Latest / The Body Pod / Menopause, IBS & Gut Health in Midlife Women: What Your Doctor Isn't Telling You with Dr. Mary Pardee
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, the more that we sell those supplements,
- 0:02Speaker 1: the more that they tell women they need to get
- 0:04Speaker 1: lightpo for it, the more we're perpetuating that whole loop
- 0:08Speaker 1: that we need to keep fixing the normal female body.
- 0:13Speaker 1: And like the overpathologizing that we see in the wellness
- 0:17Speaker 1: industry is insane to me. Hi.
- 0:22Speaker 2: Everyone, my name is Haley and this is Laura, and
- 0:25Speaker 2: welcome to the Body Pod. Welcome doctor Mary, party to
- 0:31Speaker 2: the Body Pod.
- 0:33Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm excited to be here, super excited to
- 0:36Speaker 3: have you.
- 0:37Speaker 2: And I'm really as I've been diving through information about you,
- 0:41Speaker 2: I want to know what made you start and kind
- 0:44Speaker 2: of get into your profession and start modern met because
- 0:47Speaker 2: that's really intriguing to me.
- 0:50Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 0:50Speaker 1: So I think why I started my own business versus
- 0:54Speaker 1: just you know, joining a practice is I had a
- 0:57Speaker 1: pretty good idea of what I wanted to do and
- 1:00Speaker 1: I didn't see a model that was exciting for me
- 1:03Speaker 1: already just to be a part of. And I knew
- 1:07Speaker 1: I wanted to treat a couple of things, but I
- 1:11Speaker 1: didn't want to just choose one of them. I feel
- 1:12Speaker 1: like sometimes you know business coaches that are always telling you, like,
- 1:16Speaker 1: pick your one thing, and I'm like, but I have
- 1:18Speaker 1: two and I like really want to do the two things,
- 1:22Speaker 1: and so I treat chronic GI issues and then I
- 1:25Speaker 1: also do preventive medicine with more of a performance edge
- 1:29Speaker 1: to it because of my background in nutrition, and I
- 1:32Speaker 1: did a really brief background in exercise science and I
- 1:36Speaker 1: love performance. So just me personally, one of my hobbies
- 1:40Speaker 1: is exercise science and geeking out on performance and optimization
- 1:44Speaker 1: and things like that. But I wanted to do both
- 1:46Speaker 1: of those things, and they're obviously very different and require
- 1:49Speaker 1: different hats. But that's what I've done, and I really
- 1:54Speaker 1: love it.
- 1:55Speaker 2: I know that you've talked a little bit about menopause
- 1:58Speaker 2: on your site, and that's kind of that's all our
- 2:02Speaker 2: entire audience is pretty much midlife females. I assume that
- 2:06Speaker 2: you work with anyone as a physician, but what, like,
- 2:12Speaker 2: are you getting more into the menopause space, do you
- 2:15Speaker 2: have just an interest in it yourself, or what does
- 2:17Speaker 2: that bring into your practice? Are you getting more women
- 2:20Speaker 2: coming in asking about it?
- 2:22Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 2:23Speaker 1: So my scope is primary care and that fits under
- 2:25Speaker 1: the bucket of preventative medicine, right, So I see women
- 2:29Speaker 1: all the time in midlife going through perimenopause into menopausal transition,
- 2:35Speaker 1: and I take care of those women. I prescribe MHD.
- 2:38Speaker 1: I'm a Menopause Society certified practitioner, so I've done that
- 2:42Speaker 1: whole training and it's definitely a part of what I do,
- 2:47Speaker 1: and I think it's a really important part of the
- 2:50Speaker 1: primary care aspect too.
- 2:53Speaker 2: Do you find that women come in that may have
- 2:55Speaker 2: been dismissed from other doctors that come to you for
- 2:59Speaker 2: any reason, they're too young for hormone therapy, they might
- 3:03Speaker 2: not be getting the same information.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the space is getting better overall, one
- 3:11Speaker 1: hundred percent. I always hear like the one off stories
- 3:15Speaker 1: of you know, my doctor said I shouldn't go on
- 3:19Speaker 1: hormones and they cause cancer or something like that, and
- 3:23Speaker 1: these are kind of like the signals of the our
- 3:27Speaker 1: system is broken. Doctors don't have enough time to spend
- 3:30Speaker 1: with patients to really break down the numbers with them,
- 3:35Speaker 1: and so that's why I like the model that I
- 3:38Speaker 1: have where I'm going to spend an hour with a woman,
- 3:41Speaker 1: if not to visits, so like two hours talking about
- 3:44Speaker 1: risks benefits. What are the numbers look like in terms
- 3:47Speaker 1: of breast cancer risks? What are the numbers look like
- 3:50Speaker 1: in terms of you know, or what are we actually
- 3:52Speaker 1: trying to treat too. I think there's a bunch on
- 3:54Speaker 1: social media where like every woman should be on menopause
- 3:57Speaker 1: hormone therapy, and I don't think that's true either. I
- 3:59Speaker 1: think any extreme you hear is probably just that an extreme,
- 4:03Speaker 1: and we need to figure out individualized therapies for women.
- 4:08Speaker 1: And that's what I try to do in my practice
- 4:10Speaker 1: and say, you know, is it right for you right now?
- 4:12Speaker 1: And that answer may be different in ten years, that
- 4:15Speaker 1: the answer may have shifted from a yes to a no.
- 4:17Speaker 1: And that's when we transition women off of four months.
- 4:20Speaker 2: Are you willing to keep a client on that is
- 4:24Speaker 2: over that has been on it for longer than ten years?
- 4:26Speaker 2: Because that question always comes up if someone has been
- 4:30Speaker 2: on it for longer than ten years, or if somebody
- 4:32Speaker 2: wanted to start it for whatever reason in their sixties.
- 4:36Speaker 1: Yeah, starting in your sixties. If you haven't been on
- 4:39Speaker 1: it is a different discussion. There's a higher risk associated
- 4:42Speaker 1: with that. So you'd want to really go through that
- 4:44Speaker 1: woman's family history, clotting history, personal history, that whole thing
- 4:50Speaker 1: and make a really informed decision for that woman because
- 4:55Speaker 1: the risks are higher, but I also believe that women
- 4:58Speaker 1: need to have quality of life, and so quality of
- 5:00Speaker 1: life is really really low, and this is the thing
- 5:03Speaker 1: that would change the quality of life despite the increased risk.
- 5:07Speaker 1: And she knows the increased risk, then you can have
- 5:09Speaker 1: a discussion about what that looks like. The easier question
- 5:14Speaker 1: was the first one, which is keeping women on it
- 5:16Speaker 1: past the ten years absolutely, and every year you should
- 5:20Speaker 1: be having a discussion with your doctor about do the
- 5:23Speaker 1: benefits outweigh the risk still?
- 5:27Speaker 3: And if the answer to that is yes.
- 5:28Speaker 1: Then you can continue with MHT beyond that ten year mark.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Sometimes the answer is going to be know though, and
- 5:36Speaker 1: so then we want to transition off of it.
- 5:38Speaker 3: But this is a.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Conversation with a doctor. This isn't the doctor talking at you,
- 5:42Speaker 1: not asking you questions. This is them asking you what's
- 5:45Speaker 1: your comfort level? Here are your risks? Are you comfortable
- 5:48Speaker 1: with these risks? Should we try to.
- 5:50Speaker 3: Go off at maybe you don't have symptoms anymore?
- 5:53Speaker 1: And so it's all about the patient doctor relationship and
- 5:56Speaker 1: really having a discussion about it versus being talked at.
- 6:01Speaker 2: What do you think about DEXA scans and the recommended
- 6:06Speaker 2: age of sixty five.
- 6:09Speaker 1: Yeah, that one I don't go by, so I do
- 6:12Speaker 1: dexa scans much younger for a lot of different people.
- 6:17Speaker 1: But there's also there's a dexa scans that do body
- 6:20Speaker 1: composition right, and then there's the bone density dexas scans,
- 6:24Speaker 1: And unfortunately, the ones that you can just go into
- 6:26Speaker 1: on your own, they're just going to give you a
- 6:28Speaker 1: total body bone density. They're not going to be diagnostic
- 6:31Speaker 1: for osteoporosis and osteopenia. So the ones you're referring to
- 6:34Speaker 1: are you going to a hospital and you can get
- 6:36Speaker 1: a diagnosis of osteoporosis and osteopenia. But for those, I'm
- 6:40Speaker 1: much more liberal in using those in women at much
- 6:43Speaker 1: younger ages. Especially if a woman is just on the
- 6:47Speaker 1: thinner side, her likelihood of having frail bones is much
- 6:52Speaker 1: much higher, and I'd rather catch it early.
- 6:54Speaker 3: You know.
- 6:54Speaker 1: I had a woman come into my practice who's twenty
- 6:57Speaker 1: years old, normal body weight, but on the low side
- 7:00Speaker 1: of normal. I think she's like twenty five or something,
- 7:03Speaker 1: and we did this scan on her and there was
- 7:04Speaker 1: no standard of care that told me to do this
- 7:06Speaker 1: scan on her, and she's very very low bone density.
- 7:09Speaker 1: But I'd rather find out at twenty five and do
- 7:13Speaker 1: something about it, then wait till she's much older and
- 7:16Speaker 1: have not done something about it.
- 7:18Speaker 3: So we can do a ton for this person. And
- 7:20Speaker 3: I'm really glad that we did it earlier.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Do you find that insurance will cover it?
- 7:30Speaker 3: Depends on the insurance, sometimes sometimes not.
- 7:33Speaker 2: So are you Let's move on for sticking with the
- 7:38Speaker 2: menopause theme here, I want to talk about IBS, as
- 7:42Speaker 2: I was just sharing before we started this podcast. I
- 7:45Speaker 2: have many people in my family that have it. I don't,
- 7:49Speaker 2: but I know that my mother, who never struggled with
- 7:53Speaker 2: it at all, and tel postmenopause, it began and it
- 7:58Speaker 2: has been such a hard transition for her to even travel.
