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What If You Just Let Yourself Like the Person You’ve Been Running From?

For most of my life, I believed I was broken. Not temporarily broken. Fundamentally broken. I collected the evidence: childhood abuse, four divorces, four DUIs, and the day my infant son Malachi died in 1999. I turned everything that happened into proof that I was the kind of person who deserved to suffer.

But the question that finally changed things wasn’t:

“How do I get someone to love me?”

It was:

“Can I stop hating myself long enough to consider that I might actually be worth liking?”

I spent my life directing my energy outward—toward employers, partners, family, everyone around…

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