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68: making spirituality + soul food a love language in our relationship ft. kirko wip · Mindset Magic with Mika

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  We're going to show you a way to make spirituality fun and this
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  is for you. If you feel like, hmm, sprinkle
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  now spirituality in our relationship.
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  But how do you do it? So this is where it started.
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  We had our soul food daily routine during the first years
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  down relationship now man, and we made it a daily thing until
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  it became a habit to the point that it's so easy for us to
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  switch from deep talks to this integrated spirituality lessons
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  in whatever we do and talk about.
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  Right. Yeah, that's what.
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  We do. Welcome to Mindset Magic with
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  Nika, where we unlock clarity, courage, confidence, creativity,
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  and connections so you could show up as their most express,
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  most aligned, most unstoppable self.
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  If you are ready to shift into your main character energy and
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  design our life that feels as good as it looks, you're in the
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  right place. I'm Mika Doria, your interior
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  designer, your Mindset Magic news branding goddess.
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  Let's dive in. Ohh and basically on sofa with
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  this leg Ohh negative. Also Pinterest now graphic art.
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  So graphic art relic example you want Nikita manna motivational
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  quotes but mixed with the design tapos.
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  It's another way then to introduce a artist.
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  They must present cause pub Serb Manama art graphic.
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  Art that's super true and it's also a way for us to really get
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  to know each other cause if deep talks are God somehow sometimes
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  intimidating period when we start with something we're
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  interested about. As he said, since smuggling
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  Shank, curator of these things, I get to know him more through a
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  trend and he also gets to know my taste.
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  This is what we started normal first year naming together,
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  yeah, he said. Like almost every night.
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  Every morning. Every morning we get on a call
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  papers then come through through chat.
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  Umm. Let's go with the first.
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  Yes, excited. It's going to be the first time
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  in a long while now we're doing this so fresh flavour.
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  Fresh flavour fresh everything so young start is put nothing
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  needed us So what they gonna arcade Mika and say the most
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  creative app is that of creating yourself.
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  That was you see and orange background and black she's super
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  simple there later more visually where I can be so yes.
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  What do you think about this? Ohh me I like Nah.
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  It goes back to the simple, but now it goes back to the whore of
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  how creativity starts naman talaga from within.
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  That's how I look at it. If you like, creative powers is
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  really in it in all of us. And I love Nah, it reminded me
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  now ohh. Like the most creative act I
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  could do is creating myself. Because however I create myself,
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  however I reinvent myself, that is how I can also express myself
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  to the world. That is also how I can share my
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  gifts with the world based on what I created first.
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  So empowering it. OHH, realization and you.
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  I think now you really like this this art, although it's all
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  text, you can see no one in text first then layout.
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  But I am the most creative app is that of creating yourself.
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  I think there are good because I was because arranging fire on
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  one of my. What do you call this, the way
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  of living the lion? Ohh is like, of course there's
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  destiny, Peter. We have the power to create our
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  own destiny and parallel, and you give your own.
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  You give yourself your own purpose.
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  Yeah, I think anyone of one of the things on being creative is
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  like in freedom. No.
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  And grab him, return on power, save him.
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  So that's our first. Yes, you wanna add instead.
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  I just wanna echo how you said creativity equals freedom,
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  because the creative for me is really liberating.
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  That's why we are creative still, yeah.
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  I also wanna add ohh yeah with like purpose and creativity
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  together, but in in power. But on August, the Somalian
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  teacher said, when I was a kid, how did it go?
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  And now around Ohh, right now I'm planning the pattern, the
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  take up lessons or like certifications for teaching.
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  That's what I want and and I give myself purpose that way.
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  The program just really simple art, no other wire.
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  Ohh, anything off of that? And after that you said purpose
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  because say what came to mind was creativity gives us also the
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  permission to be fully ourselves and like to reinvent ourselves,
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  much like how you wanna evolve into that feature last day.
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  Ohh, I missed this. Yeah, I like that.
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  They're back. So happy, yeah.
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  Let's go with the mix. Ohh.
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  So at the art. So this is NIT pick.
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  Poop, poop. And not hard to say, but with
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  all the spark and illustration. But I really like how it said
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  now every interaction is an exchange of energy.
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  So wrong, simple, but it's so powerful to me.
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  But before I dive into that, what do you think?
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  Every interaction is an exchange of energy.
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  Ohh okay. Like you know, weapons in car
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  like prank challenge ohh you can see now like together a smooth
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  character and then there's one with like wiggles.
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  Grooves. Grooves on it and make it that
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  one up around there in harmony guide night.
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  They're different, yeah. So shapes here and yeah, one of
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  focus on the subject. Ohh.
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  I think it's peacefully, peacefully cuddly.
