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RHOC Recap: Friends Worth the WEIGHT · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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  Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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  Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
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  Speaker 1: bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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  Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well. Hey, ray Drops, Oh, today's episode Reality
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  Speaker 1: of the King. We are going to recap episode five
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  Speaker 1: of season nineteen of the Real Housewives of Oorts County.
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  Speaker 1: And look, I've been having such a good time with
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  Speaker 1: her and she has been such a gem. Why not
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  Speaker 1: invite her back? You guys are loving her. I love
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  Speaker 1: her the most. Give it up for the beautiful Alexis
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  Speaker 1: Bellino back again.
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  Speaker 2: Like it or not?
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  Speaker 3: Hi, I like we like it.
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  Speaker 1: The ray Drops are loving you. I hope you've been
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  Speaker 1: having as much fun with me as I have it
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  Speaker 1: with you.
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  Speaker 4: Girl, Carlos, I would never have invited you to my
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  Speaker 4: wedding if we weren't having fun all the time.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, it doesn't matter if we're at a party
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  Speaker 2: or we're here, you're fun everywhere.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, And guess what if I was wearing
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  Speaker 4: an ugly outfit, you'd say, I think maybe you should,
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  Speaker 4: you know, step it up a little.
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  Speaker 2: I know that about you that I.
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  Speaker 3: Like the Yes, that's totally beat, that's totally beat.
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  Speaker 1: Well, look, as we get started, I gotta ask you
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  Speaker 1: the million dollar question.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, do you have a fatty photo somewhere?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my, you're going there.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's the topic of the episode.
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  Speaker 2: I know you're right, You're right.
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  Speaker 4: I I do fluctuate sometimes.
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  Speaker 2: I think five at the most pounds.
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  Speaker 4: I don't have a photo of me super super heavy.
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  Speaker 4: I think here's the thing, here's the thing I wanted
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  Speaker 4: to make clear. I'm glad you brought this up. Every woman,
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  Speaker 4: as stick thin as you could be, can take the
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  Speaker 4: wrong pose at the wrong angle, or your arms like
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  Speaker 4: in the road, and you could look twenty pounds heavier
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  Speaker 4: than you really are, or ten pounds or five pounds.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm sure there's there's some out there. But
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  Speaker 4: I my weight doesn't flexuate because I just I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I mean five pounds, it does five to ten pounds,
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  Speaker 4: five never ten.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't think that it's.
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  Speaker 4: Something where it's like that could have just been a
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  Speaker 4: bad angle to be honest.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, look, I feel like we all have one. Look,
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  Speaker 3: Alexis I got one? You see?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that doesn't look bad to me, Carlos, but look
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  Speaker 2: at the house. Okay, show me your abs now? Oh okay?
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  Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well you didn't prep me, see we don't.
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  Speaker 4: We don't talk before these You didn't prep me to
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  Speaker 4: go find the worst photo I have of my ads.
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  Speaker 4: I would show you after Memorial Day weekend or something
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  Speaker 4: like that and show you the way I look.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you didn't give me that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, can you give me a little bit of advice
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  Speaker 4: when we're going to do this episode from now on?
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  Speaker 3: I want to.
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  Speaker 2: That isn't okay? So wait is that you? Now?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, hatty p Tati? Holy okay, you have a six pack?
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  Speaker 2: What you've been eating?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know I'm planning based, so I eat lots
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  Speaker 1: of grease kanewah to.
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  Speaker 4: So you are hold on, I know we have to
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  Speaker 4: get into the episode, but you so you are vegan?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? And is that medical or is that just you
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  Speaker 2: just decided to.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's all vanity it's all vanity. I'm vain.
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  Speaker 4: So you think meat causes because there's traders that think
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  Speaker 4: it doesn't. But you think meat causes you to be heavier,
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  Speaker 4: and the greens keep you.
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  Speaker 2: And the vegetables keep you lean and mean and mean machine.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like greens keep you lean and meat
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  Speaker 1: keeps you meat these so I am very much a
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  Speaker 1: lean cuisine.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I'm known as the rabbit because I eat mostly vegetables.
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  Speaker 4: I want a salad or some veggies. I'll order the
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  Speaker 4: asparagus even though it makes your peace snank. I don't care.
