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Investing Your Time: A Guide to Focused English Learning · SpeakSmart English

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  Speaker 1: Hello there, and a very warm welcome to you.
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  Speaker 1: time with us.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of time, actually, and you know, things fighting for
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  Speaker 2: our attention. I want to start with a feeling, okay,
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  Speaker 2: a feeling, a very specific, slightly sinking feeling, one that
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  Speaker 2: I think every single person listening to this right now
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  Speaker 2: has felt.
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  Speaker 1: I think I know where you're going with this.
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  Speaker 3: You know, the exact moment you've had a long morning
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  Speaker 3: or maybe a really chaotic afternoon, and you sit down
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  Speaker 3: on the edge of the sofa and you think yourself,
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  Speaker 3: I am just going to take five minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Ah, Yes, the famous five minutes exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Tell yourself, I just need to decompress for a second.
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  Speaker 1: I'll check one email, or look at one headline.
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  Speaker 2: Or watch one reel.
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  Speaker 1: Right, just one. So you pick up your phone, you
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  Speaker 1: look at one thing and you look at another, You
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  Speaker 1: scroll a bit, you laugh at a cat video, as
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  Speaker 1: we all do, and then for some reason you look
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  Speaker 1: up at the clock.
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  Speaker 2: And it is definitely not five minutes later.
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  Speaker 1: No, it is forty five minutes later or an hour,
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  Speaker 1: and the time is just gone. Yeah, poof vanished into
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  Speaker 1: thin air.
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  Speaker 2: And you get that heavy feeling in your stomach.
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  Speaker 1: Yes it's not quite guilt, but it's close. It's this
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  Speaker 1: realization that you have lost something you really can't get back.
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  Speaker 2: It is the universal struggle of the modern era. We
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  Speaker 2: all walk around with this low level anxiety, this feeling
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  Speaker 2: that there simply isn't enough time in the day to
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  Speaker 2: do the things we.
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  Speaker 1: Actually want to do always.
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  Speaker 2: And yet simultaneously we find ourselves losing these great chunks
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  Speaker 2: of that precious time without even realizing how it happens.
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  Speaker 1: It's a total paradox, isn't it. Yeah. We are obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with productivity. We talk about hustle constantly, and yet we
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  Speaker 1: are leaking time like a bucket full of holes.
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  Speaker 2: We really are.
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  Speaker 1: So today we are going to tackle this head on.
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  Speaker 1: We are looking at a really fascinating conversation between two
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  Speaker 1: English teachers, Anna and Jake. Now I know what you
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  Speaker 1: might be thinking, right, English teachers.
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  Speaker 2: You're thinking, is this going to be an episode about
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  Speaker 2: grammar and conjunctions?
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  Speaker 1: Fair question, but no, not at all. On the surface, yes,
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  Speaker 1: they are discussing language learning, but when you actually listen
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  Speaker 1: to the texture of their conversation, it's so much more
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  Speaker 1: than that.
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  Speaker 2: It really is.
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  Speaker 1: It is actually a philosophical and incredibly practical guide on
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  Speaker 1: how to stop wasting your life.
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  Speaker 2: That is a bold claim, it is, but I agree completely.
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  Speaker 2: They use the context of learning English, which, let's be honest,
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  Speaker 2: is a mass of undertaking that requires consistency and time,
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  Speaker 2: but they use it to explore much broader themes. They
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  Speaker 2: talk about discipline, They talk about the psychology.
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  Speaker 1: Of distraction and the value of a single minute.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly, and how to treat yourself when you fail. They
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  Speaker 2: frame time management not as a chore you have to
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  Speaker 2: do right, but as a way to reclaim your agency
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  Speaker 2: and what I love.
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  Speaker 1: And what we are going to spend a lot of
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  Speaker 1: time on today. Is that they do it with some
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  Speaker 1: of the most vivid, sticky metaphors I have ever heard.
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  Speaker 2: The metaphors are fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: We aren't just talking about building schedules. We are talking
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  Speaker 1: about water.
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  Speaker 2: Bottles, sand slipping through.
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  Speaker 1: Fingers, GPS systems, yeah, and pockets full of gold coins.
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  Speaker 1: It is really rich visual stuff, It really is.
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  Speaker 2: So our mission today is to take their framework and
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  Speaker 2: really take it apart.
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  Speaker 1: Step by step.
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  Speaker 2: We want to understand their specific definition of waste because
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  Speaker 2: it might not be what you actually think it is.
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  Speaker 1: I know, it's surprised me.
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  Speaker 2: And we want to analyze the psychological traps they identify,
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  Speaker 2: things like the time thieves. Yes, and we want to
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  Speaker 2: extract their five core strategies for getting those lost hours back.
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  Speaker 1: I am so ready for this. I love a good
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  Speaker 1: life hack. Yeah, but I'm also a bit skeptical of
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  Speaker 1: this standard just work harder advice.
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  Speaker 2: Oh absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: What I like about this source is that they don't
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  Speaker 1: seem to be saying work harder. In fact, in some
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  Speaker 1: ways they are saying the exact opposite.
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  Speaker 2: You're completely right. It requires a shift in mindset, not
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  Speaker 2: just an increase in effort. We need to move from
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  Speaker 2: a place where we feel like victims of distraction, like
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  Speaker 2: the phone is controlling us. Yeah, to a place where
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  Speaker 2: we are investors in our own time.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, let's get right into it. And the first place
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  Speaker 1: we have to start is with definitions.
