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72. Why Manifesting Money Isn't Working (You're Early) · Power Talk with Katelin Power

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  [SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to Power Talk with Caitlyn Power.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Caitlyn, a certified clinical hypnotherapist who helps you clear out the BS of conscious beliefs that have been keeping you from reaching your goals.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I show you how to upgrade your identity into the most confident, the filled you that you were always meant to be.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So if you're ready to stop playing small and joint transformative conversations around mindset, manifestation, business, wellness, and here from the eighth girls that are out there living their dream lives, I'm so excited to have you here.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Let's get started.
• 0:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: Hello and welcome back to Power Talk.
• 0:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was intuiting what would be the best topic today, the best training for you on your so-called soul path in the lifetime, like what's going to benefit you most and surprise surprise we're talking money today, manifesting money, why it's not working for you, why
• 0:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: your money, manifestation, practices seem to never work and you're looking around going.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This percent when we see it everywhere, we're bombarded with, I made $10,000 in my first month on sub-sac, or I bought $100,000 followers in my first six months on Instagram.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's everywhere, everywhere, everywhere.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And honestly, I'm pretty bored of it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I get it, I totally get it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I think it's amazing to share results and your roadmap of getting there for other people.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But a lot of context is missing for instance with followers, right?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Those don't translate $2, and they shouldn't, because it should be connection, these are actual people, and depending on what you're selling or offering,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: These are actual people that you're helping their life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You are beneficially impacting their life in some way.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That's why we're all here and this is going to work for you.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Whether you have your own business, whether you're online or not,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: or if you're in a nine to five or you are at home working, taking care of your kids, which is also a full-time job.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever it is that you're doing, this is going to be the thing that you need to hear today.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This loud and clear smile yourself was this, this, but I am going to give you examples as always.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I know how to speak to your subconscious mind in a way that is really not done, because I know how to paint these pictures in your mind so that you actually are walking away
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and remember what you learned and you actually are able to implement it into your life.
• 2:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: I can't tell you how many times I've read a book or listen to a podcast episode and thought, wow, that was life-changing that is everything I needed and then an hour later, the next day, I have a really hard time recalling what that life-changing information was.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: There of course are ways to get your brain to actually
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Take in that information and start using it as coding for the way that you're living, you have to take action and start implementing the tools that you probably heard me say 3,000 times.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Information without implementation means nothing, but I can as the teacher do my absolute best.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: to paint those pictures in your mind so that it's something that your brain has a hard time letting go of.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: When I tell stories, when I use specific examples, your mirror neurons in your brain go, oh, okay, even though that's not the exact situation that I'm in where that hasn't happened to me,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: a story is something that your brain latches on and you can think of this too where maybe you took a college class and you had a really hard time remembering even what the training was that day of what you were learning, but your friend that day might have told you a story that happened and you could step by step recall exactly what happened and that story that your friend told you about.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The party they were at, or maybe the library and someone made a breakfast in the library, you'd be able to remember that, but not the thing that you thought was really cool information even in your class, because it wasn't told through story.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It was more so step-by-step things, but didn't give your brain the mechanism to hold on to that information, to be able to store it,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: tool that you get to use throughout your life, like that you might have learned communication in the class, but the way it was taught to you didn't have the correct learning mechanism that then you go, okay, wait, I can actually use this communication upgrade that I learned in my day-to-day life, you just took it in.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And if someone brought it up to you, you'd like, oh, yeah, yeah, like I remember that, but not to the fact that you're brain in that tough conversation with your boyfriend went away.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I just learned something in communication.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Let's utilize it now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: It actually restored more as something that like on a multiple choice question in that class you'd be able to.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: get the right answer, but it's not something that you're actually using, utilizing, and often we pay so much money, I mean, how much money did I pay for college a lot?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of it is not something that I would be able to immediately pick up that information because a lot of it were things that,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't utilize past-taking the test.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I stored it, and then the day after the test, it was gone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That's why if you ever wonder why I'm telling you these examples that do not relate to, because you might be going, I'm going to use an example talking about my business.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to use an example talking about my sub-stack, and you might go, that's great.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I literally have no plans, no sub-stack, and no business.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: so how are you going to teach me how to manifest money?
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This is how because you're going to remember that and your brain is so brilliant it will take that and go oh wait a minute here is the actual tool.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Now let me apply this to my life because I have a specific example of how that was applied now I can apply it in my life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go to the sub-sac example first because I'm actually going to talk about specifically money in this example, so that you can see with whatever it is that you do to bring in money, that this will be the specific one you're bringing goes, oh, got to got to got it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So with sub-sac, I just joined and you've probably heard me talk about it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm very, very thrilled about it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I find myself.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: with online like that's the platform.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm really gravitating towards where I'm actually showing up there every day and I am not the one to do that anywhere else really besides my Instagram stories.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I love showing up in there hopping on connecting with you, but I just don't find I don't find the feeling of connection.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: on any other platform.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why I have the biggest audience like the largest audience on TikTok.
• 6:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if you go look, it's literally, there's dust clouds over there because I haven't posted, I think, in over a year.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I may be posted twice last year or something on there because I don't care about this is my biggest audience in the validation of, I can post videos on there and get a lot more traction.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But I don't feel the connection that I feel on
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Instagram stories and talking with you through, even the podcast, you come into my DMs on Instagram and then we talk about the podcast and what landed for you.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I just don't feel that on Instagram great and stuff right now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe that will change in the future.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But that's what I love about sub-sack because people are actually reading what people have to say and actually connecting.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: They're actually writing, hey, thank you so much.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: This landed for me.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and people are actually feeling that connection, not like they're just screaming into the void.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And so it's actually worth their time to spend time on there, to connect, to comment, to subscribe, to show up for people, and have
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  [SPEAKER_00]: people are sharing really vulnerable truths on there and people are like, hey, I've got you, I'm holding you through this or I feel the same way and I just find it to be really beautiful.
• 7:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm over there and the reason why I'm sharing this is that as of right now, when I look at how often I'm posting and where everything is energetically for me now with subsac, I see that I want to even have a significant increase in my income for two years.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I definitely will have more of a situation next year, but I don't find that it's something that I would be like, well, I've got to get over there for two more years.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And here I am writing an article a week and sometimes I'm going to do two when I do have that extra availability to do that.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm loving it.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like it's one of my favorite things to do right now on my business.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I love going to a coffee shop sitting there and writing all morning long and just pouring my heart into there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm also sharing.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm sharing passions about myself that I haven't had that avenue to share, which is really so far my reading.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I love love reading.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I love sharing.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: book recommendations and it's a huge part of my life.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I finally get to share that with you and connect in that way.
• 8:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I'm sharing everything that I would share here of the best neuroscience tools, the upgrades for your manifestation field, aka your electro magnetic field, is a scientific term.
• 9:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: and I'm sharing those in real time.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I said, I'm on there every week right now in the podcast.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I do every two weeks and I'm doing different topics.
• 9:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: So now we have a new training on the podcast every other week and then we also every week get a different training upgrade, me sharing something that's helping me or some of my clients a lot and so I'm going to be giving kind of behind the scenes, keeping everything anonymous, but giving upgrades that are coming up
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and often I take a lot of upgrades that come up on my client sessions as well because I'm like that was brilliant from higher self and I also want that upgrade.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm going to be, I'm just getting started on there and I already put in two energetic protection tools that I only offer in my $700 course.
• 9:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: And you get that for $8.99 right now.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: That is the lowest my sub-sac paid subscription will ever be.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And when you get in at that price from what I understand, you get to keep that price even if I raise the price for new people coming in.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You get to stay at the $8.99.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So you get tools from my $700 course for $8.99.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then you also get every paid post to unlock.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, like I said, I'm writing in there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: once a week, if not two times.
• 10:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then also you get access to, I'm posting my daily thoughts, they kind of have like a Twitter x situation.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm posting in daily upgrades, thoughts, happening on there all the time.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I also have subscriber perks that are, I have some already, but some that are going
• 10:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: to be added as I'm making them specifically only for subsac and right now when you subscribe you get immediate access to my advanced money manifestation training and then you also get 60% off of your first month in manifest from power the membership if you wanted to join if you've been thinking for a while like oh I've been wanting to join that membership right now you can become a paid subsac subscriber so get access to everything I just talked about.
