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Yoreh De’ah 221:10-223:4. Vows: One’s Speech, Sefer, Flame vs. Coals, Shofar, Lulav, Benefit To a Son-In-Law · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are in some rich kafala,
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  Santorin Sefiyud, Misha, Nishba on Nador Shalu Dhabi and Kaveri.
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  Some made another. He's not going to speak to his
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  friend. He can write him a letter.
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  Oh, the Dhabi or he could speak to someone else loudly and the
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  other guy you can listen. This is actually quite a very
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  interesting. How lot of you actually very lot
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  of you saw this pop out over here.
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  Number 1 is is I would ask the question, would you be a someone
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  in another against someone whatever about to speak to him?
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  Would you be allowed to text him some what's up things like that
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  or leave a recording? Would that be considered Saab?
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  Would that be considered Daberi? Maher Lahara would be fine
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  because you're not directly speaking to him sort of like
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  like you had before of Hefker. You're leaving your voice on the
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  rock somewhere, you know, for him to find you or you're you're
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  leaving in the air just because the recording.
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  I don't know. I don't think it's it's
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  considered Logora from Saab. Just like by ADOS, someone makes
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  a recording. It's not real ADOS.
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  So, so therefore the horror, the horror that should be, that
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  should be OK. So phone call is is complex.
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  Phone call is complex. We got a Zoom call.
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  Listen, look, look, the freshman say you will go by Lush and
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  Pineta. So nowadays you say I'm not,
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  you're not going to speak to him.
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  The horror phone call will be included.
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  Question for texting being included.
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  Oh, OK. That's the same thing as sav.
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  You know, that's not real speaking.
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  So I would say now that the phone call will be included in
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  that. A couple other interesting,
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  interesting points. The discussion there's a general
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  discussion about is there such a thing as a Shiva Bixav, you
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  know, whatever. It's another thing by by by
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  starting when they write Aksuba as in their their Nishba, not
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  the it's a shuwa in the suba not to divorce or I don't know,
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  something like that. Not to no, no, no.
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  So, so there's a whole discussion.
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  Do they make the shuwa now by the by starting, do they make a
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  shuwa? They don't make a shuwa, you
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  know, depends on the, you know, depends how traditional they
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  are. And that is actually a whole big
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  is actually a whole big say, you know, I don't know, whatever.
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  It's like one of these controversial things by and also
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  there's a question and if they make the shuwa, do they go ahead
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  and they make do they make it? They say it out loud when they
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  read they when they read the suba, do they say it out loud?
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  Or is it enough that he signed that he that let's say he signs
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  on the on the on the sav. So there's a lot of place he
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  would say that she was not called Sav a guy, right?
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  You know, he writes, I promise this, whatever he or person
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  writes a letter, that's not it has to be with speech.
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  How flawed has to be with speech.
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  You see, like, see, this is a little this is like a bit of an
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  add on here. It's not exactly from here right
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  as interesting basically, but also is interesting because he
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  so I don't understand this. It's not He says that what if he
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  makes a Shua not to Megalo sod? So if Megalo sod is all
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  generally, if we're really in someone's secrets is also then
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  how what's I guess the Shua could be called on this or I
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  don't know. It's interesting.
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  It's not sure he wasn't so you know, I don't know, but I think
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  it has a different however, there's something somewhere
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  else. There's also or there there's
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  another right. So this is so it's an
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  interesting thing. Also someone who takes no,
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  sorry, it's it's a Veigar who writes it.
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  He says Vinish Misha Logala Soidoi, the Shimen and Shirley
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  the Hagi, the lady you're Levy Yogi, the Shimen, and this is if
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  he can he tell someone else and someone else will say, just like
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  give me a Montana, I'll give you these things.
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  Would that work? Also Tommy, let's just just know
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  he had someone who makes the time he's D bore.
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  So obviously writing before wouldn't wouldn't be wouldn't be
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  considered being over on any time he's D bore because it's
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  when he's speaking. Also Seefroy El Calvero.
