Latest / The Right Time with Bomani Jones / Van Lathan on Hunter Biden's Crack Comments, Malcolm-Jamal Warner's Impact, Prince's Death
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- 0:25Speaker 1: Podcast is higher learning. He appears to have a lasso
- 0:28Speaker 1: tied up on his wall. Van Lathan, what's going on?
- 0:33Speaker 2: What up, what up, what up, what up?
- 0:35Speaker 1: All right, so you only wear the ridiculous hat when
- 0:37Speaker 1: you go to work, but not at your house?
- 0:40Speaker 2: I wear it all the time. I wear it all
- 0:42Speaker 2: the time, but I go through different hat phases now.
- 0:46Speaker 2: Now I'm in a bucket hat, dad hat phase, but
- 0:48Speaker 2: I wear my cowboy hat all the time. That's my
- 0:50Speaker 2: strength right there.
- 0:52Speaker 1: I didn't know the last time I saw you without
- 0:54Speaker 1: the cowboy hat. So once I saw you inside your house,
- 0:57Speaker 1: I thought that maybe you had some rules. Like the
- 0:59Speaker 1: old times say you don't wear a hat like that indoors.
- 1:01Speaker 1: It's disrespectful to the ladies. You know what I'm saying?
- 1:04Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, for me, the hat is like a crown,
- 1:08Speaker 2: the cowboy hat. And so I feel like it's a
- 1:11Speaker 2: ceremonial thing. When I want to show my power, I
- 1:13Speaker 2: put the cowboy hat on, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:16Speaker 3: Wow, that is a lot of words for the word gimmick.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Could be, but I mean, everything that you see up here,
- 1:23Speaker 2: everything that you see up here is like that lasso
- 1:26Speaker 2: right there, that's my father's lasso.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Oh, that is an actual lasso. I thought, I did
- 1:30Speaker 1: not realize it was an actual lasso.
- 1:32Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, no, that was my dad. So that lasso
- 1:35Speaker 2: that you guys can see in this shot, that's my dad. So, like,
- 1:38Speaker 2: that lasso right there has been used in rodeos going
- 1:43Speaker 2: back to, I don't know, at least the 80s when
- 1:46Speaker 2: he would use it. And so when I went home
- 1:48Speaker 2: after he passed away, like, I brought his lasso back
- 1:53Speaker 2: with me. I brought his lasso and his knives with me.
- 1:58Speaker 2: The guns, I... Tried to bring, but it was very
- 2:03Speaker 2: difficult in California. So this whole side of the wall,
- 2:06Speaker 2: this is the Louisiana wall, the Percy Miller jersey. That's
- 2:09Speaker 2: the lasso. The cowboy hats are also from my dad,
- 2:12Speaker 2: but the men in my family wear them. So, you know,
- 2:15Speaker 2: that's the whole deal. You know what I'm saying?
- 2:18Speaker 3: Did you ever go to the rodeo at Angola?
- 2:20Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:22Speaker 1: I don't know how regular, and for those of you
- 2:24Speaker 1: who do not know, the state penitentiary in Louisiana is
- 2:28Speaker 1: Angola State Penitentiary. And it is a touch dangerous, but
- 2:32Speaker 1: they're also known for two things that could be helpful
- 2:34Speaker 1: to the general public. They make impeccable leather goods at Angola,
- 2:39Speaker 1: and they have a rodeo every year.
- 2:42Speaker 2: They have a rodeo, and they also have football. I
- 2:47Speaker 2: did not know that, and that sounds terrifying. The different
- 2:50Speaker 2: camps have football teams. So, I mean, Angola, which is
- 2:54Speaker 2: definitely one of the worst, the worst places you can
- 2:58Speaker 2: be in America, they do have some things where they
- 3:03Speaker 2: let the inmates express themselves to a degree. But I've
- 3:08Speaker 2: definitely been down to rodeo. I've been to rodeos all
- 3:10Speaker 2: throughout the South and the Southeast.
- 3:13Speaker 1: Letting the boys at Angola play football does not seem
- 3:18Speaker 1: like the best idea.
- 3:19Speaker 3: Like with pads on?
- 3:22Speaker 2: Yeah. It's called like the crack bowl. Not the crack bowl.
- 3:26Speaker 2: It's called like the smash bowl or something like that.
- 3:30Speaker 2: But you have to remember now, I'm not saying that
- 3:34Speaker 2: they play football with a ton of skill. Obviously. But
- 3:39Speaker 2: there's insane athleticism because it's Louisiana. So there are guys
- 3:47Speaker 2: running around there that were ex-high school players. The skill
- 3:50Speaker 2: will come in from all of this advanced coaching and
- 3:53Speaker 2: all of that stuff. But there's some crazy athletes running
- 3:56Speaker 2: around down there.
- 3:58Speaker 1: It's the physicality that I am curious about and makes
- 4:02Speaker 1: me a little worrisome because I know everything I've heard
- 4:04Speaker 1: about pickup basketball at a prison is a daunting level
- 4:09Speaker 1: of physicality.
- 4:10Speaker 3: And now you're talking about they're letting them actually play football.
- 4:14Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. They've been doing it for a while. It's
- 4:15Speaker 2: actually such a mixed bag when you think about it,
- 4:20Speaker 2: like philosophically, because you're in a place now. when you
- 4:25Speaker 2: drive up to St. Francisville, um, obviously I've known, well,
- 4:30Speaker 2: not obviously, I don't want to say obviously in my lifetime,
- 4:33Speaker 2: I've known a couple of residents of Angola state penitentiary
- 4:36Speaker 2: very well. And when you drive up there, there's a
- 4:40Speaker 2: long road that leads you up to the prison. And
- 4:43Speaker 2: when you start getting in on the way to this road,
- 4:46Speaker 2: I mean, you see like a prisoner's working and the
- 4:50Speaker 2: guy on a horse and it's, you know, just right
- 4:53Speaker 2: out of 18, 1860. The prison and the way that
- 5:00Speaker 2: it is run is a historical relic of that time
- 5:06Speaker 2: in American history. But there are different ways when you
- 5:12Speaker 2: talk to inmates, particularly some of the inmates that were
- 5:15Speaker 2: involved with the rodeo that make some of the goods
- 5:17Speaker 2: and the crafts. There's art there. There's an art show.
- 5:22Speaker 2: There are ways that the inmates... find freedom inside the
- 5:26Speaker 2: walls of Angola. That's quite inspiring. Um, now they should
- 5:32Speaker 2: have to live and they should be able to live
- 5:33Speaker 2: in different conditions, but there are ways that the gentlemen
- 5:35Speaker 2: there find themselves that when you get into their stories,
- 5:38Speaker 2: it's actually pretty amazing.
- 5:40Speaker 1: No, we turn it into something inspirational. I did not
- 5:42Speaker 1: expect that to be the direction that we would go
- 5:44Speaker 1: in when we talked about Angola.
- 5:46Speaker 2: Happens, brother. Happens when we get together, bro.
- 5:49Speaker 1: You out here broadening minds. You know what I'm saying? Like,
- 5:52Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was an actual lasso. And you're like, yeah,
- 5:54Speaker 1: it's my dead dad's lasso. Hardy hard, motherfucker. And I'm like, oh, okay,
- 5:58Speaker 1: you're right.
- 5:59Speaker 2: You know? Hey, look, look, look.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Like.
- 6:02Speaker 2: Whenever you endeavor to try to be an asshole, there's
- 6:04Speaker 2: always a risk that comes with it.
- 6:05Speaker 1: But I wasn't even being an asshole. I just couldn't understand.
- 6:10Speaker 1: I was like, I couldn't tell if it was a lasso,
- 6:12Speaker 1: an extension cord. I couldn't figure out why I was
- 6:16Speaker 1: on the wall. I've always told people this. Like, hey man, like...
- 6:21Speaker 1: That shirt fucking sucks.
- 6:23Speaker 2: You suck. Hey, bro, my mama gave me this shirt. Aha.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Now look at you. There's always a chance.
- 6:30Speaker 1: No, no, no. See, my mama gave you that shirt.
- 6:33Speaker 1: That ain't going to really do nothing for me.
- 6:35Speaker 3: That's like, duh. That's how we wound up making fun
- 6:37Speaker 3: of you. I wasn't even making fun. I just couldn't
- 6:39Speaker 3: figure out.
- 6:39Speaker 2: Well, the mama did. Like my daddy. Then you, why
- 6:44Speaker 2: are you wearing that shirt? Because it's the last thing
- 6:46Speaker 2: that my mama gave me. And now, and look at
- 6:51Speaker 2: you now, not everybody looking at you like, yo, what
- 6:53Speaker 2: the fuck? Why are you talking like that? You know
- 6:55Speaker 2: what I'm saying?
- 6:55Speaker 1: So the problem is you got to really be deep
- 6:59Speaker 1: into sociopathy to follow up because the follow up is
- 7:02Speaker 1: very easy. That's the last thing that my mama gave
- 7:05Speaker 1: me before she died. Why are you sad then?
- 7:09Speaker 2: Why are you sad that she died?
