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FULL SHOW: Drea and Lex P Cohost, Nedra Glover Tawwab, What's One Thing You Regret Doing To Your Ex? and More! · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Good morning usc yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo Sholamine
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  Speaker 1: the God peace to the plane of this Tuesday. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll go, I was gonna say. Our guest co
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  Speaker 1: host are still here. Dre and Lex p from The
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  Speaker 1: poor Man's Podcast. Good morning for the Poor Mons Podcast.
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  Speaker 1: We were just in here talking about the morning routine,
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  Speaker 1: like what's your morning routine? Are yea ready to leave
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  Speaker 1: here with all this snow or y'all tired of this
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  Speaker 1: snow round? I'm gone, I'm going tonight. We live first thing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the first one on the flight. Yes, surprisingly though
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  Speaker 1: I'm kind to us to the snow while I used
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  Speaker 1: to be out here, like yeah, no, my best friend
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  Speaker 1: went to Saint John. I mean I did, but that
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  Speaker 1: ain't used to be here. Okay, but yeah, New York,
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  Speaker 1: New Jersey got hit with a little storm. This is
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  Speaker 1: probably the first storm of the of the year right now.
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  Speaker 1: The winter say went to season. Yeah, there was no storm.
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  Speaker 1: The kids are off school. My kids don't have school today,
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  Speaker 1: might have late later. What's that thing called later? Lay
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  Speaker 1: closed the school because they had bad snow days because
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  Speaker 1: they never used any in the snow days, so they
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  Speaker 1: just closed the school today for the kids. Okay, it
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  Speaker 1: isn't like snowing in La and early this week. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: early at the end of last week, it was snowing
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  Speaker 1: in La. So it's pretty messed up. It's it's nasty
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  Speaker 1: out there. Did everybody do their daily routine this morning?
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  Speaker 1: Did you get to do yours? I did? What's your
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  Speaker 1: daily routine? Stretched? A little bit stretch? Yeah, I get up.
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  Speaker 1: I had this book called Master Your Emotions that I've
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  Speaker 1: been reading, so I usually get up read something from that.
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  Speaker 1: Took me a little breakfast, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: No breakfast this morning, right, Absolutely not. Yeah, I've been
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  Speaker 1: it's been out of wack because I've been waking up
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  Speaker 1: at four to get ready to so waking up at
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  Speaker 1: four that's what usually when I get in. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm backwards backwards right now. Yeah, I didn't get to
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  Speaker 1: do my whole little routine, but you know, I listened
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  Speaker 1: to a little gospel, I prayed. Okay, man, I didn't
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  Speaker 1: drink my tea, but I definitely in my routine this morning.
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  Speaker 1: My routine. Simple. I get up, I pray, shower, then
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  Speaker 1: read out of my Daily Affirmations book, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: then we were off to the races. What about you? You
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  Speaker 1: You did you hohoka this morning, bad Dominican bitch. You
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  Speaker 1: are right, I didn't do my hohoka this morning. Now
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  Speaker 1: I'm just posting man whoka pictures because y'all straight you're
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  Speaker 1: straight man shame man right now, y'all y'all straight man shaming,
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  Speaker 1: y'all straight. I can't be the surgeon general or Saucy
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  Speaker 1: said Tana. Okay, both of them say who can't good
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  Speaker 1: for ya? But for different reasons. I can't straight man
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  Speaker 1: shame anymore. I want to be a straight man in peace.
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  Speaker 1: If I want to put something in my mouth, that's
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  Speaker 1: classic blowing it. That's what amazing, that's what me I
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  Speaker 1: would He talks great with that crooked Well, we gotta guess.
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  Speaker 1: Joining us this morning, Madure Glover to Wob drama free
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  Speaker 1: out right now a guy to managing unhealthy family relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you someth about Nadre to wob. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: know I talked about her book set Boundaries Fine Piece
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  Speaker 1: quite often, going into two thousand and twenty two and
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  Speaker 1: now Drama Free is setting that tone again. Bro Okay,
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  Speaker 1: because you gotta manage these unhealthy family relationship you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, because I'll just be cutting you off.
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  Speaker 1: You you ain't gotta tell me, okay? All right, well,
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  Speaker 1: and don't you got an event with our thought yeah
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  Speaker 1: tomorrow with his souldouts and don't need to mention it. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So this morning, all right, let's get in some front
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  Speaker 1: page news. We gotta talk about your president, Joe Biden.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I'm a white boy, but I ain't stupid.
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  Speaker 1: You could have fooled me. I We'll talk about it
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  Speaker 1: when we come back at the Breakast Club the morning morning.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ m V Charlomagne the guy. We are
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got our co host Drey and
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  Speaker 1: Lex p from The poor Man's Podcast with us this morning,
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  Speaker 1: and let's get in some front page news. Now. Joe
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  Speaker 1: Biden was speaking out of Black History Month reception. Today
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  Speaker 1: is quote unquote the last day of Black History Month,
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  Speaker 1: February twenty eight. Ye, you can teach black history year round,
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  Speaker 1: That's what I said, quote unquote, And he was talking
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  Speaker 1: about black history and what the school should be teaching
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  Speaker 1: and how he feels about it. It's important to say
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  Speaker 1: from the White House for the entire country to hear
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  Speaker 1: history matters, History matters, and Black history matters. Look, I
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  Speaker 1: can't just choose to learn what we want to know
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  Speaker 1: and learn what we should know, to learn everything, the good,
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  Speaker 1: the bad, the truth, and who we are as a nation.
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  Speaker 1: That's what great nations do. That's what great nations do,
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  Speaker 1: and we're a great nation. I still think, I still
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  Speaker 1: think it's why we having this conversation right, the fact
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  Speaker 1: that we can't teach kids but black history black. You know,
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  Speaker 1: certain kids feel a way because of how we were treated,
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  Speaker 1: right ancestors were I'm saying, wow, yeah, and coming from
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  Speaker 1: the president, black history matters, But so does black legislation.
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  Speaker 1: So does black equity. That's what I want to hear
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  Speaker 1: you talking about. You know. Well, he also says he's
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  Speaker 1: not a stupid white boy. You know, I'm not. I
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  Speaker 1: may be a white boy, but I'm not stupid. I
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  Speaker 1: know where the power is. I know where you thinking.
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  Speaker 1: I'm joking. I learned a long time ago about the
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  Speaker 1: Divine nine. That's why I spent so much time at
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  Speaker 1: Delaware State campaign and organizing my campaign in Delaware, not
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  Speaker 1: the Divine Nine. I mention, you'd told him the name
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  Speaker 1: of the Divine Nine. Let me say it sounds good,
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  Speaker 1: But I kind of get over, like all the politicians
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  Speaker 1: trying to be relatable and be funny, it's just it's
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  Speaker 1: too much. I really don't take much to impress us
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  Speaker 1: at all. Right, shout out yes and be excited. Man
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  Speaker 1: him to the cookout man, ready to run through the
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  Speaker 1: wall for him right now. Also, the scientist is taking
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  Speaker 1: over the Disney district. Now, I was really into this
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  Speaker 1: because every time I go to Disney. Of course, I
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  Speaker 1: got six kids, so I go to Disney a lot,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm always intrigued how Disney ran. It's it's it's property.
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  Speaker 1: So if you don't know, Disney owns hundreds of thousands
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  Speaker 1: of acres in Florida. But the way they got the
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  Speaker 1: acres were they controlled the land, meaning they governed the land,
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  Speaker 1: they governed the power, they governed the water, everything was
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  Speaker 1: controlled by them. Well, I guess you know, the scientists
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  Speaker 1: pissed him off. It they don't say gay lore. And
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  Speaker 1: now the scientists has taken everything over, so that everything
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  Speaker 1: that's an overreach of power. Government shouldn't have that kind
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  Speaker 1: of control over over Disney, right, and that's this was
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  Speaker 1: a This was something that was supposed to be like
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  Speaker 1: hundreds of years. So the fact that they pulled that
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  Speaker 1: after fifty years, it's really crazy. Goog what's going on? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what's happening here? What's going on bothering him about Disney?
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  Speaker 1: That he feel like he had to overreaches power to
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  Speaker 1: get that kind of control. And that was part of
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  Speaker 1: the reason why they actually built Disney in Florida, because
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  Speaker 1: they can control their own stuff. So I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what that means. Disney, you know, invested too many billions
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  Speaker 1: and billions of dollars to move, but I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how that affects everything. Now, you know that's crazy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's an overreaching government pod if you ask me. All right,
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  Speaker 1: well that is your front page news. Now, next hour,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you about this white student who is
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  Speaker 1: suing Howard University. Brother, Yeah, so we'll tell you about that.
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  Speaker 1: Next Hour's y'all get for me. So accepted racial discrimination? Right,
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  Speaker 1: we'll talk about does he go to Howard I talk
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  Speaker 1: about the next hour. But he did go when UH
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  Speaker 1: said he didn't like the way y'all were treating him right, well,
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  Speaker 1: does it? I mean, I'm saying it makes sense considering
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  Speaker 1: that he was probably one of the very few. Could
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  Speaker 1: you imagine him going to class every day? What you mean?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, but if you're a white person going into Howard,
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  Speaker 1: you're accepting the fact that you're different, right. But he
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  Speaker 1: also you know, he also sent out some tweets that weren't, uh,
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  Speaker 1: a little racial tweets. What happened? So you know, I
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  Speaker 1: want to talk about the next hour, but he talked
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  Speaker 1: some tweets, and then you know when he went to class,
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  Speaker 1: it was all people pressed them. Yeah, all day out
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  Speaker 1: of here. But get it off your chest. Eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If you need
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  Speaker 1: to vent, phone lines to wide open again. Eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If you live
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  Speaker 1: in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Boston or any of
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  Speaker 1: those areas, give yourself a little extra time because the
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  Speaker 1: roads out there disgusting. It's the breakfast club. Come on
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Now they want to see where it
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  Speaker 1: was going first. Okay, so you need two beautiful black
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  Speaker 1: women look next to or to you. What happened? And
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  Speaker 1: they trying to hit on me. I got a girl
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  Speaker 1: queen at home, and they're trying to hit on me.
