- 18:39Not all consultants are created equal.
- 18:41You know, some people lose their job and their consultants until
- 18:45they get another real job. And those aren't our folks.
- 18:48So it's they are very diverse in a lot of ways, but there is a
- 18:53common thread going through it. Talk to me about the
- 18:57international aspect of all of this.
- 18:59I would think on the surface that oh, I'm in the US, there's
- 19:03a culture here, there's rules, there's a way of doing things in
- 19:06the US It's probably better for me to network with folks in my
- 19:09own country, but I'm probably missing something.
- 19:13Yeah, for sure. I mean, so first of all, a lot
- 19:16of our consultants in the US are doing work all over the world
- 19:19and vice versa. There's also an interesting, you
- 19:23can, there's a lot of interesting learning.
- 19:25So if you're doing feasibility studies in Tennessee, for
- 19:28example, that's what you do. You don't, you don't do
- 19:31Tennessee feasibility studies in New York, you do them in
- 19:34Tennessee. So what is the value of you
- 19:36networking with people outside the US?
- 19:38Well, wouldn't it be interesting to talk to someone that's doing
- 19:40feasibility studies in Asia or Europe or wherever And there's a
- 19:45lot of trends. You know, some things the US is
- 19:48ahead of other regions and some other regions are ahead of the
- 19:52US. So are you seeing this?
- 19:53How are you handling this? I've got clients that are asking
- 19:56about this. They've never asked about that
- 19:58before. Have you seen that and how did
- 20:01you handle it? So there's a lot of knowledge
- 20:03sharing, even if you think about somebody outside of your
- 20:06specific area of expertise if you're.
- 20:10Say you're a food and beverage consultant and do you talk to
- 20:14the consultants who are design consultants who are designing
- 20:18those restaurants? And you say, why do you guys
- 20:21always design a restaurant with this?
- 20:24Why is the bar never this? Tell me why, Because this is
- 20:27always an issue and I can't figure out what's happening on
- 20:30the front end that I haven't seen.
- 20:32Why is this the case? Can we change it to help me
- 20:35understand? So there's real value in talking
- 20:38to people all over the world in different parts of the life
- 20:41cycle and learning from them. Tell me about any events that
- 20:46you put on throughout the year. Yeah, we do a lot of events.
- 20:50So our biggest event is our annual conference that changes
- 20:53locations. So last year we were in New
- 20:55Orleans, this year we're in Rome.
- 20:58Year before last we were in Dubai.
- 21:00So we get to move all over the world for that conference.
- 21:03That's our biggest event relatively in the event world.
- 21:06It's very small, you know, it's under 200 people.
- 21:09And then we do regional events, so kind of receptions, happy
- 21:13hours, that type of thing. We do usually 10 or so of those
- 21:17all over the world. Last year we did LA, London,
- 21:21Singapore, Dubai, DC, Boston. That might be a Berlin.
- 21:30So you're doing a lot of traveling.
- 21:32I am, yeah. And in between these events are
- 21:36for the folks who just, you know, their time, their
- 21:39schedules don't permit them to make the trip.
- 21:42What are the benefits that they're getting?
- 21:43How are they able to interact and access the other members?
- 21:47Yeah, so a couple different ways.
- 21:49We do a whole series on top of the in person events.
- 21:52We do a whole series of virtual events and we do those for a
- 21:56couple different reasons and in a couple different ways.
- 21:59So if you are, like I mentioned, say you're based in the US but
- 22:02you're doing a ton of work in Europe or you're just interested
- 22:06in that market because you've heard about this trend or that
- 22:09trend. So we do a series of events, we
- 22:14call them community cafes, and they're based by region and you
- 22:18can join whichever region you'd like.
- 22:20So those are virtual events where we say sometimes we have a
- 22:23topic, what's a trend you're worried about?
- 22:26What's something you're excited about?
- 22:27Or if there's a hot topic in the news, how are you handling this?
- 22:31Are you guys seeing that? And then everybody just kind of
- 22:34talks, networks, brainstorms, are you handling this?
- 22:37Are you seeing this? Have your clients asked about
- 22:39this? That kind of thing.
- 22:41We do some member matching. So every quarter will pair a
- 22:45member with another member just so they can meet people that
- 22:48they may not meet on a daily basis.
- 22:52We do state of the society, we do new member orientations.
- 22:55We do all kinds of things where if you never get on a plane and
- 22:58you're in a part of the world where we don't do something
- 23:01regularly, you can still connect with members.
- 23:03It's also very fraternal, not in a keg stand hazing kind of
- 23:08fraternal, but in a you can call and say, hey, I see you're doing
- 23:14this. We've never met but I'm also a
- 23:15member can do you have a few minutes and 99% of the time
- 23:19people will answer the phone and chat.
- 23:23Is there like a private Facebook group or like a Slack channel
- 23:27for folks to interact as well? Yeah, so we have, we do have the
- 23:31private Facebook group, but nobody really uses that anymore.
