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What’s In (and Out) for 2026 | Episode 11 · Sincerely American

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Well, hello sincerely, sisters. We're still in this studio.
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We're still in California, but happy New Year's Eve.
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It's the last day of 2025. It's been such an incredible
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year, and we were so excited to bring you a little special.
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We're going to focus this whole episode on insurance and outs
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for what we're leaving behind in 2025 and what we're bringing
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into 2026. Let's get into it, girl.
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I feel like there's some that we're going to disagree with,
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which is I think like makes things more interesting, don't
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you think? Make sure that you leave some
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comments down on the YouTube or Spotify.
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Tell us what you agree with. Tell us what you don't agree
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with. DMS on Instagram.
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We love hearing from you guys. OK, the first one we're going to
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start out with is Sean Duffy's Airport Etiquette.
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And for those of you guys that don't know if you missed this
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story, he was saying like stop wearing pyjamas and dress up to
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go get on the plane. You know, like if I'm being so
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real with you guys, I needed to hear this.
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I did too. Because I do these like across
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the country flights where all I want to do is be comfy and I
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think that there's a way to be comfy but also dressing up And I
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this was a message I needed to hear.
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So I say this is in. OK, but I will tell you Cameron,
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I don't think a single person would be like this was not
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directed towards you. I feel like you could show up to
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the airport in a trash bag and no one would be bad.
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I'm talking about, we talked about this on like a previous
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episode. The.
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Grown men that are wearing like lilo and stitch pajamas and
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haven't brushed their hair. I'm like dress up.
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People used to wear the full suit for the plane.
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It used to be like. Yeah, it's just there's no
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standards in society. We've talked about this, and
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especially since there's been like an increase of things in
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the airport that's going on like crazy chaos.
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I do think that there's actually like a message behind this of
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like dressing with standards and conducting yourself respectfully
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is directly correlated to how you're going to treat others in
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an airport and, you know, just conduct yourself in a better
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manner. So I'm going to go in with this.
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I love that I'm going to go in as well.
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Wicked. I thought this Oh my God, press
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to her husband. Wait, let's hold hands.
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This is what they do. They're like, you are the light
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of the day. You are the isn't that what she
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does? And then she's crying, like
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they're both crying for no reason.
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Oh, did you see the one with Penn Badgley, the Dan Humphrey
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from Gossip Girl and him and Ariana Grande?
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They're like at this round table and Ariana Grande was like, I'm
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sorry, you guys. And then she's like, all of you
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guys are so strong. And then Penn goes wait, wait,
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wait. You don't even know them.
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And it's. Like I always said, that is
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hilarious. Though we'll put it up.
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Let's roll the clip. You got me.
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Thank you. That's nice.
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It's true. Thank you, I think everyone in
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this room is very strong. Frank and Yeah.
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You don't know them. No.
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Have you seen the memes? It's like lunch on the wicked
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set. I'm putting up this reel and
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they're like slice 1 price the thinnest, like piece of bread.
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Because why are they all like up with that?
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Keenly anorexic. It's really creepy.
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What is up with that? It's a very weird cast.
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I never watched the first Wicked movie that came out last year.
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I wasn't a stand from it. I just felt like the, I don't
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know, I'm like such a contrarian personality.
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I'm like. Worried about?
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Them it's like the same thing though with like the Taylor
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Swift when it's like everything Taylor Swift, Taylor Swift the
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air is to her. I'm like, I'm not going on that
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because I just don't like anything being shoved down my
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throat. I felt like Wicked was the same
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thing last year and I just always found them so weird.
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I don't really want to support them.
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Yeah, my sister loved that movie and I took her to go see it.
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So I think it's cute. But the press tour was really
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what got me. And I think it was just very
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performative. It was like emotional.
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It was kind of hectic. I really wasn't buying what they
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were selling. And I just, it's a very odd
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relationship on camera, if I have to say so myself.
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And then I'm also like, I know that I'll we'll get pushed back
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and like saying we shouldn't comment on people's bodies, but
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like genuinely, I'm concerned. I am too.
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I am actually concerned that is something that like.
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I'm like laughing, but it's actually not funny at.
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All but she's like never looked like that.
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So it's I don't know what they're doing on set.
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And then can we talk about the fact where we had like, who does
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Ariana think she is? Because a couple years ago she
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was like dating Big Sean and she got in trouble for blackface.
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And she was like with the high ponytail.
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She was like, what do they call her?
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Like black? Iana yeah or something been a
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bunch of people have like shown like she's been like a bunch of
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different like races and I'm. Like now she's like this, like
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innocent, like impact. Talks different too.
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She talks different and I'm like, this is it's a totally
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different personality and I'm just really not buying whatever
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is going on there. So I think this is.
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The last thing I'm going to mention about this, when the
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planes flew overhead and she was like, she's like, not the time
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for that. Like, oh, I didn't see that.
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Every video coming out of this press tour is just more absurd
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than the second. It's like, what is what even is
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this press tour? I'm, I'm with you.
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Safe to say that's out for both of us.
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Yes. OK, this one's just so random.
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Saratoga Water and you know the glass blue water?
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Yeah, where you spend like $20.00 for a water.
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Bottle. OK, interestingly enough, I
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stopped buying plastic water bottles here.
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No, shut up. I just drink out of a plastic
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water bottle at your house. She's going to call me out for
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this shit. You're supposed to lie with me?
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OK, Well, anyway, I safe to say I really try to cut back with
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that. I do normally have like glass
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waters and yeah, but I have this app like a psycho.
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It's an app that shows you like, if it's good for you, like the
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like the, is it the pH levels, iodine levels?
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Like there's different things that go into it.
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And I have that app and actually like Saratoga water was not
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rated well on that app. Really.
