Latest / This Is My Circus / Episode 59 Happy New Year! We took this week off but here is our very first FULL Episode!
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- 0:00This is Stephanie and welcome to This is My Circus.
- 0:03Meredith and I are taking this week off, but we wanted to wish you all a very happy new year.
- 0:07We are going to air our first ever full podcast today for you guys.
- 0:12So if you have not heard it already, please enjoy.
- 0:15We will see you guys next Tuesday.
- 0:19I just pulled in your neighborhood and there's like somebody on a riding lawn mower just like riding around Not on grass doesn't no mow lawn.
- 0:28Just like chilling running.
- 0:29Welcome to South Carolina Are you recording?
- 0:35That's funny i'm meredith.
- 0:37Hey stephanie, uh, welcome to this is my circus Uh, where we own our crazy.
- 0:43Yeah, we do.
- 0:45Put it on the front porch and, uh, wave at everybody and then you go, bye.
- 0:48Sipping on some sweet tea.
- 0:49Absolutely, absolutely.
- 0:51Speaking of sweet tea, I have a funny story.
- 0:52Okay.
- 0:53So, um, kid spent the night at our house last night.
- 0:56Loved this child.
- 0:58He will listen to this because I'm going to make him.
- 1:00He's going to know who he is.
- 1:02I have a mini who like kind of right off my kitchen, um, where the kids play, whatever, while I'm cooking and it's great because it keeps them like, like, talking to me.
- 1:11Yeah, basketball.
- 1:12Sorry.
- 1:13So, and they're always like, right there and that's fine.
- 1:15I don't care that.
- 1:15Like I said, they're talking to me while they're while I'm cooking or whatever.
- 1:18Well, this morning we had already eaten the 2 boys are playing Jackson and.
- 1:22Let's call him Banthony.
- 1:27We're playing basketball.
- 1:28I'm sitting at the kitchen table with like my back to them, and I still had my, my tea right there.
- 1:33Sweet tea.
- 1:34All of a sudden the ball just hits my tea and goes all over the place.
- 1:38And they didn't even like blink.
- 1:41They're like, oops.
- 1:42Yeah.
- 1:45Back to the game.
- 1:46Pretty much.
- 1:47It was pretty much.
- 1:48And you know, they're usually very respectful.
- 1:50Like it's usually, but they were like, Oh, I blocked your stuff or whatever.
- 1:53So anyway, sweet tea.
- 1:55That's that's my life mom life.
- 1:57Yeah So what have you been doing you had lacrosse?
- 2:00Oh, you had a story you're gonna tell me about last weekend Lord have mercy and any sports parents out there.
- 2:05You've got to know what i'm talking about um, so we were at an away game and The other team was Doing some like Dylan plays lacrosse, right?
- 2:17And so we're in lacrosse season So the other team was doing some illegal hits and all that dirty nasty stuff.
- 2:24Yeah, me too so the refs called any little thing that our team did I mean Questionable calls, but they were letting the other team.
- 2:34Oh my god, everything everything.
- 2:37So one kid got pushed over He's an itty bitty little guy Um And the defender had to have been like three times as big.
- 2:44And so he kept knocking this kid over, knocking this kid over.
- 2:47But like where it really got me was the kids on the ground.
- 2:52So the kid's on the ground and the ball is like across on the other end of the field at this point.
- 2:58Cause it got like flung across to the other end.
- 3:01And this kid's still hitting him with a stick on the ground and the ref like saw it and walked away.
- 3:06Oh, that's just poor.
- 3:08That's terrible.
- 3:08I was livid and all the parents are like, and this kid's still on the ground, like two minutes later.
- 3:14Right.
- 3:14So, Oh God.
- 3:15Is he okay?
- 3:16Yeah, he was fine.
- 3:17Like, but like, it was just like, That's terrible.
- 3:19Like, how do you not make a call?
- 3:21What makes me so mad about that kind of stuff is like, these kids just don't do that, right?
- 3:25They're learning it from somewhere.
- 3:27Yeah.
- 3:27So, what are the coaches encouraging them to do or not do?
- 3:32We've had that issue, especially in football.
- 3:34Yes.
- 3:34With my son being a lineman, a lot of times they'll tell them to go for their knees, and I know it's legal.
- 3:39I hate it.
- 3:41I hate it.
- 3:43Nothing will get me riled up faster.
- 3:47Well, on that note.
- 3:49Um, did y'all win that game?
- 3:50We did.
- 3:51Good.
- 3:51Oh, no, no, no.
- 3:52It was tied.
- 3:52Oh, tied.
- 3:53Yeah, and we went into overtime and it was still tied.
- 3:55Oh, so then it just stops after.
- 3:56But, so, we were in overtime and Dylan, like, slipped on the grass because it was, like, just.
- 4:04Yeah, just do a kind of, yeah.
- 4:06And he slipped and his foot went over the 50 yard line and they, as he was falling, like sliding, and they They said that he was, um, offsides and took him out, took him and one other kid that also was sliding like bottling and what school was this?
- 4:21Let me go get or what location?
- 4:23No, just kidding.
- 4:24I would love to know those names for sure because I would tell it.
- 4:33Well, on that note, um, I have a new little gig that I'm very excited about.
- 4:41So I grew up playing softball.
- 4:43Like I played from like a time I was six or seven, like all the way through after high school, I played like church leagues and co ed and stuff.
- 4:49And I loved it.
- 4:50It was great.
- 4:51So now that Jackson is older.
- 4:54And I'm not as involved with, you know, helping with different organizations and that kind of thing.
- 4:58I was like, I need something to do with some of my free time, other than just following him around everywhere.
- 5:04So, I'm umping for softball.
- 5:08I know.
- 5:09So, okay, I'm just starting with like, I know, I know if you can see my face right now, so I'm starting with, like, some of the younger ones.
- 5:20So, it's not going to be as intense.
- 5:22Like, I really haven't even been trained on it yet.
- 5:24I start this week.
- 5:25It was supposed to be yesterday.
- 5:26So, that's training.
- 5:27Right.
- 5:27I go to a game with another guy and he shows me what to do.
- 5:31It's on the job training.
- 5:32So, you don't have to take a class or anything like that.
- 5:34No, not for this level.
- 5:35Okay.
- 5:35Not for, I think it's eight and under.
- 5:37Um, and I think I sound like I know exactly what I'm talking about, right?
- 5:43So, I think it's just like where they get pitches and I just count the pitches and they get 7 if they hit it.
- 5:48They're good.
- 5:48If they don't, then they're out.
- 5:50So, I think I just have to count, which I think I can do that.
- 5:56Um, so we'll see, I don't know.
- 5:58So that starts this week.
- 5:59So I'll have to give you an update next week.
- 6:04My son is like, mama, I'm like, it's going to be great.
- 6:07And, um, he was like, no, you're just doing that.
- 6:10I was like, yeah, but you know, I'm going to be extra.
- 6:12Like, I'm not just going to say I'm out there.
- 6:13I was like, you know, I'm going to like, It was like, oh God.
- 6:19So yeah, pretty much like we're not even doing else.
- 6:23So, um, Oh, I love to let you know.
- 6:26Girl, you are brave.
- 6:27Yeah.
- 6:28There are some mean parents.
- 6:31I hope I don't cry.
- 6:32I hope it's just, oh my gosh, I hope it's just an easy, not easy, like I don't mind doing the things, but I hope it's like just You know what I'm saying?
