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- 0:00Most investors think a hundred percent funded deal is a dream.
- 0:04Jeff Chahuski says it's actually the riskiest position you can be
- 0:09in and it's draining private lenders right now.
- 0:12Jeff has closed over 2,000 deals as a lender and coach.
- 0:15Today he breaks down why skin in the game builds real credibility.
- 0:21The one question your lender wishes you'd ask,
- 0:24and the mortgage fraud red flag most investors don't see coming.
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- 0:35Let's get started.
- 0:41Jeff Shahusky joins me here today and you can learn what he can help you with
- 0:46in two aspects. One is if you're looking for some funding on your opportunities
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- 0:55However, if you're looking on wanting to learn how to become a a funder
- 1:02My REI coach dot com that's gonna slash trial.
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- 1:15I really appreciate your time here today,
- 1:17Jeff.
- 1:18Yeah, absolutely. It's my honor to privilege to be here.
- 1:21So you before we hit record here,
- 1:23you mentioned you're been involved with over two thousand transactions
- 1:28at this point. What did the very first deal that got you into real estate finance
- 1:34look like?
- 1:34Well, so, you know, we gotta go back to two thousand eight,
- 1:37which is actually when I started lending,
- 1:39right? The middle of in the middle of the crash,
- 1:41the world's fallen apart and I decide to start lending money to people.
- 1:44the reality was is that I was a full time dad,
- 1:47full time husband, and a full time employee,
- 1:49and and a full time real estate investor.
- 1:52The the amount of work that I was doing as a flipper was becoming
- 1:56so overwhelming that I really wasn't home at all anymore.
- 2:00And so I chose to scale my business back,
- 2:02which created a ton of extra private capital that I was no longer using.
- 2:06And so what got me into lending was I just happened to be at one of
- 2:10the local RIAs and I was talking to the guy that runs the RIA,
- 2:13because he and I were friends.
- 2:14And he I'm telling him about, you know,
- 2:16the fact that I'm scaling my business back.
- 2:18He's talking about scaling his business up.
- 2:20All of his private lenders are tapped out for cash and he doesn't know
- 2:24how he's gonna fund the next deal.
- 2:25And so
- 2:26I just said, well, let me see if my lenders will work with you.
- 2:29You know, they know me, not you,
- 2:31but let me see what I can do. And in the end,
- 2:33I I got somebody to work with me and help him get that funding done.
- 2:38And you know, it really wasn't a business at the point.
- 2:40It was really just me helping a friend.
- 2:43But
- 2:43You know, as things go, once you help somebody and they f and others start
- 2:47to find out what you know and what you can do,
- 2:49other people come and start asking for help too.
- 2:51So over time more real estate investors came and over time more private lenders came
- 2:57to work through me and have me do their underwriting and all that kind
- 3:00of stuff and you know, hence a lending company got born by accident.
- 3:04Yeah, it's usually where the best businesses start,
- 3:07isn't it? Is that you're just kind of solving trying to solve your own problem
- 3:11or or somebody else's?
- 3:13Yeah. I in my experience, yeah.
- 3:14Yeah. It's usually your own and or others.
- 3:17And and usually it's I I think sometimes it's a combination of both.
- 3:20Because most of us have friends that are,
- 3:22you know, in the same arena and playground as us.
- 3:25So we we tend to all have the same issues.
- 3:28You
- 3:28started this in two thousand eight,
- 3:29I would imagine you've had some significant lessons along the way to
- 3:34the point where you've you felt the need to even branch into the coaching world.
- 3:38What was some of those early lessons that you wish you would have known ahead
- 3:44of time?
- 3:44Well, you know, I I will say this.
- 3:46The vast majority of my experience in the real estate space,
- 3:50the the bad experiences come really from bad coaches and bad gurus
- 3:55in the market that are really fantastic marketers.
- 3:58But they themselves haven't really lived through the ups and downs.
- 4:02Right? Now I started real estate in 2004.
- 4:05So I was flipping houses before the market crashed.
- 4:08So I lived through 2008. and because of those ups and downs,
- 4:12I just I have a set of experience and and I'm a really common sense-oriented,
- 4:16very strategic, kind of calculated guy.
- 4:19I I do things common sense-oriented.
- 4:21So when I watch and see what the other gurus teach people how to do
- 4:25and honestly how unethical an awful lot of it is,
- 4:29those people keep coming to me and asking me for loans.
- 4:32And I've had to turn away so many loans because the deals just really weren't that
- 4:37good. Or the deal structure just really was so improper.
- 4:41that you know, I I again started helping friends.
- 4:45You know, it's like because I got to know a lot of our borrowers
- 4:48and and really every single borrower call turned into a coaching call.
- 4:52And so we just formalized it.
- 4:54And just said, you know what, listen,
- 4:55we're gonna do a call once a week,
- 4:57you know. If you have questions,
- 4:59if you're working a deal, if you need help figuring out the the structure,
- 5:03if you need you know, and and I'm not an attorney,
- 5:05but there's still some legal guidance,
- 5:08you know, as far as where to turn,
- 5:10how to do it, what kinds of structures that you need for things,
- 5:14that's the stuff that I started just working with and teaching people how to do.
- 5:18You know, makes them better borrowers for everybody,
- 5:20not just me.
- 5:21Yeah, I would imagine that a lot of the people that are in your coaching program
- 5:25are eventually become there's a lot of crossover there looking for funding
- 5:30in the end.
- 5:30Well, so the truth is most of my students actually end up outgrowing
- 5:35the lending company that we have,
- 5:37which i is a good thing. And I even tell students when they come into
- 5:40my coaching program, it's like,
- 5:41My goal is to get you to outgrow me.
- 5:44you know, I I want you to get to a point where you don't need my services,
- 5:48that you start to become more self-sustained and and you really become
- 5:52a much more well-rounded business in whatever it is that you're gonna tackle and do.
