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- 0:02Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
- 0:04Speaker 1: and everybody.
- 0:05Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that? Right? Lauren
- 0:08Speaker 2: came in.
- 0:09Speaker 3: Hey, y'all was up? I'm Lauren Rosa. This is the
- 0:11Speaker 3: latest with Lauren Rosa.
- 0:14Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a bit about everything and everybody.
- 0:17Speaker 1: And today, as always, I got your daily dig on
- 0:21Speaker 1: everything pop culture, all the conversations that shake the room
- 0:24Speaker 1: and joining me to do so. Taylor Taylor made it
- 0:27Speaker 1: as back my Lovely podcast producer and baby PJ.
- 0:31Speaker 3: Yes, wow, and Low's a.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Whole baby on the way. Is crazy?
- 0:36Speaker 3: What you got?
- 0:37Speaker 2: Congratulations?
- 0:38Speaker 3: She got PJ.
- 0:39Speaker 2: I got babies every day?
- 0:40Speaker 1: Okay, you're making babies every day? No, I just got
- 0:44Speaker 1: something Okay, all right, well.
- 0:45Speaker 3: This is Low So Loos introduce yourself to the audience.
- 0:48Speaker 2: I'm call those poke from Baltimore, Maryland with up everybody.
- 0:51Speaker 3: What did you get a last name?
- 0:53Speaker 2: Oh?
- 0:54Speaker 3: We I never call home Carlos.
- 0:56Speaker 2: What call those poke?
- 0:58Speaker 3: Poke?
- 0:58Speaker 2: Scott?
- 0:59Speaker 3: Scott?
- 1:01Speaker 4: I never knew your I call him Darius, Darrie she
- 1:05Speaker 4: called why tell her in here?
- 1:07Speaker 3: Just be making stuff up? Darius. You see the show
- 1:09Speaker 3: at yeah?
- 1:11Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 1:11Speaker 3: You remember you don't act like Darius, I don't remember
- 1:13Speaker 3: it fully.
- 1:14Speaker 4: Okay, y'all see, y'all will see, I promise you at
- 1:17Speaker 4: the end of the show.
- 1:19Speaker 2: The first two.
- 1:22Speaker 3: Well, yeah, so tell the people what you do, okay.
- 1:24Speaker 2: So I'm a videographer, photographer, creative director, I produce all righte,
- 1:28Speaker 2: I do set design, and I'm a father of too. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:34Speaker 2: I just added that in there. That's dope daddy, not
- 1:37Speaker 2: baby daddy.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Father, father, father, god father. Okay, let's get on into
- 1:43Speaker 1: it with the checking. So the theory behind the checking is,
- 1:50Speaker 1: and I yo, I think for all of us because
- 1:52Speaker 1: we all like hustle all out here, grinding is it's
- 1:55Speaker 1: like the behind the scenes of the grind. Like people
- 1:57Speaker 1: don't ever ask you like, yo, you okay. It's like
- 1:59Speaker 1: what you do, what you've been doing, and I'm so
- 2:01Speaker 1: proud of you, but it's never like yo, are you okay?
- 2:03Speaker 1: And like really are you okay? So we do a
- 2:06Speaker 1: behind the scenes of the grind check in. We'll actually
- 2:08Speaker 1: let you go first and yes, how are you? And
- 2:11Speaker 1: you can't it can't be like a BS answer. It
- 2:13Speaker 1: has to be used one word to describe it and
- 2:15Speaker 1: then you can tell us why you use that one word.
- 2:17Speaker 2: I'm momentous. I'm extremely momentous. Oh my god, I'm happy,
- 2:26Speaker 2: I'm excited, I'm curious, I'm feeling good. I'm originally from Baltimore.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Is a lot of like crazy shit going on back home. Yeah,
- 2:34Speaker 2: and it feels good to be in the New York
- 2:36Speaker 2: scene and riding a bike and feeling good about riding
- 2:39Speaker 2: the bike through the city. You know, Brooklyn got the
- 2:41Speaker 2: trees out. If you feel good in Brooklyn, I'm not
- 2:44Speaker 2: gonna lie. It's a great place in Brooklyn too.
- 2:47Speaker 3: I used to Oh, yeah, Taylor is I'm happy.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Taylor has a family, She's in Jersey, She's with her husband.
- 2:56Speaker 3: They got baby PJ on the way.
- 2:59Speaker 2: Dope. Congratulations to you.
- 3:01Speaker 1: Yeah, you're riding your bike in Brooklyn, so you're feeling good.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 3:05Speaker 1: Do you feel like or do you ever feel like
- 3:08Speaker 1: like you look up riding a bike fresh air? You
- 3:11Speaker 1: hear with us every day at the breakfast club, you
- 3:12Speaker 1: shoot justice content. Are you ever just like man like
- 3:17Speaker 1: I didn't know where things would go at one point.
- 3:20Speaker 2: I feel like, honestly, I feel like I never know.
- 3:22Speaker 2: So that's why I say I'm curious. I like I
- 3:25Speaker 2: almost don't accept anything for being what it is. I'd
- 3:28Speaker 2: be like, this could change tomorrow. Got you So I'd
- 3:30Speaker 2: be like.
- 3:30Speaker 3: That's our world though, that's.