- 6:41Not ugly.
- 6:43Right.
- 6:43Yeah.
- 6:44Right.
- 6:44No nasty people.
- 6:45Nobody's cussing at me or throwing things at me.
- 6:47I'm hoping that it's just like, I could, will they throw things?
- 6:51I don't know.
- 6:51But now I'm starting to get nervous because I was like, I got this.
- 6:55I'm just going to wear a little blue shirt and stand right there and count.
- 6:58And now I'm like, Oh my God.
- 7:01Yeah.
- 7:02I'm regretting like all my decisions now.
- 7:05I did not mean that.
- 7:06I just, I, I, I want to keep me updated.
- 7:10Okay.
- 7:11Um, because we have witnessed some.
- 7:14I know.
- 7:16Well, and I've honestly, I've been a little feisty with some refs before myself.
- 7:21Never like to never cussing or, but I've been a little loud.
- 7:25Yeah.
- 7:26So I've told the refs.
- 7:28He needed to retire the one of the refs in our area that that really should retire.
- 7:35We can host the retirement party here on the podcast.
- 7:39Just kidding.
- 7:39Yes.
- 7:39No rest.
- 7:40What am I thinking?
- 7:44I feel like I need to start putting all my decisions by, you know, um, no, I think, you know what I, I may come in and watch and podcast from the game.
- 7:54Oh, a live ep?
- 7:56Ooh, Mic Me Up?
- 7:57Yeah.
- 7:59So, have you ever watched, um, the Savannah Banana?
- 8:02Oh my God, I love them.
- 8:04I'm going to be like that aunt who's out there dancing and stuff.
- 8:06Yeah, that's going to be me.
- 8:07That's what I'm imagining.
- 8:07Or, or I'm going to be crying because everybody's just so hateful.
- 8:11I put like, um, earbuds in my ears and just like.
- 8:14Oh yeah, and just count?
- 8:15And yeah.
- 8:15Yeah.
- 8:15Yeah.
- 8:15Yeah, I would have to put like something to block out everything.
- 8:20I'll listen to us.
- 8:22My ADHD would be like, uh, we'll see how it goes.
- 8:27We'll see how it goes.
- 8:28I'm excited to keep us updated.
- 8:29Absolutely.
- 8:30I would love to hear that.
- 8:32Okay.
- 8:34So, um, what else are we going to talk about?
- 8:36Oh, what are you reading?
- 8:37Oh, so did you read?
- 8:38I did.
- 8:39I finished, um, the seven husbands of Evelyn Hugo.
- 8:44Yeah.
- 8:45Which was phenomenal.
- 8:47Um, Taylor Jenkins read is the author.
- 8:50Yes.
- 8:50And I've read other books that she has written.
- 8:52So when we hadn't quickly mentioned it between us last week, I was like, I've got to read this book.
- 8:58Yeah.
- 8:59What did you think about it?
- 9:00I loved every minute of that book, because I felt like it was unpredictable.
- 9:06Um, it kept me guessing, like, what is going to happen next?
- 9:10And then it got me thinking about, like.
- 9:13Old Hollywood and all of the pieces that, you know, how much of this could have really happened and how much was true because it's loosely based on Elizabeth Taylor.
- 9:21Yes.
- 9:21Um, I mean, who knows?
- 9:23Um, she was gorgeous.
- 9:25She was beautiful.
- 9:25Purple eyes, violet eyes.
- 9:27Um, so it I love I thought it was a good read.
- 9:31I could have read like another thousand pages of her story.
- 9:36So did you hear they're making this into a Netflix movie?
- 9:39No, but I want them to make it into a miniseries where right.
- 9:44Okay.
- 9:44So the book is based off of this, like this old movie star, like a starlet.
- 9:49Yeah.
- 9:50Um, she was married seven times.
- 9:52And so each of these sections of this book is based off of one of her marriages.
- 9:55Yes.
- 9:55And I think, you know, like how they did, um, uh, 13 reasons why.
- 10:00Yeah.
- 10:00I want them to do that for this is seven.
- 10:03Yes.
- 10:03Now, one thing that I really liked about that book itself was that the Lady Monique interviewing Miss Hugo had her own sub story going on and how the interviews with Miss Hugo and everything that she had gone through or let's call her Evelyn because we're friends like that.
- 10:19Yes, we are.
- 10:19We got on that level.
- 10:20Yes.
- 10:21Second chapter.
- 10:22But it gave her all the, the, you know, some, you know, Power and some confidence and, and all that kind of stuff to, um, you know, get through some things she was going through.
- 10:31And then I loved at the end of the book, no spoilers, but how, um, Things just kind of connected connected because I felt like everything was like two paths And then all of a sudden it was just and everything was together Well, I also thought it was really cool that they touched on um, like cultural issues right back then, right?
- 10:51Oh, yeah had to pretend she was you know, a white woman, right?
- 10:55Had to bleach her hair had a right, you know bleach her teeth She had a you know, put on this whole facade just to get um bigger movie roles and even later in the book There was another issue where it was You know, a racial thing and, um, where things had.
- 11:09Quote had to happen to help protect this, that, and the other.
- 11:12And I was like, dang.
- 11:14Yeah.
- 11:14So it's still like, it's a, it's a, it was relevant.
- 11:17It's still to this day.
- 11:18Yeah.
- 11:18I thought it was really, um, you know, that was insightful for me to, to see that part of it too.
- 11:23Yes, absolutely.
- 11:24Um, the struggles that she went through.
- 11:26What did you picture?
- 11:27She looked like, I was picturing like Marilyn Monroe.
- 11:29No, I don't know what I was picturing.
- 11:31Um, like a JLo, like a Jennifer Lopez, you know, cause she was, she was Hispanic, right?
- 11:37Cuban, Cuban.
- 11:38Yeah.
- 11:38Um, and so I just had like a JLo vibe going on.
- 11:42Yeah.
- 11:43I don't know why, but that's what I envisioned.
- 11:44Yeah.
- 11:45I just pictured her like the statuesque, if that's how you say that word, but just this beautiful, Carries herself well, and even those apart in the book, where it was near the beginning when they're meeting each other and the interviews happening and Evelyn carries Monique her interviewers, like her tea for her.
- 12:05And I was just like.
- 12:07So she's got, you know, she's got the physical stuff going on, but that's just grace, you know, just that moment of here.
- 12:13Let me help you out.
- 12:14Cut.
- 12:14I thought I'd like to emulate that.
- 12:16You know what I mean?
- 12:16Yeah.
- 12:17To help people feel comfortable kind of thing.
- 12:19Those traits aren't like, you don't see that much.
- 12:23No, no, no, you don't.
- 12:25Can you please hand me my water?
- 12:28Um, no, but you know, I just, you know, Have you ever seen that saying like straighten somebody's crown without telling the whole world that it was crooked?
- 12:35I love that.
- 12:35Yeah, I love it.
- 12:36Is my crown okay?
- 12:37It's beautiful.
- 12:37Oh, look at those roots.
- 12:39Well, you know, it is what it is.
- 12:41Um, so what was your favorite part of the book?
- 12:44Oh, God.
- 12:45Or like what stands out or maybe not even favorite, but what hits you really hard?
- 12:50Um, the, that she had to hide so much of her, um, personality.
