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Full EP | Supreme Court strikes down majority black district in Louisiana; Do you believe White House Correspondent Dinner shooting real or not; Talking All that Jazz with mental health expert Chris Matthews; Five most ridiculous lawsuits; and More · The D.L. Hughley Show

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Speaker 1: Of course when that we're running down the countdown the
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Speaker 1: final days of autism except this month. Yes, you got
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Speaker 1: one word, a couple of days more of accepting.
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Speaker 2: What happens after that? Do you no longer coin revulsion?
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Speaker 2: Just like exactly. The whole purpose of doing it for
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Speaker 2: thirty days is what they told us to. We have
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Speaker 2: to do what they told us to. Got to do
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Speaker 2: and get it out of the way. For a single
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Speaker 2: demile starts. You got to get that way. You can't
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Speaker 2: have that, you know, I don't want that to be.
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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what, man, that last year when single
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Speaker 1: tom was in full swing, ice was everywhere. Last May
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Speaker 1: was the emptiest single tomil I've ever seen, only left over.
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Speaker 1: I like, what's to do with the corner and the
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Speaker 1: the red stuff on there.
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Speaker 2: I needed some, man. It was so I couldn't find
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Speaker 2: a sure road to save my life. Man tackle truck.
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Speaker 2: They had everybody shook. Remember that it was in California.
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Speaker 2: People was running through fields. I was like, oh my god,
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Speaker 2: you could see it. It's not quite as bad like
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Speaker 2: it was.
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Speaker 1: I remember when we used to go to uh petitoy,
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Speaker 1: remember the valet dudes. I gave him my numbers, so
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Speaker 1: I was like, man, you got in case something happened,
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Speaker 1: you know, because it was so bad, people were scared
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Speaker 1: to go everywhere.
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Speaker 2: Remember that terrible I think, what's happening? Though they say
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Speaker 2: it's still happening, but because you know, all of the
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Speaker 2: distractions were missing it. Na, I'm telling you, but I
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Speaker 2: used to see it on the streets. Yeah, I got you. No,
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Speaker 2: I was just that name. Know where you live though,
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Speaker 2: it's it's.
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Speaker 1: At one point there were more marines here than were
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Speaker 1: is Syria. That's a hell of a thing. When you
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Speaker 1: go where were you stay? I was in Afghansta, we
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Speaker 1: was in the park a lot of home depot and
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Speaker 1: I could not.
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Speaker 2: Find a cheero corn with the mayonnaise on it. The
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Speaker 2: same my life? Well this year yeah, oh yeah, that's right.
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Speaker 2: They're trying to change the names. That's right. N Well,
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Speaker 2: they back up in Minnesota again.
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Speaker 1: They're out there instead of clubbing kids, then they're giving
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Speaker 1: them candy to lure them out.
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Speaker 2: That'll work. Yeah, that's like, that's like the stupid slogans.
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Speaker 1: Change everything just say no, you know what I will.
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Speaker 1: Happy birthday the Master p. Happy birthday the Erica Campbell.
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Speaker 1: Happy birthday to Jerry Seinfeld. Happy birth of the Willie Nelson.
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Speaker 1: Happy birthday of the Michelle Peiffer. Happy birthday the Jay Cuttler,
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Speaker 1: soccer team. Happy birthday to my favorite tennis player, Andre Agacy.
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Speaker 2: Change right, nobody want her now try to come back.
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Speaker 1: You see her that They changed their picture on the
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Speaker 1: picture that was show up from the time.
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Speaker 2: It was a mock up looking I got zombie. They
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Speaker 2: have her looking like Trump just mad. He did make
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Speaker 2: it up. It's not real.
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Speaker 1: But Happy birthday to of course Ron Washington uh major
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Speaker 1: League Baseball manager.
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Speaker 2: Happy birthday of the King Sir Duke.
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Speaker 1: all possible, Leslie Jordan, that's short gay Southern actor on
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Speaker 1: Help the Help.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
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Speaker 1: We got a great show lined up for your jazz.
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Speaker 1: Don't have which trending. I have a little know from
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Speaker 1: the g D section. It's a d jazz man man
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Speaker 1: tell these people.
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Speaker 2: May at the stallion and I guess her breakup is
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Speaker 2: all over social media break up with Klay Thompson. They
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Speaker 2: both have their sides of the story is and in
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Speaker 2: terms of what happened. But people are angry that Steven A.
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Speaker 2: Smith jumped in get out the business. And what's funny
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Speaker 2: is he saying, yeah, you told them pull head, shut
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Speaker 2: up to I just I don't understand why he's even involved.
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Speaker 2: And the funny thing is he's saying things like, you know,
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Speaker 2: it ain't none of my business. I don't really care, Like, well,
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Speaker 2: why are you speaking on it? Yeah, talking about she
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Speaker 2: shouldn't have told you know what? It's her story.
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Speaker 3: Crazy?
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Speaker 2: And first off, they are a social there, they're a
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Speaker 2: con uh, their cop the public figures of social media. Yes,
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Speaker 2: that's what they do, right, that's exactly right of social
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Speaker 2: media that's right, that's right. So she yet what he did?
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Speaker 2: He did what he did, that's right. I think that
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Speaker 2: was part of there for both of them. I think
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Speaker 2: so too. Yeah, what is it again? You told him?
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Speaker 2: What is it? That's right? I thought you remember that one.
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Speaker 2: Shut up, Skip, you got some totemmbad looking at it
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Speaker 2: every time he people think he hit anyway. Also, we
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Speaker 2: were talking about this yesterday and I think Skip you
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Speaker 2: may have said it, or maybe it was your DL
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Speaker 2: talking about the guy who sat and continued to eat
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Speaker 2: his salad. He's trendic. Do you want to know why?
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Speaker 2: First of all, he's from Creative Artist Agency, he's an
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Speaker 2: agent there. And do you know what he said? Why
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Speaker 2: he said white White didn't get up or get down?
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Speaker 2: He said? First of all, the fact that he said that.
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Speaker 2: First of all, I have a bad back. I couldn't
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Speaker 2: get on the floor, and if I did get on
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Speaker 2: the floor, they'd have to bring in people to get
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Speaker 2: me off the floor. And number two, I'm a hygiene freak.
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Speaker 2: There is no freaking way I was getting my new
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Speaker 2: tucks on the dirty Hilton floor. It was happening. Okay, agent,
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Speaker 2: are you kidding me? That was your response? And if
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Speaker 2: he's an agent and he's a big agent. Yes, not
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Speaker 2: just say that. You want me to tell his name
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Speaker 2: his name, You could tell me if he's a big
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Speaker 2: agent or not. His name is Michael Glance. Yep. He
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Speaker 2: probably cast all those actors in there.
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Speaker 1: It ain't just the agents for their actors. They are
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Speaker 1: talking about people the own agency. Don't let the don't
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Speaker 1: let I mean, but come.
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Speaker 2: On, you're gonna sit there. It was a Barada salad
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Speaker 2: spring peas and Barada salad. And instead of getting you
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Speaker 2: so you'd rather not get on the floor. And if
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Speaker 2: there is an active shooter, you'd rather get shot. That's
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Speaker 2: that's how you know. It wasn't one. You know what
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Speaker 2: it is? Even even why is the food so bad?
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Speaker 1: Like this is the one thing even us marching, you
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Speaker 1: know for civil rights and marching to be able to.
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Speaker 2: Say why is the food so bad? Like we would
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Speaker 2: even march for terrible white people food? Like would nobody
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Speaker 2: would march to eat with white people eat? Yeah? Like nobody.
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Speaker 1: Man, I'm marched for cottage cheese cups. This salad is
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Speaker 1: worth to die for, it I think, not Clem Sam cool,
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Speaker 1: you know, I am lollipops to die for.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I will say this. There was some
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Speaker 2: concern about what they were going to do with the food,
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Speaker 2: because the thing is, they only got the first courts,
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Speaker 2: they only got the salad, and what was waiting to
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Speaker 2: be served was the lobster, and they didn't get that.
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Speaker 2: They just gave it to the army. Yeah, I wasna.
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Speaker 2: Everybody wants to know what they did with the with
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Speaker 2: the lobster to do it.