- 7:11Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, if that's the kind of love,
- 7:13Speaker 1: if that's the way your mama shows you love, you
- 7:14Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? But that's just, you have, you
- 7:16Speaker 1: got to really be willing to go all the way
- 7:20Speaker 1: in that moment.
- 7:21Speaker 2: You have to. And it has to land. It does.
- 7:27Speaker 2: If it lands, then everybody going to be like, oh, shit, man.
- 7:32Speaker 2: Look how he came back from the depths. But if
- 7:35Speaker 2: it don't land, people going to be looking at you like,
- 7:36Speaker 2: do we want to be around him? He made fun
- 7:39Speaker 2: of that man when his mama died. Especially in the
- 7:42Speaker 2: white neighborhood. In white spaces? Oh, you kill with that.
- 7:46Speaker 2: You kill when you come back and you go, oh,
- 7:49Speaker 2: your mom must have hated you. You kill. But in
- 7:51Speaker 2: black spaces, they're going to be like, we can't be
- 7:53Speaker 2: around this nigga. He done made fun of the goddamn mom.
- 7:56Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, when you make an ambitious opener... You know
- 8:00Speaker 3: what I'm saying?
- 8:01Speaker 1: Like like it's a risk that I'm generally unwilling to take.
- 8:05Speaker 1: In this case, I didn't think it could have been
- 8:07Speaker 1: as risky as it proved to be.
- 8:09Speaker 3: But I was at a.
- 8:10Speaker 1: Wedding one time and this dude pulled up on me
- 8:13Speaker 1: and it was a white dude. And I think it
- 8:15Speaker 1: may be Jermaine giving some of the explaining that she
- 8:17Speaker 1: was doing. And then white man pulled up on me
- 8:20Speaker 1: and he was like. he shakes my hand and it
- 8:23Speaker 1: was a wedding when it was like other people, like
- 8:25Speaker 1: industry type people there. And this guy was not an
- 8:27Speaker 1: industry person. And so he put up on me and
- 8:30Speaker 1: he shake my hand. And the first thing he says
- 8:32Speaker 1: to me is, you know, I've hated everything that you've
- 8:35Speaker 1: ever said. At which point I took my hand back
- 8:44Speaker 1: because I'm not sure what we about to do, right?
- 8:48Speaker 1: And it went into some old roundabout, but the groom
- 8:51Speaker 1: is really a big fan of yours. And I thought
- 8:53Speaker 1: you should know that. And maybe I don't hate everything
- 8:55Speaker 1: that you've ever said. And I'm thinking in my head,
- 8:58Speaker 1: it's 1230 and you don't know that I don't drink, right?
- 9:03Speaker 3: All you know is that it's 1230 and.
- 9:04Speaker 1: You pulled up on me with pure orificious approach, right?
- 9:11Speaker 3: Straight orifices.
- 9:13Speaker 1: Only a white man can have the audacity to do
- 9:16Speaker 1: such a thing.
- 9:16Speaker 3: I'd only say that to you because I knew you.
- 9:20Speaker 2: But there's something else about white dudes in those types
- 9:23Speaker 2: of situations. There's a difference culturally that I've seen. Black
- 9:34Speaker 2: men form bonds by inviting peace. White men form bonds
- 9:41Speaker 2: by inviting combat. See, black men, hey, you good with me.
- 9:49Speaker 2: We could tamp things down and play the game and
- 9:53Speaker 2: talk about this and do all of that stuff. We
- 9:56Speaker 2: turn the shit down when we share peace with one another.
- 10:03Speaker 2: We make little treaties. White guys, though, they like to
- 10:07Speaker 2: get into it. And that's how they form their bonds.
- 10:10Speaker 2: They like to come to you and needle you. That
- 10:14Speaker 2: dude is so weird. When he came up to you,
- 10:17Speaker 2: that was his version of showing you love. his version
- 10:22Speaker 2: of showing you love being like hey man I'm gonna
- 10:25Speaker 2: come over here and introduce myself despite the fact that
- 10:29Speaker 2: I hated when you wore the Caucasian shirt on ESPN
- 10:33Speaker 2: I was not fucking with that but that invites us
- 10:37Speaker 2: to sit down and go back and forth for like
- 10:41Speaker 2: 10 or 15 minutes and then I know that you're
- 10:45Speaker 2: smart you know that I'm smart and now we can
- 10:48Speaker 2: have that type of back and forth or relationship with
- 10:53Speaker 2: one another. He thought he was coming over. With us,
- 10:56Speaker 2: we don't look at it like that. Like, yo, why
- 10:57Speaker 2: you coming over here and me telling how much you
- 10:58Speaker 2: don't like me? Get away from me. But he was
- 11:01Speaker 2: inviting conversation. He wanted you to say, oh, which thing
- 11:05Speaker 2: did I say that you particularly didn't like? Well, let
- 11:07Speaker 2: me tell you about this. In the next 15, 20 minutes,
- 11:10Speaker 2: you guys been volleying things back and forth. Now he
- 11:14Speaker 2: can call his friends from Cornell and and be like, yo, man,
- 11:17Speaker 2: I met Bomondi Jones. He's as smart as he seems
- 11:19Speaker 2: on TV. We should invite him up to the Cornell
- 11:22Speaker 2: Club and see if we can get him involved in
- 11:26Speaker 2: Blackwater or whatever. I got another one.
- 11:31Speaker 3: All I felt was disrespect. Of course! Fuck you!
- 11:36Speaker 1: But the thing was, it was done in such a
- 11:40Speaker 1: way where I couldn't have seen it coming and I wasn't.
- 11:42Speaker 3: Braced for it.
- 11:44Speaker 1: Have you ever had somebody hit on your girl in
- 11:46Speaker 1: front of you but you're not even thinking about that
- 11:48Speaker 1: and then it's just like, wait a minute. I had
- 11:51Speaker 1: a dude once where I was at breakfast with my
- 11:54Speaker 1: girl And he's a waiter. And he almost poured coffee,
- 12:00Speaker 1: like missed my cup. And he was like, oh, my bad.
- 12:04Speaker 1: I got a little distracted. I'm not paying no attention
- 12:06Speaker 1: to that. It's because he is sitting dead red in
- 12:11Speaker 1: her grill. But I realized until by the time I
- 12:14Speaker 1: realized that all I could do was not give him
- 12:16Speaker 1: a tip.
- 12:18Speaker 3: Like, it was just a little bit too late.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Like, by the time the disrespect had registered to me,
- 12:23Speaker 1: I quickly, I just took my hand back. That was
- 12:25Speaker 1: the only thing I knew was that the handshake portion
- 12:28Speaker 1: of the program was over. I was so discombobulated, like,
- 12:31Speaker 1: I can't believe this has actually happened. And I have
- 12:34Speaker 1: no actual recourse at 44 years old. There's nothing I
- 12:37Speaker 1: can really do about it.
- 12:38Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta, at that point, I like to
- 12:43Speaker 2: just let it breathe. I'm more interested now that my,
- 12:51Speaker 2: the era of, so growing up in Baton Rouge, the
- 12:57Speaker 2: last thing you wanted to be was the one who
- 12:59Speaker 2: got fucked over, right? Just for whatever reason. And if
- 13:04Speaker 2: you got fucked over, the question you have to ask
- 13:08Speaker 2: yourself is, why do they think they can fuck over me?
- 13:10Speaker 2: So that question of why do they think they can
- 13:12Speaker 2: fuck over me would sometimes drive you to rage. It
- 13:16Speaker 2: wasn't even that you took offense, so much offense, at
- 13:20Speaker 2: what was going on. But you're thinking, what am I
- 13:23Speaker 2: doing to make this person think that I'm the one
- 13:26Speaker 2: to fuck over?
- 13:27Speaker 3: Yeah, what makes you so sure that I won't shoot you?
- 13:31Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 13:32Speaker 3: It's something about me?
- 13:34Speaker 2: Yeah, and so that makes you feel unsafe because to
- 13:38Speaker 2: move around in those spaces, you kind of have to
- 13:40Speaker 2: have people feel that you'll fuck them up. That's gone
- 13:44Speaker 2: within me. That's one thing that has died within me now.
- 13:46Speaker 2: What's out within me now is, like, I think getting older,
- 13:50Speaker 2: going through some stuff. I have a little bit of
- 13:52Speaker 2: confidence now to where I know some people are just
- 13:55Speaker 2: blissfully unaware of the infractions that they commit against others.
- 14:02Speaker 2: And also, some people just don't give a fuck. So now,
- 14:05Speaker 2: in that situation, if my girl is getting hollered at,
- 14:08Speaker 2: I'm actually more interested in how she reacts. than anything else. Like,
- 14:13Speaker 2: I see it happening, and I wouldn't do anything but
- 14:16Speaker 2: smile and just see, one, if she peeps it, and two,
- 14:20Speaker 2: if she deads it. So that's more what I'm interested
- 14:25Speaker 2: in now, just in any situation like that, because I
- 14:28Speaker 2: think that I've come to a certain level of control
- 14:32Speaker 2: and understanding about myself, right? Very confident. Now I'm just
- 14:35Speaker 2: kind of looking like, hmm. What's she going to do?
