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Scheana Shaying her Secrets · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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Speaker 1: This is Teddy Teapot with Teddy Kevin. Guys, I am
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Speaker 1: so excited this week on Teddy tea Pod. I have
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Speaker 1: Sheena joining me and not only have we had so
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Speaker 1: many years of laughs, but I haven't even seen you
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Speaker 1: in person since you had a beautiful baby girl. Congratulations,
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Speaker 1: thank you. I know it's been so long since I've
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Speaker 1: seen you. Like, there's so many people who haven't met Brock,
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Speaker 1: haven't met Summer. It's just like a pandemic, a whole baby.
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Speaker 1: It's crazy. It is crazy. I met Brock for just
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Speaker 1: a second when we were at Bravo Con but it
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Speaker 1: was was it like new that it was kind of
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Speaker 1: new then? Right, oh my god, so new. We were
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Speaker 1: dating I think seven weeks maybe at that point, Like
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Speaker 1: it was so new. Well, he how did you guys meet?
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Speaker 1: We were in San Diego Music Festival weekend, ended up
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Speaker 1: at the same after party. They were like twelve people.
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Speaker 1: There was a really small, little exclusive thing and I
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Speaker 1: heard the accent and then I was like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: I was just in Australia and New Zealand a few
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Speaker 1: months ago. Started showing him some pictures, didn't ask for
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Speaker 1: my number anything. Then the next day he asked his friend.
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Speaker 1: He was like, wait, who was that girl? I was
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Speaker 1: talking to slit in my d MS. Was so lucky
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Speaker 1: that I checked that. I say, you opened the point
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Speaker 1: ninety nine like the plus ninety nine. I never do.
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Speaker 1: I'm one of my girlfriends was like, oh, the club
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Speaker 1: we went to last night posted a cute video of
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Speaker 1: us check your d m s and then I see
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Speaker 1: this TM and I was like, who's this? And I
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Speaker 1: opened it up and he asked me if I wanted
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Speaker 1: to go to a Rams game next time. I was
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Speaker 1: in Next time, Key was in l A. And I
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Speaker 1: was like, I love that you led with football. I'm
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Speaker 1: actually a Charger fan. I know you're a Rams fan. Well,
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Speaker 1: I was like, come on, you guys have to come
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Speaker 1: with us now. A new stadium is incredible, ridiculous. I
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Speaker 1: know we're leaving. Life is beautiful early because there's the
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Speaker 1: home Chargers game on Sunday. I love that. So you're
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Speaker 1: in Vegas right now? What are you guys up to?
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Speaker 1: So we were at circa earlier. We went to the
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Speaker 1: new stadium swim which is so dope. Oh my god.
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Speaker 1: It's like the coolest pool with literally the biggest screen
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Speaker 1: you've ever seen. It's so nice. So we were there.
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Speaker 1: We're staying at the d Downtown. We got life is
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Speaker 1: beautiful tonight, my heart tomorrow and then life is beautiful.
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Speaker 1: Then back to l A for the Chargers game. You
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Speaker 1: know what it's. I'm coming straight from Miami myself and
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Speaker 1: I am on the struggle bus. Like we're sitting here,
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Speaker 1: there's like Splitzer's next to me. I'm like, should I
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Speaker 1: indulge now or wait until after I present cheap trick
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Speaker 1: because I've got to, like at least be able to
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Speaker 1: read a teleprompter. I'm like, I'm like, I could fudge
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Speaker 1: you with Sheena. Like we've been in a lot of
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Speaker 1: situations together where we've atched oh my god, super Bowl,
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Speaker 1: super Bowl. I don't even remember us flying home. I
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Speaker 1: just remember the videos. I had my little Breatha lizer
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Speaker 1: thing and we're like, let's see who can blow a
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Speaker 1: higher number. Champagne, Champagne. The problem is is I was
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Speaker 1: already a mom then you weren't. So what is my excuse?
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Speaker 1: I'm a mom. Now we're going to build a breatha lizer. Later,
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Speaker 1: you know, I'll probably have to dump my milk tonight.
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Speaker 1: So summer here with you guys, or yeah, do you
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Speaker 1: want to see her? Yes? Okay, Mom, can you bring her? Oh?