• 11:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then you be paying 899 per month and have access your first month in the membership 60% off of the membership price.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's already an incredible deal if you wanted to check out the membership.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: You're obviously paying less to get access to both.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And right now for the first time ever because I'm loving being on Substack, the energy, the vibe, the people there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm offering a sub-stack paid subscriber only chat.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So for example, if you had a question about something in this podcast, you could go ask me there and I will respond.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And everyone in the chat can obviously benefit from the different questions being answered.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm really having the best time and I'll leave an article below so that you can go check out what is on there.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and see if that's for you.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: These specific examples I want to give your mirror neurons and your brain to really understand manifesting money is.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: in the lens of sub-sac.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I have, I'm so grateful to have built this gorgeous community of our it girls here.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm grateful for each and every one of you.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I truly feel like I have the best community.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I've ever seen and the fact that it's online in where online can be a really scary, not fun place,
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and every single client in student that I've had for any courses, my members, they're just the best type of people.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm beyond grateful.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I have an audience already where I would call a community of people that we have found each other, your higher self, and my higher self were in cohoots.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: They made us find each other and we're here and we're so grateful.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: My it girls are very engaged, but I don't have that audience size that like a celebrity has or those people that have been on Instagram forever or even the people that go viral or whatever and have millions of followers and I'm so grateful for that because I would just would not I'm one person.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I would not be able to recognize your names and your faces the way that I do.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I know your profile pictures and I know I know you and we talk in my IGDMs, my members.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I know you and I feel connected and that's the whole point of community.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not interested in the fact of, I just want to feel validated in my ego like everyone.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: just liking my stuff to like it like that doesn't nothing for me.
• 13:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: I only care about the connection piece and obviously bringing in the people that I can help and the only way that I can help and so that we can celebrate each other and be there for each other when we are having lower moments or going through challenges in this lifetime which we we do and we can count on because it's what grows us and that's what community is for to hold you to support you, to share
• 13:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: and me for my validation sake of I used to care like I will be so honest back in the day before I ever really had one of my clients.
• 14:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: I thought the marker of success would be to have at least 1000 followers because of the fact that I was so scared of being seen and didn't even show my face on my social media account in the beginning and then eventually moved over to having my face be the profile
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And those sorts of things, I just thought how I wouldn't feel successful until like other people found what I had to say to be value.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Like my account started with sharing my words, like sharing quotes and sharing things that had helped me and had benefited me.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And my mindset and how I learned to manifest.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's what I shared in the beginning.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And until other people saw it too, I just didn't feel like it was worth
• 14:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like it was too scary to be seen if no one else was interested and then I have people from my nine to five in high school and college finding my account and I didn't have that external marker of success.
• 14:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I just didn't feel like that was success and it felt like why am I pouring all this time and energy in my heart into this.
• 15:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: If other people don't see it too, therefore what we're all taught to believe is the marker of success would obviously be having
• 15:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: 1,000 people, or even whatever that number is for you, and we're taught, like I said, from all those posts and everything.
• 15:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: I got 100,000 followers in this many months, or a million followers in a year, and we're taught to want that.
• 15:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: We're taught that that's only the marker of success, and anything less than that.
• 15:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: You could be so excited about, and I was excited about every one of my followers in the beginning.
• 15:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just talking about the beginning, where
• 15:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was like trying to grow the account right like how do I grow my account and I wasn't thinking about the people and if you actually think about how many people 20 people are in a room like if you had 20 people coming over to your house right now, I wouldn't have places to sit for all 20 people in my room.
• 15:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: And all 20 people were showing up to hear what I had to say.
• 16:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: So those 20 people had to see value in the work I was creating.
• 16:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then we can actually feel that way.
• 16:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: But then we see these, you know, it's really a contagion of being online, of feeling like, okay, I'm so excited about this.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But then this person has, you know, 50,000 followers.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And now you're that your balloon got deflated.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And you're like, oh, I guess that's not that much.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: Or it's not that great.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: We are taught to seek the external validation and if we don't have it and then even when we do feel like we have it, but then someone else tells us that that's not enough and we compare and go well.
• 16:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: they must know something I don't and I need to learn what they know and I need to grow my account and it's like a who cares about growing your account.
• 16:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: The only thing we should care about like the whole point of it was to actually connect with people in the way that I am so beyond lucky to live in the time and age that I do even at times when the world feels a little scary and there's AI and there's X, Y, and Z.
• 16:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I have clients like I have so many clients that live in Australia in the UK and I would never ever, ever, ever be able to even meet these people, let alone have these incredible sessions in this connection with them of being so lucky I've met these people without zoom and telegram and the internet without Instagram where I met them or through the podcast app that you're listening to on right now that you found me and them we eventually connected and did a session together I could not know these people so it's absolutely phenomenal.
• 17:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that is what I now focus on and it did take a lot of work of tripping off the programming of feeling like I wasn't good enough if I didn't have X result, whatever it is.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: And for a while, I used to care like for a long while.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: I used to care about how many likes I got and how many shares and saves on my posts.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: and it just felt like even if I was so excited about a post like it whether it was a carousel or this was I think before there was reels but I used to care so much about this but it's like then you feel like embarrassed or why did I even post that and I was so excited about it and obviously only five people were
• 18:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: 30 people liked it and again, it's like think of all those people showing up to your house and they found value in that and they either felt like that was something they really needed to hear it really impacted their life or they felt like they wanted to support you in your work and say like, hey, I see you and that's what that like was that's what that save was that's what that share was.
• 18:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I used to let that really affect me and what's so silly about this and I want you to hear this too If you do feel that way even if it's not a business thing and it's your personal account And you shared pictures from your vacation or your birthday or your pets or your children or your friends And you felt like it fell flat and you're like, oh people don't kind of like not posting it
• 18:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: whatever it is that you're feeling with so silly about this.
• 18:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, it's not your fault because it is what we're taught to believe that it's not worth anything if it doesn't get x.
• 18:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's just about tripping off that contagion of something that we've taken on that was never ours.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: But what's so silly is that we know that the algorithms are weird and that it does prioritize money.
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  [SPEAKER_00]: The company
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  [SPEAKER_00]: that these apps are on and it doesn't matter what one it is, but they're prioritizing money.
• 19:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: So if people are buying ads on the thing, they obviously want people to buy more apps so you're going to see more ads and you're going to see big businesses and big celebrities and where money is actually cycling through.
• 19:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: you're going to see that more than like your best friends post or your mother-in-law's post, those ones come up like we know this and then we're being hard on ourselves that people didn't like us or didn't value us in some way because they didn't like it or comment back or whatever it is but we're like half the people aren't even seeing it and I would say more than half the people are not even seeing it so it's so weird that we take it on as if there's something wrong
• 19:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: where it means something about us.
• 20:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: When, again, it's set up the way that those algorithms are is to make money.
• 20:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why I'm really loving and favoring sub-sac at least in its current iteration is because it feels like it's the before.
• 20:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: It feels like when these apps started with Instagram and TikTok and stuff where there wasn't everyone on it and there weren't all these businesses and these ads.
• 20:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so, and there's nothing wrong with businesses and ads.
• 20:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: Obviously, I think it's incredible that you can make a shit ton of money online.
• 20:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: and do that from your home and do things that you could never have done before the internet, like I think it's phenomenal, but the reality of the situation is like a lot of the connection is missing.
• 20:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: If my posts are not even being sent to my family or my friends or
• 20:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: my members, or my one-on-one clients, we obviously won't have the same opportunity to connect.
• 20:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like, no, I didn't see your post.
• 20:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I had never showed me it.
• 20:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't see it.
• 20:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I would have loved to see it.
• 20:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: I would have loved to connect.
• 20:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: We signed up, obviously, to follow the people that we follow, because we did find value, or we did like to connect, or we were entertained.
• 21:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever that was, we signed up to do that.
• 21:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: We gave permission, like, please show me these posts
• 21:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then we don't see it, and that's why I like sub-stack because it goes directly into your inbox so that you don't miss these things and even if you are someone that doesn't want it to go into your inbox on sub-stack, you will see the people that you're following.
• 21:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: It like gives you the actual people that you're following on your feed, which is, you know,
• 21:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: mind blowing at this point.
• 21:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's revolutionary that you actually would see what you signed up to see.
• 21:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's why I like it.
• 21:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I find that you can actually have these conversations in this depth and comment on things and the people will actually see the comments and be able to have these discussions and share things that helped for them and build the answer questions.
• 21:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: and I promise you there's a point to this.
• 21:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: I've been painting these pictures in your mind, especially I didn't even know what sub-sac was and maybe I'm living on a rock, but I mean we all are living on this spinning rock.
• 22:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I think it's supposed to be under a rock, but I am a little bit under a rock.
• 22:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know a lot of the things going on because I not a scroller, but I didn't know what sub-sac was up until pretty recently, like a handful of months ago.
