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2nd DATE UPDATE: Travis & Kali · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
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  Speaker 2: Ridge Goads.
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  Speaker 3: For Second Date Update. You meet somebody, you got a date,
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  Speaker 3: you have a great time. You expect there to be
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  Speaker 3: a second date. It doesn't happen, So you come to us.
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  Speaker 3: That's what Travis is doing. Travis, Oh, what's up, man,
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  Speaker 3: you're on the air. Tell us about your dainty situation.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my god, guys, I'm so confused.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we can help. Awesome.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, So I met this girl a few weeks ago,
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  Speaker 4: and I thought we had an amazing first date, you know,
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  Speaker 4: like we were laughing we will, but the conversation was
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  Speaker 4: just effortless, you know. And she's, Oh my god, she's
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  Speaker 4: like the dream person for me. She's super athletic, you know,
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  Speaker 4: she's played sports all of her life, and she's got
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  Speaker 4: family values. She's just really really cool. You know. I
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  Speaker 4: feel like she's down to earth, she's easy to be around,
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  Speaker 4: and I, you know, I thought it would work out,
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  Speaker 4: you know, and I wasn't the one that was like
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  Speaker 4: pushing for another date she was, so I was like
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  Speaker 4: what she was already talking about, you know, planning what
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  Speaker 4: we should do, and I was like, wow, this is
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  Speaker 4: this is going to go somewhere, right, Oh, I don't know,
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  Speaker 4: like ever since we left that date, everything's changed. You know,
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  Speaker 4: she's she doesn't go to me completely because like she'll
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  Speaker 4: text back maybe like two or three days later, but
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  Speaker 4: it used to be so much faster, you know, and
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  Speaker 4: then conversations just they don't go anywhere. So I don't
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  Speaker 4: know nothing, nothing's happened since. And I've just been playing
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  Speaker 4: everything in my head, just trying to figure out if
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  Speaker 4: I said something wrong or I turned her off or something,
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  Speaker 4: and you know, like I don't want to be desperate, right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, justicing back every like two or three days. To me,
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  Speaker 1: it's like she's like slowly letting you down, like doesn't
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  Speaker 1: necessarily want to hurt your feelings. I completely ghosting you.
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  Speaker 1: But it does seem like she's not interested anymore for.
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  Speaker 4: Sure, right, Like she's just like she was so excited.
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  Speaker 4: But now it's like was this really a connection? Was
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  Speaker 4: it a misunderstanding?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 4: Am I crazy? Like I don't know what's happened.
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  Speaker 3: You said that you weren't the one pushing for a
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  Speaker 3: second date, so she.
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  Speaker 2: Was mm hmm.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: How did the first date end? Did you guys kiss
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  Speaker 2: good night?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 4: We hugged, Yeah, we hugged, but it was like a
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  Speaker 4: really long kind of you know, sensual hug and sensual hug.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, what's that? That's a lot of arms moving.
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  Speaker 2: Could you show me what a sensual hug is?
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  Speaker 3: So you're hugging them, You're like, oh, that's how long?
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  Speaker 2: Would you say the hug lasted? Travis?
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  Speaker 4: Probably about like twenty seconds?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's a long sensual hug.
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  Speaker 3: It's a sensual hug. But turned her off right when
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  Speaker 3: you said that she was the one planning the second date?
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  Speaker 3: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 2: Like, what if that was the case, why wouldn't you
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  Speaker 2: just go right?
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  Speaker 3: How did you interpret that as? Maybe you misinterpreted that?
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  Speaker 3: Like what was she saying to you?
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  Speaker 2: Take care of have a nie?
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, the next time we
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  Speaker 4: should like we should totally go out to this park
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  Speaker 4: and we can have a picnic and oh.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, you know okay, okay, all right, well hey man,
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  Speaker 3: I've never had that happen on this segment before, So
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  Speaker 3: that's very interesting. We're gonna call her then, we'll get
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  Speaker 3: her on the line, and we're gonna find out why
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  Speaker 3: she's blowing you off, dude, because that's just uncool. So
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  Speaker 3: all right, Travis, what's her name? Callie Cali? All right,
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  Speaker 3: we'll get Cali on the line. Next. Second Date update
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  Speaker 3: continues next. By the way, eight seven seven nine three
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  Speaker 3: whatever you think is going on with second Date update
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  Speaker 3: to nine six eight ninety three. It continues next with
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  Speaker 3: John Jay and Rich, John Jay and Rich. While we
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  Speaker 3: were in the middle of second Date update, you got
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  Speaker 3: Travis and Calli.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Travis is confused. He thought the date was so great.