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Speaker 1: They didn't feed anything. I mentioned what I mentioned what
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Speaker 1: they're doing. They served it at Mari Lagos.
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Speaker 4: They are to say they're not doing like our human
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Speaker 4: being in a week yesterday and.
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Speaker 2: Well they said they donated them twenty six hundred dinners.
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Speaker 2: They say they donated, but they don't tell you who
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Speaker 2: they First of all, I wouldn't want it. It says it
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Speaker 2: was freeze dry. They freeze dried the steak and some
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Speaker 2: of the lobster for a longer shelf life to give
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Speaker 2: them the two shelters for abused women and children. Well,
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Speaker 2: I tell you what, that's nice. You see what they're.
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Speaker 1: Feeding the people on those boats in that blockade, right,
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Speaker 1: you see what. There's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 2: It's just crazy.
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Speaker 1: But I remember that little note from the g D
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Speaker 1: section that's up in fifteen minutes.
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Speaker 2: It's to deal he was who they donated to. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: women on the eigh First of all, you know what
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Speaker 2: they should have served.
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Speaker 1: If there are reasons to doubt the veracity of what
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Speaker 1: has happened over these last couple of days in terms
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Speaker 1: of the the attempted assassination of this president, the reasons
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Speaker 1: are well founded. Donald Trump has a loose association with
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Speaker 1: the truth. Hecate variegates at every turn. It seems to
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Speaker 1: me he is more upset about a comedian telling a
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Speaker 1: joke than maybe tomahawk missile killing two hundred people in Iran,
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Speaker 1: or the fact that Americans were slain on the street
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Speaker 1: at the hands of Ice. The things that he chooses
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Speaker 1: to be angry about that he chooses to investment. Just
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Speaker 1: weeks before this happened, he was pretending to be Jesus.
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Speaker 1: It might help to act like him, to have a
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Speaker 1: little forgiveness, to bring people together, But that isn't what happened.
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Speaker 1: The truth of the matter is, we have been trained
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Speaker 1: because this man lies at every turn. We don't know
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Speaker 1: exactly how many people soldiers are dead in this ill
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Speaker 1: founded war.
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Speaker 2: We don't know what the extent of the damage. On
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Speaker 2: those basis, I submit that we will never ever see
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Speaker 2: pictures of those so called rescued airmen. We don't know
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Speaker 2: what state we in, we don't know our munitions. There's
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Speaker 2: so many things we don't know. Because he lies at
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Speaker 2: every single term. I didn't never know, Jeffrey.
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Speaker 5: I have seen.
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Speaker 2: I didn't know.
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Speaker 1: I was never on the island. I was never on
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Speaker 1: the plane. We were never together. He lies at every
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Speaker 1: single term, every single term, and every.
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Speaker 2: Time we never hear anything else.
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Speaker 1: About the people who perpetrated these supposed to crimes, never again,
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Speaker 1: never to be heard from. We don't know where they
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Speaker 1: came from, what their motivations were, who they are when
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Speaker 1: they're going on trial, What is the status of the investigation,
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Speaker 1: what was their motive?
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Speaker 2: Did they work with anybody else?
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Speaker 1: Because Donald Trump, the reason we know what we know
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Speaker 1: is because he was in an hurried to blame it
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Speaker 1: and use it for a political end. He was in
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Speaker 1: a hurry to say, look is these angry leftists, it's
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Speaker 1: these democrats. I can't say that I know definitively. The
10:29
Speaker 1: last time you heard him tell a true thing, one truth?
10:34
Speaker 1: When he tells me what day it is. You have
10:36
Speaker 1: to look outside. Gas prices are going to be lower.
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Speaker 1: This is the best economy ever. We had more people
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Speaker 1: than anybody else ever. Our rally was the biggest ever.
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Speaker 1: He never ever tells the truth. So when somebody says
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Speaker 1: that he is somebody made a fourth or third whatever
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Speaker 1: it is, attempt on his life, you don't believe it.
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Speaker 1: Instead of the boy who cried wolf, he's the man
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Speaker 1: who cried wolf.
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Speaker 2: That's a little note from the ged siction. It's the D. L.
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Speaker 2: Hugly Show. She's jazz, It's the jazzy report.
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Speaker 5: I'm in D. L.
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Speaker 2: Hughley. The Supreme Court weakened a landmark Civil Rights era
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Speaker 2: law that has increased minority representation in Congress and elsewhere,
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Speaker 2: striking down a majority black congressional district in Louisiana and
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Speaker 2: opening the door for redistricting across the country that could
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Speaker 2: aid Republican elport efforts to control the House. The effect
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Speaker 2: of the ruling may be felt more strongly in twenty
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Speaker 2: twenty eight because most spiling deadlines for this year's congressional
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Speaker 2: races have already passed.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, they doing everything again that they are challenging the
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Speaker 4: voting's right rights.
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Speaker 2: At Oh yeah on the court. So yeah, absolutely, what
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Speaker 2: they're trying to do is gut it.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, when they gonna reinstitute slavery, I'm just I have
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Speaker 4: to move that.
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Speaker 2: Might be on the way. Listen. I don't put anything
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Speaker 2: past the Supreme Court and these crazy Republicans. Let me
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Speaker 2: tell you well, a new study has suggested that if
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Speaker 2: you eat chicken a lot, it could double your risk
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Speaker 2: of dying from eleven types of cancer, including bowel and
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Speaker 2: stomach cancer. Just telling you the truth. Scientists found consuming
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Speaker 2: four portions per week had doubled the risk of dying
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Speaker 2: from a digestive cancer compared to those who ate less
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Speaker 2: than a portion of poultry per week. So basically, cut
12:21
Speaker 2: down on the amount of chicken you're eating. Now I
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Speaker 2: can you can't eat beef, you can't eat pork. Now,
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Speaker 2: you can't eat chicken.
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Speaker 4: The fish got too much merechist because of pollutants in
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Speaker 4: the water. We can You ain't even vegetables. That's where
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Speaker 4: you get to salmonella and all this come on.
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Speaker 2: You can always eat air. Well. The question is what
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Speaker 2: are they feeding these chickens that we get in cancer. Now,
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Speaker 2: that's the question. If you've ever looked at a comparison
12:44
Speaker 2: of a chicken from Bend the seventies to now.
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Speaker 3: Now.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm telling you it's crazy, just like people. Yeah. Well, hey, Jas,
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Speaker 2: thank you so much.
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Speaker 1: The question is, ladiesman, do you think that the uh
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Speaker 1: alleged attempted I guess third or fourth attempt depending on
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Speaker 1: how dependent depending on how you look at it. Do
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Speaker 1: you think that that was legitimate? Or what the stage?
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Speaker 2: There was a real attempt on his life or whether
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Speaker 2: stage that's the question we want to be pulling to you.
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Speaker 2: Eight seven seven two two fourth to six. Give us
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Speaker 2: a call, let us know what you think was the
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Speaker 2: was the attempted? Uh? The third attempt on his life?
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Speaker 4: The correspondence didner, Uh yeah, fiasco.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was okay.
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Speaker 1: I do find it interesting that if somebody tried to
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Speaker 1: take your life for the third or fourth time.
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Speaker 2: Depending on who's counting, there are two things you requested.
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Speaker 2: Was a ball you know, a ballroom and uh a
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Speaker 2: comedian to get fired. Uhh yeah, no gun control done
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Speaker 2: like that and not no gun control, no mental health,
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Speaker 2: expansion of mental health, no prayer, Give me a ballroom
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Speaker 2: and get rid of this.
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Speaker 1: On ABC, the question We're asking do you think that
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Speaker 1: the attempt or the third or fourth of hip but
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Speaker 1: depending on who telling it was since it was it
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Speaker 1: real or do you think it was stage. We're gonna
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Speaker 1: go to our social media platform especially Okay, what are
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Speaker 1: they saying out there?
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Speaker 2: So we got Monica from South Dakota and Monica says
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Speaker 2: it's about as real as the Britney Spears mental state.
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Speaker 1: That's pretty real. What does this say about? And we
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Speaker 1: talked about this in the note. There have been four
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Speaker 1: presidents out of out of what is the math on that?
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Speaker 1: Where there have been forty five men that served in
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Speaker 1: the office.