- 3:31Speaker 2: How it works. So I am grateful. I think the
- 3:36Speaker 2: number one thing. I think. It's like I'm grateful that
- 3:38Speaker 2: God gave me my POV. So I don't limit things
- 3:41Speaker 2: to a certain situation, like, oh, this situation is good, yeah,
- 3:44Speaker 2: but you.
- 3:45Speaker 3: Know I love that.
- 3:46Speaker 1: I'm grateful that guy gave me my POV. I might
- 3:49Speaker 1: gotta tweet that we be doing some We got a
- 3:52Speaker 1: segment where we take things to like ex and social media.
- 3:54Speaker 1: I might need to figure out that, but okay, baby,
- 3:57Speaker 1: PJ and Taylor, how you feeling today?
- 4:00Speaker 4: I think it's the last time. But productive, overwhelmingly productive.
- 4:06Speaker 4: It just it's always something I gotta do.
- 4:09Speaker 1: Are you anticipating, like like when you get into your
- 4:12Speaker 1: mom life, like how everything is going to adjust schedule
- 4:15Speaker 1: wise for you?
- 4:15Speaker 3: Like are you can you plan that? Like how does
- 4:17Speaker 3: that work? As parents? You can't?
- 4:23Speaker 4: I don't think so, I mean it's just adjusting really,
- 4:26Speaker 4: Like before PJ, I have a dog as well, So
- 4:31Speaker 4: even having a dog dog, it is like.
- 4:36Speaker 1: I've been a mom, I've been I've been outside period, Okay,
- 4:40Speaker 1: I've been here.
- 4:42Speaker 3: Well, today I'm feeling I'm still a bit.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Tired from traveling ling over the weekend, but today I'm
- 4:50Speaker 1: feeling just very at ease. I know that that's two words,
- 4:53Speaker 1: so I don't know, effortless Today I'm feeling effortless, really
- 4:57Speaker 1: really feeling good. So I want to get into the
- 5:00Speaker 1: latest because I'm excited for us to get to these
- 5:02Speaker 1: topics today, the latest right now, because y'all know I
- 5:06Speaker 1: love to take you out a court, lot to take
- 5:08Speaker 1: you out a court, I mean, Diddy, there's always updates.
- 5:12Speaker 1: We did an update earlier today on a Breakfast Club.
- 5:16Speaker 1: What's happening right now is because Puff is about to
- 5:19Speaker 1: go to court. His team is beginning to prepare paperwork
- 5:22Speaker 1: in different documents where they're talking to the judge and
- 5:26Speaker 1: kind of fighting back at prosecutors about certain claims because
- 5:29Speaker 1: they're setting up their defense. So on the Breakfast Club
- 5:32Speaker 1: this morning, I'm not going to recap it too much here,
- 5:34Speaker 1: but go take a look at that content on the
- 5:36Speaker 1: Breakfast Club's YouTube channel if you want to watch it.
- 5:38Speaker 3: We talked about the fact that Diddy's.
- 5:40Speaker 1: Team is right now saying that he wasn't a he's
- 5:44Speaker 1: not a bad person. He didn't do anything illegal, he
- 5:46Speaker 1: didn't hurt anybody. Allegedly, he's just a swinger.
- 5:50Speaker 3: Period.
- 5:51Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Now, now in these documents, Diddy's team is claiming that
- 5:55Speaker 1: did he lacked the mental capacity to commit any of
- 5:59Speaker 1: the crime, that they're a legend.
- 6:00Speaker 3: Wow?
- 6:02Speaker 1: Yeah, Now what they're saying is that you have all
- 6:05Speaker 1: of these victims who are saying, Yo, I was druggs,
- 6:08Speaker 1: I was incoherent, I didn't know what was going on.
- 6:11Speaker 1: Puff's team is like, well, he was also using drugs.
- 6:14Speaker 1: He was also not incoherent when a lot of these
- 6:17Speaker 1: parties that he's a legend, he didn't do anything wrong
- 6:20Speaker 1: in but when these acts were going down a lot
- 6:23Speaker 1: of them, he couldn't remember or he's not in control
- 6:26Speaker 1: of himself fully either.
- 6:28Speaker 2: My question is can he if that's the case, does
- 6:32Speaker 2: does that mean that okay, even if you did the crime,
- 6:35Speaker 2: can it be under insanity? Is that how that goes?
- 6:38Speaker 2: Something like?
- 6:38Speaker 1: So basically what they're saying is that he's even if
- 6:43Speaker 1: this stuff were true, he was so wasted and he
- 6:45Speaker 1: was it was out of his control.
- 6:47Speaker 3: A lot of these things one he's not going to recount,
- 6:50Speaker 3: but also too.
- 6:51Speaker 1: Yes, he's not able to make a lot of his
- 6:52Speaker 1: own decisions in a way that a person who is
- 6:55Speaker 1: sober would make. And he even has a doctor that
- 6:58Speaker 1: I guess is testifying or not testify. But in these
- 7:01Speaker 1: court documents they mentioned that there's a doctor who did
- 7:04Speaker 1: some sort of evaluations or I guess has some sort
- 7:07Speaker 1: of conversations about whatever it was.
- 7:08Speaker 3: That he's a legend he was using. Then that talks
- 7:10Speaker 3: about why.