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  Speaker 1: Why while taking craps out, I'll be trying to go
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  Speaker 1: down to three the store. They come out. He wanted
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  Speaker 1: the pool, and I'm like, oh, what should I do? Man?
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  Speaker 1: My girl is beautiful black woman. I don't want them
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  Speaker 1: do anything but maybe tip to me. Man noo, go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: tell him he should be thankful. It ain't that hard.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if you're an attractive man and you're doing
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  Speaker 1: what you're supposed to be doing in life, of course
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  Speaker 1: women are gonna be attracted. Team. So you just asking
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  Speaker 1: that question because you don't want to get along women.
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  Speaker 1: He walked out with his wife, my brother, my brother,
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  Speaker 1: my brother. There four words there, four words. It's a
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  Speaker 1: great car. Like, there you go. I'm about to say
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  Speaker 1: the great Callers Miller Maid for Awards fan was about
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  Speaker 1: to say that I don't cheat. I know a lot
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  Speaker 1: of black boys that cheat, but the black men I
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  Speaker 1: know in my life, we don't cheat. That's true. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? Brother? Get it off? He ch bro. I
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  Speaker 1: like to talk about the Disney fan because a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people don't notice. I ain't help get that land
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  Speaker 1: for real, when you read that at the same place
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  Speaker 1: you read Bill Cobb you were trying to buy MBC
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  Speaker 1: actually not looked it up. I'm being completely honest. CIA
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  Speaker 1: helped him buy it at a cheap price. So it's
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  Speaker 1: not surprise that doesn't. I'll come back to grab that
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  Speaker 1: the CIA helped Disney get that land in Florida. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta look that up. I don't know. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know what to be getting to look that up.
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  Speaker 1: So what's what's the point on it? Brother? What's your
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  Speaker 1: point on that? I'm just standing like the government that
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  Speaker 1: I take whatever it is, no matter what. So it's
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  Speaker 1: not surprised. I do see an article on the Daily
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  Speaker 1: Beasis says how the CIA helped Disney conquer Florida. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta read it though, read it though, Hello, who's this?
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  Speaker 1: What's up in the Netflix? But I brother, get you
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  Speaker 1: off your chest. I just want to say, man, looks
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  Speaker 1: up to you, man, Charlemagne, the Laddin's in the building.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: So I'm I just turned forty and I just had
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  Speaker 1: a baby, right, okay, brother, thank you man. It's my
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  Speaker 1: third son. Man, I got an eighteen year old, eleven
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  Speaker 1: year old, and the new born so it's a big
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  Speaker 1: gaps there. Okay, thank you, And I just realized, man,
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  Speaker 1: it is I'm tired. Man, like, oh my god, man,
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  Speaker 1: like getting up in the middle of the night taking
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  Speaker 1: diacor is making bottom. It's a lot. Yeah, it's a lot.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gotta tell us. We know, brother, my one
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  Speaker 1: year old beat me a bit and I couldn't do
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  Speaker 1: nothing about it. She grabbed my face so hard, like
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  Speaker 1: I thought, like I wanted to punch like she grabbed
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like I was almost. No. I love that.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot, man, But I want to just say,
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  Speaker 1: like I found out that my job that they had
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  Speaker 1: like this uh parental league thing and the men don't
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  Speaker 1: get paid for it, but the women doing I just
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  Speaker 1: think that crazy. Oh it's different, y they get maternal leave,
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  Speaker 1: paternal paternal Yeah, I'm board. I've got it red at it.
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  Speaker 1: Dah just throw his business out there. Oh, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: my bad. Wrong. That's a good thing to have, Ryan,
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  Speaker 1: You you get good thing, you go to the gym, bro.
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  Speaker 1: It is. It is a good thing to have. But man,
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  Speaker 1: we don't get paid for it. Lan nobody take that
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  Speaker 1: time them off man and not get a check. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you need to go to the gym. You need you
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: go to the gym. You take your vitamints that to
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  Speaker 1: get the energy you need. Brother, Man, he talking about
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  Speaker 1: money right now. I'm about money. Man. I'm trying. Mom.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying with the child like the mama. I can't
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  Speaker 1: take off that long without a check. Not you trying
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  Speaker 1: to do ski in the scheme. Get on here chess
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  Speaker 1: you need to vent, hit this up now. It's the
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  Speaker 1: what up are we lying? This is your time to
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. I got into a pool,
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: into a pool. We want to hear from you on
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Get on the phone right now. We're
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  Speaker 1: here to tell you what it is. Hello. Who's this Florida?
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  Speaker 1: How you doing? What's up? Florida? Get it off your chess,
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  Speaker 1: brother man. I do want to set a couple for it. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like everybody believe in it more. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Walk back to the house
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  Speaker 1: happier than you yesterday. If there are a couple of
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  Speaker 1: good keep body. You got to hold your head that's
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  Speaker 1: all amen? All right man, brother man, yo, yeah, all
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do the lad uh you're coming from doing
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  Speaker 1: ran through a little bit, through a lot, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't give you definitely can't do that. And you got
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  Speaker 1: to go over the universe. If you don't do that,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna always gamble on over the verse. There you go,
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  Speaker 1: a brother, the word word? Hello? Who's this? Ge? What's
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  Speaker 1: Two five? What's going on? Y'all? Whatever? Getting a f
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  Speaker 1: your chests? Hey? Why are you doing? Ladies good? How
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  Speaker 1: are y'all? Yes? How are you getting cool? I'm good?
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: I'm good. I like y'all. Show man, I'm pretty No
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  Speaker 1: man for to sound crazy? Brother? Hello, who's this? If
• 13:37
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• 13:43
  Speaker 1: when you call the pit, you gotta take us all bluetooth.
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  Speaker 1: we can't hear what you're saying. What's going on? You
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: on your damn you? What's going on? Charlomagne? Whatever? I'm
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: getting off your chest? He was doing? See what do
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  Speaker 1: you say? What do you say? My name is Joey'
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  Speaker 1: I'm from over each other in Florida. All right, get
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  Speaker 1: your chest, hey, man, I just want to I really
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: ain't got none big to get off my chest, but
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: I just want to say, Uh, I've been listening to
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  Speaker 1: you guys for so long already, and uh, you guys
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  Speaker 1: are great. Man. You guys make my my day every day, uh, Charlottagne, Man,
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  Speaker 1: Uh you've been a big help for me in uh
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  Speaker 1: in this mental health space. Man. Like Uh, since I've
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  Speaker 1: been listening to you, man, I go, I don't I
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: listened to you for like um just like uh, just
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  Speaker 1: like advice on life and things like that, because uh,
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: when I'm going through something, I try to listen to
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  Speaker 1: you and see if you went through the same theory. Man.
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  Speaker 1: And uh, A lot of the words you speak, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of public positivity that you put out in the world, man,
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  Speaker 1: really helps people. So uh thinking, man, and God blessed,
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  Speaker 1: thank you and uh yeah yeah man, And uh that's
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  Speaker 1: all I gotta say. Man. Uh, I appreciate y'all, and uh,
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  Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a great day. Man, be
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  Speaker 1: good brother, Thank you, Charlote, go ahead, Charlomagne, all right,
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  Speaker 1: he's doing my part there you go, get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chest eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: If you need to vent, you can hit us up. Now.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: We got rumors on the way. We got to talk
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: about Drake and how he feels about putting his exes
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: in his songs. We'll talk about it when we come back.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club of the morning, a breakfast Club Morning.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We are the
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning man. We got our co host
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  Speaker 1: with us this morning, Dreya and Lex P from The
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  Speaker 1: poor Man's Podcast. And let's get to the rumors. Let's talk.
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  Speaker 1: Cardi B. Thro my hast name or you gossiping or
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: you chatting the rumor report? I mean, I guess we're
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: on the breakast Club. This is were the tea spells,
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: right right on the Breakfast Club. Now, Cardi B. She
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: has to be doing I'm not sure how many hours
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: of community service or actually says fifteen days of community service.