- 8:05Speaker 2: I think she's on top of it now, but at
- 8:07Speaker 2: the first it was it was severely holding her back.
- 8:10Speaker 2: So do you see that IBS those symptoms kicking up
- 8:14Speaker 2: postmenopause or even in perimenopause.
- 8:19Speaker 1: Yeah, your mom's story is interesting. What I do see
- 8:22Speaker 1: is perimenopause can be a time when symptoms flare. So
- 8:27Speaker 1: if a woman has IBS and she was doing pretty well,
- 8:30Speaker 1: perimenopause sometimes can create more flares and irritable bowel syndrome symptoms.
- 8:35Speaker 1: And when we talk about IBS, we're talking about diarrhea
- 8:39Speaker 1: constipation alternating diarrhea constipation, but the keynote being abdominal pain
- 8:43Speaker 1: and cramping with IBS also can get floating in distension.
- 8:48Speaker 1: But with hormone fluctuations in perimenopause being so erratic and
- 8:53Speaker 1: up and down, your home hormones, progesterone and estrogen have
- 8:58Speaker 1: effects on the GI track. Strone actually slows the GI
- 9:01Speaker 1: tract down. That's why in cycling women much more likely
- 9:06Speaker 1: to be constipated right before your period when progesterone levels
- 9:09Speaker 1: are at their highest and estrogen talks to serotonin receptors
- 9:14Speaker 1: and help can help reduce pain signals for people with IBS,
- 9:18Speaker 1: And so that's why some women with IBS will feel
- 9:20Speaker 1: better in their follicular phase into their ludeal phase where
- 9:24Speaker 1: estrogen levels are a little bit higher and perimenopause kind
- 9:29Speaker 1: of everything goes out the window and we see fluctuating
- 9:31Speaker 1: levels up and down, and that erratic changes in the
- 9:35Speaker 1: hormones can cause flair in IBS symptoms.
- 9:39Speaker 3: But what's really interesting is that.
- 9:43Speaker 1: After the age of like forty or fifty, because IBS
- 9:48Speaker 1: is twice.
- 9:48Speaker 3: As common in women as it is in men.
- 9:51Speaker 1: But by the time women approach the age of seventy,
- 9:54Speaker 1: the rates of men and women are actually the same
- 9:57Speaker 1: at that point.
- 9:58Speaker 3: So after that.
- 9:59Speaker 1: Perimide apostal menopausal transition, the rates start to converge down
- 10:03Speaker 1: because we don't have those hormonal differences in men versus women.
- 10:08Speaker 1: So what I was saying was interesting with your mom's
- 10:10Speaker 1: case is typically, and again there's always exceptions to this
- 10:14Speaker 1: one hundred percent, but a lot of the times we'll
- 10:16Speaker 1: see improvements in IBS symptoms postmenopausally.
- 10:20Speaker 2: So if we're just focusing on IBS, what causes it?
- 10:23Speaker 2: Because I know you have a lot of information on
- 10:25Speaker 2: your socials about IBS, and it's always been intriguing to
- 10:30Speaker 2: me because I have many family members with it, and
- 10:33Speaker 2: I would say that some of them are more extreme
- 10:37Speaker 2: than others. But the extreme is like we plan our
- 10:41Speaker 2: vacations around everything, knowing where a bathroom is, flights, buses,
- 10:48Speaker 2: if you're doing a tour in another country, if the bout.
- 10:51Speaker 2: I mean, all of these things have to be taken
- 10:54Speaker 2: into account, and I feel like the advice that they
- 10:59Speaker 2: have been given over the last maybe fifteen years is
- 11:05Speaker 2: kind of like, well, it's IBS. Here's a drug, but
- 11:08Speaker 2: most of these work for women. Do we see a
- 11:11Speaker 2: difference in the drugs that work for women and men?
- 11:14Speaker 2: And what what would you say causes ibs? Is it
- 11:18Speaker 2: in the gut? Is it all of the foods that
- 11:22Speaker 2: they're eating? I mean, what is the pattern there?
- 11:26Speaker 1: Yeah, so the first part of the question, like what
- 11:27Speaker 1: causes it? This isn't what I think. This is like documented,
- 11:32Speaker 1: So it's it goes along a biopsychosocial model. So several
- 11:37Speaker 1: conditions in medicine go with a biopsychosocial model, and what
- 11:41Speaker 1: that means is it has biological or physiological components and
- 11:45Speaker 1: those are things like changes in motility, sensation changes. So
- 11:50Speaker 1: visceral hypersensitivity is one of the keynotes of irritable bowel syndrome,
- 11:55Speaker 1: and that's a big fancy word for people with IBS,
- 11:59Speaker 1: they're in Heston's become more sensitive to pain and discomfort
- 12:04Speaker 1: compared to somebody without IBS. And so if somebody has
- 12:08Speaker 1: a little bit of bloating and IBS, they're going to
- 12:10Speaker 1: feel it much more prominently than somebody without IBS. Now,
- 12:16Speaker 1: what this can get mixed up with is people say, oh,
- 12:18Speaker 1: so you're telling me it's all in my head. I'm
- 12:20Speaker 1: making it up. That's not what we're saying at all.
- 12:23Speaker 1: This is a known physiological change called visceral hypersensitivity, where
- 12:27Speaker 1: the nerve endings in the gut are sending heightened pain
- 12:31Speaker 1: signals to the brain. The good thing about that is
- 12:34Speaker 1: we actually have ways that we can turn down those
- 12:37Speaker 1: pain signals so that the person isn't experiencing as much discomfort.
- 12:42Speaker 1: So like there's a physiological changes, we also add in there,
- 12:45Speaker 1: like the gut microbiome we think is probably involved maybe
- 12:49Speaker 1: some degree of low level inflammation, but not the degree
- 12:51Speaker 1: that we can actually check on blood work more just
- 12:53Speaker 1: from like a research setting. And then we have the
- 12:56Speaker 1: psycho so the psychosocial factors, so like mind social components
- 13:01Speaker 1: to it. Stress is a well known contributing factor for
- 13:04Speaker 1: IBS psychological state, so we know that people with IBS
- 13:09Speaker 1: are more likely to have a neurotic personality type that
- 13:11Speaker 1: worry more and may contribute to symptoms in some degree.
- 13:15Speaker 1: And then also just ineffective coping strategies can potentially play
- 13:19Speaker 1: a role in IBS too. And then we also have
- 13:22Speaker 1: the early life events like genetic factors, so you can
- 13:27Speaker 1: see higher rates of IBS if your parent had IBS,
- 13:30Speaker 1: there may be a genetic component to it as well,
- 13:32Speaker 1: and then some environmental factors in terms of potentially early
- 13:36Speaker 1: childhood trauma and things like that. And so it's not
- 13:40Speaker 1: a clear this is the cause. It's multifactorial. There's many,
- 13:45Speaker 1: many things that look like they're playing into irritable bowel
- 13:47Speaker 1: syndroma as we know it right now.
- 13:50Speaker 4: So childhood trauma, it would be when you say it's
- 13:53Speaker 4: a result of childhood trauma, would it be because of
- 13:57Speaker 4: an extremely stressful situation that then they are carrying all
- 14:03Speaker 4: of this stress.
- 14:05Speaker 3: We don't know.
- 14:06Speaker 1: And not everybody with IBS had any childhood trauma, so
- 14:09Speaker 1: you can see people, I mean, we have post infectious
- 14:12Speaker 1: ibs too, right, So that's like when somebody goes usually travels,
- 14:16Speaker 1: they get travelers diarrhea, they come back and they develop
- 14:20Speaker 1: irritable bowel syndrome based on just an infection. But trauma
- 14:26Speaker 1: is believed to be one of the potential kind of
- 14:28Speaker 1: causes into the bucket of irritable bowl syndrome. But every
- 14:32Speaker 1: single patient is different. You know, I have people come
- 14:34Speaker 1: into me they're like get started after I got a
- 14:36Speaker 1: divorce or somebody's like, I don't know, but my mom
- 14:39Speaker 1: had it, like everything else was really good. So it's
- 14:42Speaker 1: always kind of a mixed bag in terms of why
- 14:45Speaker 1: we think it happens.
- 14:46Speaker 3: And I like, I.
- 14:49Speaker 1: Always want to give people an answer, but a lot
- 14:51Speaker 1: of the times we will never know why it developed
- 14:53Speaker 1: in one person because of all these factors that can
- 14:56Speaker 1: play into it. And we really want to focus on
- 14:59Speaker 1: how do we you better? Like, how do we get
- 15:01Speaker 1: you feeling better?
- 15:01Speaker 3: Is the big thing?
- 15:03Speaker 2: Yeah, and how do you I mean, is medication the
- 15:06Speaker 2: number one or is the more diet combination? I mean,
- 15:09Speaker 2: I know not everything's going to work for everyone, but
- 15:13Speaker 2: it's kind of a doozy. There's not like an easy fix.
- 15:17Speaker 1: There's not an easy fix, and in my experience, is
- 15:21Speaker 1: a combination of medications and behavioral changes, sometimes including diet
- 15:28Speaker 1: changes as well. So if somebody comes in with IBSC,
- 15:31Speaker 1: they're constipation predominant and they have bloating, the first thing
- 15:34Speaker 1: I'm going to do is get that gut moving faster,
- 15:37Speaker 1: and most of the time I'm using medications or magnesium
- 15:39Speaker 1: to do that in that person. But if they also
- 15:43Speaker 1: are like really bothered by the abdominal pain and cramping.
- 15:46Speaker 3: We have meds for that.
