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- 0:13Welcome back to the Healing series.
- 0:20Before starting this episode, disclaimer.
- 0:29So people who are let's just say driving heavy machineries,
- 0:37motorcycles, cars, are involving with any sorts of heavy work
- 0:44that needs your complete attention.
- 0:48I suggest you to not listen to this while you are doing some
- 0:53other works. Because parts of this episode
- 0:57where some deep meditation music and the tone of the episode goes
- 1:03in a very calm tone. Some of you might feel sleepy or
- 1:09dizzy, so I suggest you to listen to this episode,
- 1:16particularly when you are free and when you are comfortably
- 1:22sitting in a chair or some peaceful space and close your
- 1:29eyes or relax yourself and listen to this.
- 1:34It is my kind request for everyone who is who's gonna
- 1:39listen to this. So yeah, here we go.
- 1:47This is episode 6. And today we are diving into
- 1:53something ancient, something powerful, something that has
- 2:04helped people for thousands of years.
- 2:10As you already saw the title name, the topic is mindfulness
- 2:15and meditation for emotional recovery.
- 2:23And what a perfect time to talk about this.
- 2:27We are literally at the end of this year, 2025, and the
- 2:33holidays are here. I hope everybody celebrated
- 2:42Christmas by this time if I'm And you know, New Year is just
- 2:49around the corner as well. So yeah, I hope for this is
- 3:04gonna resonate with you all since we are closing this year
- 3:10strong. For many people, this time is
- 3:16full of joy, celebrations and new beginnings.
- 3:23But for some, it also brings stress, emotional weight and
- 3:31hidden struggles. That's why I thought, why not
- 3:36use this episode as a way to pause, reflect, and understand
- 3:45how mindfulness and meditation can be one of the most powerful
- 3:50tools for emotional recovery. So today we will go deep.
- 4:01We will look at the history of meditation, we will explore the
- 4:07science, we will understand how it changes the brain and how it
- 4:15heals the heart, and I will also give you the practical ways to
- 4:24apply it in your daily life. Alright, for now, we will do one
- 4:34small exercise. Let's just take everybody who is
- 4:40listening to this. Everyone just sit down
- 4:45comfortably in a peaceful place and I'm going to play a little
- 4:52music. When the music starts, take a
- 4:55deep breath, inhale through your nostrils, pause for five seconds
- 5:03and exhale gently through your mouth, and then pause for five
- 5:09seconds. Alright, we will do this
- 5:12exercise for like just say one minute until the music starts
- 5:17and ends. Alright, let's do this.
- 5:30So here we go. Take a deep breath.
- 5:37Inhale through your nostrils. Take a pause for five seconds,
- 5:45and then exhale gently through your mouth.
- 5:57Pause for five seconds and then repeat this for a minute and
- 6:02then we will continue our discussion.
- 6:59All right, slowly open your eyes and we will begin our
- 7:09discussion. Let's go into the history of
- 7:15meditation. Meditation is not something new.
- 7:23It's actually one of the oldest practices known to humanity.
- 7:30The earliest written records came from India in the Vedas
- 7:36around 1500 BCE. That is over 3000 years ago.
- 7:45Back then it was not called meditation.
- 7:50It was called Vyana, meaning contemplation, deep reflection,
- 7:57awareness. Overtime the siddhana spread.
- 8:05Hinduism practiced it. Buddhism carried it across Asia.
- 8:13Taism in China developed breathing practices.
- 8:19Zen Buddhism in Sepan emphasized sitting silently, watching
- 8:28thoughts like clouds passing by. And what's fascinating is this.
- 8:37Whether its Indian yogis, Buddhist monks or Christian
- 8:44Mystics, the core idea is the same.
- 8:49To quiet the mind, to observe and to return to the present.
- 8:56Meditation is not actually tied to one culture or religion.
- 9:02It's a universal human technology for the mind.
- 9:07Fast forward to the 20th century, the scientists in the
- 9:11West become very curious. They asked what's really
- 9:14happening when someone meditates?