- 5:57That doesn't mean you never need hard money,
- 5:59it doesn't mean you don't need private money,
- 6:01it doesn't mean that you don't continue to need coaching and guidance.
- 6:04It just means that you've gotten to a point where you need something different
- 6:08because your business grew and evolved.
- 6:10Because we as people grow and evolve every single time we learn something
- 6:14new and we have some successes and failures.
- 6:16So my goal is really to help people figure out how to do a lot of this stuff.
- 6:21So they still use us, they just don't use us as much.
- 6:24Because in the end, I've also taught them how to work with their
- 6:27own private lenders.
- 6:29you know, and and end up with a little bit more flexible terms than what
- 6:32I refer to as the professional lenders because that's where y you know,
- 6:36even me when I'm working with private lender capital,
- 6:39I'm still running it as a professional business and I have a set
- 6:42of guidelines I have to follow to protect the capital.
- 6:45So it it it it's really about trying to elevate them above and beyond y you know,
- 6:50where they're at.
- 6:52Well,
- 6:52you mentioned that in some cases you're you're getting a lot of deals thrown at you.
- 6:58frankly, unfortunately trained on some bad advice or bad coaching.
- 7:03There's likely some low
- 7:04Well yeah.
- 7:05hanging fruit there. What are some of the recurring things that you just would like
- 7:10to myths you'd like to bust right now or or set the record straight
- 7:13on some things that you're seeing some of these coaches provide?
- 7:17So there's some advice that is both good and bad simultaneously.
- 7:21And I think that's the most misleading information that's out in the market.
- 7:25gurus who are selling courses and boot camps and all that stuff,
- 7:28they love to tout, you know, go find private capital.
- 7:31You can get a hundred percent of all your money,
- 7:34right? You don't need anything anywhere,
- 7:36anytime in the deals.
- 7:38It it's it is the ideal scenario and it is possible to do in the marketplace,
- 7:43but it's not easy like most people seem to think that it is.
- 7:47That's a lot harder. As soon as anybody gets any education as a lender,
- 7:52they start to question: well, how what do you have in the deal?
- 7:56Why don't you have anything in the deal?
- 7:58Because if a lender provides a hundred percent of all the funding,
- 8:01they actually have a hundred percent of the risk in the deal.
- 8:04And in today's market with high interest rates,
- 8:07we're actually starting it's not the same as two thousand and eight.
- 8:10We're we're not collapsing and falling apart by any stretch.
- 8:13But because of the interest rate hikes
- 8:15Private lenders are losing money left and right across this country right now.
- 8:19Drives me nuts to see them do it.
- 8:21And as much as real estate investors really don't want to hear this,
- 8:26having skin in the game is what levels the playing field.
- 8:29It's what builds credibility with your lenders.
- 8:32It's what builds confidence. It shows that you're willing to take risks yourself
- 8:37and that you truly believe in what you have.
- 8:40Now
- 8:41With all that said, I get it. There's an awful lot of people that don't have
- 8:44any money. And that's part of why they're,
- 8:46you know, looking for that 100% down stuff.
- 8:48A better scenario is to partner with people.
- 8:51Find someone with a smaller amount of money that you can partner with
- 8:54so that there's still a vested interest in the deal.
- 8:56That brings so much confidence to these things.
- 9:00And so while that's a half-truth,
- 9:02it it really is a major negative.
- 9:05in the industry. the sub-2 space has gotten almost out of hand,
- 9:10as is the wholesaling industry.
- 9:12and if you doubt it, all you have to do is just start looking across
- 9:14the country to see what the what the states have been passing
- 9:17for legislation to limit and restrict wholesalers.
- 9:20It's because the industry has become very unethical in the way that
- 9:24it behaves because of all this no money,
- 9:27no money, no money, you just get to go make money mentality.
- 9:31Yes, it's true, but there's always negative sides to all of these things,
- 9:35right? It's like when I'm sitting down coaching people and working with
- 9:38our borrowers, this is the kind of stuff I'm trying to work with them.
- 9:42Like I'm trying to show them that there are better ways to do it that
- 9:46are so much better, that it's better for you as the real estate investor,
- 9:51and it's better for your partner,
- 9:53it's better for your lender, it's a better structure and scenario.
- 9:56You're more likely to win the game.
- 9:58And that in the end.
- 9:59is what we're all here for. Right?
- 10:01I mean nobody likes to lose, but the reality is good people still lose every once
- 10:05in a while. But if we can do things better,
- 10:07the losses become small instead of devastation.
- 10:11Because that's what happened in 2008.
- 10:13The market was devastated. We don't have to repeat that.
- 10:16Just a few smart moves and we can overcome some of the fallacies that
- 10:20are taught in the marketplace and really build solid businesses.
- 10:24Yeah,
- 10:24you actually called this out too,
- 10:26like early on is that you started this in two thousand eight.
- 10:29Everybody was kind of running in the opposite direction that you decided to go.
- 10:33Like what made you f confident that this was a smart move at the time?
- 10:37Well, so part of it is just my natural personality.
- 10:40I tend to be a contrarian, right?
- 10:42But to me, the contrarian aspect of my personality just comes from
- 10:47the common sense part of things.
- 10:48Like even Warren Buffett said,
- 10:50right? When there's blood in the streets,
- 10:52that's the best time for opportunity.
- 10:53When everybody runs in one direction,
- 10:55you should go in the other. Because the masses are usually chasing things.
- 11:01And every time everybody takes off chasing something,
- 11:04They leave things behind. And what gets left behind is essentially
- 11:08a wide open playing field to go do things.
- 11:11Right? So it's not about necessarily trying to contradict everything that's
- 11:15out there as much as just look at those opportunities.
- 11:17In 2008, everybody was running from lending.
- 11:20Everybody was running from real estate.
- 11:22But yet every bad thing that happens,
- 11:24there's always something good that can come from it.
- 11:27It's just a matter of whether or not we can recognize it.
- 11:30I'm not the smartest guy in the world.
