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27 - How to Get Her to Stop Disrespecting You
Most men think they're being disrespected.
But what if what looks like disrespect is actually fear?
In this solo episode, Alex Charfen tackles one of the most common questions he hears from men: "How do I get her to stop disrespecting me?" Through personal stories from his 22-year marriage, Alex explains why behaviors like criticism, correction, over-checking, controlling details, and constant follow-up are often misunderstood.
Rather than seeing these moments as attacks, Alex reveals how many of them are driven by nervous system activation, past trauma, hypervigilance, and a lack of…
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