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Dirty Little Secret: “Would you lie to your spouse just to get some peace and quiet?” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 4: Slowpas producer poo. What's your dirty little secret? If you've
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  Speaker 4: little secret.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have a secret you want to tell us
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  Speaker 2: her now?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 2: I don't, Okay, just check it all right, dirty little secret?
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  Speaker 2: You got one?
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  Speaker 3: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: I do need to confess this and get it off
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  Speaker 3: my chest, you know, even even if I never say
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  Speaker 3: it to her. So, So, I've been working from home
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  Speaker 3: for the last six or seven months, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: I handle all the finances and my wife, you know,
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  Speaker 3: doesn't really worry about money at all. You know, I work,
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  Speaker 3: she's at home. She trusts me. You know, I love
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  Speaker 3: her very much. She's a very good woman. She keeps
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  Speaker 3: the house together, does a lot of the housework. You know,
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  Speaker 3: it just makes things to really feel stable at home.
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  Speaker 3: And I know that. But you know, with me home
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  Speaker 3: a lot now these days, every day I feel it
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  Speaker 3: feels like she's just you know, always there, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like he's sitting on the couch watching TV. You know,
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  Speaker 3: She's asked questions while I'm trying to focus on work
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  Speaker 3: and everything. Right, just every day, you know, I'm just
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  Speaker 3: working full time. I'm just mentally drained by the end
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  Speaker 3: of the day. And you know, I told her, you know,
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  Speaker 3: things were getting tight recently with money, and you know,
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  Speaker 3: it would really help out financially. I think if she
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  Speaker 3: got a job, okay, based just yeah, I don't think
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  Speaker 3: she liked that. Her face just changed, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: think it was shocked. But you know, almost immediately, you know,
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  Speaker 3: she went into like a panic.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 3: Then she was updating her resume, searching listings and you know,
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  Speaker 3: talking about like contributing more. You know. I mean, the
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  Speaker 3: truth is, we don't need the money as far as
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  Speaker 3: finances were actually fine, but I wanted with space. I
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  Speaker 3: just needed peace and quiet at home.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, your wife wait, wait, crowded.
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  Speaker 3: I'm trying to focus, you know, and they get distracting
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  Speaker 3: when she's there all the time, watching me and asking
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  Speaker 3: me questions and I'm trying to work. I'm not.
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  Speaker 4: I feel so bad for your wife. Yeah, because you
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  Speaker 4: I mean that financial stress is real. Yeah, so you
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  Speaker 4: told her that you're financially struggling. It would help if
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  Speaker 4: she got a job. But the fact of the matter is,
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  Speaker 4: let's just cut to it. You want her out of
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  Speaker 4: the house.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I told her things were getting a little tight financially.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't say I was struggling, but yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: much what you said.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, player and jumping right onto whatever LinkedIn.
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  Speaker 4: She's like, let me get my resume to give a bit,
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  Speaker 4: you know what, I'll bring something to the table when
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  Speaker 4: you're just take a hear in her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you space, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, somewhere where she can go, you know, something to
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  Speaker 3: do something that wasn't just me all day and just focusing.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's hard for me to like pick
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  Speaker 3: stuff done at home and she's just watching me all day.
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  Speaker 5: Can you like go to a co working space or
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  Speaker 5: okness's time you to leave your own house. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 5: there's like you could just be at like a coffee
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  Speaker 5: shop or one of those co working spaces where people.
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  Speaker 2: Just go and work. Got to leave.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean, why does she have to get a job.
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  Speaker 2: Well, she doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: It's more comfortable for me to work from home. And
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  Speaker 3: plus I am making all the money. Oh, I mean,
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  Speaker 3: why would I have to like now find somewhere to go.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I mean take that canvas?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the winner, Well, good for him, that's great, No,
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  Speaker 1: it is. That's awesome that your wife has the flexibility
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  Speaker 1: that she has because you're doing so well. But like
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  Speaker 1: for her to have to go get a job that
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't want?
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  Speaker 4: So are you gonna let her get a so she
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  Speaker 4: finds a full time job, you're gonna be like, oh great,
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  Speaker 4: all right, when do you start?
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  Speaker 2: Or are you looking for like more part time something?
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  Speaker 3: Or I just think as long as she has somewhere
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  Speaker 3: to go, something to.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to her about it and be like, I love
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  Speaker 1: distracts me.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but you don't know, I mean, yeah, I I
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  Speaker 4: it might be good for her, But the fact matter
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  Speaker 4: is it's you're motivated by your own self. You know need,
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  Speaker 4: So you can't really say what you think is good
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  Speaker 4: for her if she hasn't told you that.
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  Speaker 2: That's my thing.
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  Speaker 3: I know it's I didn't ask her for what I needed.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I kind of manipulated this situation a bit. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she just you know, thinks she's helping She thinks she's
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  Speaker 3: helping us her by, so she feels like a team player,
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  Speaker 3: and I just wanted her out of the house again.
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  Speaker 2: It's just again, he wants out of the house. He's
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  Speaker 2: made that clear about five times.
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  Speaker 1: You have her joined some gym or like the army.
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  Speaker 2: Real I'll tell her to go join a gym, gym. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: so you think I'm fat?
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  Speaker 4: Now?
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  Speaker 1: I do hobbies like go play pickaball, or like take
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  Speaker 1: a dance class or art.
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  Speaker 2: Class, a large march.
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  Speaker 1: There's like other activities okay, yeah, like join a tennis club.
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  Speaker 4: Too late now is it now? But that's the problem.
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  Speaker 4: Now you can't go back and be like, hey, I
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  Speaker 4: was just kidding. We're not financially struggling. I'm just kind
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  Speaker 4: of over you. God, can you get out of the
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  Speaker 4: house for a couple of days, maybe just one hour
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  Speaker 4: a day, give me, you know, give me some piece
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  Speaker 4: of quiet that'll go over real. Well, well, we're not
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  Speaker 4: here to judge, but please let us know what happens.
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  Speaker 4: I would find a way to kind of relieve some
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  Speaker 4: of the stress and anxiety from her, though, because now
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  Speaker 4: she's in panic mode.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that.
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  Speaker 1: But maybe you're miscalculated.
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  Speaker 2: It's part time. Honesty is the best policy. Yes, always, it's.
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  Speaker 4: A tough conversation. But if you word at writing, you say, listen,
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  Speaker 4: I know we're around each other a lot. Maybe there's
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  Speaker 4: a way a couple of days of the week I
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  Speaker 4: go to a co working space and.
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  Speaker 2: You go to yoga, right exactly, something like that. It's
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  Speaker 2: all about compromise in a relationship. Take this from the
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  Speaker 2: single guy. She ain't gonna be trying to hear that.
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  Speaker 4: Well, sir, let us know what happens. Okay, just to
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  Speaker 4: clear it up, do you want her out of the house.