- 12:56Well, just her personal life.
- 12:57I mean, she was, um, you know, abused by husband.
- 13:00Yeah.
- 13:00And, um, just the, the amount that she went through.
- 13:04Mm hmm.
- 13:05And, um.
- 13:05Um, and that's, that's, uh, like, you don't know what's going on in somebody's life, you know, she, you know, portrayed herself as flawless.
- 13:14My life is perfect.
- 13:15Right.
- 13:16Um, and what you don't see behind closed doors makes the person very much presented.
- 13:21Everything was together.
- 13:22No hint of whatever abuse or other things that were going on in the background.
- 13:27So I appreciated her struggle that she shared.
- 13:29Yeah, I think the most.
- 13:30Yeah.
- 13:31I get that.
- 13:32What did you think?
- 13:33Um, I thought.
- 13:37I don't know, let me come back to it.
- 13:38Okay.
- 13:39Did you listen to this or did you read it?
- 13:41Both.
- 13:41Okay.
- 13:42So I read it 1st and then I listened to it on the podcast you recommended and with just a quick recap.
- 13:48Yeah.
- 13:50Yeah.
- 13:50I liked that too.
- 13:52So I listened to, um, did you listen to it first?
- 13:55Well, I listened to baking a murder first.
- 13:57Oh yeah.
- 13:57That's it.
- 13:57Sorry.
- 13:58So just a quick, so that's another podcast that I listened to and they do like a recap of all these books.
- 14:03And as a book lover, um, I absolutely adore listening to this podcast.
- 14:10So after we had discussed it and I said, Hey, I just listened to this podcast, we're talking about this book.
- 14:14I went and.
- 14:15Got the audiobook on Libby.
- 14:17Yeah, and I listened to a ton.
- 14:19If y'all aren't part of Libby yet, check it out.
- 14:22It is so simple.
- 14:23It is so easy.
- 14:23So yeah, it's a little app and then you just hook your library card to it and you get audiobooks for free.
- 14:29Can you get regular books on there too?
- 14:30Yeah.
- 14:30Yeah.
- 14:31Um, yeah, any ebooks?
- 14:32And I mean, there's a ton, ton to choose from.
- 14:34Not everything's on there, but there's enough to get you through a long time.
- 14:37And they add new stuff every week.
- 14:39Yeah, there's new options on there.
- 14:41So cool.
- 14:42Awesome resource.
- 14:43If you'd like to listen to audio books.
- 14:46So much cheaper.
- 14:46Absolutely.
- 14:47Absolutely.
- 14:49So you listened to it.
- 14:50Yeah.
- 14:51What'd you think?
- 14:51Um, I loved it.
- 14:52Um, but you know, sometimes I, the, the girl that did the audio book was wonderful.
- 14:57Like, you know, I thought it was done great.
- 15:00Sometimes the audio book can ruin the book for me.
- 15:03The voice or just the way they come across.
- 15:04Yeah.
- 15:05It's I can get like a chapter and I'm like, I can't do this.
- 15:08And the book might be wonderful.
- 15:09And so that's the only drawback, I guess, of being on audio.
- 15:12Yeah.
- 15:13Um, but, uh, it was.
- 15:15You know, I thought it was done wonderfully.
- 15:18I love the way that every chapter was named, like you said, after the husband, but it wasn't just like, this one's about Frank or whatever.
- 15:25It was like a, you know, preface to whatever Frank was so like, I don't know, stupid Frank or I don't even remember what they were, but it was catchy.
- 15:33Yeah.
- 15:34Yeah.
- 15:34So I am so looking forward to this movie.
- 15:37Who do you think that they should cast?
- 15:40Well, now that you said J Lo, but she, so the book is her being retrospective.
- 15:46So she's looking back over her entire life and she's what like 70 or 80 in the actual like present time.
- 15:52So I don't know.
- 15:54J Lo would be a good one.
- 15:55But like I said, I was picturing like a blonde bombshell type, but I guess that can make JLo blonde.
- 16:01I don't know what to think about it.
- 16:03What do you got?
- 16:03Anybody in particular?
- 16:04I don't really know.
- 16:06So for Monique, I was thinking about who you got.
- 16:09Go first.
- 16:09So do you watch Grey's Anatomy?
- 16:11Yeah.
- 16:11Do you know, um, Maggie?
- 16:13I think she'd be a good, she would be a good one.
- 16:16So Monique, who is the interviewer, she's biracial.
- 16:21Um, so I think that a good one would be, from Grey's Anatomy, Maggie.
- 16:27Yeah, I think that would be great too.
- 16:28Yeah.
- 16:29What's that girl, um, Zendaya?
- 16:32I think that's her name.
- 16:33Um, she, she was in Spider Man.
- 16:35Oh yeah.
- 16:36I think she would be good too.
- 16:37Yeah.
- 16:38As Monique.
- 16:39There, are there enough men in Hollywood to play all of her husbands?
- 16:45I'm sure there are.
- 16:46Not for a Netflix movie.
- 16:47I mean, there's plenty of guys that are trying to be actors for a Netflix movie.
- 16:54I could find somebody.
- 16:55I don't know if they're going to get like, uh, um.
- 16:59Like a George Clooney or anything like that.
- 17:01Right, right.
- 17:02We'll see, we'll see.
- 17:04Oh, is that like a Channing Tatum?
- 17:07Oh, I was picturing the dude from, um, This Is Us 2.
- 17:11Oh, yeah.
- 17:11That would be good.
- 17:12For Harry.
- 17:13Uh huh.
- 17:14But in my mind, Harry was fat.
- 17:16But I know he wasn't, I don't even know, but, you know, sometimes you do that, like you picture him and then it's like, when you actually see it, like the movie when it's like, what?
- 17:24Yeah, absolutely.
- 17:25But I have to read a book before I watch the movie.
- 17:27Definitely.
- 17:27Because the book is always better.
- 17:30It's better.
- 17:30So I'm super excited about this.
- 17:32Yeah, but they say when it's coming out, they didn't even like, I think they're starting to cast it.
- 17:36Now, from what I read, are they going to ask us for a recommendation?
- 17:39Probably not.
- 17:40Well, if you're watching this, our recommendations are Netflix.
- 17:46All right.
- 17:46Um, so yeah, that's my take on, on the book.
- 17:49I think I loved it 100%.
- 17:51I would read it again.
- 17:52Yeah, absolutely.
- 17:53Absolutely.
- 17:54I liked it too.
- 17:54I liked it a lot.
- 17:55I felt like there was a lot of stuff in there that was still, like we said, it's still relevant.
- 17:59Um, it was enlightening.
- 18:02And it was a good read.
- 18:03It was an easy read.
- 18:03It was a fun read.
- 18:04It was an emotional read though.
- 18:06Very.
- 18:07Um, yeah, 10.
- 18:09I give it a 10.
- 18:10I give it a 10 too.
- 18:11Okay, cool.
- 18:12What are you reading next?
- 18:13Um, well, so I always on the side got something I'm reading that's like fluff that I can read to fall asleep.
- 18:18So I'm still reading this.
- 18:19I love a series and right now I'm reading like this series that was like, um, I don't, I'll have to look up the name for you, but it's like a cast off of another series that was another series kind of like, so it's like 27 books, which I love.
- 18:32No, it's probably not that many.
- 18:34But I think this one is called, now don't judge me by this, but I think it's called like the Elemental Witch is the name of it.