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  Speaker 2: Definitions are crucial here.
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  Speaker 1: Because wasting time is a phrase we throw around constantly.
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  Speaker 1: You hear it all the time. Oh, I wasted the
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  Speaker 1: whole afternoon. But what does that actually mean? Because I
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  Speaker 1: think traditionally people think work is good and fun is waste.
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  Speaker 2: That's the old Puritan work ethics showing up if you
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  Speaker 2: aren't sweating your way wasting time exactly. But Ani Jig
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  Speaker 2: challenge that immediately. They argue that wasting time is not
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  Speaker 2: about the category of the activity.
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  Speaker 1: It's not about the label.
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  Speaker 2: Right, It's not about whether it's serious or silly. It
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  Speaker 2: is about utility. It is about helpfulness.
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  Speaker 1: So how do they break it down? What is the
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  Speaker 1: actual litmus test for waste?
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  Speaker 2: They propose a triad, a three part rule. They say
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  Speaker 2: that time is well spent if it does one of
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  Speaker 2: three things. It helps you learn, it helps you grow,
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  Speaker 2: or and this is the big one, it helps you rest.
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  Speaker 1: Learn, grow or rest that sounds really simple, but when
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  Speaker 1: you apply it, it actually rules out a lot of behavior.
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  Speaker 2: It does, it really does. Let's look at that doom
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  Speaker 2: scroll scenario again.
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  Speaker 1: Cool Litz.
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  Speaker 2: You are sitting on the couch, thumbing through videos of
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  Speaker 2: strangers arguing in.
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  Speaker 1: Comments sections we've all been there.
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  Speaker 2: Are you learning? No? Are you growing as a person?
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  Speaker 2: Definitely not? But here is the kicker. Are you resting?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I used to think I was. I used
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  Speaker 1: to think, well, sitting down, I'm not working, so I
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  Speaker 1: must be resting, right, But Anna and Jake say absolutely no.
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  Speaker 2: Precisely, your brain is not resting in that moment. It
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  Speaker 2: is agitated, highly agitated. It is processing rapid fire, information,
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  Speaker 2: bright lights, emotional trigger It's exhausting. You are physically stationary, yes,
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  Speaker 2: but mentally you are running a marathon through a garbage dump.
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  Speaker 1: A marathon through a garbage dump. That is such a
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  Speaker 1: good way to put it, and that is waste.
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  Speaker 2: It serves absolutely no propose To.
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  Speaker 1: Bring this concept home. Anna uses this incredible metaphor of
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  Speaker 1: a water bottle, and I want to stick with this
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  Speaker 1: for a moment because it is deceptively simple. It is,
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  Speaker 1: she says, imagine your time is like water in a bottle.
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  Speaker 2: It is a really powerful image of scarcity. We so
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  Speaker 2: often think of time as this infinite river that just
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  Speaker 2: keeps flowing.
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  Speaker 1: Right, like there's always more tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: But a bottle. A bottle has a bottom as a
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  Speaker 2: strict limit. You wake up with a certain amount of
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  Speaker 2: milliliters of time in your bottle.
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  Speaker 1: And she says, if you pour that water onto the floor,
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  Speaker 1: what happens.
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  Speaker 2: It's gone.
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  Speaker 1: It is gone. You can't drink it later, you can't
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  Speaker 1: magically scoop it back up. It is just a wet floor.
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  Speaker 2: That irreversibility is what makes time terrifyingly different from money.
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  Speaker 1: That's a great point.
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  Speaker 2: We always say time is money, but that is actually
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  Speaker 2: a terrible comparison. Why Because money is elastic. You can
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  Speaker 2: waste money, go completely broke, and then work hard and
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  Speaker 2: earn it back next year. You can replace money.
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  Speaker 1: You can always make more money.
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  Speaker 2: But time, once you pour it on the floor, once
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  Speaker 2: you spend that hour on something that doesn't serve you,
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  Speaker 2: it is a permanent loss. It never ever returns.
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  Speaker 1: That is actually a little haunting when you really visualize it.
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  Speaker 1: Pouring it on the floor. Yeah, it makes those forty
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  Speaker 1: minutes of scrolling Instagram reels feel very different. It is
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  Speaker 1: not just killing time, which is a terrible phrase when
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  Speaker 1: you really think about it, I'm killing time. It is
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  Speaker 1: literally destroying a resource, and that.
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  Speaker 2: Leads to the emotional aftermath. They discuss when you waste money,
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  Speaker 2: you feel a p you might feel a bit angry
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  Speaker 2: at yourself, sure, But when you waste time in this way,
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  Speaker 2: pouring it on the floor, Anna and Jake describe a
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  Speaker 2: very specific feeling of regret. Yes, it is that exact
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  Speaker 2: question you ask yourself, why did I do that? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I know that question so well. It is that feeling
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  Speaker 1: when you finally snap out of the trance and you
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  Speaker 1: realize you don't even remember what you just watched. Nothing stucked.
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  Speaker 1: You spent forty minutes consuming content, but it was so
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  Speaker 1: incredibly unmemorable that it's like you were never even there.
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  Speaker 2: It is the trap of the forgettable, the.
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  Speaker 1: Trap of the forgettable. I like that if an experience
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  Speaker 1: isn't memorable and it didn't rest you, and it didn't
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  Speaker 1: teach you anything, it is essentially a hole in your life. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: you were present physically, but completely absent mentally. That is
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  Speaker 1: the essence of the water bottle metaphor, you emptied the bottle,
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  Speaker 1: but you didn't quench your thirst. You just made a mess.