• 22:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: In the point of this is to share with you in case you didn't know, it is sharing your words, your expression through articles sharing tools like in the way that I would on the podcast but written form and you know I love long form content which is why I spend most my time on the podcast and not doing reals and stuff because you're able to fully explain things and then there also is short form written content as well.
• 22:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's not a bunch of videos and
• 22:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: short 10-second video real TikTok situations.
• 22:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's short punchy words that change your life too or that make you laugh and the way that I would assume that X or Twitter used to be where that was why people liked it in the first place is it's something that again you connect, you feel seen, you feel heard, you feel understood, you get a laugh and it has both of those things and it's
• 23:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: and turning it stays that way.
• 23:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so that we understand what it is now and that you also are invited to join the party.
• 23:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: But also because as someone that I was saying I don't have this huge audience, I have a very engaged gorgeous.
• 23:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: community of it girls that are really amazing people and that we share very similar values and we are super interested obviously in neuroscience and in creating your dreamiest life that just keeps getting better and better and we don't have to age like everyone else and
• 23:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: We don't have to suffer like everyone else because we actually can define the tools that help us get the gold from the challenges that we're going through, but we also get to move through it and get the upgrade from those challenges, which is why they're there to begin with on our soul path.
• 24:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: But just like I had no idea what sub-sac was, truly zero idea that this even existed up until a handful of months ago, or else I would have been on their way sooner.
• 24:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: a lot of my girls have no idea what it is or they haven't seen like maybe they've heard of it but haven't really spent time on there and maybe it's also not for you and that's totally fine but my audience doesn't necessarily transfer over if that makes sense so it's not like oh I just
• 24:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: The way that a celebrity would be like, hey, get on here and they have 3,000 followers overnight and then 50,000 in a week and that's not my situation.
• 24:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: Nor do I want it to be because again, that connection would be lacking, but I'm basically starting from scratch on there and it's really fun and really cool and for those of you because I get it and I used to fill this way too when I didn't have.
• 24:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: community and when I didn't have clients and I felt like I again was I was working against these algorithms the way that they are and it felt always like I had started to light and everyone else that worked for them and here I was year after year like consistently putting in the work making so much content and it
• 25:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: felt like and I still see that people pop off with their business and they hit all these wild numbers and they're doing all the things and it just goes like wildfire for them and I used to be like okay that's truly great and thank you for expanding what I believe is possible like it is possible to have an online business and is
• 25:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: possible to wake up and do something you love and to work from home and have freedom of your schedule.
• 25:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: And those were all things that I very, very much wanted and I was in corporate for seven years and did not have those things.
• 25:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I couldn't even imagine that being my reality and I'm so grateful that these people share that online that this is possible.
• 26:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I want that for them like I would never want to take away their success, but it just always felt like, yeah, but that's never me like as much as I showed up.
• 26:09
  [SPEAKER_00]: my whole first year on TikTok.
• 26:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: I posted a video six out of seven days and sometimes two videos a day and then the second year I did five videos a week of taking the weekend off and I did get followers pretty soon but they weren't again all and I'm not trying to I if you came from TikTok, you're the best but it was a lot of
• 26:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: not my most solo line members and students and clients.
• 26:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: It was more so I liked this one video and I'll watch your videos but I'm not interested in taking that next step to learn from you.
• 26:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, I was only doing short-term content.
• 26:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't have the podcast then.
• 26:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: There are definitely upgrades and things I could have done to bring in the solo line community faster because a lot of us are long-form content,
• 27:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: I wasn't doing what I consume if that makes sense.
• 27:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I wasn't creating what I consume.
• 27:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was only doing what I thought I had to do from everyone else's playbook of you need to make all this short form content of all these reals.
• 27:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: And these posts that were not actually fully explained something it's more of like 15 seconds of something.
• 27:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: And looking back obviously that's the case, but do you see what I'm saying that I understand how frustrating that is?
• 27:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but you have an audience.
• 27:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so what's cool about this, and why I would invite you to, whether that's the free or paid subscription, you know, you can definitely go over and read all of my notes, so ones that are coming through like the short form punchy notes, and then also there are some free articles that I'm doing too, but you can just go see what it's like and see that I am starting from zero.
• 27:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: And even though I did import in my whole email community in there, a lot of people are not on subsack.
• 28:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: So just because I have more subscribers.
• 28:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: that are getting the emails and the articles straight to their emails, not everyone is on sub-sac as someone that's interacting if that makes sense so they might be reading my articles but not interact with the content on sub-sac so it's not going anywhere where I'm getting like two likes and article I think my most liked article has four likes and it's just so cool like you can hear me I'm like very excited about this.
• 28:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: because I think it's really fun.
• 28:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: I've been a mentor for a long time now and it's really cool for me to start at the beginning somewhere again and I do understand that I'm not fully at the beginning of, you know, not having a community and I get that, but I don't have a community on
• 28:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: Have found me on there and I invite you to come and I hope more do but what's really cool and why we always need a balance these things is like Okay, yeah, I am getting zero traction and engagement if you will I've only been on there a month.
• 29:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I think and so it's just the beginning of that and when I into it and look in the actual financial Contribution is not going to be a lot because like I said the subscription is
• 29:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: nowhere near the amount of financial cash flow that would happen with a course or with my membership with what that brings in or with my one-on-one, that obviously my one-on-one, my herself hotline is a thousand dollars for one session with me and then it goes from there to different
• 29:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: containers like the Power Up Accelerator and Mentorship, but the lowest commitment of financial investment with me is $1,000.
• 29:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: So obviously $8.99 is a lot different and I would need so many people to come in and have that be a financial ad to my business and you can see that's not why I'm doing it.
• 30:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: So do you get like I am still doing this and showing up.
• 30:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: an article a week that is a different topic from the podcast that I'm doing and so basically doing three times the amount of long-form content that I was doing before and I'm doing it not for the financial gain.
• 30:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm doing it for the connection.
• 30:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: And what is cool, so the way that I balance it out to is there is a whole community of it girls on sub-sac that I haven't met yet.
• 30:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: I haven't found yet, and so now I have this new avenue that I get to meet these people that maybe don't listen to podcasts, and maybe aren't on Instagram.
• 30:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now I get to meet all those new people, and for me, I look at it, and it will take me a good amount of time for me to find those people, but what's really amazing, so I've been on their a month, and when I started doing those notes is what they call it, where it would be like a tweet or whatever you would say on X now, I have no idea what you even call it an X.
• 31:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: to you call it, I posted a next.
• 31:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, see you under a rock.
• 31:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: And with that, I would literally get zero likes and what's cool about this is it goes out to everyone.
• 31:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: And those go out to new people too.
• 31:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's kind of in the way that why take talk with so fun the beginning is it goes out to everyone on the for you page, not just people that follow you.
• 31:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you can find new people quickly.
• 31:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: I am a fail fast girl, like when I'm trying something out like this, I will just try a few ways of doing things, like that's the fun of life.
• 31:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's what we're supposed to be doing.
• 31:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I started posting three notes every single day, and a lot of them, I would just get two likes.
• 31:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: And what's cool is that I've noticed now that I'm a month in, some of my older ones are still getting some traction.
• 31:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I have like 12 likes on one of my notes now.
• 31:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: And what I find too is that on the ones that show up on my page, a lot of them were posted like months ago.
• 32:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: So even if you posted something and it didn't do well in the moment, it can still do well later.
• 32:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so I'm just playing and having fun.
• 32:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now that I'm starting to post, I am getting more traction sooner because again, I'm sure that algorithm knows I'm new here.
• 32:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm been here for four weeks or whatever it is.
• 32:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: And but I am going to show up like I am going to be consistent so it knows and it's it's rocking with me now like it's starting to we have like a small momentum like I'm saying I do not see and either things that I can do and I might if I.
• 32:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: have time which I don't right now, but I might look in and be like, okay, how can I bring in these people faster?
• 32:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: But right now what I know I get out of it is I'm increasing skillsets here that I haven't been working on in a really long time and writing is a true true love of mine and I haven't been doing that in a long time because everything obviously is now online.
• 32:57
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I have my degree in screenwriting, it's something that's been a passion of mine for as long as I can remember.
• 33:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I've always my whole life wanted to be an author.
• 33:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now I get to do this in like a small way.
• 33:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I get to write these articles.