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  Speaker 2: They laughed, they talked, He called her his dream girl.
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  Speaker 2: In fact, he wasn't the one that asked for a
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  Speaker 2: second date.
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  Speaker 3: She was.
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  Speaker 2: But since then she's been soft ghosting him. She's not
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  Speaker 2: gone completely, but she's slowly turning into a vapor. What
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  Speaker 2: went wrong? Was it the sensual hug?
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  Speaker 3: Let's find out. That's a good recap, Travis. You agree
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  Speaker 3: with all that, Yeah, all right, let's get Calli online.
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  Speaker 3: You stay quiet right until we can get some info
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  Speaker 3: out of her. By the way, how long ago was
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  Speaker 3: this date?
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  Speaker 4: This was like two weeks ago.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, you stay quiet. R dude, stay quiet,
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  Speaker 3: we'll get her on.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hi is this CALLI?
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  Speaker 4: Hi?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he's good.
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  Speaker 1: Hi. My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Richie.
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  Speaker 1: Just wanted to talk to you about a few things
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  Speaker 1: on the radio. If you're free this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh sure, I guess.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, we got a call from a guy this
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  Speaker 3: morning that pretty much thinks the world of you. He
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  Speaker 3: thought you thought the world of him too, So you
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  Speaker 3: guys went on on a date. His name is Travis,
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  Speaker 3: and he was telling us, he goes, I don't know
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  Speaker 3: what to do, guys, he explained the date. He explained
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  Speaker 3: that you even said you wanted to see him again,
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  Speaker 3: but now there's no feedback. Yeah, oh good. Can you
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  Speaker 3: give us your point of view on the situation?
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  Speaker 5: Oh god, I so he called you guys. Yeah, Oh
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  Speaker 5: my god, I'm so embarrassed because I I I actually
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  Speaker 5: I really really like him. It probably it probably does
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  Speaker 5: seem like I'm blowing him off, but that's that's not
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  Speaker 5: even a little bit what I was trying to do
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  Speaker 5: and no, I really do like him. God, I guess
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  Speaker 5: all right, I'll tell you what happened. So it's gonna
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  Speaker 5: sound so stupid and you're probably not gonna believe me,
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  Speaker 5: because like it's it's insane. But so last weekend, I
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  Speaker 5: was having a pool day with my friends and you know,
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  Speaker 5: you're making Margarita's hanging out like catching the sun, like
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  Speaker 5: having a nice day. And I consider myself a little
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  Speaker 5: bartender in the friend group, so I was squeezing lines
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  Speaker 5: and lemons for the drinks and I was laying out
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  Speaker 5: in the sun for a while and I didn't really
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  Speaker 5: think anything of it. And I don't know if you
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  Speaker 5: guys know about this, but there's a thing. It's called
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  Speaker 5: margarita burn, and it's where like citrus juice like reacts
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  Speaker 5: in the sun. So it made me have like blotchy
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  Speaker 5: and like all over my hands and my legs and
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  Speaker 5: my arms, and it's just like it's not contageous or anything,
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  Speaker 5: because i'd be really bad, but like they're just really
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  Speaker 5: ugly and I'm so self conscious of it and I'm
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  Speaker 5: feel so embarrassed and but no, I God, I was
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  Speaker 5: so excited about our second date and like I still
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  Speaker 5: I really, like I don't want to be too forward
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  Speaker 5: about it. And I know he called you guys, so
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  Speaker 5: you know, but I I was I was hoping things
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  Speaker 5: could heat up on the next time, and but over here,
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  Speaker 5: I'm I literally lost the fight to a line like
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  Speaker 5: I'm so stupid. Yeah, but no, I figured i'd give
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  Speaker 5: it a week or two until like literally the reaction
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  Speaker 5: just calmed down and I didn't look like I had
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  Speaker 5: blotches everywhere, and then I would try to reach out
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  Speaker 5: to him, but like, I don't want him to think
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  Speaker 5: I lost interest.
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  Speaker 2: Well and why not? Why not just keep the text
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  Speaker 2: convote going alive just so you know that you're still compatible.
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  Speaker 5: I know, yeah, but I don't want him to be like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: I want to FaceTime you or all we should get together,
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  Speaker 5: because like could you I mean, I'm telling you this now,
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  Speaker 5: Like you guys wouldn't believe that, Like that's a crazy story, Like.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds to be like alcohol poisoning, not margarita ra
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  Speaker 3: I looked it up.