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: This is from a twenty eighteen roll. She was involved
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  Speaker 1: in a strip club in Queens. Yesterday she said community
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: service has been the best thing that has happened to me,
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  Speaker 1: almost like a spiritual journey because sometimes I have leave
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: these centers in tears. Those people that we leave behind,
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  Speaker 1: they just need somebody to talk to and a little
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: push and you might be able to change their life forever.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: Dy XP. You ever had to do any community services? You,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you did. But I had to do community
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: service for fighting. Yeah, when I was in high school,
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: like yeah, okay, and then I had to do community
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: service again in like twenty when was this when? Oh yeah,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: because they can't trying to give me a d uy,
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: but I got driving instead, and then I still had
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: to do what you have to do with the community service.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Pick up trash off deside the road and a little
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: arn't suit you could pick the plays, okay. So I
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: did Boys and Girls Club, Okay, I know you can
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: do that. Did you have to do any No, I
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: know the community service. I just went to jail. You
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: just took the charge. I mean, you gotta take your
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: usually complete but that could be part of the police.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Part of the police could be community service, but that's
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: what usually ended up getting probation. I had to do
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: I had to do to pick up the trash. Oh
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: my god. So only as high I had to pick
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: up the trade in college. Pick up the trash, y'are
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: not good coulations. I'll follow the law, your community service,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: do for y'all. Would have did for body? No, because
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: I had to pick up trash. Yeah, I mean that's
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: all I was speaking up trash. But when I did
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: Boys and Girls Club, you know, it was that's got
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: to be a touching feeling, you know, kicking it with
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: the kids, you know. And I think that's good for
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Cardi because I feel like, you know, in twenty and eighteen,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: she was still Cardi b So this is kind of
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: like letting her know, like, you know, you don't have
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: to do that no more, right people up. Yeah, there's
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: never really a statue of limitations on beating people up.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Now you might get to a point where you pay
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: people to do it. You got to change them and
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: then so let him no, don't. I'm happy for her.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I think that this is good for her. You know. Well,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: congratulations to keep Palma as well. She get birth yesterday
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: welcomes her first child with a boyfriend, Darius Jackson, So congratulation.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: The baby's name is Leotis Andre Andrelton Jackson black Man. Yeah,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: I like Leotes. That's super black that's a black history name.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: They're gonna be honor and that young man about thirty
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be a mom stupid. And lastly, Drake says
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: he regrets name dropping his ex girlfriends in his songs.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I think, like sometimes when I've like said girls names
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: and songs, maybe those are the two things that I
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: look back on, I'm like, maybe I could have done
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: without like people for age or like disrupting somebody's life.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: I never, like the lyrics are never with ill intent,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: but like I had somebody one time be like, you know,
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: it's not necessarily what you're saying about me, and the
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: fact that you've said it, like you don't know what
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: it does to me, Like you don't know who my
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: boyfriend is at the time, where you don't know who
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: like what my family knows and doesn't know, you know,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: And if you express like any form of discontempt for
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: me in a song and say and call me by name,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, like I'm left to kind
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: of like pick up the pieces in my own life
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: that I've like tried to build up for myself. I've
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: like tried my best to stop doing that, but I
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: like to be honest in music, that's real. I mean
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: what you're saying is, you know what I mean. If
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: he wants to keep his own piece, he don't want
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: to disrupt the piece of others. But there's been times
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Drake his name dropped people's girls, names and songs on purpose.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: It's been it's been a couple, there's been a couple,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like it's okay
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: to talk about your experiences in music, but to name drop,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: like you're taking it a little too far. He definitely
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: say names like you know what's kartsy? Though I don't
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: think he ever would say anything that crazy though, because
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: he's slick with the bass he sa crazy. So no
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: man wants they're woman to be wrapped about, especially in
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: a Drake. So you know, I don't know when it's
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: a double one tendre medical that everybody's singing in the club,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: but you know that's directed towards you and yours. But
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta be good for some of the
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: women though, right, because it means what you mean, some
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: of these women got them late. I agree. I ain't
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: naming none of them. I can't which one he got lit.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: There's a few in my mind right now. But I
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: ain't saying, yeah, y'all going to rattle some names, though,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Well we gotta do it because y'all pour my podcast.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: I can think. I mean, I put it like this.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know how lit they got. I just know
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: that I never heard of them until that happened. But
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: there was a couple of Scripples. Typically what we were
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: thinking that people knew already, and I'm sure after that
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: name dropped, people started going to those clubs just to
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: see them in particulate even more. I didn't think about that.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I was only think about Kiki. That's all I was
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: thinking about. I don't know, ye, that's the only one.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I Yeah, I was thinking about the Scripples. Yeah, I
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: was thinking about a few. The last woman he dated,
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: like all of a sudden, she was getting a little
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: fashioned over there, the lights one, the lady with the son,
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: then to play basketball. The lady with the son. You
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: really narrowed it down, huh. I think I think her
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: son is actually I think top ten in the country.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: California is busy. All right, Well that is your rumor report.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: Now when we come back front Page News, we got
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: to tell you about this Caucasian that issuing Howard University
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: for racial discrimination. We'll talk about it when we come back.
• 21:48
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• 21:51
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• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the Guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: We have the ladies from The poor Man's Podcastria and
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: Lex Peace joining us to our co host today and
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: let's get in some front page news. Now. We have
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: a white student that is ensuing Howard University University School
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: of Law. He is seeking two million in monetary damages.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: He got a name for pain. His name is Michael Newman.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: He's suing for pain, suffering, emotional anguish and the damage
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: to his reputation. He suffered depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: He's playing this out. He had this planning for a
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: long time, and I'm gonna claim emotional discress. He's saying
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: vilification and humiliation. The laws of the laws of the
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: legends that Howard breeched this contract with Newman, who says
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: the university gave him a scholarship for twenty six thousand
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: per year for three years. What after a series of
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: incidents that led to his him being expelled scholarship for what?
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know any basketball? What do you dotball? What
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: did he do? Damn it? I didn't know why he
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: got all that money from ABCU. Now this is we
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: got a loserport because I want to read somebody's gango.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: The plantiff Michael Newman, is asking for two million dollars
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: in damages for his alleged pain suffering and emotional anguish.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: He says he became a target for discrimination following his
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: comments in a group chat with other students after showing
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: the picture of a slave's beaten and Bruce bat he said,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: but what did the slave do? Come on? Newman says
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: he repeatedly apologized. He also says he faced hostility on
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: chemist which students calling him mayaway panther. In a statement,
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: the school says the school is prepared to vigorously defend
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: itself in this lawsuit, as the claims provide a one
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: sided and self serving narrative of the events leading to
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: the end of the students enrollment at the university. I'm
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: gonna set up all my brothers and sisters. Who was
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: in that group chat, y'all got set up. Ain't no
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: way that man. I know the picture he sent out
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: that the picture of the brother that Will Smith just
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: played in the man's patient. I'm sure you said that
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: picture to a group chat full of black people and say, now,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: what did the slave do? You're trying to get a
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: reaction on. What did the slave do? Is a wild
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: that's nuts. You got what you desire? A game, they
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: said him as he was walking to class. Uh. Then
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: we said, what do they say called the male king?
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Man is king cracker allegedly cracker ass crackers. Let me
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: hear how they say mode and cracker ass cracker ass
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: cracker allegedly. I like that earlier? Well, you know, how
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: did I just feel like, especially now that we know
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: more contexts, he is he got what he desires. Game.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: There was like a list of like, um, something happened
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: at a university and black people like in the chat,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: and they were like calling white people different names, and
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: one of the names was milk cricket milk cricket is fired.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Dropping the clues from milk cricket like miltle cricket is fire,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Like little cricket. You get back when you put out
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Okay to me, that's like a slur for a slur,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: all right. Not everybody subscribing to Michelle Obamas when they
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: go low, we go high mantres. Some people when you
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: go low, they're gonna meet. Yeah, all right, So you
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: want to put those type of pictures in the group chat,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: You got exactly what you asked for, and it was
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: gonna be safe on camp. I think I still think
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: this was a setup. This is set up. He had
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: this in mind. He's like, I'm gonna put this in
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: this group chat and then they're gonna attack me, and
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: then I'm gonna play victim, you know what I mean.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: And they can go in too, like an all black school,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Like everybody know how black people are with each other anyway,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: like we get on each other. Like yeah, that's what
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. She was gonna be safe after that. And
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: what was the screenshot? I know somebody got the screenshot
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: for that was looking for. I can't. I hope that
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: the brothers and sisters in that group chat. Didn't try
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: to explain to him, you know anything about slavery. There's
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: nothing to respond to. After somebody does something like that,
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: there's only one accurate response, and that response is indeed
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: crack ass cracker period milk milk crack cricket. Is there's
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: a noisy ass milk cricket. It's making all this noise
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: at night. We can't even sleep. That's exactly what they do.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Just be a rowdy. That is your front page news.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Now when we come back, let's open up the phone
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: lines five eight five one o five one. This comes
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: from the Drake conversation. That's right. We're asking, you know,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Drake said he regretted name dropping his ex girlfriend's in song.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: So we're asking, what do you regret doing to your ex? Yeah,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: it was something you did to your ex you absolutely
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: regret doing. Now look at them. Look, let's look at them.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Just look at look like yes, we'll talk about it
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: when we come bat. A couple of milk crickets on it,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: especially after the BLM movie. Eight five eight five one
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: oh five one. Let's talk about it. It's the breakfast club.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Come morning, the breakfast Club. It's topic time. The phone
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: called eight hundred five A five one oh five want
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: talk about it. Everybody is dj n V Charlemagne the guy.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: us eight hundred five eight five one oh five one,
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: we're asking this comes from the Drake Conversation. Drake said
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: he regrets name dropping his ex girlfriends in this song.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: So we're asking what do you regret anything that you've
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: done to your ask we have Dre and Lex Pete
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: from the Poor Moms podcast co hosting with us. So
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: let's start. What you lady, when you got a question?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I would want to ask Drake? But before we go
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: to them, like, you regret mentioned in your exits and songs,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: But do you regret mentioning other people's girls and songs?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Do you regret other people's girls who now? Are they
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: excess because of you? I'm sure he doesn't go ahead, So,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: so do you regret doing anything to any of your exes?