- 14:38Speaker 2: And I'm not even going to get mad at what
- 14:39Speaker 2: she's doing. I just want to see what the waiter
- 14:42Speaker 2: is hitting on you. He's doing all this. How are
- 14:45Speaker 2: you going to react? Interesting.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Yeah, I see the argument because this happened like 20
- 14:51Speaker 1: years ago, right? Or somewhere in that zone. So I'm
- 14:53Speaker 1: in a completely different place. At that time, though, it's
- 14:56Speaker 1: not even so much that I felt emasculated or anything.
- 15:00Speaker 1: I felt I had no tools at that point. I
- 15:03Speaker 1: was old enough to know what I'm going to do,
- 15:05Speaker 1: fight this man at the restaurant. I don't even live
- 15:07Speaker 1: in this city. You know what I'm saying? Am I
- 15:10Speaker 1: going to do that?
- 15:10Speaker 2: No.
- 15:11Speaker 1: All I can do is just sit here and then
- 15:13Speaker 1: be like, oh, wait a minute. At least he didn't
- 15:16Speaker 1: pour the coffee in my lap as he was doing it.
- 15:20Speaker 2: Yeah. But once again, This last thing I'll say, I
- 15:23Speaker 2: got to give him props, though, because. No, you don't.
- 15:26Speaker 2: You don't. I do. I do. I disagree. Because I
- 15:29Speaker 2: give props to anybody that shoots in that situation. That's called.
- 15:37Speaker 2: So me and the homies back in the day, you
- 15:41Speaker 2: say when you shoot from the compromise place, it's easy
- 15:45Speaker 2: to shoot from on high.
- 15:46Speaker 1: Right.
- 15:46Speaker 2: It's easy to shoot when you roll up in a
- 15:49Speaker 2: Benz and you see a girl at the bus stop.
- 15:53Speaker 2: it's easy to be like, yo, you want a ride? Like,
- 15:55Speaker 2: I'll take you where you're getting to go. Like, that's easy.
- 15:58Speaker 2: That don't take nothing. But when you shoot from the
- 16:02Speaker 2: bus stop to the girl in the bins, oh, you
- 16:05Speaker 2: the man. When you shoot as the waiter to the
- 16:10Speaker 2: dude from ESPN and his girl, I commend that man.
- 16:16Speaker 2: Because that man said, fuck it. No, no, no, no.
- 16:20Speaker 2: He did not. He did not say fuck it. He said,
- 16:21Speaker 2: fuck you.
- 16:27Speaker 1: And in this case, I am you. And we are
- 16:30Speaker 1: not commending. We're not commended. This is what I'm trying
- 16:34Speaker 1: to explain to you. I do know the fact that
- 16:37Speaker 1: you respect disrespect is honestly making me lose respect for
- 16:42Speaker 1: you in this very moment.
- 16:45Speaker 2: Like this. You got to respect disrespect. Hold on. No,
- 16:48Speaker 2: you don't. No, you don't. No, you don't. No, you don't. Balani,
- 16:52Speaker 2: come on, man. You know that you respect disrespect. You
- 16:56Speaker 2: got to respect disrespect. Like, you, like, okay, I'll give
- 17:02Speaker 2: you an example. Just real quick, Bomani, just real quick.
- 17:06Speaker 2: We can get off this. This has been a blissful tangent,
- 17:08Speaker 2: by the way. Let's say Kobe walking the gym, right?
- 17:12Speaker 2: Rest in peace, Kobe. Because the only reason why I
- 17:15Speaker 2: think about Kobe is because he was the one that
- 17:18Speaker 2: everybody wanted to be like. Let's say Kobe walking the gym.
- 17:20Speaker 2: We all playing ball in Equinox, Kobe walking the gym.
- 17:23Speaker 2: Everybody going to be respectful of Kobe, right? Everybody going
- 17:28Speaker 2: to be like, oh my God, Kobe's out here. Can
- 17:31Speaker 2: I set a screen for Kobe? Can I rebound for Kobe?
- 17:34Speaker 2: Can I get an assist to Kobe? Can I get
- 17:36Speaker 2: an assist from Kobe? But see the one nigga that
- 17:39Speaker 2: walking this bitch like, this is my chance. This is
- 17:43Speaker 2: my chance to sun Kobe. That get like a flicked
- 17:47Speaker 2: layup and goes, yeah, nigga. Fuck I'm talking about. That's
- 17:53Speaker 2: the nigga I respect. I respect the one that said,
- 17:58Speaker 2: fuck him. This is my chance to be better than him.
- 18:01Speaker 3: You know who you're saying you respect?
- 18:03Speaker 2: That's the one I respect.
- 18:04Speaker 3: You know who you're saying you respect with that analogy?
- 18:07Speaker 2: Who?
- 18:08Speaker 3: You ride for Karl Malone.
- 18:09Speaker 2: Ah, come on now. No, no, no.
- 18:12Speaker 3: You ride for Karl Malone.
- 18:13Speaker 2: There's some other things. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
- 18:15Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
- 18:18Speaker 1: Let me talk now as I let you go through
- 18:20Speaker 1: that totally nonsensical spiel.
- 18:23Speaker 3: Karl Malone pulled up on Vanessa at that game.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Vanessa asked him if he was going hunting because he
- 18:29Speaker 1: had his country ass clothes on in L.A. And Karl
- 18:33Speaker 1: Malone said to her, yeah, I'm going hunting for Mexican girls. Apparently,
- 18:37Speaker 1: since we respect and disrespect, you respecting the dude that
- 18:40Speaker 1: disrespected Kobe and his queen.
- 18:42Speaker 3: That's you. That's you. That's you. That's you.
- 18:45Speaker 2: Understand what I'm saying now.
- 18:47Speaker 3: I understand clearly what you're saying.
- 18:49Speaker 2: You understand what I'm saying. What you're doing right now
- 18:53Speaker 2: is you're reorienting.
- 18:56Speaker 1: I'm saying that the type of person that you respect
- 18:59Speaker 1: is Karl Malone. That is your teammate.
- 19:03Speaker 2: And in that situation, I'm not saying respect breaking brotherhoods, right?
- 19:08Speaker 2: I wouldn't respect my brother hollering at my girl. I
- 19:12Speaker 2: wouldn't expect my father hollering at my girl. You're breaking covenants.
- 19:18Speaker 2: But if that situation, if that would have come from
- 19:22Speaker 2: one of the catering guys that worked at the party,
- 19:25Speaker 2: I would respect it. If it comes from Karl Malone,
- 19:29Speaker 2: that's your teammate's girl. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's your teammate's girl.
- 19:34Speaker 2: But if it comes from one of the guys that
- 19:37Speaker 2: should not have the hubris to try that, I would
- 19:40Speaker 2: respect it. Plus, Karl Malone, he is known for trying
- 19:43Speaker 2: to get at women he should not be getting at.
- 19:46Speaker 3: Van Lathan, a.k.a. the mailman. That's where we at with this. Hey, mailman,
- 19:51Speaker 3: have you ever thought about smoking crack before?
- 19:54Speaker 2: Have I ever thought about it? No. There's an interesting
- 19:56Speaker 2: conversation that I had with one of my uncles about
- 19:59Speaker 2: smoking crack. Do tell. So, he's passed away now, but
- 20:09Speaker 2: I remember I was talking to him one time, and
- 20:12Speaker 2: he had had some issues with crack. And issues with crack.
- 20:16Speaker 2: The nigga smoked crack. He was into crack. And I
- 20:19Speaker 2: remember he was sober at this point. And so I
- 20:23Speaker 2: asked him, I was like, man, why are you, why crack?
- 20:31Speaker 2: Why would it be crack, man? Like, why crack? And
- 20:34Speaker 2: he goes, that's not a question for me. The question
- 20:39Speaker 2: is not why we are smoking crack. The question is
- 20:44Speaker 2: why y'all are smoking crack. And I was like, what
- 20:46Speaker 2: do you mean? He goes, well, crack, when it came out,
- 20:51Speaker 2: was a new drug for us. It was something to try. Like,
- 20:56Speaker 2: crack come out, 83, 84, 85. It's like, yo, we
- 21:00Speaker 2: was getting high off cocaine in the 70s. The crack
- 21:02Speaker 2: come out, and now we trying to crack. Because that's
- 21:06Speaker 2: a new drug that hit the street to try. We
- 21:09Speaker 2: had no idea. He goes, y'all and y'all generation, y'all know.
- 21:15Speaker 2: And y'all still fucking with it. So the question isn't
- 21:19Speaker 2: why we tried it. We would have cracked guinea pigs.
- 21:22Speaker 2: The question is why y'all see us and are still
- 21:28Speaker 2: doing it. And I never forget that.
- 21:31Speaker 3: That's a fairer point than I ever imagined.
- 21:33Speaker 1: It leads us to a very convenient segue into Hunter
- 21:35Speaker 1: Biden doing his interview for three hours with some people
- 21:38Speaker 1: I'd never heard of. Apparently they seem to have some
- 21:40Speaker 1: measure of legitimacy because they got Hunter Biden to sit down.
- 21:43Speaker 2: For an interview.