- 18:40Um, and I'll look up who it's by, but it's, um, like I said, just it's fluff.
- 18:45It's easy reads.
- 18:46It's, I don't have to think about what I'm getting next.
- 18:48I can just kind of download the next one and keep moving forward.
- 18:51If it's in the middle of the night and I can't sleep, then I don't have to really think about what to read next.
- 18:55But, um, we do need to think about something to read for this though.
- 18:58Yeah.
- 18:58You got any recommendations right now?
- 18:59Um, Should we do like a fun book or should we do like a, uh, a helping book?
- 19:07I don't need any help right now.
- 19:09I'm perfect just the way I am.
- 19:10Well, you know, me too, but we can, we can think about it and come back to that.
- 19:15Yeah.
- 19:15Let me see what I have on my shelf.
- 19:17Um, I do have a couple that I'm supposed to be reading for, um, a book club I'm in.
- 19:22Well, let's come back to this.
- 19:23I think, okay.
- 19:24Okay.
- 19:24We'll, we'll announce our next book next week.
- 19:27Perfect.
- 19:27Okay.
- 19:28But that is, if y'all haven't read it, go try it out.
- 19:31Yeah.
- 19:32That's really good.
- 19:33Really, really good.
- 19:33Yeah.
- 19:34And do Libby.
- 19:35Yeah, for sure.
- 19:36Same stuff.
- 19:37Lots of money.
- 19:37Yeah.
- 19:38Cool.
- 19:38Because I have subscriptions to Audible and I have unlimited.
- 19:44Whatever is like X amount and you only get like one book or two books.
- 19:47I mean, I do that in a day and a half.
- 19:49So anyway, I know.
- 19:52But yeah, And it's what it is is what it is.
- 19:54What's next?
- 19:55Yeah.
- 19:56You want to talk about our dumb crook story?
- 19:57Yes.
- 19:58Okay.
- 19:59Um, what do you want to read it?
- 20:01Oh, so we decided that we're going to do a dumb crook from every state.
- 20:05So we're starting with South Carolina because that's where we live, but we will be hitting all of your states.
- 20:11Yes.
- 20:12And if you know of a dumb crime, let us know.
- 20:14Please let us know.
- 20:15Please let us know.
- 20:16And I think what we said, too, is we're going to each bring a story and present it and get each other's reaction off of it.
- 20:22Yeah.
- 20:23Well, we're just got one story for today.
- 20:24One story for today to get started.
- 20:26Yeah.
- 20:26So we did some research on good old South Carolina.
- 20:29Well, you know.
- 20:30Yeah, we got some, we didn't have to dig far.
- 20:34It was like pop up.
- 20:35Yeah.
- 20:36Yes.
- 20:37Yeah.
- 20:38Um, what do you want to read it?
- 20:41Go ahead.
- 20:42Oh lord, I didn't bring my reading glasses.
- 20:43I'm just kidding.
- 20:44I got it.
- 20:44Okay.
- 20:45So the article says This was in Hartsville, South Carolina, and this was a few years ago From WBTV is our source a 59 year old man who tried to rob a bank while he was a passenger in a taxi He's going to spend six years in prison.
- 20:59All right, here's what he did He was charged with taking a taxi in 2021 to a Hartsville bank And telling the driver to go through drive thru lane, then he placed the envelope containing a handwritten note Demanding money into the tube.
- 21:14The note said he would kill people or blow up the bank if his demands were not met.
- 21:18And the teller just like activated the alarm and the police found the taxi and he was arrested.
- 21:24The driver was not involved.
- 21:27So I've got a lot of thoughts.
- 21:29What's your first thought?
- 21:31And then i'll tell you mine.
- 21:32Could you imagine being the taxi driver?
- 21:34Okay.
- 21:35Yeah, like and then your your car is like surrounded by police.
- 21:38Like i'm just envisioning like this, right?
- 21:40You It's like, dude, just trying to work his job.
- 21:44Right.
- 21:44Oh yeah.
- 21:46Oh my God.
- 21:46Yeah.
- 21:47I, I would die.
- 21:48I know, I would, I don't know what I would do.
- 21:50My first thought is this teller, like, what did her face look like?
- 21:55She's standing there and this note comes through, like, I just picture like she's having kind of a crappy day and she's not taking anybody's junk, and all of a sudden this comes through and she gives him this look like, mm.
- 22:05And she just like, hits the button and calls the cop, like, and then Ducks Yeah.
- 22:10She probably is gonna do that.
- 22:11But you know, with all that's going on, but what's the.
- 22:13Taxi driver's just sitting there like this, the taxi dude banging on the steering wheel, And then, and then he's like, dude, like what's, you know, why is this taking so long?
- 22:20Right?
- 22:20What?
- 22:20Right.
- 22:21Many.
- 22:21The dude's like drive, drive, drive.
- 22:23Like, I want, I want, I need more information.
- 22:25I want a camera inside the taxi.
- 22:26Right.
- 22:26You're right, you're right.
- 22:27Okay.
- 22:27So he passes the note.
- 22:28She hits the thing, and then what's happened?
- 22:30Like, he's like, you didn't get your money, dude.
- 22:32What are we doing here?
- 22:33And he is like, go, go.
- 22:34Like, you're right.
- 22:35We might need to dig into that a little bit further.
- 22:37I'm just like this.
- 22:38A lot of information.
- 22:38Yeah.
- 22:39Dude is an idiot.
- 22:42That's why they're called dumb crooks.
- 22:43And he was old too.
- 22:44He was 59.
- 22:45He knows better.
- 22:46He should.
- 22:46No, but you know.
- 22:47Well, he knew, he knew enough to plead guilty.
- 22:50Um, so he's sentenced to 72 years in federal.
- 22:54prison and then he'll have some court ordered supervision after that.
- 22:58Probably no more taxis.
- 22:59Decent.
- 23:01And then, like, my other question is, there's still taxis?
- 23:03It's not like just like Uber?
- 23:04Wait, wait, wait.
- 23:05You're right.
- 23:06In Hartsville, South, have you been, you've been through Hartsville.
- 23:09I don't know.
- 23:10You've been to Myrtle Beach.
- 23:11Like, on the way to the beach, like, you go through Hartsville.
- 23:13Like, it's not this big metropolis.
- 23:15No.
- 23:15It's probably like Clover.
- 23:16It'd be like seeing a Like legit taxi in Clover?
- 23:20No.
- 23:21Oh, my God, where did he get the taxi?
- 23:23That's what I'm saying, like, is it an Uber?
- 23:24Is it a, like, what kind, like, is it, what is it?
- 23:29I have more questions now.
- 23:31I, I, does he have a taxi?
- 23:33Like, the taxi sign on top of his car?
- 23:34I'm picturing a big yellow car with the taxi sign on top.
- 23:37Yeah.
- 23:37With the number like 3333333 on the side.
- 23:42Oh, my gosh.
- 23:44Oh, my gosh.
- 23:45I got so many questions.
- 23:46Me too.
- 23:46We'll probably never know the answers.
- 23:47No, but I would love the interview.
- 23:49I would ask with a taxi driver.
- 23:51Like, he's like, what?
- 23:52Mr.
- 23:53Taxi driver, if you happen to be listening to This Is My Circus podcast, please reach out and let us know.
- 23:58So we want to know your monkeys.