- 9:19Is it just sitting quietly, or is there something deeper?
- 9:26That curiosity LED us into the modern era of meditation
- 9:31research, and now we understand the science.
- 9:38Isn't it the science of meditation?
- 9:45When you meditate, your brain changes normally.
- 9:52When we are stressed, distracted or anxious, our brain is filled
- 10:00with beta waves. Fast, restless, chaotic.
- 10:06I know we all experience this every single day because stress,
- 10:12distraction, anxious nature or anxiety, all these things fills
- 10:18up in our brain every now and then.
- 10:23But when you meditate, something magical happens.
- 10:28Your brain begins to produce more alpha waves linked with
- 10:36calm focus and Theta waves connected to deep relaxation and
- 10:45creativity. I hope this part is very clear
- 10:55to the everyone who is listening because when it is chaotic and
- 11:00when we are very distracted or stressed, our brain basically
- 11:03stays in the beta waves. And then when we are silent and
- 11:10do meditation, the brain starts to shift from beta waves to the
- 11:15alpha waves which makes our minds so calm and then it will
- 11:21flow into Theta waves which is basically connected to core
- 11:26level relaxation. And that is when our creative
- 11:30ideas and everything will starts flowing naturally.
- 11:38I will give an example so that everyone can understand.
- 11:42Let us just say you are in a very noisy environment in India.
- 11:48If you just step out, everything is very noisy.
- 11:51I do not know about other countries but I know most
- 11:54countries it is not the same situation.
- 11:58But in India, the moment you step out of your home, just on
- 12:03the road, it is always noisy. 24 by 7 people honking, 24 by 7 and
- 12:10your mind instantly shifts into alpha waves.
- 12:17Which means you will get irritated, frustrated, stressed
- 12:21from all the noise, sound and everything.
- 12:25And then guess what, the moment you step into a temple, a
- 12:29mosque, a church, something some something some sort of a thing
- 12:35which is very peaceful, isn't it our mind?
- 12:39If you just go there and sit there for few minutes, you can
- 12:43literally feel our mind is literally calm which actually
- 12:48shows your brain waves are in alpha waves produced or it
- 12:57entered into alpha waves kind of a thing.
- 13:02And then you will feel after some time you will feel so
- 13:06relaxed and your creativity and your mind is now at peak level
- 13:11calmness and that is Theta waves.
- 13:16And that is the reason why we go to the temples.
- 13:19We go here and there to church, mosque, every place that is
- 13:25religiously tied to one way or another.
- 13:29This is the actual reason to actually go there, to be so
- 13:36calm. But people are so messed up they
- 13:39actually forward the whole point of going to this places instead.
- 13:45In today's world, people will go there to, you know, list out
- 13:49their needs to the God that, oh God, I came to this temple or
- 13:54church, Oregon mosque or other religious places.
- 13:58They provide the list to the God saying this is what I need this
- 14:03year, this is what I need this year.
- 14:05You have to give me this. You have to give me that.
- 14:09People got it all wrong. My dear people, the whole point
- 14:13of going to those places is to make yourself calm, relaxed,
- 14:19peaceful, and then once you enter, convert from the alpha
- 14:25waves, from the beta waves to the alpha waves and then alpha
- 14:30waves to the Theta waves. You will have the energy.
- 14:34You will get all the answers you need in your life to move on and
- 14:40achieve those goals. That's the whole point of it.
- 14:44So God is there. God will do his job or her job
- 14:49for sure. But the point is the whole point
- 14:52of going to temples or all the sacred spaces is to achieve the
- 14:59most relaxed state and the most creative kind of a state.
- 15:05Like how your brain should enter into Theta waves kind of a
- 15:09thing. So yes, that is the only when
- 15:14you feel very stress free, no matter what happens in your
- 15:18life, you feel very calm, very peaceful and you can restart it.
