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Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere Weds Autistic Man To Older Woman After Backlash · DidiLawren

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  Hello, welcome back to the episode of Bastard Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing up? You're doing great.
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Opium Pastor Apostle
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  Gift Chibuzzo. Now we were sitting down minding
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  our business when Lucky Udu went and interviewed Opium Pastor and
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  his adopted son who is also disabled.
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  Now the interview. Let me just play that interview
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  before we get into it. Is there any young girl or human
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  that is interested in marrying an autistic person?
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  The general overseer of OPM church is interested to get this
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  young man married and they are going to be benefit attached.
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  If you're a lady that think you can get married to him, you'll
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  be put on a lifetime monthly salary and you also get a
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  lifetime accommodation And let let me bring the camera clothes.
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  So let us hear from that. The G on yourself come through.
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  So Sir, you said he wants to get this young man married and he
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  has a condition, a health condition that doesn't even
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  allow him to. So why do you want to get him
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  married? Why I'm saying to getting
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  married is got the sympathy and pity and have on him because
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  right now he doesn't even know what is going on with him.
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  You know, as he's growing and growing that this uncontrollable
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  sexual arch happening to him, he he stays in to masturbate.
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  My faith is let him not, you know, let him not go to a state
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  that he will just maybe hijack HIV and forcefully, you know, do
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  something. So they just out of that
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  sympathy. OK, let me let me money out.
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  I'll play the bright rise. You know, I mean, I mean for the
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  person that the person we receive accommodation.
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  Life. Yes, in an estate and we
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  received monthly salary for life.
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  For life. Because right now they don't
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  have a father, they don't have a mother.
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  He was just dumped at my gate and after he was dumped, I
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  invited the police. Police came, carried him to be
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  modernised, that is owned by the government.
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  But they rejected him. They rejected him.
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  So now the police now returned it back to me.
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  So I have no choice that they will take care of.
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  I can't throw it out on the street.
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  So I have to start to take care of him or this wife.
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  But now he's growing, he's going to school, he's growing.
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  But this uncontrollable sexual order is going on with him is
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  something that is the cause of worry.
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  And that is why I want to suck him instead of him, you know, a
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  lady carrying him. No, who pay the price.
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  It doesn't matter the age of the lady.
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  When I say young lady, old lady, grandmother, it doesn't matter
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  as long as you, you because my, my I have so much sympathy.
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  The the the is uncontrollable sexual or even when they are
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  beating him, even when when they beat because I got some of the
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  boys here to be beating first. I got beating me, but that one
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  couldn't handle it. So I have to tell some of the
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  grown up boys here. But when they start touching the
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  next thing, the whole thing is we just rise up.
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  So it's, it's, it's a big, I just pity him because, you know,
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  he doesn't know what is going on with the system.
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  Now, first of all, I want to appreciate Apostle Gift Chibuzzo
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  for doing a very good, fantastic job helping people, helping the
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  less privileged. According to him, he has over
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  500 children that were dumped at his gate and he is feeding,
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  taken care of. He has over, I think he said 20
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  estates that people are living in, people don't pay rent.
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  He has schools, he has hospitals to, and we all know the story of
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  the happy boys where he helped them to travel to Cyprus.
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  And those ones, those ones felt like celebrities.
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  And they are back in Nigeria. I don't even know where they are
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  right now, but they they, they, they've asked for forgiveness
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  from Apostle Chibuzzo. Now when this video was
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  released, a whole lot of it triggered a whole lot of people
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  because these are some of the challenges that families face,
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  especially the woman who is going to marry into such
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  families. Because in African culture,
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  especially IBU culture, when a the boy child is misbehaving,
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  they still finding me wife. When he is not acting right,
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  they still finding me wife. When he is, you know when he's
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  they just say getting me wife as if the woman is the
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  rehabilitation centre. I can understand from, you know,
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  I have brothers, I have cousins, I have nieces and nephews.
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  So I can understand from both sides.
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  I can understand maybe if let's say my younger brother or my
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  elder brother or a cousin of mine or a relative is not, you
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  know, doesn't know how to manage money or doesn't know how to
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  handle situations. You can say, OK, you have to
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  marry somebody who you, you can advise, you know, you can Give
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  your opinion to say, OK, you have to marry somebody who is
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  better in these and these areas that can help you to manage your
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  money. If it's somebody that doesn't
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  know how to, doesn't have discipline, you can say, OK, you
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  have to marry somebody who is going to bring discipline to
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  your life. You know, sometimes you have to
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  advise people in terms of who they marry just to balance
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  things out. It happens on a daily basis.
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  But I think in terms of disabilities, people have
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  disabilities, you know, it's, it's not something that anybody
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  prays for. You can have a very healthy
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  pregnancy, give birth and then that child can, you know, come
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  out with a one or two disabilities.
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  There's no control over that. So it's it's not something that
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  I am even going to torch because we've seen a whole lot of people
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  who had disabilities get married and they're being bashed online.