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: You know, I haven't really done a lot of crazy
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: things to my No, I don't listen to podcast. I
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: don't really be hearing enough to do crazy stuff. I
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: really don't. But when I was in high school. My
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: high school boyfriend he broke up with me and I
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: found out he was cheating on me, and I wouldn't
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: SPEC's in my house toilet paper. Yeah, me and my
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: homegirl and we used like silly strings and his mama nu,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: it was mean. She called the nixt day. I know
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: you came in tp my house and you telling me
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: that that didn't escally you did. You had the mind
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: to do that and hide and come on that that's
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: what you mean to tell me. Future exes didn't get
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: worse coming there, for I did. But it wasn't an
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: ex card though it was a strange. It was a
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: stranger's card. As they saw my parking spot. Oh lord,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I was like, girl, what about you? Honestly, I'm i'
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: gonna keep it one hunted This morning, the coffee kicked in.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to lie before. This is crazy because I
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: was with my ex and I was not a great partner,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: and I used to, um, I've done some things. We're
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: like what we He would make me mad and I
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: would just go off and just you know, not cheat
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: because we were kind of like on and off, and
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I regreted for so long. But honestly, I found out
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: some tea last night that he did recently, and I'm
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: just like, I don't regret nothing. Everything I put him through.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: He deserved it. With every he is just not a
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: good person. So what did you do? Um? You know, like,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: for example, one time, he had made me really mad
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and we worked together. At this point, we were still
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: dealing with each other, and UM, I was like, you
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: know what, I'm leaving and I'm never talking to him again.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: So I left and the next day I flew out
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: and I went to combos with somebody, Yes, and I
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: had a ball cheating because we weren't to get you
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But it's like, you know, I
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: used to play games because we were we were never
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: really like together together, but like when we got together,
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I was trying to be a good person and make
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: up for the things I had done in the past.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: But now do I look back and feel bad about it? No,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: he deserved all that all I did, and I didn't
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: regret it though, Yeah, yeah, I thought I regretted it.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I thought I regretted it before yesterday. I'm feel that
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: all right, well, doing Hey what's your name? Angelica? Hey? Angelica?
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: What did you do that you regret? Well, I can't
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: really don't regretted. But I heard my name into besides
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: this pretty little sup wheel draft and it was daddy
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Dad passed away. So are you saying that you called
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: You're saying that you called your name into that man's
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: paint and called, huh you keyed is called what you're
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: saying I did, But it was his dad who passed
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: the waves cars while he was still driving. Something are
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: you going to do now? Wan? You did that to
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: Herbert Trump? You need to go to jail, Dre. You
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: better not say nothing. He forgave me for it. I
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: did it twice twice. Well, we would talk about a
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: trip together and he decided not to come and I
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: had to drive myself down there crime by myself. So
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: I did it before the tripping on. I came back
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: at these again, and you sound so happy. I hope
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: that man Daddy was haunting you from a grade one
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: more year, Edges. I know that much you want to
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: project him right now, projecting I ain't never had no
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: X to doing. You had to, definitely, I know. I
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: just look at this Lisa from Harris pa heye, Lisa,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: what's something you did to your X that you regret.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I found this phone on top of the phrase and
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I thought a text someone for the girls. So I
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: popped up at his job. What are you work? And
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: what you do at his job? I called the sea.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: I was trying to embarrass him and I had up embarrassed.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Why I haven't you slipped on the floor and done
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: stupid birdhouse? And everybody could see us arguing to the
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: glassdoord all that at a birdhouse? Warehouse? Ware house? Our
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: warehouse together? Now? I'm sure, no, absolutely not. I'm sorry.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Now I think forbody a little would you said dref?
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm a little crazy, not gonna
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: think about it because I forgot. How do you popple
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: up on somebody once tide? This was a recent? How recent?
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Like twenty twenty recent? Yeah? What happened? It wasn't on purfect?
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: So I ran into him outside the club and I've
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: seen him and I ran up on him, like I
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: started going off. I was like, you got me missed up?
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Why if he wasn't calling you back? You know we
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: were going through some things. He definitely can't block me.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: You deserved it. Why do you at un? I don't
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: even know what happen or whatever he said? Dre, did
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: she do? I need to get her? Eight hundred five
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. We're asking, did you
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: ever do anything to your ex that you regret? Call
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: us up right now? Is the Breakfast Club? Good morning?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Call me into the Breakfast Club top one morning. Everybody's
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: d J n V Charlemagne the guy. We are the
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We got Dre and lex P from the
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Poor Mons podcast. Here why somebody online three saying lex
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: P live because I know something. Some guys saying why
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: calling in? Oh, what's your next name? It doesn't even matter,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: It don't even matter. Hello, Hello, yeah, Hi, listen what
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: you do to your X that you regret? Um soon
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: as I said my name, I said, I should have
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: said it was anonymous. But I regret you on him?
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: That means you still with him? No? No, no, I'm
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: with my husband on him? What you see? Why? Stop? No?
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: But he was such a nice guy. She just said
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: she regrets her husband broke up. Now, if I'm your husband,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I'm mad you regret that? That means you were not
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: together anymore? No, No, that sounds bad, dude. I should
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't tell you something you don't deserve happiness. You
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. I'm gonna tell you why you
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: don't deserve happiness. She She says she regrets being married
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: to her husband and talking about she missed her ex.
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: He's a good guy. He's a good guy. Come on, man,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: First of all, don't be living a fing out here.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: That's not true. What happened. What happened was I feel bad,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: just took He's a nice guy. We were friends first
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: and I seated on him. But I love her husband.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: I'm happy you still thinking about him. Don't see him
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: one time? Girl? So what made you marry the husband? Oh?
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: Because he's amazing? You know, nice times finish? Uh live?
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: My husband is like you know, I like that. If
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: you get man, so fat you if you cheat on
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: me and married a guy, you cheating on with me?
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: We don't ever think about me ever, ad I don't
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: want to ever hear yourself talking about him. You're all
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: thinking about him with your real name? Yeah, that's her
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: last name? We got car I d terriford name. What's
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: your full name? Yeah? What's her full name? What's her
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: full name? Tell me you want to know? Yes, you really, yes, yes,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: cash dollars right now. I don't putting your full name
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: out there? What all rights? How does she get? That's
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: what you get? Miss, I'm not messing with Hello. Who
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: this is? Kaysha Kayisha? Good morning? What's something you did
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: to extra regret? I don't regret nothing I've ever did
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: any of my extration period of You don't even know
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: the story qu you did, Kaysha. Well, um, I put
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: a twig and my baby daddy, um da tank twig
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: hired windows to a brick through his mama window, my mama.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: You need to stop listening to the Poor of Mind podcast.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: They're bad influence. Clearly you put a twig. What does
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: a TwixT in the gas tank do? Same thing of
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: banana do? I'm sure banana sugar does. Oh yeah, ok, yeah,
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: you are in jail on you just the one man
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: or multiple men? No? Well so too when you when
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: your lifetime movie coming up? Oh it's not Were you
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: from Florida? I asked Miami? You single? Yes? Yeah? You
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: ever wonder why you look in the mirror? Actually I'm nice,
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: but I want to ask people my actions are reacted. Okay,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: tell me what? Tell me what some whoa, tell me
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: what some of those men did to you? My heart
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: is very fresh. You ain't answered the question what did
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: the man do to you? Sure she's like her heart, mama.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: So since the mama want to go God, Yeah, you're
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: going down to I feel that these mamas be messy.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: You're going down, Mildred? What's your name? Man? I already stood, yeah.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you no more. I
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: try not to have conversations with people I know going
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: to hell, So I don't want to talk to you. Okays,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: talk to you like this, stalling name hell right across
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: from the milk, crazy away from me? What story, lady?
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Men deserve the worst treatment. I don't regret anything. I
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: don't regret nothing when you do something to me. First,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I'll say that I wish nothing every every time it's
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: been a reaction to something. I don't just jump off
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: of the deep end and just do things just because
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: it's always a reaction. So we all just need to
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: do better, so it's premeditated. I wish nothing but happiness
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: with the men who've done Lex and dre wrong. Okay,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: I hope. I wish nothing but the best for why
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: down I won't listen. I'm gonna make sure he never
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: sees success. Jesus, look we come back. We got your
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: rumor report. We gotta talk as hell. Yeah, do y'all
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: have an only fans money chance? No? Baby, what's the
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: craziest thing somebody asked you guys to do the craziest
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: thing somebody asked me to like shame them? Yeah, I
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: think it's um people want to see. I had a
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: guy who was constantly my DM's asking me to eat
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: food like he wanted me to eat food like and
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: just like an as mr thing. Yeah, it was very weird.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: We'll tell you what gets your only fans. I got
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: a special announcement right before Dankey of to Day too, okay,
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: and so man has a special announcement after the rooms,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: So don't move. It's the breakfast Club of Mona. Everybody
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: put it in Baku from Black Panther on his own here. Yes,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: does anybody realize he's not rapping on this? You don't
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: need to, Yeah, I just want to. I remember when
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: we used to clown people for having stiff hips. Now
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: it's a whole TikTok challenge. Ain't the whole point to
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: have you both have stif hips with this. All Yeah,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: it's my time to shine. Let me see, let me see,
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: this is the benefit of going to an all white school.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: The milk Cricket stiff as hell. If I ever seen
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: you do at the club, I might call the police.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I might think something on the sees you or something
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I'm like, is that the name of that dance? The
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: milk Cricket? The milk Cricket? We don't call it. That's
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: why it's pop on till the little white kids doing it?
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: A little white kids. Jesus. All right, well we all
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast club. We have our our guest co host,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: dra A lex Pete, of course from The Poorman's Podcast,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: joining us. If you haven't subscribed to The Poormon's podcast,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: you need to. Yeah, didn't need to. And now when
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: we come back, we got to talk Iggy Azalea. She
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: talks about some of her weirdest request on Only Fans.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: Interesting and I want to hear some of you guys
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: weirdest requests. I can't believe you not the only fans
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: faed I would think that put only fans we are
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: classy doesn't have to be sexual, you know that. Ye,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: People like y'all. I mean, you're right. You know what,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: we do have Patreon. We have so we do give
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: bonus content of us talking. Okay, okay, okay, and I
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: want to see that I enjoyed it, and y'all talk.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: All right. We'll get to the rumors when we come back.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: And let's I got a special announced at eight o'clock
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: right before Donkey too. Man, all right, so don't move.