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  He he offers his safer on his friend also Lenez Saluma boy.
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  So then it's also for the person to to learn from it in general
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  at the front and bring is that, well, you know, in general
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  there's an issue because anyway, he's Macalco.
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  You know that he used to have this fire on scrolls or whatever
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  and he starts reading from it. Can there's a whole Shiloh can
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  he can he can macalculate, he can ruin it.
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  There's a question nowadays, does that apply about, you know,
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  a candy Macau? I don't know.
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  Once I I've heard a safer from someone's the new safer.
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  I just was like flipping that's oh wow, the new safer.
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  I just flipping through it and put it on the sender and I
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  didn't put it properly and the thing fell on the floor and from
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  the binding. I was very, very embarrassed.
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  But so I don't know even that, but the shot says it's because
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  well, no, the Shah has sakasha about the Watson.
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  We'll see about blowing shofar because Mr. Slava Henderson
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  news. So what's the problem over here?
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  So over here again, like with Mick Mcfalls and things and he
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  says that since you can rent it out.
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  So it is a side Hana of, you know, the the actual physical
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  safer person could rent out, which nowadays I don't think, I
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  don't think, I don't think it would apply because no one can
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  rent out the, you know, go to the Ganesa nowadays and there's
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  10 and 10, you know, piles of larva or Basra that the
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  something that the Bochum didn't, you know, finished
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  learning this year or whatever. No one can rent out the, you
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  know, Svarum. So I don't know if that you
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  would say Mr. Slav, the head and the head is didn't know when the
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  Chora would it wouldn't it wouldn't ask.
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  It wouldn't answer it. Yeah, no, no.
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  I meant that's fine. Yeah, but you can't.
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  You can't. Yeah, but you can't ask if it's
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  if it's a safer call or something like that.
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  You'll be. But it's safer, safer code that
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  she's admitted. Sofa Henderson.
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  We can't answer that. How?
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  No. On him again.
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  The only reason why it's also it would be also to borrow
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  something strong. There's a whole discussion about
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  that we have over here. The the the reason why it would
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  be would be awesome because you can it can be you'll be magic
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  here. That's, you know, without
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  without someone's. Yeah, so far.
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  We'll see in a minute, right. That that's a different that's
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  different. That's any any object.
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  If you can, if you can ruin it. He can't he can't say Mrs. you
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  know, whatever, right? He says the person he person
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  can't borrow someone's if he's not there.
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  So the guy could be mockbeard because the guy could be all
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  sweaty and gross and you know, and and ruin the guy's towel is
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  ruin the guy's it's villain. He said you have to ask, can't
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  just take it and say, oh, it's a mitzvah.
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  It's you know, people, people can be mockbeard.
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  You obey the mother Hanami Rivero.
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  Also, he can't use his coals because that's a that's a
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  physical. That's like a physical object,
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  but he can go ahead and he can and he can light a match or
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  something from the show, just like by a Chavez, by Goyim or by
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  Zara. You can go ahead and you can.
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  It's considered nothing. There's the flame is not
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  considered anything. Can you light it?
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  Could you light a cigarette from another from someone it's a
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  cigarette or not that will be logar from Ukhalas mother Hana
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  me Kavera tequila tequila show mitzvah.
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  Some of the mother Hana can blow tequila show mitzvah because
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  again mitzvahed Bria and the mother Hana is allowed to be is
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  allowed to check someone's animal for him of all muscle
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  Kenneth. So he met Bria because he's
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  being Macalco. He said Shrita is being Macalco.
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  You have a full animal. Now you're shifting it.
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  You know, it turns into an availing you have meat to eat.
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  That's considered kill cool Shanky muscle Kenneth.