- 7:12Speaker 1: He would have been unable to make certain decisions and
- 7:14Speaker 1: why certain things would have happened allegedly that he wasn't
- 7:18Speaker 1: in control.
- 7:18Speaker 3: But what about the baby oil? So the drugs in
- 7:21Speaker 3: the baby oil is not a fact.
- 7:23Speaker 1: The reason why that came up was because in one
- 7:26Speaker 1: of the lawsuits that was filed, one of the attorneys
- 7:29Speaker 1: said that there had been conversations and reports so reportedly
- 7:33Speaker 1: there was baby oil that was drugs. So they put
- 7:36Speaker 1: that in documents to basically create this whole narrative so
- 7:40Speaker 1: then they could present what their legend was done to
- 7:42Speaker 1: their client. But they're not saying that that happened to
- 7:45Speaker 1: their client. They're saying this man is notorious for ABC
- 7:48Speaker 1: and D. He has all this power and according to
- 7:50Speaker 1: what people are saying out in the world, he'd be
- 7:52Speaker 1: putting this like it goes as far as some throwing
- 7:55Speaker 1: things into the baby oil. But that wasn't a fact
- 7:58Speaker 1: or anything that was proven, nor would it alleged by
- 8:02Speaker 1: this other attorney that this happened to their client. They
- 8:04Speaker 1: just brought it up to paint a picture of him
- 8:06Speaker 1: as it's like horrible person. Okay, yeah, But here's.
- 8:11Speaker 3: The thing though.
- 8:12Speaker 1: In the documents that they filed the alleged condition, so
- 8:15Speaker 1: like in order for us to know like what he
- 8:17Speaker 1: was under the influence over or under, and like what
- 8:20Speaker 1: that did to him mentally, it's redacted, so you don't
- 8:25Speaker 1: really know. But basically they give some clues and then
- 8:27Speaker 1: the clues that they give that they give they say
- 8:31Speaker 1: prosecutor say legal precedent requires for the defense to give
- 8:34Speaker 1: proper notice before offering any evidence of effects of drugs
- 8:38Speaker 1: and alcohol on the defendant's memory or cognitive function.
- 8:42Speaker 3: So the other side that wants.
- 8:44Speaker 1: To sit Diddy down is like, I mean, we hear y'all,
- 8:46Speaker 1: but this is irrelevant number one, Number two if you're
- 8:49Speaker 1: gonna allege that he was under the influence of any
- 8:52Speaker 1: drugs or alcohol where he was unable to make cognitive
- 8:55Speaker 1: decisions for himself. There's a certain time period that you
- 8:58Speaker 1: have to do that within, and that wasn't done now
- 9:01Speaker 1: all of a sudden, y'all bringing it to the table.
- 9:03Speaker 1: So from that, TMC was able to read that and
- 9:05Speaker 1: be like, oh, the medical condition that he's claiming makes
- 9:09Speaker 1: him mentally in capable of making of having to or
- 9:13Speaker 1: make some mentally incapable of being able to commit these
- 9:16Speaker 1: crimes has to be drugs or alcohol because they say
- 9:19Speaker 1: this rule, tell her you ain't buying it.
- 9:22Speaker 4: No, I mean, nothing's wrong, Like I don't wish to
- 9:26Speaker 4: see did he you know, under attack and nothing like
- 9:29Speaker 4: that either.
- 9:30Speaker 2: And he apologized to pass on several times about like
- 9:35Speaker 2: about his dark days and his dark.
- 9:36Speaker 3: Times he said, he apologizing.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Yeah, like when he would get awards, he would always apologized.
- 9:41Speaker 4: I feel like he timed to her that last time,
- 9:44Speaker 4: didn't you know what I'm talking about?
- 9:45Speaker 3: Yeah, But see, this is the thing.
- 9:47Speaker 2: But that's because the crimes came out, like all this
- 9:49Speaker 2: shit came out.
- 9:50Speaker 3: No, they came out right after that.
- 9:52Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's saying it because that came out right
- 9:54Speaker 1: after you taunting, because I remember when he did it.
- 9:57Speaker 1: I think it was the Grammys when he received that
- 9:59Speaker 1: award because he performed first and Young whatever it was
- 10:04Speaker 1: okay MTV, Yes, yes, I thought. I only this was
- 10:09Speaker 1: before the Castie beating video. I only thought that was
- 10:11Speaker 1: crazy because Young Miami was in exactly. I was like,
- 10:14Speaker 1: I feel like it was puff got a different type
- 10:17Speaker 1: of hold on the woman in his life because they
- 10:19Speaker 1: all just be hanging out in the in the backyard
- 10:21Speaker 1: and barbecues and.
- 10:23Speaker 2: Well the questions doesn't make him a criminal, that's what.
- 10:26Speaker 2: All of these things make him a criminal or some
- 10:29Speaker 2: vicious beasts.
- 10:30Speaker 5: I think.
- 10:31Speaker 1: I think that video makes that video makes it all stuff.
- 10:35Speaker 1: I didn't say that he's a toxic screws. I think
- 10:40Speaker 1: that the video makes him. Definitely, he definitely is a
- 10:43Speaker 1: like he's hell for that video. He deserves somebody, somebody
- 10:47Speaker 1: need to drag that dragon.