- 11:31I don't know everything that there is to know,
- 11:33but I am really good at spotting opportunities.
- 11:36And I'm really good at asking questions.
- 11:38And I've also gotten a lot better at asking for help.
- 11:40Right? So when I see something,
- 11:42even if I don't fully understand it,
- 11:44I kind of know where to at least go look and start asking questions to find out,
- 11:49can I do this?
- 11:50That's how lending happened, right?
- 11:52I didn't set out to try to lend.
- 11:53I wasn't really trying to go in the other direction.
- 11:56It's just because everybody was running away and people's money was drying up,
- 12:00there was an opportunity to be had.
- 12:02And we could help investors. Because people always need a place to live.
- 12:06No matter what happens in the economy,
- 12:08people need a good home to live in.
- 12:11That's the thing I love the most about our industry.
- 12:13We provide solutions to all of these bad houses and bad situations.
- 12:18Mm-hmm.
- 12:20Well, you you mentioned here now that it's it's it's all about asking
- 12:24the right questions. I think this would be beneficial for those that
- 12:28are trying to get into wholesaling,
- 12:29fit fix and flipping or what have you,
- 12:31but more importantly, lenders,
- 12:34what questions should they be asking to ensure that it's a c a right deal?
- 12:40Well, okay, so I'll I'm gonna I'm gonna tell everybody there there's
- 12:44two things that I would go in.
- 12:46They're in two different directions,
- 12:48right? So there's one for the real estate investor.
- 12:51There's a set of answers for that.
- 12:52The answers for the real estate investor is number one,
- 12:56there is a ton of really, really bad information.
- 12:59I don't care what website you go to,
- 13:01I don't care what YouTube channel you're watching,
- 13:03there's bad information. Now it doesn't mean there's bad information from everybody,
- 13:07but if you stop and pause and reflect and do some research on something that sounds
- 13:13good, doesn't have to sound too good to be true,
- 13:15it just has to sound good. Go check it out.
- 13:17The flaw with Google, the flaw with ChatGPT and Claude and every other
- 13:23AI platform out there is when you ask a question,
- 13:26they are all designed to give you an answer that supports the question.
- 13:31So if you don't ask the opposite question at the same time,
- 13:35you only get half the answer.
- 13:38So if you're a real estate investor,
- 13:40you have to learn to ask better questions.
- 13:42You gotta learn how to communicate better with sellers.
- 13:45You gotta understand that you're there to solve their problem.
- 13:48You're not there to buy a house,
- 13:49which unfortunately that's what all the gurus teach,
- 13:51right? It's like you're there to buy houses.
- 13:53The reality is if you solve the seller's problem,
- 13:55you will buy more houses. Period.
- 13:57End of story. It it's an attitude adjustment and a purpose adjustment.
- 14:01And it makes you 10 times more successful.
- 14:04I'm a huge believer in Chris Voss.
- 14:07My natural question asking is actually very similar to his style.
- 14:11Like I love Chris Voss's book,
- 14:13you know, Never Split the Difference.
- 14:14Even more importantly, I love jumping onto YouTube.
- 14:18And going to watch his shorts because in two minutes or less,
- 14:22he'll give a real live example of some of the things that are in the books.
- 14:25And so if you're a real estate investor,
- 14:28learn to ask opposite questions,
- 14:30because that'll get you to the better questions,
- 14:32and go study Chris Voss. Now, if you want to know how to communicate with lenders,
- 14:36stop calling us up and asking us what the interest rate and points are,
- 14:39and having that as your only two questions.
- 14:42The hard money lending industry,
- 14:44private money lending industry,
- 14:46it's so misunderstood by borrowers,
- 14:48it's almost scary. And yet, money is one of the most important tools that
- 14:53you need in your arsenal in order to close on the houses that
- 14:56you get under contract, right?
- 14:58And everybody's trying to be cheap.
- 15:00And while I completely understand that,
- 15:02because it is each and every one of our responsibilities to succeed and
- 15:07to do better and to be smart and financially savvy with the funds and money that
- 15:11we have so that we can better take care of our families,
- 15:14we tend to trip over trip over dollars to pick up pennies,
- 15:18is is what we tend to do.
- 15:20In the hard money lending space,
- 15:21you have to understand that there are fees in the front end,
- 15:24there's fees in the middle, there's fees on the back end,
- 15:26there's fees for being late, there's fees for extending,
- 15:29there's fees for draws. Like we have fees everywhere.
- 15:32Like that's just the industry.
- 15:34And it sucks to say, because I'm part of that industry.
- 15:36I try not to do those things. And I want to make a fair and honest loan
- 15:40and living doing it. But as an industry,
- 15:43you have to be very, very careful.
- 15:45And so when you're talking to a lender,
- 15:47you need to start exploring what are the other things.
- 15:51Not just what's your interest rate and what's your points.
- 15:54I have I have a client, and this is an absolutely true story,
- 15:58and this is going to be a little shocking to some people to hear this.
- 16:00I have a client who was working with Kiavi,
- 16:04and she was getting loans at 8% and one point.
- 16:07And she was getting extremely frustrated with them.
- 16:09So she sat down and called me up and asked me if I would lend her some money
- 16:14and actually refinance her out of a Kiavi loan.
- 16:17And I told her I was gonna charge her twelve percent and three points in order
- 16:20to do it. And I had really almost no other fees at the time to for
- 16:24her to contend with. And she said,
- 16:25seriously. And I said, Yeah. And the two of us were exploring things.
- 16:29Now, this is the truth is, I had never compared the cheaper national hard money
- 16:34to my more expensive private capital.
- 16:37I'd never compared the two before.
- 16:38But with her, when the two of us went through it,
- 16:41we both discovered at the same time 12 and 3 was cheaper than 8 and 1.
- 16:46And the reason was you've got so many other fees that are not considered points just
- 16:51at the closing table. You've got
- 16:53Delays on draws, you've got big inspection fees,
- 16:57you've got big draw fees, there are payoff fees.
