Latest / The Karel Show / This Gay Week EXPLODES: Pride Canceled, Toilet Wars, Nigel Farage Backlash & A Viral LGBTQ Student
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Show time is here. No time to fear. Coral is
- 0:04Speaker 1: so near because show time is here. So on with
- 0:08Speaker 1: the show.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Let's give it a go. Corella is the one that
- 0:12Speaker 2: you need to know.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Now, it's show side.
- 0:30Speaker 3: What else can I say? Everyone is gay? And if
- 0:36Speaker 3: they are, we're going to talk about him this week
- 0:38Speaker 3: on This Gay Week with me and Scott Jacobson, who
- 0:41Speaker 3: is still in Ukraine. I'm still alive. So look are
- 0:43Speaker 3: two very good things. No, all right, it is the
- 0:50Speaker 3: Carell Show. I am Corral and it's This Gay Week
- 0:53Speaker 3: with Scott Jacobson. I actually do this for him for
- 0:58Speaker 3: the good Man Project, which is a fabulous, fabulous website
- 1:01Speaker 3: if you haven't gone and go there and read all
- 1:04Speaker 3: the different stories. It's not an LGBTQ website, but it
- 1:07Speaker 3: really is a very interesting website which I think is
- 1:10Speaker 3: doing its best to combat toxic masculinity just by showing
- 1:16Speaker 3: very positive stories. Yeah, there are some negative stories there too,
- 1:20Speaker 3: but it's basically got a lot of good stuff as well.
- 1:23Speaker 3: I'm curious how he viewed Well, he probably hasn't seen it,
- 1:27Speaker 3: but there's a show half Man which deals with toxic masculinity,
- 1:32Speaker 3: and you write for the good Man project, and it's
- 1:34Speaker 3: obvious one of the characters in that show is not
- 1:37Speaker 3: a good man, and there is a gay guy in
- 1:40Speaker 3: it too. So first of all, welcome Scott. And I
- 1:44Speaker 3: gotta tell you I was more than a little concerned,
- 1:47Speaker 3: more than I have been at any other point in
- 1:49Speaker 3: your being in Ukraine, because we have become friends, and
- 1:53Speaker 3: this last week we hear in America, heard the horror
- 1:57Speaker 3: stories of this hyper sonic missile and you know all
- 2:01Speaker 3: of these other things that happened where you are in Kiev,
- 2:06Speaker 3: and wey, I was very worried. So I'm very glad
- 2:09Speaker 3: that you are here, both on the show and just
- 2:12Speaker 3: physically still on the planet. And before we get to
- 2:16Speaker 3: this gay week, give us just a little update since
- 2:18Speaker 3: you are there, and we did hear a lot about
- 2:20Speaker 3: it this week, and hypersonic missiles and more bombs than
- 2:24Speaker 3: have ever fallen in Kiev, and what is it like
- 2:28Speaker 3: there now?
- 2:32Speaker 4: And people were genuinely scared On the morning of twenty fourth.
- 2:36Speaker 4: My understing was the bombing was probably a bout four
- 2:39Speaker 4: hours plus or minus, the probably very per person where
- 2:42Speaker 4: they were geographically. The estimates were about ninety missiles and
- 2:47Speaker 4: six hundred drones. The drones the Ukrainian defense. They're exceptionally
- 2:54Speaker 4: good at them, so at a minimum seventy percent or
- 2:57Speaker 4: knockdown up to ninety or more percent, So that depends
- 3:00Speaker 4: on But if you if six hundred are going into
- 3:04Speaker 4: one primarily one place, Kieva at that time.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Run and even one hundred make it through, that's still Yeah.
- 3:11Speaker 3: If six hundred are coming and yeah, you knock out
- 3:13Speaker 3: five hundred of them, you've still got one hundred to
- 3:15Speaker 3: worry about. And the same goes with this hypersonic missile
- 3:19Speaker 3: that they were hyped about. They were oh yeah, six
- 3:21Speaker 3: times faster than the speed of sound and could have
- 3:24Speaker 3: carried a nuclear warhead and they were very proud of
- 3:27Speaker 3: their hypersonic missile.
- 3:30Speaker 4: Right, so probably a dud so far. They purportedly shot
- 3:36Speaker 4: potentially two. One misfired into La Honks, which is temporarily
- 3:40Speaker 4: occupied territory, and then the other landed in Blaserka. Actually
- 3:46Speaker 4: actually talked to a friend who that's their hometown. But
- 3:53Speaker 4: the speed of this is exceptionally fast. That is correct reportage.
- 3:57Speaker 4: So it can go about monk eleven when it go
- 4:00Speaker 4: because it basically suborbital, and then in descent it gets
- 4:03Speaker 4: up to Mancola, which is exceptionally fast.
- 4:06Speaker 3: That's fast sale. I'll tell you that right now. That's
- 4:10Speaker 3: that's that's fast. That's quick. All right, s yeah, Clarence
- 4:15Speaker 3: exactly a Prada outlet store. Uh. So very happy that
- 4:19Speaker 3: you are. Okay, I'm not happy that you're in the
- 4:21Speaker 3: middle of a war zone. But you're a reporter and
- 4:23Speaker 3: this is what you do. So you're thriving and loving
- 4:25Speaker 3: it and and I'm hating it. And I saw a
- 4:28Speaker 3: female behind you there. She didn't If I see I'd
- 4:31Speaker 3: be running around every day like aha. She was just
- 4:34Speaker 3: getting something out of the fridge. So you know, life,
- 4:37Speaker 3: life sort of goes on there. And although with no
- 4:41Speaker 3: end in sight, I just wonder, I wonder how long
- 4:43Speaker 3: this ridiculousness will keep up. But that's why you're there,
- 4:47Speaker 3: all right. We are going to do stories from this
- 4:49Speaker 3: gay week, uh, in gay and lesbian stories from around
- 4:52Speaker 3: the globe, some old, some new, uh. And we're going
- 4:56Speaker 3: to start with an older one because it's new because
- 5:00Speaker 3: there's a new show out called Social Media Murders. And
- 5:03Speaker 3: I watch all of these murder deathkill reality shows and
- 5:08Speaker 3: this one popped up. Oh you might like this one.
- 5:11Speaker 3: It actually is set in Canada and Great Britain. That's
- 5:13Speaker 3: where they pull their stories from. And and the guy
- 5:18Speaker 3: you can tell from the accents, murder just sounds better
- 5:22Speaker 3: when told by a brit or a Canadian. They have
- 5:24Speaker 3: a lovely accent and oh yes, we have a searching
- 5:26Speaker 3: for his body or where are you now? But so
- 5:31Speaker 3: I became acquainted with a story, and then I did
- 5:35Speaker 3: research on this story. And this story exemplified what we
- 5:42Speaker 3: talk about every week, why pride is still important, why
- 5:45Speaker 3: it's important to talk about LGBTQ issues. We will talk
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- 6:03Speaker 2: Show Time is here. No time to fear.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Correll is so near because showtime is here.
- 6:10Speaker 2: So on with the show. Let's give it a go.
- 6:14Speaker 2: Corell is the one that you need to know.
- 6:19Speaker 3: So a lot of modern day LGBTQ youth gen zgen y,
- 6:24Speaker 3: gen x, jen elfa, whatever, they hear some of the
- 6:27Speaker 3: stories that we do and they think, oh, it's either
- 6:29Speaker 3: in a country I'll never visit, or it was in
- 6:31Speaker 3: the ancient past. And I got a great reminder of
- 6:35Speaker 3: late that things are happening every day that we still
- 6:40Speaker 3: need to talk about and we need to expose because
- 6:45Speaker 3: they show why things like pride events, why things like legislation,
- 6:50Speaker 3: and why things like what we do. By the way,
- 6:53Speaker 3: I post this show not just on my social media,
- 6:56Speaker 3: I mean my my outlets, but also on SoundCloud through
- 7:00Speaker 3: Agressive Voices Network. When we do the this gay weeks,
- 7:03Speaker 3: they are always number one. It's currently number one there
- 7:06Speaker 3: right now on the Progressive Voices Network on sound list
- 7:11Speaker 3: Yes and and every yes and every week that you
- 7:14Speaker 3: and I do them and I post them there at
- 7:16Speaker 3: SoundCloud up Progressive Voices Network for that week, they always
- 7:20Speaker 3: rank number one. It almost makes me thinking, all, I
- 7:22Speaker 3: should just do a weekly gay show, but you know,
- 7:25Speaker 3: it always ranked number one, and I'm very thrilled that
- 7:30Speaker 3: people are listening because I want to tell you all,
- 7:33Speaker 3: and maybe tell Scott, because Scott probably didn't. This story
- 7:37Speaker 3: was six years ago, which may sound like ancient history
- 7:40Speaker 3: in today's you know world, but it's it's not. It's
- 7:43Speaker 3: only six years ago, uh seven years ago total, and
- 7:48Speaker 3: it just exemplifies to me how some things never change.