- 15:47Speaker 1: But we also have really effective strategies that target the
- 15:52Speaker 1: gut brain axis. So IBS is now classified as a
- 15:57Speaker 1: disorder of the gut brain interaction.
- 16:00Speaker 3: That's the umbrella that it.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Falls under, and that's because we believe that IBS is
- 16:05Speaker 1: in part due to the fact that there's a miscommunication
- 16:08Speaker 1: between the gut and the brain when they're trying to
- 16:10Speaker 1: talk to each other. This is what I was talking
- 16:12Speaker 1: about with the hypervigilance and hypersensitivity specifically. And so because
- 16:18Speaker 1: there's this kind of kink in communication between the gut
- 16:20Speaker 1: and the brain and they're not sending signals like they
- 16:23Speaker 1: should be sending signals, we can actually work on that
- 16:25Speaker 1: communication from a CBT cognitive behavioral therapy standpoint and get
- 16:31Speaker 1: the gut and the brain communicating more effectively together.
- 16:36Speaker 3: So this is one of the main things that I
- 16:37Speaker 3: do with people.
- 16:39Speaker 1: The American Gastro Association recognizes how important this is for
- 16:42Speaker 1: people with IBS.
- 16:43Speaker 2: We don't have a.
- 16:44Speaker 1: Ton of resources for it yet. There's not a lot
- 16:46Speaker 1: of practitioners who are trained on it or who understand
- 16:49Speaker 1: it or have the time to do it. Because this
- 16:51Speaker 1: is not something that can be done fifteen minutes. Seeing gastrentrologists.
- 16:55Speaker 1: We're usually meeting for like hour long sessions several times
- 16:59Speaker 1: over the course of a few weeks, and really what
- 17:02Speaker 1: we're doing there is we're analyzing how somebody's thoughts, beliefs,
- 17:06Speaker 1: and behaviors could be actually acting as maladaptive behaviors that
- 17:12Speaker 1: are worsening somebody's GI symptoms. I'm gonna give an example
- 17:16Speaker 1: because otherwise it just sounds like a bunch of words.
- 17:20Speaker 3: So you were talking.
- 17:21Speaker 1: About like family members knowing where every bathroom is, right,
- 17:24Speaker 1: That's a super common trait of somebody with IBS is
- 17:27Speaker 1: if they've been there before, they know where the bathroom is.
- 17:29Speaker 1: They kind of like map out the bathrooms where are they,
- 17:32Speaker 1: even if they don't have to go to the bathroom yet.
- 17:36Speaker 1: That alone can change areas in the brain that go
- 17:40Speaker 1: into a fight or flight state because they're not thinking
- 17:43Speaker 1: they're safe if they're looking for bathrooms and they're actually
- 17:46Speaker 1: probably releasing adrenaline nor apenephron, putting the body more into
- 17:50Speaker 1: a fighter flight state. When you're in more of a
- 17:52Speaker 1: fighter flight state, you're more likely to have diarrhea because
- 17:55Speaker 1: adrenaline speeds up the GI tract example of it makes
- 18:01Speaker 1: sense to do that, but actually could be perpetuating the likelihood.
- 18:05Speaker 3: Of needing to use the bathroom.
- 18:07Speaker 1: One step further, I'll have people that are more diarrhea predominant,
- 18:11Speaker 1: and I'll ask them, Okay, when you're out in public
- 18:14Speaker 1: and you think you have to run to the bathroom,
- 18:16Speaker 1: what's the first thought that.
- 18:18Speaker 3: Comes to your mind?
- 18:20Speaker 1: And almost everyone is like, oh, oh shit, I'm going
- 18:24Speaker 1: to have an accident.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Like it's a fear of like what's going to happen?
- 18:27Speaker 5: Right?
- 18:28Speaker 1: And what your body does with that thought is it
- 18:31Speaker 1: sends out the oh shit, we're going to have an
- 18:33Speaker 1: accident hormones, which is again adrenaline. You go into a
- 18:36Speaker 1: fight or flight state. You're starting to scan your environment,
- 18:39Speaker 1: what do I do? And unfortunately, those hormones cause more
- 18:43Speaker 1: of a dumping reaction in the gas room and testinal tract,
- 18:46Speaker 1: and it's more likely that you'll actually need to go
- 18:49Speaker 1: to the bathroom and have urgency. So if we can
- 18:52Speaker 1: train people, this works super well. But if you can
- 18:54Speaker 1: train people that, hey, whatever your sign is, maybe it's
- 18:58Speaker 1: like a stomach grumbling that usually take you off, or
- 19:00Speaker 1: like a feeling in your stomach instead of going into
- 19:04Speaker 1: the oh no, what's going to happen mode? I want
- 19:07Speaker 1: you to go right into diaframatic breathing, calm your nervous
- 19:12Speaker 1: system down, and then I want you to replace the
- 19:16Speaker 1: oh no, what's going to happen with a coping strategy
- 19:19Speaker 1: or coping thought, which is I'm totally safe right now.
- 19:24Speaker 1: I've actually never had an accident in public. Most people
- 19:26Speaker 1: who are afraid of accidents haven't actually had an accident
- 19:29Speaker 1: in public. If they have, we can go through that
- 19:31Speaker 1: and be like did you die? Like would you die
- 19:34Speaker 1: if it happened again?
- 19:35Speaker 3: You know, it's not.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Ideal, but we often see people catastrophized to like if
- 19:41Speaker 1: this ever happened, I would die, I could never live again, right,
- 19:43Speaker 1: And it's like, well, no, you could, like we would
- 19:46Speaker 1: be actually okay. So if we can really completely change
- 19:50Speaker 1: how that whole process goes, this is the coolest one
- 19:53Speaker 1: to die. Formatic breathing with urgency.
- 19:55Speaker 3: People will come back to my office and be like,
- 19:57Speaker 3: it worked. What else do you have?
- 19:58Speaker 2: Like?
- 19:58Speaker 3: What else can I do?
- 20:00Speaker 1: And they're really excited because they're like, wow, like I've
- 20:03Speaker 1: never had something that I could actually put the brakes
- 20:06Speaker 1: on that it doesn't mean that you won't go to
- 20:09Speaker 1: the bathroom eventually. But people aren't worried necessarily about going
- 20:13Speaker 1: to the bathroom. They're worried about not making it to
- 20:15Speaker 1: the bathroom or that urgency and like the whole stress
- 20:18Speaker 1: around it that's there. So it's really focused on quality
- 20:21Speaker 1: of life and changing that. But we see huge improvements
- 20:24Speaker 1: in people's IBS using these gut brain techniques.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Okay, I need to work on this with my kids
- 20:31Speaker 2: because I feel like the one that does. I'm like, well,
- 20:36Speaker 2: you're eating at your college kid, eating at Taco Bell
- 20:39Speaker 2: every day. I would have IBS too. What are we doing?
- 20:46Speaker 2: Where does the diet? Well, first of all, what dietary
- 20:51Speaker 2: changes can show to be helpful, But then is there
- 20:54Speaker 2: more of the population that has with constipation or with diarrhea?
- 21:00Speaker 1: And do somehow we have IBSC, which is constipation predominant,
- 21:04Speaker 1: We have IBSD, and then we have IBS M, which
- 21:07Speaker 1: is a mixture of both of those. I believe IBSC
- 21:11Speaker 1: is more common, but I actually forget the stats on
- 21:14Speaker 1: those in women. I bs C is more common for sure,
- 21:18Speaker 1: but you can see either one of those. And then
- 21:21Speaker 1: diet does play a role in irritable bowel syndrome, but
- 21:23Speaker 1: people are often surprised it's less of a role than
- 21:26Speaker 1: you think. What we know from a nutrition standpoint about
- 21:30Speaker 1: IBS is it's really looking at the fermentable carbohydrates that
- 21:34Speaker 1: can exacerbate symptoms. So if you've heard of a low
- 21:37Speaker 1: fod map diet, that's really the kind of first line
- 21:41Speaker 1: that we'll pull in from a dietary perspective for people
- 21:44Speaker 1: with irritable bowel syndrome. You have to be really careful
- 21:48Speaker 1: about dietary changes, especially a low fodmap diet, which is
- 21:51Speaker 1: pretty restrictive in the beginning, and you need to do
- 21:55Speaker 1: a really thorough screen of somebody's health history mental health history,
- 21:59Speaker 1: because the last thing you want to do is put
- 22:01Speaker 1: somebody who either is still or has a history of
- 22:05Speaker 1: disordered eating patterns on a restrictive diet, because then you
- 22:08Speaker 1: can flare back up the disordered eating patterns, which is
- 22:11Speaker 1: way worse than going down the pathway, because you can
- 22:14Speaker 1: actually treat IBS without these diets as well. But if
- 22:18Speaker 1: somebody has no history of restrictive eating, they feel really
- 22:21Speaker 1: healthy around food, then we sometimes may do a low
- 22:24Speaker 1: fodmap diet trial, and that's the key piece I have
- 22:27Speaker 1: people come in and they're like, I've been low FODMAP
- 22:29Speaker 1: for seven years, and I'm like, no, we don't want
- 22:34Speaker 1: to do a strict low FODMAP diet ideally for more
- 22:38Speaker 1: than like six seven weeks. And after we do the
- 22:43Speaker 1: trial of low FODMAP, we want to introduce each of
- 22:47Speaker 1: these groups really methodically because it's not just one group.
- 22:50Speaker 1: We have many different types of FODMAPs. Each letter of
- 22:53Speaker 1: that word stands for a different type of carbohydrate, and
- 22:57Speaker 1: so we want to challenge each of these because for
- 22:59Speaker 1: some people it may just be like, oh, I just
- 23:01Speaker 1: can't do the lactose piece, I just can't do any dairy,
- 23:05Speaker 1: but I can put all the other ones in and
- 23:06Speaker 1: then I feel great. Or for some people it's like
- 23:08Speaker 1: I can't do onions and garlic, but I can do
- 23:10Speaker 1: all the rest and I'm cool. And so that's the
- 23:12Speaker 1: ideal situation as we find just a few of the triggers,
- 23:15Speaker 1: keep those out, put all the rest back in so
- 23:18Speaker 1: they have a really diverse diet.