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  Speaker 2: That is profound, and it leads perfectly into the next section,
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  Speaker 2: because we really have to talk about how we spill
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  Speaker 2: the water, the mechanism of the spill, right, because I
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  Speaker 2: don't think anyone wakes up and deliberately says, today, I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to pour half my bottle on the rug.
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  Speaker 1: No one does that.
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  Speaker 2: It happens accidentally, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: It is insidious. It is a slip, not a decision.
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  Speaker 1: Jake tells a story that illustrates us perfectly, and it
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  Speaker 1: is almost painfully relatable to listen to.
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  Speaker 2: It really is.
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  Speaker 1: He was working, he felt a bit of brain fatigue,
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  Speaker 1: which we all get, of course, and he decided to
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  Speaker 1: take a break. His intention was actually good. He planned
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  Speaker 1: a ten minute break, the famous ten minute break. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like that is the most dangerous phrase in the
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  Speaker 1: English language. I'll just take ten minutes.
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  Speaker 2: It is the lie we tell ourselves daily, so Jake said.
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  Speaker 2: On the sofa, he opened his phone and he watched
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  Speaker 2: one funny video, just one.
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  Speaker 1: And that is the hook. It always starts with one always.
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  Speaker 1: But then, as Jake explains, the machine takes over, the
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  Speaker 1: algorithm kicks in. Yes, it serves up another video that
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  Speaker 1: is just as funny, just as shocking, and he thinks,
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  Speaker 1: just one more, just one more.
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  Speaker 2: That phrase is the architect of so much wasted potential.
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  Speaker 1: It really is.
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  Speaker 2: It is the slippery slope, and it is designed by
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  Speaker 2: tech companies to be completely frictionless. Before he knew it,
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  Speaker 2: he looked at the clock. It wasn't ten minutes. It
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  Speaker 2: was one hour and fifteen minutes.
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  Speaker 1: An hour and fifteen minutes. That is a massive amount
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  Speaker 1: of time to just lose.
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  Speaker 2: It's huge.
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  Speaker 1: That is a feature length movie. That is a full
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  Speaker 1: workout in a shower, that is cooking a complete meal
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  Speaker 1: from scratch and eating it. Yes, and he lost it
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  Speaker 1: all because he meant to take ten minutes. But here's
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  Speaker 1: where it gets really interesting for me. Let's look at
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  Speaker 1: the actual result, the aftermath. How did he feel afterwards,
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  Speaker 1: Because if he felt great, refreshed and happy, maybe it
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  Speaker 1: was rest right.
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  Speaker 2: But he didn't, and this is the critical evidence that
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  Speaker 2: it was pure waste. Yeah, he describes feeling empty, He
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  Speaker 2: felt guilty, and he actually felt more tired than before
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  Speaker 2: he started.
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  Speaker 1: That's the crazy part.
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  Speaker 2: The break did not break the fatigue it compounded it.
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  Speaker 1: That is the junk food effect of digital consumption. You
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  Speaker 1: eat it because you are hungry for distraction, but you
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  Speaker 1: feel physically and mentally worse after eating it than you
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  Speaker 1: did before.
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  Speaker 2: Precisely, and to describe this specific sensation, they shift metaphors
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  Speaker 2: entirely right. They move from the water bottle, which implies
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  Speaker 2: a spill, a sort of clumsy accident, to something much
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  Speaker 2: more tactile, sands a sand.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about the sand metaphor, because to me, sand
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  Speaker 1: feels very different than water.
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  Speaker 2: Jake says, it is like time going away, like sand
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  Speaker 2: in your hands. You open your fingers and the grains
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  Speaker 2: just fall through.
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  Speaker 1: That is such a visceral image. With the water bottle,
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  Speaker 1: you might accidentally knock it over, it's a single crash.
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  Speaker 1: But with sand, it is all about control, or the
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  Speaker 1: lack of it. You are holding it, you are trying
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  Speaker 1: desperately to keep it, but it just finds the tiny
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  Speaker 1: gaps between your fingers.
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  Speaker 2: It implies a slow, continuous, almost unnoticeable loss.
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  Speaker 1: Unnoticeable.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you don't lose the hour all at once, You
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  Speaker 2: lose it grain by grain, second by second, scroll by scroll. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: it highlights that complete lack of friction. It is so
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  Speaker 2: easy to let it slip. You don't even feel the
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  Speaker 2: loss until you finally look down at your hand and
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  Speaker 2: realize it is completely empty.
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  Speaker 1: So we have water poured on the floor and we
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  Speaker 1: have sand slipping through fingers. Both represent this tragic loss
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  Speaker 1: of our absolute most valuable resource. They do at this
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  Speaker 1: point in the conversation. Honestly, I was feeling a bit depressed.
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  Speaker 1: It feels kind of hopeless. But Anna and Jake don't
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  Speaker 1: just leave us in this depression of lost time in goodness.
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  Speaker 1: They offer a really solid pivot.
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  Speaker 2: They do. They don't just diagnose the illness, they actually
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  Speaker 2: prescribe the cure.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: The solution they proposed to the sand problem is a
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  Speaker 2: concept they call being intentional.
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  Speaker 1: Intentional it's a buzzword we hear a lot these days,
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  Speaker 1: but let's drill down what do they actually mean by
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  Speaker 1: it in this specific context.
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  Speaker 2: Doing things on purpose, not by accident, living by design, not.
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  Speaker 1: By default, living by design.