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That Aquapana wasn't rated well and Mountain Valley was not
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rated well and I was just like So what it what do we do at this
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point? Because you say Brit is a RIP
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off that micro plastics are getting in the other.
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So I'm like, what do I do Jamie? And I need to share a house with
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a well where we go. I throw up this rail and it's
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like eating anything in 2025. Stop eating eggs.
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There's only two things wrong with the egg, Everyone.
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Food that pisses me off is oatmeal, because oatmeal is
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peasant food. It's what they would feed the
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peasants just to keep them alive.
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I know this is going to piss some people off, but fruit is
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not healthy. See, all fruits turn to sugar in
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your body. That is how I feel about
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anything because it'll be like, you must drink glass water
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because the mycoplastic actually the glass infiltrates this
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chemical. I'm like, can I win?
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Yeah. There's no way we do.
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Can you just stop? Trying to kill us, please.
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That being said, water tastes so much better.
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I have a glass bottle so I'm from Saratoga.
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My husband hates that though. He thinks it's just a colossal
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waste of money. But my mom is like a stand for
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glass water. I am too and I also Aquapana
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though and even for like when I buy this is extra but I bought
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these like glass containers off of Amazon.
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They're like so cheap you guys. When I get like orange juice or
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anything or milk, I'll put it directly in those glass
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containers after I get it from the plastic of the.
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Store isn't sitting in the plastic anyway.
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Well, you know what, I just try to do my best around here.
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I don't know, you got to grow your own like Orange Goes.
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Sitting seriously like the Amish are on to something.
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The Amish are on to things. So Saratoga Water is out for me.
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In for me. OK.
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OK. Next one we're doing is
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minimalist interior design. I'm going to go out for this
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one. The more how I decorate my home.
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I love like the Martha Stewart kitchen where like my cut, my
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wood cutting board is out the the cookbooks are out.
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I have like a Rosemary plant on my on my countertops.
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My countertops are not minimalistic at all.
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I keep like my KitchenAid out my toaster.
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I have like bowls and then I just think in general, like I
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love how that shows your personality.
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I think we get into like the. They call it character rich
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interior. Character, rich interior.
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Yeah. And like that Ralph Lauren, I
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love like the maximalist almost where it's like you can see the
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books that that person's reading, the like the lighting,
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the ambience, just like incorporate it all.
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And I think that really shows your personality.
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I feel like some of the all white interior, the very
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minimalist is like very sterile. It doesn't feel homey or cozy or
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welcoming. So I agree and I like a little
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personality in your house. So I'm I'm saying that's out
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character rich interiors are in for 2026.
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OK, mocktails in or out? Out.
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Out as well, we are like wine. We like our wine.
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Like I don't I don't think like people are like Gen.
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Z is the first generation where they're just drinking less.
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And truthfully like that sounds nice for a second, but I
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actually think it's because our generations become really
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antisocial. And I also think weed is a huge
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component. And you guys know my rant
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against weed I won't get into, but I absolutely hate marijuana.
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So I don't think that this is necessarily been like a positive
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trend actually. And I think, I don't know, I'm
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old school in the way I'm like, I kind of like more of the
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European mindset where a glass of wine brings everyone together
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at a party and. Yeah, I'm not for mocktails and
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social settings, but one thing I do like are those sleepy time
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drinks with like the Ollie pop and magnesium.
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I think that that's fine. But yeah, I agree.
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But I think what you're saying is, like, in social settings,
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Yeah, it's like, just have a Diet Coke.
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I completely agree with you. I'm like this seems like such a
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like you're getting like a sugar drink that's supposed to mimic
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like alcohol. I know, and what is the point?
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And then empty calories and that's fine.
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That's like great if you're like I'm taking a break from
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drinking, but like I just would get an ice water or something or
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lemonade. Like I'm not doing like.
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I don't drink when I'm getting a diet.
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Cocktail looks like the flour in it and stuff I'm just like this
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is so over the top and it seems like a colossal waste of money.
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Video podcast on Spotify so Spotify this year implemented
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and I actually think what was our number We were like in the
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top 10% yeah we're the top 10%. Podcast for people who actually
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watch the video version on Spotify.
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Is that in or out I. Say it's in because you get to
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connect people more. They get to see like your body
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language, your personality, how you are conducting yourself in a
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conversation. It feels like you're there
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almost. So I'm gonna go in.
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I used to love the longer formed content.
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Anyways, I say loved in past tense.
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I still love it. Like I loved watching like
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Whitney Simmons growing up. She was like a gym shark model
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and she would like show her like workouts, lifestyle routine.
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She would go on those tart trips.
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And then I think that's coming back in.
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Paige Lorenz is a very big one with YouTube where she'll show
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like her dairy boy designs, she'll show like the Farm and
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Connecticut, things like that. I love that way you get to
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connect with that creator more rather than that.
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It's really hard to connect with an audience through shorter
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formed content. It shows the teasers.
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It's great to kind of tease episodes, but you don't get that
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like relationship that you're building with your audience as
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much. So I'm going to go, it's in for
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2026. Well, I like it because like I,
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I do a lot of podcasts all the time and a lot of podcasts have,
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you know, they'll play like a video in the podcast as we do.
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And like typically I try my best.
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Sometimes I've actually missed it where I'm like for our
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listening audience, you know, XY and Z, this is what's happening.
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But that's nice because I'll be like cleaning or something.
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And then when they do play a video, just having it already
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there, like loaded up on Spotify, I can just watch it
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quickly. Especially I'm given our jobs
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and news and everything. It's it's good to be like, I
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listen to all these things. We updated on the news
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constantly. And so sometimes it's good to
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actually see the video. So I like that and we do accept
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a great job of our set and everything.
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I think it's so cute. So I love that people.
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Actually have to watch it. Yeah.
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I think the fashion is a part of it.
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Our personalities like the glam, we we put a lot of thought into
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like the studio. And so, yeah, it's the whole
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aesthetic of it as well. I agree.