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Speaker 2: Four have been slain while they were in office. Two
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Speaker 2: former president have been shot. One would make it about
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Speaker 2: what for about about about uh? What it's got to
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Speaker 2: be one levesent single president.
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Speaker 1: There were multiple attempts, credible attempts on George Bush Senior
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Speaker 1: and George Bush Junior. As a matter of fact, one
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Speaker 1: of the reasons allegedly that George Bush went to uh
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Speaker 1: went to Iraq? What's the events attempt on his father's life?
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Speaker 2: You remember that, yep.
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Speaker 1: So it suffices to say it is a very dangerous proposition.
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Speaker 1: Andrew Jackson. They tried to shoot him. Lincoln, they shot him. Mchiley,
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Speaker 1: they shot him, tapped you know, Teddy Roosevelt. So the
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Speaker 1: the thing I resent the most is two things. One
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Speaker 1: pretending like this isn't very prevalent, and then it's a
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Speaker 1: new phenomenon. It isn't violence. And the American body politics
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Speaker 1: is as American as apple pie.
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Speaker 2: Yep.
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Speaker 1: Now, I think that Donald Trump is responsible for a
15:31
Speaker 1: lot of heated rhetoric, and I think that we can
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Speaker 1: honestly say that we've never seen the president talk this way. Correct,
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Speaker 1: But the fact is that they have always there been.
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Speaker 1: There were thirteen attempts on Barack Obama's life. Now, the
15:48
Speaker 1: problem is that one of the things that we didn't
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Speaker 1: two people shot at that. Remember they shot twenty three
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Speaker 1: times at the White House right when he was there.
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Speaker 1: People are forgetting that. They act like because Trump is
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Speaker 1: doing such a good job, or he's doing changing things
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Speaker 1: that people know they want to the people they shot rating.
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Speaker 2: Because a dog told him to. This all kind of question, Yeah, but.
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Speaker 1: It suffices to say that violence in America is used
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Speaker 1: for almost everything. Political grievouss, you know, domestic workplace grievous
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Speaker 1: is like a Swiss Army Knight we used of everything.
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Speaker 1: The question we're asking, do you think that the attempt
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Speaker 1: or the third or fourth attempt, but depending on who
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Speaker 1: telling it was since it was it real, or do
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Speaker 1: you think it was stage. I think anybody who's making
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Speaker 1: or trying to into it that they intimate that this
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Speaker 1: is a new phenomenon has not been paying attention right.
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Speaker 1: And when RFK ran out of there, I can see why,
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Speaker 1: because he know what it's like when somebody's justsassinating.
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Speaker 2: That will not by a convertible. Because of that, he
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Speaker 2: wanted to tell you, I'm going to I'm going to
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Speaker 2: skip that trip to Dallas. The one person who did
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Speaker 2: believe it was all RK.
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Speaker 1: There have been attempts on the American president ever since there.
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Speaker 2: I tell you what is so it is so commonplace.
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Speaker 1: It's easier to tell you the presidents that haven't had
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Speaker 1: either threats and or attempts in their life than tell
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Speaker 1: you who hasn't who hasn't had it, than who has.
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Speaker 2: Barack Obama thirteen times.
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Speaker 1: They tried to get Joe Ford twice, one of Sacramentos
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Speaker 1: once within the same week. So I just I think
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Speaker 1: that this attempt to place blame or to rewrite history
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Speaker 1: or to lay it at the feet of a you know,
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Speaker 1: and or they only try to they only try to
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Speaker 1: assassinate Republicans. That's not true. What was JFK dumbass?
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Speaker 2: What was Robert What was George Wallace when he tried
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Speaker 2: to Yeah, I mean so stop it. And you know,
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Speaker 2: somebody said this, and it's very true.
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Speaker 1: I was we were talking about There was a guy
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Speaker 1: and he did this exhaustive study and he talked about
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Speaker 1: that most bright people, really intelligence people, tend to be
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Speaker 1: progressive because the progressive mindset is more nuanced, whereas a
18:11
Speaker 1: conservative mindset is said, is narrow. They can say things
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Speaker 1: like block them up, or they can say because everything's
18:17
Speaker 1: black and white, and you know why we're fair. We're
18:21
Speaker 1: not having a success negotiating with Iran because Iran has
18:26
Speaker 1: been under economic sations for the better part of forty
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Speaker 1: five years. Forty five years, so this blockade is just
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Speaker 1: more of the.
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Speaker 2: Same for them. What they did was we attack them,
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Speaker 2: they shut off the straight and they pass a financial
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Speaker 2: pain out to the whole of the world. Their bet
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Speaker 2: is that they can take it more than we have
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Speaker 2: because they're used to it. It's like fighting a blind
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Speaker 2: guy and him cutting in the lights off. Not to
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Speaker 2: mention they keep sending realtors since you will never have
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Speaker 2: successful negotiations selling Hillbillies negotiation a dude that wrote hill.
19:03
Speaker 1: Billy elergy and a dude named Mark Wayne Mullen that
19:05
Speaker 1: you're not gonna win hill Billies.
19:07
Speaker 2: I don't negotiate. They pump gas. That's what they do.
19:11
Speaker 1: Any white dude with three names, it is either a
19:13
Speaker 1: serial killer or works at a gas station.
19:15
Speaker 2: That's all.
19:15
Speaker 1: We don't need you in international affairs. No, not negotiating anything.
19:19
Speaker 1: No will negotia. Is it Big Red or Mountain Dew,
19:22
Speaker 1: that's what that's what we So the assassination that was
19:27
Speaker 1: it live or was it memorys was it real or
19:29
Speaker 1: was it fair stage? I do not think that they
19:32
Speaker 1: paid that guy, that it was staged two, you know,
19:35
Speaker 1: whereas he's a paid operative. I think they knew he
19:38
Speaker 1: was going to be there. I think they planned everything
19:41
Speaker 1: to take advantage of the fact that they would. They
19:44
Speaker 1: would use that as a a variation of a false
19:46
Speaker 1: flag to garner sympathy and also support for his Obviously
19:52
Speaker 1: he needs support for his flay is flailing poll numbers,
19:56
Speaker 1: but also for whatever you know. I don't know how
19:59
Speaker 1: a ball room is going to help keep people safe.
20:03
Speaker 1: I think, uh, somebody in the in the room with balls, Mike,
20:10
Speaker 1: I saw.
20:10
Speaker 4: To you talking about the the the so called assailant.
20:15
Speaker 2: I don't know how true it is.
20:16
Speaker 4: I haven't verified in any but somebody put a video
20:18
Speaker 4: out and they said that he had a contact with
20:22
Speaker 4: JD Vance's wife when he when he presented a science project,
20:26
Speaker 4: that she was actually in the room.
20:28
Speaker 2: That was actually ran on the news. So yeah, that
20:29
Speaker 2: was yeah. Yeah. The only thing that's weird to me
20:32
Speaker 2: is typically when something like this happens, you can look
20:35
Speaker 2: back at their social media or somewhere in their repertoire
20:39
Speaker 2: and find some kind of weird radical thinking or statements.
20:43
Speaker 2: But they can't find any. That's the thing that's weird
20:45
Speaker 2: to me.
20:46
Speaker 6: Right.
20:46
Speaker 2: The other thing is I still, you know, maintain the
20:50
Speaker 2: fact that maybe they did know, maybe you know, they're
20:53
Speaker 2: smart enough to attract him some other way. I want
20:56
Speaker 2: to bet well you could go that you got a
20:59
Speaker 2: case full of guns. But my point being, like we've
21:01
Speaker 2: said before, you know I've been to the White House,
21:04
Speaker 2: You've been to the White House. We've been in proximity
21:06
Speaker 2: with You know, listen, I've been in the same room
21:09
Speaker 2: with people who wasn't even the president but was associated
21:11
Speaker 2: with him that had Secret Service detail. Right now, kind
21:14
Speaker 2: of le's the rights.
21:15
Speaker 5: Now.
21:16
Speaker 2: They blocked off the whole street. You couldn't get into
21:19
Speaker 2: the building if you weren't already in the building. So
21:21
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking to myself, how was this guy who's
21:24
Speaker 2: a teacher in a small town who I mean, obviously
21:27
Speaker 2: he's very well educated. I just don't understand how I.