- 10:48Speaker 2: But even then he's saying like, Okay, if I did
- 10:51Speaker 2: anything like any of these actions, I was doing drugs.
- 10:55Speaker 1: But even in instill and and here's the thing, right,
- 10:57Speaker 1: because prosecutors are like, Okay, that's cute, Like we hear
- 11:00Speaker 1: you says that's cute, But what does that matter? Because
- 11:03Speaker 1: what they're what they probably are gonna argue these if
- 11:06Speaker 1: I'm if I'm a prosecutor, I want these defenses to come.
- 11:09Speaker 3: They're easily you can easily take this down.
- 11:11Speaker 1: Number one, My first thought is, Okay, so you're admitting
- 11:15Speaker 1: that things may have happened, right, because now you leave
- 11:18Speaker 1: a great area that if I'm a prosecutor, I'm gonna
- 11:20Speaker 1: lean into because you're like, yo, he wasn't even coherent
- 11:24Speaker 1: enough to commit these crimes.
- 11:25Speaker 3: But but these people over.
- 11:27Speaker 1: Here saying these crimes happen, So now this is great
- 11:29Speaker 1: area of Well, if they happened and you just weren't coherent,
- 11:32Speaker 1: does that matter?
- 11:34Speaker 2: I just be thinking, right, if we both take drugs
- 11:37Speaker 2: and I do something that you didn't, like we're both drunk,
- 11:41Speaker 2: or how something like how much can you accuse me?
- 11:44Speaker 2: Like how much can you be? Like Yo, Diddy, I
- 11:46Speaker 2: was fucked up? Like you fuck me?
- 11:49Speaker 1: But if we if we both high and you and
- 11:51Speaker 1: you make me have sex with a sex work and
- 11:53Speaker 1: I'm telling you I don't want to, or if you
- 11:55Speaker 1: there's a lot of people alleging that allegedly, and there's
- 11:57Speaker 1: a lot of people alleging that like there was like
- 11:59Speaker 1: violent rape print claims and like you know, like just
- 12:03Speaker 1: there's a lot of things being alleged. The people that
- 12:05Speaker 1: are alleging that they were taken from us, they and
- 12:08Speaker 1: made to have it, made to do things, and they
- 12:10Speaker 1: were threatened with like yo, I got videos of you allegedly, right,
- 12:13Speaker 1: just because we both high, don't mean that.
- 12:15Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the difference. It sounds like the way
- 12:17Speaker 2: the defenses making it seem like like, oh, it's just
- 12:19Speaker 2: the party. We always particke.
- 12:21Speaker 3: That's what they're trying to lean into.
- 12:22Speaker 2: Yeah, that might not that might not really go to
- 12:26Speaker 2: well period, right, we understand that so well. And if
- 12:30Speaker 2: you present as a party, but then what if the
- 12:32Speaker 2: other team like, yeah, I was partying but then it
- 12:35Speaker 2: went too far.
- 12:36Speaker 1: You can be partying and still you don't have to
- 12:39Speaker 1: be put allegedly these things that people are claiming was
- 12:42Speaker 1: done to them.
- 12:42Speaker 3: You could be at a party and that still does
- 12:44Speaker 3: not have to happen to you.
- 12:45Speaker 2: Yeah, if I wor.
- 12:46Speaker 1: It's the OG scenario, if I wear a short skirt,
- 12:49Speaker 1: that don't mean that I want you to go up
- 12:50Speaker 1: my skirt.
- 12:51Speaker 3: Fuck all right, I.
- 12:56Speaker 2: Mean that's deep. I mean, like what you're going to do.
- 13:00Speaker 1: My goal is to be in the actual try when
- 13:03Speaker 1: it starts. Yeah, I reached out. I'm trying to be visit.
- 13:07Speaker 1: I don't want to visit Diddy.
- 13:09Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 13:11Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't. I mean I do
- 13:14Speaker 1: a sit down interview.
- 13:16Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I.
- 13:18Speaker 2: Mean bring audio, but zero you can't.
- 13:21Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't do that.
- 13:22Speaker 1: I didn't know why you were asking me can I
- 13:23Speaker 1: visit him? Actually, was like, hold up, like.
- 13:27Speaker 2: What's what's going on? I did it before?
- 13:30Speaker 3: Why are you telling my business?
- 13:31Speaker 2: No? No, oh, so visited.
- 13:35Speaker 3: I didn't visit Diddy before. But I've gone on visits before.
- 13:38Speaker 2: You know what before?
- 13:41Speaker 3: Did he like, I've just been to visits before. Everybody has.
- 13:45Speaker 3: I haven't.
- 13:45Speaker 2: I went to it. I mean, my j I've never been.
- 13:50Speaker 2: It's not that it's not that bad before. It's not
- 13:52Speaker 2: that bad to sit down with.
- 13:54Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna me. I don't honestly understand what
- 13:57Speaker 3: even got here.
- 13:58Speaker 2: Let's go back one second, though, So what all his
- 14:01Speaker 2: defenses right now we know.