- 7:53Speaker 3: There was a young, gorgeous little boy named Alex Rhoda,
- 7:57Speaker 3: r O, d d A, or Rod, depending how you
- 8:00Speaker 3: want to say his name, Alex Rada and Alex was
- 8:05Speaker 3: a wonderfully bright and a flamboyant and fabulous high school kid,
- 8:12Speaker 3: much like myself. But the difference is Alex had access
- 8:15Speaker 3: to social media and that's why his story is featured
- 8:20Speaker 3: on social media murders. And he met someone on social
- 8:24Speaker 3: media and they became romantic on social media and then
- 8:31Speaker 3: in person. But then Alex and his friends found out
- 8:37Speaker 3: that this person that was becoming romantic with Alex had
- 8:41Speaker 3: a girlfriend and was living completely separate life. Like you know,
- 8:47Speaker 3: no one knew that he also liked young guys. Now,
- 8:51Speaker 3: this wasn't an older person, meaning it wasn't like a
- 8:53Speaker 3: thirty year old and Alex was only seventeen. This was
- 8:57Speaker 3: someone his age, but one that was living a double life.
- 9:02Speaker 3: Now I know a little about that because, believe it
- 9:04Speaker 3: or not, in junior high school and my first year
- 9:06Speaker 3: of high school, I had a girlfriend, we had sex.
- 9:10Speaker 3: I fully tried to do what society was telling me
- 9:14Speaker 3: I needed to do, and I could not because I
- 9:18Speaker 3: met Eddie in my first year of high school and
- 9:22Speaker 3: fell madly and deeply in love. Cynthia, my girlfriend still
- 9:26Speaker 3: hates me to this day because she actually thought we
- 9:29Speaker 3: were gonna get married. I mean, we were that serious.
- 9:32Speaker 3: I was at her house all the time and we
- 9:34Speaker 3: were having sex, and everyone thought we were everywhere we went,
- 9:38Speaker 3: we were a couple, and everybody thought we were gonna
- 9:40Speaker 3: end up married. And then I'm like, sorry, I like him,
- 9:45Speaker 3: and she should have known. I mean, come on, it
- 9:47Speaker 3: was me, but I didn't. I knew, but I didn't
- 9:52Speaker 3: want to admit because this is the seventies and you
- 9:56Speaker 3: know it. I knew that my life would be hard,
- 9:59Speaker 3: and so I desperately wanted to be straight, and so
- 10:02Speaker 3: I tried to be but I couldn't. It lasted a
- 10:05Speaker 3: year and a half and then I realized, girl, you
- 10:09Speaker 3: love Barbara Strassan more than you love your girlfriend, So
- 10:12Speaker 3: you got a problem. So I was honest about it.
- 10:16Speaker 3: I told her. I didn't hide that I was sleeping
- 10:19Speaker 3: with Eddie from her. I told her prior to sleeping
- 10:22Speaker 3: with Eddie, and we broke up, and then I went
- 10:26Speaker 3: on to sleep with Eddie and so I remember this
- 10:31Speaker 3: time well. In Alex's case, the guy that he fell
- 10:36Speaker 3: in love with, or you know, wanted to date or
- 10:39Speaker 3: whatever somehow that he kind of got outed or was
- 10:44Speaker 3: afraid of being outed. When Alex's friends found out that
- 10:47Speaker 3: this guy was two timing Alex, and in exchange to
- 10:54Speaker 3: keep his secret, he killed Alex. And that is not
- 10:59Speaker 3: an uncommon occurrence in the gay world. We as gay
- 11:03Speaker 3: men fall four or engage in relationships with men who
- 11:09Speaker 3: are willing participants. We're not raping them, We're not, you know,
- 11:12Speaker 3: They're willing participants. And then all of a sudden, they
- 11:18Speaker 3: dislike themselves for what they're doing, and they take their
- 11:22Speaker 3: hatred of themselves, they take their self loathly out on
- 11:27Speaker 3: the person they blame for it. In this case, Alex's
- 11:31Speaker 3: partner blamed him and so he killed him. And this
- 11:38Speaker 3: is something that happens today. It especially happens to young people,
- 11:43Speaker 3: all because a man can't deal with the fact that
- 11:49Speaker 3: he is either by which this guy might have been,
- 11:52Speaker 3: or gay and on the down low. And I think
- 11:55Speaker 3: this is exemplified again in a story that you may follow.
- 12:00Speaker 3: Are you familiar with a rock band by the name
- 12:02Speaker 3: of I didn't send you the story, but it's a
- 12:04Speaker 3: big let's see lead singer comes out rock band. It
- 12:10Speaker 3: just happened. Uh, yes, a rock front man's yes, that's
- 12:18Speaker 3: what's his name.
- 12:21Speaker 4: Of Bear Tooth front man Beartooth year old singer.
- 12:27Speaker 3: So he was married, I believe, to a woman fourteen years.
- 12:34Speaker 4: Fourteen years and they're going to be separating.
- 12:36Speaker 3: And struggled that entire time, Uh, with his sexuality privately,
- 12:42Speaker 3: in private, he didn't share it. He self medicated alcohol, drugs.
- 12:47Speaker 3: And bear Claw or whatever it's named the group is,
- 12:51Speaker 3: I think it should be I think it should be
- 12:52Speaker 3: bear Claw, but whatever.
- 12:54Speaker 4: You know, White Claws.
- 12:57Speaker 3: Right and Beartooth. I imagine their demo isn't exactly the
- 13:01Speaker 3: gay and lesbian demo. You know what I'm saying. I
- 13:03Speaker 3: mean it's kids, rocker kids, Yeah, exactly. But he came
- 13:08Speaker 3: out this week and cub Teeth, Yes, he came out
- 13:13Speaker 3: this week after fourteen years of being married to a woman.
- 13:17Speaker 3: It is not uncommon for a man who is dating
- 13:22Speaker 3: a woman or married to one to finally deal with
- 13:25Speaker 3: his feelings. However, it's also not uncommon for a man
- 13:30Speaker 3: who's married to a woman or dating a woman to
- 13:34Speaker 3: act on his gay or by urges and then kill
- 13:38Speaker 3: the gay person that he has had sex with. And
- 13:42Speaker 3: so I wanted to start with this story of the
- 13:44Speaker 3: lovely Alex Rhoda, who you all should look up. He
- 13:47Speaker 3: should not have He should be alive with us right now.
- 13:49Speaker 3: He should be in his mid twenties. He should be
- 13:51Speaker 3: dating the lead singer of Bear Tooth. You know he
- 13:54Speaker 3: he should not be dead, yeah right, you know, he
- 13:58Speaker 3: should not be dead, right, but he is. And I
- 14:04Speaker 3: just want you all to know there are so many
- 14:06Speaker 3: of these stories still happening right now, right now, especially
- 14:10Speaker 3: to young people, because when you have a Donald Trump,
- 14:15Speaker 3: and when you have other people in the world who
- 14:17Speaker 3: are pushing gay rights back, who are trying to put
- 14:20Speaker 3: people back in the closet, who are trying to punish
- 14:24Speaker 3: gay people. When you have that happening, people are less
- 14:29Speaker 3: apt to express their bisexuality or their gayness in a
- 14:35Speaker 3: positive fashion and more apt to kill or harm gay
- 14:40Speaker 3: people because they blame them for their feelings. I have
- 14:44Speaker 3: slept with men that identify us straight, and there have
- 14:48Speaker 3: been a couple who have tried to get violent afterwards.
- 14:52Speaker 3: To my advantage, I'm five foot ten and rather big
- 14:55Speaker 3: and I don't fuck around, and so that got stopped quickly.
- 15:01Speaker 3: But you know, and they were so self loathing. I
- 15:04Speaker 3: just couldn't see them anymore. But Alex didn't know about that,
- 15:08Speaker 3: and we.
- 15:08Speaker 4: Have the studies.
- 15:10Speaker 3: I am not.