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. God, Morning morning everybody. It's DJ
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Envy Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: got our co host Drea and Lex p from the
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Paul Man's Podcast. Let's get to the rumors. Let's talk
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: on Marion or you gossiping or chatting the rumor report.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess we're on the Breakfast Club. This
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: is were the tea spills, right right on the Breakfast Club.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Ah Man shout to Simone and Rachel from the Bronx. Now, Simone,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I thought that she was in a relationship with Omarion.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: She was being catfished. She even paid the gentleman of
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: the person's phone bill and everything. She had no clue
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: that it wasn't last because come on, NH, why would
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: you pay a millionaire's phone bill? Like, y'all gotta think? Amen,
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: you donna discern mean I'm hitting on the city boys, man,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: something I don't understand. They hate for the city boys.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: I had getting bill paid by any means necessary. Let's listen.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: She was on doctor film. Why have you never met
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: his manager? To pay three thousand dollars to meet him?
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: His manager wants you to pay three thousand dollars to
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: meet someone that you're engaged to. Actually, right, does that
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: sound logical to you? No? It doesn't. That's why I
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: want to find out the truth. Where he rides his
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: bike and goes to the mall his manager, what is
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: your uncle? You all get on this radio and tell
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: y'all every other day the craziest people, craziest people in
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: America come from the Bronx in all of Florida. Oh
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: my gosh. You know what, whoever took advantage of that lady?
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Because she didn't sound all the way there? Yeah, so
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I think it's not like somebody took advantage of her.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: Y'all should be ashamed. You think all the men that
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: y'all got money out of had had it all game
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: and emotionally they had it all the other Yeah. Yeah,
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: and they deserved it. He didn't deserve that. I mean,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: I think I do agree with you. That's you know,
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: probably something there. You know, mentally that's a little bit off.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: But I also feel like people that believe those type
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: of things want to believe those kind of things. She
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: wants to believe that fantasy. That probably what got her
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: through the day. She probably woke up every day happy
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: to be talking to what she believes to be well.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: Marion did a video for the Young Lady. It's crazy
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: how far these people will go to convince and manipulate
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: my fans to think that they are actually speaking with me,
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: from seeming fake driver's license and passports, even face timing
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: them claiming that there was a bad connection when they
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: never even seen me. I'm so sorry, simone. I haven't
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: been speaking with here, not in a relationship. You haven't
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: sent me any money. I want everyone to be aware
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: that if someone is online claiming to be me and
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: asking for money, that you are not speaking with me.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I will never do that. Poor young lady man. I
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: was with him though, but I feel like some people
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: just wouldn't even return. You think he should have get
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: if not. No, I don't wanted to reward the throw.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: I'm about to say, you think he should have given
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: her the money back? That would have been nice. That
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: would have been nice nice. I mean, I mean, it's
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: not his fault in any way, shape or form, but
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: it just been in a nice jest to say, here
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: take the but something something he might be like, well,
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: maybe you know she didn't really didn't give a three grand,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: you know, I mean maybe she's halfway, you know, halfway
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: faking in line. Do you feel like she might not
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: be telling half a little bit? I wouldn't, you know,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't send a video. But how I know she
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: really sent three grand? That's real. You know it's true.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know it's not true. Stop my situation. I'm
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: sorry for it, but that's true. Right, I did the video.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I need a screenshot of the wire. And sometimes you know,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: doctor Phil be making stuff up too. He might have
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: just wrote that because you trying to make a good show.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I don't see some stuff. I'm like, she got a point.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I give her ticket to the next show, yeah, backstage
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: fast as we take a shot for the Instagram. But
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: other than that, well, that young lady lit Man it's
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: the final episode of Doctor Phil. Okay, you made it.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: She made it, shed the Bronx right now. She's hot
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: in the Bronx right now now, he wrote, Now Eggzella,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: you know she has he only only fans account that
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: she started I think like a month ago, and she's
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: making some money and she's talking about some of the
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: weirdest things people ask for. Tell me I'm worthless. Somebody
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: doesn't work. Oh okay, if you want to hear a
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: little thing like some of us my stuff, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: They'll be like, oh god, uggy, please please please. I
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: know that you don't have time for my tiny little thing,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: but please can you just tell me like what you
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: think about it? And then I'll be like, oh, that's disgusting?
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Is that even a you call that a gouts on?
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Why are you wasting my time with the semififty dollars
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: right now? Don't you message me again unless you give
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: me fifty dollars next time. Don't waste my time like
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: this again. Maybe me like it, but also some guys
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: I just talk to them about what the fuck you
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: on Netflix, and I eventually likes to talk. I'm a
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: chatting bitch, like all, am I chatting I do on
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: Twitter now I just do it on Okay, do micro
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: penis is get that same type of treatment from y'all?
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I have been fortunate in nots and I have to
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: deal with it. Okay, Um, you know, I had a
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: situation where I encountered a micro penis like housemalls micro
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: it was. It was really it was like the milk crecket.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: It wasn't a milk cricket either. I'm just about to
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: side yes. And it's crazy because me and my homegirl
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: actually found out that we both had messed around with him,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: so we started calling him led. It was like for
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: a little Yeah, that learning disability. But that funny what
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I think it's fifty dollars talking. You
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: got you're doing all that fited dollars. I feel like
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: you're eggy, like you get to charge a little you
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: can charge. I don't agree. You don't know her financial situation,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: I don't, but I think it's good. I think only
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: fans is really her lane, Like she's really attractive. Yeah, yeah,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: she's the alldest guy. She's talented. Yeah, I mean, I
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: mean she's good at like you know, I'm not gonna
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: lie to you. When was the last time somebody got
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: in the car? Was like, man, put on that new
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Iggy bro. Well, we don't know if it has been
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: new Iggy. Yes see, I don't know. Let me look up.
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And I'm not dissing her music.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that nobody gets in the car. No,
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I did it. I'm from the South. I listened to different,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: you know, type of music. But I'm just saying, like
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: me and my friends, we don't get in the car.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: But I feel like only fans is good for her.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Damn it, man, you double down all right. Let me
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: see the last thing you put out with twenty twenty one.
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: It was called the End of an Era. Did you
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: listen to it and it came up? All right? Exactly? No.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: August thirteen, twenty twenty one, on em Party. I don't think.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like she gonna She's obviously making
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: a killing on it. Like I said, she's very attractive
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: thinking only fans. A lot of a lot of the
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: grab girlies are starting to do that, and they eating money. Yeah,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Erica Banks just started only only fans. Y'all keep trying
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: to clean this up. We just keep your having her
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: nigg is in a long time. We're gonna place him
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: now a four after the hour. We need to from
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Chicago named James Taylor to come to the front of
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: the congregation. We'd like to have a word with him.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: But before Donkey, I got a special announcement in a
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: couple of minutes. Can we do that? Can we do
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: it after Iggy? If you go ahead, let Meg Rock
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: turn Iggy back up. Come on every Day. I wait
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: your ass up. Breakfast Club on Power What old five
• 49:17
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• 49:21
  Speaker 1: We told y'all last year we was rescheduling, and the
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: time for rescheduling has come. Okay, Saturday, April twenty second,
• 49:28
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• 49:30
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• 49:34
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• 49:50
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• 50:29
  Speaker 1: And you know I will not do an event like
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  Speaker 1: don't get a day up. Next, Let's go Maine. Say
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: the game. Don't get out the shame man you are.
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: Donkey Today does not discriminated. I might not have the
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: song to today, Bro, I got to don't do day
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: we feel I need to be a Donkey man practice
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: club bitches. He just don't give to day today. Wow,
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: don't here Today for Tuesday, February twenty eight is going
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: to a young man from Chicago named James Taylor. Okay,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: he's twenty years old, and I'm highly upset. I'm just
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: finding out about this story. But some people amongst us
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: might feel this is the perfect way to end black history.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Mom see, James Taylor allegedly robbed a man at gun point. Okay. Now,
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: I have fully embraced the fact that I'm old school. Okay,
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: I was born in the nineteen hundreds, nineteen hundred and
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: seventy eight to be exact. So the way twenty year
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: old to do things is not the way we did things.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: The people I knew who committed arm robberies actually tried
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: to not get caught. I mean, believe it or not, kids,
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: that was the whole point of an arm robbery to
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: not get caught, probably only second so you know what
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: you were stealing from the person, all right? Not getting
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: caught is the one B to the one A of
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: the arm robbery. But this generation is a little different. Okay.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: This young man twenty years old from Chicago allegedly robbed
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: the thirty five year old man who was parked in
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: front of his house around one thirty am. Now, listen,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: you pull up to your place of residence around one
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: thirty am, you might, you know, be a little high.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I had a couple of trains. You know, it's a
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: Saturday night. I know it's freezing in Chicago. You just
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: want to get in the house, right. Not only do
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: you want to get in the house, this thirty five
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: year old man had just gotten some fried chicken. Now
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know what kind of fried chicken it was,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna just assume him. On a Saturday night
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: in Chicago, it had to be Harolds. You know what
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: I mean? Correct me if I'm wrong. Chicago, but don't
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: don't wanted the Harrolds stay open until like five am. Am.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: I making this up. I feel like one of those
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Harrolds in Chicago stays open until five am. But just
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: imagine you got a four wing four shrimp combob water.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, some hushpuppies, all right. Well,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: if you got a ten piece wing and a mac
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: and cheese bowl with chicken mixed in, all right, I'm
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: just trying to paint the picture for you. Okay, you
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: got this fried chicken from Harold, and you just want
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: to get in the house on a Saturday night, be high,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: full and happy and go to sleep. But no, here
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: comes James Taylor, just disturbing your piece, all right, asking
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: for a light. One thirty in the morning. You walking
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: in Chicago and some man with dreads walk up to
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: you asking for a light. You might want to run, okay,
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: but the man just said he ain't got no light.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: All right. But then this twenty year old tapped a
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: man on the shoulder, okay, tapped the man on the shoulder,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: and you know, put a gun in his face. Okay.
