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So Beautiful | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 138 · The Torah Sparks Podcast

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_00: Alright, Khevra Pela Yoit.
• 0:02
  SPEAKER_00: Today is Monday.
• 0:02
  SPEAKER_00: Here we go.
• 0:03
  SPEAKER_00: Yofi, the topic of beauty.
• 0:06
  SPEAKER_00: Beauty is vain.
• 0:09
  SPEAKER_00: A woman who fears Hashem will be praised.
• 0:15
  SPEAKER_00: This is talking about when a person finds a beautiful woman, but she doesn't have Yichos.
• 0:19
  SPEAKER_00: She's not part of like a noble lineage, or she doesn't have Yeras Heshem.
• 0:25
  SPEAKER_00: Right?
• 0:26
  SPEAKER_00: Then if you find all that then we're saying that uh the fear of Hashem that the woman possesses, that's the praise.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_00: A person should try to find someone who has all of this.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_00: Yofi, Yeras Hashem, and Yachos, but then you have to be concerned to choose a woman who is going to be Yofi in your eyes, beautiful.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: Sharia Amir, like it says, the woman is described for her beauty.
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_00: Would sit by the by the mikfa keet heikh the havi bene shapir kabasis that way the children that would come about from the union after that, from those from those ladies and their husbands, would they would they would they would have that that beauty as well.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_00: The beauty that you have is belongs to women.
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  SPEAKER_00: A person should strive to find for his children, for his sons, nashim yathos, kideshloy and bachheras, why to um avoid shmir sinaim issues, ishta vikne latachitim yosimasha ishla.
• 1:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's why a person um uh Yaza Yahush Ishta, a person should buy his wife clothing that way she should look beautiful.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_00: She should find grace in your eyes, and that way, if she looks beautiful to you, then you'll be less likely to look at another.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: Right.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes you find the opposite where women will get all dressed up to go outside, but the parents are saying, no.
• 1:53
  SPEAKER_00: Women should get dressed up inside, um, more so than she does outside.
• 1:56
  SPEAKER_00: She makes an astronomy, right?
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_00: And the outside is a place where there's other men, Yoiser Tobsha Diskashikach.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_00: It's better that he does that she gets dressed up inside for the husband of a both neighbors.
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_00: For the husband, she should um look more beautiful.
• 2:15
  SPEAKER_00: Um will help him avoid temptation.
• 2:21
  SPEAKER_00: These things are not Pasha de Zachim, these mommy shuh things are happening way up by calling Bino in the realm of Bino, and that's really the woman's uh that's really the woman's place, the Bino Yeser that she possesses, the Kashir Essa Shina is helping to beautify the Shrina says the Palioits cult cobble to not sir on the other side, the flip side, it's prohibited for a man to pursue um this idea of attractiveness, to beautify himself with adorments, but things that women are accustomed to doing, a man should not do them for themselves.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_00: Like what?
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_00: Kigono Sal Subasara, right?
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_00: For example, curling his hair, sir, or to shave him to shave the arpit to Lustako Bemara, the khademer to stare in the mirror.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: These things are over of Lo Yilbash.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, practically La Locha today, what's actually versus not?
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_00: Speak to your local orthodox rabbi.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_00: Fine.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_00: Ach, the Yapos Atmully Shame Shemaim Royal Hug and Sisma, it's an important thing.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: A person should beautify himself for the sake of heaven.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_00: That's a good thing.
• 3:28
  SPEAKER_00: His clothing should be clean, but le revival cara shouldn't have rips and stuff like that.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: He should look nice, he should look shit put together, especially when it comes to praying.
• 3:39
  SPEAKER_00: Uh and when you're when you're starting the terror.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_00: These are things that have no fixed measure.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_00: Bemida or misara, Zeudarahishara.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_00: This is the upright path.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_00: Wishing you all the best.
• 3:51
  SPEAKER_00: Have a beautiful rest of your day.