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Yoreh De’ah 196:7-11. Niddah: Harchakos, Singing While a Niddah, part 5; Bedikah for Seven Clean Days · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are in the middle of Kuf
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  Sadibab. We're about to start Zion.
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  But just for a minute to digress because I opened up my mouth and
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  spoke about Kaliesha by Dini Arkos by Anita.
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  I don't did not do it justice. So I would just like to quickly
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  recap on the issue with Kaliesha.
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  So it's not clear. First of all, as far as I know,
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  it's not discussed in the Rishonian in the, certainly not
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  in the Kumara. I mean, there is an issue of
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  Kolbe isha Erva that's that's obviously in the Gumara.
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  But as far as the Ishto Nida, it's nowhere discussed until I
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  think it's, it's in Sifva. The Pischreichuva raises the
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  question and he leaves it as a question and says Sarah Ian.
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  I'm not sure what they did before, but he raised the
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  question. It's Sarah Ian and that's how he
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  leaves it. No, it's in the if above, not
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  CIF katta in the piece Rey Chuva right in Arshukanar.
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  So then on that I will just quote a few different opinions
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  on the matter. The egress Moshe because of the
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  Suffolk of the piece Rey Chuva, he writes Mehara UI le Hochner.
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  So depending on how you want to translate the mission of the
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  egos Moshe, some will say, oh for sure, he holds you have to
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  but he writes Mira UI la Hachemer.
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  It's better to 1 should one should try one should, however
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  different ways to translate it. OK, but he doesn't say aser,
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  that's for sure. The Araka Shokhan writes Li
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  Shmoa to listen to her near the aser.
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  So exactly what does he mean by you know, she's doing it in the
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  room and you happen to be in the next room.
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  You happen to be there. You're you're having Kavana to
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  listen to her. Whatever he's referring to,
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  which is again unclear. He writes near at a sword.
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  So something obviously he writes should not be done.
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  Shave it. Levy and Benish Kai writes
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  Asser. But the Benisheiden does right.
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  But let's say she needs to sing for the baby and you got nowhere
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  to go and you're stuck in the same house or apartment.
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  So he says that it's mutter. So OK, Tara Sabais and Rav El
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  Yash, that's Ravi Bhadya and Rav El Yashev.
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  They write. And it's they're both right.
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  It's mutter seats. El Yazer's quoted as saying the
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  minagas that it's mutter, but Raval Yashuv does say though
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  even though it's mutter if she's singing specifically for him for
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  him to listen to her. So then that's I don't know if
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  you're right, it's inappropriate or or aser, but should not be
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  done. So anyways, I just wanted to
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  properly not misrepresent the topic.
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  OK, sorry for that. Let's get to the Shokanara
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  insight. Hassuma bodekit Asma Umar El
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  hevrata. So a woman is Varmina and she is
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  blind and so she can't see herself.
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  But she could do the Bedika herself if she shows the Bedika
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  cloth to her friend, right? She's wise, she's clear minded
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  and she's able to physically check, but she just needs
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  somebody else's eyes. OK, Right.
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  Hareshit Shahmad Veenamanda Barrett So here we have someone
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  who is deaf. No Haresha Shahmad Veena deaf.
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  She's mute, but she's not. But she can hear.
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  Oh, Shahmanda Barrett Veena Shahmad or she's she is deaf,
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  but she speaks. So then as long as she can do
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  one of them. Harayan kept me caught.
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  So the Allaha is generally speaking for all halachas
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  because there's always going to be an exception depending on the
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  mitzvah, but they are higher than the mitzvahs.
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  They are. Well, the issue is here she is
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  Picot Lochodovars in general, we say they're wise, they're smart,
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  they have das 100% Ava imeya Shomad Venomeda Barrett.
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  If she, if she's deaf and mute. So then especially as a child,
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  it prevents somebody from, you know, growing cognitively and
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  the mind maturing. So then in general we assume
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  they have a din, they're patter and they have a din of a shota
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  or vechena shota. She, she is, she's Shanitra
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  fadata Muhammad Holi or because of an illness, she's just not
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  with us mentally. So then srikhod pihod livdok
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  otan. So then another woman in order
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  to make her not a Anita, so it has to check for her physically,
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  really kuboa lahen vestos and to establish for them right to
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  just, I guess I don't know, to write it down in a calendar
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  somewhere. And they have to help her out in
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  order to establish and keep track of her vestos kadesha
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  tienen mutare la Bali and in order for her to be muttered for
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  her wife to for her husband. Sorry, huq balahen.
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  That's it. And then if she gets
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  established, the vested tarahan kishar kola nashim.