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  So anyway, he's going to die. So then it's a tikkun and
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  therefore is your name Hana youth Gimel Hamodor Hana, Miss
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  Schaefer. Someone makes another from the
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  Schaefer itself Mutil. It's also motor to be took care
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  and it's mitzvah again. Can he can he use it to practice
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  or not Schmitzvah mother Hana I mean my untagable 300 colors,
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  100 colors. That's just 100 colors.
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  It's not 100. Can he answer and say I don't I
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  don't know if you can answer the 100 colors.
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  Is there a button? What no, there Isis 30, but it's
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  dirty, but haven't said 200 so far.
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  It doesn't you know, I don't know from Mahalik between the
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  missus between the the ISIS of the robotic.
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  I'm other I mean my it could be there's a if he says
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  specifically, I don't I don't know, but thinking that there's
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  not going to be no, that's what we said.
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  The safer he by the safer he could rent it out.
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  Otherwise no difference yeah people don't I guess I guess
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  people don't rent rent it out if your grocery can rent out you
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  know the shop says it used to be sorry Rivera so it was a normal
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  thing to rent it out Nowadays it's not.
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  I mean my total about Filo show mitzvah some of them it makes a
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  guy and a guy owns them as a Mayan in his backyard.
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  He can be title about Filo show mitzvah.
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  We mentioned earlier the earlier Simon, because he gets enough
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  from from dipping in the in the in the pool of water.
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  He gets he gets enough from that.
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  There's a discussion of the different and this and this in
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  it is all what's what's you know, what's the difference
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  between Shaifa and Maya Roshanna?
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  I know with Shiman Shimanshkapa has an interesting take on it.
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  He said, he says, because he says that that since since a
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  Mayan or or mikvah, the whole point of the whole point of the
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  whole point of a mikvah is no one has a pool of water that
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  they go into unless they're trying to cool off.
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  So the whole, you know, it could be a the whole at some at some
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  thing is to go ahead and to and to be total in it's to be it's
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  to cool off. So therefore, even though his
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  Kodana's for a mitzvah, but the but the but there's no
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  secondary. It's not a secondary Honda going
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  into a mikvah. It's not a secondary Honda.
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  It's it's a primary Honda going into a hot mikvah.
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  First it goes into a hot mikvah. It's also you go in.
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  I mean, it's the I don't know, I'm not sure.
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  It's extremely cold, you know, like the Iriz mix or they're
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  even colder. So I'm told they went to the Val
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  Shemto's mix and makes Arizona mix for look like a steamed at
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  you know, it's you know, it's very if you're in a very hot day
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  and it actually it actually it's OK, but actually you can go in
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  and out without you know, it's but yeah, you dial it and either
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  or not make a Vera and also know Lulov lot says both someone who
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  was made another made another another.
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  It's his friend and he gave him a Lulov Menashe at Zerenu BM
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  Shaney Yazza, Liam Richon lo Yazza.
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  He's not Yaitsei on on your on your reshine because the reason
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  he's guilty. I'm Shane because this is all
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  the Hennessy new. But here he has to actually give
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  him the Lulov on the first day. It's like it's A and he can't
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  actually give him the Lulov you're giving the Lulu visit is
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  also because of mudurrana and therefore the guy is not you.
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  It's not you, it's in the mitzvah.
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  So the rage of base family politics.
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  So Mudrahan me Hosnoy Hosnoy, someone who made another from
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  his son-in-law. You know that worth of
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  son-in-law. So anyway, who writes the losses
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  libido in most? They say Nan is Baham and he
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  wants to go ahead, but they would give his you know, they
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  want to get you know, he wants to give his daughter money.
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  So you know, the you know, no, he doesn't want to give the, you
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  know, his worthless son-in-law, you know, a sense.
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  But they give his daughter, you know that they'll that they'll
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  do. You know, maybe his son-in-law
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  is is is learning in Kabul. Maybe his son-in-law is just a
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  worthless guy. Whatever.