- 23:35We do what we do. We have an e-mail listserv, so
- 23:39you can e-mail, you can e-mail all members or you can e-mail
- 23:42all members in your region. I also get a lot of like, hey,
- 23:45I'm traveling to in the next 6 months, I'm going to be in LA,
- 23:49London and Singapore. Who should I meet while I'm
- 23:52there? I know I'm going to have time
- 23:53for some dinners kind of thing. So you can connect that way or
- 23:57I'm really struggling with this issue.
- 23:58Do you know anyone else that just started their consulting
- 24:02practice and might have advice on payroll systems or whatever?
- 24:06You know, so we have members that say over our because we've
- 24:10been around 38 years that ishc taught them how to use the
- 24:13Internet and a fax machine. And so, you know, we if you
- 24:17think about that and kind of translate that into today, 10
- 24:20years ago, which is unbelievable.
- 24:23You know, we were talking about Bitcoin blockchain and how that
- 24:26how that might affect hospitality.
- 24:28So what are the current Internet and fax machines that our
- 24:31members should know about Cutting Edge?
- 24:35And I'm curious, those crypto conversations that were taking
- 24:37place several years ago, what was being shared at the time and
- 24:42what have you found has actually come to fruition?
- 24:44That's a really good question. So one of the things we did, how
- 24:49was it 10 years ago? Maybe it was 8 years ago, we
- 24:52brought in a blockchain expert and we spent the 1st 20 minutes
- 24:56just talking about what blockchain was.
- 24:58So like really intro to blockchain.
- 25:01Here are the basics like blockchain for kindergarteners.
- 25:05Other kindergartners might have an easier time getting it than
- 25:08some of us. So they just basically talked
- 25:12about what it was and then talked about potential
- 25:14implications, how someday it may help with HR and confirming
- 25:18resumes and Boa bond when you think about purchasing and
- 25:22selling hotels, that there could be some ways that blockchain and
- 25:27kind of more certifying information rather than actual
- 25:30cryptocurrency. But the actual technical use of
- 25:34blockchain, I have not seen any of that to come to fruition.
- 25:38You know, I don't know of any companies that are using
- 25:41blockchain to verify resumes or land deeds or anything like
- 25:47that. But I think there's also, there
- 25:52are some hotels that are using cryptocurrency and Bitcoin to
- 25:55take payments, a few and far between.
- 25:58They're a little gimmicky, which is fine, you know, if that works
- 26:01for them. Everybody's got to have a niche.
- 26:04But I don't know that it's certainly not as widespread as
- 26:07we thought it would be. Yeah, it was one of those things
- 26:10where I tried really hard to wrap my head around how to use
- 26:14it in day-to-day business. And I, it was just one of those
- 26:18things where I'm like, I think I'm just not smart enough to see
- 26:21what's going on here and who knows there There's, you know,
- 26:24the future hasn't been fully written so we'll see if this
- 26:28sort of comes back around. But the present day equivalent
- 26:32and I think is already having a much bigger impact, you know,
- 26:35the 2 letters that are about to come out of my mouth.
- 26:38AI what are you guys teaching? What are people talking about?
- 26:41What do you see? Yeah, great question.
- 26:43So we we have two members that really specialize in AI right
- 26:49now and they are some of our most popular members right now,
- 26:52especially when it comes time to conference.
- 26:55So you know, it's interesting with regards to hotels
- 26:59specifically what I am hearing and I am not you know, I run an
- 27:04association that is my job. I am not in hotel transactions,
- 27:08I am not in hotel operations. But what I'm hearing is that AI
- 27:12is going to either help efficiencies, right?
- 27:15It's going to help either bring more money in or save you money.
- 27:18There's not a ton. So it's going to help you with
- 27:20revenue management, yield management, that type of thing,
- 27:24or it's going to help cut down your labor costs.
- 27:27I think when it comes to hotel operations, that's probably
- 27:30right. When it comes to how consultants
- 27:32are running their practices, that's very different.
- 27:36So what we've tried to do, because a lot of the industry
- 27:38conferences are talking about how to use AI to make it get
- 27:42more guests or that revenue management piece, what we're
- 27:45trying to do is talk about it from a different perspective.
- 27:49How can you use AI in your practice?
- 27:51How is it going to change what you do?
- 27:53So if you think I mentioned feasibility studies earlier,
- 27:56there are some people that say you can just put some random
- 27:59date, you're not random. You can put some specific data
- 28:02into your AI tool of choice and it will spit out your
- 28:06feasibility study. So our consultants really needed
- 28:09anymore. But what we're seeing is that
- 28:12yes, it may help with some of that basic report writing, but
- 28:15like, like everyone's talking about, one of those numbers is
- 28:18wrong and your bank may not give you financing or your project
- 28:22may not actually be viable the way it says.