- 15:13Speaker 4: So the penopathibasis, gastrace. I'll do, I'll do. I'll give
- 15:15Speaker 4: you the cliff notes at this. I think you'll find
- 15:17Speaker 4: very funny. But as far as I know, this is
- 15:19Speaker 4: pure view research. And this is when I was in
- 15:21Speaker 4: psychology classes.
- 15:23Speaker 3: Are you talking about where they put straight man in
- 15:25Speaker 3: front of straight porn or they put straight man in
- 15:27Speaker 3: front of gay porn and attached sensors to their penises
- 15:31Speaker 3: and a majority of a lot of the straight men
- 15:33Speaker 3: got very aroused for the gay porn.
- 15:37Speaker 4: Close. The last part would be those that rated high
- 15:40Speaker 4: on homophobia, Yes, had a higher reactivity and the blood
- 15:45Speaker 4: flow was not something they're conscious of. That's the right part.
- 15:48Speaker 3: Every every gay man will tell you the more a
- 15:51Speaker 3: man objects to homosexuality, the likelier he is that he
- 15:56Speaker 3: wants to sleep with a man. That is just that's
- 16:00Speaker 3: while all these Christian ministers get caught, these big anti
- 16:02Speaker 3: homophobe Christian ministers often get caught with other men because
- 16:08Speaker 3: they're just suppressing. And that's in the Alex Rota case.
- 16:12Speaker 3: It's the exact same emotion. The guy that he was
- 16:15Speaker 3: dating was such a homophobe that he hated himself so
- 16:18Speaker 3: much that the thought that he had slept was another
- 16:20Speaker 3: man made him kill the other man. And so this
- 16:25Speaker 3: is very dangerous.
- 16:26Speaker 4: It's something they've done. So it's shame. Yes, it's socially.
- 16:30Speaker 4: I'm not sanctioned there for it's shame induced reactive violence.
- 16:34Speaker 3: It is, And that's why I wanted to bring it
- 16:35Speaker 3: up and just let everyone listening know. First of all,
- 16:39Speaker 3: if you are gay, it might be fun to fuck
- 16:41Speaker 3: around with forbidden fruit, but don't. It's forbidden for a reason.
- 16:44Speaker 3: I can't tell you when I lived in Huntington Beach
- 16:46Speaker 3: how many skinheads I had sex with, and then the
- 16:49Speaker 3: next week they're out there bashing gays. And I mean
- 16:52Speaker 3: that I literally saw them, you know, bashing gays, and
- 16:55Speaker 3: yet I slept with them the week before. And so
- 16:58Speaker 3: this is common. It happens. If you have children and
- 17:03Speaker 3: you think they are gay, have these discussions with them,
- 17:06Speaker 3: Share the story of alex Rada with them. If you
- 17:09Speaker 3: have grandchildren, nieces nephews, share the story of alex Rada.
- 17:14Speaker 3: Don't let him be forgotten, and let there be a
- 17:17Speaker 3: lesson that if someone is self loathing or not fully
- 17:22Speaker 3: out or whatever, you can't fix them. Run, do not walk. Run.
- 17:27Speaker 3: And yes, the bigger the homophobe, the more likely they
- 17:31Speaker 3: are to actually be gay or want to have gay sex,
- 17:34Speaker 3: which explains why Grinder actually crashes at most Republican events
- 17:40Speaker 3: because yeah, the lady does protest too much, methinks, and
- 17:45Speaker 3: so there's that. So that was the first story I
- 17:47Speaker 3: wanted to lead with, only because I've seen it happen
- 17:49Speaker 3: so many times, where people get hurt or they get
- 17:53Speaker 3: killed trans This is happening right now in the trans community.
- 17:57Speaker 3: A guy will sleep with a male to female transgender person.
- 18:01Speaker 3: He will then find out that she was once a man,
- 18:05Speaker 3: and even though she is a woman now, they will
- 18:08Speaker 3: commit violence on this trans person for not telling them
- 18:12Speaker 3: that they were once a man, or for them finding out.
- 18:17Speaker 3: I had a friend named Neeoka. She was trans, had
- 18:20Speaker 3: not had the bottom surgery yet, and yes, she used
- 18:23Speaker 3: to be a hooker for fun and profit. She when
- 18:26Speaker 3: we went to West Hollywood and we needed drink money,
- 18:28Speaker 3: she'd go work sunset for an hour or two, come
- 18:30Speaker 3: back and we do a night on the town. And
- 18:33Speaker 3: and God bless Nioka one time, Noka came back bruised
- 18:36Speaker 3: and bloodied. And that's because she didn't tell the date
- 18:40Speaker 3: that even though she had breast and looked like a woman,
- 18:43Speaker 3: she still had the junk downstairs. And when he reached
- 18:46Speaker 3: for the junk downstairs, even though she tried to stop it,
- 18:49Speaker 3: he felt it and he beat the crap out of her.
- 18:53Speaker 3: And so this happens. So just know that it happens.
- 18:57Speaker 3: If you have a gay person in your life, share
- 18:59Speaker 3: the story of Alex and make them aware that there
- 19:02Speaker 3: are dangers to dating someone that is closeted. And if
- 19:06Speaker 3: if you are dating someone that's closeted, don't threaten to
- 19:10Speaker 3: out them, just walk away. I know you want to stand, well,
- 19:14Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell your girlfriend. What would she say about? No,
- 19:18Speaker 3: don't do that. You could end up dead. So all right,
- 19:23Speaker 3: let's move on to Colney, London. Colney it's an example
- 19:30Speaker 3: of hate crime leading to a larger cancelation. And I'm
- 19:34Speaker 3: sure you probably saw the story from Hertfordshire, the Den
- 19:40Speaker 3: of Gainess. When I think of Gainis, I think of
- 19:42Speaker 3: Hertfordshire and they had two gay pride flags torn down
- 19:48Speaker 3: and continued violence. So the first loud and Proud event,
- 19:53Speaker 3: which was gonna be at Shirley's Roadhouse in London Colney,
- 19:57Speaker 3: has been canceled and it's really sad. I was going
- 20:03Speaker 3: to have live music from Christina Aguilera, Elton John and
- 20:05Speaker 3: Britney Spears tribute acts because they couldn't afford the ralance,
- 20:10Speaker 3: but organizers said banners advertising it had been removed from
- 20:14Speaker 3: the outside venue twice and so they, in fear for
- 20:18Speaker 3: the people that would show up, they've canceled the event.
- 20:22Speaker 3: And this shows you how every country is having its
- 20:26Speaker 3: issues right now. It's not just America. Every country is
- 20:31Speaker 3: having its issues. And that's a sad story actually, because
- 20:34Speaker 3: they were so happy to have their first Pride event
- 20:37Speaker 3: and now they're not.
- 20:42Speaker 4: And I asked you a few weeks ago if you
- 20:45Speaker 4: thought declines in democracy, going off of a Freedom House
- 20:50Speaker 4: report over the last approximately two decades of a decline
- 20:53Speaker 4: in democratic governess globally and rise of autocratic tendencies, if
- 20:58Speaker 4: that trend of decor in democratic governance is correlated in
- 21:03Speaker 4: evidentiary way, this loose mystical way. With good client of
- 21:08Speaker 4: the PC right, I believe we were in agreement that
- 21:11Speaker 4: it's quite likely that if you see declines in equality
- 21:15Speaker 4: for LGBTQI plus people in a society.
- 21:19Speaker 3: And more about that.
- 21:34Speaker 2: Now, is show.
- 21:39Speaker 3: Unequipocally yes, just beyond a doubt, unequippocally yes. The the
- 21:45Speaker 3: thing I've always talked about here in the United States,
- 21:48Speaker 3: the bully pulpit is the most powerful thing the president has. Period.
- 21:53Speaker 3: That's that's the most important thing he has. And Trump
- 21:57Speaker 3: uses it, by the way, a lot, and he will.
- 22:00Speaker 3: He is a bully. It's not called the bully pulpit
- 22:02Speaker 3: for that reason. But but you know it the president.
- 22:06Speaker 3: When a president speaks, people listen. Careful the things you say,
- 22:09Speaker 3: children will listen. And when a president speaks, people listen,
- 22:13Speaker 3: and he sets the tone. So when we have a
- 22:16Speaker 3: president like Barack Obama or Bill Clinton or Kennedy or
- 22:21Speaker 3: Carter who are pro LGBTQ rights. Even look, Obama was
- 22:27Speaker 3: not for same sex marriage when he took office. Okay,
- 22:30Speaker 3: he was not. He made it clear he was not.