- 24:00Yeah.
- 24:01They, but they are not your monkeys.
- 24:03You're not responsible.
- 24:04No, but I mean, I want to know about your circus.
- 24:07Do you have a video?
- 24:08Yeah.
- 24:09Was there a dash cam?
- 24:10Please tell us.
- 24:11Or something?
- 24:12Have you been interviewed?
- 24:14And we need to, we need all of this.
- 24:16Yes.
- 24:16Okay.
- 24:17Well, until we find out more on that one.
- 24:20So we're moving on.
- 24:22We're moving on.
- 24:22And we're going to bring more stories like that, we said, throughout, um, the country.
- 24:26So stay tuned for who's coming next.
- 24:28Maybe it's one of your relatives.
- 24:30Maybe.
- 24:32Maybe.
- 24:33And if you have a dumb relative, let us know.
- 24:35Maybe that should be a different segment, dumb relatives.
- 24:39That's funny.
- 24:40Well, when, um, okay, switching gears, when I was looking this, you know, trying to dig into some dumb criminal stuff, I saw about this airplane missing.
- 24:48Oh, yeah.
- 24:49I don't know much about it.
- 24:50I just read the headline and it's like.
- 24:52How does an airplane go missing?
- 24:54Do you have more info than just that?
- 24:55I only, and it might not even be the same one.
- 24:58Okay.
- 24:58Like we might have, how can there be more than one missing?
- 25:01There's lots of missing.
- 25:02They disappear.
- 25:03They're big.
- 25:04Okay.
- 25:05Yeah.
- 25:05Okay.
- 25:06So tell me what you know.
- 25:07I don't really know a whole lot, which we maybe we'll, we'll hit on this in the next episode.
- 25:11We'll, we'll do a little research, but I saw a video on Facebook, super, super reliable.
- 25:18This is real.
- 25:19But you know, like how you just get sucked into those stupid reels, like, and keep scrolling through the videos.
- 25:24And so this dude said that there was a airplane that left the United States and, like, disappeared into, like, thin air.
- 25:32And Like, I don't know, 5, 10 years later, um, there's a call over the radio of a airport that they were checking for clearance to land.
- 25:43And then they were like, wait, what year is it?
- 25:46And they said, it's whatever 2000.
- 25:48yeah, whatever 20, whatever year it was and they.
- 25:53They just like took back off like they never landed.
- 25:55They just went like back into like the atmosphere.
- 25:58La La Land, wherever they But yeah, it's like they disappeared.
- 26:04Is this true?
- 26:04I don't know.
- 26:06So, you know, there was a show a couple years ago called Manifest.
- 26:09Yes.
- 26:09Yes.
- 26:10Yeah But like this was like somebody doing like a like a legit like okay, well, that's exactly what this well It was like a true crime channel on Facebook Wow.
- 26:20Wow.
- 26:20Well, like all these shows, right?
- 26:22Like they've got to come from somewhere.
- 26:23Have you heard about, um, Tyler Doyle?
- 26:26Have you followed that any?
- 26:27We, um, I've been following that a little bit.
- 26:29So that's this guy in, um, gosh, I think he's from South Carolina, but South Carolina episode, y'all.
- 26:36I'm just kidding.
- 26:37You're making us so proud.
- 26:37I know.
- 26:38Well, but he went missing off the coast of South Carolina while he was duck hunting, I think.
- 26:44This was maybe like a month ago or even more.
- 26:46Leave those poor ducks alone.
- 26:48Well, there was so much conspiracy about it.
- 26:54You know, why was he by himself and why didn't he call or whatever?
- 26:58But anyway, he went missing and they couldn't find anything.
- 27:00And then like, Two days later and my timeline is wrong.
- 27:02So please don't whatever don't come at me for that But like they found his waiters and then the duck decoys and all this but as far as I know They never found him and it's people are like it's his baby mama or wife or whatever.
- 27:15I don't know again Don't don't at me.
- 27:17But um, but I was all sucked into that for a little bit like Where is he?
- 27:22And then, of course, all the social media pages that are like, where is Tyler Doyle?
- 27:26And whatever.
- 27:27So, I just hope that Is this like super recent?
- 27:29This was like, yeah, like within the past couple of months.
- 27:32So, I don't know.
- 27:33I don't know about that, but I hope he's safe, and if he's gone from this earth, I hope it was peaceful.
- 27:44And let's save the ducks.
- 27:46Let's save the ducks.
- 27:47Oh my gosh, so, when I was in high school, right, in art science class, speaking of ducks, We had to hatch chickens and ducks.
- 27:55And so my, the other class got chickens and my class got ducks.
- 27:58And if our parents signed off on it, we were allowed to keep whatever hatched.
- 28:02So I talked my dad into letting me keep this duck.
- 28:05Because I was like, ducks were like my favorite animal ever.
- 28:08And my best friend was in the chicken class.
- 28:12So we get to school after like a couple of weeks, like of the incubator, Yeah, since our teacher forgot to put water in the incubator over the weekend and killed all of our ducks.
- 28:24Like not one duck hatched.
- 28:25That is traumatizing.
- 28:26Right?
- 28:27And like, so I'm like, what the heck, you know, like super.
- 28:30So did it like just, was it just straight heat then?
- 28:33Is that what happened?
- 28:33And it like cooked the ducks and the eggs.
- 28:35Like it was awful, but the chickens, chickens lived.
- 28:39And so my best friend, Alicia, Hey girl, hope you're listening.
- 28:43Um, Hey Alicia.
- 28:45They got chickens and she had to, and so then she made, she felt bad.
- 28:49My duck died, and so she made me the chicken's godmother.
- 28:53Awww, that's adorable! And then the chicken grew and got mean, and so she brought it to a farm.
- 29:01To where he lived happily ever after.
- 29:03To live out his roostery mean life.
- 29:07Yeah, roosters can be mean.
- 29:09Is awesome.
- 29:10So she also had a snapping turtle and that snapping turtle used to watch us sleeping.
- 29:13It was like a, it was our Mr.
- 29:15Snappy was our stalker.
- 29:18Real creative with the name.
- 29:19What was the chicken's name?
- 29:20Um, God, I can't even remember.
- 29:22She should have named the chicken duck.
- 29:24Oh, that would have been good.
- 29:26It would have been sad though.
- 29:27Every time.
- 29:27Oh yeah.
- 29:28You're right.
- 29:28You're right.
- 29:29So I would have been a little sad.
- 29:30That's traumatizing though.
- 29:31How were you like high school?
- 29:33Yeah.
- 29:33It was like junior year.
- 29:35Yeah, no, we, when I was in I don't remember what grade, but before high school, went to a field trip to a chicken farm.
- 29:45And now in retrospect, those chickens are miserable.
- 29:50They're all just like crowded in.
- 29:52Is that the right word?
- 29:53Chicken farm?
- 29:54I don't know.
- 29:54Where they've got them all in like a greenhouse looking thing.
- 29:57I guess it's a chicken coop.
- 29:59I don't know, but, but they were all just like right on top of each other.
- 30:04And it was, I mean, it is what it is, whatever.
- 30:07I mean, did you see like the place across the street from my neighborhood that has like the alpacas and goats and it's like this whole little tiny farm?
- 30:16No.
- 30:16And I told Dylan, I'm like, I want to pet an alpaca so bad.