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  Ohh. Since it's about interaction,
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  yeah, every interruption is an exchange of energy.
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  Hmm, yeah I think. Ohh little column the discovery
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  in Param Bharat, Param connected time manga youmans.
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  Is it the way we think? Is it the way we she thinks that
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  I know, but interrupt them deep surface level like now.
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  Ohh, I think you young interaction in agonic set and is
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  like your emotion like everyone feels emotion.
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  So even when you involve yourself so conversation.
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  I think the car on the exchanges.
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  It's very simple. And then Sara Palam is snubs or
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  Mota Laga you or any other person or like what they share.
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  Yeah, I know. That yeah.
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  So I am so good. Use your people wisely.
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  Jason Tribe. Yeah, cause energy exchange and
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  maybe it's a message then of like I am energy exchange Byron
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  when Ioffer you this ohh Yum, it's really good or like things
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  to circulate them energy like. Karma.
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  Yeah. So what do you think about this?
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  Yeah, I like, I like what you said about connection and
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  communication and feelings. For me, young Alec, whenever we
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  interact with external energy could say, you know what they
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  say, what you give into it is what you get out of it.
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  Do. The weather and when you started
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  right when you started noticing your illustrations now, Ohh, no,
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  no, like you read aura na translate transferring say so,
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  and then you yellow and the transferring sabula like it
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  really gave me that feeling like of course, of course, the
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  seamlessly, of course, my reciprocity.
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  Don't say whatever you give in. It's what you give out.
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  And when I said about karma anina, it's really because karma
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  really just works that way. If you if you do good, you get
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  good. If you do that you get bad or
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  like something unpleasant. And it's also a reminder for us
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  to honour our energies because our energy is taken.
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  Energy vampires, energy leaks, they exist.
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  And when we are able to be intentional with the energy we
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  share in every meaningful interaction and connection,
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  that's how we can get the most out of that exchange of energy.
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  Yeah. Like when you're like sharing
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  like what you thought focus dinner.
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  So illustration, it's more than just the audio when you look at
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  it because so it becomes an overflow cause me parents
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  sparkles so paranoid. It's a strong power now name it.
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  So maybe it's contagious good energy when you share other
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  people. Feel.
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  It's inviting intentional more sparks.
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  Very intentional with the elements.
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  Yeah, it's important. Like give the goosebumps.
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  Including, he said, the energy. From the.
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  Hang on. That's.
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  Cool. This is why we like
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  illustrations. I'm gonna go ahead and next you
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  wanna read this one? Ohh, okay, perhaps the
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  misfortune that you do not like leads you to a beautiful destiny
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  that you never dream of. Ohh set up now I know I like
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  this. What do you think about?
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  This the first thing in my mind. Everything is perfect.
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  The misfortune is not even a misfortune, because if you are
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  in this mindset, in this idea, in this energy of everything is
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  rigged in my favour, everything is adding up for my highest
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  good. Everything happens for the
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  goodest, goodest, best reason. For me.
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  There's no such thing as misfortune anymore if you know,
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  if you can be framed that it's all gonna serve you in the end.
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  That's how it always does. Like when it said now leads you
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  to a beautiful destiny that you never dream of when that certain
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  thing you consider a misfortune happened.
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  Diva. Yeah.
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  You wouldn't see Panaman at that point if it did really make
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  sense in your journey, if you were to look back.
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  If you won't be here with the people that you are right now in
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  the situations that you are in right now, it's all the gift.
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  Everything is perfect. I like that.
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  Like would you consider like your opinion when it's on the
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  feminine side or both on the same?
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  Side interested? I feel like it's a combination
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  of both because when you say masculine, it's really about
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  this integrity. When you fully believe it's all
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  adding up for your highest good, you're gonna show up at your
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  best to be in integrity with that.
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  And then the feminine side, there is young flexibility,
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  yeah, diva in going with the flow, but still making the most
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  out of it. And that's a really good
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  question. I like to know what you're
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  seeing. Right thing.
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  Yeah, Practitioners at the hospital.
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  I have. Arabic Arabic photos of them,
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  long letters like. I have more of these saved for
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  sending. Really.
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  Like they attracted. It was so stylish, better than
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  like. Perhaps the misfortune that you
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  do not like leads you to a beautiful destiny that you never
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  dreamed. I think no first gonna like the
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  ESET misfortune. This this could be even these
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  course. This could be struggles, young
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  challenges, Barcelona enemies, fortunes, um Sugar was leaning
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  on the controller, controllable side note things when it comes
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  to misfortune and I found no more on the masculine side
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  lately. And parasol and transformation
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  then is one of the key. The larger do transforming, so I
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  think it's a challenge, Burns said of looking at it as a
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  misfortune. It's an invitation to to
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  challenge. Those like that.