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OK, photo dumps on Instagram. I'm going to say in just because
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I feel like so many people try to like curate a feed of like
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the perfect picture. And I think if you just put a
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dump of your experience of just where you've been, the car ride,
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like the little moments of like the food, the people you were
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with, I just think that's more organic than this, like more
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curated, aesthetically pleasing, like one photo encapsulating
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your trip. You know what I mean?
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It's just more relatable. I'm saying out.
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For me, it was never really. I never did photo dumps.
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I'm just kind of like, I'm not. It's so funny with the
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conservator. I'm so savvy with social media.
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Yeah, but like for my personal account, I just post like life
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updates. And so I don't know, even like,
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yes, I guess a photo dump is less curated, but it's still
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curated to an extent. Isabel, my Co founder for TC,
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she does like a great photo dump.
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Like she's that type of person that has like all these really
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cool aesthetic photos and she obviously does a great job on
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the conservator, but even on her personal account.
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So for her, I love them. But for me personally, I'm I'm
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just shooting off the off the hip with my Instagram.
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That's like I get my Fox clip, I'm just shooting it off.
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So I kind of like that. Yeah.
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But just like it's more in the moment.
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OK, next one setting boundaries. And for a listening audience, I
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put some quotes around that. I think there's a toxic culture
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with setting boundaries. But if you have like the correct
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intentions, like if you're somebody like me, I when I was
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younger, I was like a chronic people pleaser.
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And so I did have to learn to like make sure that I wasn't
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trying to swim with the current all the time and like set
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boundaries in a way where like I said no to things and like I was
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living for myself rather than for other people.
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So I think it's in for me, but I don't like like the over
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toxicity of like the culture surrounding it where they're
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setting so many boundaries. They're isolating themselves
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from people who, like, really love them, Just, like, protect
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their peace, you know what I mean?
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Well you guys know how much I dislike therapy and I feel like
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this setting boundaries is a part of the new therapy speak
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that has now infiltrated our culture.
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And I just think it's been overall super negative.
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Like I understand it was trying to be positive, but it's given
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license to people to cut family members off, cut friends off.
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I find it so toxic. Like I know people in my life
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that they're like, I don't talk to this person because I'm
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setting boundaries and I'm like, is that positive?
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Is that like well? Here's the flip side of that
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where I'll disagree is like, if you don't set boundaries, people
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are more willing to walk all over you, manipulate you to try
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to like get you to do things that you don't necessarily want
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to do. There's.
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I would say that I would frame that as I'm standing my ground
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and I don't let people walk all over me.
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But the setting boundaries is like, you know what?
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I'm cutting this person out of my life because they're negative
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in my life and I'm just cutting them out.
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And it's like then they say I set a boundary and like it's
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almost like this. I'm virtue signaling.
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Like I've been to therapy. I'm so much more educated and
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sophisticated that I'm using. So you don't like the wording,
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but you like the action behind it?
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Well, I think there's a difference between, like you
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said, standing your ground with people and not letting people
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walk all over you. I've also had to do that in my
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life with things versus cutting people off entirely.
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I agree, but I don't think setting boundaries is like
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cutting somebody off. But I think that's the culture
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around it where people are utilizing it in a toxic way
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where they're going to like such extremes in their life.
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But I do think that there are certain boundaries of like I'm
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setting a boundary where like if my boss is paying me 12 hours a
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day, I'm not staying 15 hours anymore.
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Like I get that boundary quiet quitting or like, you know what
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I mean? Or just like, I don't know if
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somebody has like trouble with their in laws and their in laws
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are getting overly involved in the problem in their
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relationship, you set a boundary where you're more private about
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those things with your spouse. Like, I just think I think that
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there's a way to go about it that's not overly toxic and
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extreme where you're cutting people out of your life, your
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virtue signaling and you're using this therapy talk to act
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holier than thou and more emotionally intelligent.
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You're not you're not fooling anybody.
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But I do think there's a way to implement it in your life that's
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actually like it's good for you. I think Gen.
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Z has to put like constant labels on things all the time,
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like the labelization. Culture.
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I think that's so funny. Like slop was the number one
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word. Yeah.
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And I was like, I say slop all the time.
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Like words like that. I'm like.
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That's like the Gen. Z like lingo, but I'm talking
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about like labeling things. For example, what you just
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explained. Like, yeah, naturally you can
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just do that in your life where you're like, oh, well, you know,
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I have to sometimes put my family first over this person or
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whatever. And it's like, why do we need
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labels for these things? It's just become like a way
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where people are like, I'm setting my boundary and like
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their therapy speak when it's just like live your life, like
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just live your life and it doesn't.
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I also think like the therapy culture makes people live in
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such a calculated manner where they put like the all these
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structures and boundaries and barriers around to like
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construct this life. And it's like, just live your
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life. And just like every time I've
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heard someone say they're setting a boundary in my head,
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I'm like, it seems like a negative thing to me.
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I just live my life, see how I feel, do my best with people,
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you know? I just don't like more.
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Fluid. Yeah, I just, I don't, you know,
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I just don't. I feel like, I feel like when
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you approach things like we're saying with mindset, where you
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approach things in a positive way, where you're just looking
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to do your best every day and give it your all, then like
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you're going to live a happier life than being that person that
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just is like, I'm setting this boundary.
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I'm setting this boundary. This person can't talk to me and
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I can only be in this situation with that seems like a miserable
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way to live. That's all I have to say.
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I mean, I, I get what you're saying.
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I think that there's a way to go about it though, that's a little
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bit different where it's just like you're incorporating it
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without it being your entire identity.
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I think you're getting to the point where like liberals and
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leftists, they like, yes, a virtue signal.
