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We want you to jump into the comments section..! Frankie has some gossip for you · Anele and the Club on 947

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Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang and the clap on nine
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Speaker 1: four seven.
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Speaker 2: You know, on most websites Instagram, TikTok, when a video
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Speaker 2: is posted right, doesn't matter how engaging and how entertaining
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Speaker 2: and how funny the actual video is. The true joy
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Speaker 2: lies in the comments section.
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Speaker 1: Always, always, always.
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Speaker 2: So today we would like for you to jump into
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Speaker 2: the comments section. Frankie told us two stories yesterday about
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Speaker 2: dating in Johannesburg. If you're over the age of thirty,
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Speaker 2: and literally our jaws were on the floor. The only time,
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Speaker 2: personally my jaw wasn't on the floor is when I
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Speaker 2: was chewing. But when I was done chewing, I was
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Speaker 2: done to my I was back to being my door
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Speaker 2: being on the floor.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, here's the thing, the two stories same person.
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Speaker 2: Is this the same person?
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Speaker 1: The same person?
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Speaker 2: You know she's the unluckiest dolly in the dating field.
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Speaker 1: Well, she's lucky now because she has made someone.
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Speaker 2: Something is happening now. But this is why you can
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Speaker 2: make fun.
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Speaker 1: Of this is why. Okay, names will be removed from
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Speaker 1: the story. You know, for obvious, let's call it Janet. Okay,
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Speaker 1: let's call it. I'll call a Janet. Definitely doesn't look
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Speaker 1: like a Janet, let's call her Janet. But here's the thing,
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Speaker 1: this is, this is why we started talking about this
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Speaker 1: yesterday because I said to you, Dolly's in the city.
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Speaker 1: All the ladies in the city dating in their thirties,
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Speaker 1: right for whatever reason, maybe they're divorced, maybe they're singing again,
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Speaker 1: what were just dating?
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Speaker 2: So thirties and app so thirties, forties, sixties everyone everyone, everyone.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. So and that's why we started talking about
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Speaker 1: this because she went on these two dates, started dating
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Speaker 1: these two guys, and I just I was flabbergasted when
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Speaker 1: she told these stories, because I'm like, is this what
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Speaker 1: you guys are going through?
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Speaker 2: Okay? So that's all we need for you to do.
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Speaker 2: You're going to be listening to Frankie's story, and then
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Speaker 2: all you do just in comments, send comments on as
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Speaker 2: the story unfolds. If you have an emotion, if you
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Speaker 2: have a reaction, if you if something happens and you
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Speaker 2: shut at your radio, don't shut it at the radio,
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Speaker 2: only shut it on the radio, and then send us
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Speaker 2: a voice note.
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Speaker 1: Send us a voice note zero.
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Speaker 2: Eight four double zero double zero nine four seven.
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Speaker 1: Jump into the comment section right. So Janet starts dating
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Speaker 1: this guy. They meet online on one of the dating sites.
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Speaker 1: She still decides to pay for the premium subscription because
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Speaker 1: she's hoping it will bring the premium.
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Speaker 2: Man, right, because your dating sides work like you.
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Speaker 1: Can subscribe to certain sites paid for, so the more
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Speaker 1: you pay, well, if you pay, then at least you've
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Speaker 1: you'ven screened all you like. Other people are also having
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Speaker 1: to pay, And then maybe this is a you can
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Speaker 1: cut out some of the refrash. Yes, right, that's what
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Speaker 1: she thinks. So she goes onto the side, meets this guy,
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Speaker 1: lovely guy. Chatted for a while, They go out for
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Speaker 1: a coffee once or twice, they go out for a dinner,
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Speaker 1: and at some stages now sort of like three weeks
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Speaker 1: down the line, she he invites her over to his place. Now,
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Speaker 1: in all these dates leading up to this, he has
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Speaker 1: sort of dropped these little hints, right, so she knows
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Speaker 1: he's divorced, and he's told her it's about a year.
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Speaker 1: All this divorce and ruined him financially. So he's getting
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Speaker 1: back on his feet now. But he's got a good job.
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Speaker 1: So she I mean, you know, it is what it is.
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Speaker 2: I mean, here's my first comment. It's always a good
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Speaker 2: sign when you know a man has been ruined by
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Speaker 2: a divorce, because it means that he the wife took everything.
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You wanted to set the
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Speaker 2: wife up lifted with the house, yeh, so that she
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Speaker 2: can have the house, the car for the kids. Okay.
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Speaker 1: So but here's the thing. So he's laying the groundwork
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Speaker 1: because she's now coming to his place, which turns out
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Speaker 1: to be like a one bedroom bachelor on top of
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Speaker 1: someone's garage. Okay, so he's living it was almost like
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Speaker 1: a little flat on top of a garage at someone's house.