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Speaker 1: How can I love that your mom is here? This
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Speaker 1: is amazing. It's a family affair. So how many months
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Speaker 1: old is she? She's four and a half four and
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Speaker 1: a half months And I heard you had like some
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Speaker 1: some sort of medical condition after you gave birth. Their
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Speaker 1: everything's good or what what happened? Everything is good? Now? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: here's my little angel super Hi. Oh my she almost time. Hi?
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Speaker 1: Is that the vill you're gonna have to meet baby
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Speaker 1: daf Yes you are, Yes, you are. She is so
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Speaker 1: delicious almost makes me want to have another And then nope,
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Speaker 1: no bye. Is that exactly how you looked as a baby? Exactly?
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Speaker 1: They have a side by side of my dad holding
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Speaker 1: me and my dad holding her. And if my dad,
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Speaker 1: I mean he's aged the slightest. That's the only difference
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Speaker 1: you can tell on the photo. It's like, oh, okay,
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Speaker 1: so that's she not on that summer. I mean she
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Speaker 1: has like the like her skin, like everything. She's just
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Speaker 1: so flawless, like I can't even take And what about
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Speaker 1: the fact that all of you vander Pump Rules girls
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Speaker 1: had babies at the same time, I know, so crazy.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, you were asking me, so I'm preclamsia right, Um,
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Speaker 1: when I was already like induced and like in labor,
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Speaker 1: they diagnosed me with pre clamsia, and then after I
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Speaker 1: had her that advance to help syndrome. So what exactly
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Speaker 1: is that it's extremely rare to get. It's even more
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Speaker 1: rare postcard um. It's like the second highest fatality and
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Speaker 1: pregnant women. It's the destruction of your red blood cells,
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Speaker 1: which elevates your liver enzymes and lowers your blood plate lists.
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Speaker 1: Your body is just not okay and it literally needs help.
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Speaker 1: And then how did they fix it? So I was
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Speaker 1: on blood pressure medication. I got put on a magnesium
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Speaker 1: drip for twenty four hours that made me extremely flew like,
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Speaker 1: like I thought they were exaggerating, and they're like, Okay,
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Speaker 1: we're gonna start you on the magnesium drip. You're gonna
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Speaker 1: feel very flu like I'm like yeah, whatever, Like I
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Speaker 1: got there. Oh no, it was no joke. I was
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Speaker 1: like shivering uncontrollably. I felt like I was having seizures,
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Speaker 1: Like it was the scariest thing ever. And then when
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Speaker 1: she came out, she was just like super lethargic because
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Speaker 1: all of the stuff they're pumping me obviously affected her.
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Speaker 1: So then her heart rate was low. She had a
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Speaker 1: bit of a murmur that we think is cleared up now,
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Speaker 1: but that she had to have the cardiologists come in
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Speaker 1: have an e KG at two days old. It was
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Speaker 1: just like it was a lot. I was on blood
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Speaker 1: passion medication for about two months after that, and then
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Speaker 1: everything started to go back on its own. I had
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Speaker 1: to do blood work every week, and once that regulated,
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Speaker 1: I'm like totally fine and back to normal now. But
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Speaker 1: I'm at high risk for that to happen again if
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Speaker 1: I were to get pregnant again, and I'm already high
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Speaker 1: risk because of my age. So we might we might
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Speaker 1: go with surrogate. We might a dog. We might take
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Speaker 1: our chances. We might just be happy with one. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I I mean I had a similar situation happened with Cruise,
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Speaker 1: where you know, we're I was having trouble after I
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Speaker 1: had the potos and I end up having him. His
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Speaker 1: heart rate like was not good. They immediately had to
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Speaker 1: put him in the nick you and then I was
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Speaker 1: just so sick that they, you know, put me on
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Speaker 1: all this medication. So then I like, just I couldn't
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Speaker 1: I couldn't even really fathom what was going on. But here,
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Speaker 1: I mean it was heartbreaking and really sat you know,
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Speaker 1: having to take your child to the e k G
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Speaker 1: and do all those things and still to this day
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Speaker 1: he has aortic by cusband valve. But when it comes
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Speaker 1: to childbirth, it's like you almost forget all the negative.