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  Speaker 2: I like that when Jake lost that hour, it was
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  Speaker 2: It's a complete accident. He fell right into it. Being
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  Speaker 2: intentional means grabbing the wheel, and that brings us to
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  Speaker 2: their very first major.
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  Speaker 1: Strategy strategy one. This is where we get practical. They
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  Speaker 1: talk about why big goals like I'm going to change
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  Speaker 1: my life for I'm going to master English why they
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  Speaker 1: often fail, and they use a metaphor that I think
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  Speaker 1: absolutely everyone can understand immediately. The GPS GPS.
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  Speaker 2: Problem this fascinating stuff. Think about driving a car. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: if you get in your car, turn on the engine
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  Speaker 2: and start driving, but you don't actually put an address
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  Speaker 2: in the GPS.
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  Speaker 1: What happens, Well, you drive, you move forward, the wheels
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  Speaker 1: are turning.
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  Speaker 2: But you are just driving in circles right. You are
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  Speaker 2: burning petrol, you are wearing out the tires, you are
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  Speaker 2: wasting time, and you aren't actually arriving anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: That is such a good way to describe vague goals.
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  Speaker 1: And he uses that word vague like it's a dirty word.
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  Speaker 2: She really does.
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  Speaker 1: If I say today I will improve my English, or
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  Speaker 1: today I will get fit, that is exactly like driving
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  Speaker 1: without a destination. It's just movement.
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  Speaker 2: It's not progress exactly. It is too broad. A GPS
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  Speaker 2: needs a specific address. It needs to be able to
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  Speaker 2: say turn left here, go straight for five hundred meters.
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  Speaker 1: It needs steps.
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  Speaker 2: It gives you step by step instructions. Your brain needs
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  Speaker 2: the exact same thing. If you give your brain a
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  Speaker 2: vague command, it freezes. It doesn't know what the first
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  Speaker 2: step is.
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  Speaker 1: So the solution is what they call the tiny plan.
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  Speaker 2: The tiny plan. It is the direct antidote to the
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  Speaker 2: vague goal. Okay, a tiny plan is setting a goal
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  Speaker 2: so small, so microscopic, that it is virtually impossible to fail.
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  Speaker 1: I love this concept, but I have to play devil's
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  Speaker 1: advocate for a second. Here, go for it. Tiny plan.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds well tiny. If I want to learn a
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  Speaker 1: whole language or write a book, surely I need a
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  Speaker 1: big plan. How does do something tiny actually help me
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  Speaker 1: get there?
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  Speaker 2: That is the natural intuition, right, I think big results
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  Speaker 2: require big, heroic efforts. But Anna and Jake argue that
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  Speaker 2: big effort is actually the mortal enemy of consistency. Really, yes,
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  Speaker 2: Anna shares a personal anecdote here that really illuminates this.
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  Speaker 2: She talks about when she first started learning a new language,
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  Speaker 2: she told herself, I will study for one full hour every.
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  Speaker 1: Day, which sounds noble. That sounds like what a good,
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  Speaker 1: dedicated student should do.
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  Speaker 2: It sounds noble, but it was a total trap. It
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  Speaker 2: was way too big. Why Because she would get to
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  Speaker 2: the end of a long day, feel tired, look at
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  Speaker 2: that one hour mountain and think, I just can't climb
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  Speaker 2: that today.
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  Speaker 1: I've had that exact thought.
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  Speaker 2: So she would skip it, and then she would feel
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  Speaker 2: terrible about herself. The one hour goal actually stopped her
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  Speaker 2: from studying entirely. It created a wall of fear.
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  Speaker 1: So she switched to the tiny plant.
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  Speaker 2: She changed her promise to herself. She said, I will
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: do ten minutes, just ten minutes. That was it, just
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: ten minutes.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: And what happened.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: It removed the fear completely. It removed the friction. Ten
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: minutes isn't scary.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: No, anyone can do ten minutes.
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: You can do ten minutes while waiting for pasta to boil.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: You can do ten minutes sitting in your pajamas on
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: the edge of the bed. And the funny thing is,
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: and this is the real psychological trick. Often, once she started,
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: she would just keep going. She would end up doing
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: twenty or thirty minutes. But the commitment, the barrier to entry,
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: it was low enough that she could maintain consistency every
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: single day.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: It is the idea that the hardest part of going
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: to the gym is just putting on your shoes exact.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Once you are there, you are fine. The tiny Plan
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: is just about putting on your shoes precisely.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: It provides the specific GPS address for your day. You
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: aren't sitting there wondering what to do. You aren't paralyzed
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: by the sheer size of the task. You know you
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: just need to read that one single page. It eliminates
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: decision fatigue completely.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: Okay, so we have her tiny Plan, we know what
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: to do. But now comes the biggest objection I hear
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: from literally everyone, I don't have time. Yes, I don't
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: have time. We are all busy. We have jobs, we
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: have families, we have endless commitments. And this leads us
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: to strategy too. And honestly, this is my absolute favorite
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: metaphor of the whole discussion.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: The coins, the economics of pocket time. This is an
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: absolute game changer for anyone who claims they are too busy.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: So visualize this with me for a second. Anna says,
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: to think of your time as physical currency. You have
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: coins in your.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: Pocket, right, you have big coins. These are your solid
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: one hour blocks of time. Okay, maybe you have one
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: big coin in the evening, after the kids are asleep.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: Maybe not some days you have zero big.