- 17:00When we compared all the fees that she was paying and converted
- 17:03all these things into dollars and added them all up,
- 17:06her total cost with me at 12% interest plus three points,
- 17:10total dollars was less than what she was paying Kiavi at eight and
- 17:14one because of all the other fees.
- 17:16So when you deal with lenders,
- 17:18you gotta start asking better questions there,
- 17:20which means dig deeper, find out what do we charge?
- 17:23Where do we charge? When do we charge?
- 17:26How much comes out of your pocket versus how much comes out of,
- 17:29say, your draw bucket? Right? Like,
- 17:31how do you have to pay for it?
- 17:33there's a hard money lender that's here in my state,
- 17:36another horrible example, but yet true.
- 17:39Another client came to us and asked us to refinance them out of
- 17:41a loan because they'd been in the loan and it was maturing and she still wasn't done
- 17:45with the project for some reason.
- 17:47I I I through everything I kind of got the impression that she
- 17:50had problems with contractors and all that kind of fun stuff and they were just
- 17:53behind. But the project financially was still a very good deal.
- 17:57She had bought it very, very well.
- 17:59But she sent me the settlement statement,
- 18:02the payoff letter from the other lender.
- 18:04They charged her eight points for her extension fee.
- 18:08Eight points. It was thirty-six thousand dollars worth of extension fee that
- 18:12we had to that we covered for her as part of our new loan.
- 18:15But can you imagine that that's all profit that that's no longer in
- 18:19her in her pocket? It's now in a different lender's pocket because
- 18:22she didn't understand.
- 18:24how we make money and how we charge.
- 18:26So that's my two things. It's like,
- 18:28you know, one for real estate investors,
- 18:30one for one for the borrowing with lender side.
- 18:32Just to remind everybody, we're talking to Jeff Shawhusky,
- 18:36and you can learn more at bestareifunding.com.
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- 19:00So,
- 19:01Jeff, I I'm hoping that we could spend a little time talking about some
- 19:06of the trials and tribulations that you've gone through and some
- 19:09of those hard lessons that were learned.
- 19:11can you talk a little bit about that and and how it might have impact
- 19:16or changed your business or trajectory?
- 19:18sure. there there's two sides,
- 19:20obviously, right? Because as because I've I'm both a real estate investor
- 19:24and a lender, right? So there's there's horror stories on both sides,
- 19:27there's good, amazing things that have happened in both sides.
- 19:30the best the best thing I ever learned on the real estate investor side.
- 19:35was when someone sat me down, I I I ended up going to some boot camps myself from
- 19:41some guys that I I got involved with that they there's no upsells at
- 19:45any of their events. No coaching,
- 19:47no courses, there's nothing for the UD up.
- 19:50It's just content, education, and some networking opportunities.
- 19:54And they're like five, six hundred dollars for an entire weekend,
- 19:56which is super cheap and unheard of.
- 19:59So I get involved with these guys.
- 20:01And I got to know one of one of the guys that puts on the events,
- 20:04and his name is Bill. And Bill sat me down one day and explained to me that
- 20:08sub two is not creative finance.
- 20:10Seller finance, not creative finance.
- 20:12Master leases, not creative finance,
- 20:14lease options, not creative finance.
- 20:17These are all in fact just buying strategies.
- 20:21And the reason that they're just buying strategies is because you tend
- 20:24to repeat the process almost the exact same time every time.
- 20:27Sure, there are subtle differences between each and every deal you do,
- 20:30because it's a different seller and a different house,
- 20:32but the overall structure is identical every time you do it.
- 20:35It's just that the gurus put them all together underneath
- 20:38the creative finance umbrella because it was sexy and it sold.
- 20:42And I said, well, Bill, then what the heck is creative finance?
- 20:47and you know, and creative deal structuring.
- 20:48And he said that's when you learn all of the buying strategies and you're able
- 20:52to sit down with a seller to solve their problem and borrow pieces from different
- 20:58strategies and essentially build a new one on the fly that solves
- 21:02the seller's problem. When you do that,
- 21:04that's why you buy more houses.
- 21:06And so
- 21:07is one of the most positive, influential things anybody's ever said to
- 21:11me is to learn how to stack things together.
- 21:15And so when I when I'm working on deals and projects and even as a lender
- 21:19and I'm talking to a borrower,
- 21:21matter of fact, right before we jumped on this podcast,
- 21:23I was talking to a borrower. And and she's a student of a friend of mine,
- 21:27and so I was I was having more a coaching call with her than than lender call.
- 21:32she's interested in she just bought a house sub two.
- 21:35Her plan is to stick some money in the deal and then she's gonna hold
- 21:39it because she's gonna sell it on lease option.
- 21:41And I said, well, you know, tell me about all the stuff going on in the deal.
- 21:44And after she told me all the moving parts to exactly what she had structured,
- 21:48I was just like, W have you thought about this or this or this?
- 21:51Right? Like just trying to challenge a few things.
- 21:53And I said, here's why I if I was you,
- 21:56I would I would consider tweaking these things because number one,
- 22:00your deal's very complicated. It it it's gonna be difficult for anybody
- 22:04to wanna fund you. Because it's too complicated,
- 22:06there's too many moving parts.
- 22:07And and I also said to her, I said,
- 22:09you know, 80% of of lease options fail.
- 22:11So your your likelihood of getting this thing back is very,
- 22:14very high. And you need to be in a position where you can afford that.
- 22:18And she's still very new and doesn't have a lot of capital that she
- 22:21can invest in projects. And so I started helping her tweak that scenario
- 22:26by simplifying but also stacking strategies differently than the way
- 22:30she was doing it.
- 22:32I just helped a student of mine.
- 22:34he was trying to buy a house that the seller had co-signed on a loan
- 22:39for someone else. And the someone else that he co-signed with,
- 22:42they failed. Whatever that was didn't work.
- 22:44And that person has no money and is uncollectible.