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  Speaker 4: I will order the asparagus with my own seasonings and
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  Speaker 4: maybe some parmesan doesn't matter. So maybe that's why I
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  Speaker 4: don't gain a ton of weight here and there. I
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  Speaker 4: also don't like sweet anymore in my older age. But yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 4: we have to dig in.
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  Speaker 1: I know, we okay, so we have to say again,
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  Speaker 1: so listen see we First of all, I thought this
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  Speaker 1: episode was super fun. I laughed a lot watching the episode,
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  Speaker 1: so I thought it was a fun. Well, but what
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  Speaker 1: wasn't fun is this. You know, listen, there's a storyline
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  Speaker 1: that they continue this episode of Tamera alleging that you know,
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  Speaker 1: Jen wants to be her and showing a photo of
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  Speaker 1: Jen where she was heavier than she is now.
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  Speaker 3: The cast called it.
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  Speaker 1: The fatty photo, and Jim looked visibly upset by it.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, who walks around? Like and does that? Did
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  Speaker 1: you think it was mean?
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  Speaker 2: Wait?
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  Speaker 4: When you say Jen walks around saying who does that?
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  Speaker 2: You mean who does the photo?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Because because here's the problem. Jen was in the photo
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  Speaker 4: with her. They were taking the photo together. It was
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  Speaker 4: a photo of you saw the photo, It was a
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  Speaker 4: photo of all of them together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Jen was not happy that Tamara decided to send it
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  Speaker 1: to people and show it to people.
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  Speaker 3: Did you think that was sending it me spaed it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well I definitely wouldn't start showing that to people.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what that was, but I think at
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  Speaker 4: the point, I'm not sure, I don't know, okay, but
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  Speaker 4: I feel like maybe at that point, here's the thing.
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  Speaker 4: I think Gin's up to here with Tamar, and I
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  Speaker 4: think Tamar's up here with Jen. I don't know how
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  Speaker 4: we're ever going to make this a Kumbaya moment, which
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  Speaker 4: we all want, right, we all want, we all want
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  Speaker 4: the reconciliation part of it. I think at that moment
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  Speaker 4: watching that, I was like, Tamar is completely fed up,
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  Speaker 4: thinks that Jen did really want to turn into her
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  Speaker 4: and become her. So she's showing the photo of when
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  Speaker 4: they met and then that I don't know what I mean,
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  Speaker 4: how else do you explain it?
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I honestly know that Tamar doesn't have a n bone
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  Speaker 4: in her body like that. But I do think it
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  Speaker 4: was not okay to show it. I will be honest,
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  Speaker 4: I don't think it was okay to see it, And I'm
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  Speaker 4: sure would you would you show that photo if you
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  Speaker 4: were in Tamor's position.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing, listen, I think I agree with
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  Speaker 1: you right in the sense of look showing the photo
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  Speaker 1: to insinuate someone's weight. If that's what she was doing,
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  Speaker 1: then that's not okay, right.
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  Speaker 3: Based on what I've.
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  Speaker 1: Heard from Tamora on the show prior to that, was
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  Speaker 1: how she really thinks this woman has transformed herself into
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  Speaker 1: how into what Tamer feels right Like. I think that's
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  Speaker 1: the difference that I'm seeing, and I think you agree
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  Speaker 1: with that. To Alexis, I think Tamar was saying this
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  Speaker 1: woman transformed herself into looking like me is the before
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  Speaker 1: and after of it all.
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  Speaker 3: That's what I got from.
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  Speaker 2: It, And here's that's what I got from you.
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  Speaker 4: And here's what I'm as an outsider I'm saying, is Okay,
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  Speaker 4: I can see both sides.
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  Speaker 2: Care's why I can see.
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  Speaker 4: Where Tamra would think this girl's trying to be me.
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  Speaker 4: I can see also Jen wanting to Tamra has. Let's
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  Speaker 4: be real, Tamra has like seven things. Now we've watched
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  Speaker 4: the season a little bit more, We've seen like four
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  Speaker 4: episodes or three episodes for Tamar has all this evidence.
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  Speaker 2: Of Jen did this and does this, and does this
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  Speaker 2: and does.