- 22:33Speaker 3: He quote evolved on that issue. But he also wasn't
- 22:39Speaker 3: anti gay. He didn't preach against same sex marriage. And
- 22:43Speaker 3: so it does set a tone more than anything else.
- 22:47Speaker 3: So it's not so much that they're autocratic. It's not
- 22:51Speaker 3: so much that there. It's their mood, their speech, their
- 22:58Speaker 3: persona infects the people they govern. So someone that is
- 23:05Speaker 3: very to the right on issues they keep talking that way,
- 23:09Speaker 3: their country swings to the right. Someone that's very left
- 23:13Speaker 3: and they talk that way, their country swings to the left.
- 23:17Speaker 3: Not magically, it's the bully pulpit, it's the message being
- 23:20Speaker 3: sent from the highest up, and recently across the globe
- 23:26Speaker 3: it has become much easier for leaders even in the
- 23:30Speaker 3: UK to either not talk about LGBTQ issues at all,
- 23:34Speaker 3: which Adam Mockler was just interviewed at on the Advocate
- 23:38Speaker 3: saying Democrats should not throw gays under the bus in
- 23:41Speaker 3: this next election, which they're planning to do that they
- 23:44Speaker 3: should actually double down on their support of LGBTQ people,
- 23:49Speaker 3: because you don't win elections by throwing a group that
- 23:51Speaker 3: supports you under the bus. But even Democrats are now
- 23:55Speaker 3: afraid to make gay issues an issue because of the
- 23:58Speaker 3: damaged Trump is done. So yeah, yes, autocrats and the
- 24:01Speaker 3: slide of democrats of democracy and democratic societies do breed
- 24:07Speaker 3: more conservatism, which means less LGBTQ rights. Then someone to
- 24:13Speaker 3: the left gets power and suddenly gay rights make you know,
- 24:18Speaker 3: it's it's we're like two Hondas passing on the freeway,
- 24:21Speaker 3: you know. I mean it's like someone to the left
- 24:25Speaker 3: comes in in whatever country you want, gays flourish, then
- 24:29Speaker 3: the right takes hold and gays move back, then the left,
- 24:33Speaker 3: then the right. Sometimes you're equal. But yes, the president,
- 24:40Speaker 3: the cabinet, the mood that is set by those people
- 24:43Speaker 3: transcends down, trickles down like urine, and that trickling down
- 24:48Speaker 3: affects the policies and the mood of the people being governed.
- 24:52Speaker 3: So in the UK right now, you know, since we're
- 24:58Speaker 3: talking UK, we have Farage, who is right now got
- 25:02Speaker 3: another voice. You know, he's not done with politics, he's
- 25:05Speaker 3: getting another voice. He backed a preacher who said that
- 25:11Speaker 3: homosexuality was an abomination. Now he was criticized for that,
- 25:16Speaker 3: but not ostracized. And there's a big difference, you know, Yes,
- 25:23Speaker 3: and and I don't think we should criticize these people.
- 25:26Speaker 3: We should ostracize these people, but we don't. And so
- 25:30Speaker 3: Farage gets to have this preacher who says homosexuality is
- 25:33Speaker 3: an abomination. I think preachers that think homosexuality is an
- 25:37Speaker 3: abomination are abominations. But that's just me and probably God
- 25:41Speaker 3: is on my side with that, if there is one.
- 25:43Speaker 3: But I don't believe in fairy tales, so you know,
- 25:45Speaker 3: I stop believing in Santa and unicorns, and I don't
- 25:49Speaker 3: believe in their fictitious Christ, which I just found out
- 25:51Speaker 3: something interesting. Not to get off topic, but did you
- 25:54Speaker 3: know that the Gospels weren't written by Mark, John, Luke
- 25:58Speaker 3: and the other one or whatever, that those names were
- 26:02Speaker 3: assigned whatever. Those names were actually assigned later by Catholic
- 26:09Speaker 3: popes who had and king's king James. Uh. That the
- 26:13Speaker 3: actual scriptures that they went from, the actual text are anonymous.
- 26:19Speaker 3: They don't have authors listed. So those four Gospels, yeah, no,
- 26:27Speaker 3: that you can look it up. It's verifiable. The four
- 26:31Speaker 3: Gospels of the Bible, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, they
- 26:34Speaker 3: weren't written by Matthew, Mark, Luke and John. Uh. They
- 26:37Speaker 3: were written anonymously, and later they were attributed to Matthew, Mark,
- 26:42Speaker 3: Luke and John even though they were not the authors. Uh.
- 26:46Speaker 3: So that's that was.
- 26:47Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean there are I mean, there are probably
- 26:50Speaker 4: like linguistic detritus that mark multiple authors, per discrepancy, style
- 26:59Speaker 4: of writing, reference discrepancies and so on.
- 27:02Speaker 3: And in that original tech by the way.
- 27:06Speaker 4: Gospels.
- 27:07Speaker 3: Well, and in the original text, since we're talking about it,
- 27:10Speaker 3: and since now Nigel Farage has this preacher out there
- 27:13Speaker 3: calling homosexuality and abomination. In the original text that the
- 27:17Speaker 3: Bible is taken from, not only was there no word
- 27:21Speaker 3: for homosexuality, it was never mentioned at all in the
- 27:25Speaker 3: Bible in the original text at all. In fact, the
- 27:28Speaker 3: first reference to homosexuality in a Bible did not appear
- 27:32Speaker 3: until nineteen forty two. So how about that in the
- 27:36Speaker 3: originals we're in London anywhere, the original text of the
- 27:40Speaker 3: Bible had nothing about being gay, nothing about homosexuality, And
- 27:45Speaker 3: they often misinterpret Leviticus from man sleeping with another man
- 27:48Speaker 3: that was actually referring to pedophilia man sleeping. The original
- 27:53Speaker 3: word they used, which was an aramaic, did not translate
- 27:57Speaker 3: to gay or homosexual. So in all of the Bible's
- 28:01Speaker 3: text there is no reference to homosexuality at all. Just note,
- 28:06Speaker 3: and you can check that the scholars will back me
- 28:08Speaker 3: up on this.
- 28:11Speaker 4: That's the current popular pastors like maybe not necessarily re warm,
- 28:15Speaker 4: maybe some like Marked Driscoll, former out of Seattle, not
- 28:18Speaker 4: of Arizona. I think at Trinity Church, his big thing
- 28:22Speaker 4: has been referencing or orienting it around the word pornaea,
- 28:26Speaker 4: and so then it smushes everything into the same camp,
- 28:32Speaker 4: including premarital sex, cheating, homosexuality, et cetera, infidelity, and so.
- 28:41Speaker 3: Look, if God was against being gay, he wouldn't have
- 28:44Speaker 3: had If God was against being gay, he wouldn't have
- 28:46Speaker 3: let his son go roam the desert for thirty days
- 28:48Speaker 3: with men in dresses. I'm just saying, I'm just saying
- 28:53Speaker 3: that's that. But anyway, so yeah, it's very important.
- 28:55Speaker 4: Like Jesus person, not the name, it's Jesus.
- 28:58Speaker 3: Well yeah, well there was no Jay in the language,
- 29:00Speaker 3: so they couldn't have been you coming, but you know.
- 29:04Speaker 3: Uh so. Nigel Far's, a Reform UK leader, recorded a
- 29:08Speaker 3: video with Stephen Clayton after Polchefter Council applied for a
- 29:12Speaker 3: banning order to limit his street preaching. So they wanted
- 29:17Speaker 3: to limit him being able to be out in screaming.
- 29:19Speaker 3: We'll talk more about limiting street preaching when we come back,
- 29:23Speaker 3: but I'm all for it.
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- 30:19Speaker 3: So this guy is Clayton. He preaches for the Bread
- 30:22Speaker 3: of Life church, and there is a complaint against his
- 30:25Speaker 3: street preaching, particularly when he said all adulterers, all fornicators,
- 30:30Speaker 3: all sodomites, all drunkards, all thieves, all blasphemers, all liars,
- 30:35Speaker 3: all mockers, their homes shall be in the lake of fire,
- 30:39Speaker 3: which it sounds like i'd want to visit. Oh, oh,
- 30:41Speaker 3: Scott's gone. We'll get him back. Don't worry, folks, We'll
- 30:44Speaker 3: get Scott back. Unless there's been some sort of missile
- 30:46Speaker 3: attack in Kiev again, you know, you never know, but
- 30:49Speaker 3: we'll get him back. Don't worry. But I'm being serious
- 30:52Speaker 3: when I say that the people that they list that
- 30:56Speaker 3: he lists in his speech are actually people you'd want
- 30:59Speaker 3: to be at a party with if you ask me.