- 23:20Speaker 2: Okay, So, and how long does it it takes about
- 23:23Speaker 2: if you're doing an elimination diet of any kind, you're
- 23:28Speaker 2: saying you don't want to be on that ideally forever,
- 23:30Speaker 2: but then you want to try to add it back in.
- 23:33Speaker 2: But do you have to be like one hundred percent
- 23:36Speaker 2: strict during those say six to seven weeks.
- 23:41Speaker 1: I tell people aim for eighty percent, and that's usually
- 23:45Speaker 1: a pretty good place to be.
- 23:47Speaker 5: Do you ever do a food allergy test?
- 23:51Speaker 3: No?
- 23:52Speaker 1: No, allergies are totally separate for ibs. If somebody has
- 23:57Speaker 1: any allergic symptoms, I'm just sending them to an allergy
- 24:00Speaker 1: I don't do any of that in my office. But
- 24:02Speaker 1: with allergies, you're looking for pretty like significant symptoms, right,
- 24:06Speaker 1: You're looking for like lip swelling, rashes, fives. So I
- 24:11Speaker 1: think maybe you're referring to food sensitivity testing, which is different.
- 24:16Speaker 5: I was just gonna say more of a food sensitivity Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 24:20Speaker 1: So food sensitivity testing is looking at ig G antibodies,
- 24:26Speaker 1: and I don't do any of that in my practice.
- 24:28Speaker 1: I actually never have. I've worked alongside of people who
- 24:32Speaker 1: have done it. I see zero benefit from those tests.
- 24:36Speaker 1: I'm actually a big advocate not to do them because
- 24:38Speaker 1: I think they create more food issues than they solve.
- 24:43Speaker 1: When somebody gets a list back of all the foods
- 24:45Speaker 1: they've been eating, and somebody says you're sensitive to them,
- 24:48Speaker 1: they freak out, they go down this like spiral, and
- 24:51Speaker 1: most of the time it's not the cause of their symptoms.
- 24:56Speaker 1: But it's really hard to convince somebody to put that
- 24:58Speaker 1: back in their diet when they think they all so
- 25:00Speaker 1: confuse it with an allergy and they're like, well, I'm
- 25:01Speaker 1: allergic to it. I'm like, no, it's not an allergy,
- 25:03Speaker 1: and we have to go through like what the difference is.
- 25:06Speaker 1: But I personally like, don't touch those things at all,
- 25:11Speaker 1: and I get great results in my practice too, So
- 25:13Speaker 1: there's like that caveat where it's like, if I wasn't
- 25:16Speaker 1: getting great results, I'd still try other things. But if
- 25:18Speaker 1: I don't need to use them and I don't have
- 25:20Speaker 1: to have people on really restrictive diets, then I'd much
- 25:23Speaker 1: rather stay there for sure.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Do you when you say the did you say it
- 25:28Speaker 2: was visceral pain?
- 25:30Speaker 1: Yeah, visceral hypersensitivity is the term?
- 25:33Speaker 2: Is that just in the gut? Or are they I'm
- 25:36Speaker 2: just thinking, I'm thinking of the people that I know,
- 25:39Speaker 2: not gonna name any names, and I feel like their
- 25:42Speaker 2: overall pain tolerance is like this big and for me,
- 25:47Speaker 2: I mean, every every time they're sick. It's such a
- 25:50Speaker 2: massive ordeal and I want to be like I walked
- 25:52Speaker 2: around with a broken leg for two days, You're fine,
- 25:57Speaker 2: you just don't have any and then I'm just sensitive.
- 26:00Speaker 2: But I wonder if that translates to just pain for
- 26:04Speaker 2: all well.
- 26:05Speaker 3: So I don't know the answers. I don't know.
- 26:07Speaker 1: I haven't looked into that, but I wouldn't be surprised.
- 26:12Speaker 1: But I would also bring in like this other term
- 26:15Speaker 1: which we use in the IBS treatment. We have visceral hypersensitivity,
- 26:19Speaker 1: but then we have the term hypervigilance. So hypervigilance is
- 26:23Speaker 1: a key kind of If you're my patient, you've heard
- 26:26Speaker 1: the term hypervigilance a million times because we talk. You
- 26:28Speaker 1: have to understand the process to be actually able to
- 26:30Speaker 1: treat it. And hypervigilance is when you are scanning your
- 26:35Speaker 1: body for sensations because you don't feel well. So somebody
- 26:39Speaker 1: with IBS floating, distension, cramping, they don't feel well. And
- 26:44Speaker 1: the last we're not gonna you know, gaslight people saying
- 26:47Speaker 1: you do feel well, you're fine, like they really don't
- 26:49Speaker 1: feel well. And what happens in the brain when you
- 26:52Speaker 1: don't feel well is it tells your brain to start
- 26:55Speaker 1: scanning your whole body, where am I not feeling well?
- 26:59Speaker 1: What else is it feeling it?
- 27:00Speaker 2: Well?
- 27:00Speaker 1: What's going on here? How do I fix it? So
- 27:02Speaker 1: your brain becomes hyper vigilant scanning scanning, scanning. We also
- 27:07Speaker 1: scan our environments for potential stressors, and this hypervigilance can
- 27:12Speaker 1: one hundred percent increase pain signals elsewhere too, because if
- 27:17Speaker 1: you scan enough, you're gonna find something else wrong with you.
- 27:21Speaker 1: The analogy I'll use sometimes, if you run, for like
- 27:23Speaker 1: a trail run, you're in the woods, you cut your
- 27:26Speaker 1: leg on something when you're running, but you don't even
- 27:29Speaker 1: see the cut until you get back to your car.
- 27:32Speaker 1: But when you see the cut, your brain puts the
- 27:34Speaker 1: attention on the cut and says, ooh, we should be
- 27:37Speaker 1: in pain now, and maybe then you can actually feel it.
- 27:39Speaker 1: But when you were running, you couldn't feel it much
- 27:42Speaker 1: at all, and you weren't paying attention to it. You
- 27:43Speaker 1: also had adrenaline hormones going on there too. But when
- 27:46Speaker 1: we put attention onto a discomfort, our brain goes into
- 27:51Speaker 1: survival mode and increases the pain.
- 27:54Speaker 3: So that we make sure that we fix it.
- 27:56Speaker 1: And so it could be anywhere kind of pain but
- 27:59Speaker 1: if we keep paying at time to it and it's
- 28:01Speaker 1: not a threat.
- 28:02Speaker 3: That's the key is pain with IBS if you have.
- 28:05Speaker 1: An actual diagnosis of IBS, so this isn't like if
- 28:07Speaker 1: you've never been diagnosed, go make sure that's IBS not
- 28:10Speaker 1: something else.
- 28:11Speaker 3: But if you know you have.
- 28:12Speaker 1: IBS, the pain associated with IBS is not harmful at
- 28:16Speaker 1: all to your body. It doesn't increase the risk of
- 28:21Speaker 1: other chronic diseases, it doesn't increase the risk of cancer.
- 28:25Speaker 1: It's a pain and we want to treat that, but
- 28:28Speaker 1: it's not a threat to your life. And this is
- 28:32Speaker 1: one that we really have to start to ingrain because
- 28:34Speaker 1: if we can actually start to ignore that pain using
- 28:37Speaker 1: other coping strategies divert our brain's attention away from it,
- 28:41Speaker 1: we can start to tell the brain, hey, we're actually safe.
- 28:45Speaker 1: You can chill out, and then hopefully it's going to
- 28:47Speaker 1: turn down the hypervigilance, turn down the hypersensitivity, so these
- 28:52Speaker 1: sensations actually get better.
- 28:55Speaker 2: So are you a big fan of I mean clearly
- 28:58Speaker 2: the breathing, which I'm a big fan of. Two. I
- 29:01Speaker 2: just came back from a yoga retreat not too long ago,
- 29:04Speaker 2: and I always just thought meditation and breathing was like,
- 29:09Speaker 2: oh cool, you do that, But I never ever would
- 29:13Speaker 2: have made time for it. I was just like, not
- 29:15Speaker 2: my thing, don't have time, sounds great, whatever, And then
- 29:20Speaker 2: when I went there, like all of this stuff came up.
- 29:23Speaker 2: And I'm not saying I'm perfect at all, Like I
- 29:25Speaker 2: was going to do it sixty six days solid was
- 29:27Speaker 2: what we were supposed to do, And of course I've
- 29:30Speaker 2: missed a whole bunch of days. But I'm telling you
- 29:33Speaker 2: that ten to fifteen minutes at any point during the day,
- 29:38Speaker 2: if you're super stressed or you just feel like it
- 29:41Speaker 2: is such a good reset. I cannot believe I've waited
- 29:45Speaker 2: forty eight years to try it.
- 29:46Speaker 1: I love your story and I hear it all the
- 29:49Speaker 1: time too, and we can extrapolate that, like the breathing
- 29:52Speaker 1: is incredible. The diformatic breathing is not something to like
- 29:56Speaker 1: just be like, oh, it's not going to work for me.
- 29:57Speaker 1: My symptoms are so bad, Like.
- 29:59Speaker 3: You really have to try it and try it more
- 30:02Speaker 3: than once.
- 30:04Speaker 1: Yeah, because I see people and then people will also
- 30:08Speaker 1: hear me say like, so we're just gonna talk about
- 30:09Speaker 1: my symptoms and they're going to get better and I'm like,
- 30:11Speaker 1: uh huh, and they will if you're open to it,
- 30:15Speaker 1: because really our thoughts and beliefs change how our body
- 30:19Speaker 1: responds from a hormonal standpoint. And this isn't wu wu.
