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- 0:01Speaker 1: Hi and seeing you with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
- 0:04Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation,
- 0:10Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. Another episode of manifest with Amy. Let's
- 0:17Speaker 1: talk about urgency. I think it's one of the biggest
- 0:21Speaker 1: blocks to manifestation and why the energy backing urgency is
- 0:28Speaker 1: usually pressure and fear and the sense that you're running
- 0:32Speaker 1: out of time, and it doesn't put you in an
- 0:36Speaker 1: energetic space where you're open and receptive to receiving. There
- 0:40Speaker 1: are very few people when they're feeling a sense of
- 0:43Speaker 1: urgency you're like, thank you God, this is wonderful. Now
- 0:47Speaker 1: it feels stressful, it feels pressing, it feels hard. It's
- 0:54Speaker 1: definitely not sustainable, and it doesn't feel steady. Right. So
- 1:01Speaker 1: there can be things that are deadline driven or where
- 1:04Speaker 1: you've got to move. You got to move your feet.
- 1:07Speaker 1: That's not what I'm talking about. Like, I think that's
- 1:09Speaker 1: really fun and healthy when you got to move, When
- 1:12Speaker 1: you get that cue, you gotta move, get it done,
- 1:16Speaker 1: move right, like you know what I'm talking about. Like
- 1:18Speaker 1: when you wake up and you're like, I gotta get
- 1:20Speaker 1: that done. I just know I got to get this done.
- 1:23Speaker 1: It's time, let's do it. And all of a sudden
- 1:26Speaker 1: you have this wave of intense clarity and focus and
- 1:30Speaker 1: you're like, oh, boom boom boom boom boom, now it's done.
- 1:34Speaker 1: Or you have the patience to see it through the
- 1:39Speaker 1: resilience to see it through that, that's not what I'm
- 1:42Speaker 1: talking about. I'm talking about urgency born out of fear,
- 1:48Speaker 1: urgency born out of lack of time, lack of resources.
- 1:53Speaker 1: So manifestation requires your internal space, ship business, and that
- 2:01Speaker 1: comes from the energy of calm, trust, faith. So if
- 2:11Speaker 1: you're finding that you're in an urgency, just tell yourself,
- 2:15Speaker 1: you know what, This isn't going to help me. This
- 2:17Speaker 1: is actually pushing my desire away. And I have even
- 2:22Speaker 1: said just slow down, just slow down, or I think
- 2:27Speaker 1: it's better. Here's my thought. Anytime I'm in urgency, it's
- 2:31Speaker 1: a moment where I need to pause and say what
- 2:34Speaker 1: am I afraid of? When am I afraid? Is going
- 2:38Speaker 1: to happen? And then once I look at that and
- 2:41Speaker 1: validate that whatever that is within me, And when I
- 2:44Speaker 1: say validate, honoring aware, like okay, self, I get you
- 2:48Speaker 1: feel that way, doesn't necessarily mean it's true, then I
- 2:53Speaker 1: can shift into that. Move your feet, move your feet,
- 2:57Speaker 1: move your feet. That's fun. Moving your feet is fun.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Urgency and the stress that comes along with it is
- 3:07Speaker 1: it drains your life. For us, it's not it's not valuable.
- 3:11Speaker 1: It doesn't most This is what I'll tell you. It's
- 3:15Speaker 1: not sustainable. I'll say that to you again. It's not sustainable.
- 3:22Speaker 1: So ask yourself where the pressure is coming from. Ask yourself,
- 3:27Speaker 1: what's trying to be forced into reality. Maybe it's somebody else,
- 3:32Speaker 1: Maybe someone you feel like someone else is being really
- 3:35Speaker 1: urgent with you. Why what, what are you afraid of?
- 3:39Speaker 1: What's flashing in my mind is, oh, my god. So
- 3:44Speaker 1: my ex husband we had we he was he's a
- 3:50Speaker 1: good dude. So I want to start there. He's a
- 3:52Speaker 1: good dude. And I've been thinking and reflecting on what
- 3:55Speaker 1: happened there, Like, obviously I know all that did happen.
- 3:58Speaker 1: But one of the things, you know, aside from the
- 4:01Speaker 1: fact that, like, yeah, we're two good people, two good
- 4:03Speaker 1: people should be together, outside of that, we had very
- 4:07Speaker 1: opposite approaches to life. I was a very early riser.