- 21:44Speaker 1: Now, I was trying to figure out what city it
- 21:47Speaker 1: was in, you know what I'm saying? And then I
- 21:48Speaker 1: was like, oh, okay, y'all got something completely different going on.
- 21:52Speaker 1: The YouTube news network, I ain't that familiar with that world. Now,
- 21:57Speaker 1: first of all, It takes two minutes to listen to
- 22:00Speaker 1: Hunter Biden and be like, oh, I see how you
- 22:01Speaker 1: are traffic through this world. This man is incredibly charming.
- 22:04Speaker 1: Like in that trial, when that woman was like, yo,
- 22:07Speaker 1: the first time I met him, he was smoking.
- 22:09Speaker 3: Crack, but I really liked him. Like it all like
- 22:12Speaker 3: shines out.
- 22:13Speaker 1: He also said something that I had never considered about
- 22:15Speaker 1: crack smoking. And I'll be honest with you. I heard
- 22:18Speaker 1: him pop some shots at like Axl Rod and Carl
- 22:20Speaker 1: Bill and all of them. but the stuff that's really
- 22:21Speaker 1: got the streets on fire is him talking about crack, right?
- 22:24Speaker 1: He was talking about he himself cooking up crack. And,
- 22:27Speaker 1: you know, as a student of rap music, only people
- 22:31Speaker 1: I ever hear talk about cooking up crack is the
- 22:33Speaker 1: dudes that sell the crack. I had never considered the
- 22:36Speaker 1: idea of people buying the cocaine and making their own
- 22:39Speaker 1: crack at home. I had never really, like, I imagine
- 22:42Speaker 1: that's a great way to save a little money.
- 22:44Speaker 2: Yeah, or to control how pure your crack is. The
- 22:50Speaker 2: Hunter Biden interview just told me that anything can be elevated.
- 22:56Speaker 2: You can elevate anything. You know how people get into
- 22:59Speaker 2: food down as chefs and they go, hey, this is
- 23:01Speaker 2: a taco, but it's an elevated taco. Hey, this is chitlins,
- 23:06Speaker 2: but these are elevated chitlins. You can elevate anything. Hunter
- 23:11Speaker 2: Biden sounded like, and maybe there's a racial component here
- 23:15Speaker 2: because he's a rich white guy that's talking about it.
- 23:17Speaker 2: Maybe you could have got this same crack dissertation. from
- 23:20Speaker 2: anybody that was walking around in any of these places
- 23:22Speaker 2: like this, but maybe the optics of it changed because
- 23:25Speaker 2: it's him, but he got into the purity of crack.
- 23:30Speaker 2: He got into the ritual of crack smoking and why
- 23:34Speaker 2: it's so, he really kind of in a way opened
- 23:38Speaker 2: up a gateway to talk about the actual addictive nature
- 23:42Speaker 2: of it and why it might have the hold on
- 23:44Speaker 2: people that it has other than, I just can't shake
- 23:48Speaker 2: that crack. And part of that has to do with
- 23:51Speaker 2: the fact that he's a white guy, a rich white guy,
- 23:53Speaker 2: but still it was very interesting to listen to.
- 23:55Speaker 3: Well, I felt like a couple of things, right?
- 23:57Speaker 1: One, I thought that he offered plausible explanation as to
- 24:05Speaker 1: how it is that somebody gets addicted to crack, right?
- 24:07Speaker 1: Because basically, here's the thing, right? There aren't that many
- 24:13Speaker 1: people that we think of as being strung out on
- 24:15Speaker 1: crack who get into a position to clean up and
- 24:19Speaker 1: come talk about it, right? White, black, or otherwise, okay?
- 24:23Speaker 1: You get the occasional Glenn Lowry.
- 24:25Speaker 3: I don't know if you're familiar with him.
- 24:26Speaker 2: He's an economics professor. He's a doctor.
- 24:28Speaker 1: Yeah, fairly conservative sort of cat. He had a job
- 24:32Speaker 1: lined up with the cabinet man, but they caught him
- 24:34Speaker 1: with cocaine and he'd be out there smoking crack. Glenn
- 24:36Speaker 1: is somebody who could probably explain to you what the
- 24:38Speaker 1: crack situation is, but the only crack smokers that we
- 24:41Speaker 1: see are the crack smokers.
- 24:43Speaker 3: Like we only see the heads, right?
- 24:45Speaker 1: I tried to explain to somebody once that there was
- 24:46Speaker 1: a such thing as the occasional crack user, which I
- 24:49Speaker 1: didn't believe back in the day, but then I realized
- 24:51Speaker 1: is more people smoking crack than just the fiends that's
- 24:53Speaker 1: on the street, right? So Hunter Biden became the rare
- 24:56Speaker 1: person who had lived the life that allowed him to
- 24:59Speaker 1: tell the world that he had smoked crack. Because as
- 25:01Speaker 1: he pointed out in the interview, you can't just be
- 25:03Speaker 1: out here telling people that you smoke crack. They're going
- 25:05Speaker 1: to judge you. And you're goddamn right we are. We
- 25:08Speaker 1: are absolutely going to judge you for smoking this crack.
- 25:10Speaker 1: So when he was talking about how, you know, he
- 25:12Speaker 1: had like a flow chart basically like the oral fixation
- 25:15Speaker 1: stuff and everything else and it goes in a circle
- 25:17Speaker 1: and the ritual of it and the hand to mouth
- 25:19Speaker 1: and how you start as a child and you're brought
- 25:22Speaker 1: into this whole situation and everything else and I was
- 25:24Speaker 1: like damn this man got all the game like this
- 25:27Speaker 1: just ain't about you being no white man you are
- 25:29Speaker 1: a different white man like you are.
- 25:31Speaker 3: Your father's son if your father you know smoke.
- 25:34Speaker 2: Rocks yeah he's got the charm that comes with the
- 25:41Speaker 2: seasoning that American aristocracy can give you. Almost fumbled that word.
- 25:47Speaker 2: But you know what's funny? My boy, and I'm not
- 25:50Speaker 2: going to mention his name, he's my best friend in
- 25:53Speaker 2: the world, he was a longtime drug dealer. And he
- 25:57Speaker 2: would always say, crackheads don't make you rich. He'd be like,
- 26:01Speaker 2: you don't get rich off crackheads. It ain't got no money.
- 26:04Speaker 2: Crackheads ain't never got no money. He was like, what
- 26:06Speaker 2: keeps me selling crack is the person that work at
- 26:10Speaker 2: your job that has a job and has income coming
- 26:17Speaker 2: in that can continuously buy crack and not just continuously
- 26:22Speaker 2: buy crack, but introduce crack to other people. Like people
- 26:26Speaker 2: that like, they'll smoke crack at a party and people
- 26:30Speaker 2: be like, well, oh my God, if Hunter Biden is
- 26:32Speaker 2: doing this, don't think about Hunter Biden. Think about how
- 26:35Speaker 2: many crackheads Hunter Biden has made. Think about that. Like,
- 26:40Speaker 2: Hunter Biden being a crackhead is one thing, right? But
- 26:44Speaker 2: picture this. Think about Hunter Biden being the rich son
- 26:50Speaker 2: of the vice president or a senator or whomever. You
- 26:55Speaker 2: go to Hunter Biden's house to party or to his
- 26:58Speaker 2: boat or whatever, you think that you own. You like,
- 27:02Speaker 2: oh my God, I'm partying with the top of the
- 27:06Speaker 2: top of American power, wealth, and influence. He break out
- 27:11Speaker 2: the crack, you gonna try it. He break out the crack,
- 27:14Speaker 2: there's a lot of people out there that's gonna be like,
- 27:17Speaker 2: Hunter Biden and broke out the crack. I'm going to
- 27:20Speaker 2: try it. Hunter Biden has made a lot of crackheads
- 27:24Speaker 2: and he's a crack evangelist. He's somebody that can get
- 27:28Speaker 2: out there and tell you about it and get you
- 27:30Speaker 2: into it and the whole nine.
- 27:31Speaker 3: Based on all the virtues.
- 27:33Speaker 2: The virtues of it to a degree that's out of
- 27:36Speaker 2: this world. So he's probably made so many crackheads. It's
- 27:40Speaker 2: somebody right now that's watching that someplace and they fucked
- 27:43Speaker 2: up because they daddy would never the president and they go,
- 27:46Speaker 2: oh my God, Hunter's still on that same shit. So
- 27:51Speaker 2: that they those type of crackheads is what actually keeps
- 27:56Speaker 2: the drug dealers rich because they spread the word of
- 28:01Speaker 2: crack around. And they're to a small degree inside of
- 28:04Speaker 2: communities as well.
- 28:05Speaker 1: So you say in that like crackheads don't get you
- 28:08Speaker 1: don't keep the drug dealers rich with crackheads. They they
- 28:11Speaker 1: they keep. your wheel wells clean, right? Like, they keep
- 28:15Speaker 1: your oil changed. You need somebody to change out the
- 28:18Speaker 1: small block. They got you on that one. That's what
- 28:22Speaker 1: the crackheads do.
- 28:23Speaker 3: Odds and ends.
- 28:25Speaker 2: He said crack users keep you rich. Yes. Crackheads. So.
- 28:30Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. We always hear about the crackheads.