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Speaker 1: Like it's it's like it goes away, like going into
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Speaker 1: having dev five years later or six years later, however
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Speaker 1: long it was. It was like I forgot all the
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Speaker 1: scary memories because I was so excited to have another baby.
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Speaker 1: So whatever it is that you do decide, those memories
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Speaker 1: do subside until you're like in there and then all
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Speaker 1: of a sudden you're like they say something different. You're like, oh,
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Speaker 1: this has changed since the last time. But I mean,
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Speaker 1: you were blessed with such a beautiful baby. Girl about
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Speaker 1: it is? You know, it's a lot too, it's a
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Speaker 1: lot to go through, especially and did you suffer from
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Speaker 1: any like postpartum anxiety or depression or you felt good?
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Speaker 1: We were right back into filming three days after I
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Speaker 1: got home from my five day hospital stay. That I
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Speaker 1: was like, I didn't even have time to process like everything.
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Speaker 1: It was just like back to work after two years
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Speaker 1: of being off like boom so quickly. What was the difference,
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Speaker 1: Like how did you do it? I thankfully had an
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Speaker 1: amazing supportive partner who was the most hands on dad,
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Speaker 1: my mom around full time to help us, and once
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Speaker 1: we wrapped, then I was like, Okay, now it's like
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Speaker 1: everything settling in and now I'm like a full time
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Speaker 1: like home with her all the time. But it was
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Speaker 1: just like, you know, I had to be here for
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Speaker 1: this event, here for this, and it was just like
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Speaker 1: so much going on. I was like struggling with just
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Speaker 1: like my body image. But it's slowly all gotten better,
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Speaker 1: getting back to just feeling like myself again. And thankfully,
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Speaker 1: I think most of the anxiety I had was leading
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Speaker 1: up to having her because I had the miscarriage, so
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Speaker 1: then I was just terrified of anything happening to her.
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Speaker 1: But it's like, if it's not a miscarriage, it's a stillborn.
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Speaker 1: If it's not as stillborn, it's SIDS. If it's not SIDS,
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Speaker 1: it's we're getting kidnapped. Like there's just always going to
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Speaker 1: be something of the parent that you worry about. And
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Speaker 1: I think that just comes with being a parent. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I think that no matter what, you never want to
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Speaker 1: see your child struggling or in pain or you know,
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Speaker 1: any of those types of things. But what I kind
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Speaker 1: of always had to remind myself is like I can't
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Speaker 1: but I can't keep them in a bubble forever. Like
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Speaker 1: I have let them learn from their mistakes the same
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Speaker 1: way that I do. But it's so hard as a
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Speaker 1: parent because like now that and you'll see the same
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Speaker 1: with Summer now that Slate is like getting older and
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Speaker 1: getting more mature and all these things. Like I see
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Speaker 1: her doing things because her personality type is so much
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Speaker 1: like mine, and I want to be like, no, don't
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Speaker 1: do that. You're gonna regret that, And then she's like
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Speaker 1: get off of you know. Like so it's it's beauty
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Speaker 1: of having a daughter. But it's also I realized that
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Speaker 1: I don't do it with with crews. I do it
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Speaker 1: more with you know, with the girls. So I'm like, okay,
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Speaker 1: I have to, like because you see yourself in them
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Speaker 1: and you really just want to protect them. But I've
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Speaker 1: noticed the same thing, um, you know, with my husband
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Speaker 1: and son, and then you have you have two stepkids
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Speaker 1: as well, right, Yeah, they're in Australia, so I haven't
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Speaker 1: even been able to meet them yet because we haven't
10:22
Speaker 1: been able to travel. And that's the whole thing that
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Speaker 1: you'll see play out next season with where the situation
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Speaker 1: lies with his act and the kids. It's it's a
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Speaker 1: lot so one one day. And I mean I have
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Speaker 1: a stepdaughter as well, and I would just say the
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Speaker 1: biggest thing is, no matter, no matter what not that
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Speaker 1: you're even asking me, is but if you lead with
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Speaker 1: love as being this you know, the step mom, that's
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Speaker 1: really all you can do. And no matter what the
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Speaker 1: drama is or what what things arise, if you lead
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Speaker 1: with love and you you know, you treat your stepkids
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Speaker 1: the same way you treat yours, then you know it's
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Speaker 1: all good. It's crazy the girls have the same birthday.