- 28:25So I think we're trying to talk to our consultants about how to
- 28:29use it to enhance your business, that we don't think it's going
- 28:32to take over consulting roles, but you can use it in some ways
- 28:37to make it more efficient to help with the start, like the
- 28:40way we should all be using it, right, to help, not replace.
- 28:46You know, I talked with a number of hotel owners and operators
- 28:50and I hear similar things from them.
- 28:55You know, one of the things that they really highlight, and
- 28:59again, this is hotels and not the hotel consultants, is they
- 29:03see it as a way to allow their staff to spend more time
- 29:08interacting with each other and more importantly, guests.
- 29:13They don't see it as, oh, you know, I've got 20 employees now.
- 29:18Maybe this will get me down to 18.
- 29:20It's how do I let those 20 employees spend more time making
- 29:24and their guests experience wonderful?
- 29:26Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, that's and that's exactly
- 29:29what it should be, right? That's how we should all be
- 29:30using it. IAI is not going to write my
- 29:33emails, do my calendar, but can I use it to make me a little
- 29:37more efficient so I can spend more time talking to members
- 29:40rather than doing these things? Absolutely.
- 29:43And I think, you know, from a consultant's perspective, the
- 29:45thing to be worried about, and I think you were kind of talking
- 29:47around this, Andrea, pardon me, is being able to trust the data,
- 29:53right? There's the still the
- 29:55hallucination problem. Just, you know, this week I was
- 29:58asked a legal question about something.
- 29:59I said, let me do a little research and digging on that.
- 30:02And with one AI model came up with a, you know, great, very
- 30:06structured, very believable answer.
- 30:08I said, let me put that into another AI model and, you know,
- 30:12double check the accuracy. And it came back with all these
- 30:16things that were supposedly wrong.
- 30:17Now, which one of these is actually right?
- 30:19I don't know. And that's where the consultant
- 30:22is still very much needed. Like the the tool can help them
- 30:26get to an output faster, but you still need that human expertise
- 30:31of being in the industry for years and knowing what the
- 30:34insurance and outs are to be able to deliver a reliable
- 30:38product to to their client. Yeah, that's absolutely right.
- 30:42I completely agree. Yeah, it does look so
- 30:44believable, though, right? When it tells you with such
- 30:47authority, you're like, well, how can this be wrong?
- 30:50This must be right. Right.
- 30:54So with this being an international member base, are
- 30:58there ever issues of culture? You know, we're talking 6
- 31:03continents, dozens of languages, different business norms.
- 31:07Have you ever run into any friction there?
- 31:09Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I think especially, you know, as
- 31:15an American, we tend to think we are the center of the universe.
- 31:20That's, you know, how a lot of us guilty as charged.
- 31:23We're the center of the universe.
- 31:24And so I think in the early days when we were really working to
- 31:29expand outside the US, we were like, here's our here's our
- 31:33materials, here's our website, here's our standard e-mail,
- 31:36here's everything we have. And we just have to change that
- 31:40to, you know, some send it to somebody in the UK or send it to
- 31:44somebody in Asia and all will be well.
- 31:46And I think what we learned when we started talking to our
- 31:50members in other parts of the world is they were like, that
- 31:53doesn't really resonate with us. That doesn't there's member
- 31:56benefits described that way. You'll note that they're not
- 31:58valuable to us. So I think because as you
- 32:02mentioned, there are different business structures and things
- 32:05work in different ways. We had to really think through
- 32:07and talk to our members and say, what's attractive to you?
- 32:11What's a valuable to you? How do you want to be talked to?
- 32:14What, when, when I send you a brochure, what's going to be
- 32:19impactful and to really think through how other people want to
- 32:23be spoken to and what's valuable to them.
- 32:27And I think it's really interesting.
- 32:29And we've tried to take that to not just the membership process
- 32:34outside the US, but really to all of our members.
- 32:36So now we work really hard to ask a lot of questions.
- 32:39How do you want to be communicated with?
- 32:41What's, is this valuable to you or is this a waste of time?
- 32:44Do you want to hear about this or do you not?
- 32:47Is are there more value? Are there more benefits that
- 32:50we're not thinking of that would that would be attractive to you?
- 32:54There's also some cultural, it's really interesting in the US and
- 32:58in Europe and more advanced hospitality regions.
- 33:05I mentioned there's a consultant for very specific things.
- 33:09In other parts of the world where maybe hospitality or
- 33:12consulting isn't as advanced, there's a generalist.
- 33:15So here we have one consultant that does purchasing primarily
- 33:20for this type of property. It's a real niche, whereas in
- 33:26another part of the world you have somebody that can do head
- 33:30hunting, consulting, purchasing, consulting, interim management
- 33:34consulting, you know, and your revenue management.
- 33:37And it's the same, It's the same dude.
- 33:39And he's like, I do everything. And if we had somebody like that
- 33:41here, we'd be like, well, you can't be a master of all of
- 33:44that. You know, you got to so to kind
- 33:46of think through how it's different in different regions
- 33:50and not change our not change our criteria, but make sure that
- 33:56we're not eliminating really qualified consultants because it
- 34:00doesn't look like how it does in the US.