- 30:24Speaker 1: I mean, this is cognabavial therapy. It's one of the
- 30:26Speaker 1: most studied things we have in psychology, and it has
- 30:30Speaker 1: great results for people. We're talking better results than most
- 30:33Speaker 1: of the medications for global symptoms. So we have really
- 30:36Speaker 1: great meds to slow down the gut for diarrhea, speed
- 30:39Speaker 1: it up for constipation. We don't have great meds for
- 30:42Speaker 1: the abdominal pain, cramping, distension, bloating.
- 30:46Speaker 3: That are there.
- 30:47Speaker 1: And this is where like the CBT and the gut
- 30:51Speaker 1: directed hypnotherapy, but all these things that are not medications
- 30:55Speaker 1: work really well for those symptoms and quieting them down.
- 30:59Speaker 2: I love it. I'm doing it for till the end
- 31:01Speaker 2: of time.
- 31:03Speaker 4: I feel like I always say, there's nothing three deep
- 31:06Speaker 4: breaths can't solve, Like in a stressful moment.
- 31:10Speaker 5: It doesn't even have to be ten to fifteen minutes.
- 31:12Speaker 4: But if you ever just like stop in those moments
- 31:15Speaker 4: and take three super deep.
- 31:19Speaker 5: Breaths, if you can fill the physical change.
- 31:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a fan. I will continue to be a fan. Okay,
- 31:27Speaker 2: So moving on, if when we look at finding a
- 31:32Speaker 2: good physician like yourself, I guess when people when people
- 31:39Speaker 2: come to you with a variety of different issues that
- 31:43Speaker 2: you're your training or you're answering, what, how do you
- 31:52Speaker 2: do you ever maybe dissuade someone from going back to
- 31:57Speaker 2: a physician if they're getting really doodle. I mean, I
- 32:00Speaker 2: feel like our healthcare system, there's great physicians, there's incredible physicians.
- 32:06Speaker 2: There's physicians that are probably good, but they only have
- 32:09Speaker 2: ten minutes and so you can't really get a lot.
- 32:11Speaker 2: So there's a whole different bag here that goes into
- 32:14Speaker 2: finding a really good physician. But what should someone look
- 32:17Speaker 2: for in finding a really good physician that they need
- 32:22Speaker 2: to go to?
- 32:24Speaker 1: Yeah, for IBS specifically, I.
- 32:29Speaker 2: Would say for IBS, for menopause, the things that we've
- 32:32Speaker 2: been talking about today. I mean, can't possibly cover everything
- 32:36Speaker 2: totally totally.
- 32:37Speaker 1: I mean what I would say is you want to
- 32:39Speaker 1: interview your doctor like you would any other kind of position.
- 32:44Speaker 1: You want to come at it a different way. I've
- 32:46Speaker 1: heard stories and like that they're not going to respond
- 32:49Speaker 1: well to that, Like they're going to get really defensive
- 32:52Speaker 1: if you're just kind of berating them, right, but you want.
- 32:56Speaker 3: To ask questions in a kind way.
- 32:59Speaker 1: And I would also really push people get a specialist. Like,
- 33:03Speaker 1: if you're looking at IBS, get somebody who knows IBS
- 33:06Speaker 1: in and out. I'm a naturopathic doctor, so like I'm
- 33:09Speaker 1: not a gas terentrologist, but as a naturopathic doctor, I've
- 33:14Speaker 1: then sub specialized in chronic GI issues, mostly irritable baloisan drume,
- 33:20Speaker 1: chronic constipation. Then there's many gis who also really specialize
- 33:26Speaker 1: in IBS, even more so than other GI conditions. But
- 33:30Speaker 1: that would be my biggest thing, is like, get somebody
- 33:32Speaker 1: who really specializes in what you're looking to treat.
- 33:36Speaker 3: Some things you don't need a specialist.
- 33:37Speaker 1: It's like even for MHT, you want a practitioner who
- 33:40Speaker 1: prescribes a bunch of menopause hormone therapy. But if you're
- 33:44Speaker 1: if you've never tried it, you may do great with
- 33:46Speaker 1: like the standard kind of first line things, so you
- 33:48Speaker 1: can see an obgyn or sometimes your primary care doctor
- 33:51Speaker 1: for that. But if you've been working on something and
- 33:54Speaker 1: having gotten good results, like most people with IBS, you
- 33:58Speaker 1: really want to find like a specialist who really understands
- 34:03Speaker 1: that condition. And that's where I see people going awry
- 34:06Speaker 1: in like the functional medicine even like the naturopathic medicine space,
- 34:10Speaker 1: is that you have people who, if you look at
- 34:12Speaker 1: their website, they treat everything. They treat autoimmune conditions, they
- 34:16Speaker 1: treat ibs, they treat mold, they treat lime, they treat
- 34:20Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know how you can be a
- 34:22Speaker 1: specialist on that many conditions. That feels really strange to me.
- 34:28Speaker 1: So it's also why I only do preventive medicine and
- 34:31Speaker 1: chronic GI issues. I don't see anybody for anything else.
- 34:34Speaker 1: People come to me with autoimmune all the time. I'm like,
- 34:35Speaker 1: I'd send you to a rheumatologist. I don't actually treat
- 34:38Speaker 1: that myself.
- 34:40Speaker 2: So preventative medicine. And if we go to heart disease
- 34:44Speaker 2: still being the biggest risk for women, which everyone thinks
- 34:47Speaker 2: it's breast cancer, where how many is how big of
- 34:53Speaker 2: a deal is that to you? Do you see a
- 34:55Speaker 2: lot of patients coming in and what's the treatment or
- 34:58Speaker 2: what's the recommendation that you're giving there?
- 35:02Speaker 1: Yeah, heart disease is still the number one cause of
- 35:04Speaker 1: death for both men and women, and women are more
- 35:08Speaker 1: likely to be undertreated compared to men, so it's a
- 35:12Speaker 1: huge focus in my practice. I'm going to do a
- 35:15Speaker 1: advanced lipid panel, so I'm gonna actually run Lplytlea on
- 35:18Speaker 1: all my patients, a bob full lipid panel, and then
- 35:21Speaker 1: all the metabolic and inflammatory markers that could be fueling
- 35:24Speaker 1: the fire with cardiovascular disease as well. We're also going
- 35:28Speaker 1: to look at blood pressure more in depth than most
- 35:30Speaker 1: primary care offices would, So we want to do a
- 35:33Speaker 1: full risk assessment of where somebody stands from a cardiovascular
- 35:37Speaker 1: disease point, men and women. And then I always will
- 35:41Speaker 1: sit down with people when we have their results, and
- 35:43Speaker 1: I'll do a risk assessment with them and basically just
- 35:47Speaker 1: ask them, how risk adverse do you want to be?
- 35:50Speaker 1: Do you want to completely take the ability to put
- 35:54Speaker 1: down plaque in your arteries off the table? Do you
- 35:57Speaker 1: want to go with the American Heart Association guideline, which
- 36:00Speaker 1: actually just kind of shifted. Do you feel good about
- 36:03Speaker 1: like staying within their guidelines and just being really, you know,
- 36:05Speaker 1: regimented about being in those levels Where do you stand?
- 36:10Speaker 3: And people are all different.
- 36:11Speaker 1: Some people are like, no, I'm good with the standard
- 36:12Speaker 1: of care, let's get my level down to a seventy.
- 36:16Speaker 1: And then I have other people that are like, I
- 36:17Speaker 1: want to take it off the table, Like I don't.
- 36:19Speaker 1: I want to get my level down to like a
- 36:21Speaker 1: fifty five LDL.
- 36:23Speaker 3: We're docking.
- 36:24Speaker 5: So what are some.
- 36:25Speaker 4: Of the things you do for that patient when they
- 36:29Speaker 4: say they want to be totally risk at first?
- 36:32Speaker 1: Yeah, so first we're running their levels, see where they stand.
- 36:34Speaker 1: So we're going to look at their LDL cholesterol level
- 36:36Speaker 1: and LP little A. If LP LITTLEA is high, they
- 36:40Speaker 1: automatically go into the high risk category. And we want
- 36:42Speaker 1: to get their ld level closer to forty for those individuals.
- 36:46Speaker 1: And we're using diet changes, reducing saturated fat in the diet,
- 36:50Speaker 1: making sure they're eating a lot of fiber in the diet.
- 36:52Speaker 1: But then also most of the time we're going to
- 36:54Speaker 1: have to take put in a medication.
- 36:56Speaker 3: To get people's levels that low too.
- 36:58Speaker 1: We have a shlew of metations that we can use
- 37:00Speaker 1: at this point to reduce cholesterol levels. And so there's
- 37:04Speaker 1: a lot of people that are still scared of statins.
- 37:07Speaker 1: I try to get people not scared of statins because's
- 37:09Speaker 1: one of the most utilized medications that we've had that
- 37:12Speaker 1: been studied forever. We have really good safety data on them,
- 37:15Speaker 1: but we still have other options if people want to
- 37:17Speaker 1: do another class of medication to use.
- 37:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always interesting to me. And I mean people
- 37:24Speaker 2: are coming from all over the board. But I mean
- 37:27Speaker 2: I know some people that I love who have had
- 37:32Speaker 2: this blood work comeback that's not great. And a lot
- 37:37Speaker 2: of diet and exercise would solve some of these issues,
- 37:41Speaker 2: but it doesn't ever like the behavior never and the
- 37:44Speaker 2: habit never changed to actually implement that. Do you see
- 37:49Speaker 2: patients that come in that are like, Okay, cool, got
- 37:52Speaker 2: the news, Just give me a drug and I'll go
- 37:56Speaker 2: that route.