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Speaker 1: What yes, what's his other daughter's? Are you allowed to say? Winter,
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Speaker 1: I am deceased. You are not telling me the truth, right,
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Speaker 1: I swear to God. But that, for for me personally,
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Speaker 1: had nothing to do with why I named her Summer.
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Speaker 1: I was a huge fan of the O C and
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Speaker 1: Rachel Bilson since high school, so I've had the name
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Speaker 1: Summer since I was sixteen years old. I feel like
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Speaker 1: you told me that. I feel like I've heard it before,
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Speaker 1: but that is pretty amazing. So then when I find
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Speaker 1: out he had a daughter named Winter, he was like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, He's like, I love Summer because then
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Speaker 1: it's like, you know, an ode to her older sister,
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Speaker 1: and it's like naming her after her. And then just
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Speaker 1: ironically they have the same birthday, which is insane, like
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Speaker 1: five hours into the ap so you know that's some
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Speaker 1: kind of sign that it was all meant to be. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: give us from the season? I know the rules where
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Speaker 1: you can't tell me too much, but I got here
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Speaker 1: a little bit. Let's just say Brock is at the
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Speaker 1: center of more drama and storyline than even myself for
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Speaker 1: some of the other people who have been on the
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Speaker 1: show for a long time. He is just like in it.
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Speaker 1: And when he is in it, do you step in
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Speaker 1: or do you let him just figure it out for himself?
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Speaker 1: A little bit of both. Like he can more than
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Speaker 1: hold his own, and I mean he is my like
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Speaker 1: number one supporter, but like he wants me to handle
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Speaker 1: my own too. He's like, well, you should have set
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Speaker 1: up for yourself, you should have spoke up, And I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I know, but I forgot like those points, like can
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Speaker 1: you just say them for me? And he's like, I
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Speaker 1: mean I can, but you need to speak up for yourself.
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Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, I'll do better. And I'm just like, oh, like,
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Speaker 1: I haven't had to be confrontational for two years. I
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Speaker 1: haven't had to really, you know, like address certain issues.
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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, the one thing I do love
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Speaker 1: about being on reality television is it forces you to
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Speaker 1: be accountable. Things that normally you would sweep under the rug,
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Speaker 1: that you would just not bring up, and you just like,
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Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal. You don't have
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Speaker 1: that option. You know, you have to face all of
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Speaker 1: those things. And that's a big thing with him. This
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Speaker 1: first season is a lot of the stuff with his
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Speaker 1: past and his kids and his ex like all gets
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Speaker 1: brought up and being no choice but to just guts
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Speaker 1: all of that. But a for all, it was very
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Speaker 1: like cathartic for him, and you'll see so much of that.
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Speaker 1: But let me just say that a couple of the
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Speaker 1: main girls had their very strong opinions on his past.
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Speaker 1: Oh so it's mainly the women. Oh yeah, is it
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Speaker 1: somebody that you have feuded within the the past, I
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Speaker 1: feel like other than like Ariana and Kal, It's like
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Speaker 1: I've kind of feuded with everyone, so, you know, but
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Speaker 1: that's the beauty of our group is that we always
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Speaker 1: find our way back to each other. And that's the
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Speaker 1: thing that I just I love about this group. We say,
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Speaker 1: you know, it's not really black and white and our
15:18
Speaker 1: friendships there's a lot of gray area, but that's what
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Speaker 1: helps you grow as a person, as a friend and individual.
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Speaker 1: And yeah, it'll it'll be good. And how has it
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Speaker 1: been feeling without Stasie and Brittany And I mean, because
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Speaker 1: I know, I just saw you guys all got together
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Speaker 1: for a play date. I know that Devin Hartford have
15:38
Speaker 1: had a play date, but I just saw of you guys,
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Speaker 1: And does it feel did it feel like nothing's changed?