21:32
Speaker 1: Think that one thing for sure, even he talked about
21:37
Speaker 1: how laxed security was. Yeah, but that's what happens when
21:41
Speaker 1: you think white and fealty are enough.
21:43
Speaker 2: Fire all the qualified people. You fire all the qualified people.
21:47
Speaker 1: And man, it's just it says a lot about where
21:49
Speaker 1: we are right now and that there hasn't gotten any better.
21:53
Speaker 1: But to me, if somebody tried to kill me four
21:55
Speaker 1: times or three times, multiple times, one thing I would
21:58
Speaker 1: damn sure wouldn't do is fall asleep around him. I
22:00
Speaker 1: SHO wouldn't do that. No, I take my nap when
22:03
Speaker 1: it's I take my nap. You I ain't even safe
22:05
Speaker 1: around Malanya. This dude's still eating his salad. People standing
22:10
Speaker 1: around taking pictures and selfies.
22:12
Speaker 2: It literally looked like they knew that they were And
22:15
Speaker 2: it's such a bad script. I think Tyler Perry was like, damn,
22:18
Speaker 2: this is a terrible script.
22:19
Speaker 1: The funny thing about it the dude that was eating
22:21
Speaker 1: his salad was an agent for c AA, and you
22:24
Speaker 1: know he know bad acting when he.
22:25
Speaker 2: Said who cast this script?
22:30
Speaker 6: Cut? Yeah?
22:31
Speaker 5: Right?
22:32
Speaker 2: But deal would have turned this script down. I swear
22:37
Speaker 2: did they exam.
22:38
Speaker 1: The question we're asking you think that the alleged assassination
22:41
Speaker 1: temp was live, was at memorys We're going to go
22:43
Speaker 1: to the phones?
22:44
Speaker 5: I think absolutely not.
22:46
Speaker 7: That's just a ploy to get people to look at something.
22:48
Speaker 8: Else and not look at those Epstein files.
22:51
Speaker 5: Everything he's done, starting all these wars, hazard that everybody
22:56
Speaker 5: else got arrested, that that had to do with Epstein.
22:58
Speaker 5: Foul for him and what president been impeached that many
23:02
Speaker 5: times and still ain't impeached.
23:04
Speaker 4: No.
23:05
Speaker 6: I think he's a fake. He's always been a fake.
23:08
Speaker 7: There's too many marksmens out there in work.
23:10
Speaker 6: And make this shot a big orange ball on top
23:13
Speaker 6: of the head and a big.
23:14
Speaker 8: Old nose and name is Bozo.
23:16
Speaker 6: How you gonna miss that? How can you miss that?
23:19
Speaker 5: Clown. I mean, but I've always said this.
23:22
Speaker 6: Now I hope to say it again and again and
23:24
Speaker 6: again on the most most wonderful radio show in America
23:28
Speaker 6: Some Truck You Kiss My?
23:30
Speaker 2: I think all three or four were set up.
23:35
Speaker 7: I do believe that number forty seven. Pay those people
23:41
Speaker 7: to do that.
23:42
Speaker 5: Ain't nobody trying to kill him?
23:44
Speaker 8: If it is, he's been.
23:45
Speaker 2: Dead by now, Junius, what do you think, hand of
23:48
Speaker 2: the King? What do you think? It was probably live?
23:51
Speaker 3: But you got to be amazed that when these things
23:55
Speaker 3: come about, it's a perfect distraction. I mean the first
23:59
Speaker 3: attempt when he was running for presidency, he was behind
24:02
Speaker 3: in the polls to come Butler Pennsylvania, right yep. And
24:06
Speaker 3: then the assassination an attempt came and then his poll
24:09
Speaker 3: numbers shot up, you know. In in sympathy here, I
24:14
Speaker 3: mean he shot so many times, we are a lot
24:16
Speaker 3: of sympathy. Yeah, yeah, he been shot, so he been
24:19
Speaker 3: to to kill so many times. He needs to make
24:22
Speaker 3: a rap album. He had Iran, he had Epstein, he
24:27
Speaker 3: had the cost of living. All of these things was
24:30
Speaker 3: on his ass. I mean, that's that's all that was
24:32
Speaker 3: on the news lines and in godlines. Well, the one
24:37
Speaker 3: thing were not talking about is Iran right now? We
24:38
Speaker 3: ain't talking about nothing now, just that. And so I
24:42
Speaker 3: found that kind of suspicions.
24:45
Speaker 1: I will say this that he he has I think
24:48
Speaker 1: that now there's not even an attempt to pretend like
24:50
Speaker 1: he's about the people's business. This is about grievances, This
24:53
Speaker 1: is about self aggrandizement. He wants his name on everything
24:58
Speaker 1: E said, etein pass part, monuments, money.
25:02
Speaker 2: And you know what, let me tell you something.
25:03
Speaker 1: Why would you put your face on passport when maccan
25:06
Speaker 1: don't go nowhere, no way.
25:09
Speaker 2: You don't need a mask, you don't need to.
25:11
Speaker 1: You don't need a passport to drive from Alabama to
25:15
Speaker 1: Daytona Beach.
25:16
Speaker 2: You don't need to. You don't need that. And let
25:18
Speaker 2: me tell you something.
25:21
Speaker 1: They think that that it is a specific phenomenon specific here.
25:24
Speaker 1: Donald Trump is despised all over the world.
25:28
Speaker 2: The world.
25:30
Speaker 1: Listen to what leaders say about him. The claims of
25:34
Speaker 1: fascism and authoritarianism didn't start with it. They're not just here.
25:39
Speaker 1: Why do you think travel is down in America? Why
25:42
Speaker 1: do you think trade is down in America? Why do
25:45
Speaker 1: you think no ally is coming to help America? Why
25:49
Speaker 1: do you think that is. Is it because the rhetoric
25:50
Speaker 1: the Democrats are leveling at him, or is because he
25:53
Speaker 1: really is in fact a pariah he is?
25:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, all the more reason to stage something like this,
25:58
Speaker 2: right to try to build support, you know, not only
26:00
Speaker 2: for yourself, you know, and also the fact that you
26:02
Speaker 2: know he's waning, his waning popularity and maga circles and whatnot,
26:07
Speaker 2: all the more reason to do something like that.
26:08
Speaker 1: No, listen, listen you you duck bullets. I'm ducking these
26:12
Speaker 1: high gas prices. You will never win a war with
26:16
Speaker 1: somebody named Pete and Mark Wayne not gonna happen. And
26:19
Speaker 1: j D that's dunk Man, not gonna Those that sound
26:22
Speaker 1: like duck dynasty down selling for somebody you started.
26:29
Speaker 2: They look just like that.
26:30
Speaker 1: Nobody went one from Oklahoma, one from apple Legia Mountain,
26:33
Speaker 1: and I don't know where the other one are from.
26:35
Speaker 1: But they couldn't think they were out of a trailer park.
26:36
Speaker 1: I guess they did do that. But do you think
26:40
Speaker 1: there was live or was it a stage? That's the
26:41
Speaker 1: question we're going with. Uh, we're going through the phones.
26:45
Speaker 9: I think it was stage for one thing he wanted
26:48
Speaker 9: to use said, let me tell you something.
26:51
Speaker 6: Who's gonna let a guy get.
26:52
Speaker 4: That far in that waiting room and not end up
26:56
Speaker 4: with not.
26:56
Speaker 2: One bullet in him? Man, that scenes that just so strange.
27:01
Speaker 9: So it was planned to keep us to go the
27:05
Speaker 9: other direction, to give us a reason why we should.
27:07
Speaker 6: Get this ballroom built.
27:09
Speaker 2: So I really think it was stage.
27:12
Speaker 6: Man. Of course, this thing was a stage. Y'all saw
27:15
Speaker 6: like a bunch of conspiracy theorists. I mean, how do
27:18
Speaker 6: you question the great leadership of all orange spray ten
27:23
Speaker 6: thick hair from men club wearing guy of making this up?
27:28
Speaker 6: I mean, you got to think about it, man, All
27:30
Speaker 6: of this could have been prevented if we would have
27:32
Speaker 6: got what we needed one hundred and fifty years ago. Man,
27:35
Speaker 6: we needed that ballroom that this whole event would have
27:38
Speaker 6: never been in in the first place.
