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S6 E6 Wedding Videos · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio. Hey, guys, guess what. Ben's not here today.
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  Speaker 1: But I have somebody else who I have also really
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  Speaker 1: good on air chemistry with. His name is Jared and
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  Speaker 1: he is my fiance. Hello. Thank you for having me
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  Speaker 1: this week. Jared, I am. I want to here every
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  Speaker 1: week because we talk so well together. We do talk
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  Speaker 1: so well together. It's almost like we have great chemistry. Yeah. Almost.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy enough to get engaged and stuff. Yeah, to
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  Speaker 1: do that little thing when I get on one name
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  Speaker 1: asked for your hand in marriage? Is that small part.
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  Speaker 1: Jared and I are in d C right now. We
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  Speaker 1: are home in Virginia at my home from now until Monday.
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  Speaker 1: And then Jared we were at his place in Rhode
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  Speaker 1: Island from last Thursday to Wednesday. Yeah. Well we ken
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  Speaker 1: of Virginia because we heard Virginia is for lovers where
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  Speaker 1: I heard that from. So we had to come home
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  Speaker 1: because we're in love and Virginia for lovers, right. Actually, um,
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  Speaker 1: we were asked to go down to Richmond and kind
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  Speaker 1: of like recreate Becca's date, but then we were like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, we only have a certain amount of
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  Speaker 1: time with family, which date the Richmond dates. I'll go
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  Speaker 1: to some of the spots on the Richmond dates. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we would have kind of did a little sight
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  Speaker 1: seeing from the Bachelor dates Bachelorette dates. Yeah, but I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I want there with their grade field trip.
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  Speaker 1: It's not good for to clarify with you, guys. Everybody's
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  Speaker 1: very confused where I'm from. Where are you from? Actually
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  Speaker 1: from you're from Venus, That's where you're from. I was
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  Speaker 1: born in New Jersey, guys, so that all the Jersey
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  Speaker 1: girls who are obsessed with the fact that, like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: from Jersey. I was born there, lived there till I
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  Speaker 1: was too, moved to Massachusetts until I was five, and
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  Speaker 1: then I've grown up in Virginia like plus twenty years,
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  Speaker 1: so from kindergarten through college and beyond. And then I
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  Speaker 1: did live in Jersey the year before being on the Bachelor,
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  Speaker 1: which is why they said I was from Wayne, New Jersey.
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  Speaker 1: But I was only living there for a year and
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  Speaker 1: a half my sister was in school. But you're also
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  Speaker 1: technically born in Jersey, so year that they put that no, no,
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  Speaker 1: but you know that they wanted me to have the
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  Speaker 1: Jersey girl rep because, of course, because you look like
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  Speaker 1: a Jersey girl, like there's not a part of me
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  Speaker 1: on the on Christmas season, looked like I was from Virginia.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely no. I saw you and immediately thought Jersey. That's
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  Speaker 1: all I could take. But it's pretty cool that you
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  Speaker 1: were from Boston, from Massachusetts for a couple of years
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  Speaker 1: that you lived there, because I'm from Rhode Island. So
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  Speaker 1: Ashley and I always like to think that maybe we
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  Speaker 1: crossed paths when we were both three years old, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like we met, not in a previous life, but as
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  Speaker 1: a young toddler, we passed our our cross we crossed
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  Speaker 1: paths cross past a couple of times. I really like
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  Speaker 1: to think that we did. Because he goes to Newport,
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  Speaker 1: Rhode Island a lot. It's actually one of the spots
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  Speaker 1: that we are contemplating getting married in, and that was
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  Speaker 1: Newport was a place that my parents would go to
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  Speaker 1: on the weekends when we were living in Massachusetts when
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  Speaker 1: they wanted to treat themselves because it's just such a
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  Speaker 1: cute little town with cute restaurants and shops and boats.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, shops and boats. I just thought
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  Speaker 1: that was so funny. It was such a departure from
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  Speaker 1: what I thought you were gonna either You're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: like shops and restaurants and bars, and you're like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: shops and boats. I don't know. I think of Newport
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  Speaker 1: and I think of sail boats. Yeah, I think of
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  Speaker 1: the same thing. Anyway, Jared was sweet enough to as
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  Speaker 1: we were going from Providence to Boston last week, we
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  Speaker 1: stopped by my old house that I grew up in
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  Speaker 1: from the ages of two to five, where my sister
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  Speaker 1: was born and all that cool stuff. Yeah, so I
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  Speaker 1: got to see where you were living in Boston all
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  Speaker 1: those years, all those years ago when I when I
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  Speaker 1: first discovered Jasmine and Aladdin. That's where I had my
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  Speaker 1: birthday party where I had a face painter come and
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  Speaker 1: they she painted the Genie and Jasmine on everybody's cheek.
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  Speaker 1: What were you, Well, I actually had the Genie on
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  Speaker 1: my cheek. That makes sense as a kid who didn't
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  Speaker 1: love the Genie. Yeah, Plus it's like the most artistic thing.
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  Speaker 1: He probably was able to really nail the Genie face
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  Speaker 1: paint totally. And you didn't want to be that girl
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  Speaker 1: with the Jasmine face paint. You were like, I want
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  Speaker 1: to be fun I mean, I am Jasmine, though, why
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  Speaker 1: would I need her on my face? Okay, well, Mr
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  Speaker 1: mya Addin, There's two things I wanted to say before
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  Speaker 1: moving on to beyond Jared in my life, so I'm sorry. Um. First,
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  Speaker 1: Jared's friend Crystal was the one who signed him up
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  Speaker 1: for the show, and I, of course, because so Ashley,
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  Speaker 1: I have me applied myself and of course made the
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  Speaker 1: most elaborate audition tape of all life. And yes, I
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  Speaker 1: know I've promised you guys that you're gonna see it
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  Speaker 1: at some point, but honestly, every time I rewatch it,
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  Speaker 1: I cringe too hard that I can't even show you, guys, like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even think you really would want to see it.
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  Speaker 1: It's so cringeworthy. I just rewatched my Bachelor audition tape
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  Speaker 1: and it's so cringe worth is pretty darn cringe work.
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  Speaker 1: It's so bad. I'm not even sure how I got
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  Speaker 1: on the show from that video. I I when we
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  Speaker 1: watched it back a couple of weeks ago, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: why the hell did they pick me? I remember making
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  Speaker 1: it think he was so good and I took I
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  Speaker 1: put so much effort into it and edited it at
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  Speaker 1: music and then like it was this big production and
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  Speaker 1: now I look back and watch it and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: that was a piece of garbage. I can't believe you
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  Speaker 1: actually put that together. So you were like the perfect
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  Speaker 1: American man, you know, That's what I was going for.
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  Speaker 1: Crystal said that when when my friend Crystal who signed
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  Speaker 1: me up, she was like, you don't understand you're the
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  Speaker 1: all American Like, that's what you need to go for it.
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  Speaker 1: That's who you are. So just put yourself in that
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  Speaker 1: video and you'll get on the show. You're a small
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  Speaker 1: town guy that was throwing a football with his dog
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  Speaker 1: like it was well to be fair, I was drowing
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  Speaker 1: a football with my dad and my dog was in
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  Speaker 1: the backyard with us. I was not throwing a football
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  Speaker 1: at my dog. For all the animals out there, That's
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  Speaker 1: not what I meant. I mean, you were with your dog.
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  Speaker 1: You were like, I'm surprised you weren't barbecuing you. Did
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  Speaker 1: you hit balls? Were you like in a baseball field?
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  Speaker 1: I forgot, so I had Crystal come film me in
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  Speaker 1: the bat and gages. I was like, hey, baseballs, And
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  Speaker 1: then I was hitting golf balls, and then I was
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  Speaker 1: playing catch with my dad a lot more vanilla than
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  Speaker 1: you actually are. Video. Yeah, I didn't know what else
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  Speaker 1: to add though. It was just I mean the instructions
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  Speaker 1: really just say, you know, make a video of your
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  Speaker 1: daily life. And so what is my daily life? I
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  Speaker 1: go to work, I work out, I eat. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, okay, I mean I played catch with my dad,
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  Speaker 1: I I go golfing sometimes I play sports. When else
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  Speaker 1: am I gonna put this video? And so that's exactly
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  Speaker 1: what I did, But it was you could have been
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  Speaker 1: like me and be like, this is my first group date,
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  Speaker 1: this is my first one on one. Is my fantasy
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  Speaker 1: Sue date. Actually, up to that point when I made
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  Speaker 1: the video, I've never seen the show. And so once
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  Speaker 1: the video sent in and I went through casting more,
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  Speaker 1: and then January or yet January came around, I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I really need to watch the show because there's a
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  Speaker 1: real potential of me being on here. And then that's
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  Speaker 1: when I started watching Chris Soul season. And then I
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  Speaker 1: went back and watched a little of Andy Dorfman season,
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  Speaker 1: which ironically enough, is when I got first introduced to
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  Speaker 1: Nick Vile. And that's when I started watching the show.
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  Speaker 1: That guy seems difficult to live with that forward four
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  Speaker 1: years I live with them. I was like, what a
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  Speaker 1: doche bag? Who would be friends with this guy four years?