- 28:33Speaker 1: They're always trying to barter in some form or fashion.
- 28:36Speaker 2: This is why this happened, because... And people are going
- 28:39Speaker 2: to be listening to this, they're going to be outraged,
- 28:41Speaker 2: but I don't know what to tell you. This is
- 28:43Speaker 2: the conversations that we used to have. He would tell me,
- 28:45Speaker 2: he would be like, he would be like, there was
- 28:48Speaker 2: one guy, there was a guy in Denham Springs, a
- 28:51Speaker 2: white guy in Denham Springs. Denham Springs is a white enclave,
- 28:56Speaker 2: very racist white enclave, on the outskirts of what would
- 28:59Speaker 2: be considered Baton Rouge proper. And he would be like,
- 29:02Speaker 2: the guy had to sell his television to... get money
- 29:07Speaker 2: to come bring him money for crack. And I was like,
- 29:10Speaker 2: first of all, bro, you got to change your life.
- 29:13Speaker 2: And I was like, secondly, what do you care? He goes,
- 29:16Speaker 2: that just lets me know that he's not going to
- 29:18Speaker 2: be a good customer for too much. He's running, he's
- 29:21Speaker 2: bottoming out. He's getting towards the end of it. He
- 29:25Speaker 2: was like, I would rather him be functional and be
- 29:28Speaker 2: able to do this every week, every couple of days,
- 29:32Speaker 2: couple of times a month to where I knew that money.
- 29:34Speaker 2: But if he's starting to sell shit, That just tells
- 29:36Speaker 2: me that he's bottoming out. He's like, those aren't the
- 29:39Speaker 2: guys that keep me in business. The guys that keep
- 29:41Speaker 2: me in business are people that somewhat have control over
- 29:49Speaker 2: it and can keep coming back and keep coming back
- 29:51Speaker 2: and keep coming back and keep coming back. This also
- 29:53Speaker 2: wasn't a guy that was catching a corner. So he
- 29:56Speaker 2: wasn't on a corner dealing to people on the corner.
- 29:58Speaker 2: He was more of an upscale guy going to your
- 30:02Speaker 2: house and.
- 30:02Speaker 3: All of that stuff. Oh, no, no, okay, okay, not
- 30:03Speaker 3: a wholesaler.
- 30:04Speaker 2: Not a wholesaler, no, we didn't get to that point.
- 30:06Speaker 3: Different clientele.
- 30:08Speaker 1: The more you know, coming back with more next. All right,
- 30:13Speaker 1: we're back on the right time with Van Lathan. On Monday,
- 30:18Speaker 1: I was supposed to do a hit on CNN talking
- 30:20Speaker 1: about Donald Trump trying to change the name back to
- 30:23Speaker 1: the Auras over there. And as it happened, Malcolm Travolta
- 30:28Speaker 1: Warner passed away. And it was kind of interesting because
- 30:30Speaker 1: they were preparing to figure out like how to tell
- 30:34Speaker 1: me that they didn't want me to be on the
- 30:35Speaker 1: show no more, but I was already like, so like
- 30:38Speaker 1: when I sat down for it, TMZ had the report,
- 30:40Speaker 1: but CNN hadn't been able to confirm. And so they
- 30:44Speaker 1: were waiting until they got their confirmation. And then I
- 30:46Speaker 1: think at some point somebody realized, wait, he's black in
- 30:50Speaker 1: his forties. Maybe he can talk about this. So they
- 30:52Speaker 1: had already called on some other black person to talk,
- 30:55Speaker 1: but then they're like, well, would you like to stay
- 30:57Speaker 1: on for the conversation? They didn't mention that they were
- 30:59Speaker 1: killing my other shit, right? They just asked, would you
- 31:01Speaker 1: like to stay on? And I was like, look, I'm here.
- 31:03Speaker 1: I've budgeted this time. We got on and we talked
- 31:06Speaker 1: about it. And bless their hearts, man, because they only
- 31:08Speaker 1: had so many questions, man. The first question that man
- 31:10Speaker 1: asked me was, you know, after, you know, Bill Cosby
- 31:14Speaker 1: and all the things that happened, Malcolm J. Wall Warner
- 31:16Speaker 1: had this to say about that. How do you think about,
- 31:18Speaker 1: what do you think about the way that he handled it?
- 31:19Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, that's question number one. The man just
- 31:22Speaker 1: drowned accidentally.
- 31:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 31:25Speaker 1: I was like, I had to, I had to, I
- 31:27Speaker 1: figured out how to like hit a little L1 on
- 31:29Speaker 1: them and get that.
- 31:30Speaker 3: To where it needs to be.
- 31:31Speaker 1: But I was like, Hey man, that man right there
- 31:34Speaker 1: is in a pinch. Like, you know, a lot of people,
- 31:36Speaker 1: you know, when they go, they got the old bits ready.
- 31:38Speaker 3: They got the questions going.
- 31:39Speaker 1: This is one they had not prepared for.
- 31:41Speaker 3: And that man hit me with that question. And I
- 31:43Speaker 3: was like, man, I got to figure out.
- 31:44Speaker 2: How I'm going to do this. Yeah. It happened live
- 31:47Speaker 2: on higher learning. And it was, uh, it was, it
- 31:50Speaker 2: was pretty shocking. You know what the, I'm coming off
- 31:54Speaker 2: real cynical this morning, but when accomplished people die, it
- 31:59Speaker 2: is always a shock because whatever their accomplishment is, you
- 32:05Speaker 2: feel connected to it. In this case, if Bill Cosby
- 32:09Speaker 2: was the dad of the 80s, then Malcolm Jamal Warner
- 32:13Speaker 2: was the son, right? But there's something else that also
- 32:17Speaker 2: compounds this why I think people have seen so much
- 32:21Speaker 2: from the response is that he was decent and that's tough. They,
- 32:29Speaker 2: for somebody to have been at it, that it shouldn't be,
- 32:33Speaker 2: but for someone to have been in the industry as
- 32:37Speaker 2: long as what he was to have had the career
- 32:40Speaker 2: that he did and not become jaded, um, not become cynical, uh,
- 32:46Speaker 2: not become a jerk, right? He was a, curious guy
- 32:51Speaker 2: he was an artistic guy he was a guy that
- 32:55Speaker 2: looked at the world through the purview of art but
- 32:58Speaker 2: used art to affect the world he was a good
- 33:02Speaker 2: guy like he was a good guy and you go
- 33:07Speaker 2: 54 on vacation with everything survived being a child star
- 33:12Speaker 2: survived the scandal that whoever that guy was, tried to
- 33:16Speaker 2: connect him to. He didn't have anything to do with that, right?
- 33:18Speaker 2: What difference does it make how he responds? We interviewed
- 33:21Speaker 2: him on Higher Learning. We asked him the same questions
- 33:24Speaker 2: you kind of have to about what he thought and
- 33:27Speaker 2: how he would react to that. But even when we did,
- 33:30Speaker 2: he talked about his parents and what they did for
- 33:34Speaker 2: him to keep him safe as a child star in
- 33:37Speaker 2: the 80s, as a man growing into himself in the 90s. And,
- 33:41Speaker 2: you know, on from there, he was just a decent,
- 33:44Speaker 2: good guy. And it's one of those things that feels
- 33:46Speaker 2: like a kick in the gut because you lost an
- 33:50Speaker 2: artist that you could connect with. And you just also
- 33:53Speaker 2: lost somebody that would have been responsible for making more
- 33:56Speaker 2: good people.
- 33:57Speaker 1: You say something interesting on the child star front that
- 33:59Speaker 1: I really hadn't thought about, which was as big as
- 34:02Speaker 1: the Cosby show was and as famous as they all became.
- 34:07Speaker 1: it ain't different strokes, right? Like we don't have the
- 34:10Speaker 1: stories about the children of that show that you had
- 34:14Speaker 1: from other, for whatever reason, right? Like I hadn't really
- 34:17Speaker 1: thought about that, but given the magnitude of how big
- 34:19Speaker 1: and famous everybody really became off of that, it's interesting
- 34:22Speaker 1: that none of them really went down that road. And
- 34:25Speaker 1: I think with Malcolm Jamal Warner, what I find kind
- 34:29Speaker 1: of interesting is that it feels like he wound up
- 34:33Speaker 1: living the life that you would hope that somebody could
- 34:36Speaker 1: live when you make the ridiculous decision to allow your
- 34:40Speaker 1: children to participate in Hollywood at a high level as children, right?
- 34:43Speaker 1: Like you get some bread, it can set you up
- 34:46Speaker 1: for a future that from there you can do the
- 34:48Speaker 1: things that you want to do. That if somebody, if
- 34:51Speaker 1: they can keep you out of trouble and it doesn't
- 34:52Speaker 1: wind up going too far, you got a pad that
- 34:55Speaker 1: lets you be the artist that you want to be later.
- 34:57Speaker 1: Like I had a meeting once with a dude in
- 34:58Speaker 1: LA and he was telling me, the best advice he
- 35:00Speaker 1: ever got from somebody was if you're going to sell out,
- 35:02Speaker 1: do it early.
- 35:03Speaker 3: Right.