- 14:04Speaker 1: Is that he's a swinger and he didn't connect commit
- 14:07Speaker 1: any crimes like they were just basically like, this is
- 14:09Speaker 1: just his lifestyle and it's unfair to throw the crimes
- 14:11Speaker 1: attached with just a lifestyle that this man was living
- 14:14Speaker 1: and that he is not mentally he wasn't mentally capable
- 14:17Speaker 1: of orchestrating these crimes at the time because of drugs
- 14:20Speaker 1: and or alcohol.
- 14:21Speaker 2: All right, my last question, do you think this is
- 14:23Speaker 2: being said to sway the public like people that are
- 14:26Speaker 2: swingers could understand and people that do do drugs could understand.
- 14:30Speaker 3: Yeah, but do you think it's gonna work?
- 14:32Speaker 1: And I just said to you over the left, do
- 14:33Speaker 1: you hear the words it's coming out of my mouth?
- 14:35Speaker 3: Anything I just said to you?
- 14:37Speaker 5: Did?
- 14:37Speaker 3: Did Did that change how you felt about the case.
- 14:41Speaker 2: I actually have a unique opinion about the case that I.
- 14:44Speaker 3: Rather he's a black man being taken down. That's not unique.
- 14:47Speaker 1: That's every every black every black person that still who
- 14:51Speaker 1: was a noodles feel like that.
- 14:53Speaker 2: Number one number one, I agree, all right, I don't
- 14:55Speaker 2: think they getting a fair case. I don't eat it
- 14:58Speaker 2: was a noodles, so boom.
- 14:59Speaker 3: But did the chicken flavor?
- 15:01Speaker 2: Never?
- 15:02Speaker 3: You never have shrimp and add okay.
- 15:04Speaker 2: Onions and salary with cheese.
- 15:06Speaker 3: Okay, So people that do that.
- 15:07Speaker 1: The movement of this he's take they trying to take
- 15:10Speaker 1: a black mobile down is strong in certain parts of
- 15:13Speaker 1: the streets go hairs is what the Grand Rising Kings
- 15:16Speaker 1: and the packs.
- 15:17Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm neither. I'm neither. Okay, I'm neither. I just think.
- 15:22Speaker 2: I just think that. I think I don't know. We're
- 15:26Speaker 2: just gonna see what happened when all this ship comes
- 15:27Speaker 2: to the surface. And I do think he is gonna
- 15:30Speaker 2: get released, and I think he's gonna be back to
- 15:31Speaker 2: Diddy as usual.
- 15:32Speaker 3: I don't think so he's not gonna even if he
- 15:34Speaker 3: gets released.
- 15:35Speaker 1: I do think he's gonna get off some of these
- 15:37Speaker 1: allegations because the cases are falling apart, because some people
- 15:39Speaker 1: are just trying to, you know what I mean, get
- 15:41Speaker 1: a saying no Diddy now.
- 15:43Speaker 3: Yeah, trying to get it.
- 15:44Speaker 2: But I don't right into that ship.
- 15:47Speaker 3: I don't think it's ever going to be the same
- 15:48Speaker 3: after this.
- 15:49Speaker 1: If he was to come home to there tomorrow, he
- 15:50Speaker 1: could still there's an audience of people that, you know
- 15:53Speaker 1: what I mean, but it's not.
- 15:53Speaker 3: Going to be the same.
- 15:57Speaker 2: You had to come home, and then he had to
- 15:58Speaker 2: come out of the closet. That's number one. And then
- 16:01Speaker 2: once you come out of the closet, then you're good.
- 16:04Speaker 3: Oh my god, I all right. Moving on. So they
- 16:08Speaker 3: answer your question.
- 16:09Speaker 5: Though.
- 16:10Speaker 1: The racketeering conspiracy was that he engaged in sex traffick
- 16:13Speaker 1: and forced labor, kidnapping RS and bribery, obstruction of justice
- 16:17Speaker 1: in a couple other crimes.
- 16:19Speaker 3: Yeah, now moving on, so Ar.
- 16:24Speaker 1: Lennox was asked a question during a live stream, and
- 16:28Speaker 1: this question I didn't even know that this was happening
- 16:30Speaker 1: with her. She was talking about whether she would date
- 16:34Speaker 1: girls again, and she revealed that when says, when that's
- 16:38Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I didn't even know how he is
- 16:40Speaker 1: my girl. Right, we're gonna take a listen. She revealed
- 16:42Speaker 1: that she actually wouldn't and she's gonna tell.
- 16:45Speaker 3: Us why how do people know that she was dating girl?
- 16:48Speaker 3: I didn't know. I had no idea.
- 16:52Speaker 5: Wazi Moto says, would you still give dating a woman
- 16:58Speaker 5: a shot?
- 16:58Speaker 3: No, thirsty, Yes, that's sick.
- 17:04Speaker 2: No.
- 17:05Speaker 5: I tried for like one second, like getting to know
- 17:13Speaker 5: this person this year, and then it was like weird,
- 17:18Speaker 5: and then I just felt like insecure and I was like, nah,
- 17:25Speaker 5: I'm good.
- 17:26Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like guys, sorry a lot.
- 17:32Speaker 3: Let me just stick to what I know.
- 17:34Speaker 2: I feel like women.
- 17:35Speaker 5: It's like hard, I don't understand them. You know, I
- 17:39Speaker 5: don't even understand myself.
- 17:40Speaker 3: But I've always been told that women dating women.