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  Speaker 1: He's one of my close friends. Um well, I brought
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  Speaker 1: up Crystal only audition tape because Jared and I have
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  Speaker 1: been thinking a lot over the past couple of weeks
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  Speaker 1: about just these little things that have led to us meeting,
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  Speaker 1: falling in love, and live together. Like if his best
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  Speaker 1: friend in old roommate didn't send in his application at
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  Speaker 1: the time that she did, and if it didn't catch
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  Speaker 1: the eye of the casting producers, and you know, same
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  Speaker 1: in my situation, And if I were casting on one
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  Speaker 1: Pablo season because I submitted it the year before and
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  Speaker 1: I didn't hear for nine months, Like what if I
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  Speaker 1: was on one public season? Maybe I would have never
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  Speaker 1: met you? Yeah? No, it's crazy to think. What if
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  Speaker 1: they held me out to JoJo's season? I know, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I guess we would have um cross paths in some
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  Speaker 1: way but potential extent. But even it's it's so it's
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  Speaker 1: such a random, uh set of events that had to
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  Speaker 1: occur for us to me. Um, it is crazy to
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  Speaker 1: think about, Like my friend Crystal, she sign me up
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  Speaker 1: at a bar That's how I got sad. I was
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  Speaker 1: sad in a box. I am signing him up for
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor while she was mad at me for something
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  Speaker 1: I was doing. It was hung up on the next yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and and she was like, you're an idiot. You need
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  Speaker 1: to sign up for the show. And I was like, Crystal,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not signing up for the bachelorrette and she got
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  Speaker 1: was you know. We had a couple of drinks and
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  Speaker 1: she went on her phone and just applied and sent
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  Speaker 1: in pictures and wrote like this little bio. She did
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  Speaker 1: that on her phone, unbelieable. She wrote this little bio
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  Speaker 1: about how I love Superman and Rob Thomas and like
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  Speaker 1: I'm from a small town. And then all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 1: you know, a couple months later, I had a miss
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  Speaker 1: phone call from Los Angeles and listened to my voicemail
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  Speaker 1: and said, hey, this is you know, ABC is the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelorette casting to poor MC calling reaching out to Jared,
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  Speaker 1: see if we can talk to you for a few minutes.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell is going on right now?
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  Speaker 1: And then you know, four years later, here I am
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  Speaker 1: on the grandest ship in the world engage the most
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  Speaker 1: beautiful woman in the world. Oh my goodness, gracious, you
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  Speaker 1: love me. I do love you. I love you so much.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a luckiest man alive. I really am. He just
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  Speaker 1: spoils me with words. I'm very touchy. If he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: touch me for like five minutes, get separation anxiety, Well,
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  Speaker 1: he says, he gets separation anxiety. But like it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be bad because like in a year, if it's not
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  Speaker 1: like a gradual decrease of touch, I'm gonna be like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, it's been ten minutes. This relationship is over.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't like me anymore, because that's how touchy he is.
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  Speaker 1: You guys, you don't understand. Like, if he doesn't have
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  Speaker 1: his hand on my knee, I'm like, oh, he's in
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  Speaker 1: a bad mood. That's a that's a tell tale sign
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  Speaker 1: right there. I'm not touching him in a bad mood. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty transparent, But you're not usually at a bad
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  Speaker 1: mood towards me. No, of course not. Um okay, wait,
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  Speaker 1: maybe we should talk about this episode now. I was
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  Speaker 1: totally going to talk about the episode, but I was
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  Speaker 1: going to say one more thing beforehand. Okay, one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: Videos and editing and stuff. Um, I found out the
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  Speaker 1: sweetest thing this week. So Jared went and he bought
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  Speaker 1: his first Mac computer. Yes, Apple, And I'm staying proud
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  Speaker 1: of him. Yes, I'm an adult now, I'm so adulting.
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  Speaker 1: I got my Mac. Yeah. And he responds to emails quickly.
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  Speaker 1: Now it's so great, and I text message people on
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  Speaker 1: the computer, which is blowing my mind. It's fantastic. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so proud of him. And he's going to do some
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  Speaker 1: video projects. It's gonna be great. I'm going to be
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  Speaker 1: so good. So U for my birthday two and a
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  Speaker 1: half years ago, Holy moly, two and a half. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it was my birthday March when kidding? March six? The
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  Speaker 1: time of day? What time day? Yeah? Uh? You were
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  Speaker 1: born in night? Yeah? I don't remember the exact time. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: wait were you born? I hope you were born at night.
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  Speaker 1: I was born. I think you were. It wasn't like ten.
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  Speaker 1: You're good. Oh wait, I'm so sorry. Okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I found out something so sweet. We're at the
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  Speaker 1: Max Store and I was like, are you going to
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  Speaker 1: add video edit because we're trying to figure out like
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  Speaker 1: if he needs a pro or an air or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, I'll probably do some video editing.
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  Speaker 1: And then I was like, okay, well you probably need to.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, wait a second. When you made me
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  Speaker 1: the Backstreet Boys video for my birthday, how did you
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  Speaker 1: edit that if you had a PC without like a
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  Speaker 1: video editing equipment on there? And he was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: did on my phone? He edited a three and a
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  Speaker 1: half minute video with like multiple scene changes and like
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  Speaker 1: dub overs with a phoney fingers. Oh it was. And
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  Speaker 1: then I hugged him for like five minutes because that
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  Speaker 1: was the sweetest thing, because who could There's no such
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  Speaker 1: thing as putting more effort into a birthday gift than
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  Speaker 1: to edit a three minute video with your fingers. M
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  Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but yeah, it was. It
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  Speaker 1: took me, It took me a little while to finish.
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  Speaker 1: It was worth it though. I had to do it,
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  Speaker 1: all right. I had to do it. Baby. I love you,
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  Speaker 1: I love um. Can we just say that one one
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  Speaker 1: little thing? One more thing? What could you possibly want
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  Speaker 1: to say right now? I want to talk about how
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  Speaker 1: we're nine months of one week apart. Okay, alright, long story.
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  Speaker 1: So she was born in March on born in November.
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  Speaker 1: We figured out that I was pretty much she's pretty
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  Speaker 1: much more nine months and one week after me, so
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  Speaker 1: we so obviously I was conceived about a week after
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  Speaker 1: Ashley was born. So we have this joke that like
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  Speaker 1: God was looking down and as soon as Ashley was born,
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  Speaker 1: he's like, oh, oh God, what did I do? Did
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  Speaker 1: I put in this world? I need to get somebody
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  Speaker 1: out here to contain this, And so he like scrambled
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  Speaker 1: and he's talking to himself and he's like, listen, alright, God, alright, God,
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  Speaker 1: you can do this, Like if you created the earth
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  Speaker 1: and seven days, you can create somebody for this person
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  Speaker 1: in seven days. And then he created me and he
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  Speaker 1: looked at my parents in Rhode Island. He's like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: that couple, this could be good. Who should give birth
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  Speaker 1: to this little angel, this little saint I'm putting on
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  Speaker 1: her like this cute little couple of Drood Island and
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  Speaker 1: Fred perfect. Nine months later I came out and then
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  Speaker 1: we crossed past the Newport and then, you know, twenty
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  Speaker 1: six years later we met. And I was a fool
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  Speaker 1: for two and a half years. Uh, but then I uh,
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  Speaker 1: I you know, stepped up to the plate and put
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  Speaker 1: a ring on it and he's been well, he's just
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  Speaker 1: been an angel ever since I first laid on us
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  Speaker 1: on him. But anyway, enough mush for all of you guys.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I know that you want to throw up
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  Speaker 1: throw up at us. Half the time. Half the time
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  Speaker 1: you're going oh, and the other half is like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you guys areneous. Enough pictures were done with it. You're
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  Speaker 1: killing it. It's getting old. Um. One of the things
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  Speaker 1: that I've been doing with Jared since we've been gotten
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  Speaker 1: together is I've been upping his skincare routine. He got
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  Speaker 1: as the first facial a couple of weeks ago, and
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  Speaker 1: he well, one was in pain because she was digging
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  Speaker 1: out a lot of blackheads. Oh, there's so many blackets
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  Speaker 1: in my nose. I was good. God, she was like
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  Speaker 1: putting so much pressure on my nose for at least
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  Speaker 1: twenty minutes, and then she was thinking, you need to
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  Speaker 1: do I just really wanted to tell her, Okay, I
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  Speaker 1: think you got him. I think we can move past
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  Speaker 1: the nose. I'm their tears falling down. I thought a
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  Speaker 1: facial was supposed to be an enjoyable experience, and here
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  Speaker 1: I am just internally crying. Well, that's because you didn't
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  Speaker 1: take good enough care of your skin beforehand. But I
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  Speaker 1: think I think let's move on. I'm always just putting
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  Speaker 1: the stuff on his face. Now he's like, what is
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  Speaker 1: this doing. I'm like, it's good for you, just trust me.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things that I put on Jared's face
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  Speaker 1: is bio Clarity. It really completes his skin care routine.
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  Speaker 1: And there are two different routines depending on your skin
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  Speaker 1: care type. There's this, there is the clear Skin routine
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  Speaker 1: for combination oily and breakout prone skin that would be
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  Speaker 1: most designed for Jared. In my skin, it is three
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  Speaker 1: easy steps you're gonna cleanse, street and restore. It contains
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  Speaker 1: nourishing plant extracts like camemil, green tea, cucumber, licorice, root,
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  Speaker 1: oh Colonel plus floor relax that is derived from chlorophill.