• 33:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: And like I was saying now there's a whole another medium of
• 33:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: of it girls for me to meet and to connect with and that might not have been on the podcast apps or aren't gonna see me in my Instagram story again because I don't even rarely post on my Instagram feed So now I actually have something that I'm passionate about and I look forward to showing up on there I feel like it's a really wonderful safe place of connection right now
• 33:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I feel inspired, I feel motivated by the people on their, I'm laughing on there from people that have the best humor and it feels like, you know, those really niche posts that you're like, oh, wow, that is, that's exactly it.
• 33:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so I'm actually enjoying and it's helping me feel lit up about creating on social media.
• 33:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: Again, where I did there was such a time on TikTok that I had so much fun with it.
• 34:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's getting me to actually enjoy social media content again.
• 34:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I said, stories for me is always different, but that's just me talking to you that are already here.
• 34:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like that doesn't go to places to people I don't know.
• 34:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: So technically, if I want to grow my business, which obviously is part of my soul path to do, technically, I do need to continue posting somewhere that will reach new people.
• 34:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: And
• 34:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: because it just has not felt the way I have felt before where it was so fun.
• 34:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: Now, I'm reaching new people on this platform.
• 34:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: So just a different platform and I'm actually enjoying creating on there.
• 34:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: So do you see how there's like this new life, this new passion in myself and in my business?
• 34:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: I am increasing a skill set.
• 34:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then in multiple skill sets because it's not just writing, but it's crafting story.
• 34:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's marketing in some ways like when I'm sharing tools that are in other places or other courses that I invite you to check out.
• 35:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's sharpening my marketing skill.
• 35:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: So there's so many skills being sharpened, there's passion, there's connection, and it's not financial, but it will end up being financial because of the skill sets that I'm building and the connections I'm forming because I'm sure people on there will end up checking out the membership or fountain of youth or agroactivation.
• 35:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that will eventually turn into that, but that's not why I'm doing it.
• 35:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: What's really cool about it and why this ties into manifesting money and what higher self was telling me to train you on today that you might have heard before, but with all these layers and this specific examples and I'm not done, we're only probably halfway through this.
• 35:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: that it's going to help lay in differently because it really is about what you're not seeing that again with intuition you can go in and look, but for someone that's not using their intuition in this specific way of going, okay, how much money will I make from this in the next year with this
• 36:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: posting schedule that I'm on right now.
• 36:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, I can look in and be like, okay, what actions would I need to do in order to increase the amount of soul aligned at girls coming into our multiverse here?
• 36:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that can be done.
• 36:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I might do that when I have more time to do that.
• 36:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: But right now, it's like, I'm increasing these skillsets.
• 36:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: So with the things that you're like, this is not working.
• 36:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm doing all this to make the money manifested in and none of it is working.
• 36:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: You're only seeing the surface and you're not seeing what's growing under the surface.
• 36:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: And the problem, which again, don't be hard on yourself, but give yourself a nice little kick in the touch because this is what we're trained to do is to give up before we see the roots that you've been growing under the surface before they blossom up and again it's like that external thing of like I need to see the result I need to see it.
• 36:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: Tangibly and we're so trained.
• 36:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: I have to have X amount of followers for it to count as a success for me to keep going all only keep posting or only keep creating this or only keep writing the song or writing the book or writing the article and sub-sack if I see traction with it if I don't see it by this amount of time that whatever you've decided then nope, it's not worth it.
• 37:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: what you're not getting is most of us are quitting right before it's about to pay off and a lot of us are also quitting a lot sooner than it was about to pay off and I actually pulled up where did it go?
• 37:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: I pulled up okay I typed into Google because I've heard something like this before but I didn't remember the
• 37:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: statistic that they said, so I put in, what are the statistics of quitting a podcast versus how many people continue like how many people keep going around 90 to 99 percent of all podcasts are abandoned, meaning that simply continuing to publish puts a show into the top tier of active creators.
• 38:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then more statistics, you know, how I just
• 38:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: polls from all these different articles.
• 38:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: Now when you type into Google and it gives you all these numbers from different articles, it says roughly 44 to 90% of podcasts never make it past three episodes.
• 38:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: Research shows over 80% of shows that stop at three episodes are permanently dead.
• 38:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: So people went into all this work to like create, you know, and they're probably so excited creating the podcast title, creating maybe they didn't intro or they put themselves out there
• 38:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: shut, which is like the hardest part is just getting over that fear of being seen and being consistent with it and seeing that it's okay if no one listens at first because again we need to think about what's growing under the surface and half of the battle is just being consistent in going when you have no external validation that tells you what's working when you keep going with it and it's like
• 39:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: No one is sharing this, no one is commenting or liking.
• 39:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's the people that succeed.
• 39:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: And it's really almost impossible if you kept going on any of this with any, I'm not just trying to say social media platforms, but looking at anything you want to create financially or vocationally.
• 39:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's pretty impossible to fail.
• 39:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like at some point, you're going to hit traction as long as you're consistent.
• 39:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: of course there's things that we can intuitively go in and that's the beauty of intuition of going okay what can we do to accelerate this like that's my jam is going okay how can we accelerate this timeline so that we actually bring in our solar line clients or students or the job like your solar line boss and co-workers and everything in the best job for you how can we bring that in faster we can do those things but if you look at it it's like pretty
• 39:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: as long as you're consistent with it and the reason and they're genetically why a lot of this doesn't work is like you obviously don't see the value and what you're creating if you make three episodes and then quit that's pretty apparent that you
• 40:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: are only doing it.
• 40:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you have evidence that people are valuing it, but you value valuing, it isn't enough.
• 40:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: If it was, you would keep doing it.
• 40:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you actually valued what you had to say and you believed what you had to say would have impact on people listening or what you had to write your words were worth reading.
• 40:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: then you would keep writing, you would keep recording, you would keep going, but it's obvious that that value, your perception of the value, your value is incredible.
• 40:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: And we get better at things again with repetition.
• 40:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: The key to life is repetition.
• 40:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: How you change your brain is repetition.
• 40:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: but you obviously don't see that value.
• 40:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: And as we know, everything in this universe, the literal universal laws, everything works inside out.
• 41:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: So if you're going outside and going, I only will see the value once someone tells me it's valuable.
• 41:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: And like I said, we're so...
• 41:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: contagionally brainwashed right now that even if someone said that changed my whole life, one person said that to you, it might not mean much to you because you've been so programmed in to think that that needs to be a thousand people, that one person isn't enough.
• 41:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: So even at that point, you might not even think it's enough because you're like, okay, well, that's nice, but that's only one person.
• 41:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: which is actually so backwards crazy like Kuku in the head when we think about it.
• 41:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, I'm right there with you.
• 41:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: I felt the same thing.
• 41:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm not trying to say that this is not normal.
• 41:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: But let's make it normal again.
• 41:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: That changing one life is worth everything in the world.
• 41:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: That it's worth all the work and you putting yourself out there if you change one person's life.
• 41:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: And what that first statistic, the one about about 90 to 99% of all podcasts are abandoned, meaning it literally says this, meaning that simply continually publishing puts a show into the top tier of active critters.
• 42:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: So simply by showing up, you win.
• 42:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: you literally at some point will win.
• 42:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm sure that that's somewhere in the algorithm for podcasts.
• 42:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: I've no idea how that works.
• 42:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I will tell you that I've had multiple one-on-one clients, multiple members telling me that they found me through the podcast apps.
• 42:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I really don't know if it's recommending similar shows or how that works or typing in keywords.
• 42:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: But
• 42:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: My keywords, when I mean it's just like my name, and so I don't think many people that are even typing in manifestation or neuroscience or intuition, I don't think that they would, I don't know, I don't know how it works But I don't think that that would so pop up so simply by people just listening to podcasts in similar interests like somehow they're also finding my show
• 42:57
  [SPEAKER_00]: So just by showing up just by being consistent, I'm winning, just by showing up.
• 43:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is the thing that higher self was telling me when I intuitive, what do they need to hear today?
• 43:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: It showed me and I'm going to go into my flower example and then we're going to circle back and with a beautiful bow tie up the sub-sack example because I'm not fully done painting there.
• 43:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: but recently I was lucky enough to redo my backyard patio situation and make it my theme was Bridgerton and I actually haven't showed you yet.
• 43:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was supposed to show you on Instagram stories and I will do that.
• 43:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: The heat wave here, if you didn't know in Orange County, and I'm sure many places right now has been pretty pretty wild and I don't have AC in my house.
• 43:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's been very, very hot and I've been less
• 43:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: Showing videos because I'm just hot and that's really why and I will show you one, but I planted all these flowers So excited to finally have kind of a little flower situation if I didn't want to go too crazy But I've really been enjoying gardening, which was a surprise to me because I've never really done it So I thought I would just choose low maintenance kind of succulent vibe, but I really did want
• 44:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: Bridgerton things.
