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We Be Addicted To Sh*t · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network Talk.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a
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  Speaker 1: new episode that We Talk Back, a show dedicated to
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  Speaker 1: you dreamers and chases, niggas and hosts. This is your
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  Speaker 1: co host AJ Holiday.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, tam Bam, y'all, It's official, tam maam.
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  Speaker 1: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I love y'all so much.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yea, yeah, you're all get How was your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: My weekend?
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  Speaker 2: I'm just ready to walk again. I put a little
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  Speaker 2: pressure on the foot this week so and I was
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  Speaker 2: able to stand on my head.
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  Speaker 1: So that was good. That was exciting.
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  Speaker 2: That's the gist of my life right now. Just baby steps. Honestly,
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  Speaker 2: I ain't do shit. I want to go to the
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  Speaker 2: fair the South Carolina State there.
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  Speaker 1: Is now.
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  Speaker 2: It's going on right now, and I want to go today.
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  Speaker 2: I need to get me an elephant ear?
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  Speaker 1: Is it there in Colombia now?
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  Speaker 2: Hm?
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  Speaker 1: Till Sunday, I hadn't seen any advertise. The one thing
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  Speaker 1: I saw about the fair in Charleston was help keep
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  Speaker 1: the fair, like as if they didn't have the money
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  Speaker 1: to bring the fair hair or something.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, I want to go. I want to give me
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  Speaker 2: an elephant ear. I want to get me a turkey leg,
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  Speaker 2: and I want a polar sausage. That's see, and then
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  Speaker 2: I can go home. I can't get on. You think
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  Speaker 2: they'll let me on the ride with a broken foot?
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  Speaker 1: Probably not, they should, Okay, So they are having a
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  Speaker 1: fair this year starts October thirty on Halloween, actually October
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  Speaker 1: thirty first. Ours is called Coastal Carolina. Is that Jolls?
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. It's the state fair that happens in Columbia. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why I thought, like the same fair
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  Speaker 1: travels throughout the city.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hm, it's different.
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  Speaker 1: I mean throughout the city. State Yeah, throughout the state.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I am into the fair in a long time, Like
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  Speaker 1: not the Charleston Fair. I might go this year. I
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  Speaker 1: might be sure. You should go.
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  Speaker 2: That'll be funny dress up, as I was about to say,
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  Speaker 2: dress up as a witch. But you're supposed to go
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  Speaker 2: as something you ate all year long.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what I would do. I probably,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I might go as beetle juice or something. Look,
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  Speaker 1: I might dress the cat up as a witch. What
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  Speaker 1: did you do over the weekend? I do Oh, I
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  Speaker 1: did do something. My mom had like a gathering for
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  Speaker 1: like the small kids at her house. Just pizza and
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  Speaker 1: hot dogs and shit like that. That was all the
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  Speaker 1: kids can hang out together, everybody's small kids.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I've been weirded out by my mom lately. Man. You know,
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  Speaker 1: there was a whole family reunion last month that she
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  Speaker 1: didn't tell any of us about. And she was there,
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  Speaker 1: so I think, like even her telling me about the
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  Speaker 1: shit at her house this weekend, it's almost like she
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  Speaker 1: was hesitating. And when I got there, my oldest sister
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  Speaker 1: was there from out of town. I'm like, damn, I
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  Speaker 1: even know Londa was coming. She was like, I told
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  Speaker 1: you that, No you did not. Did not tell me, girl,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell is on my bad
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  Speaker 1: not inviting you to the family and she ain't tell
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  Speaker 1: none of us. She was sitting there a front row
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  Speaker 1: with a picture. That's how I found out about it. It
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  Speaker 1: was like Labor Day weekend at that and it was
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  Speaker 1: like Monday. When I seen her like sitting up on
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  Speaker 1: a picture. I'm like, yo, what is happening? But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I practiced detachment, so I can't.
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  Speaker 1: Like I just I just can't be overly concerned what
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  Speaker 1: other adult people want to do. I just can't. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because it gets to a certain point.
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  Speaker 1: It's just I love my mom and to death man
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  Speaker 1: that used to be my best teacher. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what the fucking.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all will get back to being besties, no worries.
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  Speaker 1: People be listen, people be who they gonna be. We
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  Speaker 1: just had this episode about daddy issues and shit and
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  Speaker 1: spoke about our parents a little bit, and they just
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  Speaker 1: be who they gonna be. So I guess you almost
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  Speaker 1: got to realize, Okay, let me be a little bit
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  Speaker 1: different so we can have a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but y'all would get back to being besties. Don't
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  Speaker 2: worry about I watch what I.
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  Speaker 1: Have for me. That's tough anyway. So yeah, she had
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  Speaker 1: like a little thing at her house for the little
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  Speaker 1: kids and they run around. Everybody was musty okay, sound
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  Speaker 1: like you know, smell like straight onion, and girl, I
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  Speaker 1: love those kids. So I know nobody name all like
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  Speaker 1: my little cousins like their children. I don't know none
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  Speaker 1: of these kids' names. Baby, I'm like, oh baby, that is.
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  Speaker 2: Speaking of musty. I've been trying to find like a
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  Speaker 2: aluminum free deodorant that's gonna do the job.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know, no them do it.
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  Speaker 2: Like I just have to like carry wipes with me
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  Speaker 2: and the deodorant because I'm gonna have to, like after
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  Speaker 2: a few hours, I'm gonna have to freshen back up.
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  Speaker 1: There's no way around it. So I use the I
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  Speaker 1: use the arm and hammer natural deorderant. And I mean
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  Speaker 1: so with natural deorderance is not going to completely block
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  Speaker 1: the smell and it's not gonna block the sweat because
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  Speaker 1: what the aluminum deorderans do is clogs your your glandor yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I'm okay with knowing that I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to sweat, right, but I don't want to stink.
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  Speaker 1: Ever, you got again, something that's gonna be like a
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  Speaker 1: super smell good type thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so used to my arm is smelling like powder,
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  Speaker 2: you know. So now it's just I'm using the schmidts Schmidt.
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  Speaker 2: It's magnesium and something. It's just it's not it's not
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  Speaker 2: giving what I needed to give.