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  Unfortunately, I mean, let's say that, you know, here nowadays,
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  you know, parents are getting involved in their in their kids
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  Sheldon bias and stuff. Often the marriage doesn't turn
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  out so well. People do have to be careful
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  about these things. But anyway, here I don't think
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  anything involved in Sheldon bias.
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  I don't know They're just saying don't come into my house anyway.
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  So he wants to give her give her gifts and let's see how is it
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  nice in law? You can give it to her.
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  The problem over here is that any so if he gives her something
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  the the the husband's gonna. It's kind of.
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  So what do you do? I'm giving you these things in
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  the Matana and make it tonight. As long as your husband doesn't
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  have her shoes and then therefore he can sell like him
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  from the Kenyan, you know, beforehand and and therefore it
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  works. I let you Lamasha at No, no son
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  of stuff Pitha. It's only I don't know where.
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  It's only that which you what you're using for yourself.
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  Oh Lamasha, what you're eating. Oh Lamasha Tubashi or that which
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  you're that which you're wearing creativism and I feel armor on
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  the Nasha in the ballet for shoes for him.
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  And even if he said it makes this time in the Masha Tirzi
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  Aussie Behem Lokana habao Masha tirzi tasa behem right.
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  Although in a Salamatana Vamar Allah Manasha in the ballet for
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  shoes for him the low Pierce Hey, Montana has a Zeiss the cop
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  the cop. He doesn't specify that this
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  this Montana is going to be it should be used by you for these
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  things. Tasa baham hareza yigner E
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  sahaba. In that case, it turns this
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  money into nefshe melog Nefshe melog about it's Paris Shyla
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  nowadays is an is a really nefshe malog.
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  You know, someone gives his wife someone the father gives us,
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  gives his daughter 200. You know, let's say $1000, I
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  don't know something like that. But pay, there's no pay has to
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  be actual pay payers means you're actually renting it out.
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  So I don't know Uncle Ponim the you know, it's a discussion in
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  Evaneser, but he said in the same look is that he still has
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  Rashus in it because he gets he gets payers from it.
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  If he can rent something out or buy something to rent out.
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  Vaisha Ray, who there was also Sheree who also behind he is
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  also even to give him prophets and things.
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  It's also the Asia aim. So I feel the in the Bible for
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  shoes, Baham Bachiti tasi Baham Kanahaba also, and some say that
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  if he doesn't, if he doesn't say specifically, go buy yourself a
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  dress, go buy yourself some chocolate.
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  I don't know whatever, go buy yourself sushi.
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  I don't know whatever it is that that then he still gets he still
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  he still gets payers and still be going to be ulcer.
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  He has to be specifically to to her, to her to buy something
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  specific. Rayshaf Gimo a mother.
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  Asif Alef a mother asked by Mehanaz Benai.
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  No, so that we said before to support a person's wife and to
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  support someone else's wife his mother that that becomes a nice
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  of you know he even though he doesn't support but it's still
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  it's it's it's it's not to a mother actually Hanaz Benoit and
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  someone someone who is mother his son traditionally just
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  battled a bit me the Moody be should be low says the guy makes
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  a mother right now on the son. He doesn't want his son to feel
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  to feel have a Shibu to go ahead and Mashamish the father.
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  He comes home business my name and a guy going to the base
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  manager. No, I need to help help build
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  the Sokka. I need to help clean up.
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  You know I want to you know, almost feel keep it up there.
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  Hey like all that stuff. Whatever he says.
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  Oh Muturhan. No, you get out of here.
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  Go learn, go go the base matter. She can't Yeah you can't can't
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  do anything for me now Mutur have been the model so hobby
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  show mine the band is still allowed to go ahead and to fill
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  up cover show my cover show my aim.
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  That's I guess that's where they draw the water from the Hathakis
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  in there to light turn the lights on leads us will die
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  caught on or to you know fry up a small fish he can buy go
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  shopping for him if he's not a person that usually goes
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  himself. Let's say he's elderly and he
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  can't go can't go shopping. So you know, so therefore you
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  know, so he doesn't even he's not saving any Hana.