- 17:44Speaker 1: Works, especially sexually, because as a woman, you know what
- 17:48Speaker 1: you need sexually as a woman, right, So I can
- 17:51Speaker 1: only imagine, like mentally, like we know how each other
- 17:54Speaker 1: think a bit, like we're different people, but like it's
- 17:58Speaker 1: certain things that I'm like as a woman, I can
- 18:00Speaker 1: predict a person will feel think in certain situations. So
- 18:04Speaker 1: how don't you How do you better understand men in
- 18:07Speaker 1: dating them than women when you're a woman.
- 18:09Speaker 2: Well, I think that women understand men very well too.
- 18:14Speaker 3: You do think that most women are.
- 18:16Speaker 2: So intuitive and they know what most men want and
- 18:20Speaker 2: how to give it to them and please them in
- 18:21Speaker 2: certain ways. That girls in.
- 18:24Speaker 1: Brooklyn taking care of you, Yeah, because most men that
- 18:29Speaker 1: I talk to don't have that same sentiment. Like a
- 18:32Speaker 1: lot of men that I talk to feel like, especially today,
- 18:34Speaker 1: like I'm thirty three.
- 18:36Speaker 2: How old are you those I'm thirty four?
- 18:40Speaker 3: Thirty three?
- 18:40Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like a lot of the men that
- 18:42Speaker 1: I talk to in our age group and low Riders
- 18:44Speaker 1: if you're listening, that's the name of our community, our audience,
- 18:47Speaker 1: Low Riders.
- 18:47Speaker 3: If you're listening, I want to know men.
- 18:49Speaker 1: Let me know if you feel like women are how
- 18:52Speaker 1: low sent like, They're very intuitive. They know how to
- 18:55Speaker 1: please the man. They know what to meet a man needs.
- 18:56Speaker 1: At this point in your life, wherever you are dating
- 18:59Speaker 1: and how old you are? I want to know, tweet me, Instagram,
- 19:02Speaker 1: all that stuff. Laura Rosa, Right, men are telling me
- 19:05Speaker 1: that the complete opposite that they are encountering women who.
- 19:09Speaker 3: Just don't know how to fulfill their needs.
- 19:10Speaker 1: A lot of it, though, is men are just starting
- 19:12Speaker 1: to realize what their needs actually are.
- 19:14Speaker 2: It's the part that women are struggling with right now
- 19:19Speaker 2: that men are finally being vulnerable with their emotions. And
- 19:25Speaker 2: I think women sometimes and it's not all women, because
- 19:28Speaker 2: Black women specifically are not monolithic, right is that the word?
- 19:31Speaker 3: Yes?
- 19:32Speaker 2: And so some of them understand how to address the
- 19:36Speaker 2: man's emotions, while others have never been taught that because
- 19:39Speaker 2: their mother wasn't, you know, locked in with their father
- 19:43Speaker 2: good with emotions, and then their father didn't open up
- 19:46Speaker 2: as much, so they don't know how to like nurture.
- 19:49Speaker 2: And I think it all comes back to family.
- 19:53Speaker 4: Yeah, And I just think some women is don't they
- 19:55Speaker 4: could know what a guy likes where they don't care
- 19:57Speaker 4: because a lot of people are selfish.
- 19:59Speaker 2: Now, yeah, and that's the other thing, like we're looking
- 20:02Speaker 2: at this generation and I include our generation too, it's
- 20:06Speaker 2: like people just want something like people it's all about them.
- 20:10Speaker 2: It's about them and what's good for them, and it's
- 20:13Speaker 2: like yo. And then also on the other side, the
- 20:17Speaker 2: guys are not actually serious, like men are.
- 20:19Speaker 3: Not like people are not serious.
- 20:23Speaker 1: Tana used to tell me all the time, like when
- 20:24Speaker 1: I've been talking about dating and relationships, she'd be like, girl,
- 20:28Speaker 1: do you even want to do you really want even
- 20:30Speaker 1: one of relationship serious?
- 20:31Speaker 3: Like are you because you just out here playing around?
- 20:34Speaker 1: And I will say, I mean I was, but I
- 20:37Speaker 1: was playing around even though I was seriously like I
- 20:43Speaker 1: was seriously dating people, but like not to be with
- 20:46Speaker 1: forever exactly, like I was just doing it, Like I was, like,
- 20:50Speaker 1: you can't like you you Definitely there was a certain
- 20:52Speaker 1: level of like dating that I required, like I need,
- 20:55Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I want to do
- 20:56Speaker 1: certain things.
- 20:57Speaker 3: I need certain consistency and attention.
- 20:59Speaker 1: But I'm I'm okay if this doesn't last forever, because
- 21:02Speaker 1: like I'm not there right now. But also I just
- 21:04Speaker 1: didn't feel like none of the people I was meeting
- 21:05Speaker 1: was like there at that.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Point, I feel like women in their thirties specifically, they
- 21:10Speaker 2: know what they want right, and a lot of them
- 21:13Speaker 2: don't do what it takes to get what they want.