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  Speaker 4: This, and now it's like, Okay, I can kind of
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  Speaker 4: see that side. However, there's also the side of if
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  Speaker 4: someone sees a photo of them or is like I
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  Speaker 4: just want to be better. I want to be leaner,
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  Speaker 4: I want to have longer hair, I want to have
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  Speaker 4: better skin.
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  Speaker 2: We can't judge for that either.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, that's why I'm so caught in the like
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  Speaker 4: this like the middle and a vortext because it's like,
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  Speaker 4: I don't think either of them are really trying to.
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  Speaker 2: Be I don't I think they both have Okay, let
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  Speaker 2: me see it.
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  Speaker 4: This way, I think they both have a good position
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  Speaker 4: for where they stand. I think Tamarra has a good
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  Speaker 4: point and Jen has a good point. And that's the
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  Speaker 4: rot why this makes this this argument so like monumental,
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  Speaker 4: like it's a big deal and I don't know where's
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  Speaker 4: it going to go from here.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's why it's juicy. Okay. And by the way, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: big jam Or hadn't shown that photo.
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  Speaker 4: I mean that photo is creating the entire storyline once
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  Speaker 4: again right now, Like I don't know, she kind of carries.
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  Speaker 2: The story, she moves everything forward. I don't agree with it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm letting you know right now, I am telling you
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  Speaker 2: I don't agree with it.
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  Speaker 4: She ever showed the photo. However, here we are and
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  Speaker 4: I can see both sides of them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, No, I agree.
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  Speaker 1: And it's interesting too because I felt like when Gina
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  Speaker 1: was talking to Heather about it, Heather was sort of like, look,
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  Speaker 1: I think she did it for these reasons. And instantly
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  Speaker 1: they're like, Heather is scared of camera. This is your
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  Speaker 1: friend group. I don't know them as well as you do.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think Heather is scared of Tamera?
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  Speaker 2: No, No, Heather is not scared of Tamra.
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  Speaker 4: No, I think I think Heather has her own viewpoints.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think Heather is scared of Tamla. I think
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  Speaker 4: it's it's this is a sticky situation because Tamara had
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  Speaker 4: does have six or seven valid points about why Jin
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  Speaker 4: is looking like she's uh, you know, seeing a white
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  Speaker 4: female Jin.
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  Speaker 2: Also, it's like this is worn pony.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just trying to be a better person, like look better,
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  Speaker 4: be better, feel better kind of thing.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's the wash, and that's the truth of it.
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  Speaker 4: Like, I don't think at all that Heather is scared
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  Speaker 4: of Camela. I don't think anyone I was just tell you,
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  Speaker 4: I will tell you. I think Heather is afraid of
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  Speaker 4: having enemies. I think Heather has such a soft soul
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  Speaker 4: that she doesn't want to have anyone mad at her
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  Speaker 4: or like I feel like she plays Switzerland a lot,
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  Speaker 4: like doesn't have a lot of a huge backbone in
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  Speaker 4: certain areas. But Heather is not scared of people. So
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  Speaker 4: what That's that's how I feel. And I love Heather,
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  Speaker 4: She's one of my good friends. I love her so
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  Speaker 4: but that's how I mean. I think we can see
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  Speaker 4: that through the show and through the season.
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  Speaker 1: You know, yeah, Aubrey, I don't think Heather is afraid
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  Speaker 1: of anybody. I think Heather has based on what I've
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  Speaker 1: seen from Heather on the years she's been on She's
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  Speaker 1: a tough woman and she's.
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  Speaker 3: Never shied the way from stating her opinion. I'll be
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  Speaker 3: a popular or not.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Heather stands in her beliefs, in her convictions.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think for a second she's got a tamera.
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  Speaker 3: I think when.
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  Speaker 1: It comes to Heather, she owns who she is and
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  Speaker 1: she's not trying to ever follow the majority boat. I
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  Speaker 1: just don't see her as the type of woman.
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  Speaker 4: I agree. I one hundred percent agree. I think she
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  Speaker 4: does stand her ground, but I.
