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7 Minutes Of The BEST Motivation YOU NEED! [TRUE STORY] · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  Hey everybody and welcome back to the we are autism podcast.
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  I think this is episode number four which is awesome and I hope
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  every single one of you guys listening has had an awesome
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  weekend and having an awesome day today.
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  So this podcast today is all going to be about motivation and
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  I'm going to try and put seven minutes of the best motivation
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  that you need into this podcast. So if you're enjoying this
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  also follow everyone back as well.
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  So, if you want to give me a cheeky follow, I'll follow you
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  back. No worries.
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  So yeah, seven minutes of the best motivation.
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  You need with the to true stories real life.
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  Stories one is from me and one is from my cousin but it's me
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  telling both sorry. So, here we go.
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  Hope you enjoy. Okay, so basically I wanted to
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  go over something that I feel is super important that everyone
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  needs to know this story because it's super, super good.
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  So, I'm going to tell you two stories.
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  First story is about my cousin John.
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  So I have a cousin called John and he was 69 years old at the
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  time. And so, this is the story, this
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  is how to be motivated and how we've nobody can have any
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  excuses and just super, get more of it.
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  So my cousin John has been A body builder for years when he
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  was younger up in terms of, he was about maybe 20, it was a
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  bodybuilder, he'd go around and he'd he'd try and competitions
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  locally. Never got really any bigger than
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  being like a local competition, or maybe even like a national
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  one, but just in Wales, not the UK, not in Europe and certainly
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  not in the world, and he did, okay.
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  But then his life to go, you know, he got had kids and he got
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  like a normal job. And then he spent his time with
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  his family and making sure his family were taken care of and
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  any, he's been working as, you know Butt off to make sure they
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  have a lovely house and all these things.
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  And it was really cool. He's a nice guy and he just
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  forgot all about bodybuilding and ever did it but his dream
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  when he was a kid. And I spoke to his brother about
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  it, which is another cousin of mine.
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  He said that he always wanted to be a world-class bodybuilder,
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  right? He wanted to be the world
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  champion bodybuilder and you want to be number one.
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  It was crazy because, I mean, that's a crazy.
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  Golf anyone wants to be, you know, number one in the world.
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  There's a lot of effort to go in there, so giving up at 20 years
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  old, he figured he'd never be a bodybuilder ever again.
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  So when he was 90 decided that he wanted to get back into
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  bodybuilding. So I noticed I'd seen him around
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  you know you behind like protein shakes and stuff like that and
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  so he started bodybuilding and he was super old, you know, he
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  hadn't fully built for 30, 40 years or whatever and he was, he
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  was, you know, super out shape. So he decided that he wanted to
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  to body build. So he started working out and
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  really going for it and cutting and do all these things and
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  being really, you know, athletic and doing all these things and
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  he worked nights, right? So it's really difficult.
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  To lose weight. And to build muscle, you need to
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  be awake during the day and sleep at night, right?
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  But he was working nights. So he was having to go to the
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  gym after finished working early hours in the morning and then do
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  it as much as you could in kind of like daylight if that makes
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  sense. So it was a really, really hard
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  task but he never gave up right? You have this gold he's like I
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  want to be a world-class bodybuilder.
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  So okay, okay so he worked out, he worked out and he had a local
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  competition and he went right. Local competition.
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  Okay, cool. You know, 69 year old guy,
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  wintle competition, great. So then he enters into the
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  national competitions. Sorry, sorry he is into the
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  British competitions and he wins the bridge competition, right?
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  Which is crazy. And then he goes for the
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  national ones which is like all of the European countries as
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  well. I think I don't know why they
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  call it that, but it's like a national kind of European one
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  and he goes to that and uh, no no sorry, sorry.
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  Okay, so the two parts of the British one and then there's a
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  national team in division one he goes to the National one and
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  then he went to the National one as well, which then gives him a
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  ticket to go to try out for the European one.
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  Now when he says the European one he fails.
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  He fails he doesn't get it comes in second place in the European
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  one and what would happen if he won the European one?
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  Then he would have been eligible for going into the world one and
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  the world one was held in Florida that yet.
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  So he didn't get the the you know he didn't get the ticket
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  didn't win the European one and didn't get it.
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  Now when he was when he lost he said I'm not going to do it
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  again. I wanted to give it this one
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  year and try to be you know world-class bodybuilder but
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  hopefully that'll be it. Failed.
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  So then he M de not forgotten, you know, Christmas came and
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  not, and then he decided he's like, no January, I'm 70 years
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  old, I'm gonna be, he said, he said to me said, I'm gonna be it
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  will cost money, but I'm gonna be number one and I looked at
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  her and I said, you know, you can do it, do it, man.
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  Do I love people trying to do their passions and do their
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  dreams, so he's like, I'm gonna do it.