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They use it as like a holier than thou tool where they're on
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their pedestal and. Maybe someone's toxic, by the
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way, because a lot of people are like, I can't talk to people out
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of my life. I think that is toxic for you to
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cut people out of your life. Just don't let other people's
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toxicity wear off on you. That's another thing.
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Like, I can be in a room with someone who maybe I find toxic
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or not a good person, and I can still just own myself and be my
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own person and do my best to be, you know, a good person in that.
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And, like, just don't let it wear off.
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I agree. Yeah, yeah.
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Anyway, for me setting boundaries is out for.
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For me it's in. OK, trad wife content.
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Out I just think it's so performative and no hate to that
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because some of those people, it's actually their lifestyle.
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They're just showing their day-to-day routine.
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But if it's like their entire brand, I don't know.
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I just don't like the content anymore.
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I'm sorry. I have like no explanation for
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it. It's a little cliche, it feels a
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little played out, it feels a little performative.
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Yeah, because they're a lot of those.
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People weird. Yeah, and they're all doing the
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same content, though. It's like be different, be bold
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and like be your own person and don't just follow like a trend
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or an aesthetic, you know what I mean?
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It also as a mom, I I'm just like not, I'm never the type of
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person that likes to take myself like super seriously and I mean
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that like I'll like make fun of myself.
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And so I almost like more of like self deprecating stuff.
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Like I love when a mom like I like funny, like mom jokes where
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it's like, Oh, this is the house after my 3 year old plays like
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more of that 5 versus like I live the most perfect life and
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like a lot of these Chad wives, I'm like calling kind of people
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out, but they have like a lot of like paid help behind the scenes
18:47
and I'm in no way condemning someone for that.
18:50
That's amazing. Like I wish I personally had
18:52
more help as well. My family is so helpful.
18:54
But obviously, like living in DC away from family can be hard,
18:57
but I think maybe being honest about that as well and being
19:00
like, I'm lucky, you know, I, I never will pretend.
19:03
Privilege is such a liberal word.
19:05
But like I will never pretend that Like I'm not a very
19:08
privileged person in so many ways with like the family I grew
19:11
up in and the life that I've been able to live.
19:12
And I'm always honest about that.
19:14
And so I never like to come off where I've done it all myself,
19:17
you know what I mean? So I think that for me is why
19:19
the tried wife stuff is out. It's just a little too like
19:21
curated and not honest. Yeah, I love Nora Smith though,
19:24
because she'll like, wear these extravagant outfits to get
19:27
clicks, but then like, Lucky will be in the corner with like
19:30
30 bowls and dishes like cleaning up after her for her
19:33
videos. Love Nora Smith too because I
19:35
love the aspirational content. She is real, like she's opened
19:39
up about like her skin problems with eczema or whatever it is
19:42
and like her hair and like her kids and and like the move and
19:46
and her and lucky like meeting so young.
19:48
And so I do like the element where it's like personalized to
19:51
her and like she shows her sense of style too.
19:54
And she does like the voice and like she's she's just made her
19:57
own brand for herself and her own lane.
19:59
And I love that. And they're like lecturing you
20:01
or too preachy. Yeah.
20:02
And I think there are just some trad wives that just generate
20:05
the same content and it's just it's the same like repetitive
20:09
cycle that's not like specialized to them by any
20:12
means. It's like any content that
20:14
another person could emulate. Yeah, or it's just rubbish and
20:17
outplayed. Now out ChatGPT.
20:21
And I rely on chat for so much and I'm so glad that I finished
20:25
school before ChatGPT. And like I will never forget
20:29
having an assignment do at 11:59 and your gears were having to
20:33
like turn at full speed in order to get it done.
20:35
Like kids these days will never know that feeling.
20:38
Yeah, but it's. Scary to me that they won't like
20:40
I feel like people become very intellectually.
20:41
Lazy because of that, but if you utilize artificial intelligence
20:45
in the right ways, which some people don't, but me and my
20:47
husband have like this way where we will go down the rabbit hole
20:50
like asking so many questions where it's like you're utilizing
20:53
it in a healthy way rather than becoming dependent on it for
20:56
like stupid tasks that you could do yourself.
20:59
You know what I mean? So I'm going to go in though I
21:02
love ChatGPT. I rely on it like every single
21:04
day and I've used it for interior design.
21:07
I've literally sent it a photo of my room and I'm like, did
21:10
really create a room that looks great.
21:12
It's helped me with that. It's helped me with if I'm
21:15
reading the Bible and I don't like understand something
21:17
contextually, I'll like look up what was going on at that time.
21:20
I'll look up like what these people were going through and
21:23
like all these things. So I use it for stuff like that
21:25
where I try to gain understanding.
21:27
Not to come off like I'm holier than now, but I try so hard not
21:31
to become relying on it like I really do.
21:33
I try my absolute best to like not use it that much because I
21:36
want. I think it's like your brain is
21:38
a muscle and if you become too reliant on it when you're not
21:41
using your brain to write things anymore, I just like it will
21:44
atrophy. That's why.
21:46
People need to utilize it in the correct way, but it's just such
21:50
a fine line. Yeah, you have to walk.
21:52
And some people just like utilize it for like either
21:55
tedious tasks or like things that they just don't want to do
21:58
themselves. Yeah, that could be easily done
22:00
within like 5 minutes, but it's just so much easier to type it
22:02
in and be like chat correct this.
22:05
It's just the way the world is dying.
22:06
Like I can't even stay out because it's going to be in.
22:08
Like it's really not even, Yeah. Once they start like those
22:11
stupid robots though that keep like running into things on the
22:14
streets too, I'm like, just get a person to deliver.
22:16
The way MO car OK, Oh, I have a rant for this one.
22:21
Casual dining chains and for those of you guys that are like
22:24
what is that? This is like the category of
22:26
restaurant that's like an Applebee's, an Olive Garden,
22:29
Cheesecake Factory. So like these chain restaurants
22:32
where you sit down and dine. So not like a fast food
22:35
restaurant, the kind of in between.
