Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 320 - November's Human Design Gate Transits & Astrological Forecast
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- 0:01Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
- 0:05helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
- 0:25I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:27And it is our monthly transit episode, this one for November.
- 0:32So my good friend, Miss Christina Luna, is with me as always.
- 0:36Hi, Christina.
- 0:37Hello.
- 0:38Welcome back.
- 0:39So happy you're here.
- 0:40And we did.
- 0:41really excited about this.
- 0:42I was telling you the only little conversation that we had before
- 0:45hopping on was that so many people reached out to me to say how much
- 0:49they loved last month's episode.
- 0:51So we were talking about, and I was reflecting on, I went and I
- 0:54listened to it and I was like, what did we do differently?
- 0:57Because it was such a strong reaction.
- 0:59People were like, this month's episode was amazing.
- 1:02And I think it was just that we just hit record.
- 1:05We didn't talk at all really before.
- 1:07We were like, let's save it all for the show and we just had a conversation
- 1:10and we reflected on our stuff.
- 1:12So we're going to try it again.
- 1:13We're going to do that again.
- 1:14We're just hitting record and see what happens.
- 1:17Right?
- 1:18We always come prepared.
- 1:19We have our stuff.
- 1:20We know what's coming.
- 1:21But as far as the conversation is concerned, I do like to talk about
- 1:25these episodes make me reflect on the transits, on myself, on my
- 1:30relationship to things so much.
- 1:32That I like to talk about that when we start out.
- 1:35I want to keep that because I was feeling October.
- 1:39I felt the fear and I know what's going on and I know what's coming.
- 1:43And I was feeling it to the point where I had to remind myself and I had to fall
- 1:48back on a lot of my tools and just to give everybody like my own reflection on this.
- 1:53So I know what's happening.
- 1:54I know that we're in the month of fear.
- 1:56I know that's the low frequency.
- 1:58And then I start to get scared about things.
- 2:00I start to get anxious.
- 2:01I start to get this feeling of it's not going to be okay.
- 2:05Now we have a lot of things going on.
- 2:07We have the U S election, which nobody enjoys this time of year.
- 2:11I don't think anybody is like, yay, election season.
- 2:14Cause it's very stressful.
- 2:16Just the collective energy is a lot at this time of year.
- 2:19And this time of the four years but for me, what was coming up was even
- 2:24though I was reminding myself of what was going on, I was so aware
- 2:28of how taken in by this fear energy I was, like I was just noticing it.
- 2:34That full moon knocked me on my ass.
- 2:38It was Aries full moon, right?
- 2:40This past month.
- 2:41Yeah
- 2:42I was like, this is powerful.
- 2:44I felt that thing move me and I don't often get like moved like that.
- 2:48That moon pushed me.
- 2:50And on the other side of it, I absolutely felt better.
- 2:52But boy, did I feel it coming and I felt that low frequency through
- 2:57October where I was like, oh my god.
- 2:59And the way that I reflected on it, the way that I worked with it was
- 3:03I went into every fear, like I had to deal with what was present so
- 3:07that I could actually move it out.
- 3:09I didn't just say, it's not real, it's not real, it's just the transits.
- 3:13That was like to get my mind quiet, to go like, it is the transits,
- 3:17but let me invite myself into this conversation energetically
- 3:22that's going on inside of me.
- 3:24And what are the fears that I'm feeling?
- 3:27What is making me feel this way?
- 3:30Can I dive into some of those feelings?
- 3:32Because it's an opportunity.
- 3:33It's not just fantasy.
- 3:35It's an opportunity, or at least this way, the way I treated it.
- 3:38It was an opportunity for me to dive into these things that were,
- 3:41like what was triggering me?
- 3:43What was I feeling?
- 3:44What irrational things were being kicked up?
- 3:47Cause that's an opportunity to see what's going on under the
- 3:49surface that we don't always get.
- 3:51That was at least how I dealt with it.
- 3:53And I think you had a different experience this month, but what
- 3:55was your experience with October?
- 3:58I did have a really different experience, everything that you're sharing is so
- 4:03par for the course for Scorpio season.
- 4:06And typically that would have been what I was experiencing as well, but I learned
- 4:10something so incredibly valuable this month that I think my entire astrological
- 4:15career I have been trying to learn.
- 4:18To preface this I'll tell you that the last time we met we talked about how
- 4:22Libra season is like pulling an arrow of Intention back and that all through
- 4:26Libra season the intention we're pulling back has to do with mental curiosity
- 4:31to try and find the trust that we could feel to co create with another person.
- 4:37So we're pulling this arrow back, and of course we're navigating
- 4:40all the fears around co creation.
- 4:43All the fears around the variability of being in relationship with either
- 4:47people or things that you can't control.
- 4:50There's this moment in Virgo season where we're so proud of how autonomous and
- 4:55independent and whole and complete we are.
- 4:57And then, we enter into Libra season, and it's like, alright.
- 5:01Now let's see what taking that whole person into a relationship looks like.
- 5:05So we talked about how, okay, now we're going to vet it.
- 5:08We're going to check our beliefs.
- 5:10We're going to see if we can navigate two belief systems.
- 5:13We're going to see how that flows with we talked about vulnerability.
- 5:16Are we going to turn our vulnerable knife to cut someone else?
- 5:20When we feel pain, we talked about grieving.
- 5:23We talked about grieving things that have died or come to pass that are no
- 5:28longer going with us into the next cycle.
- 5:30And then finally, we're getting to this last week.
- 5:33We're heading into November, right?
- 5:36And this is so nostalgic.
- 5:38We've got these nostalgic feelings and these nostalgic feelings are designed to
- 5:43show us where the really deep hurts lie.
- 5:45So, all that being said, I knew that going in, it was an opportunity to shoot
- 5:52my arrow wherever I really wanted to.
- 5:55There's this simultaneous sensation I have in life where,
- 5:58yes, these transits impact me.