- 37:57Speaker 1: And you know, I think this is where I see
- 38:00Speaker 1: different group of people. Like I think once you look
- 38:03Speaker 1: at my website and I always get on a screening
- 38:05Speaker 1: call with people and I tell them what we're going
- 38:07Speaker 1: to do, and I think I scare everybody away who's
- 38:10Speaker 1: not going.
- 38:10Speaker 3: To do behavioral stuff.
- 38:13Speaker 1: But before, when I worked in you know, more like
- 38:16Speaker 1: the insurance model one hundred percent, every day I would
- 38:19Speaker 1: see people that they just want the men. They don't
- 38:22Speaker 1: even want to know why, and they don't want to
- 38:24Speaker 1: do any of the behavioral thing. If I can get
- 38:27Speaker 1: enough time with somebody who's somewhat open minded and go
- 38:30Speaker 1: into the education around it, that's when I can really
- 38:34Speaker 1: see people who just wanted the med go do oh,
- 38:36Speaker 1: I get it now. There's a lot of people who
- 38:40Speaker 1: think exercises just to lose weight, and they're like, I
- 38:42Speaker 1: don't really care about that. And then when I talk
- 38:44Speaker 1: about okay, do you know what happens actually physiologically when
- 38:47Speaker 1: we exercise, and that your muscles are more of an
- 38:51Speaker 1: organ system that's secrete anti inflammatory and cardioprotective chemicals to
- 38:56Speaker 1: improve your physiology.
- 38:58Speaker 3: If I go through all that stuff, we're like, oh.
- 39:00Speaker 1: Interesting, this is much more than just weight loss or
- 39:04Speaker 1: body composition optimization. It's really around heart disease prevention, diabetes prevention,
- 39:10Speaker 1: cancer prevention.
- 39:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 39:14Speaker 4: Interesting there, What else do you do for longevity?
- 39:22Speaker 3: That's a big question.
- 39:27Speaker 1: How do you keep people alive longer? Yeah, I mean
- 39:31Speaker 1: cardiovascular disease. That's one of the big ones, because that's
- 39:33Speaker 1: the number one. But then we also go into cancer prevention,
- 39:36Speaker 1: so what do we know our risk factors for cancer?
- 39:39Speaker 1: And we start to talk about nutrition exercise. For sure,
- 39:42Speaker 1: exercise is a huge topic. That's not even one appointment.
- 39:45Speaker 1: For me, We're talking about exercise almost on every single call,
- 39:48Speaker 1: but I'm doing a ton of education about Okay, resistance
- 39:52Speaker 1: training versus cardio, high intensity cardio versus steady state, lower
- 39:56Speaker 1: intensity cardio. I'll geek out as much as something he
- 40:00Speaker 1: wants in that. That's the most common one where people
- 40:02Speaker 1: like I'm.
- 40:02Speaker 3: Good now, like we're good. And then sleep.
- 40:08Speaker 1: You can't talk about longevity without talking about sleep. If
- 40:11Speaker 1: somebody's not sleeping, you kind of throw away the rest
- 40:13Speaker 1: of it. Like that's got to be one of the
- 40:15Speaker 1: biggest priorities there. Bone health, we have to look at
- 40:18Speaker 1: that because you don't want to break a hip men
- 40:21Speaker 1: or women. The outcomes for breaking a hip or not great,
- 40:26Speaker 1: so we really want to focus on that. It's going
- 40:28Speaker 1: to come back to exercise and diet as well, though,
- 40:31Speaker 1: and then there's some environmental things that we'll look at
- 40:34Speaker 1: in terms of like air quality, water quality, and then
- 40:38Speaker 1: relationships and mental health huge factors on your longevity. Social interactions.
- 40:45Speaker 1: People who feel lonely but versus people who feel supported
- 40:48Speaker 1: and like surrounded by people they love and can count
- 40:51Speaker 1: on very different outcomes from a longevity perspective.
- 40:55Speaker 2: What about peptides so we know peptides are everywhere. And
- 41:00Speaker 2: I'm not just talking about GLP ones, although that is
- 41:03Speaker 2: part of the conversation for sure. But I think that
- 41:07Speaker 2: some of these peptides name it, a lot of them
- 41:12Speaker 2: don't have this massive background of incredible results and information,
- 41:19Speaker 2: but they are. People are buying them left and right.
- 41:23Speaker 2: And just today I was scrolling on Facebook to answer
- 41:27Speaker 2: a message and this ad got popped up that was like, Oh,
- 41:31Speaker 2: you want to know why everyone looks great in Hollywood,
- 41:34Speaker 2: it's this it's this one specific supplement. I'm like, they've
- 41:40Speaker 2: all had whatever they want. I don't think it's the
- 41:46Speaker 2: one peptide that you all know.
- 41:49Speaker 1: I mean, if we look at longevity, socio economic status
- 41:53Speaker 1: is one of the leading indicators of how long and
- 41:56Speaker 1: how well somebody is going to live. How much money
- 41:59Speaker 1: you have matter in terms of health. And I don't
- 42:01Speaker 1: say that to be rude or dismissive. I say that
- 42:04Speaker 1: to really highlight that people are People are telling you like,
- 42:09Speaker 1: it's this one peptide, right, or it's this one other thing.
- 42:12Speaker 1: And it's like when people have access to personal trainers,
- 42:16Speaker 1: to good healthy, whole food sources for the time to
- 42:20Speaker 1: exercise because they have financial freedom, the access to see
- 42:24Speaker 1: doctors where who can.
- 42:25Speaker 3: Spend more time with them.
- 42:27Speaker 1: I think it's really important that we realize that socioeconomic
- 42:30Speaker 1: status has a huge influence on it, and that we need.
- 42:33Speaker 3: To improve.
- 42:36Speaker 1: Other people's ability to access good care, food and exercise
- 42:41Speaker 1: as well, because that's where we see big discrepancies that
- 42:45Speaker 1: are affecting the health of our nation.
- 42:48Speaker 3: That's just a tangent.
- 42:49Speaker 2: Oh no, I I was just going to go there
- 42:51Speaker 2: and say, I remember watching and I really don't watch
- 42:56Speaker 2: TV all and haven't for I don't know twenty years.
- 43:00Speaker 2: I can't even I don't think I've had channels for
- 43:03Speaker 2: twenty years. But I remember I must have been somewhere
- 43:06Speaker 2: where I saw this interview of someone talking about it
- 43:11Speaker 2: was somewhere in the south, more of a lower economic area,
- 43:18Speaker 2: and they were like, well, of course I have to
- 43:20Speaker 2: go to McDonald's and feed my family. I can feed
- 43:23Speaker 2: them for fifteen dollars. I can't get anything. I go
- 43:27Speaker 2: to Whole Foods and I walk out with two pieces
- 43:30Speaker 2: of fruit for fifteen dollars, Like I have to feed
- 43:33Speaker 2: my family of five or six with this food, and
- 43:37Speaker 2: so that, I mean, that could take a whole other podcast.
- 43:39Speaker 2: But if you had one message to send about just
- 43:46Speaker 2: the healthcare system, I know that you're a concierge doctor,
- 43:50Speaker 2: what would it be.
- 43:52Speaker 1: I don't know, and my expertise is not in public health.
- 43:56Speaker 1: I'm really interested in it at some point I would
- 43:58Speaker 1: love to learn more and get in more in it.
- 44:01Speaker 1: But public health is very different than one on one medicine,
- 44:05Speaker 1: and I think actually that's what we're seeing politically kind
- 44:07Speaker 1: of go awry here is you can't necessarily insert what
- 44:12Speaker 1: works with one patient to a public health standard because
- 44:18Speaker 1: that's not how it works. But I would be misspeaking
- 44:23Speaker 1: if I kind of commented on it, just because it's
- 44:24Speaker 1: not my expertise, So I'll leave it for the public
- 44:26Speaker 1: health people.
- 44:28Speaker 4: What about other myths I've heard you talk about colostrum
- 44:33Speaker 4: and how it is not linked to longevity.
- 44:36Speaker 3: It's not linked to like improved immune health. It's not
- 44:39Speaker 3: linked to longevity.
- 44:41Speaker 1: Yeah, I have an Instagram real on colostrum taking down
- 44:44Speaker 1: like a very very common colostrum company who have nothing
- 44:48Speaker 1: against I just think when you start to use sales
- 44:51Speaker 1: tactics that are completely out of integrity, I have no
- 44:55Speaker 1: problem calling you out because there could be somebody there
- 44:58Speaker 1: who has in the lower suo economic status, who would
- 45:01Speaker 1: be way better buying fruits and vegetables for their family,
- 45:05Speaker 1: but they may get coerse into buying this frickin colostrum
- 45:08Speaker 1: supplement that's I don't even know how much money.
- 45:10Speaker 3: I'm going to do nothing for your health.
- 45:13Speaker 1: And so you can tell it like gets me fired up,
- 45:15Speaker 1: because you have a responsibility when you have a platform
- 45:20Speaker 1: and you have a product too. Yeah you can sell it,
- 45:23Speaker 1: but you got to be integrity with your claims, Like
- 45:26Speaker 1: your claims better be actually true, and if you're trying
- 45:29Speaker 1: to trick people, like I'm not for it, and I
- 45:31Speaker 1: just yeah, I have zero patients for it. I've also
- 45:34Speaker 1: like this is kind of how I came to be
- 45:36Speaker 1: where I am. As I was the girl in her
- 45:38Speaker 1: twenties getting tricked by all this stuff. I was super naive.
- 45:41Speaker 1: I was from a small town in Massachusetts. I thought
- 45:43Speaker 1: anybody who was on a podcast must be telling the
- 45:46Speaker 1: truth and was good intentioned. And then I got out
- 45:49Speaker 1: to the West Coast and I started to like meet
- 45:52Speaker 1: some of these people and like the curtain fell for
- 45:54Speaker 1: me and I was like, WHOA, some of these people are.
- 45:58Speaker 3: Just trying to make money.
