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Live Reading: Love and Healing with Grace · The Unity Code - Where Science Meets Energy, Consciousness, and Spirit.

• 0:00
  Speaker 1: Hello there and welcome back to empower your soul.
• 0:03
  Speaker 1: I am here today with the lovely Ashley for an evidential mediumship reading.
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: Thanks so much for being here today, Ashley.
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: Thank you, nicole, I'm so excited.
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: Oh, my goodness, uh, full disclosure.
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: I am really good friends with Ashley's sister and I did not expect her to hop on this call today because I did not know her last name.
• 0:23
  Speaker 1: Um, and I've read for you a couple of times, this is going to be really fun, ashley.
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm super excited, super excited.
• 0:29
  Speaker 2: That's how I found you.
• 0:30
  Speaker 2: It's through my sister at the Crystal Mine.
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: So I'm so excited, right, that's right.
• 0:35
  Speaker 1: And yeah, I know I've chatted with your brother.
• 0:36
  Speaker 1: I mean, at this point I feel like I've chatted with a lot of your through, so you kind of know how this works.
• 0:44
  Speaker 1: Just let me know if something doesn't resonate, and you're welcome to ask questions along the way.
• 0:49
  Speaker 1: But I just feel like your team is like raring to go and I know you said right before we hit record that you have given them the pep talk, so they are ready.
• 0:58
  Speaker 2: Yep, I did give some pep talk.
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let me just take a moment to connect and see who wants to come through.
• 1:04
  Speaker 1: Ashley, I am seeing a female contemporary come through and I don't think I've read a female contemporary for you before.
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: But she feels like I know she's not a sister but might be a cousin or a friend and she's a little bit of a wild child.
• 1:20
  Speaker 1: I can under, I can understand, like she's a drinker, she's the smoker, she just she, she's, she's, she's wild and she never says no to anything Anyone invites her to.
• 1:29
  Speaker 1: Would you understand anyone like this?
• 1:31
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 1:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like trying to go through of who this could be.
• 1:34
  Speaker 1: Let me keep going.
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: Um, she does feel like, so I do feel like, um, there's some.
• 1:41
  Speaker 1: I feel like she's unconscious when she passes, and I do feel like she's somebody who really saw the bright side of life.
• 1:48
  Speaker 1: And I, and I'm just seeing flowers associated with her, um, like springtime flowers, um, I'm, I'm understanding she would, she would have had Ooh, I'm seeing children associated with her too, like, uh, both men and women.
• 2:02
  Speaker 1: I feel like they're adults and I feel like this woman is probably in her sixties when she passes, and so, uh, would you understand this at all?
• 2:09
  Speaker 2: So we had someone close to us pass recently.
• 2:13
  Speaker 1: Um.
• 2:13
  Speaker 2: She was in her seventies and she was unconscious when she passed.
• 2:17
  Speaker 2: We had a really hard decision to let her go.
• 2:20
  Speaker 2: Um, she had a son and a daughter, um, and I don't know about wild child, cause I didn't know her when she was young Um, so that's.
• 2:35
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't pick up on that necessarily, cause I've known her for the last 10 years, so in her sixties and seventies, that is what.
• 2:44
  Speaker 1: I love.
• 2:45
  Speaker 1: That is called mediumship.
• 2:46
  Speaker 1: So that is something that you'll have to take back, because I do feel like she's a wild child and I feel like she would say yes to every invitation ever.
• 2:52
  Speaker 1: I know she's extremely kind and I have to say, with the age, I keep seeing 64, 64, 64.
• 2:58
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if there's a six or a four associated with it, but I have to say, for her age she looks very good.
• 3:04
  Speaker 1: Would you understand that?
• 3:06
  Speaker 2: Fantastic Amazing.
• 3:08
  Speaker 1: So if you're telling me she's 70 and in my mind I'm seeing her as like 64, she must look good, she must look very young.
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: Um, definitely gets the Botox.
• 3:17
  Speaker 1: Would you understand that?
• 3:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know if she got Botox, maybe.