- 6:01Yes, they influence my energy, but where's my free will in all of this?
- 6:06Am I always, over and over, gonna be spinning through this wheel, and
- 6:10continuously grabbed and influenced by the freaking astrological weather?
- 6:16This has been a question that I've been trying to solve my
- 6:19entire career, and I think I just experienced the solution to that.
- 6:23And this is what I, this is what happened.
- 6:27I met someone at the beginning of this month.
- 6:30I shot, I had an experience, I watched a show.
- 6:35I don't know, everyone's talking about that show, Nobody Wants This on Netflix.
- 6:39I just started it.
- 6:40I begrudgingly watched it because honestly, I was not in a space
- 6:44to try and like meet people.
- 6:46I was just like, well, everyone's talking about it.
- 6:48Let's see how emotionally mature these people are.
- 6:51Like I was, I definitely went into it with a little bit of snarky skepticism.
- 6:56It's super cute.
- 6:57It's super cute and there were a couple of key scenes that shook something
- 7:02inside of me that had already been starting to shake at the eclipse.
- 7:05We had an eclipse on like the 3rd of October and on the 3rd of October I
- 7:08was like, I'm gonna write a new book.
- 7:10My, my arrow of intention is, I'm gonna write a new book, and I'm gonna, I'm
- 7:13gonna put in there that the character just has the most beautiful experiences.
- 7:18She's gonna be cooking in the kitchen, and she's gonna be listening to
- 7:21music with this person, and they're gonna cook together and flirt
- 7:24with each other in the kitchen.
- 7:26It was just a simple scene that I kinda laid out on a
- 7:29piece of paper on the Eclipse.
- 7:30Then I watched the show, got on a dating app, and met someone.
- 7:34It was like bam.
- 7:35The reason I'm sharing this, which I don't usually share such personal details
- 7:39about my life, is because the level of yes, of all of those, like literally
- 7:45the cooking in the kitchen happened, literally like, all the things I was
- 7:49crafting for this character I've started experiencing and it popped me completely
- 7:54clean out of the mid range bandwidth that I usually experience life through.
- 8:00I've discovered, this is the core thing I discovered, when I am in a semi neutral
- 8:06state where I'm not having too high highs and not too low lows, that neutral
- 8:12bandwidth has me agreeing and going into the rhythm of the cultural field, and
- 8:17the cultural field is influenced by these rhythms, by the transits, by the moons.
- 8:24It's a way that our society has learned to move in rhythm with each other.
- 8:28We just agree to these weather patterns with each other, and
- 8:31who knows what's creating what.
- 8:33Is it the less light in the northern hemisphere that's creating Scorpio
- 8:37season in our biological systems as we feel the light going away and our
- 8:41circadian rhythms are being disrupted?
- 8:43Is it that?
- 8:44I'm not sure, but as we get in rhythm with each other, we seem to, as a tribe,
- 8:49go through these things together and we feel connected to each other through that.
- 8:52But there are extenuating circumstances that completely
- 8:56pull us out of that bandwidth.
- 8:57And I think that it can go both ways, right?
- 8:59We can get really sick, or we can lose someone, or have an accident.
- 9:03Something could happen that could pull us out of the collective, and we feel
- 9:07out of step, or out of rhythm with them.
- 9:10We feel like every day is grief, every day is mourning, every day is pain,
- 9:13and even when people are celebrating as a collective, we don't feel that.
- 9:17We're out of it.
- 9:18And the other side is true as well.
- 9:20We could meet someone we never knew before.
- 9:23It could feel like we had a quantum timeline shift or something.
- 9:26And all of a sudden, all that life is cooking and dancing to beautiful
- 9:31music in the kitchen with someone new.
- 9:34All of a sudden, life is morning text messages and looking forward
- 9:38to the next time you see someone.
- 9:40And all of a sudden, the transits and the full moons.
- 9:42They have no impact whatsoever, because we're in this soul field that's just
- 9:47so much fountain energy, so much dopamine, so many hormones, right?
- 9:52And it pulls us out, so even though I communicated with a lot of people,
- 9:56and every single person I talked to was in step with these rhythms, I got
- 10:01pulled out of the game this month.
- 10:02And it showed me that as humans we do have free will still.
- 10:08We are not ultimately completely at cause.
- 10:12Is it at cause or we're not completely grabbed by some of these influences.
- 10:17We don't have to be grabbed by the elections.
- 10:18We don't have to be grabbed by the socially acceptable narrative or even
- 10:24whatever we were grabbed by through our rituals and patterns our entire
- 10:29life, we don't have to be grabbed by the past of our experiences either.
- 10:32And with enough energy, everything looks different.
- 10:36And so, my October was very different and I'm grateful that I learned that
- 10:40because, man, I've always wondered, like, gosh, it seems that, every single
- 10:44year, I experience the exact same things.
- 10:47What's my gift in this?
- 10:49What's my contribution to how I experience life?
- 10:52So a couple of things are coming through for me.
- 10:54The visual I keep getting is when you're talking about swimming in like
- 10:59this neutral zone, like the mid range where you're in the collective stream.
- 11:05That's to me like just every day and then the two images I get are like when
- 11:10you're in the low beneath it where there's just it's like drowning, you know You're
- 11:14like getting pulled under the water.
- 11:15You're actually underneath where there's air and Then the other visual I get in
- 11:19my head is Like when you're in a plane and there's weather and they're like, we're
- 11:23just gonna go fly above the weather and they get above those clouds, they break
- 11:29through, and they're so high up that you would have no idea in that plane that
- 11:33there was a storm going on underneath.
- 11:37So then the next question that comes to my mind is can you
- 11:39cultivate above the clouds state.
- 11:43So you had a big wow in your life, where you had something else that
- 11:48was taking up your energy, that was becoming, what you focus on grows, right?
- 11:52Like what we talk about all the time, what you focus on grows,
- 11:55where attention goes energy flows.