- 4:11Speaker 1: I mean I got up hours before he did, right,
- 4:17Speaker 1: And so if we were planning to do something like
- 4:20Speaker 1: heaven forbid, I will never ever in my life spend
- 4:23Speaker 1: a Saturday other than running in and running out at
- 4:27Speaker 1: home depot. But say, it was like we had to
- 4:29Speaker 1: go to home depot. Even thinking about now, just it's
- 4:32Speaker 1: like going to cost go on a Saturday. Fuck no,
- 4:35Speaker 1: absolutely not, don't want to do it. But you know,
- 4:39Speaker 1: he didn't have that same perspective on things, and so
- 4:46Speaker 1: he would get up way later than I. So if
- 4:48Speaker 1: I got at five am, he'd get up. I'll due
- 4:50Speaker 1: respect him at nine. So he's up at nine, and
- 4:54Speaker 1: so then by the time he's run through his morning
- 4:57Speaker 1: routine and maybe noon, right and for me, especially if
- 5:03Speaker 1: it's a weekend, and if it's not a football weekend,
- 5:07Speaker 1: I'll probably be wanting to go and take a nap
- 5:09Speaker 1: at noon. But anyway, like you know, I was, I
- 5:13Speaker 1: was a trooper. I was like, Okay, let's do it.
- 5:14Speaker 1: Let's go to this, let's go to home depot. And
- 5:19Speaker 1: it could be lows, it could be any like big
- 5:21Speaker 1: box like store like that, and you know, a I'm
- 5:27Speaker 1: already at my tired point right like I'm ready for
- 5:32Speaker 1: a nap if I probably already cooked something or eight
- 5:35Speaker 1: and I'm you know, watching TV, did some stuff around
- 5:37Speaker 1: the house. I'm gonna take a nap. It's Saturday, and
- 5:41Speaker 1: so I'm moving slower than he was. And I remember
- 5:44Speaker 1: he'd have so much urgency, like we got you have
- 5:47Speaker 1: a door, now we gotta go. And I never really
- 5:51Speaker 1: thought to ask him, but it definitely became a point
- 5:54Speaker 1: of tension. But what was that urgency? You know? Even
- 5:58Speaker 1: I remember even talking to my brother about it, you know,
- 6:00Speaker 1: during that time, and I was like, I have no
- 6:04Speaker 1: idea why we are rushing to get to a store
- 6:08Speaker 1: that will still be there, especially you know some of
- 6:12Speaker 1: the bigger box swarts stamen pretty late. They open early early,
- 6:16Speaker 1: Like why are we rushing to get there? And That's
- 6:20Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. And that's a lighter hearted example,
- 6:24Speaker 1: but that type of I remember the tension and stress
- 6:26Speaker 1: I would feel in my body. It was not comfortable
- 6:30Speaker 1: and I was not giggling. It felt fucked up right
- 6:34Speaker 1: because it was so I want you to start moving
- 6:37Speaker 1: away from this thought of urgency. And I'm not saying
- 6:41Speaker 1: urgency doesn't show up in my world, but every time
- 6:43Speaker 1: it does, some part of being knows this isn't natural,
- 6:48Speaker 1: This isn't normal, and it's not helpful and it's not
- 6:50Speaker 1: guiding me towards what I want. And most importantly, I'll
- 6:54Speaker 1: say it again, it's not sustainable. So maybe you're in
- 6:57Speaker 1: a situation where it's being fueled by urge agency that
- 7:03Speaker 1: you can't keep playing in that pool for a long
- 7:06Speaker 1: period of time. I think the human self gets sick
- 7:10Speaker 1: of it, right, Definitely, the soul self, the soulfull higher self,
- 7:14Speaker 1: really gets sick of it. And then if we don't
- 7:18Speaker 1: start shifting, it'll go away really quickly. Right. And so
- 7:22Speaker 1: I would say, if you're recognizing that you're holding urgency
- 7:26Speaker 1: around something, go ahead and shift out of that. That
- 7:29Speaker 1: energy does not draw to you what you want, even
- 7:32Speaker 1: if temporarily it looks like it is, it won't be
- 7:37Speaker 1: a sustainable energy. Yeah, it's pressure, it's forced, it's it's fear,
- 7:47Speaker 1: it's really fear, and those are all lower vibrational. So
- 7:52Speaker 1: what I'd say is breathe, ask yourself what's going on here?
- 7:57Speaker 1: Start telling yourself, I'm not late, I'm not behind, I'm
- 8:02Speaker 1: not missing out on anything. It's safe to slow down
- 8:06Speaker 1: and I'll still receive what I want even if it's
- 8:09Speaker 1: deadline driven. You don't have to be in the energy
- 8:12Speaker 1: of urgency. Matter of fact, let's see where I'm at
- 8:18Speaker 1: on time. No, I'll wrap look up urgency. Of course,
- 8:23Speaker 1: my soul wants to look it up. Urgency. I'm the
- 8:32Speaker 1: definition of it, importance requiring swift action. So urgency might
- 8:39Speaker 1: be necessary if it's life or death. But how many
- 8:41Speaker 1: things in this world are life or death? Very few? Yeah,
- 8:51Speaker 1: So things can be still be a top priority. You
- 8:53Speaker 1: can still be determined, you can still be persistent without
- 8:57Speaker 1: the pressure, without the fear, without the worry, without the
- 9:03Speaker 1: the the impatience because most things, most things do not
- 9:14Speaker 1: require our immediate attention. Most things maybe emergency room doctor
- 9:20Speaker 1: or an EMT. Yeah, that's that's submergency. Maybe a natural disaster,
- 9:26Speaker 1: but those are again emergency situations in our day to
- 9:30Speaker 1: day life, like going a home depot. You don't need
- 9:35Speaker 1: the urgency or manifestation. There's no need, especially around your manifestation.