- 22:47So the lender is coming after him because of the personal guarantee.
- 22:51They end up winning the judgment and they got a lien placed against this house that
- 22:55he has, which was an investment property.
- 22:58And the lien is for thirty-two thousand dollars.
- 23:00And he doesn't want to pay the thirty-two thousand because it's not really his bill.
- 23:03And so we came up with a creative structure.
- 23:07mostly pretty straight out of the box,
- 23:09but we did modify a few things by leveraging a master lease so that
- 23:13we could lease the property from the seller,
- 23:15get all the benefits and all the rights and privileges of ownership without having
- 23:19to transfer the deed or pay the pay the f the lien off.
- 23:22Which the seller was thrilled that he could do it.
- 23:25No other real estate investor brought a solution that actually allowed
- 23:29him to not have to pay that lien.
- 23:31Right?
- 23:32On the lending side, I hate to say this,
- 23:34people lie. And that's probably the most difficult thing for all lenders
- 23:38is that people lie. The second worst thing is that bad things happen to good people.
- 23:42The majority of people don't lie.
- 23:44The majority of people are actually really good people.
- 23:46Occasionally we get a bad one.
- 23:48But bad things happen to good people,
- 23:50and bad things happen to good deals.
- 23:51And so the lack of preparation
- 23:54for egg multiple exit strategies is a struggle for lenders.
- 23:58It's also a struggle for the borrower.
- 23:59I'm actually working on a series on my Facebook profile that is
- 24:04the seven most common mistakes that that private money lenders make,
- 24:07and it ties both to borrowers and the lenders themselves.
- 24:10And one of the main topics is exit strategies.
- 24:14Because they're not working today the same way they did six months
- 24:17ago or twelve months ago. The DSCR lenders are not closing loans as quick
- 24:22and as fast as they used to. Hard money lenders are saying yes,
- 24:25yes, yes, yes, yes, and then pulling funds,
- 24:27you know, at the eleventh hour.
- 24:29Same thing. And and lots and lots of real estate investors are getting burnt across
- 24:33the country because the exit strategies when they get to the point
- 24:37of making the underwriting decisions.
- 24:39They're finding the exit strategies are too weak for the for
- 24:42the current market conditions.
- 24:43There just isn't enough meat on the bone.
- 24:45And so you know, lenders are getting hurt by not being able to fund deals,
- 24:49and borrowers are getting hurt because they can't close deals and they can't
- 24:52get out of deals. Right? It's because it's both.
- 24:55They're turning down deals where you might do a flip because they don't think
- 24:58you can get out of it, even if it's a good deal.
- 25:00You know, there there I mean there's literally story after story after story that
- 25:05y you know, we could spend all day literally talking about all the stuff that has
- 25:09Mm-hmm.
- 25:09happened to me, that's happened to my friends,
- 25:11that's happened to our clients.
- 25:13You know, it it it's happening all over the place.
- 25:15there's answers to it all. It just takes more work and more thought.
- 25:18I I'd be curious, based on what you said there,
- 25:21you know, you mentioned that some borrowers they just simply lie.
- 25:24Is it is it lying or or do you find like a subset of those where it's just they come
- 25:31out of this guru boot boot camps,
- 25:33they're just over positive, over over confident,
- 25:37and they're just they've just kind of actually lied to themselves about what
- 25:42a good deal looks like.
- 25:44i it tends to be a blend of both.
- 25:46I mean, no matter what industry you're in,
- 25:48right? This doesn't even have anything to do with real estate.
- 25:50There's just dishonest people in the world.
- 25:52Now in the grand scheme of things,
- 25:53truly dishonest people, that's the smallest percentage of people that we have.
- 25:58The majority of people that that do lie on the deals are doing it because
- 26:03the the guru that they talked to,
- 26:05the YouTube video they watched,
- 26:07right, the Facebook post, the bigger pockets thing that they saw,
- 26:11it tells them to do it one way.
- 26:13And in the reality, it it's flat out wrong to do.
- 26:16Sometimes it's just flat out unethical.
- 26:18And if it gets spotted, nobody wants to lend to you,
- 26:21nobody wants to partner with you if they know it's unethical.
- 26:23The problem with human beings,
- 26:24though, is that once we believe something,
- 26:26we do not want to change our minds.
- 26:28Every single one of us is very,
- 26:30very stubborn when it comes to someone trying to change our beliefs
- 26:34and tell us we're wrong when we believe we're wrong,
- 26:36no matter what it is. I get people that bring deals to me that tell me
- 26:41all kinds of things. It's mortgage fraud.
- 26:43And it's like, I can't, I can't even begin to participate in this deal.
- 26:46And
- 26:47you know, there there's one particular strategy that's taught out there
- 26:51and it it really wasn't very popular,
- 26:53but it's getting more and more popular by the day,
- 26:56and it is blatant mortgage fraud.
- 26:58and and it has to do with essentially creating a deal one way just so that
- 27:04you can trick the lender to redo it right after closing.
- 27:08You you cannot deceive a lender.
- 27:10That's federal mortgage fraud.
- 27:11That that includes private lenders.
- 27:14Like if you lie, cheat, steal,
- 27:16manipulate things that would have any impact on a lender's decision,
- 27:21pretty much consider it mortgage fraud if you're withholding something from them.
- 27:24and and it's pretty serious because it's orange jumpsuit level,
- 27:27not not local state level stuff.
- 27:30This is federal things.
- 27:31The the sad thing is that it's happening more and more.
- 27:34And because, you know, government is limited in what it can and can't do
- 27:38as far as resources to protect us,
- 27:40more and more people are getting away with it.
- 27:41But like anything, it just it all catches up with you.
- 27:44You know, bad things will catch up to you.
- 27:46You get away with it today. That's to me,
- 27:48that's one of the worst
- 27:49things. a real estate investor got lied to.
- 27:52They inadvertently lie to the lender by accident because they actually just don't
- 27:57know any better. It's not even their fault.
