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And the Answer is Yes · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beta Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
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  Speaker 1: It's that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife stunning.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah sounds good, it does. Yeah, it's fun. We are
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  Speaker 3: back with the proposal story, my proposal to Haley. Can
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  Speaker 3: I just tell you something?
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  Speaker 1: Sure, I'm so happy that you did it before the
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  Speaker 1: year ended. It just feels so nice that, like she
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  Speaker 1: proposed in twenty twenty five, you proposed, Like I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: there's something very like symmetrical about it. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how to explain, but like, I'm just so happy that
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  Speaker 1: you did it before the year was over.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, I too, am happy I did it
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  Speaker 3: before the year was over.
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  Speaker 2: It was really fun and I the really part is
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  Speaker 2: that when we went to Japan five years ago and
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  Speaker 2: we had the moment of staying at the Four Seasons,
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  Speaker 2: I it was the same week.
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  Speaker 3: That we were there.
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  Speaker 2: So it was really cool because it was like we
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  Speaker 2: kind of went back to that time and place.
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  Speaker 3: And so I called Tanya.
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  Speaker 2: It's the day before I FaceTime her, and she anytime
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  Speaker 2: I FaceTime Tanya.
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  Speaker 3: She always answers the same. She goes hey, because I'm
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  Speaker 3: like and I'm like, what are you doing? She's like,
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  Speaker 3: what are you doing? And I'm like, oh, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Just you know, we're just cooking dinner. We're in the kitchen,
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  Speaker 1: like cooking some.
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  Speaker 3: For those are Easton asked me to clarify this.
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  Speaker 2: So I had talked about going to Japan on the
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  Speaker 2: podcast because the plan was that I was gonna go
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  Speaker 2: to London for my work trip and then I was
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  Speaker 2: gonna leave and meet up with them on Sunday in Japan.
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  Speaker 2: So I always talked about going to Japan, so that
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  Speaker 2: I tried to make it feel like very no one
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  Speaker 2: like suspicious of it, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, meaning Haley, Yeah, meaning like.
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  Speaker 2: Haley wouldn't think anything of it, or like a lot
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  Speaker 2: of the scrubbers were like, as soon as you said
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  Speaker 2: you were going to Japan, I knew you were going
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  Speaker 2: to propose.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, everybody the whole thing. After you call.
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  Speaker 2: So I call her, they're cooking in the kitchen and
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  Speaker 2: they're like, what are you doing? And I was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: did I say I'm in Japan. I'm in Japan.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I am in Japan.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm going to propose to Haley tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what, like so nonchalant. Yeah, And then
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  Speaker 1: I started putting the pieces together and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh. For some reason, I didn't think you
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  Speaker 1: had the ring yet. So I was like totally thrown
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  Speaker 1: off that you like were proposing because I didn't think
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  Speaker 1: you had the ring.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, I didn't tell this in the last part.
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  Speaker 3: I got the ring the day I left, so I
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  Speaker 3: left it.
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  Speaker 2: I left at midnight or like eleven thirty pm on
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  Speaker 2: Tuesday night.
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  Speaker 3: I got the ring on Tuesday afternoon.
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  Speaker 2: She met me in the park, like I found a
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  Speaker 2: dolor spot. So I didn't plan that. I did not
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  Speaker 2: plan that. But no, she was like, it's not going
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  Speaker 2: to be ready until December second. And I was like,
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  Speaker 2: I leave December second, and she was like, i'll get
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  Speaker 2: it to you.
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  Speaker 3: What time do you leave?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like at night. She's like, I'll get it.
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  Speaker 2: I'll bring it to you in the afternoon. The reason
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  Speaker 2: why I didn't have.
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  Speaker 1: The ring till I love and I guess like, silly me,
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  Speaker 1: I thought maybe you would like send me pictures of
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  Speaker 1: the ring when you got it, Like I was so I.
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  Speaker 4: Knew you were going to Japan, and I knew it.
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  Speaker 1: Was like through this through SS Global to say global
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  Speaker 1: SS Gold, and so in my mind I was just
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  Speaker 1: like I just had ruled it out, like I just
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  Speaker 1: didn't even think that you were going to be proposing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my gosh, her location,
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  Speaker 1: she stopped sharing her location, like I'm such a dingling,
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  Speaker 1: Like she couldn't have given me more signs as she
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  Speaker 1: was proposing and dingling.
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  Speaker 4: Tanya was like, did not put the pieces together.
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  Speaker 3: Don't call yourself a dingling, but I felt very dingling.
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  Speaker 2: But my so two days before I left, I was
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  Speaker 2: over at Alley's and she straight up looked at me
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  Speaker 2: and she goes, are you proposing in Japan? And that
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  Speaker 2: was the first time where I was like I'm yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I was just like, yeah, I am, because she looked
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  Speaker 2: at me dead in my eyes and asked, and I
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  Speaker 2: was I was thinking, I'm so grateful and I would
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  Speaker 2: have told you if you like straight up asked me
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  Speaker 2: to my face, I will add you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm happy you said that because I've been trying
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  Speaker 1: to be like more respectful of boundaries. Yeah, and like
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  Speaker 1: not press you and ask you these things.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do think if you had thought you
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  Speaker 3: would have asked me. I don't feel like that would
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  Speaker 3: have been off the table if it had come to
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  Speaker 3: your mind.