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Coins a lot of days.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: But everyone, no matter how busy, no matter how chaotic
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: their life is, everyone has a pocket full of small coins.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: These are the weird little gaps in the day of
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: five minutes here, seven minutes there, three minutes there.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: Exactly, waiting for the bus, sitting in the back of
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: a taxi, standing in line at the grocery store.
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: Waiting for the coffee machine to brew.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Walking from the subway to the office. These are all
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: small coins.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: And what do most of us do with these small coins.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: We treat them like pennies. We just throw them in
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: the trash.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: We really do.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: We treat them as garbage time. We pull out our
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: phones and we scroll mindlessly, effectively tossing that value away
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: because we think, well, it's only five minutes. I can't
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: get anything real, none in five minutes.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: But and it's point is that if you collect these coins,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: if you save them up, they actually allow you to
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: buy something really big.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: It is the aggregation of marginal games. Let's actually do
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: the math on this, because I think people wildly underestimate
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: this concept.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Let's do it.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: If you have five minutes waiting for the bus, and
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: ten minutes at lunch and five minutes waiting for a
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: meeting to start, and ten minutes on the commute home.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: That is thirty minutes.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like much when you say thirty minutes.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: But do that every single day. That is three and
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: a half hours a week. That is roughly fifteen hours
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: a month. Wow, over a year. That is over one
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: hundred and eighty hours.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: One hundred and eighty hours.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: That is more than a full month of full time
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: work just from the garbage time you usually throw away
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: without a second thought.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: When you put it like that, one hundred and eighty hours,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: that is enough time to get really really good at something.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: That is enough time to read twenty books exactly.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: And they tell a specific story about a busy friend
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: to prove this works in reality, not just in theory.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Tell us about her.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: This is a great case study. Anna has a friend
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: with two kids and a demanding full time job. I
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: think a lot of listeners can relate to that exact
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: level of daily chaos. Persinitely, this woman literally never had
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: a quiet hour to herself.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: She was always on, always moving.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: But she wanted to improve her English, so instead of
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: waiting for a perfect hour that was never ever going
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: to come. She used the small minute strategy.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: How did she do it?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: She did five minutes walking to the bus stop. She
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: did ten minutes during her lunch break. She did seven
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: minutes right before falling asleep. And the result, over a
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: few months, those scattered, tiny moments accumulated into what Anna
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: calls a big treasure.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: A big treasure, I love that phrasing.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: She noticed, she understood more, she spoke much better, and
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: she had made massive progress, all without ever sitting down
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: for a formal study session.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: That is som powering. It completely takes away the excuse
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: of I don't have time.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: You do have time, you do have time.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it is just in small change, not big bills. Yeah,
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: you have to be willing to spend the small change.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: But there is a catch, always a catch.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: You have to be prepared. You can't spend the coin
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: if you don't have the product ready.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Worry.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: You need to have that audio downloaded on your phone
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: or that book physically in your bag. So when the
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: pocket time suddenly appears, when the bus is running late,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: you can spend the coin immediately. Right if you have
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: to spend five minutes, just searching for something to do,
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: you've already lost the coin.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: That is a brilliant point. Preparation is key to spending
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: the coins. Now moving on to strategy three. This tackles
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: the actual feeling of learning. Yes, because let's be totally honest,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: sometimes studying or working on a goal just feels like
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: a chore. It feels like eating broccoli when you really
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: just want pizza.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: It does. And this is where they bring in the
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: concept of gamification and joy, and they identify a very
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: serious problem here, the punishment mindset.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Yes, Anna says something really important about this. She says,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: if learning feels like punishment, your brain will literally run
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: away from it.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: It is a biological reality. The human brain is hardwired
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: to avoid pain and seek pleasure. She uses the analogy
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: of a child playing to explain this. Okay, imagine a
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: child drawing a picture. They are having fun. But if
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: you stand over them shouting, do it perfectly, don't make
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: any mistakes. That line is crooked. What does the child do.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: They stop drawing, they start crying, They just quit exactly.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: The brain rejects constant stress. If you treat your English practice,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: or frankly, any personal project as a high stakes, high
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: pressure performance where mistakes are punished. You will burn out.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: You will you will unconsciously avoid doing it. You will
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: suddenly find reasons to clean the entire kitchen instead of
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: sitting down to study.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: So the argument they're making is that fun isn't just
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: nice to have fun is actually efficient.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Yes, Enjoyment isn't wasting time. Enjoyment extends the duration you
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: can engage with the material because it doesn't hurt exactly.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: If you like doing it, you will do it longer,
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: and you will happily come back and do it again tomorrow.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: They give some really great practical examples of how to
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: make it fun, and one of them actually made me
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: laugh out loud. But it's brilliant singing.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, music. They talked about printing out song lyrics right
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: circling all the new vocabulary words, and then singing at
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: the top of your lungs in the shower to try
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: and copy the singer's exact voice.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Now I have to confess I am a terrible singer.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: My shower singing is essentially a crime against humanity. Well,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: nobody has to hear it, true, But even if you
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: are terrible at it, you are actively learning pronunciation. You're
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: learning rhythm, you're learning the natural flow of the language.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: And you are releasing in endorphins while doing it. You
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: are genuinely happy. It creates a strong positive association with
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: the language.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: It's a positive feedback loop exactly.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Another great example they gave was watching short TV series.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Right, but not just watching them completely passively. Yeah, there's
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: a specific progression they recommend.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Yes, you start by watching with subtitles in your native language,
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: just so you fully understand the plot and the.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Context, make sure you know what's going on.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Then once you know what's happening, you switch to English subtitles.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: You read along as they speak. Okay, and eventually, and
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: this is the holy grail, you turn the subtitles off
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: and you understand the lines without reading at all.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: And this connects all the way back to our definition
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: of waste from the very beginning of the discussion. If
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I spend thirty minutes watching a sitcom in English and
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I learned two new phrases.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Then you are growing. Yes, you are not pouring water
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: on the floor. You are drinking it. It might taste
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: like a sugary soda instead of a healthy protein shake,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: but you are still hydrating the skill. Hydrating the skill,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: you are still absorbing the natural patterns of the language.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I really love that hydrating the skill. It makes the
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: whole process feel much less rigid and punitive. Now we
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: have to shift gears a bit. We have to talk
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: about the villain of the story.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Ah, the villain.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: We've talked about the heroes, the tiny plan, the pocket coins,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: but strategy four is all about defense. It is about
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: actively protecting your house. The time thieves sounds so ominous.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Who exactly are these thieves?