- 11:57So you have your focus on this beautiful moment with this man and or person.
- 12:03I don't know if it's a man but you have this beautiful moment.
- 12:05You're having this beautiful relationship.
- 12:07There's like sparks flying.
- 12:09And I'm with my husband 20 years.
- 12:11It's been a long time since I have had that start of a relationship thing.
- 12:15But I do remember how all encompassing that is like you when you're in it, you're
- 12:21so sucked into it, but that just makes me think like can we cultivate that?
- 12:25I definitely have moments of it.
- 12:28I carve out time every day for visioning and there are some times where I
- 12:33vision so hard and so damn well.
- 12:36That I am in such gratitude for what I envisioned that can carry me for a while.
- 12:41And then there are some days, perfectly honest, can't get there.
- 12:45Like, I'm doing the same things, I'm thinking about the same stuff.
- 12:48I feel like I'm running the same script, but it's not there that day.
- 12:53But I had a day yesterday where I was in tears.
- 12:56Gratitude tears, because it felt so real.
- 13:00It felt so possible.
- 13:02It felt like it already happened.
- 13:04I was just saying, thank you.
- 13:05And I meant it.
- 13:06So that was where my head went when you were talking about that.
- 13:09Can we cultivate that state?
- 13:11Or is it just we've got to meet somebody.
- 13:13It's got to go off.
- 13:14These things have to, or is it that we create those moments that
- 13:17with the intention of writing out what you wanted, did you create it?
- 13:20So you mentioned a key word over and over.
- 13:24Even though you were trying to talk about the initial
- 13:27catalyst, you were saying same.
- 13:29So there are two human needs.
- 13:31There's like a hierarchy of human needs, and there are two human needs
- 13:35that are at odds with each other.
- 13:36One of them is the need for certainty and stability and security, and the
- 13:40other one is the need for uncertainty, novelty, newness, and change.
- 13:44Now, we have a preference, most of us have a preference, for security,
- 13:50because it's one of the survival needs.
- 13:52It's a way that we need our nervous system to feel safe, and to a degree, that need
- 13:57developed at such a young age, and it seems that throughout our life, we're
- 14:01seeking to create that continuously.
- 14:04And that need is exactly at odds with the need for uncertainty and novelty.
- 14:09And honestly, novelty, uncertainty, change, newness is the thing that really
- 14:16opens your soul up, that really shakes the energy, it opens the bandwidth, it
- 14:22increases your potential to feel even more than you were feeling before.
- 14:28Because your brain says, there's something new in the
- 14:30system, what else do I not know?
- 14:33Like, this person came out of nowhere, I wasn't even expecting this person.
- 14:37What else do I not know?
- 14:38Oh my gosh, is there music I never heard of?
- 14:40Is there, are there movies I've never seen before?
- 14:43Is it possible there's a bunch of new things that have never occurred to me?
- 14:48And because I have all this new, and I'm open to all this new, and
- 14:51I'm being rewarded for all this new, more new is showing up, so there's a
- 14:55sustained level of high energy based on the novelty of, everything that
- 15:01broke up the stability and certainty that I was experiencing beforehand.
- 15:06So I think the special recipe is, what's exciting to true?
- 15:10It was very risky.
- 15:11Okay going on a dating app was not something I expected
- 15:14to be doing at 45 years old.
- 15:16This is not that was not something that was part of my previous normal and
- 15:21You've never been on a dating app before?
- 15:23No
- 15:24This is your first dating app, like initiation.
- 15:27I've been in long term, well, there was a tiny period when I was like, very
- 15:31upset during the pandemic and I dabbled my foot in and immediately jumped
- 15:35out because I was not actually ready.
- 15:37Yeah, I was not actually ready to date and I don't count that because it wasn't,
- 15:42I didn't even give it a sporting try.
- 15:45Like,
- 15:46But you got in there, so this is like your first real go at a dating app and you're
- 15:51in I'm out of collective consciousness level happy and sparks are flying.
- 15:58You, my friend, are a rare bird.
- 16:02In the world, because that's not normally, I've never been on a dating app because
- 16:07I've been with my husband for so long.
- 16:09But everybody I know plenty of women who are probably cursing
- 16:11you a little bit right now.
- 16:12They're like, happy for you and also just like, Ooh, that's not
- 16:17my experience with dating apps.
- 16:18But, I think you're speaking to the energy that you were in going into
- 16:23it, you got very clear energetically with what you want to create.
- 16:27I'm also in a unique period of time.
- 16:29My only goal was to attract experiences that felt exciting to me.
- 16:35I don't have a lot of weight to that.
- 16:37I have children already.
- 16:38I've already been married, and I wasn't expecting anything, which is
- 16:41another part of allowing novelty.
- 16:43I wasn't trying to enter it in to try and get more security, I was
- 16:47entering into it to experience novelty.
- 16:49Which leaves it open to all wow, it's a kind of place I found myself so I'm
- 16:56also an Enneagram 5, and so I do things for research, and honestly, I had to look
- 17:03at the upside of suddenly finding myself no longer partnered with my ex partner.
- 17:08I had to, like, find the silver lining.
- 17:10And so one of the silver lining projects was, I'm going to embark on intimacy.
- 17:16And intimacy without the constraints and the containers of long term relationship.
- 17:21Because that's what I get to do as a single person.
- 17:24So That alone was a novel thing.
- 17:27And I was going to do it for posterity.
- 17:29I'm doing it for research.
- 17:31I'll do it for the people.
- 17:32I was even going to seek out different Zodiac signs and that
- 17:36was part of my selection process.
- 17:37I was like, let's start with Capricorns.
- 17:39I had like over a thousand people.
- 17:41I was like scrolling through, like looking at profiles.
- 17:43I was very discerning and I was specifically looking for
- 17:46capricorn men that I thought I could enjoy having time with.
- 17:50Why did you pick Capricorn?