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  Speaker 5: But he did it and really did not And so yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I called and she was like wait what, And the
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  Speaker 5: whole everything about it just happened so sleep seamlessly that
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  Speaker 5: it went as according to plan as possible.
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  Speaker 2: So when I called Tanya and Robie, it's like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my gosh, what And he's like, Babe, how did you
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  Speaker 2: not know? I was like, Robbie, don't make her feel worse.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, ah, he was like, so pick
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  Speaker 1: up on my own engagement, Like, so.
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  Speaker 3: She's going to Japan.
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  Speaker 2: She turned her location off, and you knew that, like
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  Speaker 2: there was a chance she would at some point was
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  Speaker 2: proposing to Haley.
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  Speaker 1: I just assumed that you would tell me, And I
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  Speaker 1: know you said you weren't, but I just really thought.
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  Speaker 3: You would, silly me, literally.
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  Speaker 1: So naive, Like I'm like, also with my own proposal,
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  Speaker 1: there were so many things I should have picked up
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  Speaker 1: on that I just didn't.
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  Speaker 3: Robbie did a really good job though how he said
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  Speaker 3: it up.
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  Speaker 1: Though in hindsight, I should have really like picked up
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  Speaker 1: on some p's and q's.
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  Speaker 3: But it's fine, y'all go to the four seat, like
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  Speaker 3: y'all do I mean you go to the mayboard and
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  Speaker 3: did your massage all the time. Like what he did
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  Speaker 3: was very like casual and calm. Yeah, did not know
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  Speaker 3: in hindsight, there were some clues.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, proposing is such a special part of like a
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  Speaker 6: love story. But like it's so weird to like enter
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  Speaker 6: this new phase of your life by like committing the
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  Speaker 6: most wise yeah secrets you've ever had.
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  Speaker 3: Truly, truly, it was.
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  Speaker 6: Like so uncomfortable for me when I did.
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  Speaker 2: It sucks, it's so true, and I was always I
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  Speaker 2: was kind of like, well, we've already committed.
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  Speaker 3: We're pretty locked in, you know, so I'm just putting
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  Speaker 3: the dead bowl on.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 3: She knows it's all in good fun.
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  Speaker 1: So Becca facetimes us and gives us like the thrill
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  Speaker 1: of a lifetime, like we were like riding high after that,
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  Speaker 1: like and then I was just like counting down the minutes,
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  Speaker 1: like I was like, I don't know what time it
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  Speaker 1: is there. I know she's doing it tomorrow, but like
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  Speaker 1: is that tomorrow tomorrow?
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  Speaker 4: For us?
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  Speaker 2: Like I just yeah, the timing was weird because I
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  Speaker 2: was like a full day ahead.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. So then I called.
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  Speaker 2: I had already called her parents and her sister and
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  Speaker 2: her brother and then and by the way, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: tell marlaw is with it and doing all.
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  Speaker 4: She's smart though, that would be the worst person to tell.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I just thought, I don't want her to feel
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  Speaker 2: the burden of having to like lie, lie and keep
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  Speaker 2: the secret, and so I just was like, I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to tell her.
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  Speaker 3: She'll be surprised too.
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  Speaker 2: So the the morning of I pick my outfit and
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  Speaker 2: I the photographer, and so that's it.
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  Speaker 4: You just called her parents and me and that was it.
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  Speaker 4: I called there's more people.
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  Speaker 2: I called Taylor Banks, and I called Laura, and I
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  Speaker 2: called my sister Henk and Caroline and my mom.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, so like a lengthy list. Yeah. I just
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  Speaker 3: called to be like this is happening. Yeah, okay, so
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  Speaker 3: honored to be on the top of that. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 3: were the first.
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  Speaker 7: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think after heink it's nine. Placement doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, it was more about timing of
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  Speaker 2: when you were going to answer, et cetera. Yeah, So
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  Speaker 2: the plan was that the photographer and videographer. Haley thought
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  Speaker 2: she was going to a tea ceremony that morning.
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  Speaker 3: So my idea was that the photographer morning time you
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  Speaker 3: did it was like eleven. Oh.
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  Speaker 2: She was like, or the photographer and videographer came to
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  Speaker 2: my room, and my plan was they were gonna go
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  Speaker 2: with the ico who worked for the four Seasons, and
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  Speaker 2: she was she was gonna be with them and tell Haley, hey,
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  Speaker 2: we have this photographer and videographer. They're gonna basically capture
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  Speaker 2: your content for you to use to post for the
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  Speaker 2: hotel in ess Gold.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm smart because I.
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  Speaker 2: Was like, there it was like three people with all
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  Speaker 2: this gear, Like, she's gonna be suspicious. So my plan
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  Speaker 2: there was a little basically you can write these wishes
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  Speaker 2: and you go up and you hang them and it's
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  Speaker 2: like a little like shrine thing, and it was up
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  Speaker 2: the stairs in the garden. So I went and that's
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  Speaker 2: where I was waiting. So she was walking along the
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  Speaker 2: path and they were like, we're we're gonna stop and
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  Speaker 2: have her take photos at this spot and you're gonna
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  Speaker 2: walk down and you're gonna like kind of walk up
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  Speaker 2: behind her and just tap her on the shoulder surprise her.