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  Speaker 1: All those are very soothing, so you're not gonna get
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  Speaker 1: any redness or irritation from this. It's also going to
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  Speaker 1: help fight breakouts, minimize redness, reduced poor size, and even
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  Speaker 1: out skin tone. It's been the best first face ever
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  Speaker 1: since that facial that just got out all the dirt.
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  Speaker 1: It's just really calmed things down and it kept breakouts
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  Speaker 1: away and you're gonna see results in as little as
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  Speaker 1: two weeks because the ingredients that they have in here
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  Speaker 1: are so good and so pure. There's also the essential
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  Speaker 1: routine for a more dry, normal skin if you have
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  Speaker 1: less breakout issues. Bio Clarity is delivered straight to your
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  Speaker 1: door and it's an easy to use, three steps skincare
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  Speaker 1: routine that's one vegan and cruelty free and gluten free
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  Speaker 1: for all of you who have an extreme intolerance to gluten.
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• 16:46
  Speaker 1: no more blackheads for Jared. You don't you're keeping them
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• 16:52
  Speaker 1: let's get into some bachelor news that isn't about us,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: because you know, and we don't want to be self
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: centered like that. No, not at all. Start talking about
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: other people. Yeah, right, let's let's gossip now, perfect, let's
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: not be self centered. Let's go let's be dramatic and gossip. Um.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation is kind of freaking out about Garrett's wedding
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: vows from his first marriage. And he was married when
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: he was twenty three. Um, he looks young in the video. Yeah,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: they're up on on the internet. We just watched them.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Everything is on the internet. I'm not sure why people
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: are freaking out because, like, we all know that he
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: was married before. So what's the big deal of the
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: wedding video exists on the internet. If you're a millennial couple,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: you probably put your wedding on the internet. Of course,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: there's a wedding video. If you're married within the past
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: five years, you have some sort of wedding video that's
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: probably on the internet. So I don't understand why people
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: are freaking out of either. I guess maybe now because
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: not only have they heard that he was married before,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: but now they're actually seeing it and seeing his actual
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: words during the vows and how meaningful they are and
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: he's crying. And then what's he was married for two months?
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: Well that's the mystery, Jared. They were together for three years,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: but they were only married for two months. What could
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: happen after the vows that shows something that you haven't
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: seen for three years that you so immediately need to
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: end the marriage. And judging by the quality of the
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: video and the editing, I feel like the video took
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: longer than two months to finish, So that would make
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: me believe that the marriage was over before the video
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: was done, And then it wouldn't have made the internet unless,
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: like the videography company decided to just put it up.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: There'd be pretty smart to do that. Um, yeah, but
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: it doesn't. I don't understand why people are freaking out,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: Like he got married. Everybody knows this, He said his vows, like,
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: for example, there's been many contestants on The Bachelor, the
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise that have said engagement speeches who have not
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: gotten engaged, that have gotten broken up with and so like,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: it sucks not to have that moment again. But it's
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I think everybody just knows, well, if you propose, then
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: you said some meaningful things to that person, and if
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: you got married for you said some many things meaningful
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: things to that person. So I don't really get why
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: people are u ponomans about it. I don't see it
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: was a big deal. I think there are two references
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: in there that people like may raise a brow. There
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: was naked and afraid of reference about like private parts,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: and then there was drop dead Diva was dropped oat Diva?
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Or is it um it was another reality TV show
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: like a dating show, w w E Diva's um something okay?
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: So I don't know. Does it mean that he's like
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: a reality show freak and that maybe he's doing this
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: for the fame rather than for the right reasons. That
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: would be the only red flag. But having said that, yes,
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I agree, I I like I said, I was just
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: about to say, I think it's b s because everybody
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: watches reality TV, So like, what, just because he was
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: referencing some in his vows doesn't mean that he's not
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette for the wrong reasons. Yeah, it's like,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: what if you watch from my audition tape where I
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: say it's so embarrassing guys. Um, in my first scene,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I have a subtext over it, you know, like an
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: overlay that says, I hope this bachelor is Jeff Home.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm sorry. I know, well, I'm not sure.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: I can never look at you the same, Jared. You
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: have to go back and watch Emily season and see
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: how dreamy he was. Sure that would just show that
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I was a huge fan. So was I on the
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: wrong reasons because I was obsessed with the show beforehand? No,
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. Yeah, I know it's all crazy.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: All right, let's see, Um, Derek and Taylor broke up.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Um we kind of I thought that they may have
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: been on the rocks. Yeah, I mean I talked about
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: this a little bit on my podcast Help Us Out
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: at Dating Um with Dean and Vanessa. You guys, if
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: you didn't know, Jared is now a staple, a host
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: who's staying there forever, staying there forever, not leaving. You're
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: gonna have to throw me out of that building to
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: get me off that podcast. Not really, I've been so
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: proud of him, baby, just they're given our numbers, are
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: their numbers are arrival in the almost famous number. You know.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: We just want to we want to let a little
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: fire under your in Ben's ask, you know, keep you
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: guys going. Well, a little competition never hurt anybody. No,
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: But seriously, yeah, I do to help us set a
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: dating podcast with Dean, Vanessa and myself. It's a you
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: guys would really appreciate if you check it out. Um.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: But in terms of the Taylor and Derek situation, UM,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I don't want to sound like a jerk by saying this,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: but I just I honestly forgot that they were engaged.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: But I also think that a lot of people did
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: for the simple fact they didn't get engaged on the
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: actual show of Paradise. They got engaged on the reunion
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: the after show. And so that's why I kind of forgot,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: because I was like, wait, there was an engagement last year.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's right, Derek proposed on the
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: after show. I knew they left together. Remember that. Um,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: but you know they were together for a year and
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: we're trying to figure it out. Apparently they were long
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: distance the entire time. Did you know this? Yes? I
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: didn't know this because we had Derek on the podcast
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: about six weeks ago. What did he say about it?
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: He was just like, yeah, we're a long distance Uh,
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: we're just making at work right now. That's so interesting.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I wonder if they had a plan not to like
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: dive into like a long distance like New York to Boston.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: That's like long distance across the country. She was in
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Seattle and he was in New York, right, Um, yeah,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: that's a huge distance to travel. But you know, my
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: my thing, it's like, if you're meant to be and
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: you want to be together, then you will be together.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Distance it's never going to be the sole reason for
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: a breakup. And anybody who just blames distance or just
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: blames their schedules is masking something like yeah. Um. But
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: having said that, if you are doing long distance, I
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: think that you have to just have some sort of plan, right.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: So if you're doing long distance, you just have to say, Okay,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do a long distance right now, But you know,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: in eight months from now, we're gonna be planning to
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: live together. I'm going to plan to move to you.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: You're going to plan to move to me something. Right,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: You can't just be like, hey, we're gonna do a
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: long distance and we're just gonna play it by ear
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: and figure it out specifically when you're engaged. I think
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: you really have to put effort in to say, hey,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: if we're gonna do this long distance thing, for it now,
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: but we're planning on getting married. We just have to
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: have some sort of tentative plan to say, hey, within
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: the next year, I'm either moving to Seattle or you're
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: moving to New York. Because it's really difficult to make
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: a long distance relationship work now. I don't think that's
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: why you break up. I completely agree with you. Where
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: if it's you know, I don't. I'm not a believer
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: of like everything happens for a reason, or if it's
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: meant to be, it's meant to be, Like it's more
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: it's more so for me, Like you have to put
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: effort to it, right, Like if you just a combination
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: to me, yeah, but like for example, if you say, well,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: if it's meant to be it's meant to be, so
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: we're gonna stay long distance. But if it's meant to be,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: it's meant to be, it's like, no, you have to
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: put you have to put effort into it. So if
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: you guys are a long distance and you are wanting
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: to be with each other, then somebody's gonna have to
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: budge and somebody's gonna have to move where they're living. So,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: having said that, like it had been a year, apparently
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: it had been a years since they've been engaged, been
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: together left the show, um, and so the idea that
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: they still had not moved at least in the same
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: as each other obviously some sort of red flag and
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: not surprising that they broke up. That wasn't the red
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: flag to me. Um, we can't really reveal too much,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: but there are a lot of Bachelor cameos in Paradise
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: this year, a lot, and we heard that they were
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: not one of them. And that's when Jared I were like,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: red flag, Well we knew something was up, obviously, yeah,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and they were like, oh, our schedules won't allow and
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: it's like you you come on, you make your schedule
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: around the Bachelor. Yeah, of course if you have an
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: opportunity to make a cameo on a show, you're going
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: to revolve your schedule or on that, because how many
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: opportunities do you have that in life? Not many. Now
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: we know that Karin and Taylor had quite an infamous
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: yeah for each other, which is crazy to think that
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Nick was on the two on one as the Bachelor.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: For some reason, that's still is weird for me to
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: think about Jared sees Nick as his roommate, not as
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor. Well, I think it's also different for us
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: because you know, for me, I was on the bachelorret
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: with Nick and then we on Paradise together, and so
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I it's just still like, obviously, no, he was the Bachelor,
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: but it's like, oh, that's right, use the Bachelor too,
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: that's right, Holy moly. And he had a two on
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: one and he had a to one with Karn and Taylor.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: That was his two on one. It's just I was
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I don't forget that, but I just have to remind myself.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't imagine having him having patience and