- 17:51Was it like spin the wheel Capricorn or was it like, I'm a Virgo, Capricorns
- 17:56and Virgos are good together, or some sort of other astrological
- 18:00like voodoo magic that you were pairing yourself with a Capricorn.
- 18:04So I've done a lot of compatibility readings with people, and I know
- 18:08that every single person's compatible with everyone for something.
- 18:12Compatibility, the way that we've perceived it before, is a complete myth.
- 18:15Everyone's compatible with everyone for something, for the cultivation
- 18:20of some kind of experience.
- 18:21And so, I looked at my chart, I was crafting a character.
- 18:26I actually, initially, was like, I'm gonna write a new book, I want this
- 18:30character to have these qualities.
- 18:34I listed, I was like, it would be nice if they had Sag rising, it'd
- 18:37be nice if they were an Earth sign.
- 18:40So I did some mind analysis of if I was writing a story of a character
- 18:45that I would like to spend time with, what are the qualities that would
- 18:48be the most wonderful, easeful, etc.
- 18:51So I just did that and then I was like, well, the earth is huge.
- 18:55There's a ton of people.
- 18:56I'll just see if I can find someone that feels like that to me.
- 19:00And literally as I'm scrolling, I could feel some of these people
- 19:04would be a really fun time, but not the experiences I wanted.
- 19:08Some of these people look like really nice people, but not
- 19:11the experience I'm looking for.
- 19:12I could feel eventualities and it was clear in my system that those were
- 19:17not the eventualities that I wanted.
- 19:20I only flipped on three people, and it just so happened that one of them was
- 19:25actually also into my whole situation too.
- 19:29We're way getting into details I usually don't even talk about on these
- 19:33I don't mean to take you down your whole personal route.
- 19:35You open the door and I'm asking questions.
- 19:37I did not mean to like, be like, let's talk about your personal life now,
- 19:42No.
- 19:42I could keep talking about it.
- 19:43Mostly I'm like, okay, wait, hold on.
- 19:45I could talk about this for hours right now because it's
- 19:48such a energized space for me.
- 19:50But the main reason I even brought it up is because it taught me
- 19:53something about the role of novelty.
- 19:57And I think that novelty and newness and change and experiencing things
- 20:01we've never experienced before, that is a frequency shifter.
- 20:06That is what pulls us out of the consensus.
- 20:10That is what the secret ingredient is.
- 20:12And if we acknowledge there are probably things that we have desires
- 20:17to do that would create a high level of instability in our security.
- 20:22So we don't do it.
- 20:23yeah, absolutely.
- 20:24Just, we were too responsible.
- 20:26We're too smart to do it.
- 20:28We're too risk averse.
- 20:29So we leave a lot of energy on the table by not following through
- 20:33with those inspired desires.
- 20:36I'm going to go full meta.
- 20:37sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you, I'm thinking about like, it's,
- 20:40we look at kids and kids are so untouched by a lot of this other stuff.
- 20:43My son can't sleep sometimes during the full moon and things like
- 20:46that, but very untouched by the world, by this cosmic weather that
- 20:50we're reporting on every month.
- 20:52But everything's new to them.
- 20:54They're constantly in that state of newness.
- 20:57They don't hold onto anything, literally.
- 20:59He's not even seven yet, so like his brain isn't holding onto
- 21:02things the way ours does either.
- 21:03But we could go down a whole rabbit hole here and we've touched on it.
- 21:07We've dipped our toes into the rabbit hole, but it's such an
- 21:10interesting way to look at it.
- 21:12Do we have a way of pulling ourselves in or out of this flow?
- 21:17That's right.
- 21:18And to be fair, also, it's, I only get to see this person like once a week.
- 21:23It's not like I've sustained a very high level of energy all month.
- 21:27But it's not just because I see this person, occasionally, it's because I
- 21:32accept that along with there's a person I never knew existed, there's also all of
- 21:38these other things I never knew existed.
- 21:40And so my way of being has changed.
- 21:44My way of seeing the world has changed, which has magnetized and invited so
- 21:50many more new experiences that are not even related to this person.
- 21:54It's like you get one little catalyst.
- 21:57Maybe this conversation can be a catalyst for people listening.
- 22:01Maybe
- 22:02I wanna also just touch on the fact that you're a manifesting generator.
- 22:06When you're satisfied, when you are in the energy of satisfaction, of feeling
- 22:10good, then you will attract, I mean that, that's true for all of us, but you're,
- 22:15as a generator, when you're in that state of being satisfied, detached from the
- 22:21outcome, cause that's the other thing that I was hearing, you're like I'm not
- 22:24attached to where this is going, or what's gonna happen, are we gonna have babies,
- 22:28is this gonna be the answer to all of my prayers, I'm just in it for the fun
- 22:31of it, for the experience of it, which is truth of the experiential process.
- 22:36It's like you do it because it's fun.
- 22:38You do it to have the experience of this human experience here, and not think
- 22:44about, will this get me what I want?
- 22:45It's not logical.
- 22:46Like you let go of the logical, and you've become detached from that, and
- 22:50that's allowed you to be more satisfied, and by being more satisfied, you're just
- 22:53getting all these other things that It's, the catalyst, it's the thing, but it's
- 22:58the way that the thing makes you feel.
- 23:00And it's the way that you doing it and being in this space is
- 23:04generating your aura and your energy and pulling things to you.
- 23:09Just to give people that illustration of what you're talking about through a
- 23:13human design perspective is, you're so damn satisfied, nothing can touch you.
- 23:18You just keep attracting more and more good things when you're in that space.
- 23:21I always say, good things happen when generators have fun.
- 23:24Like, when you're in a good state and you're just loving life, you're lit up.
- 23:28Right?
- 23:29And that's the thing that people can have.
- 23:30And people can, and you, and it, it's cumulative.
- 23:34The more satisfied I am, the more satisfied I get, and the more fun I
- 23:37get, and the more better things I get.