- 34:02OK. I want to go back to what you
- 34:05started with and that answer the communication of some of the
- 34:09member benefits and how it wasn't landing the same way.
- 34:12Is it that they weren't finding value in the benefits themselves
- 34:18or the way in which it was communicated was not resonating
- 34:24with them? I think there's a little bit of
- 34:25both. I think there's a little bit of
- 34:27both. So it's really interesting.
- 34:28So for example, we are very well known in the US this is where we
- 34:32were founded. This is where almost 70% of our
- 34:34members are in North America. So touting that you are a member
- 34:42of ISHC in the US is very valuable because people
- 34:45understand what that means. They understand it's a select
- 34:48group. But if you're in a region of the
- 34:50world where nobody's ever heard of ISHC, touting that you are a
- 34:54member means nothing. But what does mean something is
- 34:58opportunities to publish in different trade publications,
- 35:02opportunities to attend different conferences where
- 35:04you're going to learn and network.
- 35:06So it's, it's a little bit of both and how we were
- 35:09communicating and some of our materials were like, I'm not
- 35:11going to open that, I'm not going to read that.
- 35:13That's not no. So I think there's a little bit
- 35:16of both there. Interesting.
- 35:18I understand that you partner with a lot of big investment
- 35:22conferences. Can you talk about who they are
- 35:26and what that partnership looks like?
- 35:27Why there's a value add for both of you?
- 35:29Yeah. So the Alice conference that you
- 35:33mentioned, which is the America's Lodging Investment
- 35:37Summit, it's usually one of the largest.
- 35:40It's not the largest hotel investment conference in the
- 35:42world. It's in Los Angeles.
- 35:45We do the International Hotel Investment Forum, which is in
- 35:48Berlin. We do a conference for the
- 35:51Caribbean and Latin America. We do one in Asia Pacific.
- 35:56It's for us. It's for me personally, it's
- 35:59very valuable because like I said, I don't, I don't do hotel
- 36:03transactions everyday. You know, I run, I run a
- 36:05society. So I get a lot of value out of
- 36:10being on the planning committees and attending the conferences
- 36:13and learning what the trends are.
- 36:15So what are people struggling with what's coming up?
- 36:18That helps me help our members more.
- 36:21It helps me to be a better resource for them to maybe steer
- 36:27our programming towards things that will help them or what's
- 36:30coming up or challenges. It helps me connect better with
- 36:34our sponsors and our candidates and I can better identify kind
- 36:38of what their struggles might be so we can make sure our
- 36:41sponsorship packages are more valuable for them, that type of
- 36:44thing. And it gives us great brand
- 36:46recognition. So for us, you know, that's what
- 36:49we get out of it. And then I think the conference
- 36:51is because our members are best of the best and leaders in the
- 36:55industry. I can say we have this great
- 36:59member who would be a great speaker for that or we send out
- 37:02information to our members to say, you know, here's a discount
- 37:05for this conference, you should attend that kind of thing.
- 37:08So we help the conferences hopefully get great quality
- 37:12attendees and then it helps us in other ways I'll mention.
- 37:16You know, a lot of your members credit the networking in the
- 37:20professional development for helping to accelerate their
- 37:24careers. I was going to ask this question
- 37:27in terms of how it's helped your career, but I think I want to
- 37:30change the angle here and ask if you can relate a specific story
- 37:35of how you saw it really helped to evolve somebody else's
- 37:38career, one of the members. That's a good one.
- 37:43You know, I will say this, the pandemic was a really obviously
- 37:49challenging time, right, Hospitality consulting and what
- 37:54we, I'm really proud of how we responded.
- 37:58Most of our members, a majority of them, their businesses tried
- 38:03up in a day, right? You don't need a food and
- 38:05beverage consultant. And the few members that were
- 38:09really busy were members that were dealing with bankruptcy,
- 38:14you know, lawyers that help with that.
- 38:16Some of our asset managers were swamped in the early days
- 38:19because hotels were trying to figure out whether or not to
- 38:22close or stay open. And we spent, I joked with my
- 38:27husband that I was like part grief counselor, part career
- 38:30counselor. And we spent a lot of time
- 38:32connecting members and saying, OK, this is it hit Asia first.
- 38:38This is how Asia is dealing with it.
- 38:41Let's get a call with some of our Asian members who are a
- 38:44couple months ahead of us and and learn from them.
- 38:48And so the Asian members were like, we couldn't close hotels.
- 38:50We did this. This is what happened here.
- 38:52This is how we dealt with the bank and our financing.
- 38:56And then some members we said you can pivot your business this
- 39:00way, talk to this member and see because they're they're doing
- 39:04business right now. So how can you support what
- 39:06they're doing and try to keep your doors open kind of things.