- 27:59And then they get busted for something in five years from now.
- 28:02You know, and the guru never goes to jail because the guru didn't
- 28:05do the transaction. Like you can't really go to jail for telling somebody
- 28:09how to do something. It it unfortunately that's not how the laws work.
- 28:13And so they get away with it. And then we as consumers continue to pay them tons
- 28:17and tons of money to be parts of their programs and yet we're being
- 28:21led down bad paths.
- 28:22Does this particular strategy actually have a name?
- 28:24It does. I just try not to mention the name because if I tell you the name
- 28:27of the strategy, it tells you the name of the guru who pitches it because
- 28:31it it's his name is in it. If that at least helps people identify it.
- 28:36Sure.
- 28:39Is that people just frankly don't want
- 28:45to change their mind. We get kind of stubborn,
- 28:48~ dig in our heels.
- 28:48Yeah. Yeah.
- 28:50This this is especially true in in like you know,
- 28:53we maybe this is part of the Chris Voss thing.
- 28:55I'm a I'm a big fan as well. In fact,
- 28:57I try to read that book once a year.
- 28:59that's that's one of those
- 29:00Yeah.
- 29:01r regular rotations.
- 29:03When you present something that that shakes their paradigm,
- 29:08not only do they want to dig in their heels,
- 29:11it can actually become a bit violent in in regards to that,
- 29:15the because of the level of defense that you experience.
- 29:17Yeah.
- 29:19That's where the where I found that some of those strategies that Chris teaches
- 29:24really helps break through some of those because when I talk
- 29:28to distressed homeowners,
- 29:29Tremendous.
- 29:29many of these situations are
- 29:32are strategies or topics or realizations that they haven't verbalized even
- 29:38themselves up until now.
- 29:40Yeah. I'm I a hundred percent agree with everything that you just said.
- 29:43the one of the one of the things that that I have found helpful when someone says
- 29:48something that I just flat out know is wrong,
- 29:51difficult, almost impossible to do,
- 29:53is I just simply ask them like how how how can I do that?
- 29:57Like that that's literally my question.
- 29:59It's like
- 29:59you know, I'm not sure about it.
- 30:01Could you tell me how you think I could get how I could get that done?
- 30:04And I make them solve the problem.
- 30:06And when you do that, a lot of times the flaws and holes in the belief start
- 30:11to become very, very evident to the person who believes them because they can't
- 30:15solve the problem. Right? It's just an idea that they want because it's
- 30:20unfortunately an emotional thought,
- 30:22not a real thought.
- 30:23And so they feel certain ways.
- 30:25That's why when you try to solve the problem,
- 30:28it it becomes evident, especially if you make them solve it for you.
- 30:31it's one of the things that I do when I try to talk to people is I really
- 30:34try to help them help themselves as much as possible.
- 30:37And and you're right, learning to speak and ask questions the way that Chris kind
- 30:41of teaches things.
- 30:42it's so natural the way that he does it.
- 30:45The the the words, the phrasing,
- 30:47the way that it happens, it's so natural.
- 30:50No one has any idea that you're influencing them in any way.
- 30:54Nobody has any idea that you're leading them towards a good path,
- 30:58right?
- 30:59And and you can put them in a position where they will help you
- 31:02to solve the problem. And when it's something difficult,
- 31:05you ask them to help you solve it point blank and they'll realize it can't be done.
- 31:09And you end up with ten times better solutions.
- 31:11It's a it's a very, very powerful,
- 31:14powerful strategy. I I had the luxury of actually getting to go to
- 31:19a private Chris Voss training event for two days.
- 31:22I'm part of a of a of a mastermind and the the people that put it
- 31:26on actually hired Chris to come in to our mastermind for two of our three day event.
- 31:31And so he gave our small group a a a private session.
- 31:35And it was it was insane to to literally sit with him.
- 31:39And that's when I got hooked on his shorts and videos that he's got on YouTube.
- 31:43Because it's it's my way of getting that that live refresher from the course I took.
- 31:48Mm-hmm.
- 31:49Yeah. You can simply pick up that level of knowledge for twenty dollars
- 31:51or whatever it is. It's like it's it's almost silly to me.
- 31:55Yeah. And you know, somebody gave me some advice about reading books and
- 31:59I and I took it to heart. it's common knowledge out there that like
- 32:02the top executives in the country read fifty books a year,
- 32:05right? That's kind of the magic number everybody taughts,
- 32:07which is a book a a book a week.
- 32:09I had the the luxury and displeasure of working for an executive at one point
- 32:15in my career who believed in that and read a new book every week.
- 32:18And and I tell you that part of it because when someone else came along later
- 32:23and and gave me a different piece of advice about reading books,
- 32:26it made complete sense because of how I had lived my career under
- 32:30an executive who did read a new book every single week.
- 32:33And the flaw was is that every single Monday morning,
- 32:36because he would finish the book on the weekend,
- 32:38every single Monday morning, we as the team had a new set of directives that trumped
- 32:43last week's directives.
- 32:45And so we could never complete and execute the things that we wanted to do.
- 32:49So now you fast forward 15 years or whatever it is,
- 32:52and this other friend of mine is like,
- 32:54listen, you'd be better off to read five books ten times than to read
- 32:58ten to read fifty books once. Fifty books generates so many ideas in your head
- 33:03you can't execute.
- 33:05But like and and Chris Voss's book,
- 33:07Never Split the Difference, is one of my favorite books to just listen to.
- 33:11And I do a lot of them on audiobooks.
- 33:13But I will listen to the same book repeatedly right after itself.
- 33:17So I might listen to the book three times.
- 33:20And the reason is is because and and I know we've all experienced this.
- 33:23You go to the movies, you see a movie,
- 33:26and it's a fantastic movie, you love it.
- 33:28And then the very next time you're like,
- 33:29I want to see that movie again.
- 33:31So you do, you watch it. And what happens?