- 23:39And that's what we're talking about.
- 23:41You're, this is, hello, you're magnetic right now.
- 23:44You're magnetizing more of what you want and less of what you don't want.
- 23:48By being in this particular state right now.
- 23:52I imagine every single human design has a recipe for this.
- 23:56It's a different one.
- 23:57But that's the generator model right there.
- 24:00Everybody can get there, it's just what gets you there.
- 24:03Projectors it's a little, it's different.
- 24:06They're being asked for their wisdom.
- 24:07They're being recognized.
- 24:09And by being recognized, they get recognized more.
- 24:12And once they start getting recognized, I always say it's annoying.
- 24:16Because they like, they don't have to do anything anymore.
- 24:18People are just like, you should talk to this person, and you should
- 24:20do this, and you should do this.
- 24:21And they just get lifted up.
- 24:24Like, the hand of God just starts lifting them up, but a lot of times they have
- 24:28a hard time letting go and believing that doing what is right for them is
- 24:32really right for them because they have, they're 20 percent of the world.
- 24:36They don't have the same recipe that 70 percent of the world does.
- 24:40And So they have to believe in not the way I've been told.
- 24:45And that takes practice, trust, and, a whole lot of letting go.
- 24:50A lot of surrender is, on those other sides there's more surrender to it.
- 24:54Yeah, no, everybody has a recipe for that.
- 24:57We should get
- 24:58This is why we talk about these keys.
- 25:00This is why the keys are so important because we can talk about these
- 25:02transits, and we will talk about the transits because they're still relevant.
- 25:06And I can totally understand how understanding your recipe for what
- 25:12generates or projects or however your recipe is, understanding what
- 25:16that is, It is the key to overriding whatever these things that grab
- 25:21us as whatever the cultural field is trying to run us through.
- 25:27It can completely override all of that and then you actually get
- 25:31into true energetic creator mode.
- 25:34It's jailbreaking you from the system that we can't seem to
- 25:39understand how to navigate out of.
- 25:41But I think that if the system is a school, and learning your recipe is
- 25:46your graduate program, then stepping above the system would be going into
- 25:52the creator jailbreak mode where you get to just live your life.
- 25:56And you're free from the game.
- 25:58You're free from the constraints.
- 26:00Not that you ever want to escape life, but perhaps it would be nice to know
- 26:06how to put on creator mode on this game.
- 26:08No I completely agree.
- 26:10That's what the game is, right?
- 26:12That's what I teach with human design, that's what I try to get through, is
- 26:16that if you can let go of how you think it has to be done, which is the game,
- 26:21and you do it your way, you'll find in the beginning it's little pockets of it.
- 26:25And we all forget because we're conditioned to play the game.
- 26:29We're conditioned to get sucked in.
- 26:32We're conditioned to be part of a certain frequency of the collective.
- 26:39I have to remind myself sometimes, and I do this for a living, but I
- 26:42have to remind myself that when I get into those moments of, frustration or
- 26:46feeling like I'm caught up in the game, fall back on the tools and go back to
- 26:50do the thing that doesn't make sense.
- 26:51Sometimes it's just go have fun is honestly like for generators.
- 26:55That's the recipe usually is go have a good time.
- 26:58I don't care if it makes sense to you or not.
- 27:00It will break the cycle that you are in.
- 27:03You will start to attract different things.
- 27:05And I always get the idea that I've been trying to like work
- 27:09so hard for, or the thing I've been trying so hard to get done.
- 27:12That I just can't bring myself to do.
- 27:14If I go do something that genuinely feels joyful in that moment, instead, the
- 27:20idea comes, it's better than I thought.
- 27:22My phone rings, a sale comes in.
- 27:25It's crazy.
- 27:26And, but it can be difficult for people to trust that.
- 27:30Cause it doesn't make sense.
- 27:31With all of these transits, like I'm looking at my calendar right now, I
- 27:34can see all of the things that are laying out in front of us in November.
- 27:38And what I see is They're in each one of these, there's a way that we can
- 27:45make it feel more powerful to us where we can be scared and we can give it
- 27:49power and we could be like, oh, my gosh, that's going to be so blah, right?
- 27:54We could totally get into that, which people do that with mercury retrograde.
- 27:57People do that.
- 27:58We have a Mars.
- 27:59Pluto opposition.
- 28:01Astrologers are already like, Mars, Pluto, right?
- 28:05that is available.
- 28:07And when we do that and we give it more power, it has more power over us.
- 28:12And I think that always, when I've looked at these transits, I've always seen and
- 28:16there's a gate, there's a gate here.
- 28:18There's an opening here.
- 28:19There's an opportunity here for us to, Really see how we have power
- 28:25Co creating this with the transit.
- 28:27That's why I always include questions.
- 28:29There's a question you can ask yourself right now That's gonna open up more energy
- 28:33for you because I think secretly I've also always known that this does this is
- 28:40not the thing that's powerful our meaning maker is the thing that's powerful and
- 28:45we get to climb the ladder of meaning out of being influenced or overpowered
- 28:52by certain things in our lives.
- 28:54And so
- 28:54I think we ended the last episode with that note where I said my
- 28:58favorite teaching from A Course in Miracles is nothing has any meaning
- 29:03except the meaning that I put on it.
- 29:04And it applies to everything.
- 29:07Everything.
- 29:08And I think we're a lot of us, it's a big responsibility to make up our meanings.
- 29:14And it sometimes is easier to let people we trust to help speak
- 29:19over our lives or help speak over the meanings that we're making.
- 29:23Sometimes our meanings are painful and they, we do get lost in the
- 29:27woods sometimes and the pain feels more real than the fact
- 29:32that we can create a new reality.
- 29:34There's just this bridge that we eventually cross.
- 29:37And honestly, all astrologically right now.
- 29:42Pluto is in the very last degree of Capricorn.
- 29:46By the 19th, it moves into Aquarius for good.