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Speaker 1: It make you, you know, miss filming with them? Or
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Speaker 1: it definitely felt different, like their presence was definitely missed,
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Speaker 1: you know. I mean, they're a huge part of the
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Speaker 1: show for so long, so it was very different. But
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Speaker 1: at the same time, I'm in such a different place
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Speaker 1: in my life now having Brock, you know, his first
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Speaker 1: season on the main character with his own storyline, Like
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Speaker 1: for me, that just took up so much time that
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Speaker 1: I was just trying to focus on that and our
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Speaker 1: relationship and our life together. So for us, like, it
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Speaker 1: was a really really good summer and I'm excited, nervous,
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Speaker 1: but excited to see it all back. Yeah, what is uh?
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Speaker 1: What's he is he nervous about or anything? Or he's
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Speaker 1: just like, we'll see whatever happens happens. A little bit
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Speaker 1: of both. I think he doesn't really know what he's
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Speaker 1: in for yet. He's never watched the show. He's seen
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Speaker 1: bits and pieces here and there, like when they have
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Speaker 1: like a marathon on or like with his ex girlfriend,
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Speaker 1: Like he saw a little bit of it, but never
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Speaker 1: really knew the show or who I was or anyone.
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Speaker 1: So it'll be different for him, but it'll be exciting.
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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be really good. I remember I
16:59
Speaker 1: hadn't watched over Now. I watched like all the different
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Speaker 1: Bravo shows, but before I had never watched Beverly Hills,
17:04
Speaker 1: and my first season it was watching the Confessionals. That's
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Speaker 1: when I was like, what And then you have to
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Speaker 1: relive it and get a full new angry over something
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Speaker 1: else that you never even thought. So for me, that
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Speaker 1: was the hardest part because like, yes, the inscene stuff
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Speaker 1: like where you're in the moment that can hurt your feelings,
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Speaker 1: but you're they're processing it. But when it's completely different
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Speaker 1: than what you've been told, that's where I was like, uh,
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Speaker 1: which is why I tried to always say things to
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Speaker 1: people's faces, which actually got me in trouble too. But
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Speaker 1: either way, you it's a lose lose situation sometimes for sure. Okay,
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17:52
Speaker 1: dropping the episode immediately. We're very excited to have him.
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Speaker 1: He's a he's an old, dear friend and uh, he
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Speaker 1: gave us. He gave us some time, which is he
18:02
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Speaker 1: and we really, really really appreciate it. So we're gonna
18:07
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18:27
Speaker 1: All right, now we have to get to some listener questions.
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Speaker 1: So I did a poll yesterday, so I'll be a
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Speaker 1: little rapid fire. Um. I already asked one of them, Um,
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Speaker 1: how did you know Brock was the one? I have
18:43
Speaker 1: never felt more myself with anyone in my entire life,
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Speaker 1: Like I'm so authentically fully myself and I just there's
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Speaker 1: there's nothing that like I'm embarrassed to do in front
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Speaker 1: of him, Like We're just so openly comfortable with each
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Speaker 1: other and I've never felt that way before. And he
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Speaker 1: didn't like give up on me, like I pushed him
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Speaker 1: away for a solid month. I was just like I
19:09
Speaker 1: want to be single. I want to be single, and
19:11
Speaker 1: he was just very persistent in the most loving way.
19:15
Speaker 1: And I've never felt so wanted in my life. Ah.
19:19
Speaker 1: That's so sweet, which leads me to the next question.
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Speaker 1: When is the big day? We're hoping for November two.
19:30
Speaker 1: We want to get married in Bali, that's where we
19:33
Speaker 1: fell in love, and until travel restrictions let up, his
19:37
Speaker 1: family is able to even leave Australia. We're hoping that
19:41
Speaker 1: November next year, when it's summer, there will be a
19:44
Speaker 1: safe time and will summer. Be a flower girl, absolutely,
19:49
Speaker 1: and like she needs to be walking, Like, well, we'll
19:52
Speaker 1: give it a little over a year. And um, are
19:54
Speaker 1: you going to put her in a crop top dresser? Now?