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Well, in the modern world, the primary culprit is almost
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: always the smartphone and specifically social media, but it can
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: really be anything. A time thief is defined as something
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: that steals your time without giving you anything remotely good
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: in return. It takes your valuable gold coins and hands
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: you pocket lint.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: We talked about Jake's story of the one video spiral earlier.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: That is a time thief in action right there.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Anna shares a very similar experience of her own. She
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: talks about sitting on her bed to check just one
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: single message.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: The classic trap. I just need to see who messaged me.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: And look at the downward spiral. She describes it is
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: a complete chain reaction. The message leads to a funny
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: video link someone sent.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: The video leads to a suggested clip from a late
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: night show. The clip leads to reading a massive fight
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: in the comments section about politics. It always goes to
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: the comments, and the comments lead to a depressing news
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: story about some disaster.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: And suddenly her brain is completely full of noise. She
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: is angry about the comments, she's sad about the news,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: and she's completely distracted by the videos.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: But nothing was learned. She didn't grow, she says, she
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: just felt tired and.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Sad, which is not rest.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: No, that is the absolute hallmark of a time thief victim.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: You freely gave away your time and you got negative
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: energy in return.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: So what is the defensive tactic here? How do we
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: actually stop the thieves? Because, let's face it, they are
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: very very good at what they do.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: They are professionals.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: These apps are designed by absolute geniuses to keep us
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: endlessly scrolling.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: They use a very simple metaphor for this, locking the door.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: Simple effective, locking the door.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: You don't have to hate the thief. You don't have
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: to declare war on social media, but you do you
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: have to physically lock your door to protect your house.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: You have to create actual physical barriers right willpower alone
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: is simply not enough.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I think that is such a key point. We tend
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: to think, Oh, I just need to be stronger, I
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: need better discipline, But Anna says, no, just move the phone.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Exactly what kind of barriers are we talking about? Simple rules?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: For example, when you sit down to do your tiny plan,
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: the phone goes in another.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Room, not just face down on.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: The desk, not face down, not in your pocket in
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: an era another room.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: That physical distance is so key. If I have to
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: actually stand up, walk out the door and go into
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: the kitchen to check Instagram, I probably won't do it.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: The friction is too high.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: But if it is sitting within arms reach, I will
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: do it automatically without even thinking.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Correct. Another great rule they mentioned, no social media until
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: my tiny plan is completely finished. Use it as a reward,
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: not a baseline. That's smart or simply turning off all
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: non essential notifications for one specific hour of the day.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: It is all about reclaiming control. When you lock the door,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: you create a safe sanctuary where you can actually focus.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: And when you protect your focus, you get so much
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: more done in less time. You actually save time in
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: the long run, it puts you firmly back in the
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: driver's seating. Yes, you get to decide when to open
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: the door, rather than leaving it wide open for anyone
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: and anything to just walk in.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Now, this brings us to a really, really important question,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: and I think this is where a lot of modern
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: productivity advice goes completely wrong. I agree, if we are
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: out here locking doors, maximizing all our pocket coins, and
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: rigidly following GPS plans, does this mean we have to
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: be intensely working every single second of the day.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Are we trying to turn ourselves into machines?
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Exactly, We're trying to turn ourselves into robots.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: This is strategy five, and honestly, it is perhaps the
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: most important one for our long term success and our
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: overall mental health. The paradox of rest.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Annie and Jake are extremely clear on this point. Rest
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: is not wasting time.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: They are absolutely adamant about it. They directly address the
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: fear that not wasting time somehow means constant, relentless.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Productivity, which is toxic.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: It is false, and it is the fastest road to
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: complete burnout.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: They use the battery metaphor here to explain it.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Yes, your body and your mind are exactly like a
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: smartphone battery. We all intuitively understand how a phone works.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: We do.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: If you use your phone heavily all day, running heavy apps,
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: watching bright videos, using the GPS, and you never ever
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: plug it in, what happened?