- 31:02Speaker 3: All Right, here he is, he's back. Let's add him. Yes,
- 31:06Speaker 3: ad Scott, Come on, Scott, there you are. Let's get
- 31:09Speaker 3: you back here. Let's get your reassigned AD layer. No no, no,
- 31:16Speaker 3: replaced layer. No no no, no, no, no no. Where
- 31:19Speaker 3: is this and replaced layer AD layer network? Scott Jacobson,
- 31:24Speaker 3: there you are. Oh no that no no, But I'm
- 31:27Speaker 3: doing it wrong. You'd think I haven't done this enough network.
- 31:35Speaker 3: Where are you? Scott Jacobson. Okay, there you go. Okay,
- 31:41Speaker 3: so you missed a good part. You missed the part
- 31:43Speaker 3: about adulterers, fornicators, sodomites, drunkers, thieves, blasphemers, liars, and mockers
- 31:48Speaker 3: are people that I would like to invite to a
- 31:50Speaker 3: party that yeah, you know. But he was out there
- 31:53Speaker 3: saying that they're all going to live in the Lake
- 31:55Speaker 3: of Fire, which is obviously the address you want if
- 31:57Speaker 3: you want to have a fun afterlife. But but exactly
- 32:04Speaker 3: in the same session, he told passers by, they hear
- 32:06Speaker 3: about words in the Bible like judgment and sin and repentance,
- 32:10Speaker 3: they don't like hearing the holy words of God. They
- 32:12Speaker 3: are offended by what the Bible says. When the Bible
- 32:14Speaker 3: says homosexuality is an abomination, the council asked him to
- 32:19Speaker 3: show them the exact scripture that said homosexuality is an
- 32:23Speaker 3: abomination and he couldn't because there's no such scripture.
- 32:28Speaker 4: That's embarrassing.
- 32:29Speaker 3: Well, because there's no such scripture. So Nigel Farage got
- 32:32Speaker 3: criticized for, you know, hanging out with him. As far
- 32:37Speaker 3: as I'm concerned, I don't like either of them. So
- 32:39Speaker 3: and they're not going to Nigel Farage is not going
- 32:41Speaker 3: to win there. I know there's turmoil and stormer may
- 32:43Speaker 3: or may not you know, stay and all that, but
- 32:46Speaker 3: a Pharage ain't going to be the next one. While
- 32:50Speaker 3: we're in the UK, let's talk toilets because people are
- 32:53Speaker 3: obsessed with bathrooms. In your lifetime, have you ever heard
- 32:57Speaker 3: so much discussion about bathrooms?
- 32:59Speaker 4: Ever, it's not a big issue for me personally.
- 33:04Speaker 3: Well it is for your government and for my government,
- 33:06Speaker 3: for the government of the UK.
- 33:09Speaker 4: Except camping, and it's a it can be an urgent issue.
- 33:14Speaker 3: Why can't we just look upon public bathrooms as camping?
- 33:17Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. It's like when you're out
- 33:19Speaker 3: in the woods there's no male or female bathrooms. It's
- 33:22Speaker 3: like what any port in the storm just go? You know?
- 33:26Speaker 4: So I think the one important question is there a
- 33:28Speaker 4: bear round?
- 33:29Speaker 3: Yeah? Exactly. So single sex basis such as changing rooms
- 33:33Speaker 3: and toilets must be used on the basis of biological sex.
- 33:37Speaker 3: New guidance from the Equalities Watchdog has confirmed this means
- 33:41Speaker 3: that a trans woman a biological male who identifies as
- 33:45Speaker 3: a woman should not use female toilets or changing rooms
- 33:48Speaker 3: according to the Code of Practice. This was produced by
- 33:52Speaker 3: the Equalities and Human Rights Commission and now approved by Ministers. Uh.
- 33:56Speaker 3: This is in the UK, of course, after their Supreme
- 33:59Speaker 3: Court ruled this and kind of gobsmacked. So what you're
- 34:11Speaker 3: saying is a male to female trans person who is
- 34:15Speaker 3: now biologically female in every way, shape or form, breast, vagina, hair, makeup, everything,
- 34:23Speaker 3: that that person going into the men's restroom is going
- 34:28Speaker 3: to be easier to explain to your child than that
- 34:32Speaker 3: person going into a female restroom where your child wouldn't
- 34:36Speaker 3: even suspect anything at all. Doesn't it just seem like
- 34:41Speaker 3: they're making their own problems here, I mean, you know,
- 34:46Speaker 3: and again, is there a national junk checker? Is that
- 34:49Speaker 3: going to be a new job bathroom junk checker? You know?
- 34:53Speaker 3: Because how is anyone if you're a woman and you're
- 34:57Speaker 3: in the woman's bathroom and a beautiful woman walks in,
- 35:00Speaker 3: or an ugly woman walks in, A woman walks in
- 35:03Speaker 3: who looks like a woman goes into the stall and peace.
- 35:08Speaker 3: How are you going.
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- 35:48Speaker 3: So here's what I want to have happen. I want
- 35:51Speaker 3: a family, a man and his kids to be in
- 35:53Speaker 3: the male restroom, and I want a woman that is
- 35:57Speaker 3: just vivaciously gorgeous to walk in, go up to the
- 36:01Speaker 3: arnal and whip out a schlong that would make a
- 36:04Speaker 3: donkey proud. And I want that guy to explain that
- 36:07Speaker 3: to his kids. That's what I want, because that's what
- 36:11Speaker 3: they're asking for. They are literally creating problems for themselves.
- 36:15Speaker 3: And up until Donald Trump got elected into office, no
- 36:20Speaker 3: one anywhere had a problem with trans people in bathrooms.
- 36:24Speaker 3: I haven't heard it in the news. Advocate hasn't written
- 36:27Speaker 3: about it for decades. It hasn't been on it, and
- 36:29Speaker 3: the the legislative agendas of any countries at all for
- 36:35Speaker 3: my entire life. But suddenly, suddenly Donald Trump takes office
- 36:41Speaker 3: and the entire world is worried about where trans people.
- 36:43Speaker 4: Be, including mister Trump. You know, you educiate me on
- 36:48Speaker 4: this that he did not have much of an issue
- 36:50Speaker 4: at all.
- 36:51Speaker 3: Nope, at all, non political Donald Trump. I can't believe
- 36:58Speaker 3: I'm gonna say this, but it's the true. Donald Trump
- 37:01Speaker 3: was actually an ally to the LGBTQ community before he
- 37:06Speaker 3: ran for political office. He has spoken many times about
- 37:12Speaker 3: how everyone should have equal rights. He has spoken many
- 37:15Speaker 3: times about gay people not bothering him, that he's fine
- 37:18Speaker 3: with it. And you know, because he lived in New
- 37:20Speaker 3: York for the love of God, you know, and so
- 37:23Speaker 3: he had no problem with gay people, black people. He
- 37:26Speaker 3: had a problem with gay people, not and oh he did.
- 37:30Speaker 3: He placed an ad about the Central Park five and
- 37:33Speaker 3: the whole thing, you know, his housing that he owned.
- 37:37Speaker 3: Black people took him to court and won because he
- 37:41Speaker 3: was a slum lord. Oh yeah, no, he he had
- 37:43Speaker 3: a problem with black people, but not gay people. Then
- 37:46Speaker 3: he but remember what he is, he is an opportunist.
- 37:51Speaker 3: So when he ran for office, he found out that Maga, Yeah,
- 37:54Speaker 3: that Maga has a problem with gay people. So suddenly
- 37:58Speaker 3: he had a problem with gay people, and he still
- 38:00Speaker 3: schidzophrenic on it. He said just two weeks ago that
- 38:03Speaker 3: he has no problem with gay people, that the gays
- 38:05Speaker 3: love him and they support him. And he's also delusional,
- 38:08Speaker 3: but he's like, oh, no, I have no problem with
- 38:10Speaker 3: gay people, and then out of the same mouth ten
- 38:13Speaker 3: minutes later he'll condemn trans people or or you know,
- 38:19Speaker 3: condone repairtive therapy or something like that. So he has
- 38:24Speaker 3: no moral compass. It broke a long time ago, and
- 38:28Speaker 3: he's lost in the sea of morality, and he only
- 38:31Speaker 3: goes the way that he thinks people want him to go.