• 3:21
  Speaker 2: I'm like I don't know, maybe she did.
• 3:24
  Speaker 2: I mean, she looked fantastic.
• 3:26
  Speaker 2: You would never know she was 70.
• 3:27
  Speaker 2: Gosh, she was 76 when she passed recently, but you would never know she looked way younger.
• 3:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, so would you understand, because I'm seeing the six and the four.
• 3:40
  Speaker 1: Would you understand six or four, june or April associated with her, or the six of the month or four of a month?
• 3:47
  Speaker 2: Oh my God, so she was my dad's significant other.
• 3:52
  Speaker 2: Okay, and my dad's birthday is April 6th, which is four, six or six.
• 3:57
  Speaker 2: There it is, yeah.
• 4:01
  Speaker 1: And I'm tearing up too.
• 4:02
  Speaker 1: I'm with you.
• 4:04
  Speaker 1: So she's talking about six, four.
• 4:05
  Speaker 1: So this message is definitely going to go to your dad.
• 4:08
  Speaker 1: So, hey dad, great to hear you.
• 4:10
  Speaker 1: I know this will end up in in his, in his lap at some point, and I know actually I know quite a bit about this woman personally, so I'm going to make sure I'm pulling out some stuff.
• 4:21
  Speaker 1: But how much love she has for you, ashley, and how much guidance and love and support she's given you over the years, and I feel like she is truly your confidant and I just feel like you can say anything to her at all and she's going to tell you she can do.
• 4:40
  Speaker 1: You can do it.
• 4:41
  Speaker 1: You are strong, you are brave, you are smart.
• 4:43
  Speaker 1: You can do it.
• 4:44
  Speaker 1: You are strong, you are brave, you are smart and she's truly the one that I feel like is in your corner, boxing for you and making sure that you know what you're capable of.
• 4:52
  Speaker 1: She loves you like you are her own kid.
• 4:56
  Speaker 2: She did.
• 4:57
  Speaker 2: She loved my kids like they were her grandchildren.
• 5:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, they were a grandmother to her.
• 5:03
  Speaker 2: She'd been in their life since they were all born.
• 5:05
  Speaker 2: So, uh, well, my first one, she was one, but the rest of them, yeah, I mean yeah and I feel her giving this big hug to you right now and I'm just feeling.
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: I'm feeling how much love she had for you and how she really brought the family together is truly what she's telling me, and I know you just alluded to that.
• 5:25
  Speaker 1: But and how she really brought the family together is truly what she's telling me, and I know you just alluded to that.
• 5:27
  Speaker 1: But she, she really brings everybody in and reminds everybody that you are part of this family.
• 5:33
  Speaker 1: We are one.
• 5:34
  Speaker 1: We, we did make this family together and she does not let anyone go Right Like she's just like she drags everybody back in, kicking and screaming, whether they like it or not.
• 5:44
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense for her?
• 5:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was, uh, I mean she just she was just so happy, like he just just seemed to.
• 5:53
  Speaker 2: I mean she made my dad so happy and like she definitely just lived life.
• 5:59
  Speaker 2: She definitely, I mean she worked so hard her whole life and she was finally able to retire recently and be do the things that she loved with my dad.
• 6:08
  Speaker 1: So um, and I know I know a little bit about your family just cause you're your sister, but like what she's shown me right now is she's really down to earth in terms of a personality and I've never met her, so I so I don't know her personally, but I know that.
• 6:22
  Speaker 1: But she's showing me how down to earth she is.
• 6:24
  Speaker 1: But she's also pretty high maintenance with some things.
• 6:27
  Speaker 1: Like I'm seeing her like heels and I don't know why I'm seeing heels, so I don't know.
• 6:31
  Speaker 1: If she liked to dress up or look very, very good or put together, would that make sense?
• 6:35
  Speaker 2: Not the heels, but put together.
• 6:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I felt like she was always getting her hair done.
• 6:50
  Speaker 1: She was always getting her nails done.
