Boundaries, Myths, and Secret Tips!

IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective · Apr 28, 2022 · 25m

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Common Mistakes When Setting Boundaries

I'm not trying to judge you or how you set boundaries. I'm just trying to share some of the common pitfalls that I've noticed parents often make when trying to set boundaries.

Usually, the only reason I would call it a "mistake" is that it doesn't create the results that they are looking for.

MISTAKE:

Setting boundaries to control your teen.

SECRET TIP:

Shift your focus from your teen (something outside of your control) to what you can control, how you will respond.

MISTAKE:

Setting boundaries to get your teen to change or do…