- 38:36Speaker 3: In other words, for whatever is advantageous to him. If
- 38:40Speaker 3: it's advantageous to talk against Gaze, then he will. If
- 38:43Speaker 3: it's advantageous to be for Gazed, then he's for them.
- 38:46Speaker 3: He is for something until he is against it, and
- 38:49Speaker 3: that is simply because he likes to be popular. And
- 38:53Speaker 3: I hate those kind of people who change their opinions
- 38:56Speaker 3: because they want to be popular. We have spoken about
- 39:00Speaker 3: Senegal a lot, as we spoke back in March about
- 39:04Speaker 3: their new law, and you know, severely punishing gaze. I
- 39:10Speaker 3: just had to send this story because I love what
- 39:13Speaker 3: the leader said, uh, the tyranny. Go ahead and read
- 39:20Speaker 3: the headline. I just want to hear it from somebody,
- 39:22Speaker 3: because it's just all right.
- 39:22Speaker 4: I'll give you. So this is Lamond, a prominent publication respected,
- 39:29Speaker 4: uh depending on person. Senegalese Prime Minister Usman Sonko denounced
- 39:34Speaker 4: western quote tyranny unquote, with the explicit claim that Western
- 39:40Speaker 4: powers are seeking to impose homosexuality globally.
- 39:46Speaker 3: Well, it's about.
- 39:47Speaker 4: Those homosexuality globally.
- 39:50Speaker 3: It's about.
- 39:52Speaker 4: Laws. I don't I'm not aware even if it was
- 39:58Speaker 4: a serious point of a single case in which that
- 40:01Speaker 4: is the case, even within a subculture within a nation.
- 40:05Speaker 3: Well, I will say, in the nineteen forties, we did
- 40:07Speaker 3: try to develop a bomb to turn soldiers gay. That
- 40:10Speaker 3: is true. That is truth. It's researchable. You didn't know,
- 40:14Speaker 3: you didn't know. No, No, this is factual. You can
- 40:17Speaker 3: research this. In the nineteen forties, the US military tried
- 40:22Speaker 3: to perfect a bomb that would make the soldiers gay
- 40:26Speaker 3: because they thought if they sent it over to the
- 40:28Speaker 3: other side and blew it up, that this is how
- 40:32Speaker 3: little they think of gay people. That all of the
- 40:35Speaker 3: soldiers would either throw down their arms and run screaming, oh,
- 40:39Speaker 3: or just hook up with each other. But no, this
- 40:43Speaker 3: is true. The American army tried to create a weapon
- 40:47Speaker 3: that would turn the enemy gay. This is true.
- 40:51Speaker 4: They hide psychics and stuff too during that time. Yeah,
- 40:54Speaker 4: there was a lot of nonsense, a lot of nonsense
- 40:56Speaker 4: on the Nazi side especially, but also on the American side.
- 40:59Speaker 3: So as far as I know, we that was unsuccessful
- 41:02Speaker 3: and we have no such weapons. So I'm not sure
- 41:04Speaker 3: how we would impose homosexuality on the world. But the
- 41:08Speaker 3: Senegalese leader seems to think that the West, which are
- 41:12Speaker 3: busy banning trans people in bathrooms, is trying to impose
- 41:16Speaker 3: or impose homosexuality upon the world. First of all, dudes,
- 41:22Speaker 3: you live in Senegal, where people can't even afford to
- 41:25Speaker 3: eat or have houses. You have bigger fish to fry.
- 41:29Speaker 3: But second of all, nowhere in the article does he
- 41:34Speaker 3: explain this tyranny. In other words, he doesn't give concrete
- 41:39Speaker 3: examples of how we are trying to impose homosexuality on
- 41:44Speaker 3: the world.
- 41:44Speaker 4: On the world, yeah, it's writing an anti West sentiment
- 41:49Speaker 4: global right now. I mean, for some some good reasons
- 41:52Speaker 4: and and a lot of bad reasons, but in general
- 41:55Speaker 4: it's an externalization of their locus of control. In addition,
- 42:00Speaker 4: it's a political move, as you're noting.
- 42:03Speaker 3: He's like Donald Trump, why he's in case. Yes, the
- 42:06Speaker 3: mood of his country is against gays, so he's going
- 42:09Speaker 3: to speak out against gays. If the mood of his
- 42:11Speaker 3: country was pro gay, he'd suck dick at the podium.
- 42:14Speaker 3: So whatever, you know, I'm just I am tired.
- 42:17Speaker 4: There was there are some African states of which you're
- 42:18Speaker 4: aware of. There's one heartbreaking documentary where there was an
- 42:23Speaker 4: interview with I believe was a lesbian woman and she
- 42:29Speaker 4: was talking about corrective rape, where straight African men would
- 42:35Speaker 4: rape lesbian women to make them straight, with us the
- 42:38Speaker 4: thinking having another context as well, but with that partic
- 42:42Speaker 4: the doctor was in that context roll the Sene police case,
- 42:45Speaker 4: and you know, in a similar way, I'm in the
- 42:49Speaker 4: similar thinking. The issue wouldn't be the mythology of corrective
- 42:54Speaker 4: rape of a lesbian, it would be that she is lesbian.
- 42:58Speaker 4: That would be the problem. Yes, you know, that's.
- 43:01Speaker 3: Well, that's not far off from repaired to therapy. There
- 43:05Speaker 3: are religions religious sex and repaired to therapy right here
- 43:09Speaker 3: in this country that forced young gay male adults to
- 43:12Speaker 3: have sex with females to try to make them straight.
- 43:16Speaker 3: It doesn't work. They spend most of their time talking
- 43:18Speaker 3: about euphoria and doing their hair, but you know they
- 43:22Speaker 3: still which I just watched euph You. I had never
- 43:26Speaker 3: watched it because I thought, what do I want to
- 43:28Speaker 3: teen drama for? But I do love Jacob Alordie, and
- 43:31Speaker 3: I had no idea that Zindaia played a lesbian and
- 43:34Speaker 3: that there were like so many gay people in it.
- 43:35Speaker 3: And I'm like, I've never seen this show. What is
- 43:38Speaker 3: this show? So now I'm starting to watch you for
- 43:40Speaker 3: you actually, and I can see why the Ride is
- 43:42Speaker 3: so upset about that show because it shows youth in
- 43:45Speaker 3: an honest light that they are struggling. You know, when
- 43:50Speaker 3: you're a youth and you're trying to figure it out
- 43:54Speaker 3: and you don't have all the answers, and particularly when
- 43:57Speaker 3: it comes to sexuality, you don't, you know, you're at
- 44:00Speaker 3: the age where it almost anything goes for a while.
- 44:03Speaker 3: And and so, but yes, corrective rape, I have I've
- 44:07Speaker 3: heard you know, have you ever heard of a gay
- 44:10Speaker 3: man correctively raping a straight man to try to make
- 44:12Speaker 3: him gay Have have you ever heard of that?
- 44:16Speaker 4: No? No, I mean we, in fact we we we.
- 44:19Speaker 4: The earlier part of our cast today, this gay we
- 44:23Speaker 4: was about being quite opposite, based of the therapist just granted,
- 44:29Speaker 4: but reasonable inference of shame based reactive violence, based on
- 44:36Speaker 4: socially not sanctioned behavior being in exipon because it's the
- 44:41Speaker 4: person's actual orientation, right, I mean, gets the bear whatever,
- 44:44Speaker 4: tragic bear two bear to thank you, thank you that
- 44:49Speaker 4: I'm forgetting that. Yeah, so it's you know, so.
- 44:51Speaker 3: It's see if it would have been bear claw, we
- 44:52Speaker 3: all would remember both underlie, right, and we force people
- 44:56Speaker 3: to live under these lies, and then we wonder why
- 44:59Speaker 3: they act out in such ways. It's like because you've
- 45:01Speaker 3: been forcing them to be someone they're not, you know.