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: It dies, It shuts down completely, The screen goes.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Black, humans go to zero two. If you don't actively charge,
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: you stop functioning. You might still be physically sitting at
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: your desk staring at the screen, but your brain has
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: completely left the building.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: Jake shares a story about this, about trying to push
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: through on a project late at night, and I think
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I have lived this exact story one hundred times in
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: my life.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: It's so common. He was exhausted, his internal battery was
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: blinking red, but he forced himself to keep working because
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: he just wanted to cross it off the list he
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: wanted to finish, so he spent two agonizing hours pushing
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: through the thick sludge of his own fatigue. He was
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: writing a sentence, deleting it, staring blankly at the screen.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: And the final result the.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Work was terrible. He produced absolute garbage.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: So he essentially wasted two hours of his life producing
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: bad work. Just because his battery was low. He basically
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: spent two hours pouring perfectly good water straight onto.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: The floor exactly. But then, and this is the crucial lesson,
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: he finally went to sleep, he plugged him, he charged
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: the battery. The next morning, he woke up, felt fresh,
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: sat down and did the exact same work from scratch
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: in thirty minutes. Thirty minutes instead of two.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Hours, and the quality of the work was significantly better.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: That is the raw efficiency of sleep. Resting isn't laziness,
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: It is high level strategy.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Resting is significantly smarter than pushing. It is investing time
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: right now by sleeping or going for a walk, or
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: literally just staring at a tree to make your future
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: time I'm much more valuable. Yes, if you don't rest,
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: you are working with a blunt tool. You're essentially trying
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: to cut down a massive oak tree with a butter knife.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: So to summarize the core philosophy here, don't pour your
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: water on the floor, but drinking the water, which means resting,
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: enjoying yourself, learning, That is what the water is actually
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: for exactly. The water is there to sustain you, not
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: just to be hoarded forever precisely.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: It is all about balance. It's about being the mindful
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: master of the bottle, not the helpless victim of the spill.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Before we get to the final implementation plan, because we
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: really want to give you a step by step guide
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: to start doing this. Today, I want to take a
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: quick moment to do a word tour.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: A word tour. I like that Anna and Jake use
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: some very specific vocabulary throughout their conversation that I think
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: really reveals their underlying mindset. We have touched on some
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: of them, but let's quickly drill down into the deeper
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: meaning of these words.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: That is a great idea. The specific words we choose
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: to use actually shape how we think. If we change
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: our day vocabulary, we fundamentally change our perspective.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: First word up intentional. This is the.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Absolute cornerstone of everything we've talked about. It simply means
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: doing things on purpose. On purpose, it is the exact
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: opposite of drifting. Most people just grift through their day,
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: reacting to whatever pops up. Being intentional means you are
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: the captain of the ship. You might not be able
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: to control the wind, but you are firmly holding the
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: steering wheel.
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  Speaker 1: Mix word vague the enemy of all progress. Vague means unclear, fuzzy,
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  Speaker 1: like trying to look through a foggy wind field.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: If your plan is vague, your resulting actions will be
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  Speaker 1: incredibly weak. Saying I want to get better is vague.
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  Speaker 1: Saying I will read page forty two is clear. You
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  Speaker 1: desperately need clarity in order to act.
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  Speaker 2: Third term, pocket time a term that is not in
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  Speaker 2: any dictionary, but it absolutely should be.
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  Speaker 1: It should.
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  Speaker 2: It is the small coins concept. It brilliantly reframes the
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  Speaker 2: act of waiting as an opportunity. It changes a frustrating
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  Speaker 2: delay from an annoyance into a sudden gift. Oh, the
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  Speaker 2: bus is ten minutes late. Great, I have free ten
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  Speaker 2: minutes to learn something new. Next step, distracted tension, jumping uncontrollably.
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  Speaker 2: Anna points out this is very often caused by our environment.
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  Speaker 2: Like having the phone sitting right next to the book
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  Speaker 2: you're trying to read.
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  Speaker 1: It is sitting there tempting you.
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  Speaker 2: It is a state of fragmented focus. It is the
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  Speaker 2: literal feeling of the sands slipping right through your fingers.
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  Speaker 1: Now, this is a big one.
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  Speaker 2: Invest This is a crucial mental shift. You don't just
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  Speaker 2: spend time you invest it.
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  Speaker 1: What's the difference.
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  Speaker 2: Spending implies that it is just gone forever a transaction.
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  Speaker 2: Investing implies that it comes back to you later with interest.
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  Speaker 2: When you learn a language, or exercise, or get a
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  Speaker 2: good night's sleep, you are investing that time comes back
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  Speaker 2: to you in the form of new skills, better health,
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  Speaker 2: or more energy tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Next word, routine.
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  Speaker 2: The normal predictable order of your daily things. The goal
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  Speaker 2: here isn't to rely on sheer willpower every single day
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  Speaker 2: willpower runs out.
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  Speaker 1: It is fast.
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  Speaker 2: The actual goal is to slip your tiny plan right
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  Speaker 2: into your existing routine so it becomes completely automatic. Just
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  Speaker 2: like brushing your teeth. You don't need to summon heroic
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  Speaker 2: willpower to brush your teeth in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: You just do it. And finally balance the right mix.
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  Speaker 2: Not too much grueling work, not too much idle rest.
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  Speaker 2: It is that sweet spot where the internal battery is
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  Speaker 2: fully charged and then necessary work actually gets done. It
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  Speaker 2: is dynamic, always shifting, not static.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so we have the core philosophy, we have the metaphors,
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  Speaker 1: and we have the vocabulary. We are armed with the knowledge.
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  Speaker 1: We are now for the listener who is sitting there
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  Speaker 1: right now, thinking I want to do this. I really
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  Speaker 1: want to stop pouring my time on the floor. I
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  Speaker 1: want to start collecting my coins today. What is the
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  Speaker 1: actual plan they need? Steps Yes and Anon Jake give
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  Speaker 1: us a very clear four step implementation guide.