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  So then if she's got is a has a vested Kabul washers so say in
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  malakas for all women, OK, look, but if she's doesn't have a
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  vested kavua, so then again, she's also like all other women
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  who don't have a vested kavua. That's how she showed
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  Micheloshimi Yom, Micheloshimi Yom, It's all the same.
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  And she has to she has that same baino neat and it's all the
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  same. Both coat alia de picot and they
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  always just you just if they don't have, they're not in their
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  right mind. So then you just have someone
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  else physically check for them. OK, fine.
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  Tet haisha shamar belivedoc Bain bime spirata Bain B amim shalora
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  tabeh marazzo meshubaja alpha P sheishla vested kavua.
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  So even if a woman does have a vested kavua, the shokanar, he
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  writes, it's good to check. And in general, the more you
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  check, the better. But the post can point out, not
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  when she's right before and after she's with her husband.
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  That's not the time to be checking.
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  All right. If it's issues of Tumas and
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  Tumantara, which is a separate topic, that's not for Aslam Isa.
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  So it's only when it's she's not with her husband.
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  OK. I had something here.
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  Yeah. OK, fine.
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  You're Hashiva Nakim. Sorry.
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  You were at Sufi. So the seven clean days, I think
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  we all know this has to be 7 clean days in a row consecutive
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  can't be any breaks. If you miss one day then it you
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  have to start all over the seven.
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  She looked here at Dam Behem, you can't have any, she can't
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  see any bleeding during any of those seven days.
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  She aim rata dam. I feel besaf Yamashvi even if
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  she sees dam at the end of the 7th day satra kola Yamim.
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  So then all the days are, I don't know how we say undone,
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  whatever it's I have to start all over again with Srika Livsok
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  Batara and she has to do a hav sektara again.
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  I check again that day when it stops bleeding has to have a hav
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  sektara and then Velakazor velimnot, Shiva Nakim and she
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  has to start all over a full 7 days.
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  And then the shock just points out, I mean, it's Davra Pashit
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  even even says so. And if she would see on the 8th
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  day also, she would have to start all over 7 clean days
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  anytime, anywhere on the calendar, anytime in the year,
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  anytime in the cycle. If she sees bleeding, the
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  halacha is she has to wait. She have sick tahara and then
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  wait another Shiva nakim, 7 clean days.
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  I think we're going to discuss later on, right?
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  If you have to wait an extra four or five days before you
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  start counting. But here she wasn't with her
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  husband. She didn't go to the mikvah, so
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  she just starts another seven fine haggad gesh omarim the
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  vishwa yamin rishorim shiya Mia sphera imaza khatam Ain tolin
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  OTA otola haka kamosha tolin shark Tamim the sloshi yamin
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  Rishi yamin rishonim srikim miyot makim the gomery.
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  OK, so question is OK Summer Mahmar that for the first three
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  days you can't. We're gonna I think we'll
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  understand it better when we finish reading the entire Rama.
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  But the issue is ketem. So we know by ketem we can be
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  more Mako if it's less than a grease.
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  So then for sure we're Mako. It's has no ramifications.
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  If it's more than a grease, then it's a problem.
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  But sometimes let's say she was walking by a slaughterhouse or
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  doing dealing with other stuff that's red paint or whatever it
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  is that might look ketchup. I don't know, might look like
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  blood. So then many times we are told
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  at Lahakel by a ketam, but he writes over here that some are
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  machmer for the first three days that you can't be told of for
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  other things. If it's we're going to keep
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  reading aval akharka Dina kesharketam for the other
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  remaining days, the the last four days of the seven, then
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  it's not then we when, whenever all the coolers of ketam to be
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  tola on something else or tolia. So then we can we're here even
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  during those four days you can be tola, but not the first three
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  days. Then we're more Makhmur, but
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  Heino again, and that's what the Rama writes is Dominica veddafka
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  ketem shuya teremika Greece. Obviously we're talking about a
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  Greece the size of bigger than a Greece as if it's less than a
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  Greece. We doesn't does the whole den of
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  ketem doesn't start holochuckly to make it blood and we assume
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  it was from from lice and or a bug whatever, and therefore it's
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  not a problem. So that's even for the first
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  three days if it's smaller than a Greece, so that ketem is not
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  going to ruin the Shiva Nakim. She counts like she that she
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  didn't even see the cat them smaller than a Greece Ava Baja
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  Mika Greece of the old tolla Burkina, right?
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  If it's less than a Greece or tolla Burkina, I feel a Vishlo
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  Shyamim rishonim fine the Hua din E mayala maka begufa now.