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: tolerance for that too on one specifically, who has a
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: patience talents for any two on one? Wait, speaking of
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: moving in and living together. I think a lot of
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: people are like, wait, does Jared live in l A now? Yes,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Jared lives in l A now, and Jared does live
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: with Nick now, but um, we are going to be
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: figuring out the living situation. He'll probably move in fall. Okay.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: So I have a new apartment. As we all know,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: we made sure that it didn't have any ghosts or
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: deaths that happened in it. Yeah, you got to make sure. Yeah.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: So I'm still settling that in and I didn't want
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Jared to move in while I'm still like in the
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: mess of all the moving and settling because I like
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: one thing done and then you introduce another thing. Perfect.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Jared stays there like a four or five days and yeah,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: it's fine. We don't really have to talk about this.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I just realized that my pants are inside out. Oh
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: that's all right, they still feel good. Um okay. So
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: so anyway, the two one one with Karen and Taylor.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Karin had something to say about the Derek and Taylor
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: breaking up. Karin uh savagely apparently said good. Uh he
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: as in, Derek actually lasted longer than I thought. Taylor
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: is a nightmare. Is anybody surprised by this. Of course,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: Karan's gonna talk crap about it. She doesn't like Taylor.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Karan likes making a splash. Yeah, let's move on, Nick File,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: do you want to do it? A little news alert,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: breaking news, breaking news. We have a breaking news alert, guys, everybody,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: we have big news, world world news. Nick File is
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: still single. No, apparently one of our news things is
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: Nick File is not dating Rumor. Willis Rumor is one
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: of Nick's really good friends has become friends with her. Yeah,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Rumors the sweetest girl. He seems really cool. Never met her,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: but all the stories they tell of her just I
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: really like her vibes through stories. Oh it's just great.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: And uh, there have been rumors out there. There have
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: been rumors of us of him and Rumor dating because
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: they posted a couple of pictures together. Um obviously Rumor
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: one Dancing with the Stars a few years ago. And
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Nick is a public figure for himself. He was also
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: on Dancing with the Stars, who I thought should have
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: went further. Him and Peter were really good. I was surprised,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I think something like that, and I thought he was
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: gonna make top five. I thought he was pretty good.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: He was getting better as the season one along, but
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: unfortunately he did not win. But they were spotted together.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: They've posted pictures together online. So now their rumor mill
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: is circling saying or Nick and Rumor willis dating breaking news.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: They are not dating um and so Nick. You know
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Nick's doing his thing in Los Angeles right now and
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: and so. But no, I can tell you he's not
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: dating rumors alright, So Nick and Rumor are not in
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  Speaker 1: All right, now, guys, now we're going to jump into
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: the recap of last night's episode. I don't think Jared
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: and I could have pressed pause any more times to discuss.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: So I thought it was a great episode for Jared
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: and I to be doing this podcast together because we
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: debated naturally so much throughout it. So now we can
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: just debate on the podcast. All right. We actually tried
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: not to go like thoroughly into the conversations last night
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: because we're like it for the podcast. Yeah, I get
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: our initial reaction on air. Okay, well, I mean let's
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: start with the first one I got. I got fired
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: up over the Calton thing because Jared and my mom
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: were like, I don't know if I buy this guy,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it like that. Okay, fine, you clarify,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: you make it all like Jared PC, I mean, well,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I think you're getting hyped up because you were notoriously
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: known for being a virgin on Christill season. Because but
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: the difference was you kind of said it earlier on
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: where Colin was waiting until the final six. They know that, like,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: oh he's gonna get really far we'll save it till then,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: because with Grecia they saved it in so like fantasy suite.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I think with Colton, up to this point, listen, Colton,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a very nice human being. I think
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: up to this point, at least through the viewing of
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor Rette, he has come across a little bit
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: as playing it by the book. Uh, you know, the
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: whole tea situation. Everything he's been saying to Becca, Like,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: I hated the conversation that they had a couple of
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: weeks ago with Becca confronting him about the tea situation.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Nothing was resolved and she's like, okay, perfect, here's a rose.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: But you know I felt the same way. I was like,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: wait a second, and then um, you know he's very
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: uh like we're talking about it, he's just very charming,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: very smooth, knows what he's doing. Last night was literally like,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: we'll see the difference between Colton and you being virgins,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: is that like you looked like a virgin? No, why
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: if you did not look like a virgins? Saying that
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: you you're a little bit more curious. I looked nervous,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I wasn't smooth. I looked like I really didn't know
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: what the heck I was doing. You came across a
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: little bit more awkward colin comings across, looks across like
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: he could take your clothes off with his eyes. Yeah,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: and so now listen, it's personal choice. He might be
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: a virgin. Um, I believe him when he says he's
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: a virgin. I have no idea why he'd lie. Um.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: But you know when he was talking to Becca, Um, listen,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I you can speak upon it better than I can
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: about how difficult it is telling the bachelor bachelorette that
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: you are inexperience in that department. Um. So basically my
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: mom was like, he's not. I don't believe him, and
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, so many people came at me, like
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: all the tweets and Instagram comments were like, this girl's lying.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: She's way too like sexy, she doesn't handle herself, her
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: like tongues in his mouth. That's not a virgin. And
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like, why can't you be a virgin who like
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: is a little bit sultry or like kind of knows
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: what they're doing up into the point of m pants off,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, just because I haven't
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: had sex doesn't mean that I don't like I don't
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: know how to kiss, or I don't know how to
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: like grace somebody's butteh. So I'm like, mom, come on,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: that's so frustrating. You can't say that just because he's
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: hot means that he hasn't had sex at the age.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: And like I said, I don't think it's the fact
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that Colton saying he's a virgin is is the factor
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: in which your mom may not believe him. I think
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: it's up to this point, everything that's happened with Colton,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: it's like, hmm, I've already felt I've already felt this
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: side of doubt with Colton, and now he's saying he's
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: a virgin. It's just it's like, m that's very convenient.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: And then you know, listen, I believe that he's a virgin.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: I think it's very difficult to, you know, tell somebody,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: especially in the national TV, that you are a virgin.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: We talked about that, if you want. I had so
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: much sympathy for Colton in that moment because I know
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: how awkward it is. It is such a weird thing
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: to talk about. And he even said, like, I don't
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: think my dad knows this, and I don't. I think
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: my dad probably had an inkling, but I don't think
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: my dad knew it either. And I'm just like, and
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: here I am on national TV telling my love interest this.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: This is so awkward. And of course, you guys, if
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: I I told everybody in my audition tape in my
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: first round of auditions, I was like, this is a
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: nice way of having an interesting part of me that
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: people wouldn't expect. That's going to help me get on
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: the show. So I revealed it. And then of course,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: if you're reveal it and casting, they're not gonna make
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: you talk about it because obviously they can't make you
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: do anything, but they will strongly, strongly encourage you to
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: do so. And I just knew it was time that
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: up Colton was strongly suggested to do so. And it
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: is the most awkward conversation to come out of your mouth,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: because I don't know, it's like even it's even more
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: awkward than a SOB story. And I also think, honestly
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: more what I hated more about that entire situation wasn't
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: so much the Colton part, but the backup part about
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: how she had to get up and walk away from
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: the other conversation than I have to have. Well, whatever
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: the reason that was why she ended up getting away
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: from the table and having to take a breather and
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: really make Colton sweat out, whatever the reason that happened,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I hated every second of it because the idea that
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: she needed to really reevaluate whether Colton was staying or
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: not solely based on the idea that he was a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: virgin is absurd and really, um disrespectful. I think he
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: was super disrespectful. It is such a nervous thing. And
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I always felt like Chris Souls when I told him,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: he looked at me like as in a sexual way.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: I always believed before then. And then I told him
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: in week four, and then I felt immediately like he
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: was turned off by me because I was like, Oh,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: she's not like that fun girl that I feel like
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I can just bang now. Yeah, well, listen, it's a
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: conversation you need to have because being physical as a
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: part of being in a relationship, and you can't really
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: understate the physical part of being a relationship, right, Like,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's what Garrett and um whoever was talking
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: about back in the house. But what did I in
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: the closet, and I got so angry because you're going
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: to say that his him being a virgin is a skeleton,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: like a bad thing, that is insinuating that is a
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: bad thing attractive quality. I can only imagine that they
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: were there. It was almost semantics at that point, and
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: they didn't really mean it in a negative way. They
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: were just trying. They were blabbing, and they said that
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: because I don't think any would really infer someone being
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: a virgin as being a terrible thing or or a
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: skeleton in the closet. If they are, then they're not
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: that smart. But between the skeleton comment being part of
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: the episode as well as Becca's dramatic exit from the
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: dinner table, this show and you guys know, I never
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: speak badly about it, but I don't like the way
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: that they always have to make the virgin revealing their
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: virginity as like this dark thing that is a turn
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: off for people. They always make it seem like it
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: should be a turn off, like, oh, I may not
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: want to be with you anymore because you're a virgin.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: Between mine and scallop fingers and now Colton, Becca got
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: away with it. I don't know why they never like
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: they never made Becca's a virginity look like a reason
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: that Chris wouldn't want to be with her, But for
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: all the other three of modern Bachelor history, it just
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: seems like, oh, it's a roadblock. Why is it a roadblock?