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  Speaker 2: Do feel like to keep I feel like she's kind
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  Speaker 2: of the peace. She tries to be a little bit
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  Speaker 2: of the peacemaker.
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  Speaker 4: There are times I feel like she could have one
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  Speaker 4: side more than the other where she I feel like she.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of goes a little in the middle. But that's
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  Speaker 2: just me and I have filmed with her, so yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I sat by her at the reunion in
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  Speaker 4: last season eighteen, and she did not stick up for me.
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  Speaker 2: When everyone's yelling at me and we have already talked
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  Speaker 2: about this, we have smashed this, we have done this.
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  Speaker 2: It's done.
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  Speaker 4: But you know, she was right there where she could
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  Speaker 4: have simply said, guys, let her like this talk and
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  Speaker 4: so so I just think she sometimes she wants to
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  Speaker 4: be the peacemaker.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't think about that because I remember you and
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  Speaker 1: I spoke about that too, and I felt the same
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  Speaker 1: way at last year's reunion when it came to I
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  Speaker 1: felt like it was a pile of shit just dumped
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  Speaker 1: on you, and I'm like, why is it anyone defending election?
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  Speaker 2: So it wasn't a pile of shit dumped on me.
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  Speaker 4: It was Emily yelling and not letting me speak, and
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  Speaker 4: so it was it was just her loud mouth and
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  Speaker 4: then Heather was stuck in the middle. So it was
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  Speaker 4: But that's okay. Look, I don't want to talk about
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  Speaker 4: the past. We got to talk about this episode. So
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  Speaker 4: it was juicy and good and I think next episode, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: the trailer for next episode.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, hey, gosh, I can't wait to see it.
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  Speaker 3: But no, it's good.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's good.
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  Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show. So what I love
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  Speaker 1: about Gina is listen, I'm proud of Gina, her sobriety.
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  Speaker 1: I'm happy that she is killing it in real estate.
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  Speaker 1: So she's hosting this event and she surprises the girls
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  Speaker 1: with the New Orleans trip, and then you visibly see
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  Speaker 1: Tamra not excited to go, and that's when we learned
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  Speaker 1: that this is the start of what has been you know,
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  Speaker 1: out there in social media world about how Tamra left
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  Speaker 1: the cast trip early and she announced I believe on.
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  Speaker 3: Social media that she quit.
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  Speaker 1: So what we what we saw in this episode, Alexis,
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  Speaker 1: was Tamra talking about her lack of enthusiasm going to
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  Speaker 1: New Orleans because it's the same location that her best
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: friend and fellow podcast host Teddy Mellencamp felled down marble
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  Speaker 1: stairs as she's going through cancer and getting humors removed.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm just like.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's it's it's fascinating to watch all of this
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  Speaker 1: unfolding real time because you I saw camera personality change
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  Speaker 1: instantly when Gina announced New Orleans. And I know a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people are like, oh, Tom's making excuses, but
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  Speaker 1: I feel like that was to me, that moment was
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  Speaker 1: so pivotal that she really is dealing with some heavy
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  Speaker 1: shit at this current time of filming.
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  Speaker 2: It. You can see it. And this is the thing.
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  Speaker 4: Tamra doesn't cry on camera about personal things, like not
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  Speaker 4: deep of a personal thing because she doesn't like to
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  Speaker 4: go there.
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  Speaker 2: I can tell it. I can see it. Even in
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  Speaker 2: the seasons that we've watched before, she'll cry about things
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  Speaker 2: that are in the moment that she's ticked off about
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  Speaker 2: or this, and that she doesn't go deep.
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  Speaker 4: That's what she's in therapy for. I feel like right
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  Speaker 4: now it's trying to dig deep, right, like get to
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  Speaker 4: the deeper roots. But she doesn't typically cry about something
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  Speaker 4: that's so close and personal. And I think she was
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  Speaker 4: still at that moment back at that time, it was
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  Speaker 4: all true new. I don't even think camera could even
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  Speaker 4: function like knowing, okay, what's happening right now, Like I'm
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  Speaker 4: barely being able to film.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know my best friend. I don't know if
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  Speaker 2: she's you know, what's happening, what's her what's her diagnosis?
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  Speaker 2: But so it was.