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  Speaker 1: Girl my cousin mom.
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  Speaker 2: And it's not hot outside. I'm thinking, like, if this
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  Speaker 2: is what it's doing right now, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: I'm used to it. Bitch. Let me tell you. I
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  Speaker 1: be singing like because I've been wearing I've been wearing
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  Speaker 1: natural disorder for at least ten years now, Bitch, listen,
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  Speaker 1: it's just a possibility. And I was singing with regular deordering.
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  Speaker 1: I just have high body order. Like when I go
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  Speaker 1: to the gym, bitch, it's smelled like a nigga for real.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why I washed so much. But also exfoliating
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  Speaker 1: underneath your arm, so I use those like African they
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  Speaker 1: call it African sponge, but it's essentially like just imagine
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  Speaker 1: a loofah but like taking apart. Yeah yeah, I use that,
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  Speaker 1: and it actually helps because you exfoliating and getting some
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  Speaker 1: of that bacteria. Yeah, you were moving a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more of the bacteria from underneath the from those little crevices.
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  Speaker 1: So it's not as bad as it used to be
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  Speaker 1: because I exfoliate under my arm really good. But girl,
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  Speaker 1: baby girl, at least I'm consciously aware. Yeah, me too.
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  Speaker 2: I carry wipes in the older, and I carried.
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  Speaker 1: Those little mini two brushes with me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm ready for everything when it comes to my body, older,
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  Speaker 2: my cleanliness.
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  Speaker 1: I never want nobody like.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, did you smell tear me? God damn, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. I don't never want nobody to be
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  Speaker 2: able to say that about it.
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  Speaker 1: It's stupid shit. Let's get this sends, y'all. Did you
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  Speaker 1: see this? This this sixty four year old woman pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and I was excited for her. I don't know
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  Speaker 2: why her being pregnant gave me hope that I could
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  Speaker 2: be pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: It always give me hope to see an old bitch pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: I'd be like me too, my time is coming.
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  Speaker 2: But sixty four is just like how much time are
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  Speaker 2: you gonna have with your kid?
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  Speaker 1: You know that? Mean the kid could be a blessing
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  Speaker 1: for somebody else. She might know a younger woman who
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  Speaker 1: needs a child, and she can make that person the
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  Speaker 1: god god mom.
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  Speaker 2: Something like that.
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  Speaker 1: I would be fucking devastated, y'all. So it's just a
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  Speaker 1: video on Instagram, the sixty four year old woman sitting
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  Speaker 1: up in the obgyn just finding out she's pregnant. Twelve
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  Speaker 1: weeks pregnant, and she's sitting in the car now at
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  Speaker 1: this point, and she calls the eighty something year old
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  Speaker 1: man named Rufus. It's Regina, not Regina, what's her? Nah, Judy,
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  Speaker 1: it's Judy and Rufus having a baby. She's sixty four,
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  Speaker 1: Rufus and his day damn eighties. Rufus don't understand what
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  Speaker 1: the hell is coming out of her fucking mouth. How
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  Speaker 1: is this even possible that baby's gonna be so old
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  Speaker 1: to coming out right old fashioned gonna be that baby's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be like sixty coming out the womb.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy that I've never heard of a woman that
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  Speaker 2: age being able to conceive.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sixty now. I know some like forty six,
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  Speaker 1: Like I know some people now who are adults who
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  Speaker 1: parents had them really.
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  Speaker 2: Old, right, But yes, not no, sixty nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure we can find some cases in other
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  Speaker 1: cases of people getting That means she's healthy, That means
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  Speaker 1: she's really I mean, she's very healthy. Yeah, but I
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  Speaker 1: mean she might need to get some chromosomal chromosonal tests
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  Speaker 1: done just to get her her baby has like you know, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know it is those serious and stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: What if she has twins? Because they say the older
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  Speaker 1: you get, the bigger the babies be, and it's a
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  Speaker 1: chance of having more than one at a time.
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  Speaker 2: Damn crazy twins is nuts. I would give them up
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  Speaker 2: for adoption at sixty four years old.
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  Speaker 1: That's wow. So Rufus was on the phone like being disrespectful, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And it's kind of triggering for me because I have
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  Speaker 1: been a pregnant woman calling a man telling them, hey, man, look,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta be pregnant. But imagine being that old and
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  Speaker 1: this old ass man still playing with you on the phone.
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  Speaker 1: Or maybe he thinks this is a joke, but she
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  Speaker 1: didn't sound like she was playing at all. And he
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  Speaker 1: was like, that ain't my baby. She was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: we'll go down and take the DNA test and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna put you on child support.
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  Speaker 2: Imagine being eighty four on child support is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: So h one of our mutual friends, our mutual this
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  Speaker 1: your friend, I met his ass through you. He sent
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  Speaker 1: the post and all I said was my god, I
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  Speaker 1: would be devastated. And he said, look how nasty she
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  Speaker 1: got when she had some power. I would never want
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  Speaker 1: to get a woman pregnant ever again in life. Just disgusting.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to let men know that women do
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  Speaker 1: have an innate power and inherent power that y'all can
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  Speaker 1: ever have, and that's why a lot of y'all be
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  Speaker 1: fucking mad. So it is a sense of power. Just
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  Speaker 1: deal with it, Okay, It's just one of those things.
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  Speaker 2: So I or or get a aseectomy if you don't
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  Speaker 2: want to reallyquish your power when it comes to these
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  Speaker 2: type of situations, you don't have to. You can use condoms,
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  Speaker 2: you can get a sect. To me, there are all
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  Speaker 2: kinds of ways which doesn't work often that don't work
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  Speaker 2: a lot of us here, A lot of y'all listening
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  Speaker 2: is here because of pull out, but.
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  Speaker 1: They don't want to do that. They just want to
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  Speaker 1: keep putting our bodies through the bullshit, the abortion, abortion pill,
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  Speaker 1: every you know what I'm saying, Like they don't want
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  Speaker 1: to have to go through and have any procedures. But
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand why, like women's health is always like
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  Speaker 1: on the forefront and shit like this is the abortion
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  Speaker 1: election as far as I'm because this shit is weird
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  Speaker 1: to me. But I said, I responded to him, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, that's not how I perceived a convo.