- 30:19And I was like, I'm like, that's the thing I'm going to get arrested for.
- 30:22Like, it's like pulling over to the side and jumping over the fence.
- 30:27Are they mean?
- 30:28I don't know.
- 30:28I mean, I don't know, but I, I, it reminds me of llamas and Dylan's favorite book when he was a baby was llama, llama, red pajama.
- 30:35And yeah, I'm like, I need to, for some reason I'm thinking like they're related to camels and camels can be mean.
- 30:42Camels are very like they spit it and they spit it.
- 30:45Yeah.
- 30:45What else you want to talk about?
- 30:46Did you go to the St.
- 30:47Patrick's Day thing yesterday?
- 30:48I did not.
- 30:48I was um, so.
- 30:51Brandon said that if I can get the shed cleaned out, that we can convert it into a office slash studio for us.
- 31:00And so I spent my day.
- 31:02Do I need to come over and help sometime?
- 31:03Oh, we can decorate.
- 31:04Okay.
- 31:04We can do like a target run.
- 31:08But, um, so we spent all day trying to get everything out of there and box it up.
- 31:12to ship.
- 31:13Whoa.
- 31:14So that was my whole day yesterday.
- 31:16Oh, are you sore?
- 31:17No.
- 31:17Um, I'm just glad it's over and it's one step closer to having our like Studio, super fun, girly space.
- 31:26Yeah.
- 31:27Not that I'm like super girly, right?
- 31:29But I don't want like, Nerf guns on the wall.
- 31:32which is Dylan's whole Nerf collection is out there.
- 31:35Is it?
- 31:35And on the wall we can just hang like a, a sheet up and cover it all up.
- 31:39Um, and I have like a, a mini fridge out there with beverages.
- 31:45mini fridges are nice though.
- 31:47Mini fridges are great.
- 31:48I always tell Brian I want one in my nightstand.
- 31:50Oh.
- 31:50And he's like.
- 31:52So our master bedroom is downstairs and he's like, it's 30 feet to the kitchen.
- 31:57You can get up and go get something to drink.
- 31:58I'm like, you don't understand.
- 32:00It's just a point right there covered in like wood, like, you know, the fridges that are kind of inset, whatever.
- 32:06It's a great idea.
- 32:07Tim don't take it unless it already exists and then I'm not meaning to copyright you.
- 32:12Um, so we went to the St.
- 32:13Patrick's day thing yesterday since my umpiring gig got canceled cause it rained.
- 32:18whatever.
- 32:19Um, it was pretty fun.
- 32:21It was fun.
- 32:21I mean, it was windy and cold and then sunny, you know, this time of year, it's like whatever you get, but it was fun.
- 32:27Yes.
- 32:28Mother nature.
- 32:29Uh, yeah.
- 32:30She needs to pick a lane, figure it out.
- 32:33Yeah.
- 32:33But then like Friday, it's supposed to be 81 here.
- 32:35I think.
- 32:36Yeah.
- 32:36I'm not ready for it to get too hot, but I'm ready for.
- 32:38Like 70.
- 32:39I want 70.
- 32:40Consistent 70.
- 32:41I'm down.
- 32:42With a little breeze, not wind.
- 32:44Yeah, absolutely.
- 32:45Well, so we were there for, gosh, like four or five hours yesterday.
- 32:49I'm so out of shape.
- 32:51Like, I was so, I got up, so we went, we walked around, we did all things, had a good time, saw a ton of people I knew, which was great.
- 32:57So much fun.
- 32:57I like to do that.
- 32:58Brian's always like, are you politicking?
- 33:00And I'm like, no, I'm just talking to people, which I like to do.
- 33:02So I don't see everybody very often, but you usually don't let me have that.
- 33:07So I was, um, I got out of the truck when we got home.
- 33:11I could like barely walk.
- 33:13No, I did wear these shoes because it was kind of yucky in the morning.
- 33:16So I wore some shoes that were kind of rain bootish.
- 33:18They weren't like great and I was like, I was like, are you okay?
- 33:20And I was like, I don't think so.
- 33:23I'm sore from walking around in these rain boots.
- 33:26I'm like, oh gosh.
- 33:27But anyway, I think I need to start walking some more.
- 33:30Well, I, um, take recs.
- 33:33Like, I think it totals out to be almost four miles a day.
- 33:36Good for you.
- 33:37So it's like one walk in the morning, one walk in the afternoon.
- 33:39You have a great area to walk though.
- 33:41People in this neighborhood drive like, crazy, like in the lawnmowers.
- 33:47You got to dodge the lawnmowers.
- 33:48I mean, there's a lot going on.
- 33:49So we've got the lawnmower riders.
- 33:51We've got the kids on like their motor, whatever is their four wheelers, their bikes, mini bikes, whatever that like, I'm a motorized scooter.
- 33:58Do you?
- 33:59I do.
- 33:59Ooh, like when you stand up on and run.
- 34:01Have you ever tried to ride a hoverboard?
- 34:03No, have you?
- 34:04I haven't.
- 34:04It didn't go well.
- 34:08Have you ever seen those, um, videos on Facebook where people are like flailing their arms?
- 34:12Was that you?
- 34:13That was totally me.
- 34:13Oh my gosh.
- 34:14I'm not good at that at all.
- 34:15So, there's a lot going on in the neighborhood when you walk?
- 34:17Yeah.
- 34:18And like, so you got like, you know, all these kids and, you know, other people walking, you know, and How dare they?
- 34:23No, but I'm just kidding.
- 34:24There's this dude, and I hope he hears us because he's a butt head, but He's got like two, like, bigger, mean looking dogs, like, that are very aggressive towards anyone and everything, and like, dude isn't a big guy, like, he's not, uh, like a big guy, like, burly, whatever.
- 34:42So these dogs, anytime they see a child, they see another person, they see another dog, they go bananas, and like, and barking and like, and then, so this one is super protective of me.
- 34:54Um, and he doesn't, well, he was like, then he starts going and not, you know, he's a hundred and.
- 35:00five, 10 pounds.
- 35:02Yeah.
- 35:02And so I'm, you know, trying to get pulling in bed, but this guy, and he just like laughs, like he thinks it's funny.
- 35:08And all my dude, like somebody's going to get hurt someday.
- 35:10That's what he's like.
- 35:11The dogs lunge at like kids on bicycles.
- 35:13That's not cool.
- 35:14It's dude, that's not cool.
- 35:16Don't do that with your dogs anymore.
- 35:18You should not walk your dogs right in the public place.
- 35:23My two cents.
- 35:24Get him some home training.
- 35:25Like my, like my, my, my puppy.
- 35:28Well, he's not puppies almost too.
- 35:30I know he's terrible.
- 35:31So I just don't let him do too much.
- 35:34Yeah.
- 35:35You gotta know your limits.
- 35:36Yeah.
- 35:36Um, so the St.
- 35:38Patrick's Day thing was fun.
- 35:39I am not sore anymore.
- 35:41I've recovered.
- 35:42Um, but we hung out with some new friends that we're kind of making.
- 35:46So that's, you know, your friend circle is like this for you probably.
- 35:50Cause that's how we met.
- 35:51It's like through your kids, right?
- 35:53It's other, whatever your kids are into, it's their parents and outside parents, friends that are not like related to sports in some way.
- 36:02Um, so this is, um, some friends we've been hanging out with and they're a lot of fun.