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: And when the man turned around, James put a gun
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: in his face and told the victim to run it.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: And all the victims hat on him was his keys. Okay,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: two dollars in cash a debit card and the fried chicken. Now,
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: I've told y'all before that fried chicken is a symbol
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: of freedom right for black people in America, especially black
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: women in Virginia, because after the Civil War, black women
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: understood their freedom meant they could fully grasp some agency
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: over their lives. All will created the sustaining economic freedom
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: put themselves through their culinary tallenge. So sisters used to
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: carry fried chicken and other big goods on their heads
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: waiting around at the train stations, and when the trains
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: would pull up, they would tell their fried chicken and
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: bake goods. And since so a few jobs are readily
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: available or even accessible to black women, that's how they
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: made their money, using their culinary talents to provide for
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: their families after the Civil War. So, once again, stop
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: letting white supremacist food y'all in thinking fried chicken to
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: the negative stereotype of black people, because it's not. It's
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: a symbol of economic freedom. What does that have to
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: do with to Dave donkeyre today? Absolutely nothing, okay, Because
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: in this situation, fried chicken didn't lead to someone's freedom.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: It actually led to James Taylor's arrest. James Taylor right now,
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: it's charged with arm Robbie with a firearm, aggravated unlawful
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: use of a weapon, aggravated possession of a stolen motor vehicle,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: and a legal possession of a debit card to judge
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: or the tailor to pail fifteen thousand dollar bell deposit
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: to go home on an electric monitor, and a judge
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: told Taylor, who has no criminal background, that he faces
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: a minimum of twenty one years in prison if convicted
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: of the armed robbery charge. Now, I know y'all liked Chicken, right,
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: and I know y'all like, damn, that's criminal, okay, and
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: being criminalist corny, So I understand why you're getting dunky
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: of today. But you know, dunky to day is all
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: about giving people the credit they deserve for being stupid. So,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: of course, on robbery is stupid, but it's a little
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: bit more than that. Okay. How exactly did James Taylor
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: get caught? What y'all think? What he used the debit card?
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: You use the debit card to stop and get gassed? Yeah, okay, Well,
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: according to the prosecutor, after James Taylor took this man's keys,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: his debit card, his two dollars and the fried chicken.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: James Taylor got into the victim's car. He didn't start
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: the car. He started eating that devil grand fried chicken.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: Literally got into the victim's car and started eating the chicken.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you drive away? You gotta eat it hot,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: You gotta eat it while it's hot. Got to eat
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: it whiles's hot. Come on, now, this makes perfect sense
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: under normal circumstance. Yea, But when you just committed an
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: armed robbery and you're sitting in the car the person
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: you just robbed, you don't sit there and eat the chicken. Okay,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: this man sat in the car so long eating the
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: food that the victim had time to dial nine one
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: one and the police pulled up a few minutes later. Okay,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: I'm really sitting there thinking to myself, was this man
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: committing the crime or was he just hungry? I mean,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: of course there's a crime, but damn for you to
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: not even think of getting the way you had to
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: stop and eat right then and there. It might be
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: some nuance to this niggatry because maybe, just maybe this
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: man really needed a meal. But that won't stop him
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: from getting the credit he deserves. To being stupid. Please
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: give James Taylors the sweet shouts of the Hamletones. Oh no,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: you are dogee, the damn the do gee. Oh the
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: day that sounded like fried chicken. That's the Helmettons. You
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: got a picture the guy? Yes, I do have a
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: picture of guy. But come on, he's from Chicago. You
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: know what he looks like? What does that mean? You
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: want to play game? Believe it was not. We don't
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: need to play a game. Why you want to play
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: a game? Yes? Oh god, let's play a game off? Yes?
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: What rac right? James Taylor, twenty years old of Chicago,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: one thirty in the morning, robbed a man of some
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: fried chicken, two dollars, a debit card in the man's car, keys,
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: and did not even try to get away, sat in
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: the car and ain't the fried chicken? DJ? Yes? What
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: race is? Most people are gonna think black, right, because
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: it's fried chicken, it's Chicago, and it's one thirty in
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: the morning. Right, But I'm not thinking that way what
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: you're thinking, see, I'm thinking heroin at him? Oh r
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: r R. Could be two maga guys with maga hats
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: on exactly. Remember what happened before, that has happened before exactly.
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: And because of that, I'm going white. I'm going Caucasian. Okay.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Lex James Taylor, twenty years old from Chicago, all right,
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: robbed a man of two dollars, a debit card, his car, keys,
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: and some fried chicken. It didn't even try to get away.
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: Sat in the car. They the pride chicken. Guess what, racy.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I don't want to end Black History Month like this,
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: but I'm sorry anybody that's sitting in the car. They
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: smell that chicken and way they can't even start the car.
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: It's not giving milk cricket. It's tonight. It's definitely giving
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: a black man. Okay, Okay, I would have to agree.
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, black man, come on, please, please don't
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: be I'd like all three of y'aller though, that y'all
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: are absolutely positively wrong. Okay. Reason that y'all are wrong
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: it's because, okay, y'all forget this another option. But this
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: is not a black person, but this is a nigga.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: I can I believe that your opinions on a black person.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: I didn't know I could. Oh wow, hungry and that
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: picture one thing he wasn't hungry. No my out. Can
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: this can this? Can this nigga evolve to a black man? Yes? Okay,
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: but right now nigga's nigga. Okay, you don't get the
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: full sentence. No, I hope he first charge charge. Thank
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: you for that. Donkey to day. Now when we come back,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: knee Drug Glover to WHI will be joining us. She
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: has a new book, Drama Free. We're gonna came home.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: When we come back, she don't move. It's to breakfast Club.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: Go morning, the breakfast Club, Breakfast Club. Your morning's will
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: never be the same. Morn everybody see and v Charlemagne
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are to breakfast Club. We got a
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: special guests in the building. She's back Nature Glover to
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: ave welcome. How are you? First of all new book
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: coming out, Drama Free of dramatory Managing unhealthy family relationships.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: You have no idea how on time this book is?
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: What does the title mean? Ah? What doesn't it mean?
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: What is an unhealthy relationship? It's anything that is problematic
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: and persistent. You know, it's not just childhood trauma. It's
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: also issues with in laws and lended families and some
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: of these cousins and all sorts of things to what
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: made you write this book. Do you get some problems
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: in your family that you have to sort out? Well,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm a therapist, so I help people with problems,
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: and I think we all to some degree have something.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: Why why are boundaries always such a focal point for
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: your book? Because I think it is a focal point
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: for relationships. We have to create new expectations, and with family,
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: we do give a lot of passes. It's like, well,
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: this is so and so so they should always answer
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: the phone when I call. Well, that person has a
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: job and the thing that they're doing right now is
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: more important than hearing about your court show or whatever
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: that is. You know. I think sometimes we have to
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: set a new standard within families, especially with a level
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: of awareness we have now. I think this is now
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: the time when people are more aware of Oh I
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: don't have to call them back, I don't have to
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: visit them. We are woke and we are aware of
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: where we want to be and where we don't want
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: to be. How can you tell the difference between like
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: family dysfunction and that's just how we've always been. Well,
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: the norm can be normal for you can still be unhealthy.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: There are a lot of things that I hear, oh,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: we used to get beat or oh you know, this
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: is how my mam wad talk to me, and it's like, well,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: cussing you out. It can be the norm in your family,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: but it's not healthy. And so some of those things
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: we have to think about in general. Is this behavior
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: that should be tolerated by anyone, behavior that I would
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: except from a friend. Is this behavior that I would
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: see as suitable from a partner? What's the biggest misconception
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: you see when it comes to family, that you have
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: to like people there you go. I think a family
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: is like a class, right, Like when you start a
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: new grade, but it's thirty people in your class and
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: maybe three or four you vibe with, right. I think
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: it's the same with families. Like it's some people it's
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: whatever their personality. Your personality is, like this cousin and
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: this uncle, come on, y'all and the rest of them.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: It's like, oh, no, they're all cool. I really like them.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: But they are just certain people personality wise. And that's
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: the part we're not considering that there are people, even
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: with your children, there are certain you know, certain kids,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: you're like, this is my guy, you know, based on personality,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: based on how much they seem to be like you
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: or interested in your life. My oldest daughter likes to
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: tell me that my third daughter is my favorite, and
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: that bothers me is true. I don't think so, you know.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: But it's like, I don't like it if you don't
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: think it's true. I don't think so because I don't
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: feel like I have a favorite child. And I'll be
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: trying to explain that to her. Did your third daughter
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: remind you of yourself? No, actually my second daughter does. Okay,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: So I wonder, I wonder why they're seeing this allegiance.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know, Well, something is happening. I find that
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: with parents sometimes they will deny no, I don't have
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: a favorite. To know, I treat everybody to say when
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: clearly they are not. And that's okay because we don't