- 21:16Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they don't. They don't be patient. They don't
- 21:19Speaker 2: like and by patience I mean like waiting for the
- 21:22Speaker 2: right guy to come. They'll date all these people, and
- 21:24Speaker 2: some of the guys will be a good like good
- 21:26Speaker 2: god good fit, but you won't lock in with them
- 21:28Speaker 2: because ABCD or he ain't got a ship together yet.
- 21:31Speaker 2: Oh this, but you're not willing to lock in with
- 21:33Speaker 2: them and help them.
- 21:35Speaker 3: I'm not like that though. I'm not like that. Oh yeah,
- 21:38Speaker 3: I don't think it's a woman or men.
- 21:40Speaker 1: No, I think men or particular about who they lock like.
- 21:45Speaker 1: They might have a bunch of different women and men
- 21:47Speaker 1: compartment Men aalize say this all the time. Men compartmentalize
- 21:50Speaker 1: a lot better. Yeah, And everybody's gonna feel however you
- 21:54Speaker 1: want them to feel, whether it's good, whether it's like
- 21:57Speaker 1: just for fun, whatever. But men know how they're dealing
- 22:00Speaker 1: with a person. But I will say one thing that
- 22:03Speaker 1: I realized about men and women. I agree with you
- 22:05Speaker 1: about women and how we are as far as like
- 22:08Speaker 1: we'll know we want but like we don't want to
- 22:09Speaker 1: build all the time. But I think number one, not
- 22:12Speaker 1: all women are that way, and some of us women
- 22:14Speaker 1: get to a point, especially about our thirties, where we've
- 22:16Speaker 1: tried to do that. I know my mind. For me,
- 22:19Speaker 1: I tried to do that and it didn't get to
- 22:21Speaker 1: the point that I wanted it to get to. So
- 22:23Speaker 1: I stepped away from that person. But that doesn't change
- 22:26Speaker 1: the fact that I'm still willing to build with somebody.
- 22:28Speaker 3: I feel like a little bit. So would you go
- 22:31Speaker 3: date on the other side, would you date a woman?
- 22:33Speaker 3: I would not date a woman I do.
- 22:35Speaker 1: I do think that like every I think every girl
- 22:38Speaker 1: has like a I want to try it like sexual urge,
- 22:42Speaker 1: not urge, but it's like curiosity.
- 22:46Speaker 2: No.
- 22:46Speaker 4: See, I could look at a girl like, yo, she's gorgeous,
- 22:49Speaker 4: but it means I don't want to fuck her though,
- 22:51Speaker 4: like you know what I mean, Like that's I don't
- 22:52Speaker 4: feel like that.
- 22:53Speaker 3: Okay, that's that.
- 22:54Speaker 2: Yeah, Well let's talk about a right real quick though. Right,
- 22:57Speaker 2: So she says she wouldn't go back to the other side.
- 23:00Speaker 2: Why do you think that?
- 23:02Speaker 1: Because she basically said, it's enough problems where she at.
- 23:04Speaker 1: She can't even figure men out. Now she she can't
- 23:07Speaker 1: figure women out, so she's gonna stay where she at.
- 23:09Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting that she said she was.
- 23:11Speaker 1: It made hurt she was insecure, and I don't know
- 23:14Speaker 1: if it's because but why though girls exactly makeup and
- 23:20Speaker 1: all that ship, Like do men get insecure about women
- 23:24Speaker 1: who like other women? Because now you got compete with
- 23:26Speaker 1: both sexists, not me with our Lennox is like, I
- 23:29Speaker 1: don't understand what you're insecure about because like it's our girls.
- 23:33Speaker 3: You could also go date.
- 23:34Speaker 2: A guy our Lenox also shows her insecurities as an artist,
- 23:39Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like she's very
- 23:41Speaker 2: vulnerable and her body is natural. She had to make
- 23:44Speaker 2: noise about the same thing with the Corey girl. I
- 23:46Speaker 2: know that's not the topic, but Coryler, I feel like
- 23:49Speaker 2: there's a level of insecurity nowadays when you have to
- 23:52Speaker 2: embrace yourself in the way you look as a woman,
- 23:54Speaker 2: when you're all natural, natural makeup, compare yourself to the
- 23:57Speaker 2: girl you mean, and the girl is there to the
- 24:00Speaker 2: other girl that and you don't know, you don't. I
- 24:03Speaker 2: just feel like men just do things deffinitely right. I'm
- 24:05Speaker 2: gonna just say it like I feel like, no, I'm
- 24:08Speaker 2: just saying but the affirmations that we give come from
- 24:11Speaker 2: a different place, and people are going to disagree with
- 24:14Speaker 2: me on that. But I do feel like men supply
- 24:17Speaker 2: women with a certain level of masculinity that's very unique
- 24:20Speaker 2: to men. I feel like, yeah, women can play a
- 24:25Speaker 2: masculine role or be masculine or show I watch my words,
- 24:29Speaker 2: but like show a way that like men are, but
- 24:32Speaker 2: they can never be that, you know what I mean? Like,
- 24:35Speaker 2: as a man, how we demonstrate our masculinity And I couldn't.
- 24:40Speaker 1: That's why I don't think I could date a woman,
- 24:41Speaker 1: because I think that there are certain things, that certain
- 24:44Speaker 1: energy that a man gives off, even if he can
- 24:46Speaker 1: be your presence and I say nothing, it's a certain
- 24:48Speaker 1: energy that you get from your men that like it's
- 24:52Speaker 1: just I was, I was, I was.