- 15:31So long term meditation, even the reshapes the brain that was
- 15:40based on some researchers came up, you know, you can literally
- 15:44reshape how your brain behaves. This nature of this procedure is
- 15:51called neuroplasticity hardword. Researchers found that just
- 15:58eight weeks of meditation increased the thickness of
- 16:04prefrontal cortex, which is the decision making center.
- 16:10At the same time it shrine the amygdala, the stress and fear
- 16:16center, which basically means you are in control of your body
- 16:24and mind, not the other way around.
- 16:27Because most people get stressed because some bad situation
- 16:30happened. It is not a bad thing, that is
- 16:34how the human body is designed. But you can still take control
- 16:38over of that or practicing meditation in your day-to-day
- 16:42life. So yes, what does this mean?
- 16:54It just basically means meditation makes you calmer, it
- 16:59gives you more control over your emotions and it lowers stress.
- 17:07I will give an another analogy isn't it?
- 17:10So you will understand? Let us just say, imagine your
- 17:17mind is a glass of muddy water. If you keep shaking it, the mud
- 17:26never settles. But if you just place it on a
- 17:29table and leave it for few seconds, just till slowly the
- 17:39mud sinks, the water becomes clear.
- 17:47That is just basically meditation.
- 17:50The clarity was always there, you just had to stop shaking the
- 17:55glass. Which basically means you just
- 18:00need to stay in a very peaceful, calm place for a while and focus
- 18:05on yourself and your thoughts. You will have all the answers
- 18:11that you need in your life. I think I will also give simple
- 18:17another analogy. See, you are so stressed about
- 18:20something in your life and you went to some sacred spaces or
- 18:24you went to travelling, some sort of things, and suddenly out
- 18:28of blue you get all the answers, Isn't it?
- 18:32We all been there and the answers come.
- 18:36You see the pattern there? The pattern is very simple.
- 18:39The moment you are very calm, very connected with the nature,
- 18:44you are only with yourself. No outside noise, nothing
- 18:47whatsoever and you enter from distracted mood to relaxed mood
- 18:52and then from there to complete relaxation and creativity mode
- 18:58where the Theta waves started producing.
- 19:00That's when you hit the clarity in your life and that's when you
- 19:05know what you need to do. You get all the answers you need
- 19:07in just one go. And this is true guys, this is
- 19:13true. Try it once, it's just free.
- 19:15You can try it. But I know in today's world,
- 19:20most of us are very busy. We don't even have just 10 to 15
- 19:24minutes for ourselves in this chaotic world because we are all
- 19:27running after something, isn't it?
- 19:35So yes, now let's just pause for one minute.
- 19:40I'm gonna play a meditation music.
- 19:43Let's just take a deep breath through our nostrils.
- 19:46Pause for five seconds, release through our mouth and repeat it
- 19:51for one minute. Alright, and then we will enter
- 19:54into the Part 3 meditation for Emotional recovery.
- 20:01Here we go. Take a deep breath through your
- 20:05nostrils, pause for five seconds, and then exhale through
- 20:13your mouth. Pause for five seconds and then
- 20:22repeat the same process. None.
- 21:34None. None.
- 22:14All right, slowly open your eyes.
- 22:18Let's begin our Part 3 discussion, meditation for
- 22:23emotional recovery. Now let's connect this to our
- 22:29emotional recovery. Emotions are not our enemies.
- 22:36They are just signals. You know, they are like, you
- 22:42know, traffic signals. Basically, each emotion will say
- 22:47something if you really align with it.
- 22:51Anger says something is wrong. Sadness says something is
- 22:57missing. Anxiety says the future is
- 23:01uncertain, but when we don't know how to process them, they
- 23:09overwhelm us. Meditation is learning the
- 23:13language of emotions. Instead of fighting them, you
- 23:19just sit with them, you watch them, you breathe with them.
- 23:26And in that gentle act, emotions lose their sharp edge.
- 23:35Science shows meditation lowers cortisol, the stress hormone.