- 45:59Speaker 1: I'm like, I was a girl listening to the podcast
- 46:02Speaker 1: believing everything they said, buying every digestive time and probiotic
- 46:07Speaker 1: and like doing all the things because I thought that
- 46:08Speaker 1: they said that I was going to get better and
- 46:10Speaker 1: they sounded so sure about that, and I didn't, and
- 46:14Speaker 1: I spent thousands of dollars that I didn't have on
- 46:17Speaker 1: these supplements. And so I'm just really protective of people
- 46:19Speaker 1: now where I'm like, I want to help be a
- 46:22Speaker 1: signal amongst all the like the super noisy stuff of
- 46:26Speaker 1: social media, a lot of which isn't going to get
- 46:29Speaker 1: people the outcomes that they're they're hoping for.
- 46:32Speaker 2: I so appreciate that because we see it in the
- 46:34Speaker 2: help and fitness space too. I was at this metopause
- 46:39Speaker 2: conference and there was like this this cellulite removal cream
- 46:45Speaker 2: that was or like there was one that was like
- 46:48Speaker 2: an electrolyte slash. This will take away cellulite in this
- 46:52Speaker 2: little powder, And I was like, who's buy You're selling
- 46:55Speaker 2: this at a metopause conference, Like you're selling it to
- 46:58Speaker 2: women that are already super strong, us out and very
- 47:01Speaker 2: potentially very insecure about certain things. Is our bodies change?
- 47:06Speaker 2: They don't need a sub powder that's promising cellulate removal.
- 47:12Speaker 3: Yeah, so many things wrong with that.
- 47:14Speaker 1: And just like body shaming first, right, cellulate is completely
- 47:17Speaker 1: normal in women period, Like, it's not too pathologized cellulate.
- 47:21Speaker 1: We just have it and then not to mention it's
- 47:24Speaker 1: not gonna work. Cream would not work for cellulate. So
- 47:27Speaker 1: just like praying on vulnerable population, Yeah, I would have
- 47:30Speaker 1: a hard time, not kidding.
- 47:32Speaker 2: I did a photo shoot with this photographer who who
- 47:36Speaker 2: mainly like shoots physique competitors that are going on stage.
- 47:42Speaker 2: So these women are I don't even know the body
- 47:46Speaker 2: fat percentage, but minimal, not even in a healthy amount,
- 47:49Speaker 2: and they don't stay there. And he said, Haley, every
- 47:52Speaker 2: person I've ever worked with, the people, the women that
- 47:56Speaker 2: are winning these competitions on stage, every or what I've
- 48:00Speaker 2: ever shot has cellul liked.
- 48:02Speaker 1: Every Yeah, you can be super It's a normal thing
- 48:06Speaker 1: that the female body does. It's really just like structurally
- 48:10Speaker 1: how fat is deposited and how we have these kind
- 48:13Speaker 1: of fibers that trap it in and that's.
- 48:15Speaker 3: All it is.
- 48:18Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, the more that we sell those supplements,
- 48:20Speaker 1: the more that they tell women they need to get
- 48:22Speaker 1: LiPo for it, the more we're perpetuating that whole loop
- 48:27Speaker 1: that we need to keep fixing the normal female body.
- 48:31Speaker 1: And like, the overpathologizing that we see in the wellness
- 48:36Speaker 1: industry is insane to me, and it's one of the
- 48:40Speaker 1: things that I work with patients on because people will
- 48:41Speaker 1: come to me and they're like, I'm a little bit
- 48:43Speaker 1: bloaded after some meals and I'm like, does it go
- 48:45Speaker 1: away pretty quickly?
- 48:46Speaker 3: They're like yeah.
- 48:47Speaker 1: I'm like, that's human. We're not treating it. But the
- 48:50Speaker 1: wellness industry has made you think that every little thing
- 48:53Speaker 1: there's something wrong with you because they want to sell
- 48:56Speaker 1: you something to fix it.
- 48:58Speaker 3: And that's really where we need to see a shift
- 49:00Speaker 3: in the space.
- 49:01Speaker 1: Hopefully, or people just start like blocking those accounts and
- 49:04Speaker 1: don't give them any of your attention, time or money.
- 49:08Speaker 4: Okay, so can you take a pill that helps with bloating?
- 49:12Speaker 4: Because we see this all the time, everyone trying to
- 49:15Speaker 4: sell us a pill that can help with that.
- 49:18Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's the Stufflee, I would just say, no bloating.
- 49:22Speaker 1: You need to get really clear about what you mean
- 49:24Speaker 1: by bloating. Because I have people come in they say
- 49:26Speaker 1: I'm bloated. The more questions I ask they mean that
- 49:28Speaker 1: they're holding more fat around the mid section. That goes
- 49:33Speaker 1: into the weight loss category, and we treat that the
- 49:35Speaker 1: same as any other weight loss caloric restriction exercise, very
- 49:39Speaker 1: different than I'm holding gas in my intestines. That gets
- 49:43Speaker 1: worse after I.
- 49:44Speaker 3: Eat meals, and then I wake up and I.
- 49:47Speaker 1: Have a flat stomach again. And then after I eat
- 49:49Speaker 1: meals throughout the day, I get more bloated and gas
- 49:52Speaker 1: and I'm passing gas. It feels better when I have
- 49:54Speaker 1: a bowel movement. That's more the intestinal bloating. And again
- 49:59Speaker 1: just for like coverage, always talk to your doctor about
- 50:01Speaker 1: this because bloating is one of the first signs of
- 50:03Speaker 1: ovarian cancer too, So we don't want to put something
- 50:06Speaker 1: in a like, you know, a safer bucket than it
- 50:10Speaker 1: should be in either most of the time it's going
- 50:12Speaker 1: to be gastrointestinal gas, and for that, you want to
- 50:16Speaker 1: identify why somebody has that bloating and if it's excessive.
- 50:21Speaker 1: So it's normal to fart up to twenty times per
- 50:23Speaker 1: day as a human. Most people think that's way too high,
- 50:26Speaker 1: and I'm like, if you're around that range and it's
- 50:29Speaker 1: not interfering with your quality of life, we actually don't
- 50:31Speaker 1: want to treat it. But then there's some people that
- 50:33Speaker 1: come in. They're like, after eat breakfast, I'm a little
- 50:36Speaker 1: bit bloated. After lunch, I'm really bloated. By the time
- 50:40Speaker 1: nighttime comes around, I feel like I'm nine months pregnant
- 50:42Speaker 1: and it's really uncomfortable.
- 50:44Speaker 3: Like I have like actual like pain because of the distension.
- 50:47Speaker 1: That's the bloating that we actually want to target and treat.
- 50:50Speaker 1: But first we have to identify why it's happening. You know,
- 50:53Speaker 1: is this IBS, is this se bow? Is this functional
- 50:57Speaker 1: bloating disorder? Is this just constipation that hasn't been treated,
- 51:02Speaker 1: because if you're constipated, you're not going to the bathroom regularly.
- 51:07Speaker 1: If we just treat the constipation sometimes it will resolve
- 51:10Speaker 1: the bloating as well.
- 51:12Speaker 2: So if we touch on sebow really quick, something that
- 51:17Speaker 2: I really don't I feel like I'm interested in knowing
- 51:21Speaker 2: more about it, but I don't know a lot about it.
- 51:23Speaker 2: But it's definitely a real thing.
- 51:26Speaker 3: Is that a question. Yeah, Yeah, it's a real thing.
- 51:30Speaker 1: It's a real thing. Cibo's an interesting one. Gas terentrologists
- 51:34Speaker 1: will treat cibo. I say it's interesting because we don't
- 51:36Speaker 1: have a great test for it. You can send somebody
- 51:40Speaker 1: for a CEBO test. It could come back negative, but
- 51:43Speaker 1: you can still treat them for CEBO and they can
- 51:46Speaker 1: still get better, and vice versa. We see people who
- 51:49Speaker 1: have positive SEBO results that don't actually have any symptoms,
- 51:54Speaker 1: so we wouldn't want to treat them, And so it's
- 51:57Speaker 1: one that I feel like we still need to like
- 51:58Speaker 1: figure out better testing and treatment tools for.
- 52:03Speaker 3: But it's a real thing.
- 52:04Speaker 1: It means it's small intestinal bacterial overgrowth. So you're supposed
- 52:08Speaker 1: to have some bacteria in the small intestines, but most
- 52:10Speaker 1: of your bacteria, your microbiome should reside in the large
- 52:13Speaker 1: intestine or the colon. And when you have an overgrowth
- 52:17Speaker 1: of normal bacteria in the small intestine, we call that
- 52:20Speaker 1: CEBO and I start to produce more gases in the
- 52:23Speaker 1: small intestine, which can either slow down the GI track
- 52:26Speaker 1: or speed it up, depending on which gas is being
- 52:30Speaker 1: produced at higher levels, so this can result in constipation diarrhea.
- 52:34Speaker 1: But the keynote of bloating a gas that feeling of distension.
- 52:38Speaker 3: Especially with food.
- 52:40Speaker 1: So if the dissension starts in the morning after breakfast,
- 52:43Speaker 1: gets worse as the day goes on highest at night
- 52:45Speaker 1: before you go to bed, but then when you wake
- 52:47Speaker 1: up in the morning you feel good again. That's kind
- 52:49Speaker 1: of a pretty consistent story with CEBO, and we treat
- 52:54Speaker 1: it with various different medications. We also can use the
- 52:57Speaker 1: low fodmap diet sometimes with cebo. Antibiotics are kind of
- 53:02Speaker 1: one of the mainstays with CEBO, and and then sometimes
- 53:05Speaker 1: we'll also use pro kinetics to get the intestines moving
- 53:09Speaker 1: a little bit faster to keep things flushing through.
- 53:13Speaker 2: So it seems like there's some similarities with IBS.