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  Speaker 2: Let's break it down. Step one, choose one tiny goal,
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  Speaker 2: not a big one, One tiny manageable goal. I will
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  Speaker 2: learn three words. I will do one single squad. I
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  Speaker 2: will write one sentence in my journal. It's so embarrassingly
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  Speaker 2: small that you feel silly saying no to it.
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  Speaker 1: Step two, decide exactly when you will do it.
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  Speaker 2: This is the GPS programming part. Don't just vaguely say today.
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  Speaker 2: Don't say some time later, say during my pocket, time
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  Speaker 2: on the bus ride home. Be specific, or while the
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  Speaker 2: coffee bruise in the morning. Anchor this tiny new behavior
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  Speaker 2: to a specific moment in your existing daily routine.
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  Speaker 1: Step three. Make it fun.
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  Speaker 2: Please, do not make it a punishment. If you hate
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  Speaker 2: doing it, change how you do it. Use a catchy song,
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  Speaker 2: watch a funny video clip, read a comic book instead
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  Speaker 2: of a textbook. Right If you dread the activity, you
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  Speaker 2: simply won't keep doing it. Genuine pleasure is the glue
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  Speaker 2: that actually makes the habit stick long term.
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  Speaker 1: And step four. This one is really sweet and I
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  Speaker 1: think it often overlooked, especially by highly driven high achievers.
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  Speaker 1: Self talk, Yes, this is vital.
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  Speaker 2: After you finish your tiny plan, say something kind to.
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  Speaker 1: Yourself, like literally say it out loud.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, or clearly in your head, say good job, I
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  Speaker 2: did my small plan today. I am making real progress.
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  Speaker 1: It sounds a little silly to talk to yourself like that,
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  Speaker 1: doesn't it.
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  Speaker 2: It might feel silly at first, but it is fundamentally vital.
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  Speaker 2: You have to stop being your own worst enemy and
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  Speaker 2: become your own supportive.
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  Speaker 1: Coach, the inner coach.
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  Speaker 2: Think about it rationally. If you beat yourself up endlessly
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  Speaker 2: for not doing a full hour, you feel terrible. You
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  Speaker 2: feel like a failure. And what do failures do?
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  Speaker 1: They give up exactly.
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  Speaker 2: But if you praise yourself for successfully doing ten minutes,
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  Speaker 2: you feel capable, You feel successful, and successful people keep going.
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  Speaker 2: They build on that success.
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  Speaker 1: It is all about building that positive momentum. Ten good
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  Speaker 1: minutes a day creates massive visible change over the course
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  Speaker 1: of a year, but zero minutes creates nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely nothing. It is the compound interest of self improvement.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we have covered a tremendous amount of ground today
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  Speaker 1: we really have We have done from water bottles on
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  Speaker 1: the floor to smartphone batteries. Yeah, from slipping sand to
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  Speaker 1: pockets full of gold coins. It has been a really
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  Speaker 1: comprehensive look at how we view our entire existence in time.
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  Speaker 2: It really has, and I genuinely hope it has shifted
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  Speaker 2: the way you look at that little phone sitting right
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  Speaker 2: there in your pocket. It is a tool. It is
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  Speaker 2: not your master.
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  Speaker 1: Before we sign off, I just want to quickly recap
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  Speaker 1: the big five takeaways so everyone listening, so you have
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  Speaker 1: them fresh in your mind.
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  Speaker 2: Good idea.
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  Speaker 1: Number one, make a tiny plan, that's the GPS. Keep
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  Speaker 1: it incredibly small to start.
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  Speaker 2: Number two, use your pocket time. Those are your gold coins.
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  Speaker 2: Don't just throw away the spare minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Number three make it fun, no punishment allowed. Enjoyment directly
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  Speaker 1: leads to consistency.
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  Speaker 2: Number four lock the door against time thieves, specially social media.
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  Speaker 2: Actively protect your focus.
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  Speaker 1: And number five respect the battery. Remember that rest is
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  Speaker 1: not waste. You have to recharge in order to work better.
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  Speaker 2: If you take absolutely nothing else away from today's discussion,
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: just remember the water bottle. The water bottle, your time
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  Speaker 2: is strictly finite. You only have so much in the
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  Speaker 2: bottle for your entire life. Please don't pour it on
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  Speaker 2: the floor, drink it, use it to actively learn, to grow,
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  Speaker 2: or to deeply truly rest.
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  Speaker 1: I want to leave you with one final thought to
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  Speaker 1: mole over. Time is the only truly egalitarian resource we have.
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  Speaker 1: We all get exactly twenty four hours in a day,
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  Speaker 1: no more, no less. It really just comes down to
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  Speaker 1: how we choose to spend those coins. And remember, perfection
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  Speaker 1: is never the goal here. Improvement is the goal. Well said,
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  Speaker 1: you don't have to reclaim every single wasted second of
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  Speaker 1: your day. Starting tomorrow, just try to catch a few
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  Speaker 1: of those coins before they hit the ground exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Start very small, be intentional about it, and above all,
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  Speaker 2: be kind to yourself along the way.
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  Speaker 1: We wanted to thank you so much for staying with
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  Speaker 1: us until the very end of this discussion.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't waste this time. You invested it in yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and we are truly honored that you chose to invest
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  Speaker 1: it with us.
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  Speaker 2: We really hope you found some valuable gold coins in
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  Speaker 2: this conversation today that you can spend on your own dreams.
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  Speaker 2: Until next time, take care of your precious time and
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: take care of yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Bid you a fond farewell, bye for now.