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  Speaker 4: That's the thing with the camera is a raw and
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  Speaker 4: it can capture the real moment. It can also tell
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  Speaker 4: when you're faking it. Fake crying is very apparent. Real
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  Speaker 4: crying and real emotion is very apparent.
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  Speaker 2: So I feel like that.
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  Speaker 4: Was one of the moments that you can look and go,
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  Speaker 4: holy hat, she's hurting like bad right now.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's just to like hear what Teddy is going through,
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  Speaker 3: what happened.
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  Speaker 1: To her, how the fall really you know, did a
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  Speaker 1: did her confidence that she was rebuilding after going through this.
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  Speaker 1: It was just it was very sad to to to
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  Speaker 1: just hear that and then to have to visualize how
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  Speaker 1: that moment must have felt for for Tamera being triggered
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  Speaker 1: by the thoughts of New Orleans. But look, it's the
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  Speaker 1: beauty of the show when you get to follow stuff
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  Speaker 1: in real time. Speaking of beauty, following Ran in the
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  Speaker 1: gym full time, it's my idea of a great night.
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  Speaker 3: Alexis, I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, what do you mean following Ryan Jen's husband? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm confused. So you want to just you want to
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  Speaker 2: just go back to more gem scenes and follow him.
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  Speaker 3: That's it.
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  Speaker 1: Give me that spin off, Bravo, What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: What are you guys talking about? Give me that spinoff?
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  Speaker 1: You can add Eddie there at John Like, that's my
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  Speaker 1: type of seed. Give me Ryan working out please every
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  Speaker 1: day of the week.
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  Speaker 2: Well, like you mentioned, I mean.
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  Speaker 4: You mentioned at the beginning of this episode or just
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  Speaker 4: when we first start talking about this episode, you mentioned
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  Speaker 4: that you liked that it was lighter and there were
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  Speaker 4: some fun There was a lot more like some of
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: the home Wife, some of the gym wipe, some of
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: the other life and the whole episode, which I enjoyed
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: because the quirkiness and the fun stuff that you see
• 18:16
  Speaker 4: behind a couple or two friends. That's draw and not
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: just you know, more of the let's get into the
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: heart of it all.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: It's really actually cool and I thought it was fun.
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: I think it's cool to see how people interact and
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: couples interact and you can relate and you're.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: Like, oh we do that or oh that was odd,
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: you know, like either way, it's just so fun.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, No, I really really enjoyed it. And like
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: you said, getting deeper in this episode versus like the
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: girl and Girl drama to hear Jan talk about what
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: she's going through in her situation with her ex husband,
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: how she was awarded child support.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: She mentioned how she was also awarded never paid.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: She told Jeff Lewis is actually two hundred thousand dollars
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: that is ow to her.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: She has not seen a dime.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: That was wild to me, Like, how is he able
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: to get away with that if it was the judgment
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: in court that he has to pay.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: I don't I honestly don't know. It's actually bizarre.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: And also props like and by the way, there should
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: be something that is done about that because of the
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: judgment of the court.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: She's got most of the kids most of the time.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: She needs some help.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: But props to Ryan for actually taking these kids under
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: his wing and just saying okay, look, but how embarrassing
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: for the dad that didn't isn't paying Like now the
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: stepdad or the boyfriend their fanced but like, okay, now
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: the boyfriend's.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Paying for all the kids when the dad should be.
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: But I mean, why don't we know if he has
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: like some you know issue, Well, he's not on the
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: cat so we won't know, but he might have financial problems.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: But all I know is it's embarrassing the other fatherers
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: taking care of your children when you're well capable of it.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: In the judgments, you're spots too.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: No listen, Ryan is great because he's not married to
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Jin just yet. He had his girlfriend with his fiance
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: and her children move into his home. I listen, I
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: understand why Ryan felt the need of Alexis to confront
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Jim's ex husband to really ask about, like where's the money?
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Because I think it Ry's defense is a man to
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: man conversation and the fact that his children, you know,
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Jen's and his.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: Child or residing in Ryan's house. They're residing Arian's house.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: It's like, it's it's crazy, It's crazy. I don't I
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: thought it was a great thing that he confront of him.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: What did you think?