- 35:04Speaker 1: Like it's a lot easier to have principles and stuff
- 35:05Speaker 1: after you got some money in your pocket.
- 35:07Speaker 3: And so if you can get the.
- 35:09Speaker 1: Money that you get off of being a child star,
- 35:11Speaker 1: and then from there, you know, there's Malcolm at 80
- 35:14Speaker 1: and the things like that. Right. But Hey, you know,
- 35:16Speaker 1: like that, I don't think that's, that's not at the
- 35:18Speaker 1: top of the resume, but it ain't nothing to be
- 35:19Speaker 1: ashamed of.
- 35:20Speaker 2: Right.
- 35:21Speaker 3: But you get that money early and then you can
- 35:23Speaker 3: do all this stuff that he did for the rest
- 35:25Speaker 3: of his life.
- 35:26Speaker 2: Yeah. He was a poet. He was a, He was
- 35:30Speaker 2: a musician. He was an activist, a thinker, all of
- 35:34Speaker 2: that stuff. And I think that he was having, I
- 35:37Speaker 2: don't want to say a resurgence right now, but he
- 35:40Speaker 2: was finding himself creatively in this part of his life
- 35:43Speaker 2: in a way that from my discussion with him seemed
- 35:47Speaker 2: to be very satisfying for him. And that also for
- 35:54Speaker 2: people that have been following some of the stuff that
- 35:55Speaker 2: he had done recently, it's probably very hard for people
- 35:58Speaker 2: to come to terms with When we grew up, kids
- 36:02Speaker 2: on TV were stars. They weren't ancillary parts of these productions.
- 36:08Speaker 2: Plucky Brewster had her own show. Different Strokes was about
- 36:12Speaker 2: those kids. Webster was about the kid. Silver Spoons was
- 36:17Speaker 2: about the kid. Fresh Prince of Bel-Air even getting into
- 36:20Speaker 2: later on. The children were the centerpiece of those stars.
- 36:23Speaker 2: That's not as big of a deal as much as
- 36:27Speaker 2: it used to be. Netflix does bring back the teen
- 36:30Speaker 2: drama and stuff, but I'm talking about the sitcom where
- 36:33Speaker 2: America's tuning in for the cute kid. That thrust a
- 36:38Speaker 2: lot on those kids all at once. Even the movie ones,
- 36:42Speaker 2: like the two Corys and all that, that put a
- 36:45Speaker 2: lot Robert Downey Jr. on those kids all at once.
- 36:49Speaker 2: And with the fact that the 80s were kind of
- 36:53Speaker 2: a free-for-all, I mean, Bomani, have you ever thought about
- 36:55Speaker 2: the fact that everything that we do to keep children
- 37:00Speaker 2: safe now is actually a reaction to our childhood. Every
- 37:06Speaker 2: single thing that we do to keep kids safe now
- 37:09Speaker 2: is like, because we realized in the 80s it was
- 37:11Speaker 2: kind of just a free-for-all. Your parents would be like,
- 37:13Speaker 2: don't talk to strangers, don't get into a thing with
- 37:15Speaker 2: a white van, because people was talking to strangers and
- 37:19Speaker 2: getting into weird vans with guys giving them candy and
- 37:23Speaker 2: stuff like that. So all the protections and stuff that
- 37:26Speaker 2: they had for us that exists for kids now, where
- 37:30Speaker 2: because our childhoods were so in the wilderness, and then
- 37:32Speaker 2: when you are a child star, you were in Hollywood
- 37:36Speaker 2: with it. But he maintained to live a life with dignity,
- 37:40Speaker 2: where he continued to explore himself. And then he passed
- 37:45Speaker 2: away in an unexpected way. So I think a lot
- 37:47Speaker 2: of people were just in shock yesterday.
- 37:50Speaker 1: It is interesting to me to watch the ways that
- 37:53Speaker 1: people respond to celebrity deaths because i have like i
- 37:58Speaker 1: got a lot of friends that's been to a lot
- 37:59Speaker 1: more funerals than i have right but i feel like
- 38:02Speaker 1: in my life i've been to a disproportionate amount of
- 38:04Speaker 1: like natural causes funerals or like other like innocent bystander
- 38:10Speaker 1: bullet funerals like things in that way um and i
- 38:14Speaker 1: don't I don't think I have the same reaction or
- 38:17Speaker 1: the same relationships with people on screen that a lot
- 38:21Speaker 1: of people have. So I can often feel a little
- 38:24Speaker 1: bit on the outside when people be like, yo, it
- 38:26Speaker 1: feels like a family member died.
- 38:27Speaker 3: No, it doesn't for me at least.
- 38:29Speaker 1: Right. That's not to judge anybody else on their reactions, but,
- 38:33Speaker 1: The Theo Hustable character reminded me of what my brother
- 38:36Speaker 1: was when he was younger, very much. My brother always
- 38:38Speaker 1: talks about that the relationship between Cliff and Theo was
- 38:40Speaker 1: the most realistic representation of fatherhood on television, right? Because
- 38:45Speaker 1: it was always a cat and mouse game, almost, in
- 38:47Speaker 1: how it was played. And I think I've said on
- 38:49Speaker 1: CNN that I think was interesting about the quality of
- 38:52Speaker 1: acting on the show is he was acting as that
- 38:55Speaker 1: character in the age range.
- 38:58Speaker 3: Of that character.
- 39:00Speaker 1: Like he's not that much older in life than he
- 39:03Speaker 1: is on screen. And I think it takes a particular
- 39:06Speaker 1: level of self-awareness and like an understanding of the world
- 39:10Speaker 1: to be able to grasp, call it 16, how a
- 39:13Speaker 1: 14-year-old acts.
- 39:14Speaker 2: Or at 15, right?
- 39:15Speaker 1: Because at 16, you think you're growing and you're not.
- 39:17Speaker 1: To be able to recognize like, no, this is the
- 39:19Speaker 1: way a teenager would handle this sort of thing. Like
- 39:24Speaker 1: the scene where, the regular person scene, the all-time classic,
- 39:28Speaker 1: no wonder you make Ds and everything, right?
- 39:30Speaker 3: Want to be a regular person.
- 39:31Speaker 1: But when he tried to get his ear pierced and
- 39:33Speaker 1: so his dad wouldn't recognize, which is only something a
- 39:36Speaker 1: stupid teenager would come up with.
- 39:38Speaker 3: And they sitting on the bed and they're going like
- 39:40Speaker 3: this because Cliff is trying to get a peek at it.
- 39:42Speaker 3: And they doing that guide around.
- 39:43Speaker 1: It's like, oh no, you nailed what it is to
- 39:45Speaker 1: be a stupid ass teenage boy. in a much different
- 39:49Speaker 1: way than I can recall anybody having really gotten on
- 39:52Speaker 1: a show like that.
- 39:53Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that two things. One, that was really
- 39:57Speaker 2: well said, but two things. The first is that I
- 40:01Speaker 2: think people sometimes feel connected to people on screen because
- 40:07Speaker 2: they have an idea of what they will want their
- 40:09Speaker 2: family to be. So when an actual family member dies...
- 40:14Speaker 2: you have to wrestle with a lot of things and
- 40:17Speaker 2: a lot of them aren't. So there's a part of it.
- 40:20Speaker 2: That's just like, man, I don't get to hug this
- 40:23Speaker 2: person anymore. But then there are so many things that
- 40:26Speaker 2: are left unsaid. There are so many things that you
- 40:29Speaker 2: have to deal with. You wonder if you could have
- 40:32Speaker 2: done anything. If there was like, there's so much, there's
- 40:36Speaker 2: so much emotion there. There's sometimes guilt. There's sometimes shame.
- 40:39Speaker 2: There's sometimes anger. There's all of that. When somebody that's
- 40:42Speaker 2: like family dies, it's just adulation and love that you
- 40:46Speaker 2: have for them. So it's just like, oh my God.
- 40:49Speaker 2: They're not saying that Malcolm Jamal Warner died. They're looking
- 40:51Speaker 2: at him as if he were Theo Huxable. They feel
- 40:54Speaker 2: like this is the end of the life of Theo Huxable.
- 40:56Speaker 2: They felt that close to him because they never had
- 41:00Speaker 2: to have any complicated feelings about it. And it's just
- 41:04Speaker 2: a reminder that what they saw wasn't actually real. So
- 41:07Speaker 2: there's a lot of these parasocial relationships that people have
- 41:11Speaker 2: with people that are on the screen sometimes exist because
- 41:15Speaker 2: fantasy is a very potent part of the human experience,
- 41:18Speaker 2: how you would want things to be. Secondly, with his
- 41:23Speaker 2: portrayal of Theo, you nailed it. Those kids felt like
- 41:28Speaker 2: real kids. They didn't have answers. They weren't doing ridiculously
- 41:36Speaker 2: stupid things like, in the movie war games where you
- 41:40Speaker 2: almost start a thermonuclear war. They were doing real world,
- 41:45Speaker 2: stupid kid things. They wrote them like they were kids.
- 41:48Speaker 2: Like I'm going to a concert. I shouldn't have gone to.
- 41:51Speaker 2: And the concert goes crazy. Like I want an expensive shirt.