• 6:51
  Speaker 1: She had massages, okay, cool, okay, cause she just looks like she's so great, right, and and she doesn't um, it's uh, and she does it for her.
• 6:55
  Speaker 1: She doesn't do it for anybody else.
• 6:56
  Speaker 1: Like she's she, she dresses nice and gets her hair done and get her nails done because it makes her feel really good.
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: It's like the self love and I feel like she had and I don't know if you canlove, and I feel like she had and I don't know if you can validate this.
• 7:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like she had a really tough growing up, like it's just so interesting and I feel like it's behind closed doors, so I feel like this must be with her parents or siblings, something like this growing up and I realized that she, even though she's so loving and I know on the surface her parents look like they're- I'm going to say wonderful people, but she's got skeletons in her closet that everybody has and it just feels to me like she really does appreciate people and she doesn't let I'm going to say what goes on in her youth really bother her in a negative way going forward, but it really encourages her to appreciate what she has.
• 7:53
  Speaker 2: Is what she's telling me.
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: I a hundred percent.
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: She had a very.
• 7:54
  Speaker 2: She was born in a concentration camp actually, yeah, and she, um, she was brought here.
• 7:56
  Speaker 2: She was adopted and brought here and they only adopted her so that the people they could get to America, and so I don't think she had a very close relationship with her adopted parents and so we didn't know much about it.
• 8:09
  Speaker 2: Um, because I think, like you said, it was kind of behind closed doors and that was like a past life for her that she kind of left behind.
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: Wow, but she, it didn't let her, it didn't impact her in any negative way.
• 8:22
  Speaker 2: Oh, she was always happy.
• 8:26
  Speaker 1: Just seeing how happy she is.
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: She loves life and it's so interesting that the ghosts of her past don't really haunt her at all.
• 8:35
  Speaker 1: Coming from that, that background and and being what she's been through, she has a um I.
• 8:41
  Speaker 1: She's a brother that she's really close to.
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: Would you understand that?
• 8:44
  Speaker 1: Or there's a brother.
• 8:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say we don't know anyone from her.
• 8:51
  Speaker 2: Even her kids didn't know anyone from her past.
• 8:56
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing a brother.
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: This is going to make me cry.
• 8:59
  Speaker 1: This is really important for you to know that she's not alone on the other side, that she has a brother.
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: Well, it was a.
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: It was a little brother, and she's reunited with him amazing, that's awesome I'm gonna, I'm gonna say it and I'm sorry if this breaks your heart or your dad's heart.
• 9:20
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like I feel like he was a baby brother and I feel like he was like two or three I don't know how old she was when she was in the concentration camp, but I she's very young.
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like I'm seeing four associated with that too, and I just I feel like her younger brother didn't make it from the concentration camp and so she's highlighting being reunited with her brother and he's so handsome and he has dark eyes or sorry, no, he has dark hair and I don't know what color her hair was, but it feels very dark, dark Brown hair, um, and he's really strong and muscular.
• 9:54
  Speaker 1: So I feel like there's something about her that's really strong and muscular too.
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: Would you understand that, cause she'll call out parallels that you would understand?
• 10:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it sounds a lot also like her son too.
• 10:04
  Speaker 2: So like I bet there who is alive, but like I bet there's probably similarities from if she had a brother to her son, her son his hair is like I wouldn't say muscular, but built like yeah, it's not.
• 10:24
  Speaker 1: It totally, completely feels like, like it, like she's reunited on the other side with her brother.
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: That's so I just want to put that out there.
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: But, yeah, no accidents, right?
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: That that her son would.
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: That's the parallel that she wants to call out.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: So this is evidence for you about about the brother.
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: Can you just give me something just to double check, okay?
• 10:50
  Speaker 1: In addition, I'm just seeing how she takes everything and I feel it's shifting gears a little bit, but I feel like she really doesn't.
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: We've talked about.
• 11:05
  Speaker 1: She doesn't let anything bother her, but she really keeps her head up high.
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: She never, ever, takes the low road.
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: She always takes the high road.
• 11:11
  Speaker 1: She always takes the graceful road and that's her name, right, grace?