22:37
I don't personally eat at them, so I want to say out.
22:40
However, I know like going back to Kentucky, that is like
22:44
majority of the restaurants there.
22:46
And so I will say like in for different parts of the United
22:50
States. But like I love going into like
22:53
little diner like mom and pop shops and like experiencing like
22:56
just supporting like small businesses and things like that.
22:59
So I will go out in the sense that I don't personally like to
23:02
go to them, but I mean in for the people.
23:04
Like, obviously if you're living in a town and that's all around
23:07
you, then like, I get it, you know?
23:08
My out is not coming from like an elitist point of view because
23:12
to be honest, I didn't really grow up that much going to these
23:14
restaurants. My mom is like super health
23:16
conscious my entire life. So one we didn't like eat out
23:18
that much. Like she cooked so much, which
23:20
I'm thankful for. But I remember for like soccer
23:22
tournaments and stuff, we used to go to like Olive Garden or
23:24
Black Bear Diner in California was big.
23:26
And these restaurants used to be really good.
23:28
Like they were never healthy. I'm not claiming they were ever
23:30
healthy, but it was like really good food that was kind of
23:33
iconic to America. And to keep this short because
23:36
we have so much else to cover, but Matt Walsh did recently this
23:40
whole investigation because it's so true.
23:42
The quality of these chain restaurants have just absolutely
23:45
gone downhill. And what he found is that so
23:48
many of these chain restaurants, they use this brand called
23:50
Cisco, where basically these trucks, these Cisco trucks
23:53
deliver frozen food and they are essentially just heated up in
23:57
the back, like microwaved and then served out to you like
23:59
pretending it's like food that's actually made there.
24:02
And like you saw this with Cracker Barrel, for example,
24:03
where they used to homemade, they used to make all of their
24:05
biscuits like they were homemade in the back.
24:07
And now they're just frozen and heated up.
24:09
And This is why it's it's just like it's absolute slop for
24:11
food. It's so unhealthy and doesn't
24:14
even taste good. Like these restaurants used to
24:16
be iconic. They used to taste so good.
24:17
And now I'm just like so angry at the quality.
24:20
And you're so right. So many people in America, these
24:21
are restaurants that they rely upon because, you know, they
24:24
live in areas where there's not as many mom and pop restaurants,
24:26
especially like poorer parts of the country.
24:28
It's so unfortunate because I feel bad.
24:30
It's like this food has gone so downhill for them.
24:32
Like I want like a better, I want to improve these
24:34
restaurants and, and make the food actually back there again.
24:38
I don't really know how to do that.
24:39
I love a good waffle. Whole house so and they'll cook
24:41
it right in front of you. Yeah, see, that's why they're
24:43
actually still good. Yeah, yeah, they're and some of
24:46
Cracker Barrel they still make there.
24:47
But anyway, so it's out for me as someone who used to like love
24:51
to go to like a Chili's like I'm like, I wouldn't even like eat
24:54
there anymore because I just don't even think it's like good.
24:56
OK Hair by Chrissy. Oh.
24:58
My gosh, this. Is like such like micro culture
25:01
if you were on TikTok for us, we don't even need to get into it
25:03
but there was like a whole drama.
25:04
You can look it up with some girl paid like $4000 for her
25:07
extensions and. Stuff and I go out because I
25:09
feel like you see somebody's hair and you know it was from
25:12
there because it's like the same like 3 weft extensions that are
25:15
like very, very thick and yeah with all that drama girl, if
25:19
you're paying that much and she's not even she touched her
25:22
hair for two seconds. I'm just saying out.
25:24
Yeah, some of, I mean they do have like the good transition
25:27
videos and stuff that I'm thinking of, but I'm going to go
25:30
out too. I love my girl that does my
25:32
hair. She's amazing.
25:33
Shout out to Danica. Love her at Golden Face brands.
25:36
So I'm not a hair by Chrissy girl.
25:38
OK, cigarettes. I put this on there.
25:42
This is so bad, you guys. I'm just going to go in though.
25:45
I have virgin lungs not saying this to be a pick me I by.
25:49
The way I don't like chain smoke.
25:51
OK you guys, but like, what's the saying?
25:53
Drunk cigs don't count, Yeah? Kate not to be a pick me, I
25:57
literally have virgin lungs and I cannot smoke anything.
25:59
You're not. Being a pick me, I feel like
26:00
people are going to get on to me for that.
26:02
One no genuinely like if I tried to smoke something it'll be like
26:06
for like 30 minutes. Like I can't smoke anything.
26:08
I'm like, Europeans just do it right.
26:10
They walk all day. They, like drink wine and pasta
26:13
for like every single meal and they smoke and they're still in
26:15
like better shape than America where they're like chronically
26:17
obese. So true.
26:18
So I'm like, I don't care if you have a cig every now and then.
26:22
My hot take is that cigs are much better than the vape pen I.
26:25
AM 1 so against the flavored chemicals and stuff.
26:28
And my other hot take is that cigs are a million times better
26:31
than smoke in a joint so. 100. Percent like necessarily super
26:34
against it. I kind of agree.
26:35
I'm like, have more European mindset.
26:36
Yeah, OK, Full glam. I'm going to go in for our TV
26:40
hits because we have to like full glam.
26:42
That's and that's what we do. But I think in everyday life,
26:45
for me, it's totally out. I'm like a Sonny's type of girl
26:48
with no makeup. If I could walk around every
26:51
single day with sunglasses on and no makeup, I would.
26:53
But for TV, I'm going to have to go in.
26:55
So I'm like borderline. I don't know.
26:57
It's so funny. I've been doing so much TV,
26:59
which I'm like so thankful for the opportunity, but it has
27:01
required a lot of makeup and it's harsh on your skin and it's
27:04
really hard on your hair too, like and everything.