- 36:07Um, but you know, it's just hard to make friends as an adult.
- 36:10Yeah.
- 36:10Yeah.
- 36:11It's so hard.
- 36:12Yeah.
- 36:13And like, I, I hate to say this, but like, don't you feel like ever since like COVID, like people have, I don't know, people have gotten like mean and I don't know.
- 36:23I just, I, I've not, I'm not a people person.
- 36:26Yeah.
- 36:27Well, I feel like, and you're right, that might be the timeline since that point, like everything is.
- 36:32And maybe it's just me getting older.
- 36:34I feel like everything is political and or everything is about, you know, nothing is just, I don't even know how to say it.
- 36:42And maybe that's it.
- 36:43Like when you're a kid and you make friends, you're like, Hey, you want to play tag?
- 36:46And they say yes.
- 36:46And you run like, that's it.
- 36:48And now it's like, well, you know, I don't like them because of this or I can't vibe with them because they believe this.
- 36:54Yeah.
- 36:56Let's just have friends.
- 36:57So this is, so, and I don't know, like, I've never, like, when we were in, in, in middle school, we didn't talk about politics.
- 37:06Like we didn't know, like we have like a movie, like, you know, in school lecture, like whatever, like, but nobody knew anything about politics.
- 37:13And Dylan came home, um, during like the last election.
- 37:16And he like said that like his friends are arguing, friends are arguing.
- 37:19And I'm like, dude, like, why do you, like, why are you even like talking about like, like Do you not have other things to talk about?
- 37:26And so my advice to Dylan was we, you don't talk religion, you don't talk politics and you don't talk about Santa Claus.
- 37:34Yeah.
- 37:34Those are three topics that you don't, you don't.
- 37:38I would add to that also don't talk about money.
- 37:40Either way it goes, whether you have it or you don't.
- 37:45But I agree.
- 37:46Like I remember being in high school and you, you know, you learn about the whatever and we did the mock.
- 37:51Okay.
- 37:51All you are.
- 37:52This and all you guys are this and let's, you know, vote and whatever.
- 37:55Yeah, and debate and all that fun stuff.
- 37:57But you're right now.
- 37:58It's so weird.
- 37:59So, but like for kids to be arguing, like literally arguing and getting into fights about it.
- 38:04And now that you say that, like my, my niece, who's a senior in high school, she, um, has actually lost some friends because of different beliefs and whatever.
- 38:13And I'm like, Dude, I didn't, like, when I was in high school, all I, I shouldn't say this because Dylan might hear this one day, but like, all we were worried about was where, who's having the next party.
- 38:23Right.
- 38:24I mean, or, or hanging out, or where are we going, or where's the football game, or where's, I know.
- 38:29There was no, like, Right, and it's like, you want them to be educated, and to be involved, and to make decisions, you know, use their brain, but at the same time, it's just part of the whole, you know, thing where everybody thinks they're right and you can't even have a conversation.
- 38:46And you can't be friends with somebody that doesn't believe the same exact thing that you do.
- 38:49That's crazy.
- 38:50And that's why I told Dylan, I'm like, you know, like, like everybody is entitled to their opinion.
- 38:55Yes.
- 38:55Everybody is entitled, and you don't have to school people on their, on what your opinion is.
- 38:59Like, you can just say, okay, cool, that's your opinion.
- 39:01And then walk away.
- 39:02Right.
- 39:02There doesn't need to be a, I'm right.
- 39:04You're wrong.
- 39:05Like a whole conversation.
- 39:06Right.
- 39:06Nobody has to win every conversation.
- 39:08You believe what you believe.
- 39:09Right.
- 39:09You can have a conversation and then just walk away and still be friends.
- 39:13Yeah.
- 39:14And have fun.
- 39:15Yeah.
- 39:15But yeah, I don't know.
- 39:16So, um, it's hard, hard making friends, but it was fun yesterday with these.
- 39:21Where do you even go meet new people?
- 39:22Well, I don't even know.
- 39:25Actually, so that could be part of my problem.
- 39:29So this, these new people were hanging out.
- 39:31They're already kind of like a friend group.
- 39:32Yeah.
- 39:33And we were kind of invited into the friend group with, um, it's Jackson's girlfriend's parents and, um, so we're hanging out with them a little bit.
- 39:43And then 1 of the other people in the group knows Brian, they used to work together.
- 39:48So he's got, um.
- 39:49Kind of a connection because that's other thing too, right?
- 39:51Finding somebody you and your husband and then your kid like oh my god Forget it.
- 39:56Yeah, so, um, you know, he gets along with the dudes and I like the moms and you know the dudes are nice and you know, it's just a good mix, but I Mean, they're 13 and they're not gonna be friends for you know, they are they're not gonna be dating forever So that'll be a little awkward.
- 40:12It will be a little awkward, but we'll cross that bridge when I get to it How do you feel about having a girlfriend?
- 40:18I'm okay with it.
- 40:19Uh, she's really adorable.
- 40:20He's had a couple little girlfriends before, but nobody that I think he's really, you know, like, you know, as he's getting older, right?
- 40:27Um, but she's very busy too.
- 40:29She plays school soccer and competitive soccer.
- 40:32Um, so, um, she's, you know, really tied up with, with that because Jackson's really busy too, and her parents are, um, they're good people, they, you know, have requirements for her grades and behavior and all that kind of stuff.
- 40:45So, because she's so busy and we're so busy, it works out.
- 40:50But I could see where like it's gonna be hard like I'm he's my heart, you know, it's gonna be really hard Yeah, how about does Dylan have a lady in his life right now?
- 40:59He does.
- 41:00Okay.
- 41:00She lives in our neighborhood Oh, one street over.
- 41:04Oh, that's a little too convenient She is like such a sweet girl.
- 41:08Like I I really do.
- 41:10That's good.
- 41:11Like a nice Genuinely sweet girl.
- 41:13Those are the craziest you know that.
- 41:15Stop that.
- 41:17But, um, you know, they, they, you know, go over, you know, and you know, uh, there's not a lot you can do when you don't have a license and you have to depend on your parents.
- 41:27But she goes to his lacrosse game.
- 41:28She came to the game and played.
- 41:30Fort Mill.
- 41:31She had her mom drive her 40 whatever minutes to go watch this game.
- 41:37I know we were, Brandon was like, dang, she must really like you to drive.
- 41:42But I mean, I met her mom.
- 41:44Her mom's really nice.
- 41:45Good.
- 41:45Was Dylan like, yeah, I got that Riz and that what they say now?
- 41:48I, you know, he was just like, whatever.
- 41:50Yeah.
- 41:51They have to do their, you know, picture for whichever social media platform they're posting on.
- 41:56Yeah.
- 41:57But she is so cute and yeah, she's a sweet girl, sweet girl.
- 42:02Yeah, that's good.
- 42:03So every night they're being a FaceTime each other every night.
- 42:05I could not.
- 42:06Could you imagine like always having to have, like, be ready to FaceTime somebody?
- 42:11No, uh, but you know what like when I was like that age, I didn't really care.
- 42:14Like, yeah, I guess you're right.
- 42:16I didn't need all the things that I need now to make me presentable.
- 42:21It was, I was cute without anything.
- 42:24Yeah, but not anymore and I would not want to like be on all the time.
- 42:29In other words, don't FaceTime us, we'll FaceTime you.