27:41
Speaker 7: I believe that this was another stage shooting attempt on
27:44
Speaker 7: Donald Trump's life to try to gun his sympathy and
27:48
Speaker 7: to take away our attention from what's really going on
27:51
Speaker 7: with the Iran situation. I don't believe that the Iran
27:54
Speaker 7: war that he started was about nuclear preventing nuclear weapons,
27:58
Speaker 7: but trying to control the oil. The bushes, both bushes
28:01
Speaker 7: tried to do that when they took over Saddam Hussein
28:06
Speaker 7: they couldn't get the oil. Then they're trying to get
28:07
Speaker 7: the oil now. And then also to try to take
28:09
Speaker 7: your mind off the fact he's trying to take over
28:11
Speaker 7: Greenland for it, it's minerals that they have over there.
28:15
Speaker 7: This is just to try to get sympathy for him,
28:18
Speaker 7: to take our minds off of what's really going on.
28:20
Speaker 7: And it just stands out and anybody can't see that
28:23
Speaker 7: they're blind.
28:25
Speaker 8: Yeah, well, my opinion is it's all stage.
28:27
Speaker 6: Man.
28:27
Speaker 8: They've been doing this sus for ten years, and you
28:30
Speaker 8: get all the evidence of the showing like they got
28:33
Speaker 8: the vice president first and then love It said something
28:36
Speaker 8: about like they're gonna fire shots and my husband Gabriel
28:39
Speaker 8: warning and phone call cut off then and you know
28:43
Speaker 8: it's saying if it walks like a dog, it talks
28:44
Speaker 8: like a dug.
28:45
Speaker 5: It's up.
28:45
Speaker 8: So it's like he's been doing for ten years. And
28:48
Speaker 8: I personally don't understand how anybody believes anything says. And
28:51
Speaker 8: I think, you know, they keep doing the second diversion
28:55
Speaker 8: point he's really doing. That's my opinion, man, I don't
28:58
Speaker 8: think none of it is true.
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Speaker 1: All right, coming up, One of my favorite features were
29:02
Speaker 1: going to spotlight some of the funniest comedians ever.
29:04
Speaker 2: We got it coming up for you. Coming to the stage.
29:06
Speaker 2: It's a deal, Hugly show. It is time for our feature.
29:08
Speaker 1: Welcome to the stage where we spotlight some of the
29:11
Speaker 1: funniest comedians. Some you know, some you don't today. Welcome
29:14
Speaker 1: to the stage. You definitely know this person, the one
29:16
Speaker 1: only Sheryl Underwood.
29:18
Speaker 2: You want to keep your man.
29:19
Speaker 9: Know that a man in love will give his woman
29:21
Speaker 9: anything and everything she won't need and desire, as long
29:24
Speaker 9: as you don't ask him.
29:26
Speaker 2: Don't ask him for nothing.
29:28
Speaker 7: You need a new.
29:28
Speaker 3: Refrigerator, don't ask him for it.
29:30
Speaker 2: Bring him my hot.
29:31
Speaker 9: Beer and wait for a refrigerator to show up.
29:33
Speaker 2: At show it up.
29:35
Speaker 9: Don't say against your man.
29:36
Speaker 2: Mama.
29:37
Speaker 9: These men love they mama, even if he ain't never.
29:41
Speaker 2: Met this bitch.
29:42
Speaker 4: He loved.
29:44
Speaker 9: His mom, even though they're only thirteen years apart.
29:48
Speaker 2: He loved his mom.
29:51
Speaker 3: Know that men don't.
29:52
Speaker 9: Want to talk when they first come home from work.
29:54
Speaker 2: Men want to shower and shave.
29:57
Speaker 9: Then they want to get situated and give you a
29:59
Speaker 9: signal that conversation should come forward. Be very careful what
30:04
Speaker 9: you say to a man who's in love with you,
30:07
Speaker 9: because once he fall in love, his life is dedicated
30:09
Speaker 9: to you and the family that you're making together.
30:13
Speaker 2: So when you come home from work.
30:14
Speaker 9: With tears welled up in your eye and the man
30:17
Speaker 9: that's in love with you go, what's wrong, baby? And
30:20
Speaker 9: you go, you know, Larry from my job. That's all
30:24
Speaker 9: that brother heard was Larry from your job. Now he
30:28
Speaker 9: in the car with the pistol grip pump on his
30:30
Speaker 9: lap at all time, driving your.
30:32
Speaker 2: Job looking for my father's named Larry.
30:35
Speaker 9: You in the kitchen making a sandwich, listening to the news,
30:37
Speaker 9: forgot what you said, But you here three dudes named
30:40
Speaker 9: Larry got shot at your job by a man with
30:43
Speaker 9: no pants on.
30:43
Speaker 2: See that's your fault right there, that's your fault.
30:46
Speaker 9: Understand that a man wants a woman who encourages him
30:49
Speaker 9: without nagging him. He wants a woman who believes in
30:52
Speaker 9: his dreams even though she knows he can't do it.
30:56
Speaker 9: Your man come home talking about he don't quit his
30:58
Speaker 9: good head job at the post office because he wanted
31:01
Speaker 9: to be an astronaut. Don't say, just pull out your
31:04
Speaker 9: sewing machine and make him my astronaut outfit.
31:06
Speaker 2: Because you believe in him. Mixed up some time. Slice
31:10
Speaker 2: mussel cheese. Tell him get out. You're gonna be late
31:12
Speaker 2: for the moon.
31:14
Speaker 9: Push him out of the door. Tell him call me
31:15
Speaker 9: when you get a break on the moon. Now you
31:18
Speaker 9: know you want to laugh, but don't ever laugh in
31:19
Speaker 9: your man face because you're gonna break his spirit.
31:22
Speaker 2: But wait for him to get in the car.
31:23
Speaker 3: Goo, get your cell phone, call your girlfriend to go bitch.
31:27
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what he said he want to
31:28
Speaker 2: be to day girl said he want to be an astronaut.
31:31
Speaker 2: I made him outfit. Look at god. Hilarious. I've worked
31:36
Speaker 2: with her a number of times. Always hard, too hard
31:38
Speaker 2: to follow, hard to follow. That's a talented chick, right there.
31:41
Speaker 2: I was.
31:42
Speaker 1: I was watching Steve Van Jones says something I had
31:49
Speaker 1: to agree with.
31:50
Speaker 3: What why you know?
31:51
Speaker 2: I was so shocked to hear this. Dan Jones said
31:54
Speaker 2: something I had to agree with. He said that it's
31:56
Speaker 2: difficult to talk about where the violence and stemming from.
32:01
Speaker 1: When you pardoned January sixth, who perpetrated violence, when you
32:05
Speaker 1: tried to vacate the sendant of the sentences of the
32:08
Speaker 1: oathkeepers and the proud boys who were who were violated
32:13
Speaker 1: trying to overthrow the government.
32:14
Speaker 2: And if you if you.
32:18
Speaker 1: Support the oathkeeper keepers and you're an elected officials, you
32:20
Speaker 1: already violated your olds because you're supposed to take protect
32:23
Speaker 1: the country from enemies foreign and domestic.
32:25
Speaker 5: Right.
32:25
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, And there's no question that they're criminals, because
32:30
Speaker 2: it's about all of the ones that he parted and
32:32
Speaker 2: went back to jail, got rearrested.
32:35
Speaker 1: They were they had the most serious violent charges.
32:38
Speaker 2: So he's not just letting them go.
32:39
Speaker 1: There were some people obviously that were just you know, trespassing,
32:44
Speaker 1: you know, but these people were the most violent. They
32:46
Speaker 1: were the worst of the worst, and that's why he
32:48
Speaker 1: didn't pardon them. He's vacating their senses. So there's a difference.
32:53
Speaker 1: So I think that that it says a lot about
32:58
Speaker 1: who foments violence. You made jokes about a husband, a
33:01
Speaker 1: eighty seven year old man getting beat with a tyrant
33:03
Speaker 1: man in the head. You made jokes about Rob Reiner
33:07
Speaker 1: mm hmm. And incidentally, I could I could never imagine
33:11
Speaker 1: killing my mother. I know she could imagine killing me,
33:14
Speaker 1: though I know that's sure.