- 29:48And I've talked about how the power change when this happens for the next 20
- 29:54years is whatever the frequency inside of us is, that's going to be the power.
- 29:59So Capricorn was saying what you've done in the past, the labels
- 30:03you've had, the accomplishments, the mastery the importance, all of
- 30:07those things are what have power.
- 30:08So people that have those things have power.
- 30:10If you don't have those things, you don't have power.
- 30:12You better work really hard to get those things so you do have power.
- 30:15So you can position yourself in a powerful, grounded, earthly state.
- 30:19So the thing that's changing is actually none of that stuff matters if the
- 30:25frequency underneath in the bones.
- 30:27isn't powerful.
- 30:29And no matter what the frequency is, that is going to be what
- 30:32powerfully maneuvers you through life and attracts things to you.
- 30:37So we're in the final stage, the final month of our lifetime to
- 30:42unpack, clear out, release ourselves from certain frequencies that have
- 30:49drawn us into patterns, attracted circumstances to our lives, kept
- 30:53us in a medium level bandwidth.
- 30:56We're making those choices right now, and there are, we're, the week we're
- 31:00in right now, it's the Six of Cups.
- 31:03This could feel like a nostalgic week.
- 31:06This could feel like we're looking back on all the Six of Cups.
- 31:08All the things that have come to pass, all the things that have completed.
- 31:12There could be this bittersweet nostalgia reminiscing kind of feeling and it could
- 31:17also it's like a last look, a last look.
- 31:22I have a vision of, My ex husband in the kitchen.
- 31:25I remember one of our last looks in the kitchen where we were, we
- 31:29really knew this was happening.
- 31:30And I like gave my wedding ring across the counter.
- 31:32And there was that moment in that, wow, so hard and sad, but also,
- 31:41there's just nothing like that.
- 31:42There's nothing like that feeling when you still have an open heart and
- 31:46you're transitioning into a new space.
- 31:48And that's what this week's about.
- 31:50Can we're, the opportunity is, can we have an open heart while
- 31:54we transition into this new space?
- 31:57Gratitude, you said yesterday.
- 31:58Gratitude for everything that is currently.
- 32:03And we have transits that are helping to facilitate that sweet, dreamy sensation.
- 32:09We've got we've got some Mercury, the big news about November is that Mercury
- 32:13is going to be moving into Sagittarius.
- 32:14Sagittarius.
- 32:15And the reason why that's exciting big news is because we're getting in
- 32:19touch with our sensation of excitement.
- 32:22Mercury in Sagittarius is going to inform us where the juicy,
- 32:28passionate novelty actually could be.
- 32:31And if we allow ourselves to move in that direction, we'll be moving on to the new.
- 32:36We can have our last looks and then immediately move on.
- 32:39Follow the passion into something that feels better aligned to our new
- 32:43frequency and then we have Mars opposite Pluto right after on the third and that
- 32:49is like a that's a line in the sand That says wow, this really is over.
- 32:56Not all it's not all sometimes you know something's over because you're in the
- 33:00new reality and you don't act even though you grieve the old reality You don't want
- 33:05to go back to the old reality You're in the new one and you're really knowing
- 33:09that it's over because the new one is in and you wouldn't go back to the old
- 33:12You've really turned the page, and I think we have all been there at some point where
- 33:16it's like, we've been in a relationship where maybe you've broken up and you're,
- 33:21I can remember that I had an old boyfriend that, we were, we broke up a lot.
- 33:26And, you always knew, it's not really done.
- 33:29And then until the last time and it's like, oh, it's done now.
- 33:32I've, I'm not that person in that relationship anymore.
- 33:36I'm no longer there.
- 33:38So I totally get that.
- 33:39So that's the point that we're at.
- 33:41So starting off the month, we're at that turn the page moment of
- 33:45closing that door on Capricorn on and moving into Aquarius season, right?
- 33:51That's, is that kind of what you're drawing the line with?
- 33:54yeah deeper what's deeper is that Pluto is heading us into Aquarius
- 33:59Mars, well, Mars is like the way we behave from our patterning.
- 34:04It's like the outcome that we have from the emotions that we feel.
- 34:10So, if we feel these certain emotions, we act a certain way.
- 34:13Mars is how we act.
- 34:15So, we're going to know that we're no longer going to act the way we did before.
- 34:21And that's Mars opposite Pluto.
- 34:23Mars is moving, has been moving through Cancer this whole
- 34:25time, being so vulnerable.
- 34:27Really feeling how we've acted from our vulnerable spaces.
- 34:33Whether that was to protect ourselves, or to hurt others, or
- 34:36to create space, or to open up.
- 34:39And we get this moment on the third, where right before Mars moves into
- 34:43Leo, It goes opposing to Pluto, which is Pluto is packing up all the past.
- 34:48So yes, we turn the page and then we get extra fire.
- 34:52We've got Sagittarius fire.
- 34:54We've got Leo fire, Venus is in Sagittarius as well.
- 34:57So even though we're in a watery month with the sun.
- 35:02We are letting our passion bring extra novelty, extra newness.
- 35:08We're letting our passion drive some of the transformation that Scorpio
- 35:13season ultimately delivers to us.
- 35:15Yeah I see that too with the start of the month.
- 35:18You were saying that's around like the third, fourth, fifth of
- 35:21the month is that kind of push.
- 35:24Yeah, when we're moving into that, like then we're getting into like gate
- 35:27one, which is, it's, that's, it's the turn of the page moment we get into
- 35:31the third quarter, the fourth quarter.
- 35:33We have the different kind of overarching themes of the year and of the purposes,
- 35:40like what is your purpose led by?
- 35:42And the fourth quarter is about transformation.
- 35:44It's the time where we change.
- 35:46It is where we turn the page.
- 35:48It is where we shift into all the whole year we've gone through, the whole wheel,
- 35:53and it's all been about the seeds of the ideas, the implementation of the
- 35:57structure behind them, the sharing of them, the building of relationships.