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  So there's two opinions here. He also says if she has a maca
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  on her body, so then vio da ashimutsi Adam and she knows
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  that the maca is bleeding, blood comes out of it.
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  Didn't like it, didn't like mostly heal.
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  So then it's still bleeding. So then she can be tole on that
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  A filo be a teramiki grizvoed. So we are allowed to be tole on
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  a maca. If you know, she bleeds, it
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  bleeds Ala Shaheen mckeeling, Bishlo Shah Yamima rishar Liu
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  mamaka, Shaheen yadu. But for the first three days if
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  it's other stuff or if it's a maca that we don't see it
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  bleeding, so then she cannot be told on that.
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  Or Bashar dharams to limbahem ketam as other stuff that we
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  learned earlier. Now the Shah argues and it's
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  basically it's a Mahlokis acronium.
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  He says that even if you know, he said he's Mahama, that even
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  if you know it's bleeding, you can't be told on a maka for the
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  first three days. Leave that as a mahlogas.
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  Fine, let's go to you at Olive Hapaulette Sheikh Wazira, we may
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  spherata him who talk shesh or not.
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  So here the Allaha is a paulette Sheikh Wazira we may spherata if
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  she was with her husband, if the seamen can come out and stay
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  viable. So for three for 72 hours.
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  If it's during the Shiva nakim IM who talk shesh onot
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  leshimusha soterit Otto Yong. So that prevents you from
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  counting Lefiha and mesha meshat mita TA virata harka pasca.
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  So if she's with her husband and then she sees bleeding, so then
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  she wants to and then she has a half sectara so then she can
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  start counting Shiva nakim. But she cannot start counting
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  the Shiva Nakim immediately. Adshi avrou aleha.
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  So she has to wait until the 72 hours pass Shesh O note
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  shlemote. That's why it's right 60 No, it
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  is 3 days, 72 hours shama tea float because maybe I could stay
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  viable and maybe it'll come out and then it undoes the Shiva
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  nakim lispor adyom kamishi leshimusha.
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  So she so she knows when she's with her husband she must in
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  order to start counting. I mean, often it's not relevant
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  because a woman will bleed for five days, but but sometimes it
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  is relevant. That really depends on this on
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  depends on the situation. It could very well be relevant
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  at least sometimes. OK, so according to the
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  according to the Shah Khanarak, you must wait for four days and
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  then you'd on the 4th day you do your have set Tara because
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  there's the one day she's with her husband, then you have to
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  wait another 72 hours. So that's always going to be 3
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  days and something. And therefore and you only start
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  counting at night. So therefore, by definition, it
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  has to always be a minimum of four days, right?
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  Technically that no one argues, it always has to be 4 days.
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  And then on the 5th day you can already start counting.
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  So technically that based on numbers, that could be true.
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  And that is the sock of the Shalkhanar.
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  But hold on until we read the Rama.
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  If she was with her husband on mote Shabbos and she has to wait
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  another four days, the mote Shabbos is part of Sunday, so
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  then there's Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and then Thursday.
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  Yom Kamishi is the after four days, including when she's with
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  her husband. That's so that's the Qaimalan
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  EIN Shekhawat 0 Masriya Ajah rule of Shesh Onoch lemon right?
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  We hold it's viable for 72 hours.
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  May 8th, late 8th. So therefore, that's the only,
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  the only that's why you always have to have a minimum.
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  According to the Shokanara, 4 days.
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  The aim, including the time that she's with her husband.
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  All right, that's one day. And then three more days.
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  Shim sham. What's 8 Shabbat gopalta Lil
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  revi kodem 8 Shim Shabbat diani omera vitov.
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  Oh, Nashi sheetless shimotav is so terret.
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  It just explains it again and it can right?
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  It could come out on the on Wednesday.
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  It's so Teret helka Yom hamishi. Yeah, Rishon le spirita.
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  So the only way to know for sure that there's no viable Sheikh
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  Manzara that comes out is on you wait for the 5th day.
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  OK, that's and that's the halacha according to Mani
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  Svartim and Tara Tobait and Rabbad Yosef.
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  The Rama we're going to see holes.
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  We have to wait. Generally speaking, an extra day
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  and Menisfardum are also Mahmir Benischai and those who follow
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  are also Mahmir like the Rama we're about to get to and for.