- 33:33You see new things in the movie that you didn't see the first time.
- 33:36That's the beauty of reading the same book multiple times.
- 33:40But it also keeps you on the same topic and allows you the time that's needed
- 33:44for you to formulate the strategies and execute the things that you want
- 33:48to do to move forward and be successful.
- 33:51And when I switch to reading five and and sometimes it's more than five books
- 33:54for in a year for me, because I'll like read a book and go,
- 33:57you know, I really didn't like this book and I'm not gonna read it ten times.
- 34:00And I'll substitute it for something else.
- 34:02So I might end up reading eight or nine books in a year,
- 34:04but I'll you know, four or five of them I'm gonna have listened to eight
- 34:07to ten times and and just
- 34:08Mm-hmm.
- 34:09ingrain it into my head.
- 34:11Yeah, I that's really important.
- 34:12In fact, this is kind of coincidence because I I'm in a couple
- 34:16of networking groups and and we've got onto this topic myself and I
- 34:20I actually told them that people would be better off reading
- 34:25or or going someplace, d some sort of training.
- 34:29Pull one or two things that you can implement and and deal with at a time.
- 34:34you know, you like you said, you can be inundated with a bunch of concepts.
- 34:39strategies and then you don't implement any of because it's just like
- 34:43an analysis paralysis. So it's it's best to just kinda eat
- 34:46Yeah, it's too overwhelming.
- 34:48this elephant one bite at a time.
- 34:49Yeah. So I've I've trained my team on the one,
- 34:52two, three process. And and I'm not gonna tell you that I invented this process
- 34:57by any stretch, but i I call it just the one two three process.
- 35:00We all have fifty things that we wanna get done,
- 35:03right?
- 35:04And of those fifty things, there can only be one that is number one.
- 35:08If you're one of those people that think I got five things,
- 35:11they're all number one, there's no such thing as number one for you.
- 35:14Because there can only be one,
- 35:15number one. When you have five number ones,
- 35:17you're in a position of chaos and overwhelm and nothing ever happens and gets done.
- 35:22So you have to pick one. And so I force my team,
- 35:24pick one. Then what's the second most important thing?
- 35:28Then what's the third most important thing?
- 35:30And this is why I call it the one,
- 35:31two, three. The other forty-seven,
- 35:33we put them aside. We don't look at them,
- 35:35we don't think about them, we don't consider them.
- 35:36We focus on number one.
- 35:39It gets a hundred percent of our attention until we can no longer move
- 35:44on number one. Like now I'm stuck and I'm waiting on someone else to
- 35:47do something or answer a question or for something I had to buy,
- 35:51I need to wait for it to show up.
- 35:52Right? Then I move to number two.
- 35:54Number two gets a hundred percent of my attention until I'm stuck again.
- 35:57Even if the answer for number one came back,
- 36:00I gotta finish number two. I have to stay focused.
- 36:03Then when I'm stuck on number two,
- 36:05then I go back and review number one and go,
- 36:07am I in a position that I can move number one again?
- 36:09If the answer is yes, you start doing number one again.
- 36:12If the answer is no, you go to number three.
- 36:14And you run that round robin on those three things,
- 36:17continuously checking to see which ones need to be done.
- 36:21You are so much more productive if you do that.
- 36:25I mean ten times more productive.
- 36:28I've known for a very long time that multitasking does not work.
- 36:32I've never been able to prove it.
- 36:33I've just believed it. Strange thing was is when I got into that two-day training
- 36:37with Chris Voss, he actually talked about multitasking because he was watching
- 36:42us in the room. Some of us are typing on our keyboards,
- 36:45some are taking notes on paper,
- 36:47right? We're all taking notes different ways.
- 36:49And he pointed out that handwriting,
- 36:51of course, is the best.
- 36:53Because when you type, it's multitasking.
- 36:56When your brain is focused on typing,
- 36:59you can't listen and type at the same time.
- 37:01It's almost impossible.
- 37:03Now, some people are better at it than others.
- 37:05You know, there's always exceptions to every rule to some extent.
- 37:08But he gave an example of how to prove that it doesn't work.
- 37:11And so he said, okay, what I want you to do is take out a piece of paper
- 37:15and a pen and I want you to write your name down.
- 37:17First and last name. Just spell it out.
- 37:19Right? So for me, J-E-F-F, we'll just stick with the first four letters because it's
- 37:23easier this way. And he said, okay,
- 37:25now that you've written down your first name,
- 37:26I want you to number them. One,
- 37:28two, three, four, right? Just put the number underneath it to count the letter.
- 37:32And you're like, okay, no problem.
- 37:34Every single person in the room does that super fast.
- 37:36He said, now I want you to write your name again,
- 37:39except I want you to number them as you go.
- 37:42So that means you have to write J1 E2 F3.
- 37:46And I'm good at it now because now I've done this enough times.
- 37:48But when I did it, I could it was so hard.
- 37:51Because the reality is multitasking doesn't work.
- 37:54What we're really doing is task switching.
- 37:58And that's what he demonstrated in that example,
- 38:00because when you have to switch,
- 38:01you keep losing track of where you are and 'cause you're jumping from
- 38:04one thing to the next. And that's what makes it so ineffective.
- 38:08And it was when I went to that boot camp and and spent those two days with Chris
- 38:13Voss that I came back to the office and demanded that everybody start following
- 38:17the one, two, three process. Like you can only work on one thing at a time.
- 38:20If I catch you working on two things at a time,
- 38:22it's like, you know, I'm gonna want to knock on your forehead and go,
- 38:25hello, McFly, are you home? And you know,
- 38:28straighten them out and put them back on the straight and narrow.
- 38:30But I will tell you, our team has become so much more effective and efficient.
- 38:33It's crazy since we adopted.
- 38:35Just crazy.
- 38:36Well, Jeff, like you said, we could probably keep talking all afternoon,
- 38:41but we probably should consider closing out this episode.