- 39:09So we did. Again, I'm really proud of what
- 39:12we did, connecting people, educating people and helping
- 39:15people. I think emotionally, you know,
- 39:18there was something, I don't know if you think back to those
- 39:21early days, if you can do it without getting sweaty, there
- 39:24was so little information. So we worked really hard to help
- 39:29with that and then help people with their jobs and find
- 39:32business. What did you see people pivoting
- 39:35into at that time? You know, it was other niches of
- 39:39hospitality. So you know, it was obviously
- 39:43you don't need a food and beverage consultant.
- 39:44That's really tough. But maybe if you've got an owner
- 39:48with some time and some capital, maybe you can help them with
- 39:51their strategic planning for when we do open.
- 39:53Maybe you can help them with their CAPEC spend.
- 39:56So we had some, you know, the owners, hotel owners that were
- 40:00well capitalized were like, let's do this, let's do this
- 40:03renovation right now. Let's spend some time and money,
- 40:06let's get in, let's order our supplies so that we open back
- 40:09up. And if you remember, nobody had
- 40:11any idea when that would be. Was it a month?
- 40:13Was it a year? So we had a lot of people that
- 40:16were helping with future planning that were pivoting and
- 40:19advising their owners in different ways, that type of
- 40:22thing. Yeah.
- 40:24What's been the most successful form of member growth for you?
- 40:32I would say the most successful tactic that we've had is in
- 40:37person. Like there's just, you know, we
- 40:39talked about expanding into different parts of the world.
- 40:43We were like, well, how do you do that?
- 40:45You know, how are we going to do this?
- 40:46Are we going to hire somebody over there?
- 40:48Are we going to have our members, the couple members that
- 40:51we have in those regions, be this, you know, and what we
- 40:54decided on is that I needed to go.
- 40:56And there's really is no substitute for looking someone
- 41:00in the eye and shaking their hand and getting to know them.
- 41:03And so, but then we discovered that I can't just go once.
- 41:07It's not like I can go to Asia once and be like, all right,
- 41:10we're good. I don't need to go back.
- 41:13You know, you have to go year after year and you have to
- 41:15develop those relationships and you really have to put in the
- 41:18time and the money and the energy and that's what and it
- 41:22takes years to pay off too. That's The thing is, you know, I
- 41:25may talk to a candidate and it's three years before they decide
- 41:30they want to apply. You know, it's, it's, it's a
- 41:33long process. It's not like you talk to
- 41:36someone and you get a contract signed, you know, before you
- 41:38leave lunch kind of thing. So it's going to those
- 41:43conferences and spending time in the regions has been our best
- 41:46way to get members and expand. What does that nurturing process
- 41:50look like? You meet somebody today, they
- 41:52signed the agreement in three years.
- 41:54What are you doing in between to stay in touch?
- 41:57So we're inviting them to our events.
- 42:00So hopefully we get some face to FaceTime with them.
- 42:02They get to meet our other members.
- 42:04You know, I, I feel like I can talk about the benefits and I
- 42:08can sell it like nobody else, but there's really no substitute
- 42:11from meeting their members and saying, oh, she's a member,
- 42:15that's really great. I love her.
- 42:16She's so smart, let me go talk to her, that kind of thing.
- 42:19So it's inviting them to our events, it's communicating with
- 42:23them. It's being a resource.
- 42:25One of the things I love and I say like I love being a resource
- 42:28in the industry, whether you are a member, media sponsor, a
- 42:32candidate, you know, I get a lot of phone calls.
- 42:34They're like, hey, who do you know that's doing this?
- 42:37Can you blah, blah, blah. So I love connecting people and
- 42:39being a resource. So I really try to do that.
- 42:42We are, we are not a sales heavy organization.
- 42:46I am never going to put the pressure on.
- 42:48I'm going to say I'm here if you need anything and I'd love to
- 42:52stay in touch whether you're a member or not because it's
- 42:55mostly really great people. And I genuinely mean that it's
- 42:58rare. It's a rare occasion that I'm
- 42:59like, oh God, I hope he doesn't call kind of thing, you know?
- 43:04Yeah. That's what we do.
- 43:05Do you have a filter? Like somebody comes to apply,
- 43:09they show an interest, and you see this red flag or yellow flag
- 43:13and you're like, yeah. We do.
- 43:15I mean, I could, I could show you a slide of our entire
- 43:18process, but I won't do that. Nobody wants me to open up the
- 43:20PowerPoint, but we have a a lengthy process.
- 43:23So it starts with a call with myself and I try to make sure
- 43:27the basic criteria is not you are a consultant, you're not
- 43:30selling a product, you've been doing it the right number of
- 43:32years, that kind of thing. And then it go, then they fill
- 43:35out an application. They have to be sponsored by a
- 43:37current member. Then it goes to our membership
- 43:39review committee. They check references, they talk
- 43:42to the candidate, they call common clients.
- 43:44They look at social media. It is, yeah.
- 43:49And then it goes to our membership Co chairs.
- 43:52They also interview the candidates.
