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Actress Stella Damasus Fires Back At Vanguard For Calling Her A Husband Snatcher · DidiLawren

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  Hello, and welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lorenzo who defy and this is bunted.
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  Lauren. See, how are you all doing?
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  I hope you're doing great for today's episode.
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  I mean, the internet, this week has been very heavy on the
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  internet, especially Nigeria because of the passing of Davido
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  son. If I Adela care, I wasn't Our
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  condolences to them. And we wish the family, the
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  fortitude, to be at loss. And at the back of this, a whole
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  lot of thing has come up on social media.
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  People, expressing their anger, people expressing the whole lot
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  of things. Now, today's episode is about
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  Stella Nollywood actress, Stella the muscles and still the
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  muscles. She started acting in the early
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  90s as far back as 92. She has acted in so many movies
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  with no sir. Apple Nollywood, actual actors
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  and actresses at the moment. So, Stella is a veteran or
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  ludicrous. She is an award multiple
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  award-winning actress and people loved her because she's so
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  sweet. Jesus, sweet personality.
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  The good girl kind of vibe and people are drawn to her.
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  So, Stella got married in the late 90s to, the latest je are
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  bordering, and although they were very happy to have two,
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  lovely children, Bottom J is family was kind of accusing
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  Stella because there instead of you know, isn't Hollywood
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  actors? Or was in Hollywood actress and
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  they had issues with that because they said she in there
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  was infidelity accusations at that point.
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  So they were happy living happily together and then in
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  2004 je slumped and died and this was so devastating, you
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  know, everybody was rallying around Stella and you know, No,
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  she was very young and she married very early.
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  They met when she was a teenager.
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  She married very early. They had their children very
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  early. So there's about 45 years old
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  now. So you can imagine in 2004 how
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  young she was to be, we do at that point in time, and then
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  giant family were not causing any slacks.
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  Because they were like, oh she in fact was in a movie.
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  We do that she stirred in. And according to the story The
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  said the movie is more like her life story.
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  Re but nobody knows the whole truth.
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  But according to the story, I mean, she played that character
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  very well that people will kind of relating her life to that
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  movie, but she's an actress. So you cannot even start saying,
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  no, that was our life. So, after the death of her
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  husband, the late J Abu during still after dating.
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  Again, after three years, she met 103 bear.
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  They got married and the marriage only lasted for Like
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  seven months because he allegedly there was infidelity
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  issue on both sides teller was like a legend that he was
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  verbally abusive to her and all that.
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  So people were still seeing still, I know just which goal my
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  God. I was born died.
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  She met this person. I was bad to her know that so
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  POs to she was still like the Nollywood sweetheart at that
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  point in time because you know that we had the life of a much
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  larger larger Kennedy, who was married Boys, playing kind of
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  the Aristo kind of rules. We had Genevieve in Nigeria or
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  singular that point, but was playing.
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  I snatch a boyfriend kind of roofs.
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  Oh, ha Stella said I was always playing the married woman, the
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  sweets, you know, wife and all that.
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  So people really was drawn to her personality.
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  So after her marriage and very big crashed.
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  Stella was two very active in the movie industry, she was
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  still getting rules and all that in 2011.
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  Rumors that are flying. That Stella was dating a married
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  Nollywood producer. Daniel, I can't even pronounce
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  its own name so I don't want to spoil the whole thing.
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  I'm not even going to try. So and then it was married to
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  Doris Simmons and Doris had they both had a son and people like
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  you know Doris came out because according to Doris Stella was
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  our friend, she took their life in after the whole Fiasco with
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  her second husband she was To get into the yoga movie industry
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  and Doris was kind of trying to help her because her husband was
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  a very massive Nollywood producer that point, but Dory
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  started suspecting that Stella and her husband, something was
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  going fishing with Stella and her husband, Stella denied it,
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  Daniel denied, the whole room people were thinking Doris was,
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  you crazy for thinking that Nollywood sweethearts that our
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  muscles will be dating? In a married, man, her husband
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  for that matter in 2014. Daniel and Stella made a
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  relationship. Public, people are scratching
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  their heads, they were and then Danny will still actually
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  married, but then he was not demanding separation from his
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  wife because, you know, they couldn't keep it secret anymore.
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  Doris came out and cry that you see what she was missing.
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  All this while that Stella has successfully snatched her
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  husband, everybody was angry because Cause, you know, this is
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  nalu sweethearts and they have suspected that she or they have
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  heard that she was trying to. She was dating a married man,
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  and she had denied it and people believed her.
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  So people felt betrayed like, Stella we trusted you.
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  How can you do this to us? Like, why would you even date a
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  married man? You know, you've been married
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  before you are, you know, how hard it is to stay in a
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  marriage? Why would you do that to another
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  woman still? Like Amazon said she did not
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  snatch anybody's husband, do that.
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  Daniel is an adult. He chose to leave his wife and
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  follow her not even anger. The whole lot of people I mean,
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  she went from Nollywood sweetheart to a husband snatcher
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  to home breaker. To people can turn on you.