- 45:05Speaker 3: And to end with today is something really nice, which
- 45:08Speaker 3: is a gay Kentucky eighth grader, which right there has
- 45:12Speaker 3: the makings of a mini series, just that I could
- 45:16Speaker 3: go in and pitch that to a studio. A gay
- 45:18Speaker 3: Kentucky eighth grader say, no more, let's sign, let's sign
- 45:23Speaker 3: the documents, let's get this show produced. But yeah, exactly,
- 45:29Speaker 3: A gay Kentucky eighth grader Daniel maddingly gave a speech
- 45:35Speaker 3: to the Stewart Academy in Louisville, and he, you know,
- 45:39Speaker 3: was a graduation speaker. And this is a smart kid,
- 45:42Speaker 3: because we usually are. But he said in his speech
- 45:46Speaker 3: at the end that this school is fucking ridiculous. What
- 45:49Speaker 3: he was saying about the racism and homophobia that he
- 45:55Speaker 3: experienced at his school. It has since gone viral, but well,
- 46:01Speaker 3: it is very very very brave, and it is it
- 46:04Speaker 3: is how do I say this? The fact that this
- 46:10Speaker 3: eighth grader in Kentucky felt empowered to do this means
- 46:16Speaker 3: two things. A he's got good parents, that's the first thing.
- 46:20Speaker 3: And second of all, that there's an element of fearlessness
- 46:24Speaker 3: to him because think about where he grew up, how
- 46:29Speaker 3: he grew up, who he you know, who is at
- 46:32Speaker 3: the Stewart Academy in Kentucky, and what it took to
- 46:37Speaker 3: actually make that speech. So we often talk a lot
- 46:42Speaker 3: about the bad things. But he said, apparently this school
- 46:45Speaker 3: doesn't know better than to give an angry gay kid
- 46:47Speaker 3: a microphone. Daniel maddingly said in the short speech, I
- 46:53Speaker 3: love that. Apparently the school doesn't know any better than
- 46:56Speaker 3: to give an angry gay kid a microphone. The school
- 46:59Speaker 3: had asked him to give speech after his time on
- 47:01Speaker 3: the student council.
- 47:04Speaker 4: He's like, so student council must have been even more fire.
- 47:07Speaker 3: Ah, he said. When my father died, I was in
- 47:10Speaker 3: sixth grade, sitting alone at lunch every single day. I
- 47:13Speaker 3: was getting bullied by the people I called my friends.
- 47:15Speaker 3: I missed an ungodly amount of school because of my
- 47:18Speaker 3: dad's death and my mom's sickness. It wasn't very different
- 47:21Speaker 3: in seventh grade. After my mom died, I was being
- 47:24Speaker 3: taken care of by my sister. He lost both parents,
- 47:27Speaker 3: who taught me to clean around the house, but she
- 47:29Speaker 3: was struggling with grief and other personal problems while in
- 47:31Speaker 3: an extremely abusive relationship. He also discussed relationship difficulties and
- 47:36Speaker 3: the impact of his mental health that the middle school
- 47:39Speaker 3: had not having any friends took atoll on me. This
- 47:44Speaker 3: is modern day kids, twenty twenty six. I was close
- 47:46Speaker 3: to committing suicide the week my boyfriend, my only friend
- 47:51Speaker 3: at the time, broke up with me. In fact, it
- 47:53Speaker 3: still has since My best friend ever, Ava is the
- 47:56Speaker 3: only reason anybody knows my name in this school. Kid
- 48:00Speaker 3: right now, right now, and do you hear we know
- 48:03Speaker 3: from last week that the number of lgbtq Q youth
- 48:08Speaker 3: committing suicide is once again in an all town, all
- 48:10Speaker 3: time high. I had a speech ready to cheer on
- 48:14Speaker 3: and encourage any oppressed youth which makes up the entirety
- 48:16Speaker 3: of this school. Isn't that an interesting statement? I was
- 48:20Speaker 3: told by mister Dawson and miss Ims that there's a
- 48:23Speaker 3: time and a place. My speech is too negative and
- 48:25Speaker 3: too controversial. This school is built on racism, sexism, and homophobia.
- 48:30Speaker 3: I encourage everyone here today to stand up for yourself,
- 48:33Speaker 3: even if it makes a scene. This school is fucking ridiculous.
- 48:37Speaker 3: I only hope it is my sincerest wish that this
- 48:43Speaker 3: little kid here this what's his name? I can't find
- 48:46Speaker 3: us Daniel maddingly runs for office one day. That is
- 48:50Speaker 3: my wish. Because he showed his speech to the powers
- 48:53Speaker 3: to be, they said, no, you can't do it. He
- 48:56Speaker 3: sat down at the microphone and not only did it,
- 48:59Speaker 3: but took it. Congratulations to this kid.
- 49:04Speaker 4: If I may, Daniel, if you're if someone you know
- 49:08Speaker 4: or someone who knows and happens to see this podcast
- 49:12Speaker 4: in the future, and if I get guardians support, if
- 49:16Speaker 4: it's you're still that age at the time, I would
- 49:18Speaker 4: happily give you some interviews and profilow your story.
- 49:23Speaker 3: As you should. He goes, I'm on the news now,
- 49:25Speaker 3: so I'm like it's got where it needed to be.
- 49:29Speaker 3: So he's happy the story went viral and he's happy
- 49:33Speaker 3: it went to the news because he wanted to call
- 49:35Speaker 3: out the Stewart Academy. And I love how he said
- 49:38Speaker 3: something that is so powerful. He doesn't even understand how
- 49:41Speaker 3: powerful this is. I had something ready for it to
- 49:45Speaker 3: encourage any oppressed youth, which makes up the entirety of
- 49:49Speaker 3: this school. That's so powerful. We think all kids are
- 49:55Speaker 3: well adjusted, except the minorities, the gays, the blacks. Nope,
- 49:59Speaker 3: every single middle age school kid feels oppressed in some way,
- 50:04Speaker 3: shape or form, or feels put upon or feels like
- 50:08Speaker 3: the world is too much, every single one of them.
- 50:12Speaker 3: And when we start recognizing that that it's not just
- 50:16Speaker 3: the gay kids. Every kid in middle school is just
- 50:20Speaker 3: trying to fucking figure it out and we're not really
- 50:23Speaker 3: helping them with what we're doing. All right, Scott's in Ukraine,
- 50:27Speaker 3: it's this gay Week. I am Corel. You gotta be
- 50:30Speaker 3: who you want to be. Anybody, Just like Daniel said,
- 50:35Speaker 3: this school is fucking ridiculous.
- 50:39Speaker 4: I love that one.
- 50:41Speaker 3: Ridiculous from an eighth grader.
- 50:44Speaker 8: Okay, run for office, Oh we do.
- 51:08Speaker 3: I didn't realize we had one more because Daniel just
- 51:10Speaker 3: took me there. This school is fucking ridiculous. You know.
- 51:13Speaker 3: I was my graduation speaker. I was in twelfth grade,
- 51:16Speaker 3: Long Beach CALLI at the Long Yeah, at the Long
- 51:20Speaker 3: Beach Arena. Eighteen thousand people in attendance because our graduating
- 51:25Speaker 3: class was twenty seven hundred people.
- 51:27Speaker 4: Madison Square Garden numbers.
- 51:28Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah. I've always been in the big time, honey,
- 51:32Speaker 3: and I'll never forget. I look back on it now.
- 51:35Speaker 3: But my open I still remember my opening line because
- 51:40Speaker 3: it's so gay. I go up there. I'm in my
- 51:43Speaker 3: cap and gown. I have my barber striis and stars
- 51:45Speaker 3: born perm the same hair that she had and a
- 51:48Speaker 3: star is born done at John Peters salon, the same
- 51:51Speaker 3: person that gave her her Hairdoo. John didn't do mine
- 51:56Speaker 3: because I would have done John. Barbara could have been
- 51:58Speaker 3: mad at me. But but I go up there and
- 52:03Speaker 3: I stand there in front of twenty thousand people. Didn't
- 52:06Speaker 3: phase me. Even then. I was like whatever, And my
- 52:10Speaker 3: first line was what are you doing the rest of
- 52:12Speaker 3: your life? Well, that's the musical question posed by Marilyn
- 52:16Speaker 3: and Alan Bergman in the song of the same name
- 52:19Speaker 3: on the barbar streisand album The Way We Were Now.