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: I'm I'm kind of mixed about that, honestly, coming from
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: a broken family, I think it's I think it's hard
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: because you just don't know what's going to be the
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: right thing to do, right Carlos, because he is supporting
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: the kids. Ryan is supporting the kids most of the time.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: They are living in his home most of the time.
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: I don't even know what the what the agreement is.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: So it's hard, and I don't know that a.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: Man to man conversation is the right way to handle it,
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: because then that, you know, does set Gin back ten steps,
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: like she said, and she's just trying to keep the peace.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: But maybe it's the one thing that'll work.
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: Maybe it's the one thing that'll get will isn't it
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: will to actually step up a little, you know, I
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: don't know.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: It's hard because I'm from a broken pain.
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: So it's like I can see I can see the
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: that Ryan was doing it and all, you know, wanted to.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: Do it to help the situation. And then I can
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: see where Jenna is like, that's just hurt the situation.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I can see both sides.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: Okay, No, that's fair.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I can't be black and white.
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: No, that's fair.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: That's fair because at the end of the day, if
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: something goes awry, like Jen said, the ex would allegedly
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: use that to punish her, which is not okay.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Right, And that's the sticky part to it.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: No, that makes sense that yeah, yeah, yeah, no, it was.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: It was tough to hear. The other thing, though, alexis
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: as we're diving to the deep personal stories. The other
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: thing that was tough to hear is what Gina and
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Travis are going through as it relates to traps ex, who.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: Is allegedly.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Not allowing Travis to see his son because Travis is
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: dealing with Gina and how he's not even the son
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: isn't even going to school like this.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: This is mind boggling to me that.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: This happens, the fact that a parent would do that.
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: It's scary because the court system can't keep up with
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: all of it. There's so many, Like I do feel
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: a court tries to make it fair and equal for everyone,
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: and there's just so many divorced families, and.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: It's like, how how do they keep up? I don't know.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: That's why you have to work really hard to keep
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: you know, some kind of an agreement so it doesn't
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: go to court.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: And and and the fact is, where does Travis go?
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: How does he get any help? You can't. It's like
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: you just don't get the sun. I mean, you can
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: call the cops, you know, you couldn't.
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: There are certain things you can do, but then the
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: cops do come and they'll be like, sorry, I can't
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: help you right now, Like you know, this is a
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: court situation. It's just it's so bizarre. And I don't
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: want to say the court system is broken, but in
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: the family court of law, I do feel like it
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: might be a little broken. I feel so bad for
• 24:28
  Speaker 4: so many families, and there's so many emotions and so,
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: you know, especially when children can't speak their mind or
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: really have you know, I think it's like twelve or
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: fourteen so they can actually say, you know, before the
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: court will actually listen to them.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: So yeah, it's hard.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah. No, that made me sad to hear that.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: And then the fact that the ex wife is calling
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Gina's son.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: Fuck and involving the children. Okay, okay, you got to
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: keep gives out of it. It's between the adults here,
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: I I my my mind boggled with that.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: The cast then goes to New Orleans and listen. I
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: love it when the cast goes on a trip. I
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: feel like you're going to get a double dose of
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: fun and drama.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: So listen.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: I enjoyed them getting ready for it. Shannon showed what
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: she was working with between her legs.
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: You know, I was shocked. I was shocked.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: That shocked me.
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: I thought she was like so conservative.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not gonna I have lost her name for
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: my vocabulary, thank you, thankfully.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Like now it's like we're done.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: I will okay.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: I think people are starting to seed the truth.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, Alexis. There's certain things you can.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: Give any advice or any I'm sorry, you can give
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: any input.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: You want to on that. I am going to muzzle Okay.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: I'll left it.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I wish I wish the dress was muzzled like that
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: is something that I just I just do not. I
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: don't want to see that. I just and and and
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: she was gleefully showing it. I'm like, this ain't the
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: love hotel.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: I don't know who you're trying to secure by showing your.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: I will say that she's sitting there going no, No,
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: nobody wants to date. And it's like, okay, well it's
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: clear why why they don't, Like.