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  Speaker 2: I looked up.
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  Speaker 1: I said, what is margarita burn? And a margarita burn
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  Speaker 1: is known as fidoto fido photo dermatitis, and it's a
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  Speaker 1: it's a form of extreme sunburn.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, that's what it was. Yes, it's like.
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  Speaker 1: Sun poisoning, like a rash. But it doesn't have anything
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  Speaker 1: to do with the alcohol. It has to do with
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  Speaker 1: the actual citrus on your skin, which makes sense of
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  Speaker 1: your Either.
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  Speaker 3: There's something to do with sun and alcohol that does
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  Speaker 3: that to you, either way.
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  Speaker 5: Unfortunately, Yeah, either way, I heard so whatever you want.
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  Speaker 4: To call it, travelers.
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  Speaker 5: Is that he's on the phone.
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  Speaker 4: Is that actually on the phone? No, Telly, I had
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  Speaker 4: to know what was happening with you. I thought you
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  Speaker 4: were secretly deciding I was the worst human being or something.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my god, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, oh
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  Speaker 5: my god. That wait, that actually makes it way way worse.
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  Speaker 5: I know I really do like you. I just like, oh.
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  Speaker 2: God, it was it wasn't a sensual hug that turned
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  Speaker 2: you off?
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  Speaker 5: No? No, I mean, like god, I mean, how do
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  Speaker 5: you How do you text someone and say like I
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  Speaker 5: can't see you because I technically I got like chemically
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  Speaker 5: attacked by Margarita, Like what, Like God, I feel so
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  Speaker 5: bad that they really do like you and I I
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  Speaker 5: how am I supposed to say that?
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  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 4: I mean I would have believed you way sooner if
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  Speaker 4: you know than you if you told me you weren't interested,
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  Speaker 4: because I felt like we had a lot of chemistry
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  Speaker 4: on the dates.
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, no, we No, we did. I just I
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  Speaker 5: was like, it'll heal in a couple of days, and
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  Speaker 5: then it didn't. So every day I was like, all right,
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  Speaker 5: maybe tomorrow. And then like once I got you know,
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  Speaker 5: the blocks went away and I got my confidence back
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  Speaker 5: and my normal body back, then like I would I would.
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  Speaker 3: Have had the confidence, you know, you sell like a
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  Speaker 3: Spider Man, super villain. What's the blocks the way? And
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  Speaker 3: I got my back and I came back to normal.
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  Speaker 4: I'm over here thinking that, like, you know, I had
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  Speaker 4: the best day that I've had in a long time,
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  Speaker 4: and I did something to ruin it. And I'm just
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  Speaker 4: like going over every single thing.
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  Speaker 5: No, no, you were you were great, and honestly, that's
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  Speaker 5: why I wanted to second date in the first place.
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  Speaker 5: This has absolutely nothing.
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  Speaker 6: To do with you, Travis, not one thing, I promise, okay,
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  Speaker 6: because like, oh my god, so you're telling me that
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  Speaker 6: I I got I got overthrown by by citrus.
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  Speaker 5: Unfortunately, Yeah, that's that's the case. You know, A line
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  Speaker 5: it's clear that a line has more than you this week.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 1: I love this because I feel like we can like
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  Speaker 1: really come back from it.
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  Speaker 6: No, totally.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's a misunderstanding.
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 1: I get wanting to be like in your full batty
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  Speaker 1: form before you you know, try to get back out there.
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  Speaker 2: And they both sound adorable.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, if you got a text with a girl your
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  Speaker 3: dating after the first dage because I'm so sorry I
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  Speaker 3: can't talk to you right now, I got a rash
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  Speaker 3: after our date, I'd be like, yeah, yeah, all right,
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  Speaker 3: you guys, Well thanks for jumping on the air with us.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I want to take you.
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  Speaker 3: Out, Kelly.
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  Speaker 4: I don't I don't care about your burns or your
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  Speaker 4: lines or whatever. Like, can we do that.
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  Speaker 5: Deal deal? And I promise, you know, if anything else
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  Speaker 5: ridiculous happens, I will I will tell you instead of disappearing,
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  Speaker 5: I promise any other rash for burn or line.
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  Speaker 3: And we will pay for your date. You guys, hold
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  Speaker 3: on the line. Hold on the line, both of you, guys.
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  Speaker 3: Hold on. It's been a while since we had successful
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  Speaker 3: second a pick the day. Hold on all these coupons
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