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  Oh, even he Isha shared here as Bana, same thing with a woman
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  who was mother as Bana. These things are considered
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  small, not direct Hana's and they're and they're not.
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  It's only when because they say only when he said he's one of
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  the vital. These are these are small things
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  that doesn't take a lot. It doesn't think it will take
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  time and little Terra to go ahead and do these things
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  actually walking back from the basement issue runs.
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  If he does like a massive shot, fine, but he goes and buys it by
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  some milk in the you know, makes you know, buy some groceries.
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  These things are not These are driving Catanians with her.
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  That's not what he meant. The point is he didn't want
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  Bissell Tara and these small things is not there's no there's
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  no real Bissell Tara involved Bass.
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  I really live no hurray at the also behind us.
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  He tells his son, you, you can't get a Hanover for me.
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  Oh, Shanisha, worth you worthless.
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  Whatever. But Shanisha Bashlai Hanabi in
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  Macy Roshano. If he dies, he's he, you know,
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  he's not he. He's going one step further.
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  He's not only running out of his will.
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  Oh, he's already out of his will.
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  He's mother and I. Get out of here, you can't get
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  any and like don't take anything from me but afu Piquet when he
• 20:18
  died then he's Irish because once a person's nifter then the
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  nether goes away as well. Also Lovan also who Piyush Bhai
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  Bhima Maisi, he mates Lo irishenu if he if he says
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  straight that you can't have on us and then the nether is called
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  on his Mahasim. So so he if he if he's the
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  pharaoh shit straight then not because he's made yeah, you can
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  build mafia. You can mafia the the Rusha, the
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  nether nether came mafia didn't Even so he hasn't been called
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  yet. Sheba came off here the the
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  rusha because it's called on these saying this he's making
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  then the hosting also to this guy Yeah OK again, if you get
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  into if it's not about when if someone lets someone out of the
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  will like you know yeah basically it's not so simple.
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  There are ways to do it. It's not simple, but it's not
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  recommended. But there are there are those
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  different cases are ways to do it.
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  Gimel ALS arbino mejanos of armor Emia Ben Benezet.
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  He asked this is something. And he says that if my if
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  you're, if your son's a Tamil hakong, you could have been
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  these, then you'll get it enough that you'll be able to mark it
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  to you, to yours, to your my grandson, to your son or for
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  you. I guess I raised a bed.
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  Also, when you say the band is still awesome and this this
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  tonight is called his son turns into a Tamil Hakong.
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  Then then he can go again and get Hana from from this and
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  Dalit Zaha Ben finishes this Dal Zaha Ben also be the son who is
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  is also in the in the rusha. He knows in the rusha.
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  If if, if the rusha goes to the brothers.
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  Oh, there's no or or goes to his son, the grandson.
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  I raise the motor. So then this is a way for him to
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  be yurish it. So the urusha, he's not been
• 22:38
  mafia, the urusha. That's him.
• 22:41
  He can go to his he can go, he can go to his urusha.
• 22:45
  Still Kayim just he can't take it.
• 22:48
  So it goes to the brothers. It's Kayla goes to the brothers
• 22:52
  or it goes to his his son, the grandson, and then they can give
• 22:56
  it back to him and that's going to be motor right, The pain in
• 23:01
  param behalfo or if they pay, they use it to pay back Kovos,
• 23:06
  you know, from the estate or for the also he has to speak out.
• 23:14
  But these are the he's allowed to pay off.
• 23:17
  He's allowed to use his scaler to pay off of, you know, Cobos
• 23:23
  and things and he says this is the calic that I was also, he
• 23:27
  was in car ashamed on this calic.
• 23:29
  This is my calic. Then, then, then, then
• 23:31
  afterwards they can, you know, he can do, he can use it for
• 23:34
  that or he can get the money back or whatever it is.