- 24:57Speaker 3: Some people enjoy that. That's weird to me. I want
- 25:00Speaker 3: to scissor.
- 25:02Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't want And that's even worse to me.
- 25:06Speaker 3: Give me the real thing.
- 25:07Speaker 2: All that is terrible.
- 25:10Speaker 3: To each his own. Yeah, And I want to say.
- 25:13Speaker 2: I said it's terrible. It's not that terrible.
- 25:15Speaker 3: I want to say too.
- 25:16Speaker 1: For the record, I just I just, you know, I'll
- 25:18Speaker 1: be over here googling because it bothered me that I
- 25:19Speaker 1: couldn't figure out what stream she was on. And then
- 25:22Speaker 1: I said, looking, this clip is actually from September twenty
- 25:24Speaker 1: twenty four, but it's.
- 25:25Speaker 3: Going ReViral again. Oh yeah, yeah, So I just wanted
- 25:28Speaker 3: to clarify that.
- 25:28Speaker 2: But man, shout out to Ari Lennox. I feel like
- 25:31Speaker 2: she's a real woman, like she's staying on business. To me,
- 25:35Speaker 2: she's singing her heart out. She's vulnerable. She makes great
- 25:38Speaker 2: love music. I seen a white girl in Brooklyn singing
- 25:40Speaker 2: her music. So she affecting the whole world. People want
- 25:43Speaker 2: to be like her, and enough people don't embrace it.
- 25:46Speaker 2: So shout I like her, Yeah, I love her.
- 25:49Speaker 3: I like her. You know what she ain't doing no more?
- 25:52Speaker 3: Get back to that, dick.
- 25:54Speaker 2: Oh is the ship period?
- 25:58Speaker 3: Period?
- 25:59Speaker 2: Well, you know, way i'd be at all right?
- 26:01Speaker 3: What? All right? I don't nobody want like what?
- 26:07Speaker 2: Yes?
- 26:07Speaker 1: Okay, speaking of period outside in the streets or the tweets,
- 26:12Speaker 1: that was a great segue.
- 26:15Speaker 3: Outside we outside, we.
- 26:17Speaker 2: Outside outside every other page.
- 26:21Speaker 1: So the lowriders on X are going off about that tweet,
- 26:24Speaker 1: I tweeted, I'm so grateful God has given me my
- 26:27Speaker 1: point of view. I took that from Lows earlier in
- 26:29Speaker 1: the episode. I thought that it was a fire line,
- 26:30Speaker 1: so I tweeted it out. Oh okay, this is m
- 26:35Speaker 1: VP of b P of p BT on X says saying,
- 26:40Speaker 1: mindset is everything in all caps.
- 26:42Speaker 3: Your perception is your reality.
- 26:45Speaker 1: Then Foxy Oxy said me too, giving me so much
- 26:50Speaker 1: broad outlook instead of the one that fits and pacifies
- 26:53Speaker 1: my world as the absolute best feeling they feeling this
- 26:55Speaker 1: one line, the little they feeling it, you're gonna put
- 26:58Speaker 1: you should The girls is going off about it.
- 27:00Speaker 2: Literally, let me hear what they gotta say.
- 27:03Speaker 3: I just told you what was a segment?
- 27:06Speaker 2: Did you miss it?
- 27:09Speaker 1: It hit that fast it came in, It went all right, y'all.
- 27:12Speaker 1: This has been another episode of.
- 27:17Speaker 3: They see Darius.
- 27:18Speaker 2: Slow not slow. I'm quick as ship.
- 27:20Speaker 3: I was outside the box thinker.
- 27:25Speaker 2: That's right, I know, that's right, all right, shout out
- 27:27Speaker 2: to God.
- 27:32Speaker 1: I mean it's always shout out to God. But like
- 27:34Speaker 1: like that was.
- 27:35Speaker 2: Rendo, Thank God for my p P o V. Outside
- 27:39Speaker 2: the box shout right.
- 27:42Speaker 3: Well, but I would say, whatever we learned from this episode.
- 27:44Speaker 2: But I think what we've learned is what y'all, if
- 27:49Speaker 2: you're gonna do a swingers party, don't invite our Lenux
- 27:53Speaker 2: and don't do drugs.
- 27:56Speaker 3: Okay, that is it.
- 27:57Speaker 1: You know, No, they're a little bit more degal more substance.
- 28:00Speaker 1: But you know, I'm not mad at that. I think
- 28:02Speaker 1: that's good advice. I don't think she would come anyway.
- 28:05Speaker 1: And you should definitely be safe anywhere you swinging anything.
- 28:08Speaker 1: So that has been the latest with Laura Rosa. I'm
- 28:11Speaker 1: Lena Rosa. I tell you, guys, just every episode because
- 28:14Speaker 1: I mean it. At the end of the day, there's
- 28:15Speaker 1: always a lot to talk about. If every single time
- 28:18Speaker 1: you choose to be right here with me talk about it,
- 28:21Speaker 1: I appreciate y'all. I'm a homegrowd and know it's a
- 28:23Speaker 1: bit about everything and everybody. I will see you guys
- 28:25Speaker 1: on my next episode.