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  Speaker 1: She felt played. He basically was saying it's not his child.
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  Speaker 1: If he responded differently, differently, so would she have A
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  Speaker 1: woman can't be happy about bringing life if the man isn't, Like,
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  Speaker 1: how do you be happy about like having this baby?
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  Speaker 1: Like the man controls that part of.
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  Speaker 2: It, right. Oftentimes, some women don't give a fuck whether
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  Speaker 2: the man is a happy participant or not. You know,
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  Speaker 2: some people just happy to be pregnant and don't care
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  Speaker 2: if the nigga care or not. I mean the man,
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  Speaker 2: because it ain't always a nigga, but.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, but if you ain't, if you acting like
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  Speaker 1: this ain't my child, I don't want the baby. You're
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  Speaker 1: a niggah.
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  Speaker 2: You're not across the board.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not against the DNA testing and all that shit, like,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that could be that should be automatic,
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  Speaker 1: because women do be out here doing some really dirty
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  Speaker 1: shit that men don't find out about until it's too late.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm about to stop using condoms.
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  Speaker 1: Huh, you are you even having sex? No?
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  Speaker 2: But when I do, I ain't. I'm doing it right,
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  Speaker 2: I'm about to stop.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, bitch, do that ship. I can't be talking about
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  Speaker 1: I want a baby and always using the condoms, right,
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  Speaker 1: and bitches be on birth control at this big age girl,
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  Speaker 1: Just get out have fun. Why are you even so
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  Speaker 1: fucking with somebody that you got to use a condom with? Like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: these niggas are scary. Okay, Yeah, I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like sleeping.
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  Speaker 2: Anytime I've ever had sex without a condom, I don't sleep.
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  Speaker 1: God, if you let me get it through, get through
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  Speaker 1: this one time, God, please negative.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I've been in the bed and the dark, eyes
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  Speaker 2: wide open, scared as hell.
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  Speaker 1: Boy, listen, I remember those days at my younger age,
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  Speaker 1: man be down, wild out living Levita Loca. Now you
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  Speaker 1: go to pray before the appointments, right, lot, But y'all
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  Speaker 1: started painting. That's how I started painting back in the day,
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  Speaker 1: on my early twenties.
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  Speaker 2: I started painting.
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  Speaker 1: Waiting on an HIV test for anxiety. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: back then, that shit took two weeks to get the
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  Speaker 1: results down there, bitch, I didn't leave my house for
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: two weeks almost, and that street I was just going
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  Speaker 1: to work and come to fuck home, not talking to nobody.
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  Speaker 1: I wasressed out. Not Picasso, Pocasso. Y'all go get tested today.
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  Speaker 1: It's scary at him.
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  Speaker 2: Man, So uh if y'all saw this over the weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Martha Stewart has a miss for the ladies. Don't let
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  Speaker 2: your man cheat, but she if you want. Martha is
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  Speaker 2: finally opening up about the secrets of her personal life,
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  Speaker 2: and her revelations are as bold as her public persona.
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  Speaker 2: The eighty three year old ex con is at the
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  Speaker 2: center of the Netflix documentary Martha, directed by R. J.
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  Speaker 2: Cutler Okay, where she candidly addresses her past mistakes, including
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  Speaker 2: infidelity and a striking moment from the trailer, Stewart and
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  Speaker 2: missed that she cheated on her first husband, Andrew Stewart,
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  Speaker 2: early in their marriage, and the fact that has long
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  Speaker 2: been kept under wraps. It goes on to say that
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  Speaker 2: martha The only marriage was to Andrew Stewart, whom she
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  Speaker 2: married in nineteen sixty one. Despite her flourishing career, their
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  Speaker 2: marriage was plagued by issues and they divorced in nineteen ninety.
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  Speaker 2: What else was there was something else that was juicy
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  Speaker 2: about this?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? She basically was like, like, he never knew about that,
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  Speaker 1: So why y'all even asking me about that shit? Like
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  Speaker 1: they don't know it didn't happen, right, No, it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: like it doesn't it didn't happen, Like, as long as
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  Speaker 1: your man doesn't know it didn't happen, and vice versa. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because that's how nigga's really real. And when men you
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  Speaker 1: literally have to have a transcript of the session for
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  Speaker 1: them to tell you the truth about.
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  Speaker 2: It, right, don't trust your eyes, trust me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And she goes on to say, if you're married
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  Speaker 1: and your husband starts to cheat on you, he's a
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  Speaker 1: piece of shit. Get out that marriage. The cameraman zooms
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  Speaker 1: out as the producer asked, didn't you have an affair
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  Speaker 1: earlier on without missing a beat? Stewart responds, yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't think Andy ever knew about that.
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  Speaker 2: What I mean, how unfair is that she just said
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  Speaker 2: your husband is a piece of shit.
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  Speaker 1: It then went on to say, and you find out
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  Speaker 1: he's a piece of shit if he cheats and you
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  Speaker 1: never know and he never misses the beat, he's the
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  Speaker 1: perfect husband. All you could act is respect. It's so
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  Speaker 1: much pussy out here.
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  Speaker 2: Do you feel like cheating is a deal breaker?
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  Speaker 1: They talk about that all the time, and I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting the older I get, I'm leaning closer to yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because my current relationship, boy, if I fight on any
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  Speaker 1: fucking thing. I'm like, you don't got no more room
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  Speaker 1: for nothing, So I don't know, I'm kind of leaning
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  Speaker 1: towards like we're just self control.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're forty now, especially like I be feeling
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  Speaker 2: like they did start working real good after they start
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  Speaker 2: hitting forty, you know, like you're not you're not your stammaa.