27:08
So I do like the days, but I I will say I've now I learned how
27:11
to do my makeup really well. I think for I might look back at
27:14
this and be like, your makeup suck, Jamie.
27:15
But right now I think I I've learned to do a good job doing
27:18
my TV makeup, but now it's hard to get out of doing my TVI don't
27:21
remember how I used to do like my regular makeup.
27:23
Like you guys will find this insane.
27:25
But until I started doing TVI never wore foundation or powder.
27:28
And now I look back and I'm like, that's why my skin was
27:30
shiny all the time. And so I just like learned how
27:32
to do the full glam. And I feel like now that we're
27:35
in our TV era, I'm saying very much in in 2026, OK, Diet Coke.
27:40
In I love Diet Coke. I I have soda person.
27:45
Me and your mom have an issue. Yeah, my mom is addicted to
27:48
that. Trace if you're.
27:49
Watching this, I understand. You we know that Trace is
27:51
watching this. We know we know drinks.
27:54
When my mom comes to babysit Vivi, I just load up our fridge
27:56
with. Before Trace even gets into town
27:58
to come to see Jamie, I will stock that fridge with Diet
28:01
Coke, because her and I both will.
28:03
Drink. So it's like I know Cameron's
28:04
been here. Like she has, we will both.
28:06
That being said, I do once in a while do a Diet Coke because I
28:09
find that if I don't want to have another coffee but I do
28:11
need to pick me up. It has some caffeine but it's
28:13
like less intense than coffee, but I'm just not a soda person.
28:15
I'm not a soda person other than Diet Coke.
28:18
Interesting. Yeah, yeah.
28:19
Oversharing out. I have just given myself so much
28:23
anxiety this year, feeling like I overshared.
28:26
And I know it's not that deep, but for me, it's like, I just
28:30
think it's good to have privacy and to like keep some things to
28:32
yourself. That's probably better than what
28:34
I'm about to say. Mine is in because I'm just
28:37
like, you know what? Take me for who I am.
28:39
I. Believe me as I be.
28:41
I always just hope to be with every person, just authentically
28:45
myself. And for me that's probably like
28:47
blah blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
28:48
I'm a yapper at heart so I'm just going to yap away.
28:51
I know, but I'm like, are you not jaded from like our first
28:54
term in the White House, where I feel like knowledge is power and
28:57
they were always trying to like leverage it and use it against
29:00
you and like this you had to be like robot, robot.
29:02
And then like now I think for me, it's like I just give myself
29:06
so much anxiety the next day of like, did I say the wrong like
29:09
I'm just psychotic. You have you seen the videos?
29:11
That's like your vibe was weird and everyone felt it like that
29:16
is me the next day, in my next. Though you're a black cat.
29:19
Personally, I am golden retriever personally because
29:21
I'll just be like, oh, I had a lot of fun.
29:23
Yeah. Like I don't ever overthink and
29:26
if I even start overthinking something I'm just like gas at
29:29
myself. Oh, I'm sure it's great they
29:30
liked. Me I over share with my friends
29:32
so like there's nothing that I don't leave out on the table.
29:35
It's not a calculated person, I probably should be more it's
29:37
just not who I am and I've just like learned to I.
29:40
Love that though. I'm just like, it's take me for
29:43
who I am. I'm not going to lie to you.
29:45
It's like I'm a yapper. I might yap away.
29:49
And like I said, I think people maybe like there are people in
29:52
life that are like drawn to me for that because I also think
29:55
like there's something to be said.
29:56
You're more relatable to people in your lives when you're like
29:59
actually more of an open book versus I think sometimes it can
30:02
be hard to build friendships with people who are so closed
30:04
off. And so I feel like you.
30:05
Should only do that with people who like deserve to be in your
30:08
life rather than like giving other people Intel who like may
30:11
use it against you, have malintent or like may not be in
30:14
your life as a permanent fixture.
30:15
So I'm going to say out for me, but it's probably in for.
30:18
That's like Cameron and I in any social situation, blah blah blah
30:20
blah blah, and Cameron standing behind like.
30:22
Yeah, I'm like the I don't even want to say the devil on your
30:26
shoulder. I'm just like Jamie is like who
30:28
she is. And then I'm sitting there being
30:30
like, what is that person's intention?
30:32
Or like when Cameron's social battery is out and I just start
30:34
answering for you. Oh.
30:35
Yeah, guys, that happens all the time where I just go mute.
30:38
Like you would think that I'm having the worst time, but it's
30:41
really just because if I could change one thing about myself,
30:44
and we've talked about this before, it's my social battery
30:46
runs out so quickly, so quickly. She'll just give me a look and a
30:52
immediately knows she has to have two personalities.
30:55
For both of us, I hold down the Fort.
30:57
She. Yeah, she does.
30:58
Like, thank God for you for that.
31:02
And then Kevin afterwards, like Jimmy, they're manipulating you.
31:04
I'm like, Oh my God, what? Oh my God, that.
31:09
Is so. Fun Drake's like Jimmy, how do
31:11
you make it sometimes like it's not playing down I.
31:14
Swear, Drake and I like coming to the conclusion about somebody
31:19
and yeah, Jamie's in the corner being like, how could this
31:21
happen? OK, oh God, we are yapping like
31:25
always. We'll go through these a little
31:26
quicker. Irish exits and I can never do
31:29
that. I don't know why I get guilt
31:31
about it. I will like if I have to leave
31:33
and I'll be like texting, I'm so sorry that I put blah blah blah.
31:35
Anyway, out for me. Of course, it ends on the
31:38
setting, but for me, I think it, like, gives you some aura and
31:41
mystery. Yeah.
31:42
You know, Irish exits that we know.
31:44
Shout out to Nick Garfinkel. Yeah.