• 44:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: So when I went to the nursery, I'm like, what are the plants that don't need a whole lot of effort and attention for me?
• 44:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then I actually ended up building on there a bit with ones that I do need a monitor more because I'm enjoying it.
• 44:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I love, love, love, love watering the plants and maintaining them.
• 44:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I didn't know that that would happen.
• 44:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: So we have cool things happening, but like I said, this heat wave has been really, really wild.
• 44:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like, truly wild.
• 44:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: My plants and flowers also have not enjoyed this heat wave, and I planted them about, I would say, and I didn't know that this was going to happen.
• 44:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: I would say probably two weeks prior to the heat wave, kicking off maybe a month.
• 44:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so in the beginning, things were fine, and things were looking great, and then we really hit, and again, first-time gardener here, so I did ask the nursery what I'm to do with each one, and I was following their instructions to a tea, but things got really sad for some of my flowers, and I got some allicium that are kind of...
• 45:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: a line around so like where the stone ends to now the garden happening I wanted like a border if you will of the Lissian which are really small pretty but like kind of bushy type
• 45:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: bunches of flowers and it creates a border from where the stone meets the other plants and the dirt and everything else.
• 45:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it just looks really, to me it looks better than like I don't know if that's accurate, but I love them and they were doing great.
• 45:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then they started wilting and not making it and it really bugs me because again, a plant like a flower is a live thing and to see something dying, like really doesn't sit well with me and it makes me feel like I did something wrong because I'm learning.
• 46:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so when I went back to the nursery, they were basically like, you need to water the more, even though it was
• 46:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: not what they had told me the first time.
• 46:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I think it was because of this heat wave, like it just really difficult right now for any of them to feel comfortable, which I get because we're all going through it.
• 46:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of them didn't look like they made it where again, I'm doing a border around the area.
• 46:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like a line of them that goes around the whole
• 46:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: dirt and different plants and stuff.
• 46:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: So there's a border around the stone.
• 46:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: And making, I'm trying to make this clear because if some of them are missing, then we have like a border and then there's like these big spaces in the border.
• 46:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: And when I looked at it, my mom looked at it, she's been gardening her whole life and when she looked at it, she was like, okay, we're probably going to have to get some more to fill in those holes later.
• 47:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: But let's just, you know, see how it goes and get through this heat wave and then we can always go get more and fill in those holes where those other ones died like they're not there anymore and she was like we should probably pull up those roots by Mike let's just let it hang for a second because
• 47:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: We don't know, like they could come back and she was like, me, I don't know if it's going to come back.
• 47:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, let's just see.
• 47:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I keep watering, keep watering.
• 47:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now I didn't buy any more in the full border is almost full again.
• 47:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: So those ones that looked like there was no chance.
• 47:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: They were working on it under ground and me watering it, being consistent with those ones, which I actually water them every day and with those, I was originally told you water them like every four to five days.
• 47:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I've been so consistent with it and I look forward to doing it and I show up and I water them even though it looks like like when I tell you it looked like dried up.
• 47:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: roots that were like they looked like weeds with nothing there.
• 47:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I just kept watering the bark like the dirt We're nothing was there and I just kept watering the whole line even though there weren't flowers there and it was like there's no way And it's been coming back up in those places So I don't even think I'm gonna have to buy any more and there's actually patches with the white flowers coming out now
• 48:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: So this is what I wanted to show you and that's what I yourself wanted me to tell you is that when it looks like it's not working and you're literally watering dirt with like dead roots coming out.
• 48:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: That is your perception of what's happening but that almost always is not happening.
• 48:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: Almost always it is that you quit before
• 48:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: the flowers and the plants come up through this oil like that whole time every day I started watering which it took I want to say a full month where it looked like I was watering dirt with nothing there at all besides the little
• 48:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: little tiny pieces of dead looking roots that were once gorgeous lovers like they they started beautiful like when you get them from the nursery they come fully bloomed and then they do have that shock thing when you put them somewhere else and but they looked like there was no chance like there's absolutely no chance and then like I said big patches of that line were gone and I just kept watering it even though it looked stupid like I honestly felt stupid
• 49:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I kept with it and it came up and now they're gorgeous flowers and patches of green coming up through there and there's parts that so there was like a line that looked good Everything was starting to die but when I started watering it started coming back like everything was wilting and then when I started watering where it started filling up again, but there was a huge
• 49:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: space between the two lines and a bunch more space at the end where those are ones that's still are coming back.
• 49:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: But there was a huge gap in the line.
• 50:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: Now they're fully connected.
• 50:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: They fully met each other and they're like growing together.
• 50:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: So this is what we do most of the time with money manifestation and with also career what you obviously need to open up.
• 50:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: avenues in which wealth can come through like money has to come through physical avenues because that's the universe that we signed up for.
• 50:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: It has to be always have to do the energetic in the physical.
• 50:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you can be doing the best best best best best best money ingredients in the whole world.
• 50:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: But if you don't have the actual avenue in which the money can come through.
• 50:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: So like you don't have
• 50:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: bank accounts set up.
• 50:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: You don't have an actual way for people to pay you, or, you know, whether that's a job and a side hustle, like I used to have, or whether that's a business, and like in your business, how many avenues do you have open for that money to come through?
• 50:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: For me, and I make fun of myself all the time, in the very beginning, I only had the membership.
• 51:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: And the membership is all I wanted to ever create.
• 51:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: I wanted to just make the best thing on the internet.
• 51:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I truly believe that it is.
• 51:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's phenomenal.
• 51:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: But when we look at it, it's only X amount per month, which is about the price of like a door to ash and Uber eats.
• 51:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's X amount per month.
• 51:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: And in order to sustain a lifestyle like even a lifestyle that I live that I was used to with having a nine to five,
• 51:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: you have bills and you have utilities and we are not supposed to have to suffer in this lifetime financially.
• 51:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: We're not supposed to have all of our mental strength and time and energy going to worrying about finances.
• 51:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like that's not, we're not supposed to suffer.
• 51:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: We are supposed to learn how these things work and get our upgrades in
• 51:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: and have challenges that actually make us be able to make financial risks and big decisions without having us like emotionally crash out.
• 51:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it's all part of learning things, but we're not supposed to be worried our whole lives about how to pay our bills.
• 52:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: And when if anyone's been in financial struggle before, which I feel like most of us have, that's all you can think about when it's happening.
• 52:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's like everything goes to that and how we're used supposed to help other people and be the genius that you are in being
• 52:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: the incredible sister and wife and mother and cousin and boss and coworker and like all these things if that's all you can think about and all of your brilliance goes to that.
• 52:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: So that's not the best use of your genius and it's not a fun way to live.
• 52:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: I went a little bit on the tangent but what I was going to say is the wealth avenue that I thought it all has to come through here.
• 52:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't logically
• 52:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: And it also, and it doesn't mean that I have more members and the membership than I could have ever dared to dream before.
• 52:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that I'm beyond beyond grateful and it's still my favorite thing.
• 52:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: But that also took years for me to grow.
• 52:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: And also, when we open up more avenues, you don't tie
• 52:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: the universe's hands behind your back and go, it has to come through here.
• 53:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if it has to come through there, then there's a lot of beliefs that you need to make sure that you have in place.
• 53:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then there's a lot of actions that you also have to have in place of meaning that means you need to bring a larger amount of people in.
• 53:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you're going to sustain your whole livelihood based on a low ticket,
• 53:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: offer.
• 53:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you have a high ticket offer, you obviously can bring in less people and make the same amount of money.
• 53:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: But if you're only going to have one low ticket offer come in that again is like the price of an Uber eats, then you have to have a lot of people that come in which means you need to reach a lot of people and you have to have spoken to them in the way that they go, that is me and I know she can help me and that is not
• 53:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: the easiest thing I'm not trying to put any limitations, but it's not the easiest thing to do really, really, really fast.
• 53:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I actually just had a friend message to me today that was talking about how she has multiple one-on-one clients that are not continuing with her of like their contract was was closed and they're not resigning up again, which happens like when people go through container and then
• 54:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: often that means new clients are going to come through and whatever and she was asking me about my membership and was saying how amazing that is that there's money coming through every single month with that and I agree and also it's something that that is not typically and I don't want to limit anyone but not typically something unless you do have one of those bigger audiences I was talking about where
• 54:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: it's many, many, many, many, many people already there.
• 54:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so that's easier to speak to them, and then they sign up for a lower ticket thing.