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  Speaker 2: But the desire for a whole bunch of different pussy
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  Speaker 2: kind of wanes.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I would think, you know, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: that man who just out here is still waking up
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  Speaker 1: every day to chase pussy. You were supposed to do
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  Speaker 1: that in your twenties and thirties, Yeah, Like now like
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  Speaker 1: it should be like you're not willing to risk your home,
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  Speaker 1: your marriage, your relationship for somebody who really don't matter
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  Speaker 1: if they if she matters that much, you need to
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: go ahead over there, right, just don't be with nobody. Yeah,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: be single. But the thing is these men swear they
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: be single, and the truth is half of them can't
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: be alone. You They be in a relationship in some capacity. Right.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: It's not until a woman try to check them for
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: something that they are doing that they say, oh, weed together,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: we wasn't in a relationship, right, But we've been doing
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: all the things, having raw sex, sleeping at each other
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: house for days, cooking.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: With my family, you meet.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: My kids, you exactly, But now I'm crazy when I
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: try to tell you about playing with me. Yeah, we
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: ain't need like that. And obviously this happens until they're
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: eighty or dead. Obviously men going to always be playing
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: with you like this.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: Look at rufus.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: That ain't my baby Judy ship. Hey, look I'm a
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: calling that you got rufous, but you got rufous man. Y'all?
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Did y'all? Did you see Droe and t I on
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? This is such a weird exchange, Like,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: who was that guy? So there was a Droe was
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: talking about addiction on the Breakfast Club and how he
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: was on drugs for many years, even his daughter, and
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: that that part really pissed me off. When the guy
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: was snickering in the back about he like snickered the
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: hardest when he mentioned his daughter. So Joe turned around
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: was like, man, I'll slap you. I thought they were.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Playing like but you know, you know it was more
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: than that. It was actually overdose. You feel what I'm saying,
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: and I used the I used this platform with the
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: with the Thank god.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: He's a mechanic, mechanics always laughing.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: There's a dastardly individual almost overdose, yo, I did you
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: know what I mean?
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: And all the all of these things happened, the overdose.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: My daughter was on drugs, and you know, career wise,
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: I wasn't aware.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I wasn't what's up with you?
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: Are you? Finnah? Get slapped? I mean, we're cool, but
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I slapped you by laughing. Man, I'm just I'm just
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: telling you we're cool.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Slapping.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: What you want to do, what you want to do?
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Him take you out of sober drove.
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: He listen, Hey, listen, hey, both of y'all.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Y'all, everybody came in and mother with me. Hey look,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: everybody came in the motherfucker with me. Hey look, everybody
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: came in the motheruck with me.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: Hey.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Look remember who you came and remember what we do
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: with him? Man, come on, man, they get the ship together, bro,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I think the friend, the guy in the back, was
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: happy to be getting some airtime. I think he was
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: just enjoying the attention because he's not he's not a star.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: You know, he wasn't the star. He wasn't asked to
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: sit at the desk. He was just in the background
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: and Charlamagne was giving him some attention and he was
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: trying to keep that energy going because there's no way possible.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: He thought any of that was funny.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: It's weird. They need to get him from around them immediately,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: that was just some chase. Yeah, that ain't your friend
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: because he don't even know how to play his part. Man,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: that's a big, grown ass man. And Drop was like,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: he's just a mechanic. Why if he's just a mechanic,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: why y'all.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: Got bad for all the mechanics out there, because I
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: know some really you know, good mechanics, Like, damn, why
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: I gotta be just a mechanic. I went laughing at
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: your baby.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Edit you, but you need this.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: Mechanics are essential, Yes they are. I keep shout out
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: to all the mechanics out there.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: One thing about I'm gonna keep me a mechanic.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Bitch me too.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: If I can't do it myself, I know somebody who can.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Goodness.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: But speaking of addiction, that's what we want to talk
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: about today, y'all. What are you addicted to. It doesn't
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: have to just be drugs, because there's always there's like
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: physical addiction, behavioral type addictions. So let's talk about it.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: We'll be back.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: I got a couple. What are you addicted to?
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Aj all type of shit? Okay, relationships is one, Like
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm addicted to people. I can get
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: addicted to people. I'll wake up one day and be like,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I don't funk with you no more. So it's like
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: wavering a little bit. Can you call it that?
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: If you can just wake up and not do it
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: no more?
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it might take me three four years to
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: kick it. Okay, Yeah, that's an extended period of time
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: that I've been addicted to this thing and now I'm not.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: So it might take me a while to get over
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: the addiction, but I can m hm. I like, I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: think I like shrooms on Friday. That's my first one.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: On Fridays. It's very specific, you know, I don't know
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: why Fridays have always just felt so good to me,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: even since I was a kid. Like Friday's just all
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: like knowing you don't have to do shit the next day,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: or as an adult, you guys something to do every
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: fucking day. Because you probably got some shit you don't
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: put off throughout the week that you got to do
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: on Saturday. But I don't know, Saturday is like the
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: the life just feels different on Fridays.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I mean, you know what, not me coming from I've
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: always done here. Saturday is just a busy work day
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: for me. So it's Friday. Don't feel like the weekend
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: for me like everybody else. It never has, you know,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Saturday night is my Friday night. But I still don't
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: do trooms. I tried them. I tried shrooms twice in life,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: and one time it was bad because the person I
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: tried it with was not a good person.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: To be around and got them.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: And then the other time was pretty cool. I like
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: was listening to classical music and like zooming in on paintings,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: like I was zooming deep in on paintings on my phone,
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: and like it was. It was trippy, for sure, But
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: that's the only time I've ever done shrooms. It's nothing
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: that I've ever like.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I prefer weed.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm addicted to weed. But I don't even
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: know if I'm addicted to it because the dude I
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: used to get my weed from used to be my boo.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: So it was free. And now that he not my
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: boot and I have to pay for weed. I haven't
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: been smoking at all. But was I really addicted or
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: was it just free?
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: I'm addicted to free weed. I got to pay for it, bitch.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: The addition is gone.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: It's gone. It's just like that crazy And then love.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: I love love?
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: How long my whole life. I've always loved love. I've
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: been I feel like I got set up with all
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: the fairy tale books from a little girl, and it
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: made me fall in love with love as a little girl.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: And I just been loving love ever since.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: I know you though, like, what do you mean by that?