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  Speaker 2: So she's taking photos and she's like serving, like she
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  Speaker 2: is posing.
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  Speaker 3: For her life.
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  Speaker 2: And I walk up behind her and she said that
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  Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, someone's in my shot,
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  Speaker 2: Like they'll photoshop them out.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a professional. So she like stayed just like posing,
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  Speaker 3: locked in and then I tapped her on the shoulder
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  Speaker 3: and she was like, oh my gosh. She was like,
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  Speaker 3: are you kidding? And she was like, I have my
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  Speaker 3: glasses on. She was gonna put her contacts in, and
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  Speaker 3: then they decided.
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  Speaker 2: She had these like cooler glasses that like were an
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  Speaker 2: accessory for her outfits.
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  Speaker 3: So she was like, let me take my glasses off.
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  Speaker 3: And so.
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  Speaker 2: I will say it proposing in front of people, because
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  Speaker 2: you know, I had the photographer, videographer, another person there.
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  Speaker 3: I go from the hotel and Marla while I was
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  Speaker 3: like trying to say myself.
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  Speaker 2: And Hailey's like totally caught off guard, like she can't
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  Speaker 2: believe it.
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  Speaker 3: So we're both like trying to be present and we're
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  Speaker 3: both crying. And then I.
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  Speaker 2: Got on a knee, which the whole getting on a
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  Speaker 2: knee conversation is so funny because back in twenty twenty,
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  Speaker 2: we were with Laura, and Hailey made the comment about like,
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  Speaker 2: oh yeah, like when Becka gets on a knee, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not getting on a knee.
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  Speaker 3: Why would I get on a knee? Like I had
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  Speaker 3: such a stereotypical role of like who was supposed to
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  Speaker 3: be on a knee?
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  Speaker 2: Right, And so I was like I never pictured myself
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  Speaker 2: getting on a knee.
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  Speaker 1: Do you go down on a knee? Like in reality?
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  Speaker 1: Like what's the point of it should be?
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  Speaker 3: Like like present? I don't know, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, I don't know either.
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  Speaker 6: Really, it's it comes from medieval times when knights would
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  Speaker 6: kneel to pledge loyalty to lords and ladies.
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  Speaker 3: And ladies to ladies.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I I remember when I was like, you
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  Speaker 1: were not gonna get on a knee?
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  Speaker 3: Well I was.
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  Speaker 2: That was the last conversation we had about it, and
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  Speaker 2: she was like what.
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  Speaker 3: Like I always expected when I got proposed to that
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  Speaker 3: someone would be on the knee. And I'm like, is
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  Speaker 3: there a way we can both be sitting down or something?
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  Speaker 3: But I will say I felt like I loved getting
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  Speaker 3: down on a knee. You did. It just felt powerful.
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  Speaker 2: I felt very like empowered to do it, and like,
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  Speaker 2: also it was something that was really important to her,
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  Speaker 2: so it felt very important to.
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  Speaker 3: Me, right, and so I proposed and.
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  Speaker 2: It was hilarious, like it was just so funny, and
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  Speaker 2: so then we hug and everything, and Marla runs over
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  Speaker 2: because I.
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  Speaker 4: Wish someone had a video on Marla's face.
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  Speaker 2: No, I was weirdly focused on her face because I
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  Speaker 2: was watching her and she she really played it cool,
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  Speaker 2: but I could see her being like like, oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 3: And they all had to keep their cool.
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  Speaker 4: She had to keep her cool because she would have
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  Speaker 4: given it away.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, by the way, I didn't. I forgot to talk
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  Speaker 3: about this.
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  Speaker 2: But the whole time leading up to this, when Haley
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  Speaker 2: was facetiming me, I was pretending that I was sick.
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  Speaker 2: She thought I had the flu in London, like she
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  Speaker 2: was like, Becca's so sick, because I thought it was
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  Speaker 2: weird that I wouldn't be out and about with people.
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  Speaker 2: When she facetiming, oh, like every time, You're just like
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  Speaker 2: I'm all the time in the room. Yeah, so it
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  Speaker 2: was like, what would be a reason I'd be in
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  Speaker 2: my room? And I was like, oh, because I'm jet
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  Speaker 2: laden and sick. So at one point, I was like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: they're sending a doctor to me, because in my mind
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  Speaker 2: I had to get I was like, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how I'm going to get on another flight to Japan
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  Speaker 2: if I'm sick. So the whole time she's thinking, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: maybe not going to make it to Japan. So when
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  Speaker 2: she saw me, it was not only surprising to see me,
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  Speaker 2: but she was like, you're not sick. Yeah, So then
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  Speaker 2: she goes, she goes, but you ran into someone at
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  Speaker 2: the airport. And that was the last minute, desperate attempt
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  Speaker 2: for me to prove that I was going on that trip,
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  Speaker 2: and it worked.
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  Speaker 3: It was like one thing where she was like that
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  Speaker 3: she held on to that.