• 54:43
  [SPEAKER_00]: But it's not the easiest thing to build overnight of having the same level of the money that she would have been making in 101, which is a high-ticket item, and have it replace that.
• 54:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: So starting with a membership right now,
• 54:57
  [SPEAKER_00]: isn't going to bring in the same, it's just not going to be the same thing and it's going to be a lot of beliefs that she would need to hold in order to have all those people come in.
• 55:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: Even though she already does have an audience, that means a lot of posting because again,
• 55:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: less than half of the people that you're posting to of your community are seeing what you're posting.
• 55:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: So that means you need to what you think you need to post.
• 55:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: You probably need to post like 10 times as much for them to actually see it because of these algorithms and things.
• 55:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: So that requires a lot more physical effort on her side to bring in a lower ticket situation.
• 55:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: Right away, that would replace that one on one income.
• 55:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: It would be a lot easier for her to open up another hired ticket thing or talk about her high ticket thing and have them come in there and have new clients come in and fill those spots.
• 55:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: Do you see this?
• 55:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: How?
• 55:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you only have one wealth avenue open, the universe's hands are tied behind your back, even when you have the best financial ingredients that it's like people are so attracted to you wanting.
• 56:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: They're like, I don't know what this is, but I know she has value here that I want to be a part of I want to learn from her, whatever it is and whatever industry that you do, even being a service provider in the way of which, you know, I am too, but a service provider in the way of
• 56:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: maybe you're a manicurist or a hair stylist or a makeup artist or a tennis trainer or whatever it is it's like people are like oh I want to learn from them or I want to take their service or if you're in a 95 I want to hire them or promote them and so you can have the best best things but
• 56:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: If there's only one avenue and you don't have the belief, like even this could be a belief holding you back, like maybe you were just promoted three months ago, so now you're like, well, there's no way to increase my financial flow because they're not going to give me another promotion.
• 56:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: I just got one three months ago.
• 56:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: So do you see how that ties the universe's hands because you're like, that doesn't make sense and I can't get behind it of believing that I could get another promotion that soon.
• 57:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: So that you just cut off that avenue for the flow to come through.
• 57:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now there's no other place for it to go.
• 57:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: So like you have everything set up energetically, but physically it cannot land in your bank account because there's not an avenue that you actually believe that it could come through.
• 57:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is another thing that I actually saw with a client recently and one of my friends recently were both at their companies told them that they were going to be paying them less.
• 57:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: one of them it was like you're going to get less of a bonus or something I'm not remembering all the the specific details and the other one was we are waiting on more funding to come in.
• 57:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you will get paid less like they're getting less of their salary and then it should be filled at some later point but it's going to be a while.
• 57:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: So both of them had that happen.
• 57:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: And in both cases, that then gives you, obviously, the belief that you're not having it come through there.
• 57:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you're like, if I want to increase my financial income, that it can't come now through my job.
• 58:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if you only have the job set up and no other avenue that it can come through, then it's like, it's almost like having the water rushing up against the dam, but it can't come through because the dam is there.
• 58:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: rivers or something from the dam now it can flow through all these different rivers into your bank account but if you only have one river it can go through and that river got blocked off because a big tree fell down and your company said it's not happening like it's not happening soon then now it has nowhere to go and you have it all set up there perfectly for you on the energetics but not the physical.
• 58:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: My friend knows this because we talk about it often, and she sees everything with my financial mastery thing going on.
• 58:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: So she actually did something really brilliant, and she went and got a side job.
• 58:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: So she went and got like a storefront job, and she was actually in there, think she said she was shopping or something, and it was talking with someone, and they were like,
• 59:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: you would make an excellent manager and this is what I'm talking about when your energetics are amazing that they'll go oh like you could just be something and they go you should work here so now she's able to do something while like open up another avenue, while that other one feels stopped up right now until she can feel like she can open that up again which
• 59:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: She cuts through beliefs.
• 59:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: It is, you make it harder on the human.
• 59:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: The easier way for the human to get, to energetically get behind it is to open up another avenue because then you can see like, oh, it could easily come through this.
• 59:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: And again, there's so many options of whether it is something in person like hers is working out a storefront or online of
• 59:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: opening a sub-stack or opening a offer online of there's so many cool things like what are those called teachable and all those things that people are looking for your genius and they want to get it from you but if you don't have the avenue open they can't pay you.
• 1:00:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: remember the flowers in my backyard of it looked completely hopeless and most people would have stopped watering those ones and most people would have pulled up the roots and then like let's go get new ones.
• 1:00:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: This isn't working and most people wouldn't feel stupid watering this like bark where the flowers are no longer there like they're they're not there and you're just watering
• 1:00:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that is how when you do it, when it looks like it's not working, that is how those gorgeous white flowers and the greenery around them burst up from the surface and it was so fun because my I showed my mom and she was so shocked to see that those ones had came back because again, we're in like extreme extreme extreme extreme heat to and they did not it did not look like it was going to happen like everyone would have bet that they were not coming back and I honestly would have bet to.
• 1:01:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: But something in me said, keep watering that dirty and I did remember with this statistics on the podcast that most people, 44 to 90 percent, I'm sure that there's many articles and that probably looks at different sectors of what kind of show and topics that people do.
• 1:01:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: But 44 to 90 percent of podcasts never make it past episode three, 90 to 99 percent of podcasts are abandoned.
• 1:01:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that just continuing to publish, just showing up, continually putting out episodes, puts you in the top to your active creators.
• 1:01:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm sure the algorithm goes, okay, this show has been on for a full year.
• 1:01:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: So let's keep showing this show to other people that have similar interests because we know that this,
• 1:01:49
  [SPEAKER_00]: this creator behind this podcast is going to keep showing up with new episodes and these companies that run these platforms, apples, Spotify, they want people on the app.
• 1:01:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: So if you keep showing up, they're going to send people to you and I don't know the ins and outs.
• 1:02:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I've never thought to look into it of those algorithms, but it makes sense that if most shows don't even continue,
• 1:02:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: that if they want people on the app they're not going to show shows that are dead and not that's what it calls it dead meaning they have not released a new episode they're not going to be going hey go listen to this because that gives the opportunity for the listener to go
• 1:02:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: Well all these shows that I've been recommended have no new episodes.
• 1:02:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: So why am I on here?
• 1:02:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I'll go find somewhere that has new content that someone is actually showing up and giving value or giving entertainment or giving connection.
• 1:02:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I would like to go where someone actually finds it to be valuable.
• 1:02:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: So they're showing up.
• 1:02:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you don't find your work, your creations, what you have to say, whether through spoken word or written word, if you don't find it to be valuable, which is pretty apparent if you don't show up, whoever is going to find it valuable, whoever is going to share your podcast with other people, save it, show up, you know, every two, two days and go, we got a new episode and show up on Substack and go, I know that this girl is going to show up.
• 1:03:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I will show up like who shows up when you
• 1:03:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: The person that you're trying to show up for doesn't even believe in themselves enough to show up.
• 1:03:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: Most people are quitting when it looks like the plant is dead when it looks like it's never even been there to begin with and it's never going to pop up from the surface.
• 1:03:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: Most people stop before they even have the chance to get good.
• 1:03:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: I say all the time, I'm sure my first podcast episodes are not great.
• 1:03:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know
• 1:03:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: that my first TikToks of years back were not good.
• 1:03:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: I used to put on all those filters, remember that was the time on Instagram too, where you put on all those filters, I looked crazy like sometimes.
• 1:03:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: It pops up on the, like, remember this, and it will show me like a thumbnail of myself.
• 1:03:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: And it had like, I had like the biggest, I'm calling me in it because it, I looked like an alien like thing, because
• 1:04:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: it was like every poor was gone and made my eyes bigger and my lips really big.
• 1:04:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I mean, it's like, what were we doing?
• 1:04:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: No one knows.
• 1:04:11
  [SPEAKER_00]: But at least we were showing up.
• 1:04:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that is how I used to show up.
• 1:04:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm sure that those first videos.
• 1:04:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: I remember even just like I used to have that pause.
• 1:04:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: I think they call it like a millennial pause before you start talking and people already like scrolled.
• 1:04:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like there was things that I needed to learn.
• 1:04:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: And the same way was subs sub stuck right now.
• 1:04:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know exactly like what people are looking for on there and I will keep continually just showing up and testing it out and seeing like, do you like more of this type of article?
• 1:04:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: Do you like more of this type of note into tie back to the beginning?
• 1:04:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: As I said, I would with a bow, that is why I'm sharing this with you.
• 1:04:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: Of course, I want you to come on my sub-sac of course, that benefits me.