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: I just love the feeling of love. I love to
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: be loved. I love to love others. I just love love.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: So you're you're in love with the idea of love.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: But what happens when it? Like, I think your love
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: be fleeting. That's what I'm getting to.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: Because when I love you, I be loving you down
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: for life forever.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: We happened to the weed man.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: I still love him, but he just loving him was
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: killing me. So I had to go. You know what
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: I'm saying, But.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you think your love is conditional? Though.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not God, so yeah, I ain't your
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: mama either. I can't. I can't say my love is
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: not without conditions because if my weed man came over
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: here and harm my sister, you know, and did something
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: to harm her, and that love would change, right, you know.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: So I can't just say it's not without condition because
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: I ain't your mom or God. So yeah, but I can,
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: like I can like still love someone who has broken
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: my heart, you know.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like if I ever told somebody I
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: loved them like I meant it, and I still love them.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I may not be in life with them, but I
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: still care about their well being.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: I mean, right, I don't want nothing bad to have
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: it too.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, I take them into consideration like I did
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: when I was in love with them, but I do
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: care about, you know, how they're doing. I want to
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: still see them doing well, even some motherfuckers that I
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: send my hate, because it's a very thin line between
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: love and hate. But I never want to see like
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: you doing bad in any capacity.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: I don't even think I have nobody that I like
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: for real hate, you know, Like it's some people that
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: I despise, like George Zimmerman.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Isn't that like a synonym for hate to despise? Hate
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: is stronger than despise, right, I don't know. I think
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: it's just the word like, I don't know.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: I'm hate is just such a powerful world where it's
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: just as strong as love. To me, you know, we're
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: just equal and opposite end of the spectrum. And I
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: just don't feel like I really carry hate in me,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: like real hate.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I have a disdain, yeah.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: For a lot of people. What are your other addictions?
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Oh?
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: I see your list sugar?
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, how you giving my list? Bitch? That's both,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: that's both are sugar. I didn't even realize this is shared.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: How did that happen? Don't you send it to me?
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: I ain't never sent that to you? You did you
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: sent me something?
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: No?
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: You sent me this shit? Bitch? How I'm your list?
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about sugar. It's that the only thing on
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: your list that applies to me. It's sugar.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: You didn't send me a request or something. Oh bitch,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I ain't sending you nothing. How did that happen? Because
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: something popped up on my screen at the top, and
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: then I hit the button, thinking you were sending me
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: something anyway.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sugar, you told me, you told me I needed
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: to dodo and then this list came this morning.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: What yep, my phone is I had to put this apple. No,
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: for real, listen, I didn't do that. That's weird. I
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: didn't do that anyway. Yeah, sugar, okay, I really be
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: consciously trying not to consume. As my shirt.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: I love chocolate, me too.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I love ice cream on a like, who the fuck
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: really be having waffle cones in their house?
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: You.
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: I didn't start loving sugar until I got older, too,
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: which is crazy to me. As a kid, I did
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: not fuck with sugar like that when we would when
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: we would be at the like kids' birthday parties back then,
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: it'd be like a Hamburger hot dog, little hugs in
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: a cave with the hardy food. Yeah, give me another
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: hot dog. I don't want no cake. I want another
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: hot dog.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Well, what's I got? Growled all of a sudden. I
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: love sugar so much. I think it could be inherited too,
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: because my daddy is like that. My daddy loved like
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: baked goods and shit like that, like, and that's how
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I am.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: Like.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I don't like packaged sugar, though, I like like for
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: real fresh baked goods. Bitch, like a good muffin from
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: a bakery, good breads from a bakery. Food addiction, Okay,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: not just sugar. I got a food addiction too, let's
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: just be honest.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: I guess yeah, me too. I like good hej used
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: to come over my house with these little football I
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: that's a Asian market, and I wish I could as shit.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: I ain't never seen this pastry a day in my life.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Next time you and Charlotte, you need to get me
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: something mail I get.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I'm going to that tomorrow, so I'll go get your football.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: Because I miss those pastries. Man. But they so far,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: even when I'm in Charlotte, I never make it to
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: that grocery store. I am describing forty five minutes to
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: get to them to get them football.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: That's crazy, that's next level.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: I will drive like so. I do have a food addiction, right,
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: but it's for good food. I can't just eat anything.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: I'm very particular about what I put in my body.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: What I eat, it gotta be like some real good
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: shit I don't want to eat. Otherwise, I will travel
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: to multiple places because I know exactly where I what
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I want and where I need it from. I will
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: drive to a bunch of different grocery stores to get
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: the exact things.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, I tried, just because you know, marketing has been
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: good lately for McDonald's that fileal fish. Everybody act like
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: it's so good. I wouldn't try it. It's not. It's
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: not given. What is it is that?
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Even? What is that cod?
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I tried it twice just because I
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: was like, maybe it was bad the first time. No,
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: it's still not given.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Why don't you just make your own? I had a
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: fish sandwich last night, Like I buy like the frozen
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: cord filets piled out with tomatoes. I make my own
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: my own. Yeah, I'm sure better. Everybody put it on
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: a Hawaiian bun. Bitch the Kings Hawaiian bun.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: Slide right quick. Social media addiction is next level.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we had that digital detox episode and I still
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: have yet to be able to just straight disconnect on
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: social media.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll find myself watching them. Do y'all watch those
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: rug cleaning videos?
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: No?
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: What I've been watching like the dirty ass rugs? Like
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: how did the rug get that dirty? You know? Like
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: it'd be like covered in mud and the shampoot. I'll
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: be in the rabbit hole hours pimple popping videos.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. Yeah, me too?
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: What is it about that? Why do we want to
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: just see a us it burst?
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I mean even when they're doing the bikini area, I'm
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: watching that on YouTube. I want to see. Yeah, I
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: want to see. And I like when like a lot
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: of stuff come out like youtobe. Why I'm so fisty
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: like that? Why is it? Yeah?
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: That makes me happy? I don't know that's the just
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: but and I like.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I like the bus bumps too, me too.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: If like that's how you know I like you? If
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: I start popping pimples on your face? Oh we locked
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: in you mom in egrown hairs, I'm all about it.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: So y'all, I might have a slight gambling addiction, So
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: I mean one can one may say, like even trading
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: options is like a form of an addiction because it
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: is essentially gambling, you.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: But a bitch like me can go to chuck e
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Cheese and run.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Out Chucky Cheese, Chucky.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Daven. You can't have a Chucky Trees. That is stupid.