- 9:41Speaker 1: So release urgency. All right, let's talk about my one year.
- 9:48Speaker 1: So the one year Intuitive coaching package is for people
- 9:52Speaker 1: who do want to live on the higher vibrational end
- 9:57Speaker 1: of life consistently, and so if you're ready to develop
- 10:02Speaker 1: an emotional steadiness and energetic clarity a deep trust in
- 10:07Speaker 1: your path. Then I would encourage you to begin the
- 10:11Speaker 1: one year Intuitive Coaching Package. Clients who work with me
- 10:14Speaker 1: for a year see massive breakthroughs because they replace urgency
- 10:20Speaker 1: and fear with precision and confidence and peace and centeredness
- 10:26Speaker 1: and focus and divine information. Things can still move quickly.
- 10:32Speaker 1: I live a life where things move quickly, and I
- 10:38Speaker 1: like it that way. So you know, so when I
- 10:43Speaker 1: say letting go of urgency doesn't mean that, oh now
- 10:45Speaker 1: it's gonna all take forever. But what we're doing is
- 10:48Speaker 1: we're releasing the fear, we're releasing the stress. We're releasing
- 10:53Speaker 1: that aspect of our experience that triggers the survival mode,
- 11:00Speaker 1: and we're stepping into our power to create instantly, powerfully, miraculously.
- 11:10Speaker 1: And you get to practice that, you get to learn that,
- 11:13Speaker 1: You get to do that in real time as you
- 11:15Speaker 1: manifest desire after desire in the one year Intuitive Coaching Package.
- 11:20Speaker 1: So if you are ready to drop urgency, if you're
- 11:24Speaker 1: ready to align with your highest desire, again the one
- 11:27Speaker 1: year Intuitive Coaching Package today, So listen. Urgency is unnatural.
- 11:35Speaker 1: Manifestation is natural, and so when you let go of
- 11:41Speaker 1: the rushing, you can start receiving, And I want to
- 11:46Speaker 1: emphasize this again, stop and ask yourself, Stop and ask yourself,
- 11:52Speaker 1: what are you rushing to? I do now I wish
- 11:57Speaker 1: that my younger self had stopped in Probably wouldn't have
- 12:00Speaker 1: responded like because he was in that mode like something
- 12:04Speaker 1: triggered in his buying where he's like, go go, go,
- 12:06Speaker 1: go go. But I do wish my younger self had
- 12:09Speaker 1: asked my ex husband, what are we rushing to? What's
- 12:13Speaker 1: going on? I wish I had the forethought to say,
- 12:17Speaker 1: you know, but I wasn't a coach. I was his wife, right,
- 12:20Speaker 1: But I wish I had the thought to be like,
- 12:22Speaker 1: what's going on in your mind where you feel like
- 12:25Speaker 1: we need to rush to home depot? It's so funny
- 12:31Speaker 1: to me now, or I'll tell you this, so I'll
- 12:34Speaker 1: end here. I went to I went to Trader Joe's
- 12:39Speaker 1: last night, and I mean, like so many like basic
- 12:43Speaker 1: things were sold out, like all the sour cream was gone.
- 12:46Speaker 1: And I've been obsessed with I have this recipe for
- 12:49Speaker 1: potato tacos so good that I just invented for myself.
- 12:53Speaker 1: I didn't really It's a play on something I had
- 12:56Speaker 1: at a restaurant here in LA, but now I make
- 13:01Speaker 1: it my way and it's even better. And so I
- 13:04Speaker 1: ran in just to get these like basic ingredients, and
- 13:07Speaker 1: like things were gone, like shelves emptied out, and I'm like, I,
- 13:11Speaker 1: so you know one of the guys that work there,
- 13:14Speaker 1: and like he sees me there all the time. So
- 13:16Speaker 1: we've gotten friendly. And I said, what's going on with
- 13:20Speaker 1: Why are the shelves so empty? And he's like, yeah,
- 13:22Speaker 1: people are really buying for Thanksgiving? And I get being prepared,
- 13:28Speaker 1: But don't let yourself go into a frenzy around anything,
- 13:33Speaker 1: anything anything. God is bigger than the perception that you're
- 13:40Speaker 1: going to miss out. God is bigger than the perception
- 13:44Speaker 1: that there's not enough or whether it be time or resources.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Return to center, ask yourself what's going on there, and
- 13:56Speaker 1: then be willing to slow down, because if you slow down,
- 14:02Speaker 1: you will catch up with your manifestation. You will catch
- 14:04Speaker 1: up with divine timing. All right, that's my show. Thank
- 14:09Speaker 1: you so much for listening. I look forward to connecting
- 14:12Speaker 1: with you on the next Take care of yourself. Goodbye.