31:46
Nick Garfinkel, Irish. You're just, like, worried
31:49
everything. Yeah.
31:50
And I'm like. But I love that because then
31:51
people are asking questions and like, where'd he go?
31:53
What's well. Cameron will Irish exit and then
31:55
and then I'll like be at the event so and I'm answering her
31:58
question. We'll say bye to everyone.
32:00
For me, I'm. Like sorry Karen had to get out
32:02
of here, but I just have nowhere.
32:04
Our dynamic is funny. OK rotting.
32:07
I love a good bed. Rot.
32:08
I know I'm a broader at car. Yeah, I need to stop though.
32:12
We were just having this conversation how we feel better
32:14
about ourselves when we're productive, I think in order to
32:17
recharge. I'm a rotter.
32:19
Yeah, me too. Yeah, I guess I'll say.
32:20
And I'm a happier person when I'm booked in busy.
32:23
But I will say I've been go go go the last like 3 months and I
32:26
need some good bed rotting days. I don't know what I'm going to
32:28
get them in. We'll see that's.
32:30
Very good. You have a generational run.
32:31
You need a generational now. No words.
32:37
OK, Protecting your peace. Again, this is like one of those
32:40
toxic therapy languages, so I'm going to just say out because
32:45
you have to do things you don't want to do to get to the places
32:47
you want to be sometimes. Oh I totally agree, I've in no
32:51
way protected my peace quote on this year and I'm happier for.
32:54
It, yeah, you actually accomplish more when you get out
32:56
of your comfort zone. So no, yeah, it's out.
32:59
Yeah, I completely agree, saying yes to everything.
33:02
Out I've learned that it's, it's good to like pace yourself
33:06
sometimes. And I do think with what we do,
33:08
it's a marathon, not a Sprint, because some people just come in
33:11
and out of this orbit a lot. And I do think it's good to like
33:15
keep a healthy balance with your personal life and with your
33:18
professional life, not saying yes to everything and making
33:21
sure that like you're present in those moments, whether it's like
33:23
at home with your family or you're locked in in your career.
33:27
And I do think that takes like saying no sometimes and like
33:29
knowing when to stop and knowing when to go.
33:31
Mine is definitely. I say yes year I am, I used to
33:34
be maybe not as much, but I, I view it like I'm not.
33:37
I, I guess it's a luxury to be able to say no and like the
33:40
place I'm in in my career. I think it's really important to
33:42
actually take like almost every opportunity.
33:44
Like obviously not everything you can do, like it's physically
33:47
impossible, but I basically try to say yes to everything because
33:51
I'm trying to build something up and I just don't think I have
33:53
the luxury. I'm not at the place that I want
33:55
to be one day. Because, and I think in your
33:57
20s, that's the time you're young, you should be saying yes
33:59
to a lot of stuff versus when you're older, that's when you
34:02
have the luxury to be be a little bit more picky about
34:04
things once you've made it in your career.
34:06
OK rage baiting my husband. Does this to me like all day
34:12
every day. So I'm just going to go in
34:13
because it's like gotten funny to this point where I'm like
34:15
it's a part of a that's my brother.
34:17
They rage bait me. All the time.
34:18
It's like funny, Smith sent me a reel.
34:20
The other. Day where it was.
34:20
Like a guy spitting out food. He's like when I found out my
34:23
sister made the meal, which it does one time, we were like at
34:27
the airport. And we were like going through
34:28
security and I had our flight, like our flight things on my
34:33
phone. What is it called?
34:34
The QR code? Yeah, I had the flight QR code
34:36
on my phone. I was like, Pat, I forgot to
34:39
book your flight. And then he like freaked out.
34:43
And I was like, sorry, no, I did.
34:46
I booked your flight. Chill out.
34:47
That's in. It's fun.
34:48
It's fun. I like.
34:49
That text check insurance, I'm just going to go out, I mean.
34:53
Like if you're texting me, it's probably like a booking producer
34:56
or you sending me a meme or my sister sending me a meme.
35:00
Like I just don't text with people like Pat, I will call
35:04
you. I call, I call my mom.
35:06
I'm just not a texter in general.
35:08
Like even with memes, I feel like I send them over TikTok or
35:11
Instagram. I just hate texts.
35:13
Like send a carrier pigeon at this point because I hate it so
35:16
much. I'm just saying out.
35:17
It's my one thing where I'm kind of going to.
35:19
Sound like a BITCHI feel bad about this, but I am text out as
35:22
well. Like I feel like if you're the
35:24
text check insurance, which are always coming from a kind place,
35:27
like I'm not being like this is I'm the mean one.
35:30
I'm the Scrooge right now, but it's like, if you're going to
35:32
send a text, just send something that's like either a important
35:35
story I need. I almost rather you be like, can
35:37
you jump on the phone with me for five hours?
35:39
Because my life's in crisis. I actually find that more
35:41
filling than like, Oh my gosh, we haven't talked.
35:43
Let's catch up. And it's like, can we just catch
35:44
up in person? You know, it's like, I guess if
35:47
you're texting, it's like, let's plan something to hang out.
35:49
Like I don't want to catch up over texts.
35:51
I don't know. I just I I I'm just, I'm not.
35:54
I've literally reposted this video on Tik.
35:56
T.O.K that was like I will go to war for my friends.
35:59
I will keep your deepest darkest secrets in a vault, but I won't
36:02
die for back. But I will read your text and I
36:05
will not respond for two months. That is me.
36:07
That is me as well. I.
36:08
Will read your text so you can. Bet your ass if something ever
36:12
happened in your life I'd be on the 1st flight out but I you
36:14
will not be getting a text back from me.
36:16
Well, I like think that is me, Isabel for.
36:18
Example, she just always sends me memes and it just makes me
36:20
laugh. I just like those type of texts
36:21
or it's just like laugh heart, you know what I mean?