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  OK, anyway, so that's this is we'll see the Ashkenazim and the
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  Rama are very Mahmir for this extra day and kilu MI Karadin
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  and if there's absolute need for fertility reasons, so then
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  shaila shaila trav. But let's just read it inside
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  Haga and we'll explain why the TI sok Yom revihile ET erevi Yom
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  hamishi Ole Minya and Shiva. So the Rama just reiterates the
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  words of the Shalkhanarath. So on the 5th day already she
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  can start counting. OK, So it's four days plus 7 is
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  going to be the minimum. All right.
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  OK. Vaishakhatu, Shiyesh, Lamtin,
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  Odion and some right, some right, That we're supposed that
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  we should wait an extra day. I think it's based on the
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  Chuma's addition and it's important to wait one extra day
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  and we'll see that it becomes the Mina that we we wait an
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  extra day. According to the Roma, no, you
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  have to have five days and then on the 6th day you can only
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  start counting. So it has to always be a
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  minimum, right? If if she was with her husband,
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  always has to be a minimum of 12 days, 5 + 7 Shiva Nakheim.
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  And during those five days she could be bleeding, but Shiva
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  Nakheim OK, but then if she stops bleeding after the first
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  day, it's still a minimum of 12 days.
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  Let's see it inside. That's could only be the 6th
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  day. It could only be the first of
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  the Shiva Nakheim. Why the Haishi nan Shama to
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  Shamesh by Yom Rishon? Because we're afraid that she's
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  going to be with her husband during Beinash Mashout with T
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  Sport Shu Yong and she thinks it's the daytime, so she'll
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  start counting from the day earlier.
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  But me but Beinash Mashout maybe really belongs to the night and
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  it's the next day. So she because of being the
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  possibility of being with one's husband at Beinash Mashout, it
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  could be she can get it one day off.
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  OK, We aim tatra Lima Miyama Kamishi yet talk sheesh or not
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  the shimusha as if she's one day off and then she won't have 72
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  hours. If she's one day off and it's
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  during OK, OK, that's really what it is.
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  She might be off, she might miscount by a day, OK.
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  And yeesh, lahosif Odeon akha. Therefore, we always add one
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  extra day because we're afraid they're going to be together
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  being a Smashot and she won't miscount, demiate EF Charlie la
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  volli de taut. If you add the extra day, then
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  you can never make a mistake, but she can never miscount the
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  re noggin, behold medinot ELO, the EN le chanot, and this
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  becomes the absolute minhug and halacha and in Europe and one
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  cannot deviate. Shenagu la Hachemer OD la Hamtin
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  ad Shiva Yamim and some women are mahmir to weight 7 + 7.
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  But then on this the Ramadi says we ain't tambadavar and there's
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  no reason for this whatsoever. We have mahmir yakhmir, vamekal
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  niskar la haktim atzmola mitzvah and the one who's being Mahmir,
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  he's being Mahmir. But at least he says very
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  kindly. But the one who's being Makil is
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  actually the one who's being Zari Zimaktim of the mitzvah.
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  And the one who's being Makil is the only correct opinion and it
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  is the only way to go. That's what he's saying for
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  this, of course, for being Makil to do 5 days, not seven days.
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  That's what he's talking about. OK.
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  In other words, being Makhmur with no reason is not always a
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  good thing. And if it's for the wrong
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  reasons or you're losing out from it, then being Makhmur is
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  not good. Yay Shikhatvu Shah Akshav ayn
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  Lakhalid bean shimsha in Bailala lo shimsha and then and then
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  some right? Wait a second.
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  Nowadays we're not going to be Mahalik, right?
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  It doesn't matter if she was actually with her husband or not
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  Nicole Isha Shiroa and anyone who sees a filu ketam, even a
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  ketam Srikala hampting hamishayamim.
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  Once you see a ketam right, Even though we say is there abundant
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  doesn't matter. It's a ketam that's more than a
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  Greece and so we say she's Tamaya and has to go to the
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  mikvah. So even for I kept them and it
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  just happened once, she still must wait even if she wasn't
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  with her husband, right? But she went to the mikvah and
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  everything else. So then she must wait 5 + 7 if
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  it's sorry hampting hamisha yamim in Yom Shera tabeau,
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  right? The five days include seeing the
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  blood and then the tivsoka 8 Arab and then before shkia she
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  does the have sectar. It must be before shkia and then
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  the T sport Shiva Nakim, the Henoagim remedy, not Elu, the
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  Ain Leshanote. And that is the halacha.
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  You mean for Spartim? If they were, it's it's it's the
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  same. You have to, you know, for
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  Spartim it's the same, but you keep four days or at least
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  according to Rababad, Yeah, you keep four days.
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  So that I'm not 100% positive. Thank you.
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  If Shimsha or not. And you know you were not.
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  But she went to the mikvah, so I have to see what he says inside.