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  Can you make your disadvantage and advantage type rewire?
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  Vacation King. Transportation and I think when
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  you when you show up, when you challenge yourself, I think Modi
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  chata lagisa truces aramo, but local like what I shared with
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  you just the night do you ohh like you can show.
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  Literally framed. Ohh, this study.
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  Shame little one small articles art and like the dive deep and.
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  As a Virgo son. As a Virgo son and then it's
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  more in the creative side scaler in this subject come masculine
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  side, which takes like masculine like you have the control you go
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  by lesser destiny anymore going to surrender to God.
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  Ohh that's what you could do. That's why I sent it then.
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  Button and it reminded me of 1 proposes God disposes Nah, not
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  ohh really that used to be like my graduation yearbook not quote
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  that was for me. It meant now you can do all your
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  best and at the end of it, the rest, the ones that's the one
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  that is gonna fill in the gaps is God.
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  And like your faith and your belief in it in this context
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  when you said that, ohh, yeah. Like I can always reframe the
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  misfortune into something advantageous to me.
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  And that is you take doing your part in the masculine energy
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  tapas component Lego unfold. That's the divine hand.
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  Ohh. And then?
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  I know. But frequency?
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  What do you? Think Yep.
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  Thank you for sharing. Thank you for picking this
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  beautiful. Thing going to what you sent.
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  Ohh. Alright, let me read this one.
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  If you're not consciously creating it, you're
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  unconsciously accepting it. The simple text and Binabasa
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  mashhadi. Thanks for the compliment.
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  Going the easy say I know very intentional and like very firm
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  subboundaries and right now like the deep dive causes of
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  conscious ohh yeah mind about and like really designing life
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  if you're not consciously creating it you're unconsciously
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  what's that thing I think very empowering message Natana and
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  what our choice. You're gonna.
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  Marry no one, Chase and Diego. In oh oh.
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  Ohh already dossier. Ohh, young capacity, young
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  capacity when your bottom. So I'm gonna, I'm gonna do this.
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  And Magagawa washer. Yeah, and reparation.
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  Except now, other than capacities, you will power.
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  I think so Bring the exercise Menasha Kya Himachal Don their
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  eighty year and like created executed they going to eat I
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  want to. Look.
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  At to look inwards. Where can I just say now you
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  were able to say that to me cause say it's also a part of
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  you. See.
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  Yeah, what you see in others. Yeah, always been in you.
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  Ohh, that's beautiful. Yeah, but look inwards, Yes?
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  If you're not consciously creating it or unconsciously
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  there are the be honest. But you know what?
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  And. Yeah, that's.
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  My honest take. There.
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  That's my honest thick. So Romeo overpowered now?
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  Alright, there you go by descend this.
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  What do you think of this? Ohh, I love this.
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  If you're not consciously creating it, you're
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  unconsciously accepting it because it reminded me of the
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  psychologist. But you know, Carl Home, Yeah,
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  the one with the archetypes. And he said, Nah, once you make
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  the unconscious conscious, you will call it faith.
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  And it's super crazy because we think when we're in the victim
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  mindset, I said this with love, when we're in the victim
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  mindset, we think not everything that happens that is out of our
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  control. It's set in stone.
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  It's part of our fate. We're destined to fill it, you
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  know? But what if the the unconscious
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  is what's really running your life?
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  Because you're making decisions based on what you learned when
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  you were younger and most of the time handicap aware.
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  Now you're like a sponge. Download big glasses system Ohh.
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  Di Malam Kombat. When you were a child, this
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  happened. So I really, really love this
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  because it meant now until we really evaluate what's happening
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  in our lives, what's happening in our internal world, we can
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  consciously create something that we desire.
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  And it's going to be harder for us to create something that we
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  want if we don't know the codes that are running in our body, in
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  our minds. So, and so we just accept it
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  unknowingly. And you know, Normandy, really
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  say it. And whether or not you make a
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  decision, you are still choosing, you are still
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  deciding. So might as well find out, go on
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  you program Neon that's running you on autopilot and change it.
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  And what is really how I feel about it?
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  I feel so strongly about it now. What do you think?
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  The Devil. Yeah, we, we like that.
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  We like that book. That's our recommendation.
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  I love it. Yeah.
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  You did. I feel conflicted about share.
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  Soul food borne. That is soul food.
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  That is how it works. Good.
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  Good, good day. Until next time, trust yourself,
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  take up space and keep going. You got this.
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  You are the main character of your life.
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  It helps more visionaries, achievers, and creatives like
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  you find this space. And as always, let's shift into
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  our main character energy together.
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  Keep shining, keep creating, and I'll see you in the next one.