33:15
Speaker 2: She took a couple.
33:17
Speaker 1: But and you know, adding insult to injury, not only
33:21
Speaker 1: did they murder that paid. Did he murder his parents
33:24
Speaker 1: and haintus fashion? He's trying to use their money to
33:26
Speaker 1: defend himself. You better, man, I wish you would.
33:30
Speaker 6: Well.
33:30
Speaker 2: He said something like he feels like he got the
33:32
Speaker 2: short end of the stick. I'm like, nobody, he didn't
33:34
Speaker 2: get the end of it. Shut up, I'm telling you
33:37
Speaker 2: what he said. Up, He's like, I lost everything. Yeah,
33:40
Speaker 2: and no, they really lost everything exactly, They really lost everything.
33:44
Speaker 1: Oh man, how are you gonna be a mass murderer anfield?
33:46
Speaker 1: You killed your.
33:47
Speaker 2: Mama, Man, your mama and your dad. There's not many
33:51
Speaker 2: places you can go after that. I don't feel sorry
33:53
Speaker 2: for you at all. Well, there's one place you can
33:54
Speaker 2: go wat Yeah. Yeah, he was hearing voice. One of
34:00
Speaker 2: them should have told you to sit down. It is.
34:03
Speaker 2: It's it's weird.
34:05
Speaker 1: People are doing weird stuff and they just revel in.
34:09
Speaker 1: Like did you see Sean Hannity talking about violent rhetoric?
34:13
Speaker 1: Did you just leave Catholicism because you said the Pope
34:17
Speaker 1: said with the Pope got into a Twitter beef with
34:20
Speaker 1: the President of the United States of America for saying,
34:22
Speaker 1: blessed are the peacekeepers peacemakers, right, Blessed are the peace
34:26
Speaker 1: makers right. He was against the war, and Sean Handy
34:30
Speaker 1: was so incense he left Catholicism.
34:32
Speaker 2: JD.
34:33
Speaker 1: Vans, who's supposed to be a Catholic, told the priests
34:35
Speaker 1: that the pope to stay with matters, that the Pope
34:38
Speaker 1: is supposed to be involved in my what's more integral
34:41
Speaker 1: to the Pope's duties than deciding how precious life is
34:46
Speaker 1: a weighing on on the on the on the sanctity
34:49
Speaker 1: of life. So these people, their religious beliefs are hilarious
34:53
Speaker 1: to me until they're tested, and then all of a
34:55
Speaker 1: sudden they don't matter. Pete Hexhaman has got the Cross
34:57
Speaker 1: of White Nass.
35:01
Speaker 2: He's a he's a mess.
35:03
Speaker 1: And you know, whenever a white person tell me how
35:05
Speaker 1: much they love Jesus, I know instantly they hate it.
35:07
Speaker 2: At the same time I'm telling you, I'm telling you.
35:13
Speaker 2: I'm telling you so. As you know, May is mental
35:19
Speaker 2: health awareness month. So I'm happy to have on the
35:21
Speaker 2: phone today Chris Matthews, who is a mental health expert. Hey, Chris, Hey,
35:26
Speaker 2: how you doing. I'm doing pretty good. What about yourself?
35:30
Speaker 5: I'm doing sact.
35:31
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me, Oh, no, thank you for being here.
35:34
Speaker 2: I think this is such a great conversation to have.
35:36
Speaker 2: I know that you are a licensed marriage and family
35:38
Speaker 2: therapist along with you know you deal with addiction and
35:41
Speaker 2: and and other things. I know you've had, You've written
35:43
Speaker 2: a ton of books, you have online courses all of that,
35:46
Speaker 2: And really, what I want to get down to, the
35:48
Speaker 2: nitty gritty, is what is going on in our relationships today.
35:53
Speaker 2: I know a lot of times we come into relationships
35:56
Speaker 2: individually with some type of baggage and then we couldn't
36:00
Speaker 2: with other people and now we have excess baggage. But
36:02
Speaker 2: what specifically is going on with us today, because I
36:05
Speaker 2: think there's been like a seismic shift in our relationship status.
36:09
Speaker 5: Yeah, so a lot of what's going on, and people
36:12
Speaker 5: are afraid to be alone and there's a lack of
36:15
Speaker 5: self love and that's a lot of what I'm doing
36:18
Speaker 5: counseling making sure that you have two partners who love themselves.
36:22
Speaker 5: Relationships are a hundred and one hundred. You bring all
36:25
Speaker 5: of you into that relationship and the partner that brings
36:27
Speaker 5: all of them. That includes the good, the bad, and ugly.
36:30
Speaker 2: Oh we don't like the ugly, but I know it's necessary, right, well,
36:34
Speaker 2: let me ask you this, Chris, because I think a
36:36
Speaker 2: lot of times you may not know that you have issues,
36:40
Speaker 2: and I don't think they come out until you connect
36:43
Speaker 2: with someone else and maybe there's an argument or maybe
36:45
Speaker 2: a situation that you feel is uncomfortable for you, and
36:48
Speaker 2: then you realize you have all of this baggage. What
36:51
Speaker 2: do you do at that point? And what is the
36:53
Speaker 2: telltale sign initially for yourself to know you know what?
36:55
Speaker 2: It might be me. It might not be him, or
36:58
Speaker 2: it might not be her, It might be me.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great question. So the telltale sign is
37:03
Speaker 5: going to be your family avoids. We're all going to
37:06
Speaker 5: be a combination of our past experiences, our genetics, our DNA,
37:09
Speaker 5: and those experienceship that occurred in our family. So what
37:13
Speaker 5: I do in counseling, even with individuals, I make sure
37:16
Speaker 5: I go back through that lineage and we use certain
37:20
Speaker 5: tools such as a genogram to understand where those traumas
37:23
Speaker 5: were beyond the relationship, prior to the relationship when you
37:27
Speaker 5: were a child, and that's going to be the origin
37:29
Speaker 5: of the group for a lot of the issues that
37:30
Speaker 5: couples have in adulthood.
37:32
Speaker 2: Well, now this is going to be a tough one,
37:34
Speaker 2: so buckle up and get ready for this one. Now,
37:36
Speaker 2: how do you find because of course we already know
37:39
Speaker 2: there's no use in beating you know, a dead horse
37:42
Speaker 2: in terms of you know, black people don't like therapy, right,
37:45
Speaker 2: we've heard that forever. But I think now the tide
37:48
Speaker 2: is shifting. We are starting to get help. But my
37:50
Speaker 2: question is how do you find the person who is
37:54
Speaker 2: best suited for you in terms of therapy, because you
37:57
Speaker 2: know everybody ain't for everybody got you.
38:00
Speaker 5: So you're right, the tide is shifting when you think
38:03
Speaker 5: about just media perception now therapy, the stigma is falling off.
38:07
Speaker 5: The way you find a good therapist is going to
38:09
Speaker 5: be first and foremost understanding what you want from the therapy.
38:14
Speaker 5: So as a licensed manager or family therapist, I'm trained
38:17
Speaker 5: to look at the systemic perspective, going beyond just that
38:21
Speaker 5: individual and seeing everything that connects. And I would say
38:25
Speaker 5: that there are a lot of great resources out there.
38:27
Speaker 5: Psychology today is a great resource. The other thing you're
38:30
Speaker 5: going to look at of your resources in terms of
38:32
Speaker 5: how much money you can afford your assurance or if
38:35
Speaker 5: you are looking at an employee assistance program, because that's
38:38
Speaker 5: one of the big barriers for a lot of people.
38:40
Speaker 5: It's going to be those the time, resource and the
38:43
Speaker 5: money and overall a good fit. When you go into
38:46
Speaker 5: a therapist's office and you have that connection, that alliance
38:49
Speaker 5: is going to be what really moves the needle on change.
38:53
Speaker 5: So making sure you have that alliance and that fit
38:55
Speaker 5: it's going to be huge. And you can do that
38:57
Speaker 5: by way of first understanding what you want from the process.
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Speaker 2: And also I would imagine understanding what you need because
39:03
Speaker 2: you have to go in being completely transparent and honest about.
39:06
Speaker 5: Who you are exactly right.