- 38:44Just to remind everybody, you can learn more at REI no best reifunding
- 38:51dot com and my REI coach dot com slash trial.
- 38:55But is there anything else we should have tried to hit on before we jump into
- 38:59the rapid fire?
- 39:00you know, the the craziest thing about my background,
- 39:02which most people in the industry out there,
- 39:04they know me as a lender. It's the it's the thing in the world that
- 39:07I'm the most famous for. you know,
- 39:09when I go to conferences and things,
- 39:11everybody always finds out that I'm a lender,
- 39:12and because money is such a big topic for everybody,
- 39:15that's the thing they tend to focus on with me.
- 39:17The reality is though, is as a lender and as an investor.
- 39:22I'm again I'm not gonna try to tell everybody that I know everything under the sun,
- 39:26but playing both sides of the coin at the same time and being someone active
- 39:30in both arenas, I have a well above average exposure to deals.
- 39:35What works, what doesn't work,
- 39:37and I and they're not all my deals.
- 39:39I you know, like a lot of the knowledge and things that I've gained is just from
- 39:43the experience of working so many deals with so many people.
- 39:46You know, the fact that I've closed over two thousand deals,
- 39:49imagine how many deals I haven't done and how many loans we've turned down over
- 39:53the years. But every single one that gets turned down,
- 39:56we have to analyze. And there are tens of thousands of deals that we have worked on.
- 40:00Tens of thousands.
- 40:01So, you know, i if people are interested in working with just someone with
- 40:05experience, you know, again, I'm not gonna claim that we're perfect
- 40:08and I'm not gonna you claim that I can solve every single problem under
- 40:12the sun known to mankind. But if you're looking with somebody,
- 40:14you know, with experience and somebody who truly wants to help and see you succeed,
- 40:18you know, then then that's really what I stand for.
- 40:22It's not just me being famous as a lender.
- 40:25It it's I really wanna see people succeed more than anything.
- 40:29Well, Jeff, we'll jump into the rapid fire and close out this episode.
- 40:33Sure. Fire away.
- 40:35First one is what
- 40:36lie do real estate investors often tell themselves?
- 40:39I I think the biggest lie that I hear is that I don't need any money to do anything.
- 40:43Because the truth is, even if you did wholesaling,
- 40:46even if you did do a flip or something and you could borrow a hundred percent
- 40:49of all that money, usually it takes money to do marketing and advertising
- 40:53and and other things. It does take some money to make money.
- 40:57Some.
- 40:58If you could go back in time and give your younger
- 41:00Vamos lá.
- 41:00self a piece of advice, what would it be?
- 41:03slow down. That would probably be my biggest thing for myself is slow down.
- 41:07it's way easier to make money than you think it is,
- 41:10but you're not there's no rush to get to the finish line.
- 41:13Because there's deals everywhere.
- 41:15Every single day in every single market,
- 41:17there are deals and opportunities.
- 41:19But when you're running at breakneck speed,
- 41:20you miss most of them.
- 41:21You're actually tripping over dollars to pick up pennies when
- 41:24you race around crazily. If you slow down and pay attention,
- 41:27you'll find fewer deals, but you will find better,
- 41:30higher quality, higher profit deals if you just slow down.
- 41:34And I and I wish I'd have learned that sooner.
- 41:38When you were building and scaling your business,
- 41:40what was your first hire or what were you trying to fix yourself?
- 41:43our first hire was actually in our flipping company.
- 41:47it wasn't in the lending company.
- 41:49The the first hire was actually a project manager because at at this point
- 41:53I also had a partner. I I don't have a partner anymore.
- 41:56he and I split up a couple years ago.
- 41:57It was very amicable. We're still friends today.
- 41:59It just we'd kind of outgrown the the path that we were on together because there's
- 42:03there's a significant age difference between the two of us and where
- 42:06our kids are at. but we hired a project manager to help us with all
- 42:10the flips that we were doing.
- 42:11The second hire that I made was in the lending company and it
- 42:14was an additional salesperson to actually help me deal with borrowers
- 42:18and get things closed because the volume was just getting to be too much.
- 42:21now, with that said, the smartest first hire I should have made,
- 42:25because I'm not going to tell you that even though those were my first hires,
- 42:28I'm not going to tell you that was the way I should have done it.
- 42:30A bookkeeper should have been my first hire.
- 42:33That should have been the first thing I did was to get the money straight.
- 42:36And then finally, what single tool or process have you implemented that
- 42:40has had the biggest time saving impact?
- 42:42I think if I think if anybody's not using AI today,
- 42:45it they're they're missing the boat.
- 42:46And and I will say that as a person who because I have a team,
- 42:50I'm I don't have to use AI every day,
- 42:52like a lot of people do that are smaller than me.
- 42:54but I will tell you that my team,
- 42:56one guy in particular, my team,
- 42:58exposed me to something in AI about two weeks ago that has literally changed
- 43:03my attitude towards how much I need and should be using it.
- 43:06and and he tapped me into some stuff that it it's crazy what I can do
- 43:10in so much less time. It's just crazy.
- 43:13Well, you'll have to come back and kinda go we'll can kinda deep dive on that,
- 43:16or maybe you can have him come on the show sometime and and he and I
- 43:20can nerd out because I don't know if you've looked into it,
- 43:23but if you or anybody that's listening to the show needs help implementing these
- 43:28type of tools, that's where I come in.
- 43:29So head over to real dealcrew dot com if you're looking to set up
- 43:34an automation or process in your real estate investing.
- 43:37Really appreciate your time, Jeff.
- 43:39this was fantastic. One last time.
- 43:42You can learn more at bestareifunding dot com or if you want to learn how
- 43:47to do this myrecoach dot com slash trial.
- 43:51Appreciate your time, Jeff, it was great to meet you and hope you'll consider coming
- 43:55back again real soon.
- 43:56it absolutely I would absolutely come back again and it was my privilege to be here.
- 43:59Well, just give it a