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: And you know you ain't getting like the most tickets
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: for these things. But I'm like, I don't know. It's
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: not gambling, bitch.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: I thought she was about to say, like sportsmen, and
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: its been said, check E Cheese.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: That is gambling. Like going to the fair and playing
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: all those games and all that shit like that is gambling.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Like it does feed something in you that that needs
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: to win, Like I'm addicted to winning.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Maybe say I'm addicted to winning, not gambling, because Checkie Cheese,
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: you and your tokens, you're gonna get what you're gonna get.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: A little basketball. I want a basketball face.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: But I can't stop though, you know what I'm saying.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Once I get in. I haven't been in a I
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: don't go places that I have an addiction to, so
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: I haven't been in a long time. But if I like, okay, no,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I have been to Frankies this year. I have been
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: to Frankies this year. And it's like a challenge to
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: not play the game. It's a challenge.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: I swear to God, che we gonna have an intervention.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I gamblers.
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: I'm in there eating a whole piece of that good as.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: It used to be good or when we just little
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: we just didn't know if it was good or not.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: I think it's still good. I haven't been in a while,
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: but I.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Believe it's good.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: So what's some other things you're addicted to?
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: I think we hit all my weed, social media, food
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: and love. Oh I'm also addicted to beauty products me too.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Oh yes, man, I will buy it if you can. Like,
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: all you gotta do is make a video about some
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: ship and I'm gonna go buy it.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: TikTok shop not I'm not addicket to that, but I
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: think a lot of people are addicted to TikTok shop.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: It's so easy. One button's on the way. I just
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: ordered some lavender oil because the girl was like, oh
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: my skin is so beautiful from using lavender oil.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: I was like, stay, no mortgage, and I bought it,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Like I just for sure.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: It's hard for me to throw them away. It's a
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: bad addiction. Bad Like I used to work at Saphoria
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: and we would get gradest shout out to all the
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Sephoria girlies. And I still got gradest. What is in
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: my house? I need to throw that shit out. It's
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: like where they give you free products, okay to you
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: so you get a big bag of free products. You
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: know that probably good stuff. Oh yeah, that shit is
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: no good, But I still got it just in case
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: there isn't apocalypse that we run down the beauty supplies,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: I will be still beautiful.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I have like bens of products. I shadow palate.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: There's no reason I got this many ice shadow pals,
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: and bitch be using the same palate, use the same one,
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: use the same Jubus place palette every time. But meanwhile,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: I got thirty thousand ice shallow palettes. So beauty products, skincare, makeup,
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: I still got old ass Mac look gloss. That shit
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: probably mean too.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Remember they used to take back the containers back to Mac.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: They don't do that anymore. But I have, like, yes,
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I have a bunch of containers that I the whole way.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I just won't throw away.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Oh I also hoard bundles me too. I'm not throwing
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: out my hair.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I just see the posts like, uh, do y'all be
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: having bags and weave.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Absolutely every Yeah.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I can bring hair back to life, so
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: it could be some five ten year old hair. I
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: can make that ship look brand brand. I'm definitely holding mine.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Need to start a service right back to new and
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: just be refurbishing. Bitch is bundled.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I do hoard weave for years.
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: Is that an addiction though?
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: Good? Yeah, I don't know if you addicted the weave.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: You addicted the weave, huh? How you addicted the wigs?
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: No, I'm not. I just don't feel like doing sowings
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: no more. What's the difference? Yeah, but you don't switch
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: it up. Oh Ill. Even when I had sewns like,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I would have the same style. It wasn't like I've
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: never been that versatile.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: But I remember, like maybe five or six years ago,
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: you had braids. That's the last time I seen you.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: And I've only had braids like three times in life,
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: three or four times in life. Like No, I know
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: when I was younger, like middle school, high school, I
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: would get braids, But as an adult, I've only had
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: like braids like three four times. So braids just isn't
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: my thing. But I don't think I'm addicted to weaves
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: and wigs anymore. Any of the black women the fuck
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: we all did exactly exactly. I've been wearing lashes too. Then,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: since our freshman year in college, I've been wearing lashes
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: before everybody else. Like I said earlier, it's two different
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: types of addiction. You got behavioral addictions and then like
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: physical addictions. Physical would be like your drugs. You're you're
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: the weed you're addicted to and the shrooms that I
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: like to take. The thing is I I remember I
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: was addicted to Viking for two weeks, and once the
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: prescription ran out, I don't know, I no longer needed it.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: So is that that's not really an addiction. I enjoyed
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: it while I hadn't. It's nothing for me to like
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: get off of some shit. So I don't really have
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: an addictive personality per se mm hmm, because if I
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: don't have access to it, it is just okay, it's over.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: I'm not about to go sell some pussy for some
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: pain medicine. I just enjoy it while I got it,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: and I know that it's going to come.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: To an end. What will you sell pussy for money?
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: That's another addiction, depend depending on how much. So this
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: this is a new choice and treatment center. This is
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: anybody who actually has, like a a real addiction, get help.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: The addiction can either be physical or behavioral, and often
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: they go hand in hand. Though alcohol and tobacco are
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: commonly recognized types of addiction. There are actually hundreds of
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: types of medically and scientifically recognized addictions. Cravings, compulsions and
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: ability to stop, and lifestyle lifestyle dysfunction all point to
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: the existence of some type of addiction. Social media is
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: definitely one of my biggest addictions right now. I gotta
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: get the fuck because it's not like we be on
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: their doing. We talk backshit so much that I have
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: to be on their most of the time I'm on
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: social media. I'm not posting shit. I'm just strolling me
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: to scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling for hours. I even have
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: a two hour limit set and I will hit the
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: thing to stop it, to stop the lock of the app.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: There's another app that will delete the apps and then
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: bring them back when your new time comes in. But
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: that is just too extreme.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the next level.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: It says the person can be addicted to behaviors just
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: as seriously as one can be addicted to substance such
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: as alcohol or hard drugs. The addiction behaviors that result
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: from both types of addiction can have serious negative consequences.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Though from all that, from all that comes with a
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: substance use disorder, to the perils of a gambling addiction,
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: or even compulsive shopping and sexual behavior to an unhealthy degree.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: Addiction is a complex disease. The type of addiction this
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: excuse me, The type of addiction doesn't really matter as
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: much as the underlying issue causing the patient to chase,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: chase this pleasurable feeling while incuring adverse consequences. I think,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: like crack, for instance, that shit was magic. It was
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: created to make you addicted. So are you really addicted
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: to it? And when this thing is altering your mind
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: your body so much to where you can't do without it?