19:57
Speaker 1: I haven't decided yet. Very good question and very likely
20:02
Speaker 1: could be. Are you gonna do multiple outfit changes or
20:07
Speaker 1: are you like a one wedding dress. I think just one, yeah,
20:12
Speaker 1: unless there's like a part of the dress that maybe
20:14
Speaker 1: like comes off like an attachment, like maybe there's like
20:17
Speaker 1: a longer train or something, and then it like shortened
20:21
Speaker 1: for the reception. But I'm not going to be like
20:23
Speaker 1: changing into another dress. I don't think. I haven't even
20:27
Speaker 1: thought about it yet. It's like, I guess when I
20:29
Speaker 1: do your second wedding too, I'm like, I've put so
20:31
Speaker 1: much thought into like my first one, then now I'm
20:34
Speaker 1: just like whatever, Like him and I are both divorced.
20:38
Speaker 1: So my first wedding, like there was two fifty people there.
20:42
Speaker 1: My second wedding, it was my immediate family and like, yeah,
20:46
Speaker 1: same three my first one. So I'm like, we're not
20:48
Speaker 1: doing that again. But Bali is incredible. I actually went
20:52
Speaker 1: there on my honeymoon in my first wedding, so I
20:55
Speaker 1: love that I do love Bali. So what do you
20:57
Speaker 1: guys know where is? Or you can't on me? Um.
21:01
Speaker 1: So we were looking at a couple of different venues.
21:04
Speaker 1: We want to do one that's like an airbnb where
21:06
Speaker 1: our immediate family can stay, but it can still host
21:09
Speaker 1: an event. So we need to like fine time sometime
21:14
Speaker 1: next year when we can go out there and like
21:16
Speaker 1: scout them in person. There's this one place called the
21:19
Speaker 1: Noku Beach House that I saw on a Netflix show
21:21
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, this looks I think
21:25
Speaker 1: I saw that place too. Is it like the Greatest
21:27
Speaker 1: Vacations or whatever? Yes, it's amazing. Yeah, He's like, we
21:33
Speaker 1: can do better. I'm like, I don't know, and then
21:35
Speaker 1: he showed me better and I'm like, okay, we need
21:38
Speaker 1: to just go out there. But everything can look better
21:41
Speaker 1: on Instagram, but like if you see a real video
21:45
Speaker 1: of it, that's that's actually anything can look good in
21:47
Speaker 1: a picture. That's what I said. So I'm like, I
21:50
Speaker 1: think we're gonna go out there with my sister and
21:52
Speaker 1: her boyfriend whenever it's you know, safe to travel next
21:56
Speaker 1: year and do a quick little trip look at some
21:59
Speaker 1: ben us, and then we'll set a date because I
22:02
Speaker 1: just have a rough timeline. I'm like, if it happens,
22:05
Speaker 1: you know, end of October to early February, like sometime
22:11
Speaker 1: while it's the summer season. Yeah, well that's so exciting. Um.
22:16
Speaker 1: The other questions are a lot about summer. We've already
22:19
Speaker 1: mentioned that your mom's helped you, but a lot of
22:21
Speaker 1: people want to know do you have a nanny in
22:23
Speaker 1: addition or is it always your mom? No, so we
22:25
Speaker 1: call her Nana, So she's the nanny. So, so what
22:30
Speaker 1: happens if you're in San Diego versus l A. So
22:34
Speaker 1: she comes with us down to San Diego sometimes. If
22:36
Speaker 1: she doesn't, then Rock or myself or just home with her.
22:40
Speaker 1: If I vacuupuncture, if he's home with her, he goes
22:42
Speaker 1: to the gym, I'm home with her. We're pretty much
22:44
Speaker 1: only in San Diego on the weekends, so it's usually
22:47
Speaker 1: pretty quick turnaround trips. And um, half the time my
22:51
Speaker 1: mom comes, half the time we just go down there,
22:53
Speaker 1: just the two of us. Yeah, pretty perfect. And if
22:56
Speaker 1: you were not on vander Pump Rules, what do you
22:59
Speaker 1: think you would have done? I still want to do
23:04
Speaker 1: entertainment news hosting, like a entertainment Tonight daily pop like
23:08
Speaker 1: a news back in the day. Like, that's my dream job.
23:12
Speaker 1: Give me a teleprompter and a microphone. I will crush it.