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: No one wants to hear and see those kind of
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: things like they wouldn't if you're gonna act class even
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: be classy, like don't just at it like.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Okay, that's all I'm gonna say. I told you I'm
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: not gonna die jokes. No, I no listen, no listen
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: mine right now? You ready.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: To me? Sister?
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: You would you would click, honey, you know what you
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: would do. You would click that button? So bad done? Okay,
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: podcasts over the world.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: For the night in recording that you.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: Listen honey, you're about to get married, so clearly you
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: know how to use what you got, so let's just
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: keep it there.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: But well, it's funny because I.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: Mean John and I have not because yeah we're yeah, okay,
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: we learned, you know, let that from last event.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: We'll move on, do you guys? Okay, what.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: What are the topics the Alexis were if aie was
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: ever made a sex video?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: You need a drink for this. Drink water. It's a
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: bottle of water, mylet.
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: People can't see and I'm like, I neither drink and
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, having a martini over here.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, So alex Is, what what are your thoughts all
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: like couples making sex videos?
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: Well, I think if you're in a loving relationship, and
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: you are, you know, here's the fear that I would
• 28:20
  Speaker 4: always have, because now it's my third marriage, would be
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: what if that gets out? What if then it's like, okay,
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: you something goes awry. It's like okay, now what But
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: they's just out there, you know. I think it's great.
• 28:36
  Speaker 4: It can be a lot of fun for a couple.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: I just feel like it's a little scary, you know,
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: because I'm getting married to John right now, So.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think have you done it? Carlos haven't. Yeah,
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: you're pleading to that.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: There is nothing recorded.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: Listen you know how like when you're listen with cell
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: phone with cell phones, Verse came.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: Out and you were like trying to.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Cell phones came.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: Out, You're trying to what videos like you were oh
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: and then it dropped or what what?
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know where you're going.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: No, you're just like you're having fun, you're in love,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: you're having fun, and you test your shit out. But
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: then but then I'm like you Alexis, I was like,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: wait a second. I immediately was like this is getting
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: deleted the moment, like the.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Action is done. I just I'm not. I'm not. I
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: don't need anything saved.
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: Well yeah, or if it gets out, that's the problem
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: you have to That's what I worry about.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: What these people, you know, that's the scary thing.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: It's okay, No, people are crazy and.
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: Exes are not as graceful these days.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: What does that mean.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: If they're mad at you build.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Engines? Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's that you're it's
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: at yours. It's right there at your hand. You can
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: do it. You know what I mean.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: Before it was you had to have the big old device,
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: the big cam quorder that you're like, okay, let me
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: try to how do you do that?
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: Like a phone?
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: It's like, okay, it's more discreet, like you know it
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: was before we had the rep the Flintstone age, you know,
• 30:39
  Speaker 4: like okay, here.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, exactly. So I'm glad.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: Look, I'm glad that time my life is over now.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: One thing that I thought was a funny revelation have
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: a Debro revealed that Terry Debro where its lift shoes, obsessed, obsessed.
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: Okay, And I think it's phenomenal too because I think
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: most people know it. You can kind of tell when
• 31:12
  Speaker 4: he was, you know, out in about or whatever. But
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: I think it's awesome that it's self revealing. That I'm
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: not duprecating because it's on him, not her, but you know,
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: it's just being so lulnerable and honest. It's like, look, okay,
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: who cares he wants to gain an entry or two?
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, what's the problem with that? No body deal. He
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: still looks great, they're happily married. It does not matter.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: It's like okay, but yeah, awesome. And she's like I
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: love the comment where she's like they probably cost more
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: than a house or something. I forget when it was
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: like something like that his shoes. We won't be buying
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: another pair of those anything.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: So yeah, no, not any time soon.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: But it made me think, like, I mean, because I'm
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: like five nine a half, and because John is how
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: John is like what six to two?
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah? You tall? Yeah?
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: I and Tina peck and still hot as f So
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: there you go. But anyway, yeah, he doesn't need shoes.
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: He didn't need a lift in anything. Okay, But so
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: you're I do want some, I know what, but you
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: don't think five nine and a half you feel like
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: you want to be a little taller. I'll text Terry
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: and ask him where he gets them. Maybe it's a
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: Christmas present. We'll get it for you for Christmas, Okay,
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: Heather and I'll go in on it together, all right.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think it would feel good to feel
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: five to ten?