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Right? But I would have loved to know what the
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: first crack, how I felt.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: Like you can still find out.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: I don't want to shut up because I don't want
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: because I see what it does. But imagine something that
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: feels that good that you running behind it, like risk,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: Like that's.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: What I didn't really feel that good? Or just the
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: chemical compound of this thing physically changed your DNA. Do
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: That's why addiction like the way they the way they
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: describe or the definition for addiction. But if something like
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: was intentionally created to make you addicted to it, it's
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: just different, you see what I'm saying, Like, I feel
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: like we like Instagram, was created for you to be
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: addicted to it.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: The stuff that they put in some of the foods
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: like McDonald's, they put things in there to make you
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: addicted to it. If that thing wasn't in there, would
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: you actually be addicted to it? So are they creating addiction?
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Is what I'm saying. Oh?
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, What are they put in that McDonald's sprite Because
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: they're putting something it's different than the regular spry, right,
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: that's just I.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Haven't had McDonald's in a very long time. Nothing from there.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: Even the ice creams started to taste like dishwashing detergent
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: to me. So I don't even get that shit. And
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: half the time the machine be broke anyway because they
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: don't want to clean it and should be full of mold.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: And if you look up under them ice machines mold.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: So your physical addictions are the ones that are generally
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: better known. These are addictions to substances that are ingested
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: or otherwise put into a person's body. See otherwise put
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: into a person's body. So I feel like it, especially
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: in America, they are creating addiction. It's not that you're
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: just addicted to this thing. It was intentional for you
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: to be addicted.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: Social media.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: So some common physical addictions include alcohol, tobacco, opioids, prescription drugs, cocaine, marijuana, amphetamines,
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: hallucinogens Inhaling's and PC What the fuck is the whoopies?
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: Whoopies whoopies? Unlike the Pink Star be lying. But it's like,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: you know, like a canna, oxygen cream, wood cream and
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: the O two or whatever it is that comes out
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: of the can inhaling that shit.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, people, nuts, How did you even know that got
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: you high?
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Though? That's what I'm saying. But you can buy it
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: now where it's just like the can with the air
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: in it and the kids are doing it.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: What's the dude? You all Santana was doing it in
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: the middle of an interview, like.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: Wow, how it's interesting.
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Physical addictions can generally be grouped into three categories, alcohol,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: ulicit drugs, and prescription drugs. Alcohol addiction is arguably among
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: the most common. It manifests in form of alcohol dependency,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: binge drinking, or regular heavy drinking. So most addictions are
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: masking other problems, mental health, shit, trauma. Self is yourself
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: medicating essentially. Yeah, so our little addictions at that serious.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like, I mean, they can't become serious.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: If we allow shrooms every Friday, could be shreams every morning.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: I don't really do it every Friday though, because I
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: haven't done it in the last month, but I like
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: it on Fridays. It may not be an.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Addiction, but our sugar addiction could really be turned into
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: something bad for us diabetes, health issues and all that stuff.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: Food addiction is definitely the number one killer in America
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: is food, you know. Hm, So, I mean that's pretty serious.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: But when it comes to have you ever, do you
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: know somebody who has to get up and drink first
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: thing in the morning when they wake up.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, I do.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: It's the saddest thing to see the witness you know,
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: someone who just addicted to like alcohol.
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: And it's so weird that alcoholics they get drunk so
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: quick because their body never really rid of the alcohol,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: So one low drop of alcohol they re drunk all
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: over again. So early in the morning, could do one drink,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: but you never, like your body never got ready to
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: alcohol from yesterday. And I always think.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Because you smell it coming out of their body, out
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: the pores. Yes, it's so bad, I know.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Like, and people say alcoholism is thereditary as well, like
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I think it is in my family.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, mine too, most families. Shit, but that's just never
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: been my I'm grateful because I know I could have
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: very well easily been an alcoholics, just because how many
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: I know in my family. But I'm never like, liquors
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: sit in my house, whatever, just be sitting there. I
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: don't care.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: Now's a week. You've never been the type of like,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I gotta I'll have a bottle and it's gonna be
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: there for a long time. There'll be a lot of
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: time to even drink wine at home. I'm really a
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: real life social drinker. And even now I don't be
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: wanting to drink.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: Because if I just how you feel the next day
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: and the day after that is just awful because I'll
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: never really drink. If I'm drinking, I'm trying to get drunk.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: I don't drink like, oh, I just want to say, no,
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: what's the point nothing?
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: So, behavioral addictions is classified as any time that one
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: loses control of their actions in order to engage in
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: behaviors that result in brief feelings of happiness. That person
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: becomes dependent on the pleasurable feelings that come as a
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: result of certain behaviors and begin to compulsively act on
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: that behavior. And so this is some of the common
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: behavioral addictions. Food addiction, I got that one, sex addiction,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: internet addiction, pornography addiction using computers and or cell phones.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Do you watch porn? I used to not ass not
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: as much as I was, And I don't even I
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: wouldn't even say it was. It was still wasn't every day,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. At least once a week
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I would be watching porn. But I don't even know. Yeah,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: I don't. It's just it's nasty.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: I probably could count on my hands how many times
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: I've watched porn in my life.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: Really yeah, oh well, and it wasn't even a porn.