23:15
Speaker 1: That is my first true love. I got my degree
23:18
Speaker 1: in broadcast journalism, So I really do want to host
23:22
Speaker 1: any kind of show. Entertainment news would be my first choice. Yeah,
23:26
Speaker 1: pop culture, it's a dream, Yeah, absolutely, But if I
23:29
Speaker 1: could host like a travel show or even like a
23:33
Speaker 1: live talent sort of show, a game show, like I
23:36
Speaker 1: just really want to get back into hosting. I haven't
23:39
Speaker 1: done that in so long, and that's like what I
23:41
Speaker 1: really love to do. I love that, And now that
23:43
Speaker 1: you put it out there, it means that it's going
23:44
Speaker 1: to happen. That That's that's the way I've been kind
23:46
Speaker 1: of going through this year, like, yeah, you just keep
23:49
Speaker 1: putting out there, it's gonna happen. Alright. Who are you
23:52
Speaker 1: closest with You can't say brock out of all of
23:55
Speaker 1: your co stars. Tommin Ariana for sure. They have been
23:59
Speaker 1: my ride or die from day one, and I was
24:03
Speaker 1: literally just with them at the pool. Oh they're here too.
24:07
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, And James and Michael, I'm super
24:11
Speaker 1: close with them as well. So yeah, I mean I'm
24:14
Speaker 1: I'm close with most of the cats, but like Tom
24:16
Speaker 1: and Ariana, they are your people, my people. Yes, And
24:21
Speaker 1: if you could have one person come back, who would
24:23
Speaker 1: it be? Only one? Yeah? Only one? Sorry, Okay, If
24:29
Speaker 1: it's only one, then I would have to say Kristen,
24:32
Speaker 1: because you can't pick one out of a couple, so
24:36
Speaker 1: I would I would bring back Kristen. Yeah, all right,
24:39
Speaker 1: and then now you're our final question is if you
24:44
Speaker 1: had to pick one of you still watch housewives, right, yeah,
24:47
Speaker 1: So if you could be on any one of the franchises,
24:49
Speaker 1: which one would it be? And why I would want
24:55
Speaker 1: to go to Jersey there, Like I want to just
25:01
Speaker 1: move in with Dolores and have her be like my
25:03
Speaker 1: step mom and I just I'm obsessed with her. So
25:08
Speaker 1: I would love to be a part of the Jersey franchise.
25:12
Speaker 1: I don't think I would fit in, but I would
25:13
Speaker 1: just love it. I love her too, and she is
25:16
Speaker 1: somebody who when I no longer be with you know,
25:19
Speaker 1: when that all happened, Dolores was one of the first
25:22
Speaker 1: people to call me, and like, I only met her
25:25
Speaker 1: a couple of times, but she just was like, you know,
25:27
Speaker 1: I know it can be hard and it's such a
25:28
Speaker 1: big transition and you take things like but she was
25:31
Speaker 1: just so kind. It's like it really made me love her. Um,
25:35
Speaker 1: but yeah, she's she's really great. And then I've got
25:39
Speaker 1: to ask one more other than Rock being the center
25:42
Speaker 1: of a lot of the drama, can you give us
25:44
Speaker 1: any more teases? Like I need one final tease. I
25:49
Speaker 1: think we should do a drinking game every time I
25:52
Speaker 1: cry because my hormone were so out of whack after baby, Like,
25:58
Speaker 1: if there's one episode that I don't shed it here,
26:01
Speaker 1: I will be shocked. And it wasn't even always like
26:03
Speaker 1: sad here. It was like I would just be like
26:05
Speaker 1: talking about summer or something and just like everything made
26:09
Speaker 1: me cry, like embarrassing. And I have no botox this
26:12
Speaker 1: season because I'm still breasteating, so you see you can
26:16
Speaker 1: see movement. Yeah, well I feel like I cry a
26:21
Speaker 1: lot and I had no excuse. So, you know, thank
26:26
Speaker 1: you so much for for joining me. And I know
26:28
Speaker 1: we both have you know, I heart and all the things,
26:31
Speaker 1: but I appreciate it and I hope to see you
26:33
Speaker 1: soon and that we can thank you get the girls
26:36
Speaker 1: together alrighty bye hne by, Well, thanks guys for joining
26:42
Speaker 1: this week's Teddy Tea Pod with myself and Sheina. I've
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