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: treat all people to say, and it's okay to recognize that, like, hey,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: I am giving this person more attention because of X,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: Y Z or I noticed that too, and you know,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: maybe try to be fair or maybe not, you know,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: but I think to deny it sometimes can be problematic
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: for the sibling relationship. I just feel like that could
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: lead to an unhealthy family relationship amongst the siblings. I'm
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: playing favorites and I'm not. You know, I think that's
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: in everybody's family when they have when you have a
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: bunch of kids, it's like I catered to my daughters
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: more than my sons. Why because my daughter is catered
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: to me loving. They're cuddling with daddy. If I get sick,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: they're gonna lay in bed and rub Daddy's back and
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: then my daddy, you know, I mean from my third daughter.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: That's that's what they do. That's it, you know what
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: I mean. The rest of the black your dad, you're good.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: I see that, Like, but the rest of what they're
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: gonna lay there like they're gonna they're gonna come for
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: dad and take a liking to that. Yeah, but do
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: you acknowledge that? Do you say that to them? Like,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: you're right? And this is why. So here's an opportunity
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: for you to come cuddle with me. Yeah, but you
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: know what, and this is gonna sound crazy. My son
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: is a nineteen year old football play. If he got
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: in the bed and cuddle with me, it would just
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: feel awkward to me. At me like that. Wow, bro,
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: we got six kids, yes, three of them a cuddle age.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: But you referenced the nineteen year old son. No, because
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: my daughter's cud of with me, my son. They're two, three,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: my daughters, the dogs getting the bed and cuddle with dad,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: My nine, my eight, my six, my my one year old.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: But my nineteen. It would just feel a little off.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: That's messed up, man. That's why men feel. That's why
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: we'd be so closed off and don't know how to
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: show emotions, you know what I mean? Get that made
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: a little cuddle time my son? How value today? What
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: is That's not? That's not that's horrible. Brow. Let's talk
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: about cycle breakers. Yes, now, that's very important, especially when
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: it comes to our dynamical family, right, yes, yes, yes.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: Cycle breakers are people who are the first in their
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: family to do a thing, the first in their family
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: to be rich, to go to college, to maybe not
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: go to college, to be married, all sorts of things.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: And I think when you are a cycle breaker, there
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: is a lot of pushback from the people who have
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: not changed, from the people who are still in you know,
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: maybe some of those unhealthy relationships because you know, it's
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: hard to see people do something that you couldn't, or
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: do something that feels like a threat to who you are,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: or do something that you know makes you think, gosh,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: am I supposed to change too. So being a cycle breaker,
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of their support comes from people
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: outside their family. Sometimes it comes from you know, that
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: chosen family, and may come from you know, some of
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: those other family members that you don't see us. Often
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: it may come from watching TV shows and identifying with
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: you know, some influencer or all sorts of things. But
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: you know, I think cycle breaking is important. It's also
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: really tough because you have to figure out a way
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: to be supported. How important is chosen family? Oh my gosh,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: it's everything. You know. In our families, we sometimes choose.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: Remember I said, you know it might be these three
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: people that you pick. But you know, when we are
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: outside of that family system, we have the ability to
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: go to work and say, Okay, I really like this person,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: and I really like this person, come on, you're you're
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: my family now. And we can do that with our
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: friends and it's just easier. The relationships are based on
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: not blood, but just how we feel about each other.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: They're more authentic, and I think that is the really
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: important piece with the chosen family. Now, troubleshooting relationships with siblings. Yes,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: let's talk about that sibling aspectcause how many brothers and
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: sisters you have? Five are? You're all good as it's
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  Speaker 1: something that you like more than the others. So how
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  Speaker 1: do you tell siblings to deal with that? You know,
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  Speaker 1: I think it goes back to that, you know, it's
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  Speaker 1: based on your personality. It's based on who you feel
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  Speaker 1: you can have that authentic relationship with. And we don't
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  Speaker 1: feel like that with everyone, even if they're related to us.
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  Speaker 1: And with siblings. Sometimes I see impacting siblings is when
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  Speaker 1: the oldest sibling had to be a caretaker for the
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  Speaker 1: younger siblings, and they have this idea of like, this
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  Speaker 1: is my sister, but it's my child, This is my brother,
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  Speaker 1: but this my baby. You know, here it is you
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  Speaker 1: forty and a thirty five and you mother and them,
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  Speaker 1: and then there's this issue of well, they don't want
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: your mothering anymore now they want a sister. So how
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  Speaker 1: do we transition out of that role and really into
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: a sibling relationship. You know, we can redefine our relationships
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  Speaker 1: with people at any point and talk about some of
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: the resentment if there is a favorite child situation, because
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: you're right, it's not one child's thought that that happens.
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  Speaker 1: It's you know, really based on the parents choice. But
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  Speaker 1: it is easier sometimes for them to be mad at
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: the siblings. So those are conversations to have, all right.
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  Speaker 1: We got more with Nee Drug Lover to War when
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  Speaker 1: Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ and V Charlomagne the guy.
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  Speaker 1: you know you can't force sibling relationships, right, Like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: the second oldest, but it's such an age gap between
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  Speaker 1: me and my oldest sister, and it's such an age
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  Speaker 1: gap between my two younger brothers and younger sisters, so
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  Speaker 1: I love them. We didn't necessarily have that relationship growing
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  Speaker 1: up because everybody was busy doing their own things. Like
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: my two younger brothers the super close because they close
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: her in age. So is it a parents job to
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  Speaker 1: like force those relationships to have it? No? I think
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  Speaker 1: sometimes parents think they're supposed to, right, You know, this
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  Speaker 1: is your brother. Y'all have to stick together. This is
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: your sister. You have to sleep together. But a lot
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: of that is just natural. You'll see small kids like
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  Speaker 1: I want to hold my baby brother. I want and
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: another kid might be like, I'm going outside, you know.
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  Speaker 1: So how do we allow people to select their people?
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  Speaker 1: So we shouldn't force them because I forced my kids, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Like like I have a nineteen year old and I
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: have an eight year old, and I would be like,
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  Speaker 1: when you go to football practice, taking brother with you,
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  Speaker 1: to let him hang out with his brother, you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: and my sound like taking to me. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: it's not because I want him. I want him to
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  Speaker 1: experience that because there's some things that I didn't. I
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: didn't play football as a kid. My nineteen year old does,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: and he's a good player. And I could tell that
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: my eight year old looks up to him as a
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: football player. So I'd like, go out with your brother,
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  Speaker 1: go play with your brother. Play logan going to college
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: next year? How about to see he keeps saying nineteen
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  Speaker 1: in high school? No, no, you go to college next year?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Oh my birthday December twenty eight. But that's what I do,
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  Speaker 1: even with you know, with whatever it may be playing
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  Speaker 1: video games. I don't play video games, my nineteen year
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  Speaker 1: old does, so I'd be like, go in the room
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  Speaker 1: with your brother. I forced him to do it, and
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: I noticed it keeps him close. So now my my
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  Speaker 1: eight year old of coming to my own bay, Dad,
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: can I sleep in logan droom? And I'm like, go
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: ask him, but like he's starting to develop that bond
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: where it is go, so I kind of force him
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  Speaker 1: to do it. You help them foster a relationship by
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: making these suggestions, and it sounds like over time they
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  Speaker 1: have both grown to appreciate that forcing is when you
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: say take this kid with you and they're like, oh,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I don't want to do it right. So you're helping
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: them learn to have a relationship together and that is healthy. Now,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: when you're forcing your children to be close, I think
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  Speaker 1: that's different. It's not really closeness. It is you know,
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  Speaker 1: we can do this while we're here. But when people
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  Speaker 1: leave your home, like, how do you want those relationships
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  Speaker 1: to be? And that's what you need to think about, Like,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: when they leave home and they're out in the world,
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: who's going to force it? Then? No One. Another question
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: that people always ask is the closeness between mom and child.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: People say you can't be your child's best friend, right
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: because that's the one thing people say that, that's my
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  Speaker 1: best friend. My daughter is my best friend, best friend.
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  Speaker 1: I'm people, how do you feel about that when someone
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: is a child. I don't think so because it's one sided.
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  Speaker 1: You certainly wouldn't share with your child. Girl, we went
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: to the club. Not appropriate, mom, But you can listen
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  Speaker 1: to a lot of what your kid is saying, and
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: you can give them some feedback, and hopefully they have
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: a relationship where they trust being able to talk to you.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily call that a best friendship, as much
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: as I would say that is a healthy relationship with
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: your child. You don't want to be in a best
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: friendship where you're oversharing with your child. Your child is
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: hyper focused on your needs because you have so much
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: stuff going on. That's where it gets a little murky.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, what is this What is the definition
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: of this best friendship? If it's you caring for your
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: child and your child is just being open with you, okay, cool,
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: that's best friendship for you. But if it's you know
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: this person is always here for me where they're eight.