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: It's definitely a factor, though I don't think you can
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: disagree with that. Like, for example, even I can speak
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: for experience. When we went on our fantasy suitet date
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: the first season, obviously I knew that you were not
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: tortusly known as a virgin, and everybody's gonna be like,
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: did you did you take a virginity? Did you take
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: your virginity? And it's like, well, that's it's not like,
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: because it's a public relationship that you're gonna have to
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: be pestered with that question, and that's why it's annoying.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: But like if it were in a public relationship, then
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: you would be like, I don't care. I completely agree,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: but you can't underestimate the public aspect of being on
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: a television show with somebody that is known to be
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: a virgin that you might take into the fantasy suitet date.
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: Because it was like there were articles written, did Jared
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: take Ashley's virginity. It's like just something that you have
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: to think about, and if you don't, then I think
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: you're being a little ignorant. It's definitely a factor. It's
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: not a negative factor. I'm not saying that. What I'm
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: saying is it's a conversation that needs to have. So
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: I don't mind Colin talking about. What I did mind
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: was the fact that Becca got up for whatever reason
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: and had to let Colin sweat it out instead of
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: just having an adult conversation in the moment, like that's okay,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: we can like, you know, that's great. You know, I
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: think it's great that you are very selective about you know,
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: who you're sleeping within the fact that you want to wait.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: The only question I had for Colin was when he
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: said I'm not waiting for marriage. I'm just waiting for
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: the right heart. But I always said, um, yes, um,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: But wasn't he in like a long term relationship. I
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: don't think it was a long term Okay, Well, obviously
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: then he knew that it wasn't the right girl. Yeah.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: He also said something that resignated strongly with me. He
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: was like, I would well, he said that he would
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: lie in the locker room, or like he said, he
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: lied in the locker room, which makes me think that
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: he was lying to other guys about him having sex
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: to like, you know, to be because it opens up
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: to a lot of mockery in a situation like that,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: if like here in the locker room and he was like, oh,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: it's the game of virgin I can't talk about this stuff. Yeah,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: of course, listen, I've been um. But it resonnated with
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: me because there was a time, like in my mid
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: early twenties where whenever sex would come up, like in
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: grad school or something like, girls will be like, you know,
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: talking about their experiences in their first times and all
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: of that, and I'd be like, who wants cookies. I
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: would always change the subject, and I'd always like try
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: to look distracted during the conversations. I'd do anything. So
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: like you immediately became Steve Curl from the forty O Virgin. Ever,
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: in the beginning at the pope table, they're like all
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: talking about sex, and then it comes to him He's like, yeah,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: you know, boobs, they're like sand bags, and they're like
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: sand bags. Oh my gosh, I so me. So I
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: just felt a lot of sympathy for Colton, whether in
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: those situations in the locker room or just having to
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: tell Becca about this. I felt close to Colton that moment.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Fair enough absolutely, um. And then so moving on, Colon
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: comes back, and then Garrett has his one on one. Right.
• 40:20
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• 40:23
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• 40:26
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• 40:29
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• 40:32
  Speaker 1: I really do need to change a little bit he does. Um.
• 40:37
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• 40:40
  Speaker 1: part of it because he has like five, I have
• 40:43
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• 40:45
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• 40:47
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• 40:49
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• 40:52
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• 41:12
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• 41:16
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• 41:18
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• 41:21
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• 41:26
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• 42:53
  Speaker 1: about Garrett State. Okay cool? Uh? Jared and I like
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: weren't impressed by Garrett State. No, not at all. Fast,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know him yet. You know what's so funny
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: is that I feel like his most prominent episode personality wise,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: was the first episode. I feel like I really knew
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Garrett in the first episode between his package. That's what
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: really made everybody loved his minivan thing. Right. Yeah, but
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: I haven't felt connected to him ever since. No, he's
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: very boring. He's probably very nice, but good God in heaven.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Everything that just I feel like comes out of his
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: mouth is very um formulaic. You know, it's like, this
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: is great, this is amazing, I'm having so much fun,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: and so can we have something else, something else besides
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: you being a positive person. Listen, I'm all about positivity.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, if you're like, I'm a
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: positive person, I never get down. It's like, can I
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: even trust you? Like it never gets sad even in
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: a moment. You're just always positive. Everything is positive. Well,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: it's like one of those self describing things that we
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: all know Ben hates, and now I've learned to hate
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: them too. I've always hated that, Like I can't stand
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: when somebody says I'm a good person. I'm a honest person,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I'm a trustworthy person. You don't say that. You just
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: say I'm doing the best I can, or like I
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: really try to be a good person. Yeah, instead of
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: being like I am a good person, like somebody I
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: don't want to go back in the season, but somebody
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: said that in the moment, was like I'm a good person.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: He's not, And it's like, oh God, I'm gonna throw up. Right.
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever said anything along those lines.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Except for like I say something like I got I'm
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: really relatable, or people people say I go, I'm relatable,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: or like people find me relatable. I don't say I'm
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: a relatable person. I kept saying to Jared yesterday, there's
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: something really weird by saying I am, because that is declarative.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: I think that makes it seem like it's a fact,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: non opinion on yourself. It is a fact I am
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: a good person. That you can't You can't declare yourself something.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: You can't say that you are by fact. I think
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: it's a balance, right, because you have to know who
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: you are. And I sometimes find difficulty to do that
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: when people are like, describe yourself, and like I don't
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: want to because I don't want to make conversation of
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: time doing our bachelor things. And it was like describe
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: yourself in five adjectives. I'm like, oh god, yeah, can
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: we skip this part please? Um? But with Garrett, yeah,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: and then his whole thing, he throws his ex wife
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: under the bus again. What did he say about her
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: at the dinner? She was because she was hot headed
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: and always yelling. I was like, good God, Garrett, let
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: it go, just like hey, it didn't work out. We
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: both are issues, but it's okay. It's ambilical. Instead of
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: him being like she was emotionally abusive, she's hot headed.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: She was yelling at me, and it's like, Garrett, holy moly,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: we get it. You apparently think that you were in
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: the right on everything in this relationship and she was
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: completely wrong and ruined everything. But you tried and he
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: said it again, yes, that is like we really, you know,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: in irreconcilable differences. Oh god. He was like, I tried
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: everything I could to save the marriage, but that's okay.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: So that's where Becca gets concerned. She goes, you were
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: in a bad situation and yet you're always trying to
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: make it work. And then she said are you always
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: going to be like stubborn like that and trying to
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: make something happen that really shouldn't be happening. And then
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: he said this really awkward thing where he was like,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I take action. Well, yeah, he didn't even explain it.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: He was like, he's like, you know, because I think
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: it was more specifically a question asked like do you
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: are you into this? Are you into the idea of this?