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  Speaker 2: She was like, but she ran into someone, Like she
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  Speaker 2: said the day before, she was at breakfast and they
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  Speaker 2: were like looking at the garden, which is where I proposed,
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  Speaker 2: and she was like, I can't believe Becca is not
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  Speaker 2: going to propose here, like this is my dream and
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  Speaker 2: she's gonna miss the opportunity to do it, and and
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  Speaker 2: Marla was like, you don't think maybe she's still gonna
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  Speaker 2: do it when she comes and she goes, I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: but I do know She's.
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  Speaker 3: Like in London because she ran into someone there. Damn smart,
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: I know, and that was just the last ditch attempt,
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  Speaker 2: and so she was like.
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  Speaker 3: And you're not sick. And so the whole trip she
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  Speaker 3: was thinking, she was like, wait, so did s nim
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  Speaker 3: plan And I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, I am sin, I yeah, the sponsorship, right, You're like,
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  Speaker 2: here's my credit cardinal credit.
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  Speaker 8: Card, she said the night before the first night they
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  Speaker 8: got to the hotel, because I got there on Thursday
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  Speaker 8: and they got there Friday morning, and then I proposed
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  Speaker 8: on Saturday because I don't want to propose to her,
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  Speaker 8: like right, and she got in and feel jet lagged
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  Speaker 8: and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So I let her have a day really thinking it's
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  Speaker 2: not gonna happen. And that night they went to dinner
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  Speaker 2: at the hotel and they're like, we got to meet
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  Speaker 2: the per diem that the hotel gave us, and they
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  Speaker 2: were just like, should we order the tenderloin.
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  Speaker 4: It's so freaking funny.
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  Speaker 3: It's so funny.
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  Speaker 2: I wish she was here to tell it, because, like her,
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  Speaker 2: we should have her come back on and tell her perspective.
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  Speaker 2: She actually did get sick at the end of the trip,
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  Speaker 2: so she's at homesick.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's a bummer. So it was so much fun.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, there was a point when you had
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  Speaker 1: called and told us and then maybe yeah, maybe was
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  Speaker 1: like twenty four hours or maybe like a little bit more.
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  Speaker 1: And I see Haley like posting ss goal, thank you this,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, I like Robbie's like sending the story
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  Speaker 1: to me too, like we're sending it back and forth
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  Speaker 1: to each other, like oh.
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  Speaker 2: Hell, Like it was so good and it was so
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  Speaker 2: amazing because Sinnim would be like, they're wanting to get
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  Speaker 2: her lawyer involved, like to sign the contracts, and I
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: was like, just do it.
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  Speaker 3: It'll all be voided.
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  Speaker 2: Wait what, like just for because it was a brand,
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  Speaker 2: like it was a collaboration Deale so like her team
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  Speaker 2: and like her lay like just making sure like contracts
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  Speaker 2: and everything were signed.
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  Speaker 3: And so Sinema would be like, they're asking for like
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  Speaker 3: this document and I'm like, I don't know what that is.
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  Speaker 3: Let me ask d Like it was O kao, why
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  Speaker 3: don't you ask Robbie? Oh because you didn't tell us?
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah no. So it was so much fun and it
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: was such a success. She was so so.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Like nerve wrecking for cinem too, like she's like signing
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: all these like leal documents when it's all a rude
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: it's so scary, literally total I'm not kidding, like cinem
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: and honestly having someone do.
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: The travel like she really planned.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: She planned the we did like a kimono experience, We
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: did the tea ceremony, she did the day trip for us,
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: and like all the travel, it was next level.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: No, that's like the whole thing too, is like when
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: you when we worked with her, it's like they think
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: of everything, so it's like you don't have to you
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: just don't have to think, and like there's so much
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: freedom in that, like it just takes the like travel
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: anxiety away.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: Yes, And she was like we in our room.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: She had framed photos of us set up like it
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: was just everything was so thoughtful. And the girls from
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: four Seasons, like the IC sent me room service the
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: night before and she had chat gpted what I like
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: to eat and she was like I saw that you
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: like junk food, so she sent me like French fries
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: and chocolates and like sorry with the sweetest letter that
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: was like you've got this, like you are amazing, Like
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: good luck tomorrow.
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: It was just the most thoughtful, perfect experience.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: And I had a moment like the night before where
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: I was just like I was feeling very grateful for
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: being able to do it that and like being able
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: to plan such a like elaborate proposal and travel and
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: all that stuff. I had this moment of like heavy
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: gratitude where I was like, this is so freaking cool
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: that I get to do this, and like that I
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: had the support and help from Sinnam and like the
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: girls that forced it. Like it was just I was
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: just very overwhelmed of like, oh my gosh, I'm so
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: grateful I get to do this for Haley.
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: And it was so fun and worth it.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: And wait, so you like left his hanging and you
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: propose you put the ring on her?
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: And she said yes, I think going into it. Obviously,
• 17:33
  Speaker 3: if I had proposed first, I know that she would
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: have said yes. But it really took off like the
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: nerves of you know.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: What, No, even if you had gone first, it would
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: be a nervous she was a second.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: It just like really elimit, like I got to just
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: fully be excited and giddy about the surprise.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: You know, So you propose and then I want to know,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: like what you did after you with Hailey and Marla,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: But we to talk about.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: That when we come back.