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: It's like I probably was masturbating.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: It's just I don't know. I can't get into it.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: I need a plot. It gotta be like a movie
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: or something. Many haven't like that type of porn, Like
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: you want to see a bitch meeting nigga at the
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: grocery store. I have like a whole little storyline. I
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: don't even know why these people are having said instead
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: of a nasty horn music in that, it just start fucking.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: No, it needs to be romantic or something. I don't know,
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: because this is just dirty. Why are y'all having sex? Right?
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: You don't even know him.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: She do know him from another set like they probably
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: sashed before.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: No, see, I need I need a backstory. I need
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: to know are y'all in love?
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: Girl? Right?
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: Video game addiction work addiction. I'm never going to have
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: that addiction. I wish I had it, though, Shit, I
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: wish I had this addiction to exercise addiction. Oh yeah,
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: but occasionally I won't get into that. I need to
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: get there right the fuck now. Like yesterday, I.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: Can't wait to get back on my feet so I
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: can go back to spend class.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I really was enjoying spiritual obsession, not to be confused
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: with religious devotion. I don't that one is weird to me.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Why would spiritual be an addiction, but religious devotion isn't
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: isn't It's literally the same thing. So I feel like
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: they making a spiritual thing like negative, right, that's weird uh,
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: seeking pain. I guess those like people who do like
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: cutting andy be cutting themselves.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's wow. Oh cutting is.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: The next thing. Yeah, so seeking pain and then cutting.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: Shopping addiction exercise.
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: Oh I got that one. Shopping addiction A bitual in
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: a shop. I love Amazon, dude, but I.
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Don't always buy something like I like looking like I'm
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: a buy. Yeah, I'm a hurry up and buy. No problem, baby,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: because I'm about to. I don't really have a shopping addiction.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I do like it feels good to buy stuff, though.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: For sure. I like spending money. I love spending money.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Oh if it's somebody else mon, Oh, such a high.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: All right. So it says if you have an impulsive
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: control disorder, you are especially susceptible to compulsive behavior that
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: could lead to a severe addiction. Similarly, mental health issues
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: or mental disorders can exacerbate the risk of both a
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: substance use disorder and behavioral addiction. Physical and behavioral addictions
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: are often linked. Over half of those suffering from addiction
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: to one substance are also using other substances. Additionally, those
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: battling substance abuse disorders often suffer from behavioral addiction. As well.
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: So a lot of this stuff go hand in hand.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: I just would like to say, if anybody out there
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: is listening to the show and you guys, are you
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: think you might have an addiction of some sort, see
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: help today. There's a lot of different resources out there.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: I might. One of my homegirls she is about to
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: open up she's a psychologist, so she's about to open
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: up a clinic, and she after Scissa recently not Siss
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: Jesus christ. Ari Lennox recently was on social media saying
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: how she is slowly weaning herself off of social media
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: because it is an addiction, right, So to say I'm
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: not going to get on at all, it's kind of
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: unreasonable a lot of times, like you just kind of
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: mean yourself off like a drug. But my homegirls, like, damn,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: I need to offer that as a service.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: What helping people remove themselves from social media? Yeah, yep,
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go So there's that.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: You say, you don't want to.
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: Go noh, like completely from social media?
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: Their benefits. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to completely be gone,
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: but I don't want to be on there as much
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: as I am unless it's productive, right, Yeah, And there
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: is a There is a hot line that you, guys,
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: if you feel like you have an addiction to something
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: and you need some help, there is a hot line
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: you can call and you can down nine eight eight
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: and you will be connected to someone who can assist
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: you with some support, you know.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: Twenty four hours today. You can also text nine to
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: eighty eight and chat with someone. Mm hmm, yeah, chat
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: because it's serious, especially when you're fentanyl that's out here.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: Like Koch used to be okay, but now you don't
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: know what you're getting. Not saying that you're ever okay
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: for real, right, But people weren't dying like they are
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: now because it's not pure anymore. It's being mixed with
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: other things. Even on a weed child, you gotta be careful.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: You gotta know your source. Right.
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: So I just recently got one hundred cases of narkn
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: to pass out. I'm going to like go out in
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: Charlotte once I can walk. You know, I don't want
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: to do it right now because it's just physically not capable.
• 55:18
  Speaker 2: But before the like maybe around Thanksgiving, I'm definitely gonna
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: get outside and set up a table. There. There's a
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: place in downtown Charlotte where they set up tables for
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: food for the homeless and pass out food. And I
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: guess I might set up a table out there and
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: pass out this nar can maybe do fifty here and
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: fifty in Charlotte. It's not that much, but I mean,
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: that's one hundred potential lives that could be saved just
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: by a little narkyn Because how many people do you know?
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: They have died A lot, a lot.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: If they didn't die, they got hospitalized, like, yeah, a lot.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: So when it started hitting home, that's when you know
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: it's a problem because you know some things like you
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: know of someone you know, these are family members I've
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: had die in the last year.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: Me too, me too, friends, family members real close to home.
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  Speaker 2: And then when I when I try to like ask people, hey,
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  Speaker 2: you want to take some Narkian with you, they get
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  Speaker 2: offended and I'm like, I don't do no drugs. I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 2: it don't have to be for you. It could be
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  Speaker 2: for somebody that you know. It could be if you're
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  Speaker 2: somewhere and some what just happens to drop, you know
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  Speaker 2: you can and then if they inhale this narcian, even
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  Speaker 2: if they didn't do drugs, it won't harm them, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it won't do anything to them. So it's just good
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  Speaker 2: to have just to have one on hand somewhere around you,
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  Speaker 2: your your your neighbor, could be like an older elderly
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  Speaker 2: person who has because fanol isn't drugs.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: Is a drug, it's a prescription drug. Yeah yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying I have synthetic stuff out here as well.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it could be a part of someone's prescription
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  Speaker 2: and they might take for god that they already medicated
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  Speaker 2: and take it again and I can't can help with that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it doesn't have to necessarily be something that's recreational.
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  Speaker 2: So I just you know, encourage everyone to have something
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  Speaker 2: in their emergency kid in their home. Yeah I don't
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  Speaker 2: have at this point. Well, I can't send you some.
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  Speaker 1: It's unfortunate, man, it's unfortunate.
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  Speaker 2: Hopefully not me sending you nark and your football biscuits
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