39:08
Speaker 2: Well, Chris, I appreciate you so much for giving us
39:10
Speaker 2: some tips about mental health. Like I said, I know
39:12
Speaker 2: May is Mental Health Awareness Month, but I do believe
39:15
Speaker 2: and I'm sure you do too, because you do this
39:17
Speaker 2: by trade that you know, we have these issues all
39:20
Speaker 2: year long. They don't wait until May to pop up.
39:22
Speaker 2: They actually come even in June, in July certainly with
39:25
Speaker 2: the summer coming. And I don't want to talk about
39:27
Speaker 2: cuffing season. We'll have that conversation later, but thank you
39:30
Speaker 2: so much. How can people reach out to you if
39:31
Speaker 2: they're interested in maybe some of your online courses or
39:33
Speaker 2: your books, or anything like that. How can they reach you?
39:36
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I have a direct website Chrisamatthews dot com
39:40
Speaker 5: is just selling my name phr is A Matthews, the
39:43
Speaker 5: two T's and make tt hws and also on all
39:46
Speaker 5: IG's Instagram Facebook Chris A. Matthews is my tag.
39:52
Speaker 2: Love it. Thank you so much, Chris. I'm gonna have
39:53
Speaker 2: to check you out on ig. Okay, and no judgment
39:56
Speaker 2: on the pictures when you see me, I might be
39:58
Speaker 2: doing some crazy things crazy all right, Thank you, Chris.
40:02
Speaker 2: I appreciate your time.
40:04
Speaker 5: Thank you with the closure.
40:06
Speaker 2: The d l's is so duck hug.
40:09
Speaker 4: On the day.
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Speaker 1: It's now time to give it deserving someone the Shoe
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Speaker 1: Booty of the Week Award.
40:12
Speaker 3: And now it's time for the Shoe Moody of the
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Speaker 3: Week Award. Tamara Maurie Housley is an American actress, television host,
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Speaker 3: and entrepreneur. Her comedic timing and charisma won her several awards,
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Speaker 3: including the Kids Choice Award for Favorite Female TV Star.
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Speaker 2: What You Want To Medal.
40:41
Speaker 3: She has also starred in Sister Sister, Twitches and Twitches.
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Speaker 2: Too, and she was the co host up the.
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Speaker 3: Talk show for Real. So Why Is Tamara, this week's
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Speaker 3: recipient of the Shoe Booty of the Week Award. How
40:56
Speaker 3: Quickers have Happened Silly the Maori gets the shoe booty
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Speaker 3: because the real co host didn't keep it real. On Monday,
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Speaker 3: April thirteenth, the former Disney Channel star made her entrance
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Speaker 3: on the social media platform Threads. In case you didn't
41:16
Speaker 3: know what threads is, Threads is like a group chat
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Speaker 3: that escaped into the wild and started roasting everyone. It's
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Speaker 3: like Twitter after it went to therapy, but still has
41:30
Speaker 3: all the receipts. So when she announced herself on April
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Speaker 3: thirteenth by saying I'm new here, like she was entering
41:40
Speaker 3: a sister sister reunion party, her reception wasn't what she expected.
41:47
Speaker 3: They were like, we don't care if you're a celebrity.
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Speaker 3: We're still gonna side on you, like you ordered something
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Speaker 3: We know you are a celebrity girl, but we don't
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42:08
Speaker 3: What did she think was going to happen? She has
42:11
Speaker 3: to know that smoke wasn't just for her, It was
42:15
Speaker 3: also for her husband, former Fox News correspondent Adam Houseley.
42:21
Speaker 2: He is an.
42:23
Speaker 3: Adam recently back the Trump administration's proposal to prohibit the
42:28
Speaker 3: use of food stamps to Maga. Had to realize she
42:32
Speaker 3: got dragged for sleeping with the enemy, Maga by association.
42:37
Speaker 2: And it makes me cry. Can you even look at him?
42:39
Speaker 3: She pulled on the wrong thread and her celebrity blanket
42:44
Speaker 3: fell apart. And that's why the shoes Booty of the
42:51
Speaker 3: Week award goes too. Tamara Maury Howseley.
42:59
Speaker 2: Now here's a swift kick in the ass. Now it's
43:03
Speaker 2: time for what you need to know with the one
43:05
Speaker 2: only Sybil Wilkes. It's Sybil Wilkes with what we need
43:08
Speaker 2: to know.
43:08
Speaker 10: Former FBI director Jamescomy was indicted Tuesday for allegedly threatening
43:12
Speaker 10: to kill the president. The DOJ said the message eighty
43:16
Speaker 10: six forty seven written in shells on a beach, was
43:19
Speaker 10: a call to assassination. Comy faces up to twenty years
43:22
Speaker 10: if convicted. King Charles addressed Congress Tuesday at pledging UK
43:26
Speaker 10: support for democracy and the United Arab Emirates has left Opek,
43:31
Speaker 10: potentially signaling a dropping global oil prices. The FBI is
43:35
Speaker 10: raiding Minneapolis childcare centers as part of a massive fraud probe,
43:39
Speaker 10: and former NBA player Damon Jones entered a guilty pleat
43:42
Speaker 10: in the high profile gambling case. Finally, Megan dy Stallion
43:46
Speaker 10: is taking her final vow in Moulain Rouge the Musical
43:49
Speaker 10: this Friday. This comes right on the heels of her
43:51
Speaker 10: reported breakup with NBA star Clay Thompson.
43:54
Speaker 2: On Sybil Wilkes, be informed, be empowered, Thank you so
43:57
Speaker 2: very much, Sybil jazz Man. What the hell that's happiness?
44:03
Speaker 2: When the money comes through and the name of Pearl Bailey?
44:05
Speaker 2: Was that all about it? It's the deal? You can
44:08
Speaker 2: show more of the deal you show is coming right up.
44:10
Speaker 2: It's the deal. He will show it is out of
44:11
Speaker 2: the deal.
44:12
Speaker 1: You can show your twenty twenty five What's gonna be
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Speaker 1: twenty twenty six edition in case you're gonna be in
44:17
Speaker 1: Virginia Beach, Virginia. I'm gonna be there this Friday and
44:19
Speaker 1: Saturday to Friday and too Saturday, so come.
44:22
Speaker 2: Check me out. If you take a notion. Oh no,
44:26
Speaker 2: sh you what is wrong with you? Who is this happening?
44:32
Speaker 2: I missed things like that, you know when Jack and Jacksah, Wait, yeah,
44:35
Speaker 2: I missed that. People on watch cartoons like I did see.
44:37
Speaker 2: I'm trying to remember what school it might be. Schools
44:39
Speaker 2: in California are bringing back penmanship to write in cursive,
44:47
Speaker 2: bringing it back.
44:48
Speaker 4: I don't know.
44:49
Speaker 2: They just said it's necessary. They're gonna bring back vinyl records,
44:51
Speaker 2: stew with the maybe they're gonna bring back maybe maybe. Yeah,
44:58
Speaker 2: when is the last time you wrote anything? I write
45:01
Speaker 2: all the time. Yeah, I can't. I do seven books,
45:04
Speaker 2: but I'm saying I can't. I'm talking about like actually
45:07
Speaker 2: with a pen in my hand. I get like typing,
45:10
Speaker 2: but I like the idea of writing. It's nice, just
45:13
Speaker 2: throwback though. It's fun, like having a rotary phone in
45:17
Speaker 2: your house. And I have excellent penmanship, so nobody's gonna
45:20
Speaker 2: read it. Who cares? What do you write? I send
45:24
Speaker 2: handwritten thank you cards in the mail.
45:28
Speaker 1: That's stupid. It's they already make them already, you know.
45:32
Speaker 1: And I have I have thank you cards with my
45:34
Speaker 1: name already written on them, and I just send them out.
45:35
Speaker 2: Y's called zeil cards with thank you and heartfeld thank
45:42
Speaker 2: you with already signed. I just think I handwritten. It's
45:45
Speaker 2: just the gesture. I love it.
45:46
Speaker 1: Before you take somebody court, Jason and give us five
45:49
Speaker 1: of the most hilarious and ridiculous lawsuits. And I'm sure
45:52
Speaker 1: they were all fouled by the Trump administration. By l
45:57
Speaker 1: O by l O l Watt dot Com.