- 43:54Then they come, they get invited to our annual conference.
- 43:56Then the board votes, then the full membership votes.
- 43:59So it is a lengthy process with really the goal, like I said, of
- 44:03having good quality people. Wow, that's a lot of filters in
- 44:07place. It is.
- 44:08It is a lengthy. If you make it through that, you
- 44:11are, I think you've got to feel sort of good about yourself.
- 44:14Wow. I was accepted into this very
- 44:16prestige organization. Wasn't just somebody who would
- 44:18take anybody's check. That's right.
- 44:21Yeah. Yeah.
- 44:22I, I have often made the joke that if we made it, if we put it
- 44:26on like the website where you could just put in your credit
- 44:28card information and be a member, we'd have two great
- 44:30years. We would have all kinds of
- 44:32money. We could have great events.
- 44:34I'd take a little bonus and then we would shut down because the
- 44:38value of the society and really like what makes U.S. special
- 44:41would be gone. Interesting.
- 44:43Yeah. So besides what we've already
- 44:47talked about, what is the future of ISHC Look like?
- 44:51You guys want to grow more members, more geographies, What
- 44:53haven't we talked about? Yeah.
- 44:55So I think it is all those things we want to, we don't have
- 45:00membership requirements or goals like never in my like
- 45:03compensation package is it you must have X number of members
- 45:07because we never want to compromise on quality.
- 45:10We never want to like look at a candidate, be like, oh, this
- 45:13guy's mediocre, but if I get one, more will reach my goal.
- 45:17So, but our goals are to expand our diversity in all ways.
- 45:23So when we talk about geography, areas of expertise, racial
- 45:28diversity, more women, more young people.
- 45:31So in all ways we want to be as diverse as possible.
- 45:35I think a little side tangent, if you don't mind.
- 45:38I think the industry as a whole struggles with diversity in a
- 45:42lot of different ways. And my hope, my kind of
- 45:47idealistic hope, is that as the industry focuses on that and
- 45:51gets more diverse, that then our membership will also get more
- 45:54diverse. And we're doing everything we
- 45:55can to help with that in small and big ways.
- 46:01Growth, personal growth, often comes through overcoming big
- 46:06challenges. Andrea, what's a big challenge
- 46:09that you had to overcome and what did you learn getting
- 46:12through that? So, you know, I mentioned
- 46:16earlier when I called Lori and said I'm leaving this job and
- 46:20I'd love to stay friends. So I actually was laid off in
- 46:232008 during the great financial crisis.
- 46:26I worked for a major hotel company and I did big, expensive
- 46:31events all over the world. So I don't know if you remember
- 46:33the early 2000s, but big expensive parties were very on
- 46:37trend. And I got to travel all over the
- 46:40world doing them, which was, you know, I was in my late 20s.
- 46:44I was like, this is a dream. So I got laid off, which was
- 46:51devastating. And I realized then and have
- 46:55realized multiple times since then, it's a lesson I have to
- 46:58continue to learn that I had put too much of my identity and self
- 47:04worth and value into my job. I was, you know, people are
- 47:08like, what are your hobbies and what do you like to do?
- 47:10I would be like, I have work, what do you do?
- 47:13Like, you know, I would back in the day, like wake up in the
- 47:16middle of the night and check my BlackBerry to see if someone
- 47:18from Asia had emailed me kind of thing.
- 47:22And it was a very, I, I joke that it was like a really bad
- 47:25breakup. I had put everything into that
- 47:27relationship. I had alienated everything else,
- 47:32put it all in that relationship. And then I, and then they dumped
- 47:35me. And it was, I mean, I, it was
- 47:37hard and it was also a recession and I was an event planner.
- 47:41So it was, you know, there was the feeling like I had done
- 47:45something wrong, you know, crushing myself worth and and
- 47:50then also like, oh, shit, what am I going to do?
- 47:53Like, I shouldn't cuss. Sorry.
- 47:54But you know, it was like, what am I going to do?
- 47:56I'm an event planner in a recession.
- 47:59Expensive big events are really inappropriate.
- 48:04Yeah. So it was, it was really hard.
- 48:06And I have had to learn the lesson over and over again.
- 48:08It's almost like a mantra that I say to myself, especially when
- 48:11I'm super stressed out. I'm not saving lives.
- 48:14I'm not saving lives. Calm down.
- 48:17Take a deep breath. I can't believe you're losing
- 48:20sleep over a party in Rome. You know, like, this is not
- 48:24worth losing sleep over. Get some perspective.
- 48:28But it was, it was, I say, top three hardest things I've ever
- 48:31been through. You know, I'm really glad that
- 48:33you gave voice to this, Andrea, because I think it's something
- 48:36that so many people have been through and either don't feel
- 48:41comfortable talking about or don't have the language to
- 48:44express it in the way that you did.