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: And he was like, you would know that you know
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: if there's any red flakes, because I'm a guy that
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: takes action, so you know. And then they just and
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: then she was like, I love our conversations, and I
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: was like, what I think there was a lot chopped
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: out of there. The conversations truly last about an hour
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: and they knock them down to two minutes. But that
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: was just something that was really hard for me to
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: get over the fact that he was like, you know,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I'm a guy that takes action. I want to be like,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: what the hell does that mean? Can you please explain
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: this further because I have no idea where you're trying
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: to articulate. I'm you'll know, I'm a guy that takes action.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: Uh Okay, cool, bro, here's the rose. Yeah, I know
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: he says that. And then she was like, he's like,
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: I love us. We're so much fun. Oh, Jared, I
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: feel so horrible making fun of bachelor conversations and when
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: people have totally made fun of our Bachelor conversation. But
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: that's the whole point. People have made fun of our conversations.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Now it's our turn to make fun of other people's conversations.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Like we are in the position of power right now,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: let's take advantage of it. I just need to say
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: that now I know why I was really bad at
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: job interviews because I was like, describe yourself, what are
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: your strengths? And then you're like, I'm creative, really creative person,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: and just like comes out with so much doubt because
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: I don't feel natural self, natural self describing what did
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: you describe when somebody asked, what's your one of your
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: one of your weaknesses? That was difficult. I hated when
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: interviewing people. I hate it when people are like, I
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: don't really have any weaknesses. I can't think of anything
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: that you always have to come up with, always always
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: come up with the weakness. Then you don't seem humble,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't think, you know, you have
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: an ego issue exactly, Like no, I've really thought about it.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Think about anybody who's applying for a job that's listening
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: to this podcast right now. Think of one weakness, but
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: think of a weakness that you can spin into a
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: positive thing. That's what I always say. For example, if
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, well you know I steal, sometimes it's like,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: don't say that as a weakness, But if you say
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you know, sometimes I think I can do too much
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: and I take too many things on my plate and
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: I get a little overwhelmed. Okay, this was my weakness. Weakness,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, take on too much. I take on too much.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: Because it was a way to show people that, like,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: sometimes I think I can, you know, um do too
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: much and I take too much on my plate. But
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: at the same time, that means I just really want
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: to be the best and work hard. You're an eager worker.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: My thing was that I would when I take on
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: a project, I find it hard to deviate from that project.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I put all of my focus and energy on the
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: one thing, and I can't get other side things done
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: until the one, the main thing is done. Yeah, you choose.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: You can't chew gum and walk at the same time,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: But you know that. That's how I've been, Like with
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: my apartment, It's like, oh, I I don't want to
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: do this thing because I have to finish this. And
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: I've been I've been doing such a good job, and
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: I've been really proud of myself for like actually focusing
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: on other things. That's why I had to hand it
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: off to like a decorator, because I was like, if
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: I make this a focus I will never get work. Now,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: I'll take four years to get it done. Well, I
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: will be able to do other things while doing it,
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: because in the past, when I move into a new place,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I'm like doing notework for the next two weeks. All
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do is put all my energy into this.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: So that's just an example. So I think that is
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: a weakness. I need to be able to multitask better.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: There you go show the way back to Garrett. So
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: that was the one on one right there. It was
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: pretty boring. It was fine, whatever, and then Blake is
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: losing his mind at this point. This was the first
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: episode where I actually kind of didn't like Blake, which
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: was so weird because at the at the beginning of
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: the episode before we saw Blake freaking out here and
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: are like, Blake needs to win, Blake needs to win,
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Blake is the person for her. I still think Blake
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: might be the person for her, but the one on
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: one day in his actions beforehand caused some hesitation for me.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: Now what about you, Yeah, I don't know. He just
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: seems obsessive. He seems like the guy that might just
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: be obsessed with the process, obsessed with making this work.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Even though is it Becca he's obsessed with or is
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: it just the idea of Becca at the idea you
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: could love with the idea of Becca. Possibly, And I'm
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: not even sure this is a show thing. I think
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: this might be just a Blake thing because he seems
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: like somebody who falls very hard, very quickly, and so
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: because of that, he is infatuated with the person he's
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: with instead of falling in love with them. So he'll
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: be like, I'm in love with you, it's so great,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: let's do this. I want to spend the rest of
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: my life with you. When actuality, it might be more
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: of an infatuation than actual love feelings. Um. But the
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: thing that bothered me about Blake in this episode was
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: before he got his one on one, he kept saying,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I can't believe she's doing this to me. She has
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: to know what I'm going through right now. It's like, bro,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: she has five over the dudes right now, she has
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: a great connection with you. And listen, everybody's entitled to
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: moving and weakness. We all have them on the show,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: right So in that moment, if you if he said
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: at once it was like, I can't believe she's doing
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: this to me. This is ridiculous. She should be she
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: should giving giving me a one on one because of
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: our connection. Totally get it. But the fact that he
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: said it twice in two I t n s before
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: he got it once when Colton got the one on
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: one and then another, and then he said it again
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: when Garrett got the one on one. It was like
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Blakes loses his mind a little bit. I hated that
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: because what you should be saying is like, I'm I'm
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: losing it. I can't see what the other guys. My
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: my feelings are too strong, like this is really I'm
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: getting to a point where I don't know if I
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: can do this anymore, because it is very challenging. Having
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: said that, to blame it on her really made me mad,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: like she has to know I'm going through this terrible time, Like,
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: why would she be doing this to me? Bro, She's
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: the bachelorette. There's five other guys, Like, there's three one
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: on ones to have already gone. You're probably getting in
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: third one. Just calm down, have a moment, but don't
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: blame it on her. That was the only thing. Okay, Well,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: the funny thing is the more he's freaking out about
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: the order of these dates and like them dwindling down
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: the more, they're gonna make sure that he is the
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: last guy to get a date. So he continues to
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: freak out, I know. And then he got on the date,
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: which was great, and he was super happy and they
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: were super fun loving and Blake is madling love even
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: apparently so is Becca. She was saying how she wanted
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: to tell him that she's in love with him, and
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: how she was going to pick him pretty much at
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, She's like, he's the guy,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: like I can't tell him this, but I see him
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: as my husband, I see him in my future. So
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: that's obviously very telling that they do have a very
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: strong connection. Having you said that it does. Blake hasn't
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: had a one on one since the first week, so
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: both their feelings are growing very fast when they haven't
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: really spent a lot of time together as of you
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: need to understand how little time they've had together. Jared,
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: you were fourth, which means that you are now at
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: the point that these guys are at right. You do
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: on a hometown you had two on on ones, like
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: two and a half one on ones, right, because I
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: got a group day Rose that turned into on one right,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: So how much time do you think you had with
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Caitlin at this point? Total? Yeah? Hours was uh, no
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: more than that because loan hours, No twelve a loane hours?
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: How many a lone hours? Like not as part of
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: a group. Yeah, yeah, I'd probably say like probably like fifteen.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: Our road trip date was pretty long. That that was
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: an exception. That was like a seven hourly. I probably
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: had like seven hours worth her that day. Um, and
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: then New York probably was Like New York was probably
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: like five or six at least, So I probably had
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: maybe like a lone hours like fifth fifteen, seventeen, but
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: opportuned maybe something. I can't judge him falling in love
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: in fifteen hours because I was in love with Jared
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: at the very first sight. You're the light of my life,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: you know that. Thank you, my angel, my person. Anyway,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: moving on, so Blake, we don't talk about us, uh,
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: but with Blake, Yeah, I think he's he's It was
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: the one time where I'm like, is he that in
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Rebecca or is he just a little obsessed right now?
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: I just I'm gonna probably switch back next week when
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I say him with the family, because he just needs
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: to calm down. And when he calms down, then like
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: all I come again exactly. Okay. Well, the hometowns were
• 53:59
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• 54:02
  Speaker 1: don't know if they're going to be fit though. But
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: the Fab Fit Fun Box, you guys, I found a
• 54:06
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• 54:10
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• 54:12
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• 54:14
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• 54:17
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• 54:20
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• 54:23
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• 54:26
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• 54:28
  Speaker 1: sunscreen on over it, and I was like, why is
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: it all flaking off? I can't put makeup on top
• 54:32
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• 54:37
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• 54:40
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• 54:44
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• 54:47
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• 54:49
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• 54:52
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• 54:54
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• 54:56
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• 55:00
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• 55:05
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• 55:08
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• 55:37
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• 56:09
  Speaker 1: Do you have anything else to talk about about? We
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: got to talk about the three one just quickly. Will's,
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: Jason and Leo go on a three on one obvious,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: so she's going to have to take Leo like send
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: him home. Not just sweetness though, and he handled it
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: like a gentleman. And Jared, it's been three years as
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: of today, I believe that you were eliminated from Caitlin season.
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: You were the ultimate gentleman baby. Thank you. You asked
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: if she could if she wanted your coat because it
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: was cold. Well, it's also very easy being nice to Caitlin.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: She's the best. You were like, instead of her being
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: like can I walk you to the car, you were like,
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: can I walk you through the car? I don't know what.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't say anything, No, we were just walking out
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: and I offered her my code, which I got a
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: lot of wonderful responses from women and the guys were
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: like I would do the same thing, um, And then yeah,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: it was just it was a tough night of stuff
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: exits though a long story short. But the reason we
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: brought that up is because they actually played the same
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: music that they played with me on my exit to Leo.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: And so I was watching Leos and I was like,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: this music sounds familiar. This is the music they played
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: when I left. Leo seems like a really coolman exit music. Yes, Leo,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: Leo suns super cool down to earth. I liked him
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: a lot. Obviously, his connection with Becca wasn't that great.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: We all knew that soul a lovely date last week,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: but he just knew the date was just too late.
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: It just wasn't gonna happen. She had other stronger relationships,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: as she said, And even with this week's episode, the
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: three guys that got the one on one, you knew.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: You know, there are the three strongest connections right now,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: and the guys who were going to the three on
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: one are lacking a little bit behind. With Jason, Wills
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: and Leo, we all knew that Leo was probably the
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: weakest in terms of the connections on that group day.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: I wasn't surprised when he left. He had such a
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: sweet eggit. He was kissing her forehead and she even
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: cheered up a little bit because he was so sweet
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: and so understanding. I like Leo a lot. I hope
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: he's in paradise. And then Will's uh, Wills and Jason
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: go to the night portion, they sit down, she talks
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: to both of them, both of them pretty much. I
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: think I have simler connections. I don't know. Will seems
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: like a little bit further in deep again another thing
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: or it's like, are you in love with beggar? You?
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: And I love the idea of Becca because you have
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: had very little time um Jason and her. Jason is
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: such a dark horse, and I've liked Jason's vibe from
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: the very beginning. Yeah, Jason seems like just he's just
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: your dude. He's a dude you'll find in a bar
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: and buffalo and he'll smile at you and you'll be like,
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: I kind of like him. I think that's why Becca
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: likes him. I think Beca is like, I don't see
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: marrying him, but like I like hanging out with him.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: He's a fun time. He's a good dude, Like he
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: does like the high fives with their and he's always
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: like joking around and and they're always having a good time.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: And so like there's not like a lot of depth
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: to their relationship that I haven't seen a lot of physicality. Yeah,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: and it's a lot of playfulness. And that's the way
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: I described Jason's relationship, which isn't bad in a in
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: a situation like this too, like because she has the
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: three one on ones are very in depth and and uh,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: you know, there's just a lot of feelings there and
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: emotions and like it's not bad to have Jason there
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: to be like, I just really like his playfulness and
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: having fun, you know what he said? Um, well, the
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: other guy guys were like, I'm so so nervous. He said,
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: I'm not nervous. I'm just excited. I'm excited to have
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: fun with her today. Yeah, he has Yeah, he just
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: go with the flow. He's a what's that expression, happy,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: go lucky. Yeah, he's just happy, go lucky. He's happy.