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  Especially fans fans can turn on you and they turned on Stella.
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  They were angry with her. They were like why would you
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  even do this? And because Reese was always
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  online crying. Oh my God, my husband, my
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  marriage has ended my home was perfect until Stella came.
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  And you know, putting the heartstrings of people.
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  Finally, the heat was too much for Stella and Daniel they
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  decided to relocate to America. Now, this was even more fishy
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  because at that point, don't you suppose not have way that they
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  were making plans to relocate to America mean they had this song
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  together, she had a son with Daniel so she was with your son.
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  After that, public breakup, one day, Daniel came and said, well,
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  he wants to take the stone out, blah, blah, blah.
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  She gave him the stone and the next thing she was hearing was
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  that Daniel and Stella in America with her son, Doris was
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  kind of, you know, running around running helter-skelter in
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  Marty was a massive social media outcry because they felt that
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  Stella. You have taken This Woman's
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  husband, why take her son, even if you're going to relocate,
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  America with him. Why do you have to take us on or
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  even if you guys who have to take the sun?
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  I don't, you have an agreement with the mother of the child
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  before, you know, taking that child and relocating to America
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  or wherever you're going with that.
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  Child. It was, I mean Stella situation
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  went from bad to worse because at the end of the day, they were
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  blaming her. They sent she orchestrated the
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  whole thing, you know. Nigeria.
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  Now, they never blame the man, they always blame the woman.
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  The other woman basically Stella to call the heat.
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  So they relocated to America human rights activist was
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  involved, everybody, all the whole Yoruba actresses carried
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  it, like a community ahead. They were all on social media
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  advocating, bashing Stella and, you know?
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  Well, so I was already in America, she didn't even care.
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  She was, she was there living her best life with her children
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  to Children, the husband? Bill is about marriage, the
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  husband Daniel and the son of Dorothy Simmons, they were
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  playing house, they were playing happy family and then in 2019
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  speculation started, you know, flying here and there that
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  Daniel has moved out of their house in Dallas.
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  I moved to wherever he chose to move to and that their
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  relationship is having issues. People came out online are
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  celebrated, I mean, people will have P, people will have Because
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  they said, yes, you know Karma, there is, God is walking that
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  karma is this karma? Is that camera is catching up
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  with Stella and all that in 2020.
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  Daniel, actually filed for divorce and they got divorced in
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  2020, ever since then Stella has maintained a low profile.
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  Shall celebrated her husband's birthday, and that's
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  anniversary. Every year, her first husband,
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  which is Jaya bordering. I think that was our first love
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  sushi. Regardless of the marriage was
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  saying, she was always tell abbreviating him.
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  She kept his memory alive. She kept my life on social media
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  with pictures and all that and that did not change even after
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  the whole thing. So, her daughters were all groan
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  graduated and then she started segment on social media on
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  Instagram where she does ask Stella podcast, she basically
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  called it Estella and people sending Messages to ask her
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  questions and she answers them two questions.
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  So there was this particular lady according to Stellar the
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  sent an email about her life. Basically, she got married to
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  somebody, she saw all the red flags for, she ignored, the red
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  flags and Gamma is that person. And then it turned out to be the
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  biggest mistake of her life. Because there were so many
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  things that she overlooked and then all those things came to
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  bite at the at the end of the whole thing.
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  So she was talking about this in additional card.
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  Some people that, you know, don't ignore it, Flags it just
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  basic advice that anybody can anybody with a podcast,
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  especially if you're doing acts something segments, people
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  sending questions and you sought out, you know, you try to advise
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  them. People took it personal because
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  said that, how can you be advising somebody?
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  I mean this is your situation. People felt that that segment
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  was so much like Hi, life, story and bloggers around with it,
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  stay with, in causing, and joining the whole story posting
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  it online. Saying that Stella, you know,
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  the husband's Nature has not become advisor, blah, blah,
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  blah. I think what actually go to
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  Stella was that Vanguard? I don't know why that pain High
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  Lords, but Vanguard newspaper, which is a very reputable.
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  According to Stella a very reputable newspaper actually
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  published A story. I mean, they took the advice
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  segments that she did or the letter that the lady roots to
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  her, they took that segment and said it was her life story.
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  So, Stella came online, she was boiling, still, I said that's
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  David's, son, just died. She won an award.
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  She did not post anything about her award, just because of the
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  everybody is mourning. The death of me fine.
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  But all Vanguard could do was to publish lies about her.
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  Her Stellar was not happy. Stella made a almost 30 minutes
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  video raving and ranting on Vanguard the Vanguard did this
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  and Vanguard did that, I mean I listened to her runs and all I
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  could think about is that Daniel who started this whole drama,
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  now he has moved on nobody's even talking about, Daniel, I
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  mean you are the one taking the hits regardless of how good you
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  are regardless of how. I mean she was not lose That's
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  regardless of how you try to advise people at this point.
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  People are always going to look at you as husband Snapchat.
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  And I started thinking I was like, is it really worth it?
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  If you marry only say these things.