- 48:46You know, whether you are an entrepreneur and you've started
- 48:50a business and that you exit that business or the business
- 48:53fails or you're somebody who is, you know, a type, you are
- 48:57driven, you enjoy your job. It's very much part of your
- 49:00identity. When that gets taken away from
- 49:03you, I think people underestimate the whole that it
- 49:07leaves inside. And you have used it as an
- 49:11opportunity to try to remind yourself going forward, I am not
- 49:15what I do, right? I am more than that.
- 49:18But it's one thing to sort of say that to yourself, and it's
- 49:20one thing to say that out loud so you and other people can hear
- 49:23it. It's another thing for your
- 49:26central nervous system to actually wrap on to that and
- 49:29believe it. A. 100% yeah, I think it is
- 49:32because it's a double whammy. Like I said, it's you all the
- 49:35sudden what you felt secure in, where you made your money, where
- 49:39you spent your time, what you did with your day, right?
- 49:43Like when people ask you, what are you doing this week?
- 49:45You're like, I'm going to work. I'm going, you know, like I'm
- 49:47working. This is what I'm doing.
- 49:49And then it also is your emotional like it's and it is,
- 49:54it's one of those things that happens all the time.
- 49:56I mean, we all know dozens of people that over their career
- 49:59have been laid off. So there is that like it's fine,
- 50:02it's not a big deal. Everybody loses a job.
- 50:04I can find another one. I can whatever.
- 50:06And but that's not true in that and how your body and your heart
- 50:10and your brain react. If you were to go through
- 50:15another career shift now, whether of your own choosing or
- 50:18not, do you have any sense of how you might process that
- 50:24internally? If it were not of my choosing,
- 50:28Anthony, I would be devastated. I would.
- 50:31I'll tell you, I can't say that I would be any less devastated,
- 50:35especially now, because I've been in this role for so long
- 50:37and I love these people in this organization so much.
- 50:40So if I didn't choose it, I would still be crushed.
- 50:43What would be different is that I know I could get through it.
- 50:48There is something, you know, that whole like what doesn't
- 50:51kill you makes you stronger. I think it's a bunch of crap,
- 50:53like what doesn't kill you. Sometimes you wish it did, like
- 50:55I don't. But I think that I think there
- 50:59is value in having gone through something.
- 51:02And I so I think now if I lost my job, you know, if they called
- 51:06me tomorrow and said you're out, we're done with you, it would, I
- 51:09would be devastated. It would hurt.
- 51:11But I also would be like, that's OK, I'm going to make it.
- 51:14So of the two, you know that there's two chunks, right?
- 51:17The financial security piece. I know I would be OK.
- 51:21I know I would find another job. I know I would recover.
- 51:25I know eventually I'll be able to get out of the fetal
- 51:27position. It's not that I wouldn't get in
- 51:29the fetal position. It's that I know I will
- 51:31eventually get out of it. And I appreciate you being
- 51:34honest on that because I think the answer to everybody wants to
- 51:38give is, oh, I've learned from before.
- 51:40I'm stronger. It would be totally different.
- 51:43And if it were me I I would have the same answer as you as I got
- 51:48to be honest that this this would be crushing.
- 51:50Yeah, it's, you know, when it happened the first time, I
- 51:53didn't know if I would get out of the fetal position, right?
- 51:55Because I was like, how? It's me.
- 51:59I, you know, I, you don't know that you're going to get through
- 52:02it. So I would at least know that I
- 52:04would get through it, but it doesn't mean it wouldn't crush
- 52:08me. What's your super?
- 52:10Sorry, you got something else you want to say.
- 52:12Well, I was going to say if it wasn't my choice, then I would
- 52:15be nervous. I would, you know, my stomach
- 52:17would hurt. I would be anxious, but I would
- 52:19be excited. If I were choosing it, I would
- 52:21be excited about it but nervous at the same time.
- 52:23Yeah, because it's like a death, right?
- 52:26And I don't mean that to trivialize actual death, which
- 52:29is irreversible and, you know, a a pain that has no, but it feels
- 52:35like it internally, doesn't it? Yeah.
- 52:37It really does, yeah. OK, shifting on to more positive
- 52:42things. Andrea, what is your superpower?
- 52:45This is a really hard question. Can you see like how red I'm
- 52:47turning? Talking about myself is like,
- 52:50this is not. This is a stretch.
- 52:51For you, this is an uncomfortable place.
- 52:54For you, which is where growth happens, So I plot.
- 52:56That I I like asking the questions, answering them is
- 52:59hard. So superpower, you know, a lot
- 53:03of people, I think especially women, but a lot of people, it's
- 53:06hard to talk about yourself. But I would say I'm really good
- 53:11at building consensus. So I am good at like with the
- 53:17organization, taking ideas. And this group of members maybe
- 53:21wants us to do this and spend money and time here.
- 53:23And this group is here. And the reality of it is this is
- 53:26how much money we actually have. And then the board is deciding.
- 53:30So I am good at talking to the different groups, kind of
- 53:34helping share the message, helping explain why we're going
- 53:38to do what we're going to do, and ideally kind of bringing
- 53:42everyone on the same page moving forward.