• 1:04:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I am there, like I mentioned, for connection, for expressing myself, as a person too, like for the, you know, the first time I feel like it's not just about like, I only can share what I do for work.
• 1:05:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: I am also showing something that I'm really passionate about and I'm showing my humor and my personality and I'm posting things on there, not for
• 1:05:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: anything other than the connection piece and because I wanted to share it.
• 1:05:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like when I feel like I want to share something, I'm doing it.
• 1:05:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: If I think something's funny, I'm restocking it or I'm sharing it.
• 1:05:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so it's more me as just a full person than I think I've been able to do because we know this within Instagram is like you have to be
• 1:05:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: very on topic and you know we've heard this a million times you have to be on brand and and show what you're talking about because of the fact that you barely reach the people that signed up to see you anyway that if you were to be all over the place and like share all these different passions that they're going to be like I don't know what this is about but what I find is that you actually see the things on subsack so that you can go well I'm not really interested in that but I am interested in this but you're actually seeing it and you
• 1:06:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's what I like about it and why I'm sharing it in this example is because I'm starting at square one, the way that I know a lot of you have had clients say to me, yeah, but Caitlin, you have an audience.
• 1:06:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: So sometimes I think you don't think I remember what it was like when I was posting into the abyss, I definitely do.
• 1:06:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: But now it's really cool is that like I'm doing it with you.
• 1:06:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you can see me, where in most people's eyes, I'm sure I'm flopping.
• 1:06:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you look at the numbers of the likes on there is that most of my notes, most of my articles, like I said, my article that has the most likes right now, has a four for likes and the most my note has, I think it's 12.
• 1:06:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: And that's one out of, like I said, I posted multiple times every day since I joined.
• 1:06:53
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so it looks like a flop.
• 1:06:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: I, I'm sure you can hear it in my voice.
• 1:06:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm having the best time.
• 1:06:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I know I'm not flopping.
• 1:07:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: I know that it's growing underground.
• 1:07:03
  [SPEAKER_00]: And even though for me, personally, it's not financial on there.
• 1:07:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, it's, it's not going to make a huge impact on my business.
• 1:07:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: description part of it like I will bring in more income from me talking about my work and then people obviously going to my website and purchasing my courses and the membership so that will benefit and grow the business and bring more equals into our equal multiverse.
• 1:07:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm not doing it for the external validation like I'm doing it in spite of that as you can see if you go on there I'm not having like I'm doing the same thing that often when clients are coming in to build a business and it's hard and I again was there
• 1:07:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I'm actually doing it.
• 1:07:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like I'm practicing what I preach.
• 1:07:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm celebrating every new subscriber.
• 1:07:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: I've had 13 subscribers in the month or whatever it is that I've been on sub-sac, which is amazing.
• 1:08:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's 13 people.
• 1:08:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to hear what I have to say that didn't know me most of them.
• 1:08:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: I think there's a few of our equals on here, but a few people that didn't know me and found me on sub-sac.
• 1:08:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: This is what we need to celebrate in any time you're building anything.
• 1:08:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: a business, if you're building a relationship, if you're building something new, a new passion hobby, we need to celebrate the small steps.
• 1:08:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: I did my first boxing class last week.
• 1:08:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: You might have seen it on my stories and it was so much fun, but well, like, well, I didn't even know the basics.
• 1:08:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: So,
• 1:08:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'll who I went with had already been before and the basics of job and hook and cross and these were not things that I knew.
• 1:08:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so it's just even mentally learning and recording what those things are in my brain of like that's my left hand.
• 1:08:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I have to turn my fist this way so that I don't break my fist and the way that you have to everything is like in your legs and the way that you're supposed to move and not.
• 1:09:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: move forward but stay center all these things even just like the names of things like I was saying so I'm like learning everything in one and then I was so sore for three days after so so sore in my legs and this is what it is like we have to celebrate and go okay it's not going that I didn't know what I was doing
• 1:09:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: The who I trained with is an incredible fighter like a total badass.
• 1:09:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm sure with someone that doesn't even know what a job is.
• 1:09:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: It was probably not her favorite student in the world.
• 1:09:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: Although I think we had a lot of fun.
• 1:09:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I could easily go, you know, everyone else knows what they're doing.
• 1:09:44
  [SPEAKER_00]: And it took me a while to understand what each thing was.
• 1:09:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: And
• 1:09:48
  [SPEAKER_00]: That was really out of my comfort zone, but I can't wait to again.
• 1:09:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: I literally went home and bought my gloves and everything I needed and this is what it's about.
• 1:09:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's like you're not going to like everything fully into like you're the best the best at everything and not be so where whether it's mentally or physically by the effort you put into it and maybe not have the success that you feel like you would have.
• 1:10:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's very normal.
• 1:10:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like everyone starts somewhere and I am starting.
• 1:10:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm doing what I say to do with clients and everyone else.
• 1:10:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: I, you can watch it happen on Sub-Sack.
• 1:10:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: I will be showing up and that is the one thing that when I ask higher self, what do they need to hear?
• 1:10:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: It showed me the ground level.
• 1:10:35
  [SPEAKER_00]: It showed me above the surface and it showed me below the surface and everyone quits before it happens When it's already in emotion, it's already in play.
• 1:10:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's growing the thing that you ask to grow and you put effort in and you quit before it blasts up
• 1:10:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: and it was all right there for you and this is why it can be really cool with intuition to see like you will be successful with this if you keep going with it that can help our human brain to be like okay even on the hard days of I don't see anyone reading my thing I don't see anyone signing up for my offer I don't see any applications that I sent out being replied to for a new job.
• 1:11:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: But I have to trust and just logically, if you keep going at anything, it's going to pan out.
• 1:11:24
  [SPEAKER_00]: There might be tweaks, there might be adjustments, but if you're consistent, it's going to pan out.
• 1:11:29
  [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to get some more good.
• 1:11:31
  [SPEAKER_00]: Why manifesting money isn't working for you is your early.
• 1:11:34
  [SPEAKER_00]: Your early.
• 1:11:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if you just hang in there, stay consistent, know that what you're doing is working because the thing that I see time and time again, I've done it myself many times of, oh, is this, am I missing something here and I'm doing something wrong or it's not working?
• 1:11:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: What if you just trusted that it was and that you're simply early and maybe you're watering bark right now?
• 1:12:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: And it's on you to stay committed until there's a flower there and then there's multiple flowers and then it's blooming and then it's a bunch of these gorgeous flowers and you can't believe like looking back you can't believe you would have ever stopped like I look back and I'm like oh my gosh if I would have pulled those out
• 1:12:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: they were still, they were still hanging in there down there.
• 1:12:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I would have pulled them out before, they're looking great, like they're doing great now.
• 1:12:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: And you're basically shutting off the life to something before you've even given it the opportunity to breathe.
• 1:12:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: If you're comparing yourself to people that have had a really fast result, I would say don't.
• 1:12:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: because often you'll see that those people I've seen it happen very frequently, those people because it happened so fast, they don't have the right skills to hold it, or they don't have the actual stamina to hang in there when you're not jazzed about it, on days that you're tired.
• 1:12:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: on days that you feel less passionate about the thing that you created because that you're human and that will happen.
• 1:13:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: And so they'll quit.
• 1:13:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: Again, they'll quit even if something is making them millions of dollars a year or something is on paper going really well where someone would be like, I can't leave your walking away from that.
• 1:13:17
  [SPEAKER_00]: They're like, I can't do this.
• 1:13:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to do this any longer because they haven't built up like I was saying the right skills to hold it and it's emotionally so taxing on them because they haven't learned how to stick in with something even when it feels like you're in like more of a low or.
• 1:13:36
  [SPEAKER_00]: the business needs to grow, but you need to add in a new factor or a new wealth revenue like we were talking about.
• 1:13:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: You need to add in another path like another river like we're talking about with a dam, because to keep things even creative and exciting for you and feel like you're expanding and growing, because everyone will plateau if you don't
• 1:13:54
  [SPEAKER_00]: create new things, increase your skills, create new courses or create new offers and bring doesn't mean you need to do new things all the time all the time but creating new things that make your business better make what you have to offer better and keep learning and growing.
• 1:14:09
  [SPEAKER_00]: That's what we're supposed to do is keep expanding in life and breathe new life into your business.
• 1:14:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: so you'll see a lot of these people that had this crazy overnight success and built something really amazing and something they should be really proud of but they don't want to do it for a second longer and often they walk away where they try to pivot to something completely different because they did the fast money thing of okay I follow this roadmap by do this but they didn't really care about it to begin with and so now that they're seeing oh this isn't really what I wanted to do
• 1:14:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: So don't compare yourself to people like that.