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: Ah? For sure? All for sure? For sure? Because this
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: is things everyone likes a tall man.
• 32:48
  Speaker 4: I think that I don't think hype matters. I think
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: that it's about the heart and about everything else. I mean,
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: it's weird because I usually am with taller men because
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: I'm five seven, though, Carlos, It's like, what what short
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: guys even gonna think I'm hot?
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: You know, Like it's like I'm like too tall for everyone.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: It's shorter, you know, so they're like, oh, Jero too tall,
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: you know. So no, it's yeah, I can see it. Okay,
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: let's get you some list, honey.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Yes, almost, almost some lifts, but no. After I watched
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: this episode, I thought of you, Alexis, because I know
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: in our conversations you always talked about like how you
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: know you like it when the shows are fun, you
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: like it when the show's get personal story. I thought
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: this was the first episode the season where I enjoyed
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: them having fun and to be laughing at like broken vaginas,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: like the joke of that with Jen having public surgery.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Like I thought all of that to me was a
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: solid episode of like getting back to like them enjoying
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: each other having fun.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: Did you feel the same way watching it too? I did?
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: I was.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: I loved I mean just because some times it's fun
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: to kind of chuckle, you know, even if it's not
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: something you can relate to, It's like it just fun
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: to chuckle and see how other people live their lives.
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: That's what I think is good about all of the
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: reality TV is just like, Okay, you can watch how
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: someone lives their life, because when you're in your own life,
• 34:18
  Speaker 4: it is so a lot.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, it's a lot.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: And then you can go, oh, well they're kind of
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: dorky in that way, or oh they argue about that,
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: it just it just puts you. Or you can go, oh,
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: maybe that's a better tool I can use for the
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: next argument, or oh that was funny.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I want to make that joke with my husband. I
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: I love the I love the day to day I do,
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: and I know they can't do too much of it
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: because they've loved the audience.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I know that.
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: You know that as a producer for twenty years in
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: this industry. However, it is fun to have a little
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: bit of an in it. The Carlos quite tell you something.
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: I think after watching that next preview for next week,
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: I think that there's a set up.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: I think they're getting ready.
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: We're like, Okay, let's give them a little bit of
• 35:03
  Speaker 4: fun because they don't get hot head down next week.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah that was all about I.
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: Agree with you. They're like motherfuckers enjoy this while you can't.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: This is the last fun episode you're going to get
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: because the ship is about to hit the fan next week.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, Gretchen, Tamera, Katie Shannon, like, everybody's getting into
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: it next week.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: So look, one thing we know about this cast trips.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: It breaks out the drama.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: And when they said twenty four hours later, it looks
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: like they are not going to disappoint in that department.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: So Alexis you have to come back next week to
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: talk about that. It's going to be insane.
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: And I think that's the rest of the seasons unity
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: in same Like you see the trailer, you know, it
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: all goes.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: It's like it's like that's why they're giving us this
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: little bit of It's like here's a piece of cotton candy.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Here take a cotton candy stick, and now we're going
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: into the mud. You're going into the mud for the
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: next three episodes, the guy or four I don't know
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: how many, Oh.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Gosh, I don't know how many, but at least three
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: or four we have to I don't even know what
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: episode we're on.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: What is this one?
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: It's episode five? So so the episode five were talking about,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: we have.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: At least five.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, it's going to be crazy and it's
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: we also heard in the in the coming attractions, that's
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: when Tamer quits the show and we get to see
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: what led her to do that, and listen. I can't
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  Speaker 1: wait to see it. I can't wait to recap that
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  Speaker 1: with you, Alexis. Thank you so much, my sweet dear,
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  Speaker 1: for taking time out of your busy, busy, busy busy
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  Speaker 1: evening for us. It's a late one for us, but
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining me. Enjoy your soon
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  Speaker 1: to be hobby and the family, and I'll catch you
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  Speaker 1: on the next one, my love.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, last, We'll see you later, guys. Bye.
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  Speaker 1: produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.
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  Speaker 3: With the Lack Effect Network.
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  Speaker 1: the Carlos King Underscore