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  Speaker 1: You know, they should not always they shouldn't always be
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: there for you find you some friends at work know
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: when your daughter is sexually active. I guess that's okay.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: Details it depends on the father's comfort. Like yeah, Now
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: you refer to family as a cultural system in the
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: book Drama Free. What did that mean? So families have
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: their own thing. You know, in your family it might
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: be you know, when you have a baby, the baby
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: go live with your grandma for three months, or you know,
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: whatever your program is. It is how you learn to be,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: how you learn to exist. When we get married, we
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  Speaker 1: do this, when we whatever, this is what happens. It
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  Speaker 1: is a whole culture. I think what's interesting is when
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: we take our culture and we try to move that
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: culture into the world. When we try to get married
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: and we try to get into relationships and we're telling
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: our partner was normal, and they're like, no, this is
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: what we did in my family. That's where you start
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: to see like, oh, this is how my family was,
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: and now we have to figure out a new culture
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: for ourselves. You know. The cultural piece is only problematic
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: when somebody sort of breaks away from it and the
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: others disagree because for a lot of especially our families,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: it's more I told you so, syndrome right, throwing up
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: as a kid is that? Can I go there and
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: know why because I told you so? My wife is
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: a little different. It took me a long time to
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  Speaker 1: get to it because I was the same way. My
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: wife likes to have conversations, right. I don't like the
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: conversations because if I tell you something, to do it,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: but my kids like, but why can't I, Well, why
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: doesn't that make sense? And she'll sit there and have
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: conversations with them all day. I guess it's a better
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: way because they understand the reason why and they don't
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: leave being mad and don't leave being hateful. But it's
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: when it comes to that. I'm a mom, so I
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: do a little exploited. I also over talked to my
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: dog so you know, get off of their go and
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: the it's like sit could have helped, all right, I'm
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: saying way too much so talking back never thankfully. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think with kids it is helpful sometimes to give
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  Speaker 1: them some reason. You know, kids are people, and it
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  Speaker 1: is hopeful for them to know why and how and
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: what this means because in the future Hopefully with that understanding,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: they'll be able to tap into that conversation and say, oh,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: this is why I shouldn't do that. Without that level
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: of understanding, you may not know next time. So it
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: can be helpful to just explain things. And that is
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: a cultural shift, right when you come from just because
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: I said so, well, all the because I said souls
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: weren't healthy for us. We have some adults telling us
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: stuff and it's like she didn't I know what she
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: talking about, you know. So so if somebody can explain
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: their why, sometimes it could be really helpful for them
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: in the future. And sometimes you will hear them talking
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: to their friends and you're like, oh, those my words.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: So it helps. I want people to go pick up
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: the book Drama Freeze. I don't want to, you know,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: give too much away, but I love to read just
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: thing the urge to operate in dysfunction chapter because sometimes
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: I wonder, I don't think people can help it if
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: they haven't done the work to even recognize this is
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: dysfunctional to them, they just operating in normalcy. So what
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: does that mean? Resisting the urge to operate in dysfunction
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: if you don't know what the function it's learning to
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  Speaker 1: be different. I think we have so many times in
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: life where we are shown different things and it's up
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: to us to pick it up, whether that's visiting a
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: friend's house, see or something on TV. If we just
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: process some of that information like wow, that's what they
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: do in their house, and have those conversations even with
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: our siblings, with other family members, with our friends, you
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: will learn less some of the things that you are experiencing.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: They may be normal for you, but they are not
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: necessarily the healthiest. Right. We appreciate you for joining us
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  Speaker 1: gonna be getting a million dollars an episode for seasons.
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  Speaker 1: She deserves it. Facts how many episodes in the season?
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was teen, right, it's not that men,
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  Speaker 1: I think he was saying, like, damn surprise, Drake hasn't
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: do much outside of rap. But he's also ep on
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  Speaker 1: the show. Right, I mentioned that, Yeah, EPs EU four,
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  Speaker 1: you and uh a top Boy on Netflix. Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: I see. I didn't know that, but it's not coming
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  Speaker 1: out until the second half of twenty twenty four, which
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  Speaker 1: is gonna be weird because they ain't supposed to be
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: in high school. They are right, they should have been
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: grabb situated by now college. Hopefully by the time they
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: come back, you would think they graduated. And and we
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: got to wait that long to see if home he died. Yeah,
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, that's crazy. There's a lot of things
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: we gotta wait to see. What you gotta see if
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  Speaker 1: she's still on crack crack. She was sure that you're
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: still crack. Yes, my face is going she was down.
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  Speaker 1: I really can't talk to nobody on crack calmly like
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: you really? Are you still on crack? Yeah? No, they
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  Speaker 1: don't understand unless you say it like that, like that
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  Speaker 1: man on the on the show be trying to help her.
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  Speaker 1: He used to be talking to her like man like that.
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  Speaker 1: Remember Joe, how about to say Joe Rogan, Remember Morgan
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  Speaker 1: Freeman on you they jump by the way, That's how
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  Speaker 1: I used to be. My dad used to talk to
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  Speaker 1: me just like that, because you know, you're just throwing
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  Speaker 1: your life away anyway. And why was he Smoky Craig,
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  Speaker 1: the little Boy. I mean, I don't know, maybe know
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  Speaker 1: we was around. I don't know. That was during the
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  Speaker 1: crack era, And that was crack was bigger than in
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  Speaker 1: New York. Job it was crack was big everywhere, but
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: it was very big here. You started off recreational. Yeah,
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: so people were smoking crack because they didn't know no better.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: It was a party drug, right. But I'm just saying,
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: like you at work is why this wild? And lastly,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: you know Carl Crawford of course, uh And I was
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: gonna say NBA major League Baseball player. He also owns
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: a fifteen oh one certified. That's the label that making
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  Speaker 1: the stallion is sign too. He seems like he regrets
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  Speaker 1: everything that they've gone through. And this is what he
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  Speaker 1: had to say, fortunate man, making We have and talk since,
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  Speaker 1: you know, since two thy nineteen. So like, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: that's unfortunate too as well, because I never wanted to,
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 1: you know, have a situation where I was, you know,
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: um going back and forth on the internet. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I have to take responsibility for anything that happens over
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: here in fifteen o one, Like I say, I got
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: a lot real real fast, you know, coming from another
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: lane and all that type of stuff. So a lot
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: of a lot of things came at me a real,
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: real fast, and then I had to learn real real quick.
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  Speaker 1: And in the process of that, you might make a
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  Speaker 1: few mistakes you in there. And I never never had
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: any problems with making the stallium, you know, I just
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 1: it's just this social media stuff. It really just turned really,
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: really really sour. You take this this social media part
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  Speaker 1: out of it. We don't have a problem. I'm done
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: with that. You won't hear me mentioned making the stallium
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  Speaker 1: in the media the list, you know, I'm doing something
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  Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, the sad thing about that. I think
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  Speaker 1: it's like too little, too late, social media read each
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  Speaker 1: other out. It's kind of like the relationship is done
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: now to the point it's business. I'm sure when you
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  Speaker 1: finished her contract, she's out. Yeah, because I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it's hard run, you know, being in
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: the business, in the contract and y'all don't like where
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: things is going. But things got taken too far with
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: that Tory situation, and that was your moment to really,
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: you know what all this is going on with us
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: business wise, But it's like her mental health. There was
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: a lot of things going on with her, and that
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: was his moment to be like, you know what, let
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: me take care of this girl. We started from day
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  Speaker 1: one together. So, like you said, it's kind of too little,
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: too late. But I'm glad the truth finally came out
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  Speaker 1: with everything. And I really like prayers to her because
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: she went through a lot she did, like losing your
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  Speaker 1: mom and having to go through all this, like the
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: world really turned on her. So I'm glad that the
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  Speaker 1: truth came out, and I just hope that her mental
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  Speaker 1: health is Like good, are you stealing in court? I'm
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: not sure. I don't think so. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with that far like they
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  Speaker 1: definitely it was a time to just not or you
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  Speaker 1: could have just not said anything, right, you could have
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  Speaker 1: people egos. Yeah, it is interesting, like you know, you
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  Speaker 1: see everybody apologize in the minor, but we know that
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  Speaker 1: if the verdict hat went another way, it wouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: that any of course not. But it's crazy because even
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  Speaker 1: though the verdict verdict was what it was, people were
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  Speaker 1: still being like, oh well, it's not that, it's not
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  Speaker 1: that like some people just like the same time down
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  Speaker 1: being wrong. Who said I think said eagle? Yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to just admit a I was wrong, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? And sometimes people just gotta mind
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  Speaker 1: your business until all the facts. So hard for people
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  Speaker 1: to do this because I gotta get these tweets all
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  Speaker 1: I gotta get this Instagram posting, these Instagram captions. Now,
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  Speaker 1: come on, now, you know I wake up. You know
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  Speaker 1: if people wake up in the morning, they got to
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  Speaker 1: feed their feed. Yeah, that's all it is. That's true.
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  Speaker 1: And be loud and wrong, loud and wrong, loud and wrong.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people, oh me, and that is your
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  Speaker 1: rumor report. I want to shout out to Atlanta University
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  Speaker 1: know I love going to talk to the college. It's
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  Speaker 1: about you know, what we do a pair and how
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  Speaker 1: they can get into it. So I'm have conversation with
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  Speaker 1: them later on. And I just want to say one
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  Speaker 1: other thing this, Uh are you looking at me like
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  Speaker 1: that You're about to say something gay? This victim blaming
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  Speaker 1: of straight man has to stop that. I'm serious, it
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  Speaker 1: has to stop. Saucy Santana guy, Saucy baby trap that
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  Speaker 1: calls and all the time, I think they gave you
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  Speaker 1: read what Saucy said. Want to put a plastic uh
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  Speaker 1: piece in their mouth and blow. They should be able
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  Speaker 1: to do piece. That's who tip tip or the way.
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  Speaker 1: to smoke hoogle. I believe it. So somebody posted a
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  Speaker 1: picture look at it. Tell me on like a little
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  Speaker 1: batty right there. But that was like a five picture
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  Speaker 1: like that could be an album cover, right. DJ Shrimp
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  Speaker 1: posted this last night, and he said, envy not you
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  Speaker 1: blew the smoke out for the pick. I'm saying, bro,
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  Speaker 1: he said it like that. I'm sure he did. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: y'all gonna stop. Y're gonna leave you straight man alone.
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  Speaker 1: Let's straight man express and do what they want to
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  Speaker 1: do and allow them to grow to the surgeon Gerald,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna listen to Saucy, said Tanner. Stop putting that
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  Speaker 1: little plastic tip to your mouth. Good that no one
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  Speaker 1: keep calling it the plastic one of you. If you
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  Speaker 1: saw one of your home girls, right, let's just say
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  Speaker 1: putting her mouth on a vibry. Okay, I've seen that before.
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  Speaker 1: You think wrong before, depend on what you mean by wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, why would they be doing that? Why not?
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  Speaker 1: They might be making a video to send of somebody
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  Speaker 1: vibrate who exactly what it is? It's made out of
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  Speaker 1: see a man shaking the vibert that guy is crazy.
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