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: He's he's happy that he's here. So I like Jason
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: a lot. Uh. And then she sends Will's home. Will
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: it seems like a sweetheart. I met him a couple
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: of times. Very nice guy. Um, he had a little
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: bit of difficult exit when he was in the car
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: that he had to pull over and cry some out. Um,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: it's always tough to you know, crying like is he
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: gonna throw up? You have to leave the car to cry.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: It is tough though you I think a lot of
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: people and I can attest this. You become overwhelmed in
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: the moment and there's cameras on you, and there's you know,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: people talking to you asking you questions what do you
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: think happen? And you just left this crazy experience and
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: you're like, what the hell has happened in my life?
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: And I'm just saying goodbye to a girl that I
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: really really liked in terms of Will's case, falling in
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: love with. And then you know, you just get overwhelmed
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: and you start crying. And as a guy, you don't
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: want to cry. You want to be you know, my
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: show man and be like, no, I'm okay, I can
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: handle this. I'm a tough guy. And then so I
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: think for him, he was like, I just need to
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: get out of this car right now and get some
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: mayor and just maybe have a good cry. Did you
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: hear it? I just said, I go why do you
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: have to get out of the car to cry? Camera?
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: It's like, duh, of course I think a second nature camera.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I know, I think it's it's different for a guy.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: I remember on on my exit I I started crying
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: in the car and you just so your tears were beautiful.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: Oh thay, Well, it's just it was hard. I remember
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: leaving and thinking like, I'm never I mean, at the time,
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: I obviously and madly in love with you, and you're
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: the only girl I want to spend my life with.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: But at the time I was like, damn, I'm never
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: gonna hold I'm never gonna hold Kalen's hand again or
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: kiss her, or like it's over. It is over, and
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: you have no clue to say this. There is a
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: difference between being broken up with on The Bachelor and
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: being broken up with in the real world, because on
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor, you're like, wow, there were four other people
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: in this group alone that she liked more than me.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: That means that we are never ever going to be together,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: and that she's going to hopefully be engaged at the
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: end of this, and then we're really never going to
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: be together. I leen have her number, I can't even
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: call her and be like can we meet up for
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: coffee next week and like see if we can reevaluate
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: this situation. No, it's done, done, done, It's done, and
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: there's no closure. It's just like Jared and if Paradise
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: is totally different, you can definitely rekindle things after paradise,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: and it's been done many a time and we are
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: living proof of that. But with the Bachelor of the Bachelorette,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: it is so weird because it's so finite. Like you
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: you go into the road ceremony, nervous, but confident in
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: your connection, nervous as nervous a f oh, of course
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: you're so nervous. But I was at least confident in
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: my connection with Kayla, and then it was just like, No,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: Jared was actually just mind blown when he was that
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: was a mind blown. I was more. I was just
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: trying to stay as confident as like, because I knew
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: we had something really good. And but I remember looking around.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, Ben and Sean, oh boy, this
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: is this is this is bad because I was like,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I'm very confident, but I know they are too, and
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: like I'm the shortest one in the room right now
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: to do with it. I mean, Ben's the crazy one
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: for being six four. He's a big boy, tall man
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: tall man that Ben Higgins, um. But and then I
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: just and then all of a sudden, like you know,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: she doesn't give you a rose, and then you get
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: to talk to her for like five minutes where you're
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: just saying you're goodbyes. Like I remember in that moment,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to ask her questions
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: because I want to leave off on a on a
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: good note with her, and so I just want to
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: be like, I'm you know, our time was so special
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: and and I hope you find them in your dreams
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: and like you're always gonna be special to me, and
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. And then all of a sudden,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: you're in the car and you're like, holy crap. That
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: was like I'm I might never talk to her again
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: because like by the time she leaves this thing, she's
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: going to be engaged and like moved on with her life.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: Is that crazy to think that, Like in that moment
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: of walking away, you're like, she's already moved on. That's it.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: Caitlin Bristo shout out to you, Thank you so much
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: for introducing my future husband to a type of woman
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: that he never thought he'd be with. To somebody who
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: has a huge personality, isn't afraid to be expressive about
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: her thoughts and feelings because if he weren't for you.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: And Jared's discovery of like a woman, I think I've
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: been going after the wrong girls all this time. How
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: he had a realization later later delayed, but he was like,
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: that is a kind of girl that I never imagined
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: myself with. But I think I'd like to explore more
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: women like that. I remember I remember being intimidated by Caitlin,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: especially night one, because like I remember, she's just like
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: so witty and she has like something to say all
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: the time, and I was like, she's this girl is
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: gonna blow me out of the water. But then I
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: remember our first conversation. It was like this really light
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: banter and it was great, and I was like, Okay,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: maybe I can start to keep up. But I remember
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: I I dated a girls. You know, we were like
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: shine and quaint and quiet and blah blah blah. We
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: talked about this, but uh, but yeah, definitely shout out
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: to Caitlin, and you know, I mean yes, at the
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: same time, you're you and Caitlin are very different. I
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: was gonna say not to equip myself to Caitlin, because Kaitlin,
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: you're way cooler, prel Actually you're so funny and cool.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: Give yourself credit. Actually you're the coolest girl I know. Baby,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta bib. So that was a bit
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: for the show, right for the Bachelorette. Yeah, but before
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: before we move on from the Bachelor and go into emails,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: we do need to talk about the cast of Paradise.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: Have we not talked about this yet? Are we ready
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: to go through the list? Angela M's cool. Um yeah,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: we all don't know who that is, except we do
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: know she's from Nick season. She has long hair and
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: blue eyes. Pretty pretty. Um Analyze. We know that Analyze
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: is scared of dogs and bumper cars. She was the
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: nervous Nilly from Are season. Asteroid Locke also from Nick season.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: Paul Brunette beauty Um Whitney and her were easily confused.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Um Bibiana Juliana one of my friends from Winter Games
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: Are sassy girl from Ari season who just no holds
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: bar with her. Chelsea Roy, the mom from Aris season
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: who we all thought maybe a villain at the beginning,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: but she turned out not to be. Then we got
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: David the Chicken Suit going up against Jordan's the Model
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: yet again. That should be fun. Eric Bigger, who was
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: last on the Winter Games, makes his Paradise debut after
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: being third on Rachel's season Miracle season. Then we got
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: Joe the Grocer because you know popular demand. Uh. John
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: Graham which is also known as Venmo Guy from Venmo
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: Guy from Becca season, who who had very little air
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: time on her season, but seemed to be a fan
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: favorite amongst like the Bachelor Underground Um Kendall Long the
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: Taxidermists in third place finisher of Ari season. Then we
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: got Kenny the Wrestler. We don't know why Kenny hasn't
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: been on Winter Game Games or Paradise because he was
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: such a fan favorite back in Rachel's What a sweetness.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: He's the cutest that we have. Kevin went my ex
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: and Crystal Nielsen the villain of Ari's season, and she's
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: really not a villain. Guys. Whenever I see you in
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: her life, I think she's absolutely wonderful. And I met
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: her once. She was very delightful. She's like, I know
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: who you are. I was like, oh, you're very sweet,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: going Yeah. Nick Nick's beatas he's the guy slick black hair. Um,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: kind of like the lawyer. He's a lawyer but also
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: a bra. Nisha Norris absolutely no clue. Yes, no, but
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: I'm sure she's very nice. The full full hair, full
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: hair hair on our season. Yeah, that might be her.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I'm sure if we when we see her, like, oh
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: that's that's I think that's her. And then we got
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: Tia Booth, so we got tea there and I just
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: got to see if Colton will be there. I guess
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: we'll find out. Drama Central, Drama Central. Okay, Um, we're
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: about to dive in to listener emails. But before that,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: Jared and I need to start wearing contact lenses because
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: we both can't see at night, but we use glasses.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: But I hate using my glasses when we're like we're
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: going somewhere because I got that huge indent in my
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: nose and it just ruins my makeup and the whole look.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: And they're bad for pictures because the flash reflects all
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: the lens is. Obviously you look sexy and like Clark
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: Kent and your glass, thank you, but sometimes I worry
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: about you driving at night without them. We're gonna need it.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: We're gonna need to get you contacts. You're gonna use
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: Hubble Contacts because Hubble Contacts is amazing. What if I
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: told you that you could get a fresh pair of
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: lenses every single day for less. That is sixty contacts
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: for thirty three dollars through the math, that is barely
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: one dollar a day. I know it's a very affordable
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: way of getting your contacts their quality daily lenses for
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: a better price. And why are they a better price
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: because contacts are normally controlled by four companies. That's of
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: the market is controlled by four companies until now. And
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: Hubble can send you to an optometrist if you need
• 1:08:34
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• 1:08:37
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• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: to save money, or you're tired of overpaying for uncomfortable
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: contact lessons, you've got to try Hubble. And all you
• 1:08:50
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• 1:08:55
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• 1:09:01
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  Speaker 1: Famous at check out, Go today. Okay, this is a
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: great email. It's from Nikki. Jared knows. Jared and I aren't.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: We're not doing hall passes, okay, because a hall pass
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: would say that I would be down to hook up
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: with my celebrity crush if you showed interest. I mean,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: never do that. You said, Jason is the mile of
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: the man two. Yeah, okay, so, but but if I
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: had a hall pass, it would be Milo Venc. You