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  So, okay, do it. So then he this guy's my hero,
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  right? This is why Sony tried and tried
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  and tried, but he gain the gain, engage in each.
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  He currently worked out. He built himself.
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  So he went along. Chuckles then he won the British
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  ones, then he won the national one.
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  Then he won the the EU one, which is a European one.
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  And then he got his ticket to go to the world.
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  Her competitions in Florida like he's competing in the world
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  bodybuilding contest, and it was last year and he said to me, I
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  seen him when he was, he didn't know how he was going to do it
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  and have to kind of, I didn't know this.
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  You have to pay for all of your, your flight and you hotels and
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  stuff like That because if you haven't won in the, they're not
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  going to pay for you to know, you know, to do all the stuff so
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  you have to kind of stuff. And it also, I seen him when he
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  was shopping and Tesla which is a local store here in the UK.
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  And I went over to when I set some, hey, John, how you doing?
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  And he said, look, I'm raising money because I really want to
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  go and I can't afford all the flights I said.
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  Okay, cool. So I donated some money to his
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  cause I'm really promoted it. You know, this is this is
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  interesting, is the guy who's giving it his all, he's 70 years
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  old. Super inspirational for anybody
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  who wants to kind of doing anything and I thought look, if
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  I don't support him then who am I?
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  You know. So, I supported him.
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  I gave you some money and we managed to raise enough from to
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  go with this is this is causes Pinnacle for get him there.
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  So he gets all the stuff together and I remember seeing
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  before he went I said to him John you know what?
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  Are you nervous? He goes no I'm not nervous.
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  I said why inside look money doesn't motivate me so I'm not
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  motivated by the money aspect of winning a competition like this
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  but I'm motivated by the fact that I can challenge myself
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  because I didn't do it last year and I want to win and I A
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  winning. Look at me dead in the face.
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  It goes, I am going to win this and I'm going to become a world
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  champion bodybuilder side, okay? John that you know, the entire
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  time in the Family behind you, let's do it.
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  So off. He goes, he flies to Florida and
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  we're watching on Facebook live, right?
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  He goes on and he does his thing.
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  And then these huge guys come out, you know, these competing
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  against everybody from around the world in his category,
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  right? And then they announced the
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  winner and, oh, my goodness. He wins the slot.
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  He is the number one bodybuilder.
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  His name is John Moore, And Jones, and you can check it out,
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  world champion, body builder, John Robin Yount, and he just
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  and everyone doesn't know. My name is Daniel M Jones.
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  If you seen on anything and that the time some fun moments.
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  His name is John Morgan, Jones 11, Daniel Morgan Jones and and
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  he wins this tough spot. I couldn't believe it.
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  I just like the determination and I was outrageous and I
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  thought this is a guy who knew exactly what I wanted to do you
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  exactly how he's going to do it and he didn't give up.
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  So if he'd given up and up at the age of 69 that he would have
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  just failed you to fail. Miserably, you would have said
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  okay this is me. I'm done.
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  I'm giving up nothing and even lost that chance, but he stuck
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  at it and he did it again. Now, this to me is a classic
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  example of something. I always say, there's no such
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  thing as failure, there is only learning capability.
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  So if you try something out and it fails, then you go.
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  Okay, that path clearly doesn't work, I'll do something else.
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  You should never give up on a goal because it fails.
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  If you fail on the first hurdle, most people do like, 90% of
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  people going to film the first Turtle.
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  It's very rare that you'll just kind of become an overnight
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  success in anything you do. So we have to stick our stick.
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  It out, stick at it, do your goals and be the best person you
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  can be. Now the same with me, right?
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  I want to talk to you. This is a small story.
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  It's not extravagant as John's but basically I'm dyslexic and I
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  never in a million years thought I'd ever be able to have a book
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  out but I'm dyslexic and I want to have a book out and now I'm
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  an international best-selling author, my books out in three
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  languages on audio CD and on Kindle and and it was just
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  amazing feeling to have a book out that I'd written.
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  And I ever came by finding a Go straight it you know, so there's
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  I'm dyslexic with my Ghost Rider isn't, you know, she's a
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  professional writer. So there's ways around doing
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  everything and overcoming stuff, not never ever doubt yourself
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  because you are able to do it because you are awesome.
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  And just like, John, he failed, and he got up and he did it, and
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  he absolutely nailed it. So remember, hit those goals,
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  don't give up. This is awesome.
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  So that was a podcast, guys. If you enjoyed it, please give
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  anybody who you think could benefit from listening to this
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  motivational piece. Thank you so much for listening.
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  you enjoy this. And I am really looking forward
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  to doing the next episode. I'm going to talk about
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  Asperger's syndrome symptoms in the next episode.
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  So if you're interested in Asperger's symptoms, then
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  definitely check that out and I'll see you in the next one.
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  I thank you so much guys. Peace.