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, yep, cause she was.
• 11:15
  Speaker 2: I knew she was going to make me say it at some point.
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: She always takes the graceful road and that's her name, right, grace.
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, yep, cause she was.
• 11:20
  Speaker 1: I knew she was going to make me say it at some point.
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: She always takes this graceful road where she's able to um, see, this is really important for you is what I'm hearing her say see the meaning or the motivations behind the actions, the meaning or the motivations behind the actions.
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: She is able to decipher and pull apart actions from what's causing those actions.
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: So whenever people are negative, bullish outlandish, she's able to be like they just need love.
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, they're just hungry, they're just thirsty.
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: So I feel like she's always pushing the food.
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: Would that make sense with her?
• 11:59
  Speaker 2: Um, yeah.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: Especially, um, I mean I'd say especially with my dad, like and he's not really negative, but like, damn did she feed him love, okay, perfect, something that he needed, just like, and he's just yeah.
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: Um, and so this is a reminder for you, ashley, and this, like this, is the message for you.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: And I know we're going to go somewhere else too, because my heart I don't know how your heart is right now my heart is pounding right now, um and it, and it's the heart is is connected to the belly, is what I'm hearing her say.
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: And so when bellies are full, hearts are full.
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: So I know I don't know this, but she's making me say I know, I know you have a little bit of a tumultuous relationship with a couple people in your lives, right?
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: And so she's reminding you to look at the lower level, look at the motivations.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: What might be causing the behaviors?
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: Because the behaviors are symptoms of other problems.
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: So look deeper.
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: When in doubt, I've seen like give them sugary drinks and pasta.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: It's like carbs.
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: Give them carbs and soda.
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: All right, carb and soda.
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: And what's wonderful about you is, I think you are the same way and I think you are the way that you see a lot of positivity in a lot of different people, and she doesn't want you to lose that because it is so easy for an empath such as yourself to get pulled into the lower I'm going to say lower vibrational energy.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: It's just like anything that's not positive, like anything that's any grief, any sadness, any frustration, any anger.
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: It's you take it on as your own and she's telling you it's not you.
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: And and she's telling you it's not you, yeah, and and she's saying it's not you because if you go back to little you, if you go back to you as a little girl, you are all love and all heart and sunshine and rainbows, and that is the true essence of you and who you are.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: So she doesn't want you to forget you and who you are, because she's not here to give you advice and anymore.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: Right, you can't hear her anymore yet, because I know you're super intuitive, so maybe you'll start being able to hear her someday, but I just I feel like don't forget who you are and what you're here to do, because you're here to be a beacon of light for other people.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: So any sort of energy that comes in really strongly and doesn't match what's going on in your day-to-day, like if you're just sitting there reading a book and all of a sudden someone comes in and it's very stormy and you feel very volatile or very angry.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Know that that's not you, that's them, and it's like their energy is amplified in you and you take it on as your own.
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: So, so, so use those cues to say hang on, time out, let me go back, let me what's wrong, let me help, let me go fix Cause that's what you do, you want to help, you want to fix, cause you, that's the wonderful soul that you are, so she wants you to last year.
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: I've been so good about learn at once.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: I've gotten into spirituality.
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: I've learned so much to like push it.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: Yep, let it go, it's not yours.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: It's not yours.
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because you're such an empath and I I sometimes give people tools to shut it down.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Um, keep the energy out.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: You won't, you'll never do that.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: You love.
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: You love seeing and feeling the energy of other people.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: I know that I'm like I'm not going to waste my time with you, ashley, but I am going to tell you that you are strong enough to overcome any obstacle that comes your way in this life and this you have, this can do attitude, and she never, ever wants to see you slow down Like you have.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: You have so many amazing things to come, so many amazing mountains to climb, and it's not going to be easy, but it's going to be worth it.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: So she does not want to see you, like follow your dreams to the utmost extent, like I'm seeing.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: Like run towards your dreams, run, don't walk, don't dilly dally, run because you have she's showing me your sole contract for coming here, ashley, it's huge.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: I like it.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: It's a list that looks like Santa's list.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: It's a mile long and it's so big.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: So, like, stop wasting your time.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Stop.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: You have so many people in your corner here in the physical world that will help you with anything you possibly want.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: Knock it off.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: No, okay, I know this is for your sister.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to start sobbing, don't mind me.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I know that there were some very tough decisions made about her passing and I know that it took way too long to make some of those decisions, and it just feels like to me that, oh, what was that?