- 36:02It's the opening of our heart and then it's like, well now who are we?
- 36:06And it kicks off by shifting us into gate one, which is the gate of uniqueness.
- 36:11Who am I?
- 36:13And it's about expressing yourself in a new and unique way and just saying
- 36:18this is a freak flag gate for sure.
- 36:21This is one that says I am me and I love me for the way that I am.
- 36:26And you're just, it's being an expression of.
- 36:29You as a pure individual.
- 36:32It is the most, and, but it, there's an activeness to that.
- 36:36I think that goes well with the Mars activation here, which is the Mars and
- 36:40Pluto is that, or not in Pluto, excuse me but the Mars activation here where
- 36:46gate one, yes, it's about being unique, but being unique is an active, Activity.
- 36:54It is not passive.
- 36:56I'm just me and I'm just back here.
- 36:57No, it's about showing the world.
- 36:59It's about being that person actively out in the world and letting that be
- 37:04something that is reflected all the time.
- 37:07So that I look at like as kicking off the season to like when I see that gate I'm
- 37:13like, oh, it's time to really step in.
- 37:16To who you are, to let go of anything that you think needs to fit in, because
- 37:20Gate One does not like to fit in, it does not need to, it has no use for that.
- 37:25It is above and beyond all other things an individual.
- 37:30And it loves itself for its individual nature and it deserves
- 37:34to be seen and sees itself that way.
- 37:36So it has no qualms about people seeing its quirks.
- 37:41In fact, that's what makes it special.
- 37:43So, we have two other interesting things, that feels like it jives
- 37:47with what you're talking about.
- 37:48Yeah,
- 37:52We have a lot of North Node aspects this month too, and the North Node is always
- 37:58asking us to evolve, and it's been asking us to evolve through Aries, which is so
- 38:03much that energy you're talking about, that uniqueness, the special qualities
- 38:08that we all have incarnated to express.
- 38:11And so, this is definitely the month for that, where our transformation
- 38:16doesn't necessarily come from the Like trauma and whoa, like all of the
- 38:21heaviness that we usually associate with.
- 38:23Like Scorpio stuff, right?
- 38:26No, let the transformation be led by your unique desires and passions for
- 38:31what you really want to experience.
- 38:33Yeah and then the rest of the month, we move through from
- 38:36a human design perspective.
- 38:37What's interesting about this month is we have two sun gates, so the 11th
- 38:42through the 16th we have gate 43.
- 38:43through the 16th When we have the sun, we also get that earth pairing
- 38:48of the 23rd gate, which is, we have two of these instances where they form
- 38:53a channel in the human design chart.
- 38:56So something that's interesting to note is that from the 11th to the 16th, we'll be
- 39:00in gate 43, which is all about insights, which is all about like aha moments, like
- 39:04big sparks of Oh my God, I get it now.
- 39:07Maybe something that you've been mulling over something that you have
- 39:10been like, maybe all year you've been waiting for this thing to
- 39:13crystallize and say Oh, That's it.
- 39:16It was that at, it was that the whole time.
- 39:19That might be that moment that it drops in.
- 39:21I feel like it's like a pinball that's like making its way down
- 39:23and finally falls through the hole.
- 39:25That's what Gate 43 is about.
- 39:27But it pairs with Gate 23, which makes the channel of structuring, which
- 39:31connects the ajna to the throat center.
- 39:33And what that means, from like a practical standpoint, is that everybody will have
- 39:38a defined mind and a defined throat.
- 39:41for that transit.
- 39:43So you may find that you are able to speak those insights a little bit easier, that
- 39:48you might be able to put things out there.
- 39:50Those ideas also might be a little crazy and a little offbeat
- 39:54and not everybody may get them.
- 39:56But that's the lesson is that you might just have something
- 40:03that people don't understand yet.
- 40:04It does not make it wrong.
- 40:05It makes it unique.
- 40:07I'm, so happy you're talking about that because Mercury is having a
- 40:11lot of aspects around the time that you're talking about and Mercury
- 40:15is the part of us that speaks it.
- 40:17And with Mercury in Sagittarius, Mer Sagittarius Mercury wants to shout from
- 40:22the rooftops everything that it's learned, everything that it believes in, and
- 40:27even the metaphor here is Sagittarius.
- 40:28Sagittarius.
- 40:29In Libra season, you choose your scuba diving partner.
- 40:32In Scorpio season, you dive into the deep sea caves.
- 40:36And if you've ever seen Abyss, you know how you go, Virgil goes down at the trench
- 40:39and then finds the alien ship down there?
- 40:41And then the alien ship surfaces?
- 40:44Mercury in Sagittarius is the moment the alien ship surfaces at the end, and
- 40:49everything in the world is different.
- 40:50And this might be crazy, but it's true!
- 40:53It's true!
- 40:54I've been down in the caves!
- 40:56I found this!
- 40:57And so, yeah, it's a little bit extra.
- 41:01It's a little bit unhinged, but it doesn't mean it's less valid or less true.
- 41:07It just means that we're not putting our voice in the mid range anymore.
- 41:12We're saying something new.
- 41:15We're expressing something novel and fresh that's never been expressed before.
- 41:19And that, it does sound a little bit crazy at first, because it's
- 41:22never, it's not the consensus.
- 41:25And that's what the opportunity is this year, especially with all
- 41:29the Sagittarius changeover that happens from the 17th to the 23rd.
- 41:33Yeah, go ahead and put your frequency flag out in the air.
- 41:36Yeah.
- 41:37And then moving on through the month we have from the 16th to the 21st
- 41:42from human design, we're in gate 14, which that to me, That's like the fuel
- 41:48behind, you talked about the arrow being pulled back in Libra season,
- 41:52in Gate 14 to me is, that's the fuel that's like the propulsion of the arrow,
- 41:58that is the push, that is, at least from the human design perspective, it
- 42:02says what's the gas, we're going to put gas in one car, what's the car?