- 52:23Speaker 3: You might not think that's groundbreaking, but I went to
- 52:26Speaker 3: an all black high school who knew Barbara streisand from
- 52:29Speaker 3: Bupkis okay had I said, you know, I don't know
- 52:33Speaker 3: Gladys Knight or you know someone like that or at
- 52:37Speaker 3: the time, Sequence or sugar Hill Gang, We're gonna funk
- 52:40Speaker 3: What was a sugar Hill hip hop? A hip a
- 52:43Speaker 3: hibited a hip hip hop? Yeah, that was that came
- 52:46Speaker 3: out when I was in Knight. That came out in
- 52:49Speaker 3: high school. And then Sequence did the answer to that,
- 52:52Speaker 3: which was We're going to funk you up. And Sequences
- 52:55Speaker 3: where angieb or Angie Stone came from a great vocalist
- 52:59Speaker 3: who recently died car crash because she owed her label
- 53:02Speaker 3: Odor over sixty million dollars and she was suing and
- 53:04Speaker 3: then what do you know, she dies in a car crash.
- 53:07Speaker 3: But anyway, so I I'll never forget that. I was
- 53:12Speaker 3: in a play at Long Beach Polly and the Big
- 53:16Speaker 3: Gay Guy, and I was very gay on stage, and
- 53:19Speaker 3: I had a gang nemesis. I had a crip. He
- 53:22Speaker 3: was in the crypts. He hated Gaithe some reason he
- 53:25Speaker 3: was at this play, Okay, I don't know why. So
- 53:28Speaker 3: he comes backstage and I'm thinking, I'm going to die
- 53:30Speaker 3: on opening night. He's going to come and he's gonna
- 53:33Speaker 3: kill me, you know, because he had made it clear
- 53:35Speaker 3: he wanted to. He walks up to me and he says,
- 53:39Speaker 3: because we did a we had our graduation and the
- 53:42Speaker 3: drama department did a play afterwards for the not at
- 53:45Speaker 3: the arena, but at the school as sort of a
- 53:48Speaker 3: goodbye sort of thing, and we had a party afterwards.
- 53:50Speaker 3: And he walks up and he says, you know, I
- 53:53Speaker 3: have to stop teasing you. And I said, okay, why
- 53:58Speaker 3: And he said, you're really talented. He said, you're extraordinarily funny.
- 54:03Speaker 3: You carried the whole play. Uh, your speech was wonderful.
- 54:06Speaker 3: And you know, I just got to fucking leave you
- 54:08Speaker 3: alone now because and he goes and by the way,
- 54:10Speaker 3: you're protected now. No one's gonna bother you. Uh. And
- 54:14Speaker 3: I just and I looked and I thought, it's so
- 54:17Speaker 3: funny when you live an authentic life when you when
- 54:19Speaker 3: you're out, when you're proud, when you don't give a
- 54:21Speaker 3: fuck if you get killed or not, when you just
- 54:23Speaker 3: have to be you, A lot of times you break
- 54:26Speaker 3: down those walls. And I bet this kid, I bet
- 54:30Speaker 3: he had, you know, because he said he had no friends,
- 54:32Speaker 3: he was bullied all of that. I bet now parents
- 54:35Speaker 3: are gone and his parents are gone. I bet now
- 54:38Speaker 3: he's got a lot of friends. I bet now even
- 54:41Speaker 3: some of the kids that maybe bullied him before actually
- 54:45Speaker 3: give him props now because he stood up and he
- 54:48Speaker 3: wasn't afraid, and he said the school fucking sucks.
- 54:53Speaker 4: The school is fucking ridiculous.
- 54:55Speaker 3: And I bet even the biggest homophobe went, yeah, right.
- 55:02Speaker 3: So you know, it gives me hope. Daniel gives me
- 55:09Speaker 3: hope a because, like I said, just the opening line,
- 55:12Speaker 3: Gay Kentucky, eighth grader.
- 55:17Speaker 4: Necessity is the mother of invention, but not only for
- 55:20Speaker 4: human inventions.
- 55:22Speaker 3: I think desperation has something to do with it as well.
- 55:26Speaker 4: When desperation can be reframed as necessity.
- 55:29Speaker 3: It's true, you know. I think he was desperate for
- 55:32Speaker 3: friends and for acceptance and for love, and he finally
- 55:36Speaker 3: had had enough and just spoke out against it. I
- 55:39Speaker 3: hope there are going to be more kids in Kentucky
- 55:41Speaker 3: like him. I'm sure he has given hope to some
- 55:44Speaker 3: kids because someone heard that. Some other kid in Kentucky
- 55:48Speaker 3: heard that and now feels better about their life, Kentucky
- 55:53Speaker 3: being one of the states. I think we should get
- 55:55Speaker 3: rid of my topic on the show. On Wednesday, I
- 55:59Speaker 3: watched the documentary on Abraham Lincoln, and I contend America
- 56:03Speaker 3: has not made its two hundred and fiftieth birthday. I
- 56:05Speaker 3: think America only lived eighty nine years. I really believe
- 56:09Speaker 3: in my heart of hearts that America died in eighteen
- 56:12Speaker 3: sixty one with the start of the Civil War and
- 56:15Speaker 3: the thirteen states that seceded from the Union. If you
- 56:19Speaker 3: look at those states, Texas, Louisiana, Alabama, Mississippi, Georgia, Florida,
- 56:25Speaker 3: the Carolinas, Kentucky, Missouri. If you look at those thirteen
- 56:30Speaker 3: states that became the Confederacy, they have never wanted what
- 56:34Speaker 3: we're selling. They've never wanted the Constitution. They still don't.
- 56:38Speaker 3: That's Magga territory. That those are the red states. Those
- 56:41Speaker 3: are the states that don't want mixed races. They don't
- 56:45Speaker 3: want gay people, they want white Christian nationalism. And that's
- 56:49Speaker 3: because the Civil War never ended. Lincoln thought it did
- 56:52Speaker 3: in eighteen sixty five, but it didn't end the South,
- 56:56Speaker 3: and the descendants of the people in the South still
- 56:59Speaker 3: want what they wanted in eighteen sixty one. And that's
- 57:02Speaker 3: why we continually have the fighting that we do in
- 57:05Speaker 3: this country. The Red States completely and totally do not
- 57:09Speaker 3: want the Constitution. They don't they don't believe in equality
- 57:13Speaker 3: for all. They don't believe that everybody has inalienable rights.
- 57:17Speaker 3: They believe that white Christian nationalists should run the show,
- 57:21Speaker 3: and they've believed that since the eighteen sixties. And so
- 57:23Speaker 3: I don't think America made two fifty. I think that
- 57:26Speaker 3: we are too ashamed to say that we are not
- 57:29Speaker 3: the United States, we are not united at all, and
- 57:32Speaker 3: that there are thirteen states that wish they were not
- 57:35Speaker 3: part of our union. And I say let them go.
- 57:38Speaker 3: I think we should revisit the eighteen sixty five Appomatos
- 57:41Speaker 3: peace and let them go and then see how far
- 57:44Speaker 3: they get, because I'm tired of fighting with them. I'm
- 57:47Speaker 3: tired of kids like Daniel having to speak out against
- 57:51Speaker 3: his school in Kentucky when he should be in New
- 57:53Speaker 3: York obviously, or Massachusetts or Washington or Oregon or California.
- 57:58Speaker 3: You know, they don't want what we're selling. They don't
- 58:00Speaker 3: want it. They don't want it. Scott, I'm old and
- 58:03Speaker 3: I've lived in this country sixty three years, and they're
- 58:06Speaker 3: if you ever have you ever been to Alabama, Louisiana
- 58:08Speaker 3: or Georgia or Mississippi.
- 58:11Speaker 4: I took a big w on Amtrak.
- 58:14Speaker 3: I mean, Ben been there, been there for like you know,
- 58:17Speaker 3: been there.
- 58:19Speaker 4: Not significant.
- 58:21Speaker 3: It's a different country. No, it's a different country. It
- 58:24Speaker 3: really is. When you go to the South. It is
- 58:27Speaker 3: not America. Everyone said, though, this is really America. No,
- 58:30Speaker 3: it's actually not America. It's a different type. All right,
- 58:34Speaker 3: we will hope Americans per country. Yeah, it's not. It's
- 58:40Speaker 3: a different country. All right. We'll be back next week,
- 58:42Speaker 3: but more of this gay week with Scott in the Ukraine.
- 58:44Speaker 3: I don't know when you're leaving, Na, it's going to
- 58:46Speaker 3: be my Ukrainians flam so long. Someday he'll maybe by
- 58:52Speaker 3: the time I'm a citizen who'll be back in Kansas
- 58:55Speaker 2: From a completely different place.