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: do have a pass. You just said if I had
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: all pass and it's fine, you know what I mean.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: I would never take the hall pass. But my celebrity
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: crush besides you, is mylo vent Amelia. I can't be
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: silbody crush. I'm engaged to, is it? Megley Amelia? I
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: have no idea Milo vent Amilia Milo to megulaam nas
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: and I have been saying it wrong for so long,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: but I think it's violent and Amilia and it's just
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, my god, how could
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: I not know how to pronounce my celebrity cross is
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: last name. But he looks like Jason is the bottom line,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: And Nikki says, I totally agree that Jason looks like
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Milo and he looks like a great kisser. What's wrong
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: with self describing yourself? I think it shows self awareness.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: Oh oh no, no, no, Nikki, You're you're strongly mistaken
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: with self awareness? Is then Jared explained, Uh, I think, well, listen,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I do like we talked about. I think you have
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: to be able to describe yourself a little bit. Right.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: If you're in a job interview and they're like, describe
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: yourself and you're like, wow, I don't want to do that,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: then you're not gonna get hired. So you have to
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: have some sort of understanding of who you are as
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: a person and maybe some adjective that's describe you. Having
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: said that, if you simply say I am a good person,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: you're probably a douchebag. Because if you self describe yourself
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: as a good person, then that brings up red flags
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: because it's like, I don't know, I just think you're
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: overcompensating for something. And I hate when people state that
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: as a fact. Like, I don't know. I think it
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: just lacks a little self awareness when you try to, um,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: you know, definitively say that you're a great person. Okay, whatever,
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: We've talked about this plenty. We've talked about way too much.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: Now we have two great questions that are super interesting
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: because we've never answered them before. This is from Shelley.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: Is their plane interaction? Just curious? Do the lead in
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: the group travel together on the same flight when they
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: go to other cities. If so, do they have any
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: chance of interacting with each other in the airport or
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: en route to the hotels that we don't get to
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: see because they aren't being filmed, or do they fly
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: the lead out earlier than the group. I'm asking because
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: on this week's episode, Chris Harrison mentioned that he saw
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: Becca's Becca looking at wedding dresses on the plane, and
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: I was honestly shocked that Chris Harrison takes the same
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: plate plane And that got me thinking, Okay, well, Chris
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: Harrison and the lead probably fly together on I think
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: they fly together pretty often, but their first class play
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: first class everywhere. Yeah, and sometimes I feel like they
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: might be on the same flight, but they'll always be separated,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: like the Bachelor at will always be separated from the
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Bachelor boys if they are on this, but not not
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor, not the lead and Chris Harris, No, no,
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: not at all. Yeah, so the leading Chris Horrison usually
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: fly together because the question is but in the midst
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: of that you were described, I was like, oh no,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: obviously probably with her. Yeah, so usually Harris going to
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: fly because they're all in first class, but they will
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: put the boys or the girls, whoever's the cast on
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: a different plane, usually on a different plane, right, Yeah,
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: I don't think there was every by a time where
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: you're on the same plane as the lead. They want
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: to keep everything separated because they want everything authentic for camera.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: So that's why I like within hotel rooms or every
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: time you're traveling, you get no off camera time, and
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: if you do, it is very limited and it's probably
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: like a last second thing that production needs to put together,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: and they're like, okay, just separate them and then let
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: them have five minutes off camera because we don't know
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: where else to put them. A lot of the times
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: on the show, they won't even take the same car
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: to the date destination. Yeah, that was That was like
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: the road trip tid I had. So Caitlyn and I
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: were in a road trip in Ireland. We're in the
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: same car, but they had a and then like we'd
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: be in a car for an hour and then take
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: us out and then we go in separate cars and
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: then interviews in the other car. Yes, of course. But
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: what happened was, so we were done with the road
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: trip day and we're going to select location. So we
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: were in separate cars. But her car broke down like
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: halfway there, and so they had to put her in
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: my car. So I had liked extra I had like
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: an hour and a half time. I had like an
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: hour and a half off camera time. Granted she was
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: passed out, but it was very nice. You slept during
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: your A long time. We were cuddling. Okay, it was
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: a long time ago. I know, I know, I know, Okay,
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: but I was also thinking about like plane travel and stuff. Yeah, together,
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: Harrison and Lead are usually together, but the boys and
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: the bachelorette are never together. Yeah, okay. Another question, I
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: feel like along the same lines. It's from Georgia. Is
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: there time after the cocktail party? First off, congrats Ashley, yay,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: thank you, and congrats to Jared. Congrats, thank you guys.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Congrats to Ashley and Jared. But again, she didn't know
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: that you're going to be here. And Ben, you are
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: amazing and I can't wait for God to place your
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: person into your life if he hasn't already. I also
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: want to know when Amy finds her person too. Oh
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: that's so sweet. All right, to my question, when the
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: bachelor and bachelorette canceled the cocktail party and go straight
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: to the rose ceremony, do they remain do the remainding
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: contestants who do receive a rose get to spend time
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: with the lead after the roses are handed out. I
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: feel like that would be super unfortunate not to get
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: any time that night and then have to wait another
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: to another day to get time again. Well, nope, once
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: the roses are handed out, you do the cheers, and
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: then once the cheers is done, they legit go good night.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: Same with with um group dates. It's the weird this
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: thing when the group date is over and then the
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: rose is handed out on a group date, then it's done.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: Then it's awkward as hell. You're like, Okay, I'm gonna
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: go to bed now, and then like all the guys
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: look at each other and like, Okay, we'll go to
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: bed now too. And the reason they probably don't give
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: extra time too because it is awkward. You're in the
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: midst of your competition. For example, when you're in a
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: group date. That's why they steal her away because you
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: want alone time after the after the rose ceremony, and
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: after group dates you don't get a long time. You
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: can't steal anymore, so you're just hanging out other guys
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: that are pining for the same girl. It's it's so awkward.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: I would got nervous talking to Chris in front of
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: the other girls, Like I just wouldn't do it. Yeah,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: it's just best if everybody leaves and goes or step
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: of ways and then wakes up the next morning and
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: whoever has a date gets to see her again, and
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: whoever doesn't has to wait. It's the competition vibe when
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: you're all like trying to make small talk with her
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: for like the two minutes that remains, it's just like,
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: don't bother. It's it's those moments when I realized I
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: got insecure. But even watching the show back, when I
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: can see like small subtle moments like that, I'm like, yep,
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: you can. I would never go back on this Bachelor
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: at again. You're not helping yourself by sticking around and
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: trying to make small talk of that moment. That's why
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: Paradise is a lot better because you get that alone time.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: But here it's just like, oh god, it's it just
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: makes me like sink down into my little hole when
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: I watch moments like that, because it's like, oh god,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: I remember those feelings. Every show. Jared's like, you couldn't
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: pay me to go back on the show because it
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: just reminds me of all those times when I felt
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: so insecure and doubted myself and just was so pent
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: up with paranoia and anxiety because you're always on camera
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: and you're like, don't say something stupid, don't say something stupid,
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: and also at the same time like, Okay, well, I
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: actually really like this girl, so I'm just trying to
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: be funny and witty, and sometimes when I do that,
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: I say something really dumb and now concerned about everything
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: I say, and it's just like those moments where you're
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: like next to the guy that's also trying to get
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: time with her, and then you're like pining for this competition,
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: but at the same time, it's not a competition because
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: it's just about romance and connections, and you're like, what
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: the hell is happening in my life? And I'm losing
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: my mind. And I watched back and I remember moments
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: like that, and I'm like, oh God, you couldn't pay me.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: You can not pay me to go back on this show.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: I'm losing it just watching it. The Bachelor is so funny.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: All those things you just described was me on paradise
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  Speaker 1: with you. Okay, maybe that's why. Maybe that's why we
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  Speaker 1: had different experiences, because like The Bachelor, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I like my friends, they're cool. You weren't eating with them.
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  Speaker 1: I look forward to our meals together. I loved having
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  Speaker 1: all the other guys. But at the same time, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I tell this story of the time everybe
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  Speaker 1: one time. In San Antonio, Ben Higgins got his first
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  Speaker 1: one on one with Caitlin, who doesn't love Ben amazing
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  Speaker 1: guy became really close with him on the show, and
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  Speaker 1: he walked out with Caitlin and I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: hate him. I hate that man, and I'll never forget
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  Speaker 1: that because I was like, I love Ben he's such
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  Speaker 1: a good man, he's my friend, and yet at this
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  Speaker 1: moment I want him to be sent home. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: why am I feeling like this? And I remember, actually
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  Speaker 1: I can find in Sean a little bit about this,
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  Speaker 1: because we were just kind of like talking about this
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  Speaker 1: weird dynamic where it's like I'm hanging out with all
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  Speaker 1: my friends and yet I want them all to go home.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, how is this happening in my brain? If
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  Speaker 1: you guys, call yourself, if you self describe yourself as
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  Speaker 1: a as not a jealous person, go on The Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: and then come back two months later and tell me
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  Speaker 1: all about it. Tell me you're not a jealous person.
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  Speaker 1: Al right, guys, thank you so much for joining us.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a blast. It's really flown by with you,
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