- 41:55Speaker 2: I bought a shirt. The shirt is too much money.
- 41:57Speaker 2: I got to take it back. Now my sister makes
- 41:59Speaker 2: the shirt. The shirt looks crazy. They wrote them like
- 42:02Speaker 2: they were kids. They didn't give them too much money.
- 42:05Speaker 2: They gave them just enough for it to be really believable.
- 42:09Speaker 2: And then Cliff and Claire were there to remind the
- 42:13Speaker 2: world that it's their job to take these people and
- 42:17Speaker 2: make real world citizens out of them. And it was
- 42:21Speaker 2: very effective.
- 42:22Speaker 1: And for Cliff and Claire, regardless of how professional you are,
- 42:26Speaker 1: no matter how well you have it together, no matter
- 42:29Speaker 1: what you're provided these kids, they're still fucking idiots.
- 42:33Speaker 2: They're dumb.
- 42:34Speaker 3: Doesn't matter.
- 42:34Speaker 1: There's nothing that you could do to stop the fact
- 42:37Speaker 1: that they're idiots. And that's a lot of like, there's
- 42:40Speaker 1: a longer story to be had about how our childhoods
- 42:43Speaker 1: That the current childhood is a response to our childhood
- 42:46Speaker 1: from people who are the people they are, that they
- 42:48Speaker 1: are very proud of being because they had the childhoods
- 42:51Speaker 1: that we have and have stripped them away. That's a
- 42:55Speaker 1: whole different discussion, right? But I look back on it
- 42:58Speaker 1: and I'm like, look, my parents are professors. I am
- 43:02Speaker 1: very familiar with that world of like the two parents
- 43:04Speaker 1: who got it right while also I know their kids
- 43:07Speaker 1: very very very well and their kids already mixed bag
- 43:11Speaker 1: and bags like we're ever mixed you know what I'm
- 43:14Speaker 1: saying I would ask you this though because the thing
- 43:16Speaker 1: about the parasol relationship I think is interesting because I'm
- 43:18Speaker 1: I realize this part about myself and I'm wondering if
- 43:21Speaker 1: anybody listening can relate to this part which is and
- 43:23Speaker 1: maybe maybe this is a little bit selfish right I
- 43:28Speaker 1: don't listen Two Domingos. But it really hit me when
- 43:33Speaker 1: Takeoff died, in part because they were still current. They
- 43:38Speaker 1: were still doing it. It's like, who knows what else
- 43:41Speaker 1: may have come if this had not happened. I think
- 43:45Speaker 1: Nipsey Hussle is a very similar example when he died.
- 43:47Speaker 1: I wasn't a super fan of his, but I could recognize.
- 43:50Speaker 1: It lands differently with me. You say for them, it's
- 43:54Speaker 1: like Theo Huxtable died. But for me, Theo Huxtable stopped
- 43:57Speaker 1: being a thing in 1992.
- 43:59Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
- 44:00Speaker 1: Like, like when people are far removed, like it was
- 44:02Speaker 1: wild when Prince died and look, you know, I mean,
- 44:06Speaker 1: I talked to you that morning to make sure that
- 44:08Speaker 1: what I was reading was not crazy.
- 44:09Speaker 2: Right. Right.
- 44:10Speaker 3: Um, that was a big.
- 44:11Speaker 1: One for me, but I was still for me, kind
- 44:14Speaker 1: of like what I loved about Prince I had and
- 44:17Speaker 1: would always have. And so from there it got to the,
- 44:20Speaker 1: we all going to die someday territory. And it was
- 44:23Speaker 1: a rest in peace. I mean, like I remember my
- 44:24Speaker 1: brother talking about it that night and it was crazy,
- 44:26Speaker 1: but it didn't feel like, I didn't feel that immediate
- 44:30Speaker 1: shock and grief that people have. And I think it's
- 44:32Speaker 1: maybe because like the utility of those people played in
- 44:34Speaker 1: my lives had already been served and it would always,
- 44:38Speaker 1: it would always be there.
- 44:39Speaker 3: Like that was how I saw it.
- 44:40Speaker 1: And so it's interesting for me to watch people and
- 44:42Speaker 1: the relationships that they have, where to them, Theo Huxtable
- 44:45Speaker 1: continues to be a living, breathing being as opposed to me,
- 44:49Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, that stopped 33 years ago.
- 44:52Speaker 2: Interesting. I think it's, that is actually incredibly interesting. I
- 44:56Speaker 2: think that a lot of people probably feel that way.
- 44:58Speaker 2: but there's also a way that I think sometimes people
- 45:01Speaker 2: feel to where they look at these figures and people
- 45:07Speaker 2: as everlasting. And then their death, the death of the
- 45:10Speaker 2: people is a reminder that they're not right. So Prince's music,
- 45:15Speaker 2: like just take Prince, for example, the morning of Prince's
- 45:19Speaker 2: music is the thought that Prince had created something that
- 45:23Speaker 2: is eternal, that Prince as a force, there's a, I
- 45:29Speaker 2: can't remember which movie it was. I think Michael Madsen
- 45:32Speaker 2: delivers the line, but I can't remember which movie it was.
- 45:34Speaker 2: And it says, John Wayne dead. Oh, it's in Donnie Brasco.
- 45:38Speaker 2: And he's looking at the thing. It says, John Wayne dead.
- 45:41Speaker 2: And then he goes, how can John Wayne die? Now,
- 45:46Speaker 2: if you had read some of John Wayne's interviews and
- 45:49Speaker 2: got some of his thoughts, maybe you'd be pretty pleased
- 45:52Speaker 2: that John Wayne kicked the bucket, but whatever. Um, I
- 45:56Speaker 2: think sometimes these people become institutions and their death is
- 46:01Speaker 2: a reminder that everything is sort of temporary. Like the
- 46:06Speaker 2: death of Michael Jackson, people look at Michael Jackson, they
- 46:09Speaker 2: think of thriller. I want you back. They don't even
- 46:11Speaker 2: think about some of the other more controversial aspects of
- 46:14Speaker 2: his life. They think about their connection to someone and
- 46:16Speaker 2: the fact that that someone can no longer enjoy being
- 46:20Speaker 2: who they are. It's, The relationship that people have with
- 46:25Speaker 2: celebrities is really interesting because it's not just that they
- 46:29Speaker 2: want the celebrity, that they want to be that person.
- 46:33Speaker 2: They're happy that that person is that person. And I
- 46:36Speaker 2: saw this at TMZ. It's like, you like the fact
- 46:40Speaker 2: that Leonardo DiCaprio can be on a boat. You like
- 46:44Speaker 2: Michael Jackson being Michael Jackson. You like Prince being Prince.
- 46:48Speaker 2: You want them to enjoy them being who they are.
- 46:51Speaker 2: Like that's why people are so invested into that stuff.
- 46:54Speaker 2: So part of it is that you can't enjoy them anymore.
- 46:57Speaker 2: But part of the mourning was that Prince doesn't get
- 47:01Speaker 2: to perform Purple Rain anymore. You don't get to see it,
- 47:05Speaker 2: but he doesn't get to do it. And because that
- 47:07Speaker 2: connection that people feel to them is like there's a
- 47:10Speaker 2: oneness there that is really interesting about the human experience. Yeah.
- 47:14Speaker 1: Like, you know, look, I would have seen Prince play
- 47:16Speaker 1: Purple Rain on every tour at the tour at the end. Right.
- 47:19Speaker 1: And it's interesting because I didn't quite view it that
- 47:23Speaker 1: way with him because you're right. Like I think with
- 47:25Speaker 1: Michael Jackson and I'm not really a Michael Jackson guy,
- 47:27Speaker 1: but I always felt like from people with Michael Jackson,
- 47:31Speaker 1: they felt like he might still have one more in him. Like,
- 47:35Speaker 1: you know how it was when Mike Tyson fought Lennox
- 47:36Speaker 1: Lewis and we just kept thinking that maybe for one night,
- 47:40Speaker 1: Mike Tyson could dial it up one more time, right?
- 47:43Speaker 1: He was clearly not this dude anymore, but we always,
- 47:45Speaker 1: and I think Michael Jackson in particular was the one
- 47:47Speaker 1: that people felt like.
- 47:49Speaker 3: One more time, he might be able to dial it up.
- 47:52Speaker 1: And I do think that maybe that's part of the
- 47:54Speaker 1: effect from person to person is whether you think that
- 47:56Speaker 1: like one more time, they could dial up something.
- 48:02Speaker 2: The Mike Tyson of it all, I hate that when
- 48:05Speaker 2: people say of it all, but I just had to
- 48:06Speaker 2: do it. That needs to be studied because that feeling
- 48:12Speaker 2: about Mike Tyson has been one of the most enduring
- 48:15Speaker 2: things in sports culture. That happened like earlier this year
- 48:20Speaker 2: or whatever it was, maybe last year. Whenever the Mike Tyson,
- 48:23Speaker 2: Jake Paul thing was happening, people were like, yeah, Mike's 57. Yeah,
- 48:28Speaker 2: he's had a ton of injuries. Yeah, but you know,
- 48:30Speaker 2: it's Mike Tyson. It only takes one shot. And I
- 48:33Speaker 2: was telling people, this is not going to go like
- 48:36Speaker 2: y'all think it's going to go. Like, reality is real.