- 42:07And it's, it is the gas, it is the fuel, it is the thing that says, it's
- 42:11this, it's now, it's time, it's go.
- 42:13And it's this, I feel like there's so much, it's calling us
- 42:16to trust that what feels right to us, we will have energy for.
- 42:21Cause it's called the Gate of Capacity.
- 42:23And I think it's a difficult one for people to understand.
- 42:26Because there is this sense that will I be able to take it on?
- 42:29Will I be able to have it all?
- 42:30Will I be able to really see this through?
- 42:33And the answer is, if you feel like you really want it, and it really feels like
- 42:37a yes for you, the capacity is there.
- 42:39That's the call that Gate 14 is making to us.
- 42:43And then when we go to the 22nd to the 27th, we have another one of those
- 42:48situations where we have a channel that's made in the transit, so I
- 42:51want to make sure that I call it out.
- 42:53It's gate 34, it's the sun gate that we're in.
- 42:56Which is the gate of power.
- 42:58It is about personal power.
- 42:59Again, this is a big bold month.
- 43:01It's Scorpio season, so a big bold month and moving in, going into Sagittarius.
- 43:06The 34th gate is in the sacral center.
- 43:09It is power, pure, unadulterated, just like I want it, I'm going for it, power.
- 43:14But it connects to gate 20, which forms a channel, the channel of
- 43:17charisma, connecting the sacral, to the throat, everyone born during that
- 43:22time will be a manifesting generator.
- 43:24So anybody who has a birthday from the 22nd to the 27th that's born this
- 43:28year will be a mani gen automatically because they will have a defined
- 43:32sacral and a defined throat and that channel going straight there.
- 43:36So, during that time, this also is a time of that channel is
- 43:40notorious for being really busy.
- 43:42So you might find that you have a lot of energy that wants to be expressed, and
- 43:47wants to be expressed now, like yesterday.
- 43:50It's just let's go!
- 43:53And can you just make sure that you're going on the things
- 43:57that really feel true to you?
- 43:59That building on the month, it's expressing your uniqueness, you have
- 44:03these innovative ideas, you are saying, I want it, I trust that I have capacity
- 44:08for it, and then you let yourself go.
- 44:11and go toward those things, rather than necessarily what logically makes
- 44:15the most sense, or second guessing.
- 44:18That's, I, Gate 34 calls us to just say, if it feels right, again, we
- 44:24have the capacity from Gate 14 that's saying, we can handle it, and Gate 34
- 44:29is saying, just give me the just give me the high sign, coach, I'm ready.
- 44:32I'm ready to move.
- 44:34And that's what kind of pushes us into into December where we go into we
- 44:38start off with the gate of details which is okay we have the power
- 44:41now, it's like now let's get focused.
- 44:43So much momentum there I think and so much possibility.
- 44:48I think November is fun.
- 44:49I always I'm a Scorpio moon and rising.
- 44:53I dig this time.
- 44:54I always feel very excited during this time.
- 44:56Everything you said, that was such sound and good things to remember because
- 45:00that's right before Thanksgiving.
- 45:01We have Thanksgiving on the 28th this year, and leading up to
- 45:04Thanksgiving, we're gonna have Saturn moving direct on the 15th.
- 45:09We're gonna have Pluto moving direct on the 19th.
- 45:11Sun moving into Sagittarius on the 21st.
- 45:15So, as we're amping up energy for the Thanksgiving, Black Friday,
- 45:21entering into the holiday season we also are going to have a Mercury
- 45:25retrograde starting on the 25th.
- 45:27So, what you said about feeling the power, feeling the energy, feeling
- 45:32the capacity, and that it might not be rational, Even more true this year
- 45:38than any years before, because there will be a lot of forward momentum,
- 45:42excitement, energy to be in your frequency and follow your bliss and say yes.
- 45:49And Mercury retrograde is going to say, and probably it
- 45:52won't make that much sense.
- 45:56Trust.
- 45:57Don't worry about the details so much.
- 45:59Don't get in your head too much about this.
- 46:02Let the energy lead it.
- 46:04You might not know until the exact moment you need to know, and that's fine.
- 46:08It's a vibration.
- 46:09It's a frequency.
- 46:10It's like we're getting this entry into Pluto and Aquarius with the
- 46:14Sagittarius frequency because Sagittarius is mutable fire.
- 46:19It's fire that's true in one moment and then true about
- 46:23something else in the next moment.
- 46:24It's like, let the fire be the guiding principle and don't worry so much
- 46:30about having it to have to make sense.
- 46:34I love it.
- 46:34I feel like we have covered a lot in this episode.
- 46:38I think, I'm excited for November.
- 46:41I'm like I feel I feel the shift already pulling us into this
- 46:48new phase, into this new energy.
- 46:50Hoping that, around that, like, Third, fourth, fifth, that we're
- 46:54moving in a great direction that page feels good to us.
- 46:57And yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
- 47:00You're riding in your, like, I'm out of the collective energy.
- 47:03Everything is so great place.
- 47:05I hope it stays that way for, I hope you're like swimming in that space
- 47:08and you come next month with like, even more tips on like, I, this
- 47:12is how I've managed to stay here.
- 47:14I've already been thinking about that.
- 47:16Not that I'm attached to saying, like, in the state of bliss, even though it's
- 47:22really hard to not be attached to it.
- 47:24What a fun experiment, though.
- 47:26It's all for research, y'all.
- 47:28I'm gonna go first into the bliss experiment to see what it looks like
- 47:32to remain in a state of constant bliss.
- 47:36Oh, I like that.
- 47:38The bliss experiment.
- 47:39I love it.
- 47:40Sign me up.
- 47:41I'll be part of the bliss experiment.
- 47:43I'll dive into this with you.
- 47:45Do you have anything to say?
- 47:46We said a lot.
- 47:47Do you have anything to leave our beautiful listeners with?
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