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: I know some people were holding out hope for what, for what the outcome was going to be, um, and I will blatantly say out loud that I know that she had cancer.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Is that correct?
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: And I know there was sepsis involved.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Um, and I know that she's we already talked about um in the beginning that she's unable to speak.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: She's unconscious at the time of her passing.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I know there were many sleepless nights for many of the family members about the decision that had to be made about her and I know there was contention, but I know that everyone made the right decision and that it was time for her to go and there was no hope for her.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: So I want to validate I have to say it, I have to validate that, I have to say it, I have to validate um, the love and the hope that everyone felt in wanting to I'm going to say prolong, in wanting to prolong her life and not wanting to pull the plug.
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: But I also know that pulling the plug meant saying goodbye for someone that was really special in everyone's life and no one wanted to be the one to say it.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: And what's funny is I think all of you were thinking it, I think all of you knew the inevitable and no one wanted to say it and no one wanted to say it.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing her say thank you, Jamie, for saying it, and I know it was literally the hardest decision that anyone in that family will ever have to make, and I know that it is made with love, with compassion, not wanting her to be in pain anymore, and it's made knowing that all of you will meet again someday.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sure Well she's like literally wanting me to sob right now, cause that's this must've been the emotion in the room and hopefully I'll say this and then I'll stop sobbing here so that I can get through this reading.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: But she wants to thank everybody for their very strong opinions, decision that needed to be made, but she's so glad the family came together and made that decision together and chose together to send her to the Lord.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: So I do want to say that.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: So she does thank everybody for their love, for their optimism, for their joy, and that this isn't goodbye, this is a see you later.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: That being said, she's fabulous on the other side.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: So so, before we get there, I do want you to know that she passes without pain.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: It feels very peaceful.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: She's not even in her body at the time that you pulled the plug.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: She's already.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: She's already in the spirit world.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: So I want you, I want everyone to know that is that she's there while you're making the decision, like her soul is with all of you as she may, as you make this decision.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: So so there's nothing that you could have done, nothing, yeah, um, and she does pass a pain and she loves it.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: She's surrounded by everybody when she does pass and I just see how devastated your, your dad, is and I see I'm going to say it like he loses it and I just, I just want to call out that she, she loves him to the moon and back.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Yep, they were partners in every sense of the word, and I know that they get on each other's nerves.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I know that they are just like, but they're so good together.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: They're so volatile, but they're so good together.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: And and there's she.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: She met her match and your dad and I have to say it that way she met her match and your dad.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: No one could handle her except for him, and so she's so gracious and so loving towards him and she knows she's he's left in amazing hands with all of you.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I do see that she wants to say hello to everybody, so her son and her daughter, right, and then you and your sister, and then, obviously, the spouses and the grandkids, and I see her wanting to do that.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: She's also telling me her obituary was very beautifully written.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know who wrote that this, I don't know.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know anything about the obituary or the services, but I know that it was very tight knit, it was very and I don't know what that means, but it was very tight knit, it was a, it was a true family event is what it feels like to me.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Um, on the other side, though, she is saying how fast she is like and I'm not even kidding Like she has her hair done and it, uh, it's a lighter colored hair.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: Right, it feels light in color and it's like wavy.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Um, she, she's showing me her boobs.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I gotta be honest with you right now.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Like she's like she's like young buck.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Now again, um, in terms of like she's cause she's showing up as this, she does look younger to me, like not too young, but she does.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: She's in my mind.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: She's showing me like younger and she's dressed up and she's like wearing a Chanel suit.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I want to say that, but she's, she's dressed gorgeously.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Her nails are done bright red.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: She has bright red lipstick on, like she's glowing.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: So I want to pay homage to she's now making me feel like that in the casket or what she looked like in, yeah, in her, in her casket or what.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure what this is, but it it makes it feels like a beautiful send-off.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I guess is the way that I want to put it, and I'm not sure if she was buried, but it feels like a beautiful send-off yeah so whoever chose her outfit and her makeup and her nails like fabulous job, fabulous job.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: and she does want to talk about the personalities in the family, because you're the heart.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Jamie's the head.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Sorry, jamie.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Her son feels like the strength.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: He feels like the strength, he feels like the can-do attitude.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm just going to say it that way.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I think there's nuances to that, but she's not getting there.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: But I feel like she's the strength.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: And then her daughter feels like the giver.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Would you understand that?