- 48:40Speaker 2: And he's old. But Mike Tyson lived off that. It
- 48:45Speaker 2: is Mike Tyson thing for years. He literally had to
- 48:49Speaker 2: have his shield ripped off his body in the ring.
- 48:53Speaker 2: Not by Lennox Lewis, by the way. By Danny Williams.
- 48:57Speaker 2: by guys that we were like, okay, it's really over, right?
- 49:01Speaker 2: And even when that happened, we mourned the death of
- 49:05Speaker 2: Mike Tyson dominant boxing. People just need something and someone
- 49:10Speaker 2: to believe in. And the one thing that really stops
- 49:14Speaker 2: you more than anything from believing that the people that
- 49:18Speaker 2: you admire are superhuman is when they die. Because when
- 49:22Speaker 2: they die, you are reminded they are just humans capable
- 49:27Speaker 2: of super things. They are not super humans. And I
- 49:32Speaker 2: think sometimes that's a little bit of a mindfuck for people.
- 49:36Speaker 1: Yeah, I wrote after Prince died, I was like, dying
- 49:39Speaker 1: is the only ordinary thing he ever did.
- 49:42Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
- 49:43Speaker 1: It's impossible to believe that that man could do something
- 49:46Speaker 1: so ordinary. And I'll ask you this question kind of
- 49:49Speaker 1: as we get to the end here. Is it better
- 49:54Speaker 1: that we waited to talk about Malcolm Jamal Warner and
- 49:57Speaker 1: get to the places we got to after talking about
- 50:01Speaker 1: the crack or should we talked about the crack after? Like,
- 50:05Speaker 1: you know, should we have gotten people to this like
- 50:07Speaker 1: heartfelt emotional place and then got us.
- 50:09Speaker 3: To the crack? Like, I'm taking inventory. I'm doing this
- 50:13Speaker 3: right now for us, for the people.
- 50:15Speaker 1: Like, as I thought about it, I was like, wow,
- 50:17Speaker 1: we just had an excellent, like excellent 20, 30 minutes
- 50:20Speaker 1: of this, right?
- 50:21Speaker 3: And I'm like, damn, maybe I shouldn't have got us
- 50:24Speaker 3: to the crack. You know, so quick.
- 50:27Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't have been out here talking about the
- 50:29Speaker 1: prison rodeo and everything else.
- 50:30Speaker 3: Maybe I should have gotten right.
- 50:32Speaker 2: To the emotions.
- 50:32Speaker 3: But I wanted to talk about crack.
- 50:34Speaker 1: And your insights about the crack and the market research
- 50:38Speaker 1: and everything else was all so fascinating. But I just
- 50:43Speaker 1: wondered if I had done this wrong.
- 50:44Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying?
- 50:45Speaker 2: You know what, Bo? Every... There's so many people that
- 50:50Speaker 2: are that are casted in the role of the black
- 50:55Speaker 2: Larry David, but I'm not so sure that Larry David
- 51:00Speaker 2: isn't the white Bomani Jones. What be going on? I'm
- 51:09Speaker 2: not so sure that he's not the white Bomani Jones. Nah, man,
- 51:13Speaker 2: the conversation. I'm just saying. I'm just saying. So this
- 51:20Speaker 2: is the thing with me.
- 51:21Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? When it comes to those
- 51:23Speaker 3: things is.
- 51:24Speaker 1: Every now and then you got to figure out a
- 51:26Speaker 1: way to put a pin in it, but you.
- 51:27Speaker 3: Don't want it to be down.
- 51:28Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
- 51:29Speaker 3: Sometimes you got to scratch it in some heat. And
- 51:33Speaker 3: then get it right there.
- 51:33Speaker 1: And then people be like, oh, yeah, I forgot about
- 51:36Speaker 1: that jam.
- 51:37Speaker 3: Yeah, he played it earlier.
- 51:38Speaker 2: It was hitting there.
- 51:39Speaker 3: We can listen to it one more time. You know
- 51:41Speaker 3: what I'm saying?
- 51:42Speaker 2: Word, word. No, I think it rolled out the way
- 51:44Speaker 2: it was supposed to because, you know, the story about
- 51:48Speaker 2: you being on CNN when he passed away, It's the
- 51:51Speaker 2: same thing that happened on Higher Learning. Like, I legitimately,
- 51:54Speaker 2: me and Rachel are talking about Stephen Colbert or something else,
- 51:57Speaker 2: and you can see it on the recording. Higher Learning
- 52:00Speaker 2: on the Ring of Podcast Network, by the way. Go
- 52:02Speaker 2: check it out. You can see me go. And then,
- 52:06Speaker 2: I mean, it's me and her, but we've had him
- 52:09Speaker 2: on the show. We've talked to him. We have to
- 52:12Speaker 2: figure out how we contextualize his life real quick. And
- 52:16Speaker 2: I think a lot of people are still kind of
- 52:17Speaker 2: struggling and dealing with that. Dog, I think people... Do
- 52:21Speaker 2: you know that the Prince thing, if I remember correctly,
- 52:24Speaker 2: I don't think Prince got his just due for his death.
- 52:26Speaker 2: And I'll tell you why. I think the Prince thing,
- 52:31Speaker 2: if I remember correctly, and I always blame Charlamagne for this.
- 52:36Speaker 2: I'm going to blame him for it right now. The
- 52:38Speaker 2: Prince thing happened the same weekend as Birdman put some
- 52:43Speaker 2: respect on my name. Wow. And so I think Birdman
- 52:48Speaker 2: put some respect on my name actually muted some of
- 52:53Speaker 2: the discussion and the talk about the life of Prince.
- 52:57Speaker 2: Because I'm pretty sure, because this was a, I remember
- 53:01Speaker 2: how TMZ broke the story of Prince passing away. I
- 53:04Speaker 2: remember how we got the story. I'm pretty sure that
- 53:07Speaker 2: Birdman put some respect on my name was either a
- 53:11Speaker 2: couple of days after or that weekend. And I always thought, man,
- 53:16Speaker 2: Birdman owns, owes the Prince's estate. an apology for making
- 53:21Speaker 2: everybody talk about, put some respect on my name for five,
- 53:24Speaker 2: six days in a row when we should have been
- 53:26Speaker 2: talking about Purple Rain.
- 53:28Speaker 1: Timing is so interesting, right? Farrah Fawcett dies right before
- 53:30Speaker 1: Michael Jackson dies.
- 53:31Speaker 2: Same thing.
- 53:32Speaker 1: Yep.
- 53:32Speaker 3: Right? Like, like there's that one.
- 53:34Speaker 1: Um, there was another one that I just thought about,
- 53:37Speaker 1: but I was in Paris when Prince died. I went
- 53:39Speaker 1: to Paris to interview Tata Hossie for Playboy. And so
- 53:43Speaker 1: I was, I was immersed in it. Right. And you know,
- 53:46Speaker 1: my social media feed was all of it. Like I, I,
- 53:50Speaker 1: It how the news cycle. Oh, this is what I
- 53:53Speaker 1: was thinking about. James Brown died on Christmas Day.
- 53:56Speaker 2: Oh, shit. I don't even remember that. Yeah.
- 53:58Speaker 3: Exactly, right? James Brown died on Christmas Day.
- 54:00Speaker 1: And then, by the way, later we find out that
- 54:01Speaker 1: James Brown may have been murdered, and that didn't even, like,
- 54:04Speaker 1: make traction. James Brown's the baddest motherfucker that ever lived,
- 54:07Speaker 1: and that never really got the traction.
- 54:09Speaker 3: But Prince died. Prince died three months after David Bowie died, right?
- 54:14Speaker 1: And, like, with Bowie, in line with what I was saying,
- 54:16Speaker 1: Bowie had it set that when he died, a new
- 54:18Speaker 1: album would come out.
- 54:19Speaker 3: And it was good.
- 54:20Speaker 1: And the one he had put out before that was
- 54:21Speaker 1: also good. But it was, like, your friendly reminder that
- 54:24Speaker 1: David Bowie is still a bad motherfucker, and he died.
- 54:26Speaker 1: You know, like those hit like differently. Damn, I just
- 54:31Speaker 1: figured out how to get us out on a happy
- 54:32Speaker 1: note talking about crack. So Van Lathan, Van Lathan, check
- 54:37Speaker 1: him out on the Ringer. It's been the 11th crack
- 54:40Speaker 1: commandment here. Don't, don't, if I just say, once he,
- 54:44Speaker 1: once he sell his TV, he'll get no more rock
- 54:47Speaker 1: from me. Cause you know, it's about to be, it's
- 54:50Speaker 1: about to be bad news.
- 54:51Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? My brother, I appreciate you.
- 54:54Speaker 2: Always, man. Appreciate what you're doing, brother. Keep it up.
- 54:56Speaker 2: All right, man.
- 54:57Speaker 3: Be good.
- 54:57Speaker 1: And ladies and gentlemen, thanks so much for joining us
- 54:59Speaker 1: here on The Right Time. We do this three times
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