• 18:02
  Speaker 9: Nice, We're back with some breaking.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: News, Becca Well, breaking news in terms of a very
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: special guest who was willing to hop on zoom for
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: us to talk and share her experience of the story.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: Please welcome my fiance two time. Do you want winning fiance?
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: Like, Hi, guys, I'm very long sick.
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah she got she went down.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: Heyers, We're so sorry that you're sick.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she got to ring Anna virus.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Ana virus such as life I know highs and lows.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: Babe.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: I basically told the story of like me planning it
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: and what happened, and we had just gotten to.
• 19:05
  Speaker 3: The proposal part. But I feel like we should go back.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: And kind of talk about your experience of the all
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: the planning and what you thought going into it and everything.
• 19:15
  Speaker 7: Well, did you tell them like all the things like
• 19:18
  Speaker 7: that convinced me that you weren't going to propose? Yeah?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Well, I told him that I said I wanted to
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: do it myself and plan my own proposal, not on
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: like a sponsored trip. And then I told him that
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I had gardened and you had straight up asked me
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: like did you do this?
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: And ID lock it?
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: I got so mass manipulated.
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: It was crazy.
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: Honestly, it is so wild.
• 19:42
  Speaker 10: The amount still confused. How I'm sick and Becca's not
• 19:46
  Speaker 10: sick in London. Everything's confusing for me right now. I'm
• 19:52
  Speaker 10: an inception.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I told him about running into someone at
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: the airport.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah that.
• 20:01
  Speaker 10: So I was telling Mecca, like so the night before,
• 20:05
  Speaker 10: the day before, like I'm like in Japan and I'm
• 20:08
  Speaker 10: with my best friend Marla, and I'm like, oh, if
• 20:11
  Speaker 10: only Becca was here, this is like my dream hotel.
• 20:14
  Speaker 10: And I like woke up and had my dream breakfast
• 20:18
  Speaker 10: buffet and I was just like, oh my god, if
• 20:21
  Speaker 10: only I was getting proposed to here, like what I
• 20:23
  Speaker 10: missed opportunity. And then I got dinner with Marla and
• 20:27
  Speaker 10: like I had negotiated a per diem, which was like
• 20:30
  Speaker 10: not real, and so Marlon I went to dinner and
• 20:33
  Speaker 10: I was like charging the car and we like had
• 20:35
  Speaker 10: steaks and lobsters who were just like it's free and
• 20:42
  Speaker 10: I'm looking outside the garden and the lights are all pretty,
• 20:46
  Speaker 10: and I was like I didn't cry to Marla, but
• 20:49
  Speaker 10: I was definitely like convincing myself that I wasn't going
• 20:54
  Speaker 10: to be upset that I wasn't getting proposed to at
• 20:57
  Speaker 10: the Japanese ID.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: I know that feeling. It's really sad.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I've heard you know that, Yeah, spoiler alert didn't work
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: out so well for me.
• 21:12
  Speaker 11: But so yeah, so like it was so surreal because
• 21:15
  Speaker 11: I was just so sad about it.
• 21:17
  Speaker 7: Then I was like, whatever, it's fine, like it doesn't matter.
• 21:21
  Speaker 10: And then and then so Maril and I were getting
• 21:23
  Speaker 10: ready for the tea ceremony and we're She was being
• 21:27
  Speaker 10: like mart had no idea, but for some reason, she
• 21:30
  Speaker 10: felt inspired to curl my hair, so she like did
• 21:33
  Speaker 10: my hair.
• 21:34
  Speaker 7: And then I.
• 21:37
  Speaker 10: Know, and I was like rushing, and I was like,
• 21:40
  Speaker 10: do I put my glasses on?
• 21:41
  Speaker 7: Joy not?
• 21:42
  Speaker 10: I put my contacts in And then and then Marla
• 21:44
  Speaker 10: was like, it looks cuter with your glasses. So I
• 21:46
  Speaker 10: put on like my big prescription glasses. Run out and
• 21:49
  Speaker 10: I see the videoographer and photographer and they're like, you know,
• 21:54
  Speaker 10: we're going to capture this experience for you.
• 21:57
  Speaker 7: And I'm thinking, like, gosh, Japan is so official. They
• 22:00
  Speaker 7: just get it, like they've hired a team, they know
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: what it's like.
• 22:04
  Speaker 10: It's so stressful to get content and they just get it,
• 22:08
  Speaker 10: and so I think it's.
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: The same thing, though, like that seems believable.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: I think twice, Yeah, I wouldn't.
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: And so I walk in the garden.
• 22:15
  Speaker 10: And you know, and then obviously Becca surprised us and
• 22:20
  Speaker 10: I had my big chunky glasses on and I was like,
• 22:22
  Speaker 10: oh my god, I had con like I was so
• 22:25
  Speaker 10: stressed and I had contacts in but then I had
• 22:27
  Speaker 10: put my glasses on. Anyways, it was I was so
• 22:30
  Speaker 10: shocked and I looked at her and I was like,
• 22:33
  Speaker 10: how are you not sick in London? And like throughout
• 22:36
  Speaker 10: the whole trip, I kept I kept being confused, like
• 22:41
  Speaker 10: I kept being like, wait, all of this was fake?