- 53:46Andrea, if you had to give one piece of career or life advice
- 53:50to someone that's entering this fast evolving industry, what
- 53:53would that be? Well, I'm not super great at
- 53:57following directions apparently because I have two.
- 54:00One is I mentioned I had those bad bosses early on in my
- 54:05career. One of the things I didn't do
- 54:07was my research and my homework. And I think the same way that
- 54:13companies will check your references and interview you and
- 54:16make sure that you align with their values and what they
- 54:19expect of you. I think people interesting
- 54:22entering the industry need to do the same thing for the companies
- 54:25that they're looking to go work at you.
- 54:27Especially now with everyone being so connected, you can call
- 54:31somebody and say, have you ever worked for Joe Smith?
- 54:34Any idea what kind of boss he is?
- 54:36Do you know anything about this company?
- 54:37You blah, blah, blah. I think people need to do their
- 54:40research because like we said, you can learn from a bad boss,
- 54:45but it's a lot more fun to learn from a good boss.
- 54:48And I think aligning with companies that share your values
- 54:51and your ethics is really important.
- 54:53And then the second piece of ADVO, sorry, go ahead.
- 54:56The second piece of advice that Ioffer students is, I think it
- 55:02doesn't seem like career advice, but it really is.
- 55:04I think to keep your finances in order is a very powerful career
- 55:10tool. I think I didn't do well at
- 55:13that. I was in a lot of debt when I
- 55:15was younger and you tend to make decision, career decisions based
- 55:19on fear and only money. So even if you know the maybe
- 55:23the boss isn't going to be great or the company isn't aligned,
- 55:26that's probably why they're going to pay you more money.
- 55:28You take those, you take those jobs because of that.
- 55:31And I think if you are living financially responsible and have
- 55:36don't have as much debt, you can maybe change career paths if you
- 55:40want to and take a little step back on your money, that type of
- 55:44thing. I think it's really important to
- 55:48be able to make career decisions, not just on money,
- 55:52and you can't do that if you're broke.
- 55:53Yeah, good point. Andrea, I've just got one more
- 55:56question for you today. But before I ask it, I want to
- 55:58do 3 quick things for the audience.
- 56:01First of all, anybody that wants to get in touch with Andrea,
- 56:03we've got two ways. Her e-mail address is a Belfonti
- 56:07BELFANTI at IS iashc.com. Let's try that again, folks.
- 56:15Yep. ABELFAN, t.i@ishc.com.
- 56:21We'll have it in the show notes and also her LinkedIn profile.
- 56:24Andrea Belfonte, ISHC you could look for.
- 56:27You'll find her. But we'll have a link in the
- 56:28show notes to that. Yeah.
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- 56:58So last question for you, Andrea.
- 57:00A year from now, what is 1 very specific thing that you hope to
- 57:03be celebrating? You know, I don't I'm, I am very
- 57:08happy to say that I am a good place personally and
- 57:12professionally. So there's not one huge big
- 57:15thing. I would say for me, I would hope
- 57:18to be celebrating a great vacation where I've been,
- 57:21somewhere I haven't been and you know, had a great time with my
- 57:24husband. I would hope that I am
- 57:27celebrating another great year with my senior dog who probably
- 57:31only has a few years left and that I've spent great time with
- 57:34friends and family and kind of celebrating the small little
- 57:37things. I don't need anything huge right
- 57:40now. I don't need the one big thing.
- 57:42I need lots of little things. I love that.
- 57:45OK, how about a couple of the spots that are on your travel
- 57:47bucket list? Oh OK, so I've not I've changed
- 57:52the planes in Japan but I've not been to Japan.
- 57:56I this is going to sound. I know how this sounds.
- 57:59It sounds a little pretentious and ridiculous but I'm going to
- 58:02say it anyway. I hope to go to all 7
- 58:05continents. I have two left, Antarctica and
- 58:08Australia. I have a birthday with a 0
- 58:12coming up in couple years, so my husband and I are planning to go
- 58:18to Antarctica then and then we'll do Australia either before
- 58:22or after that because at that point I can't, I can't have just
- 58:25one left. Yeah.
- 58:27Yeah. And I also just, yeah, the
- 58:29beach. I just love the beach.
- 58:31You. Know anyone that you haven't
- 58:33been to that you're looking forward to?
- 58:35I've never been to the Maldives. I've never been to the
- 58:37Seychelles. That sound pretty great to me.
- 58:41All right, fun stuff. Andrea Belfonte from Ishci want
- 58:46to be the first to thank you for sharing both your time and your
- 58:49story with us today. I really appreciate you being
- 58:51here. Thank you, Anthony.
- 58:53This was a real pleasure. I appreciate it.
- 58:55Folks, that's a wrap on another episode of the Inspired Stories
- 58:58podcast. Thanks for learning with us.
- 59:00And if one thing stood out, put that into action today.