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  For instance, you could be Unkubi and his wife, they had a
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  child and the child is, you know, just like Unkubi and
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  people has been bashing them, especially the wife, attacking
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  the wife saying that why would you marry Unkubi or why would
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  you even have a child with Unkubi?
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  So sometimes women and Unkubi, he's he's not disabled.
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  Yes, he has dwarfism, but he is not disabled in the terms of OK,
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  he's not OK, he's not autistic, let me put it that way.
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  He is not autistic because disabilities, they have
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  different spectrums of disabilities.
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  So his is not as severe as, you know, an autistic child who
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  doesn't know how to speak or who doesn't understand his
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  surroundings, which is the the case of this particular young
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  man that Apostle Chibuzzo is seeking somebody to marry.
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  People were angry. People were annoyed because they
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  said women are not rehabilitation centres.
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  If you have a child that is, you know, not all right, getting him
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  a wife will not solve the problem.
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  And then Apostle Chibuzzo did a follow up video where he said,
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  listen, I'm a pastor. I am a man of God.
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  I understand. But people were suggesting to
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  get him, you know, a caregiver who can also service his sexual
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  urge. And then he's saying that he's a
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  pastor, he cannot pay for such services.
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  So for him, it is better for him to get a wife for for the boy so
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  that the wife can take care of him.
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  He doesn't matter how old the person is, preferably somebody
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  who can't even give birth or he said somebody who can give birth
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  because he talked about him having a child or something like
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  that. So people were mad.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, our dear young guy is married.
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  Somebody lady stepped up or stepped forward and presented
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  herself. As you know, the wife, she was
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  accepted and they had their wedding.
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  He was smiling. It warmed my heart because
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  regardless of how you want to look at these things, and also
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  she was offered because according to Apostle Chibuzzo,
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  if you're going to marry his son, he's going to give you a
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  house, set you up. And he gave this lady 10 million
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  naira for accepting to marry his son.
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  She's also going to live in a free accommodation.
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  She's also going to have, you know, access to different
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  things. So if you look at it, I mean,
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  she's old, elderly. So maybe she she's a widow or
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  maybe she, you know, I don't know the situation that made her
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  to accept to marry this young man.
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  But we wish them all the best. At the end of the day, I think
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  regardless of how you want to look at these things, somebody
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  always will present themselves. Somebody will accept.
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  There's only somebody for everybody to be sincere.
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  And we can say that 10 million naira played a very huge role in
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  the decision that this woman made.
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  With the whole economy right now, somebody giving you 10
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  million naira, giving you accommodation, promising to take
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  care of you as long as you're taking care of their son, It's a
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  very, very, very lucrative offer that most people will not
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  accept. Now Fermi Altadola's son, only
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  son, he is also autistic and a lot of people have been applying
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  to be his wife. So I understand the rage.
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  I understand why people are angry with Pastor Chibuzzo or
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  Apostle Chibuzzo. I understand why people felt
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  that he is trying to play on the minds or the financial hardship
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  of of some women who would accept that offer.
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  I understand it. But Otterdo la Femi Otter the
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  last son female like anytime that boy deposed that boy's
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  picture you go to the comments section bodies people with BBL
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  liposuction breast enhancement like you know Instagram bodies.
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  They are presenting themselves to be the wife of this boy
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  because they know. Just imagine them having a child
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  for a billionaire for female Tedola having his only hair or,
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  you know, the son can't inherit because of his condition.
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  So any child that the person is going to bear is going to be,
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  you know, the, the, the sole appearance or the air appearance
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  to whatever empire that Femio Todola has built.
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  So regardless of how we want to feel about this situation, it's
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  it's not the first time he rubbed me the wrong way until I
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  sat down and actually thought about it.
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  Him as a pastor, I understand the fact that he couldn't just,
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  it could have been easier for him to get his sex worker and
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  pay her. But I think morally he's looking
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  at it in his moral and also the religious aspects of things.
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  Trying to get me wife would be more justifiable.
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  And we've had somebody come up, they're happy, they're married.
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  She knelt down, she lay down on the floor.
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  She thanked up us to gift Troubuzzo.
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  And the groom looks happy, he's smiling.
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  But the challenge is that this is a very severely autistic
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  child, non verbal autistic child who according to what they are
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  saying, has a very, very high sex drive.
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  And this woman, I don't know, because sometimes people sign up
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  to things that they are not really aware of.
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  This is a teenager who could literally be doing it like a
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  rabbit, you know, And she, she, she's an elderly woman.
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  I'm just, I just feel sorry for her coochie, to be honest with
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  you, but she's been paid well. So mommy, get a lubricant.
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  That's all I can say. In my opinion, make sure you
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  stack up your lubrication because, OK, let me know what
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  you think. Do you think that it was right
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  for Postal Choosa to have demanded or to have advertised
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  that lucrative offer for somebody to marry his son?
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  And was he also ethical for knowing that there's this this
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  hunger in the land? Somebody's going to come up,
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  somebody's going to come forward based on their current financial
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  situation. Do you think that it was fair to
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  have put that out there for people to bid?
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