• 22:44
  Speaker 10: And I remember at that dinner with Marla, I had
• 22:47
  Speaker 10: to asked Marla. I was like, do you think Becca
• 22:49
  Speaker 10: would be crazy enough to fake being sick and being
• 22:52
  Speaker 10: in London? And like, do you think she's gonna because
• 22:54
  Speaker 10: I thought she if she was faking it, I thought
• 22:56
  Speaker 10: she was going to maybe propose to me at Ina,
• 22:59
  Speaker 10: like because this this like really cute fishing village I
• 23:01
  Speaker 10: wanted to go to. And then I just kept thinking
• 23:04
  Speaker 10: about that girl that Becca ran into at the airport,
• 23:07
  Speaker 10: and I was just like, it's not fake, Like she
• 23:11
  Speaker 10: ran into a girl at the airport and she forgot
• 23:15
  Speaker 10: her name and it was uncomfortable for her, and like
• 23:19
  Speaker 10: that was real.
• 23:22
  Speaker 7: That was saying, I have so much mind perspective.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: I have so much pride in that moment because I
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: thought it was like a last minute decision, one before
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: I get on the flight, and I'm just gonna try
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: and seal the deal to make sure she knows him
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: on this trip with Starbucks.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know get when she uh like dis looked dislocated,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: just disarmed her find my.
• 23:46
  Speaker 10: So you know what, she did a reverse psychology on
• 23:49
  Speaker 10: me again and again. You guys, I don't know if
• 23:52
  Speaker 10: I should be proud or terrified.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Right, It's like a combo bol like I'm locked in
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: no matter, you know, good or bad.
• 24:01
  Speaker 10: And but she so the location got turned off. I immediately
• 24:06
  Speaker 10: got suspicious. I was like, this girl is about to
• 24:08
  Speaker 10: surprise me. And then she told me that you had
• 24:13
  Speaker 10: texted her panicked and I was like, oh, so what
• 24:16
  Speaker 10: happened to everyone? So that kind of like disarmed me
• 24:19
  Speaker 10: a little bit. And then she was like, can you
• 24:22
  Speaker 10: go on my computer and try to fix it, and
• 24:24
  Speaker 10: so when she told me to go on her computer,
• 24:28
  Speaker 10: it immediately made me feel like I wasn't suspicious because
• 24:34
  Speaker 10: and then, you know what's so crazy, this reverse psychology.
• 24:37
  Speaker 10: She told me to go on her computer, so then
• 24:40
  Speaker 10: I didn't. I couldn't find her computer, and I was like,
• 24:42
  Speaker 10: you know what, whatever, and I just left it. Yeah,
• 24:46
  Speaker 10: Like that's how trusting I was. I just was like,
• 24:49
  Speaker 10: she told me to go on the computer, so she's
• 24:50
  Speaker 10: got nothing to hide like that, that's crazy.
• 24:54
  Speaker 6: The Scorpio final boss, Yeah scared.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: I'm scared too. Yeah, you all should be glad you're
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: on my good side.
• 25:04
  Speaker 9: Stay there.
• 25:07
  Speaker 10: But I know, the most amazing thing ever was the
• 25:10
  Speaker 10: most amazing surprise because your.
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: Dreaming proposal, Like you literally got your dream.
• 25:15
  Speaker 10: I like was able to eat all my favorite snacks, PM,
• 25:19
  Speaker 10: my favorite food. I was in Kyoto like it just like, oh,
• 25:23
  Speaker 10: I got it proposed to.
• 25:25
  Speaker 7: It was so cool. Yeah, it was so fun.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: It was so fun.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: And the kimono experience was actually not a real thing,
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: but Haley kept talking about it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: So I told Snim, I.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Was like, can you actually find I just want.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: A kimono experience for real, because she's really excited about
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: that and it ended up being so cute.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: It was the totos you guys say, yeah, okay, yeah.
• 25:46
  Speaker 6: Seeing you in the grocery store with did you get
• 25:49
  Speaker 6: to keep those?
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: No? I wish, but it's a.
• 25:51
  Speaker 10: Whole like surprisingly come comfortable, like the socks and the
• 25:56
  Speaker 10: everything that was pretty cozy.
• 25:58
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: Theys like they had a team like come.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: We thought we were going somewhere to do the experience
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: and we got that. We went to the lobby and
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: I was like, Hi, we were doing the kimono experience
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, yeah, the tea they're here.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: And it was like a team of.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: These women with suitcases and they're like, we're doing it
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: in your room. So we all went up to the
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: room and they like it was so fun.
• 26:20
  Speaker 7: Yeah, they did our hair, were getting ready for the dala.
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: It was so cute. It was so cute.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I want to say, those photos are iconic, Like you
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: need to use that at Do you guys send holiday cards?
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: I don't know if we're doing that. I got to
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: decorate for Christmas. Maybe use those next year next year
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: because they're so good.
• 26:38
  Speaker 10: We haven't done holiday cards yet, but we were going
• 26:42
  Speaker 10: to eventually.