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: It feels like she gives.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: That's okay, okay, that's what she's showing me, so I have to, I'm going to, I'm going to honor her, and how she's saying that, I'm going to ask her to clarify a little bit.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: But what she's really highlighting is the uniqueness between all four of you, and again she's bringing this boxing ring up.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: Again.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: There's no, I don't know what this boxing ring that keeps coming up is, ashley, but there's this boxing ring that pops up with the four of you and everyone's in their own corners and I sister and her daughter.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, cool sister and her daughter.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, cool, yep.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: And I'm just hearing her say get along, get along.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: You only have one life and you don't have to like what everybody else does, but get along.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: And it just feels like there are strengths to each of you that support and love each other.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: And it's okay if you're not best friends, but don't be afraid to lean on each other, because family is everything to her and she does not want to see the family break apart or fall apart just because she's gone.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: She still wants to make sure they're included in family events, holidays, et cetera, because they are like siblings to you, even though I know it was a little bit later in age that they got together.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: So for her, family is not necessarily blood, and we've you've already said that family is not blood.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: Family are the people that you love and you spend your time with and you care about, and so she wants to make sure that she, she recognizes the uniqueness of her family and wanting and desire to keep the family together.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: And it feels like a tall order freaking, ashley, I know this, I say this and I know this is not going to be easy, but I do want to put that out there about this, and I know everyone plays really nice on the surface, but it's below the surface is what she's talking about.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, maybe she's being nice for the podcast.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: So Um.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I want to leave a message for your dad.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Hang on a second.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I want to say what she keeps showing me in my head about your dad is sleepless nights and dreaming.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if he's dreaming about her.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I'll just put that out there for you.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like there's dreaming about her and I feel like she's dropping signs for him, but he's so busy, like, and he likes to stay really busy, and I just I feel, um, like he's always going places.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I feel like his, like his brain is always occupied and busy and then he needs to slow down.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: And I don't know what this is, but it feels like slowing down and it feels like, um, she's around him and I feel I also want to just drop in.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I feel like she's dropping perfume by him too.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if he's smelling her perfume, either conscious, like purposely spraying perfume, or if he's just smelling it as he's walking around, but she's absolutely giving him signs and if and she's going to haunt the shit out of him, like honestly, what I'm getting, um, is that she's going to haunt the shit out of him.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: So be ready.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: Be ready for you, ashley, she's in your corner.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: You ready for you, ashley, she's in your corner.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: So you need to remember who is supporting you on the other side to achieve those amazing dreams that you have and that whenever you need anything, you know she will fucking come running, she will elbow everybody else out of the way and she will make sure you get exactly what you need.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: So you just send her that wishlist and I see her like dusting off her hands and saying I will take care of it for you.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I see, give the love to the grandkids.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: I see her like kissing them on the cheek and saying I'm still with you for them, for them.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: And you're um, you, you have a daughter.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Is that right?