- 42:32Maybe.
- 42:33Maybe.
- 42:34I'll just do the audio.
- 42:35Yeah.
- 42:36There you go.
- 42:39I feel like I was going to tell you something else, but I can't think of what it is.
- 42:43I don't know.
- 42:44Oh, well.
- 42:44It's okay.
- 42:45Anything else coming up?
- 42:46No.
- 42:47No.
- 42:48Me and Dylan are supposed to do a movie night tonight.
- 42:50Are you?
- 42:50What are you going to watch?
- 42:51I don't really know.
- 42:52I think maybe the The newest Jurassic Park that came out.
- 42:56I haven't seen it yet.
- 42:56He did.
- 42:56But, yeah, you know, we've got, um, the projector upstairs.
- 43:00Nice.
- 43:01It's nothing fancy, right?
- 43:03It was like Amazon.
- 43:04You plug in your whatever.
- 43:06And it do you have good sound up there too?
- 43:08Because the sound makes it too.
- 43:09Um, yeah, it's, it's not the best, but it's like, okay.
- 43:12Yeah, you know, but it's, it's.
- 43:14It's better than just watching a regular TV.
- 43:16It's, you know, the whole entire wall.
- 43:17There's always something when he turns surround sound on when it goes from like the regular TV.
- 43:21Like if you're watching a game or like my husband likes racing, but the first time it clicks on and it's just like, and it's like, Oh my God, so freaking loud.
- 43:30I know.
- 43:30I know.
- 43:31I can't say it.
- 43:32So, uh, we might, if, if he doesn't ditch me to go to the field to play lacrosse, we'll have to do that later.
- 43:37And you can't really complain with him wanting to get outside and, I know.
- 43:41I, he's, he does.
- 43:42He's, thank God.
- 43:44Such a good kid.
- 43:45He's got his moments.
- 43:48Don't get me wrong.
- 43:49We all do.
- 43:50But compared to what I was doing at that age, we won't talk about those things because my mom might listen.
- 43:59You better listen.
- 44:00Um, so my brother and sister, you know, I was the baby.
- 44:04And so they're like, you know, she never got in trouble.
- 44:06And I'm like, listen, I just.
- 44:07Learn from all of y'all's mistakes.
- 44:09Absolutely.
- 44:09And didn't get caught.
- 44:10Right.
- 44:10So, right.
- 44:11And mom was probably exhausted by that point and was just like, she's fine.
- 44:15Yeah.
- 44:16How many siblings do you have?
- 44:17I have two sisters and a brother.
- 44:19Oh, wow.
- 44:19Okay.
- 44:20Yeah.
- 44:20Yeah.
- 44:22And I'm the baby of one sister.
- 44:25So, like, Brandon and I talked about this, like, About traits of like, he's an only child.
- 44:30Oh, birth older.
- 44:31Yeah.
- 44:31Okay.
- 44:31He's an only child and I am the youngest.
- 44:33Oh, yeah.
- 44:33And so I had to like fight for, you know, everything.
- 44:35Right.
- 44:36And he's like, this is what is so wrong with you because Oh, that's the one thing.
- 44:42I'm just kidding.
- 44:43I'm like, well, you never had to argue with anybody'cause you were the only child.
- 44:46Right.
- 44:46You know, like you didn't have that like sibling, like, like to prove.
- 44:49Yeah.
- 44:49Or yeah.
- 44:49And I had to compete against three others.
- 44:54Yeah.
- 44:54Yeah.
- 44:55Like.
- 44:55You know right when Nintendo came out and like, so we had like, you know, the Nintendo, like the original Nintendo?
- 45:00Yeah.
- 45:01It was like duck hunt, you know.
- 45:02Oh, G guy.
- 45:03Yeah.
- 45:03Save the ducks.
- 45:07Save the ducks, put water in the incubators.
- 45:12This has been a duck shot.
- 45:15What?
- 45:15The duck.
- 45:16So like I was never, like, I never got a turn.
- 45:18'cause like by the time it was my turn, then there's like, was it bedtime or whatever?
- 45:21No.
- 45:21Like, they just were like, oh, well I'm gonna play again.
- 45:23Like, you know, like when you're the youngest and like you're like.
- 45:25Like, you don't get a say, so that Christmas, well, the Christmas that game boy came out, I got a game boy and my mom was like, she doesn't have to share with any of you.
- 45:35Oh, that was sweet.
- 45:37That was a good idea.
- 45:38That was a sweet idea.
- 45:40So, you know, like, if you had to take a road trip, I'm just back there playing.
- 45:42You're back there playing.
- 45:44You know, black and white screen.
- 45:46Oh, God.
- 45:46And now it's like, pick up your phone and do whatever.
- 45:49So, yeah, you showed them though.
- 45:51I did.
- 45:51Game boy.
- 45:52Yep.
- 45:54Dang siblings.
- 45:56I love all of you.
- 45:56We love you though.
- 45:58We love you.
- 45:58Now.
- 45:59Now.
- 46:00Yeah.
- 46:00More now than then.
- 46:01Yes.
- 46:02I mean, I love them too then, but they were just, they weren't very nice.
- 46:04I loved them, but didn't like.
- 46:05Yeah.
- 46:06Sometimes.
- 46:07Yeah.
- 46:07That's still her clothes.
- 46:09We have trauma from that.
- 46:12Brandon gets so mad if like anybody wears his socks.
- 46:14You know, like, like he never had to share anything.
- 46:16And I'm like, dude, like clothes would be missing for like months.
- 46:20Like my sister would lend them out to her.
- 46:21Like we were all the same size, like pretty much.
- 46:24And so like, we would be missing clothes for months.
- 46:26And then they all of a sudden they would just like reappear.
- 46:28So like, I have no like issues.
- 46:30Like if I can't find something, I'm like, Oh, whatever.
- 46:33And he's like, oh my god.
- 46:34Oh my.
- 46:34That's funny.
- 46:35Yeah.
- 46:35That's funny.
- 46:36The dynamics of an only child versus I could see that.
- 46:39Siblings, I could see that.
- 46:40Well, I am the baby.
- 46:43Brian is the oldest of his siblings, and then Jackson isn't only, so I don't even know where to go with that.
- 46:49I don't even know where to go with that.
- 46:51So best of luck to us.
- 46:52Yeah.
- 46:54Well, anything else?
- 46:55I think that's all that's going on with me.
- 46:57Um, next week we will have a new book to talk about.
- 47:01We will have a new book to talk about.
- 47:02We will have a great new story.
- 47:05Yes.
- 47:05Or dumb crimes.
- 47:06We will.
- 47:06And then I'll give you my umpire update.
- 47:08Oh my gosh, I cannot wait.
- 47:09And, um, hopefully it won't make me cry.
- 47:11Yeah.
- 47:13And maybe, you know, we'll touch on maybe some work life balance and what we can do for work life balance.
- 47:19Yeah.
- 47:19I need some help with that.
- 47:20Me too.
- 47:24All right, everybody.
- 47:24Thank you for joining us.
- 47:26Thank you.
- 47:27Sorry for this lighting.
- 47:28That is, it's on radio if you're watching the video version.
- 47:31Yes.
- 47:32So, all right, guys.
- 47:33Well, we will see you next week.
- 47:35Sounds good.
- 47:36Thank you.
- 47:36Thank you.
- 47:37Bye.