• 1:14:41
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's wonderful to be like, wow, these things are possible.
• 1:14:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: But imagine what's possible when you're actually passionate about it and often when you feel like it's not working.
• 1:14:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: Higher self is making sure that you will hang in there so that when your business is really successful.
• 1:14:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: It pushes up from the surface.
• 1:14:58
  [SPEAKER_00]: You have this gorgeous flower, the score just tree.
• 1:15:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: When the winter comes and the flowers fall off, you don't immediately go rip up the roots of the flowers because you know you've been through things like this before you know how to move through the different seasons of your business, the different seasons of life and you understand how to hold something and tend to it and breathe new life into it, you're not stuck.
• 1:15:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: in freaking out when you feel like things get little stagnant sometimes are you plateau you're like oh okay maybe that's an invitation for me to create a new course with new tools and design new tools or that's an invitation for me to do something a little bit different that might be a little bit more challenging for me that's what higher self is growing in you and you're quitting
• 1:15:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: and basically proving higher self to be right and putting you through this challenge because higher self is trying to get you to hang in there and learn these things.
• 1:15:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: But then you keep quitting and trying to start a new plant and new thing.
• 1:15:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: And higher self is like we're not gonna let this bloom and blossom until she gets it that you have to stick in here with this be consistent.
• 1:16:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: Even when no one's watching or when the money isn't what you wanted it to be or the external success of the numbers are not exactly where they need to be.
• 1:16:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I did want to point out that even with mine where I've said, I am starting not totally from square zero because like I said, I do have my email community that is invited on there.
• 1:16:23
  [SPEAKER_00]: So they do get my emails even if they don't show up on the subsack app.
• 1:16:26
  [SPEAKER_00]: Them's like they don't show up and open the app or the website.
• 1:16:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: And my open rates are incredible, meaning about 50% of my entire list of these thousands of people are opening the emails.
• 1:16:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: I think because they've stayed in it, so even though I'm getting no likes where someone would go in and look at my article and again see that I get two likes, the most I have as four likes on my article, I am having thousands of people read them and hopefully getting value from them.
• 1:17:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you can see that even things externally like that are not even what they see.
• 1:17:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's a lot like the flower bush that maybe after I've only been on there a month.
• 1:17:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm doing about an article a week and sometimes too.
• 1:17:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: And maybe those people will want to come see what's up on sub-sac after they've read several of these.
• 1:17:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: And they're like, oh wow, this is really valuable.
• 1:17:20
  [SPEAKER_00]: And there's tools here.
• 1:17:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I also am interested in reading and I've been really wanting to...
• 1:17:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: to get into reading or maybe a huge reader and you want to connect with that and see my recommendations and tell me yours and those things.
• 1:17:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: So I might be building something right now that looks like no one is interacting.
• 1:17:37
  [SPEAKER_00]: No one is engaging because that's the truth that I'm not getting a bunch of likes and comments on the articles, but thousands of people are reading them or at least opening the email and also staying subscribed.
• 1:17:51
  [SPEAKER_00]: So,
• 1:17:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: There could be something with me happening that these roots are growing and they might actually come over on to subsac and actually start engaging and it might more might be happening than what I see on the surface right now.
• 1:18:05
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I am promising you.
• 1:18:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: like I tell you to do I'm not going to quit.
• 1:18:09
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to be consistent in the same way with my podcast.
• 1:18:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was consistent every week for the first year and then I moved to a schedule that did feel better for my nervous system with the influx of clients that I had at that point, which again was helped majorly.
• 1:18:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sure from the podcast of St.
• 1:18:27
  [SPEAKER_00]: Consistent.
• 1:18:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: I started seeing my business really pop off when I was consistent with the podcast.
• 1:18:33
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I want to say even just like three months of having the podcast, I was having a huge influx of clients.
• 1:18:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: And now what's amazing is I've learned how to schedule myself, so I have the same amount of clients, but I actually am able to give more time to courses and sub-sac articles and podcast episodes because I've actually made it so that and my prices have obviously increased over the years too.
• 1:19:00
  [SPEAKER_00]: but I am able to take on the amount of one-on-one clients that I have and then have that's usually two to three days of the week I take one-on-one clients and then I have the other days to work on these things.
• 1:19:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: So it just depends on what I'm into that month of how I schedule it, but sometimes I have two full days or three full days of being able to work on my articles,
• 1:19:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: because of the way that I've raised my prices and scheduled the 101 clients in the first half of my week so that I am able to have freedom to create new things for more people too that are more accessible through the courses, the membership, and now sub-sac.
• 1:19:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: you're allowed to change your schedule and have a different consistency, but I always recommend staying consistent for a big block of time like mine.
• 1:19:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: I intuitively felt like was a year to post every single week and that really paid off for me.
• 1:20:02
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then once I was past the year mark,
• 1:20:04
  [SPEAKER_00]: I felt that every other week would be incredible and I would feel more passionate about the podcast at that consistency in that interval because I had been doing it for so long that it felt like most days.
• 1:20:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was either recording a podcast and tuning what I was going to put in the podcast or editing the podcast and putting it into the system and it felt like a lot of my life was about the podcast and I wanted it to feel like something really special like it to show up for.
• 1:20:30
  [SPEAKER_00]: So now that works best for me, but
• 1:20:32
  [SPEAKER_00]: I was consistent or in the right to get there at a smaller interval than I was at, which I still feel like it's extremely consistent.
• 1:20:39
  [SPEAKER_00]: and one last note on sub-sac what I do find is most people do one article every two weeks.
• 1:20:45
  [SPEAKER_00]: So with these things that if it feels like Caitlin there's no way I could start something new.
• 1:20:50
  [SPEAKER_00]: I couldn't do something like that.
• 1:20:52
  [SPEAKER_00]: Start and be consistent with the frequency that you can do because there's also people on there that actively say I only show up on here when I'm really excited to create and there's a lot of artists on there that totally get that that you want to be in the
• 1:21:09
  [SPEAKER_00]: knowing it's at least one article per month that they're doing, but it could be any time that month.
• 1:21:14
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if they can show up more, then they're going to show up more.
• 1:21:16
  [SPEAKER_00]: So you really can make it work for you.
• 1:21:18
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just using sub-sac as an example.
• 1:21:21
  [SPEAKER_00]: It could be anything.
• 1:21:22
  [SPEAKER_00]: It could be boxing for you that you want to bring in as a passion hobby.
• 1:21:25
  [SPEAKER_00]: It could be a YouTube.
• 1:21:28
  [SPEAKER_00]: There's so many ways and platforms and opportunities for us to express herself and to open new avenues for money.
• 1:21:38
  [SPEAKER_00]: when they don't see the evidence and the people that are truly successful are not rocked by not having the evidence that's working.
• 1:21:46
  [SPEAKER_00]: It's something that they have emotional mastery over of going, okay, I feel a little embarrassed by this or whatever feeling is coming up of
• 1:21:55
  [SPEAKER_00]: I feel not appreciated.
• 1:21:56
  [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, well, where can I show that to myself?
• 1:21:59
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then they continually show up without the results because they know that in time the results have to come and they're looking at their future self going.
• 1:22:07
  [SPEAKER_00]: My future self is going to be so happy I showed up into this.
• 1:22:10
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I've said this before.
• 1:22:12
  [SPEAKER_00]: I am so incredibly grateful to my past self that I showed up when I was so scared of being seen.
• 1:22:19
  [SPEAKER_00]: when I had my nine to five co-workers and past co-workers sending me my TikToks going like, oh look what I found and I was embarrassed and showing up expressing myself and being uncomfortable many times it's led to the life I have today that I absolutely love what I do and I never would have gotten here.
• 1:22:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: If
• 1:22:40
  [SPEAKER_00]: past me wasn't consistent.
• 1:22:42
  [SPEAKER_00]: Even when I didn't know fully where this was going to go is before I had my intuition trained.
• 1:22:47
  [SPEAKER_00]: And I was just following that small soul pull, that small tug, the tug, the tug, and leading myself through those times that I didn't want to be consistent and going, okay, but I know that consistency is part of this.
• 1:23:01
  [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I mean, even the people that grow so fast and do other things, they say that.
• 1:23:06
  [SPEAKER_00]: So everyone says that.
• 1:23:08
  [SPEAKER_00]: And if you're not manifesting money, if it's not working, you're just early.
• 1:23:13
  [SPEAKER_00]: So hang in there.
• 1:23:15
  [SPEAKER_00]: And then you're going to be right on time.
• 1:23:17
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