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Three, three, someone.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Still someone is talking about her.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: She's highlighting Is that right, like someone's talking about her, like she's present.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Oh well, hayden, maybe my five-year-old today.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: She had said no, that was Lulu, we were talking about.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: I had somebody die.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Um, I went to a funeral today.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: It was a mother.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: And so it kind of brought it, kind of brought it up like people passing and, um, my youngest likes to talk about how people are still here and like our dog is still here, like she tells everyone we still have two dogs and I'm like we only have one dog.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: She's like no, just cause Lulu's not here anymore with us.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: She's still here, so.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: So my youngest likes to talk out like still here.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Perfect.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: They are, though.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: So I want to, I want to call that out is just let her enjoy it, because I think a lot of us are taught that death is final, that these people don't come back, and I think there's such amazing innocence to, yeah, they are still there, yeah, you can still talk to them.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: They are, they do love you, they do support you, so I don't want you to like I'm seeing her say don't erase me from her perspective, because she is still with her, she's still with your three daughters every single day, watching over them.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: And then who had Cheerios cereal for breakfast, did one of them have like nobody.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: But my daughter asked me to get her Cheerios this morning because the veggie Cheerios.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: And she said mom, you haven't gotten me my veggie Cheerios, can you please get them?
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: And I keep forgetting to order them.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: And she asked for them this morning.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: This is.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: This is this is grace through to say I'm still with you because I was.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: She's telling me about the Cheerios.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: So this is evidence for you that she's around you and your daughters.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Um, what she's laughing about your husband.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Why is she laughing about your husband?
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: He puts up with a lot.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: I hear her say about him I don't know, I don't, you don't know she's she's laughing about your husband.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know you do.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Um, but there's something about your husband.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I'm just hearing him say like he puts up with a lot, he's a good sport, like there's something about, about your husband, so I'm gonna.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: I'll leave that with you because it sounds like they might have had a funny relationship the two of them.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Um, I'm there in every moment of every day.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I haven't gone anywhere and I know she was very recently passed.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: What is this?
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: Two weeks, three weeks?
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: about.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: This isn't long a month ago, because, like, she still feels warm, like, um, she's giving me this feeling like and I know she didn't pass long ago, but she's just giving me this feeling like everyone is still very thick in the processing of grief of her and can't believe that she's gone because it was so fast.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: It was so fast and like, like everyone thought she was doing so well, but it was so fast what happened to her, and so it's almost like whiplash is what she's kind of alluding to with with me, and she's just saying it felt that fast for me too, and I don't know why that's really important to say.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I'm not sure why, but I'm saying.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I'm hearing her say it felt that fast to me too.
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: It was um it does?
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: It does literally days from the time she got like sick, sick, to the time that we decided I think it was less than it was like three days.
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: It was a Friday morning and a Thursday night and Monday morning, that was it.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Wow, yep, yeah, so sorry, yeah, crazy.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: The look for the hearts.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I think this is what I want she wants to leave you with is look for the hearts.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: I think this is what I want she wants to leave you with is look for the hearts.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I see hearts everywhere.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I see hearts on rocks hearts and in leaves hearts and like shadows.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Look for the hearts.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Those are from her so we have um, I have her a little bottle with her heartbeat in it, and this morning it actually knocked off the counter when I was going to the bathroom and I was like, oh, there you are, grace, and I picked it up and I put it back and I have a heart rock next to it.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: It's in our bathroom, it's like on my mirror.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: And so then I put it back and I was like there you are.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: I was like you're reminding me, you're right here, I know you're here.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, that is her letting you know that she is right there with you.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you so much, ashley.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: I was kind of hoping I said anyone, but I was like I kind of thought maybe grace would come through, cause I had it's yeah.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: No surprise.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Personality that big, I'm not surprised, oh my goodness.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much, ashley, I so appreciate you Calling my dad.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: I'll call him in a little bit, so, looking forward to telling him, I thought maybe she would pop in.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: So I thought maybe that's how why I got this reading.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: I was like when I saw it pop up and I was like I feel like maybe this is grace being like hello, anyone try to talk to you.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: And she let you know what the hearts's flying out the shelf.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna go like what wipe all my tears away, but thank you so much, ashley.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: This was absolutely amazing thank you so much.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: I appreciate it.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: Have a good day you too.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: Bye.