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  If you're married, man is coming to you to tell you and I am
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  married. My marriage is no longer working
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  talk to the first wife asked for it.
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  See, I've stopped pacing, is your client is?
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  Your mother is your mother has your marriage ended.
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  It because these people don't come and tell you, oh, we are,
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  we've been separated, our just trying to follow the Vols.
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  My wife is the new paints, their wife blue black devil and then
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  you're thinking, okay. This man, all these things that
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  this man has told me. He is, he seems like a nice
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  person at the wife is a witch and then you now start dating
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  that person, not knowing that that man and wife, according to
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  the wife, maybe they are happily married.
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  Meaningful from home perspective, she had a very
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  loving husband and then she's looking at you.
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  Like, you came and destroyed her happy home while it was the
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  husband that took his hand and he deletes Paw Patrol and lift
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  the whole thing up and burn down the home.
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  But who is going to take the rap, who is going to take the
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  blame of the whole thing. It is the other woman.
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  So I always tell people, you know, before you start dating
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  that man with a child. What i is my do not because some
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  people, they will tell you, I am partially married.
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  What do you mean by your partially married?
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  Because maybe they have a child with somebody and that person
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  sometimes they do introduction. So, as far as they're concerned,
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  they're partially married or to that woman, that they've done
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  introduction on. She feels that she is a married
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  woman. She's living with this person.
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  She's happily married to this person.
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  According to her, according to her own understanding, she is
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  married to the person But the man who tell you all we are
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  partially married. Oh, she's just a baby mama.
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  Oh, she tried. She used the child to trap me.
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  They tell you different stories, different lies.
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  And I'd end of the day. It is always the other woman
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  that will get the blame. I mean, we talked about Messier
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  eBay snatching somebody's husband, but this man is a full
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  grown up daughter. Full-blooded human being that
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  made a decision to leave his wife and follow me, sir, Be so
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  regardless of how we want to blame second wife or side chick
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  or everything, blame the man and then the women in the whole
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  center of the situation, especially the second wife
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  before the side chick had, as the case may be, because psychic
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  is always one that turns out to be destroyed.
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  Now, the third wife, make sure that for your, for your sanity,
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  for especially in Africa, nobody's going to believe the
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  man, they're always going to blame you.
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  I mean, Stella is coming. Now to cry, you know maybe the
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  Whole 30 minutes video raving and ranting about people
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  disrespecting her. Oh you brought upon yourself.
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  You brought up a good point yourself before you date a
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  married, man. Where are the man is telling you
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  that the wife is T, indeed, Jezebel and devil.
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  That just in human form, do your findings, make sure you talk to
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  the woman. If the woman is not telling Yes,
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  I don't want or I was not our way at least.
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  Now you can get some fat from you can let her know.
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  See, I don't know, I don't know. I just wish, you know, Stella
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  all the best. I mean, I don't think that it's
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  been intense on an image. I don't think there's any
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  redeemable way, she can come out of this situation because even
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  if she's marrying again, people are always going to address her.
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  Stella Dawnbreaker, Stella, dear husband, snatcher regardless of
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  the advice or help him that she's giving other people that
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  is always going to be her identity, which is easy worth
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  it. It's not worth it.
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  I mean, I don't know, I don't know.
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  Give me a comment in the comment section.
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  Has a married man, approached you and told you my God, my wife
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  is the divorce, my wife is not doing this, and I mean, I don't
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  know what these men are thinking, you cannot, you know,
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  predict what they are thinking about.
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  You can control your actions. Have you been in a situation
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  like people? They approached you and you
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  realize that this man everything he said was a lie or when you
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  happy to be the side chick because of benefit that you're
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  getting regardless of the passion that you're going to get
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  online. Because I mean we're talking
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  about oh no FIFA. Who is marrying wife?
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  Every other markets day and these women are Happy to be in
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  that situation. So regardless of how we want to
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  think that polygamy is I think as am I talking about, you know,
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  only of a mile in the other video that all animals are equal
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  but some are more equal than the other.
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  Regardless of how we want to think that polygamy is a bad
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  thing. There are some people who accept
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  these themes. So if a married man is coming to
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  you to tell you that they want to date.
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  You if you're happy with polygamy, make Sure that the
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  other woman the first wife or the second wife for the third
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  wife is in line with that agreements if everybody aligned
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  and you can go ahead and do it. But if you are thinking okay I
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  can cushion this, whatever comes with it, whatever comes with
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  polygamy, whatever backlash, I am going to get as long as I'm
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  in my private jet crying. I am happy to take that backlash
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  if you happy. I mean people have different
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  threshold of Tolerance. If I can tolerate people raining
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  insult on you every post or every step you take.
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  Then go ahead and do these things.
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  Go ahead and do it. So thank you very much for
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  watching today's episode, please like like like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye.
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  Bye. I can tolerate people raining
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  insult on you every post or every step you take.
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  Then go ahead and do these things.
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  Go ahead and do it. So thank you very much for
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  watching today's episode, please like like like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye.
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  Bye.