45:59
Speaker 2: Number five Benjamin correthers he loved Red Bull uh and
46:04
Speaker 2: sued them for false advertising because he never got his wings.
46:07
Speaker 2: Yeah he should with the wing stock.
46:10
Speaker 4: That's why they spell If you ever see they spell
46:12
Speaker 4: wings differently now like it's I got two eyes or something.
46:14
Speaker 6: Store.
46:15
Speaker 2: They actually won that lawsuit, yeah they yeah, he did.
46:18
Speaker 2: He did You know how much you bet they paid?
46:20
Speaker 2: How much? Thirteen million dollars? Yikes. Number four at the
46:24
Speaker 2: top five most hilarious and ridiculous lawsuits. Kathy McCowan. Uh,
46:29
Speaker 2: she actually won a competition. I've heard this a thousand
46:32
Speaker 2: times in so many different ways. Radio station was doing
46:35
Speaker 2: what you know, skip giving away a car only to
46:38
Speaker 2: find out she got a toy car. Well, she ended
46:40
Speaker 2: up getting a real one. Ut she got twenty eight
46:43
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. That such a good buyer real one? Well
46:46
Speaker 2: she well, I don't know what she better get? An
46:48
Speaker 2: uber pass twenty was back in the day they do
46:52
Speaker 2: this anymore. Number three at the top by most lawsuits
46:56
Speaker 2: Daniel Duke's back at nineteen ninety nine, he was found
47:00
Speaker 2: in a whale tank at the Sea World in Orlando. No, no, no,
47:05
Speaker 2: Daniel do somehow. I don't know how, but he avoided security,
47:08
Speaker 2: waited til the park closed down, and jumped in there.
47:10
Speaker 2: That didn't make any sense swimming around with the whale. Well,
47:14
Speaker 2: you know he did. But his parents sue the park,
47:16
Speaker 2: saying that they did not provide the public with enough
47:18
Speaker 2: warning signs about that name killer. His name is killer.
47:25
Speaker 2: My other thing, by the way, is if you have
47:27
Speaker 2: to wait until the park closes, you know you're doing something.
47:32
Speaker 1: That's what you that's thinning the herd. Let me say
47:35
Speaker 1: something you don't. There is a reason that all the
47:38
Speaker 1: names they could have chose. They could have chose black
47:40
Speaker 1: and white, whale to keep Domino well.
47:42
Speaker 2: Could have chose banda well anything they said Killer. Well, no,
47:50
Speaker 2: miss me, I believe you. I believe you well. Number
47:53
Speaker 2: two of the top five most hilarious and ridiculous lawsuits.
47:57
Speaker 2: Carl Walton Uh She wanted to avoid the entrance fee
48:00
Speaker 2: at the nightclub, so she used the bathroom window to
48:03
Speaker 2: get in, but while she tried to climb through the
48:05
Speaker 2: bathroom window, she fell down and knocked out her two
48:07
Speaker 2: front teeth. Yeah, and she said she fouled a lawsuit
48:10
Speaker 2: and said that the nightclub was responsible for those damages.
48:13
Speaker 2: All I want for Christmas? She got twelve thousand dollars
48:16
Speaker 2: and all of her dental expenses covered.
48:19
Speaker 3: Yeah.
48:20
Speaker 2: Number one of the top five most hilarious and ridiculous lawsuits.
48:24
Speaker 2: Peter Willis, thirty six years old, decided to divorce his wife. However,
48:28
Speaker 2: he didn't want to pay her any compensation, so he
48:31
Speaker 2: tried to sue her for sperm theft.
48:36
Speaker 7: What do you mean.
48:41
Speaker 2: He said that she did?
48:43
Speaker 6: Where is it?
48:46
Speaker 4: You know?
48:47
Speaker 2: We could just move on right now, that's what I suggest.
48:50
Speaker 1: I hope you jumping in with a killer whales is
48:52
Speaker 1: what I hope. Yes, that will do it. Fors lady
48:55
Speaker 1: and gymen. That's all we have. If you're going to
48:57
Speaker 1: be in the Virginia Beach area, I'm going to be
48:59
Speaker 1: at the Ginia Beach Funny on this Friday and Saturday
49:02
Speaker 1: to Friday and two Saturdays.
49:05
Speaker 2: Virginia, Virginia, Virginia's for lovers, is it? Yes?
49:09
Speaker 1: Well, that's the model and Virginia. Also, remember that was
49:12
Speaker 1: when that girl was running but win some earl seers,
49:15
Speaker 1: the one that looked like James Brown.
49:17
Speaker 2: I remember after he sung it was a Man's World
49:22
Speaker 2: after when he was sweat. Yeah, yeah, we can't you
49:26
Speaker 2: know that.
49:26
Speaker 1: She could have been she she would have been the
49:29
Speaker 1: very first black governor executor of a state. Really, she'd
49:34
Speaker 1: have been the black female, the very first black female
49:37
Speaker 1: governor of state.
49:38
Speaker 2: It's never happened, and it couldn't have been her. You
49:40
Speaker 2: can't go in there. It look like you gotta blow out. No,
49:43
Speaker 2: you can't do that. You can't have Tracy Chapman here.
49:45
Speaker 2: Now that you can't do that, what is the first
49:48
Speaker 2: of your official in offant.
49:49
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bump your enges, That's what I'll do, all right,
49:54
Speaker 1: So Jas Sanders, what'd you learn today?
49:56
Speaker 2: Shout out to the king, King Charles? Did you see?
49:59
Speaker 7: Chief?
50:00
Speaker 2: Reminded, listen, even a king is subject to the law,
50:04
Speaker 2: and I should know because I am one. I am
50:07
Speaker 2: a king. Exactly.
50:08
Speaker 1: You see Donald Trump jump in front of the people,
50:10
Speaker 1: started breaking all kinds of pocus.
50:11
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, but what what what else would
50:14
Speaker 2: you expect from him?
50:15
Speaker 6: Man?
50:15
Speaker 2: He is such in it. I can't wait till this
50:19
Speaker 2: is all over. Like I'm just I'm not shocked at
50:21
Speaker 2: all in his wife's sweat Alana sweat. Skip my man,
50:27
Speaker 2: cheat them on you today, baby boy man. While we're
50:29
Speaker 2: on that subject, did you see the subject exactly where
50:31
Speaker 2: we that one?
50:33
Speaker 10: You know?
50:33
Speaker 4: Did you see that we always talking about Trump trying
50:35
Speaker 4: to be a king and the White House posted a
50:37
Speaker 4: picture of him and King Charles and it said two.
50:41
Speaker 2: Kings and the White House put that out there.
50:43
Speaker 1: Come okay, stop, Well we know that's not how it goes.
50:47
Speaker 1: He gonna be on the passport and nobody didn't. Nobody
50:50
Speaker 1: with him on his bath horn traveled.
50:51
Speaker 2: Did you see where California's Governor Gavin news and trolls
50:56
Speaker 2: him did the same thing on the drivers Like I like, yeah,
51:00
Speaker 2: me too, me too?
51:01
Speaker 1: All right, coming up on the next deal, you can
51:03
Speaker 1: show Kyle Hugrely aka especially LK Wait and you know what,
51:06
Speaker 1: just side know, you know tall Rico's ahead of all everybody.
51:09
Speaker 2: Oh, really, come on to s it's not gonna happen.
51:12
Speaker 2: But I did see he earned or raised more money
51:15
Speaker 2: than anybody. He's not gonna you know what, I don't
51:17
Speaker 2: think so I can't. Well, here's here's what's happening.
51:21
Speaker 1: If they don't get this thing together, this war, if
51:24
Speaker 1: things keep going like this, all bets off. If they
51:27
Speaker 1: lose Texans, if they lose Texas, it don't matter what
51:29
Speaker 1: they're doing, no matter, it won't matter at all, doesn't
51:32
Speaker 1: matter anywhere else. On the next deal, you can show
51:34
Speaker 1: Kyle Hugreley aka especially Olka is the latest side record
51:37
Speaker 1: producer and we're gonna his latest project of short Bus
51:39
Speaker 1: Records plus the military man Jamaal Kings and return to
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51:44
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