36:23
I I can't do the whole like exchange over.
36:26
It's like I rather go hang out with you in person and catch and
36:29
that's how it used to be like we used to not have to be in
36:32
contact with your friendship is not people did before they had.
36:35
Like AOL or phones? Like anything, I don't imagine
36:39
friendship is defined by how. Much you text no that it
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shouldn't so. I'm saying that's out like.
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I'll catch up in person. OK, Botox and filler and I just.
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Like at this point who cares? Just do you.
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If you want to get the filler, get the filler.
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I live in LA now and it's just like so normalized in this
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culture where I do think some people just go above and beyond,
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don't get me wrong, But like the judgement surrounding it and
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like trying to be holier than thou, like not getting it.
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It's just like it's out for me. So if you're going to do it,
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just do it so in. I'm going to go out with it.
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I'm going to go because I think now everybody gets work done.
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Like it's so normal that you're almost like more unique when you
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don't. So I just think like, yeah, I
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think people get like the same Instagram.
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Face. But I'm, I'm talking about like
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if you have lines that like worry you or like you want your
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lips a little bit bigger, like who cares?
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Just do I agree. I'm not like judging people.
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But to the same like I think it is, it is nice when you see a
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face where you're like, oh, I know they haven't gotten any
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work done. It's like more unique nowadays
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because I do think I'd be honest.
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So I saw this video though. This other girl and she's like
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this is a 25 year old with no Botox or filler.
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And I'm like you say it in the sun with no sunscreen and it's
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like you can see that. I don't know if you should be
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like flaunting that like I and for me, I would course correct
37:52
because I laid in the tanning bed since I was like 1516, you
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guys. And like that comes with like
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laser treatments and like daily sunscreen and like taking care
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of your body more now. But like if you just want to get
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it done, get it done. And if you look better with it
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or it makes you like more confident physically.
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I mean you shouldn't rely on that for like mental reason.
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Like there I say do it. I saw this like thing on TikTok
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where it's. Like these movie stars couldn't
38:16
be cast in like a period film, like pretend like a film takes
38:19
place in the 1800s because they have a they have a 2025 face
38:23
versus like like an old school face, if that makes sense.
38:26
I agree with that. I do think like something when
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you look back at like celebrities before, like plastic
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surgery was a thing, it sounds cliche and it sounds like I'm
38:33
just saying this to be like holier than now, but I really
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mean this. Like I do think that there is
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beauty and imperfections. That being said, I've never
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gotten actually Botox or filler. People like always like come at
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me for that. I actually haven't.
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But I am lucky. I even though I'm 27, I really
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haven't gotten any wrinkles. But I will say I won't lie, when
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I do start getting wrinkles, like I probably will get Botox.
38:52
I know that I'm trying to hold off though, as long as I can,
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because I do think sometimes when you overdo it also can make
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you look a bit older as well. Yeah, I agree.
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Yeah, I agree with that. I don't judge people at all and
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I. Get why people do it and if you
39:03
can and like and if you want to like change something up, like
39:06
all power to you. But I guess me and my little
39:09
corner over here, I'm like, you don't have to like.
39:12
There's also something beautiful just about being natural too.
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OK, last one beating a dead horse I will beat.
39:20
A dead horse until like, its soul has risen out of its body.
39:25
Like I I will talk about the same thing.
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Yeah. Over and over and over.
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Gonna. Jamie knows no solution can be
39:34
said until Cameron just gets this off of her mind.
39:37
Because that's all I need to do is just talk it through one more
39:39
time. I feel like you've done this
39:40
with me, too. Oh, my God, we do.
39:42
I could think of 50. Topics where we have talked
39:44
about it 50 million times. We know the end result will.
39:46
Never change. This is why I'm against therapy.
39:48
I'm like, do you not have a? Friend to just rant out your
39:51
like a opinions and your feelings too and then
39:53
immediately feel better. It's like we get our toxicity
39:55
out with each other and then we're like good to go.
39:57
I know it's like new person. After our new person, after our
40:01
phone. And I love.
40:01
All. I like that.
40:02
What's the thing? Yeah.
40:04
We're like after after our rant, we're like.
40:08
Us and I also love our phone calls where I'm like, OK, just
40:10
so you know, this is not a solution oriented like I don't
40:13
even need like your mental capacity for advice.
40:15
I just need to friggin rant that that is a classic Jamie and
40:19
Campbell call. There's no solution, but you
40:21
just feel better afterwards. Yes.
40:23
Well, sincerely sisters, I hope you guys enjoyed our fun New
40:26
Year's episode. Happy 2026.
40:29
We're wishing you all the best for this upcoming year.
40:31
We're so excited for all the episodes we have in store and to
40:34
continue building this amazing. Be with you guys and go have fun
40:37
Party, but not too hard tonight. Don't do anything that we
40:40
wouldn't do. Me with my pajamas, hanging out
40:43
with Vivi. Tonight, like, we've only had
40:45
one crazy New Year's, and that was Bailey in in in Miami.
40:51
Yeah. That was like the only time I
40:53
thought it was so fun. Went a little too.
40:55
Hard hey. In Miami as you.
40:58
Should girl, as you should. I'm going to a Lightning Kings
41:02
game tomorrow. That would be fun.
41:05
I'm just cuddling up on the. Couch I I needed that.
41:07
Love that. Yeah.
41:08
Just recharge. Yeah.
41:10
We love you guys so much. Every time we say sisters.
41:12
Though I think of the James Charles thing where he's like,
41:14
hi sisters, we're not not in a James Charles.
41:17
Way, in a sincerely American way.
41:19
We love you guys so much. We hope you.
41:21
Have the happiest new year ever. We can't wait to see you there
41:25
and we love you. Bye.
41:37
We'll see you every Wednesday.