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we had like a full trip after and
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: leading up to it, Hailey had been really stressed about
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: planning the trip and because because she thought, Okay, Becka's proposing,
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: she's going to plan the whole trip. And so I
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: told Sanim that she said that, like Haley made a
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: cam about that, and and she was like, let her
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: plan it, Like don't even act like you're like gonna
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: help with anything. Because Haley was trying to figure out
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: where are we gonna go for our day trips, where
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: are we gonna eat? And I just kind of like
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: let her take it on.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Oh, like meaning when you got there, no before because because.
• 27:18
  Speaker 10: I had a Google doc, like I did a full itinerary,
• 27:21
  Speaker 10: like every day was planned out.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Because she always plans everything, and so if I took
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: over and started planning stuff, she would be.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: Like why is she doing this right?
• 27:32
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: So she was like stressed, and I was like, babe,
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: it's fine. We're just gonna go, you know, fly by
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: the seat of our pants.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: Oh I was like why are you?
• 27:42
  Speaker 10: I literally like we didn't get in a fight, but
• 27:44
  Speaker 10: I was like, babe, no one seems to be stepping
• 27:47
  Speaker 10: up here, and like I'm planning everything and like like
• 27:51
  Speaker 10: Japan is like it's not going to like Santa Barbara,
• 27:55
  Speaker 10: you know, like it's we gotta like make sure we're
• 27:58
  Speaker 10: going to all the good spots.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: Fun.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: So yeah, we had the best time, and I I
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: proposed and a lot of I know, a lot of
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: people were like, I don't get it. What's the point
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: You already like she proposed to you and you were engaged.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: But I really think everyone should get a proposal.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: I really want to see what.
• 28:16
  Speaker 10: Is the point I've always dreamed of being proposed to.
• 28:19
  Speaker 7: No, why is that being taken away? Because I proposed to.
• 28:22
  Speaker 6: You the same I would love to be proposed to.
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: I literally, like I feel.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: So that's like my only regret from like my wedding
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: era of life, season of life was that I didn't
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I mean at this point, like.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: I mean, it would be shocking. Not now, it wouldn't
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: be shocking. He would to see it coming, he would
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: not see it coming.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: But it's so true, like why doesn't each party in
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: the partnership get to have that special moment, Like it
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: is so special.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: And it was so fun getting to do it, Like
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: it was so fun being on the other side, And
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: it was funny because.
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: When Haley proposed to me.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: She was like, you were so caught off guard that
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: the look on your face was just like confused the
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: whole time.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: And then she did the same thing when I'm surprised.
• 29:12
  Speaker 10: Yes, I got so like like I think, I said, like,
• 29:19
  Speaker 10: And the answer is yet, I got like so.
• 29:24
  Speaker 7: Like, I don't even know.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: Also, I just want to talk about the ring for
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: a second, because it is gorgeous, Like, you did such
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: a good job.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: I've never seen a ring like that.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't think I haven't talked about this on
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: the podcast, but I did I talk about this on
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: the podcast. Surprising her with the ring shopping, I don't
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: think so. I think I told.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: You, Oh, just me personally.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think many people knew about the ring shopping.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: But I surprised Hailey.
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: By going on to try rings. She thought we were
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: going She thought we were going to the spa, and
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: I had the jeweler there with like rings for her
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: to try on. So I it was hard because she
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: was able to surprise me with everything, and I kind
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: of had to like be sneaky and figure out ways
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: to surprise her and still make it special.
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: But she was so specific about what kind of ring
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: she wanted because she didn't really know what she liked that.
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: I was like, we're gonna have to do this together. Yeah,
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: but yeah, baby, you can tell them about your ring.
• 30:42
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 30:42
  Speaker 10: I mean, I just again, like I didn't growing up.
• 30:46
  Speaker 10: I didn't know that I was ever going to get
• 30:48
  Speaker 10: like proposed to her get married. So I just had
• 30:51
  Speaker 10: no idea what kind of ring I dreamt of, and
• 30:56
  Speaker 10: or like what kind of ring would look good on
• 30:58
  Speaker 10: my hand? Right, And so it was so cool to
• 31:01
  Speaker 10: get to like try on different shapes and like certain
• 31:05
  Speaker 10: shapes like compliment in my hand more than others or like,
• 31:09
  Speaker 10: and so the ring that I have, if you were
• 31:11
  Speaker 10: to be like what.
• 31:13
  Speaker 7: I would, I don't.
• 31:14
  Speaker 10: I couldn't tell you, like what ring I would have
• 31:17
  Speaker 10: picked out. Like I'm staring at.
• 31:18
  Speaker 7: It right now.
• 31:19
  Speaker 10: I'm sick on the couch and I'm just like, Wow,
• 31:21
  Speaker 10: I can't believe I have like this square diamond on
• 31:25
  Speaker 10: its side and this is like the one you know,
• 31:29
  Speaker 10: it's so cool, but it soaks my hands, Like I
• 31:33
  Speaker 10: don't have the skinniest, like longest finger. So I wanted
• 31:36
  Speaker 10: a ring that was gonna just be complimentary. So I'm
• 31:40
  Speaker 10: obsessed with it. I love it beca like I feel
• 31:43
  Speaker 10: like a princess.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: You are a princess.
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: Princess, I'm a princess.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: So it was It was really fun and everyone every
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: thing went a court. It made me feel also so
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: confident in knowing Haley because I just almost could predict
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: how she was going to react to every ring like
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: it was perfect.