- 23:42It increases serotonin and dopamine, the happiness
- 23:48chemicals. That is why even 10 minutes of
- 23:52mindful breathing can make you lighter, calmer, more grounded.
- 24:03Here is another analogy. Emotions are like, you know,
- 24:09wild horses. If you fight them, they throw
- 24:13you off. If you ignore them, they run
- 24:16wild. But meditation is like holding
- 24:20the reins, gently guiding without force.
- 24:25Overtime the horses calm and you start riding them instead of
- 24:32being tracked. That is why meditation is so
- 24:38powerful for recovery. It does not erase emotions, it
- 24:45transforms your relationship with them.
- 24:55Let us begin part 4. Practical meditation.
- 25:00Meditation guide. Alright, I will give you now few
- 25:06tips. Now let us just get practical.
- 25:11You do not need actually a monastery or hours of free time.
- 25:14You just need to have like 5 to 10 minutes in a day, which is
- 25:18very hard in this given situations of economy and work
- 25:23life balance and everything. I am pretty much aware of that.
- 25:27That is why I am going to give you very, very simple methods.
- 25:32If you are in your car, you just reach your work, Oregon,
- 25:36anything or somewhere in your office, you find a peaceful spot
- 25:41where you can sit calmly and no one gone and stuck.
- 25:44Just sit there just for 5 minutes a day, alright?
- 25:48Just sit very comfortably, close your eyes, inhale slowly through
- 25:55your nose, pause for five seconds, and then exhale slowly
- 26:01through your mouth and then pause for five seconds.
- 26:07This is what I am actually trying to teach you from the
- 26:10beginning of this episode, alright?
- 26:12While you are doing this, focus on the sensation of your breath,
- 26:19alright? Focus completely on how you are
- 26:22breathing. When your mind wanders, notice
- 26:25it and gently return to the breath.
- 26:32So basically, while you are doing it, focus on your breath.
- 26:38That's it. That's meditation for you guys
- 26:42in a simplest form possible. You can also try a body scan,
- 26:47moving awareness from head to toe, or a mindful walking.
- 26:53Simply noticing each step. Remember, you know, it's not
- 26:58about stopping thoughts, it's about watching them without
- 27:03judgment. Alright, so that's today's
- 27:11episode guys. Mindfulness and meditation for
- 27:16emotional recovery. We explored the history.
- 27:22We looked at the science, we saw how meditation helps emotional
- 27:28healing. As we move into the New year
- 27:322026, I cannot think of better practice to carry forward.
- 27:39Isn't it? Because life will always bring
- 27:42challenges no matter what. But with mindfulness, with
- 27:47meditation, with awareness, we can face them with strength.
- 27:55So I want to thank you for being here, for listening, for giving
- 28:05me your time. We started this series around
- 28:13May or June 2025. Like not the healing series but
- 28:19this podcast started around May end or June beginning of June
- 28:252025 and now its December already and the year is also
- 28:31closing. I think this is this is the 6th
- 28:34episode in healing series and we are still going.
- 28:40January has more to come January 2026.
- 28:45This is just the middle of the ride for me and for most of the
- 28:50people who are following me from the beginning.
- 28:53So as you step into the new year, pause, breathe and
- 29:00remember healing is not a race, it is a journey.
- 29:11So I would like to also specially appreciate you guys
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- 31:40your time in your busy schedules and listening to me.
- 31:44So I hope you will enter into New Year with new courage and
- 31:49prosperity, health and wealth with this meditation techniques.
- 31:55You keep that in mind and whenever you need to come back,
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- 32:01You can listen to it as many times as you like and get that
- 32:05insight and it will help you and your family members, friends and
- 32:10everybody around you to stay positive in life no matter what
- 32:15challenges throws. Until next time, stay mindful,
- 32:22stay present and keep healing people.
- 32:27This is Doctor Mukund signing off.
- 32:30I will catch you up in next episode in New Year 2026.
- 32:39Take care.