- 53:16Speaker 1: Then, Yeah, it's about seventy six percent of people with
- 53:19Speaker 1: IBS will be diagnosed with cebo, but not everybody with
- 53:23Speaker 1: cibo has IBS.
- 53:25Speaker 2: Seventy six percent of IBS that's high, Yeah, but it.
- 53:30Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that once you treat the cebo they don't
- 53:32Speaker 1: have IBS anymore. Unfortunately, they're just more likely to get CEBO,
- 53:36Speaker 1: like have flares of it.
- 53:38Speaker 2: Wow.
- 53:39Speaker 4: Okay, So for people like Hayley who have a lot
- 53:42Speaker 4: of people in their life that have IBS and it
- 53:45Speaker 4: really controls them, would you recommend them going to someone
- 53:53Speaker 4: like you that deals with the cognitive aspect they have.
- 53:58Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent, it's got.
- 54:00Speaker 4: To be so psychological also, and the gut tucks to
- 54:04Speaker 4: the brain, right, it's not the other way around.
- 54:07Speaker 3: Both it's bidirectional.
- 54:08Speaker 1: It's bell talks to the brain, brain tucks to the gut,
- 54:11Speaker 1: and we just have better ways of interjecting at the
- 54:15Speaker 1: brain level. We don't have a ton of therapies that
- 54:17Speaker 1: interject at the gut level yet, unless you're talking about
- 54:20Speaker 1: changing motility patterns for IBS in terms of diarrhea constipation.
- 54:25Speaker 3: But one hundred percent.
- 54:27Speaker 1: We go in with the behavioral things that we've been
- 54:30Speaker 1: talking about, like the thoughts and beliefs that whole pattern
- 54:33Speaker 1: stress that piece, but also nutrition medications. I really think
- 54:38Speaker 1: the best approach to IBS is this multi pronged approach,
- 54:42Speaker 1: not just meds, not just the behavioral stuff, but ideally
- 54:45Speaker 1: a combination of a bunch is what I've seen have
- 54:48Speaker 1: the best results for people.
- 54:51Speaker 2: Okay, as we're wrapping this up. As a concierge physician,
- 54:57Speaker 2: what are the parting words that you would give anyone
- 55:01Speaker 2: out there that's kind of maybe wanting to go down
- 55:04Speaker 2: the path of concierge medicine. I personally know in my
- 55:08Speaker 2: network so many of the collaborators that I work with
- 55:12Speaker 2: have moved to this concierge medicine because they just can't
- 55:15Speaker 2: practice the way that they want to practice in the
- 55:19Speaker 2: normal healthcare system as it sits right now, What would
- 55:24Speaker 2: be your parting words if somebody's like, I kind of
- 55:26Speaker 2: want to look into this concierge medicine, what do you
- 55:29Speaker 2: offer that's different? I mean, time is one of those,
- 55:33Speaker 2: but what would what information that would you share with
- 55:36Speaker 2: them as a patient?
- 55:37Speaker 3: Sharing with the patient, Yeah, with the patient, got it?
- 55:40Speaker 5: Got it?
- 55:40Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 55:40Speaker 1: And naturepathic doctors are supposed to use the word doctor
- 55:42Speaker 1: and not physician.
- 55:43Speaker 3: It's like a whole political thing.
- 55:44Speaker 1: But just I just want to note that because I
- 55:46Speaker 1: don't want to like miscons true. And so if I
- 55:51Speaker 1: was talking to a patient in terms of concierge, one
- 55:53Speaker 1: of the biggest things is time. So the average doctor's
- 55:56Speaker 1: appointments like fifteen minutes long. They try to cover five
- 55:59Speaker 1: different topics. They get six minutes for the longest topic.
- 56:02Speaker 1: If I had six minutes to help somebody with IBS
- 56:05Speaker 1: with the cognitive behavioral.
- 56:06Speaker 3: Stuff, I would like barely get through.
- 56:09Speaker 1: The diaframatic breathing exercise, right. It would take me a
- 56:12Speaker 1: whole number to get through actual content with this person,
- 56:16Speaker 1: and so really, if you're looking for more time with somebody.
- 56:19Speaker 1: I also give people access to me between appointments unlimitedly,
- 56:24Speaker 1: so they can message me in between, and I actually
- 56:26Speaker 1: prefer that they do.
- 56:28Speaker 3: Because I want my patients to get results really quickly.
- 56:31Speaker 1: And if we have momentum in the beginning and you
- 56:33Speaker 1: start doing the exercises and you come to me and
- 56:35Speaker 1: be like, hey, I just did this, what else can
- 56:36Speaker 1: I do? You're going to get better so much faster
- 56:39Speaker 1: versus waiting to see me till the next appointment.
- 56:43Speaker 3: We can also.
- 56:44Speaker 1: Tinker with things between those appointment times as well. And
- 56:47Speaker 1: then I also provide accountability like a health coach, and
- 56:51Speaker 1: so if I see you're not doing your food logause
- 56:53Speaker 1: a lot of what I do is body composition optimization
- 56:56Speaker 1: and weight loss for people who need weight loss. But
- 56:59Speaker 1: it's really helpful to have kind of like a coach
- 57:02Speaker 1: on your side and not just a doctor prescribing the
- 57:04Speaker 1: men saying like, how's the exercise going, like any obstacles?
- 57:08Speaker 1: You know, how is your run the other day? Kind
- 57:10Speaker 1: of thing?
- 57:11Speaker 3: And I see that really because.
- 57:13Speaker 1: I used to not be concierge and when I switched
- 57:15Speaker 1: over that accountability piece, especially for weight loss, but also
- 57:19Speaker 1: the IVS stuff keeps people engaged in rolling and on
- 57:22Speaker 1: their journey a lot, a lot easier. And then what
- 57:27Speaker 1: else It's going to also be that we're going to
- 57:29Speaker 1: do more comprehensive testing, So I'm not going to just
- 57:32Speaker 1: run you know, four lab tests. We're going to look
- 57:34Speaker 1: at LP, LITTLEA, A, bo B cardiovascular risk markers.
- 57:40Speaker 3: And we also will.
- 57:41Speaker 1: Do some longevity testing that's not technically in medicine, but
- 57:45Speaker 1: it's more for my exercise background. So I do VO
- 57:48Speaker 1: two max testing on my patients. I do strength and
- 57:50Speaker 1: mobility testing on my patients, cognitive testing as well. But
- 57:55Speaker 1: I want to be more aggressive, more proactive to ensuring
- 57:59Speaker 1: that people are where they want to be now so
- 58:02Speaker 1: that they can also be where they want to be
- 58:04Speaker 1: into their eighties and nineties. And oftentimes we actually have
- 58:07Speaker 1: to be much healthier than we think right now in
- 58:10Speaker 1: our middle ages to end up at a place that
- 58:12Speaker 1: feels really good for us in our eighties and nineties.
- 58:16Speaker 2: Yeah, do you do you do tell a medicine or
- 58:19Speaker 2: are you just in person one on one?
- 58:21Speaker 1: I do tell a medicine too, and most of my
- 58:23Speaker 1: patients are in the LA area, but all over California,
- 58:26Speaker 1: and even my LA patients who live like probably two
- 58:30Speaker 1: miles away, preferred tell.
- 58:31Speaker 3: Medicine most of the time because they don't want to drive.
- 58:34Speaker 1: So I did a ton of telemed regardless of where
- 58:37Speaker 1: the people are at.
- 58:38Speaker 2: This is funny that you say that, because I had
- 58:40Speaker 2: a client in Santa Barbara area that I was training
- 58:46Speaker 2: and she would just like the comment was always and
- 58:48Speaker 2: I would fly out there and train her and she'd
- 58:50Speaker 2: be I just can't get to the gym. I'm like,
- 58:52Speaker 2: I can see it from your house. It's right there.
- 58:56Speaker 2: What do you mean you can't get to the gym
- 59:00Speaker 2: everything into the house because going to the DRAI was
- 59:03Speaker 2: not an option, which was just it's a different lifestyle.
- 59:08Speaker 2: I'll say that. Well, thank you so much, Mary for
- 59:11Speaker 2: being here with you. Yeah, how do women find you?
- 59:16Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 59:16Speaker 1: So my website is modernmed dot com. There's no E
- 59:19Speaker 1: in modern so it's m d r n me d
- 59:21Speaker 1: dot com. My Instagram is at dr dot Mary Party.
- 59:26Speaker 1: I put out a ton of free content on Instagram
- 59:29Speaker 1: and I also have an email list. If you look
- 59:31Speaker 1: at my website you should be able to join it.
- 59:33Speaker 1: For blogs, podcasts, thoughts that I'm having I'll send out there.
- 59:38Speaker 1: But there's a link on my website to schedule a
- 59:41Speaker 1: complimentary thirty minute call with me if you're interested in
- 59:45Speaker 1: working with me one on one. I did just open
- 59:48Speaker 1: up a few more concierge spots and we will jump
- 59:51Speaker 1: on a call and see if I'm a good fit
- 59:53Speaker 1: for you, kind of go through your goals and go
- 59:55Speaker 1: from there, and there's zero pressure to do anything after
- 59:58Speaker 1: that call.
- 59:58Speaker 3: It's just an intro call.
- 1:00:00Speaker 2: I love that because I can tell from your personality
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: and your vibe that you would not be a pressure person.
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: No, No, the last thing I want to do is
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: work with somebody.
- 1:00:08Speaker 3: It's not honestly.
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: That call is two part is number one, can I
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: do I think I can help you? If I don't
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: think I can help you, that call is then going
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: to transform to who do I think could help you?
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: And like I think you should see a rheumatologist or
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: I actually think you should start here, because it's it's
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: I'm of no interest working with people who I don't
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: actually think I can get the results that they want
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: or and then also just to make sure there's a
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: vibe and I'm their person because we all have our
- 1:00:34Speaker 1: different you know, people that we work best with too.
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