• 32:11
  Speaker 10: It's so scary, like she literally she plans like this
• 32:15
  Speaker 10: New Zealand trip in January, and I'm over here like
• 32:18
  Speaker 10: having meetings with my team, Like, hey, like Becca's gonna
• 32:21
  Speaker 10: propose to be in January, so I need to take
• 32:24
  Speaker 10: I know I'm leaving for Japan, but I need to
• 32:27
  Speaker 10: take a couple more weeks off because like.
• 32:29
  Speaker 7: Like you know, this is happening and all of that
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: was fake.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And then we got home less and yesterday at
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: the airport, she goes, so did to nim get us
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: a car?
• 32:38
  Speaker 8: And I was like, I am again, it is me, right,
• 32:43
  Speaker 8: I am her?
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: She is me? Andem is done needs a break from us.
• 32:51
  Speaker 7: Yeah, she doesn't want to hear from us for a
• 32:53
  Speaker 7: long time.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Tom would be like, Haley's back with more requests, Okay,
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: tell her, yes, I guess they are.
• 33:01
  Speaker 10: When you're going on a big trip like that. You know,
• 33:04
  Speaker 10: it's like there's a lot of pieces components to it. Yeah,
• 33:07
  Speaker 10: people plan trips to Japan and like for years.
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: You know, yeah, it's a lot.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: It made me realize how much of a planner I
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: am not, and that I just like go on these
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: trips like we'll figure.
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: Right, give me a fighting hotel and I am good to.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: Go, and I'm good to go. It's not what I need.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Well, babe, I hope you're feeling better on the couch.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: I'll be home to take care of you soon.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: But we love you, Haley.
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: Congratulations, so so happy for you.
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: Thanks for letting us in on your love story. You guys,
• 33:38
  Speaker 6: that was such a beautiful thing. And I feel so
• 33:40
  Speaker 6: lucky that we get to like witness this happen.
• 33:42
  Speaker 10: Oh, I love you, I love you guys, have fun,
• 33:49
  Speaker 10: love you.
• 33:51
  Speaker 7: Okay, bye bye.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: This really is like the best season of life.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so fun.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: And you know, for a long time it was the
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: question was like when we wedding plane, when youre in
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: a wedding plane, and I was like, well, I want
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: to propose to her first. So now I feel like
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: we can really like kind of start thinking about that now,
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: because for a long time I was.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: That text out there. What I did throw that text
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: out there?
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean everyone's like, okay, when's the wedding. One
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: thing at a time, people, but it does open. Now
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: that that's done, it feels like, Okay, now we can
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: start going into that process.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: So it was so fun.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: And unfortunately she did get sick at the end of
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: the trip, but you know, it was like at least
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: at the end and not the beginning.
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: And yeah, how many days, like the last day.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Last two days. I know she had a tough flight home.
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: I know, peaks and valleys, you know, hids and lows,
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: highs and lows.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: Life keeps you humble. Yeah, So it was really amazing
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: and thank you all for all the love. I loved.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: All the scrubbers were.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: Like I knew it was going to happen, and it
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: was hard because we didn't get our photos for a minute.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: And our photographer, his name's Gilbert. He is incredible and.
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: The photos were stunning.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: I like wanted it to look like a movie and
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: he absolutely delivered. His Instagram is Gilbert. I don't know
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: how you say his It's Gilbert R. H. E. Zap
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: and he was incredible. He's a destination photographer, so even
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: if you're not in Japan.
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: Oh, he goes anywhere. We'll go anywhere. I'll have the
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: right price.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: But anyways, Yeah, it was just amazing and it was
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: so fun and and then it was so nice to
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: come home to our cozy new backyard and house and Phoebe.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: Miss Phoebe so much.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: But it just felt like, Okay, we're I just am
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: beaming with gratitude.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it feels official now, even though it was
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: official before.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I said, it was like we were locked in.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: I just added a little extra security. Yeah, dead bolted.
• 35:56
  Speaker 3: It wasn't even that though.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: It was more like I knew how important it was
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: to Haley to have that, and like she as she
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: said before, like she didn't think she would ever get
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: to have like marriage or the potential to get married.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: And I feel like being her partner and like getting
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: to be the one to plan that and propose and
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: buy her ring.
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: You know, it was just like how so.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Special that is a memory that you guys are gonna
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: have forever.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just so and I'm so happy Marla
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: got to be there and be a part of it,
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: and it was just it was so fun.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: It was such a Moore Marla, like if the shoe
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: it feels like reverse and like you and I Ron,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: and then Haley proposed I would literally be like Homer
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: Simpson and just like the back into the No.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: It was perfect because like we had separate rooms and
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: like she would go do her own thing and like
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: do what because I was like, listen, I want you.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: This is your trip to Japan, so like I want
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: you to enjoy yourself and don't feel like you have
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: to be on our schedule. But it was so fun.
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: We did so much together but also thing and it
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: was it was perfect. So yeah, it was a dream
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: and it's so fun going into the holidays.
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: Now. Yeah, and now we start a wedding planning and
• 37:08
  Speaker 3: now wedding planning begins.
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: Which we'll get into in our next podcast.
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: Wow, have some questions.
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: Love you, Love you bye,