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Speaker 1: She walks in, so it's one bedroom, is very small.
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Speaker 1: You know, you can see everything from everywhere. Above his
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Speaker 1: bed there is w w F wrestler poster. Right, so
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Speaker 1: it's a shirtless man. I think she said it was
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Speaker 1: Hulk Hogan or but one of the old ones. The
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Speaker 1: kid like one of those old ones. Okay, a little
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Speaker 1: bit of a red flag for her, but I mean
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Speaker 1: on her side here, it's strange. It's just strange. The
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Speaker 1: place is kitted out a little bit like a man cave. Okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: but I mean here's his little space whatever in between it.
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Speaker 1: Then they're chatting, chatting, chatting, and you know, the night
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Speaker 1: progresses that she steps into the bathroom and which is
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Speaker 1: not far, which is not far, I mean it's just
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Speaker 1: in the corner. And in the bathroom there is ladies shield,
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Speaker 1: the lady's shield, the odrance right, two of them, there's two.
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Speaker 1: There's two of them, same same kind, two of them.
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Speaker 2: Twenty four hour cover.
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Speaker 1: So obviously she's intrigued. She's like, what is this now?
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Speaker 1: He says, no, no, no, it's his sisters or someone
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Speaker 1: who bunked there for a little bit to whatever state
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Speaker 1: they over.
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Speaker 2: So he's got the liberty to have people visiting.
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Speaker 1: Well, he says, it was family that stayed over and
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Speaker 1: forgot it there, and that's what it is. Anyway, turns out,
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Speaker 1: so here's the story. It turns out a few weeks
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Speaker 1: down the line, she hears the truth because then obviously
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Speaker 1: this is too much for her, the whole Hogan poster
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Speaker 1: together with the woman's shield, the other woman's shield, it's
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Speaker 1: too much for her. So they she says, no, this
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Speaker 1: is not going to work out. It turns out, she
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Speaker 1: hears via the grape put ye down the road, this
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Speaker 1: man actually is divorced, right his family stay in a
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Speaker 1: very fancy estate. He got divorced because his business got
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Speaker 1: into trouble and then he got divorced on paper.
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Speaker 2: To protect the wall, to protects.
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Speaker 1: Right.
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Speaker 2: That's so they don't want to divorce. They don't hate
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Speaker 2: each other. No, they are still very much together.
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Speaker 1: They're together. Same girl, different story.
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Speaker 2: I feel like Sara is going to make it turn
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Speaker 2: state within when you can jump into the comments on
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Speaker 2: this same girl different Do you want to tell both
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Speaker 2: the dating stories? Okay, yeah, I don't know if I
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Speaker 2: can handle more. Jump into the comments. Zero eight four
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Speaker 2: double zero double zero nine four seven send us call
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Speaker 2: us on one one eight thirty eight nine four seven.
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Speaker 2: You don't have to give us a similar story. If
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Speaker 2: you have one, good for you. But right now we
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Speaker 2: just want you to jump into the comments. What is
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Speaker 2: going through your mind right now? With Jane Janet Janet? Sorry,
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Speaker 2: you see even for this is good. Oh so you
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Speaker 2: can have questions for Frankie because I.
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Speaker 1: Think, yeah, I can answer some of the questions, not
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Speaker 1: to a point, because because obviously you don't know money,
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Speaker 1: but I mean, this is what who did she find
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Speaker 1: out from two weeks down the road? Friends? Who obviously
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Speaker 1: she when she started dating this guy, realized that some
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Speaker 1: of her other friends now his friends are friends. So
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Speaker 1: so so the story comes out, does.
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Speaker 2: He do that where he takes ladies back to his
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Speaker 2: house to keep the liar alive so that if let's say,
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Speaker 2: you know, he is being investigated or is being followed,
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Speaker 2: or they are tracking something that they can see.
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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't know. The current ex wife I
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Speaker 1: don't think is aware of this. It's literally a financial reason.
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Speaker 1: This is what they're trying to do. But they are
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Speaker 1: still together.
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Speaker 2: So he stays at the fancy house and he just
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Speaker 2: has away games at the at the flat. About one
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Speaker 2: one eight thirty eight kinds four seven jump into the comments,
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Speaker 2: send us it's not zero eight four double zero double
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Speaker 2: zero nine four seven.
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Speaker 3: Aboard mission aboard, mission aboard mission what?
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Speaker 2: No, guys, something off red flag.
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Speaker 4: When a guy tells you his financial problems very early on,
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Speaker 4: he's just preparing you not to expect anything from him.
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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, I thought this guy was gay for
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Speaker 4: a second, and then Frankie said, no, he's based at
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Speaker 4: least still married.
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Speaker 1: It's just paper, guys. This sounds like the man is
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Speaker 1: one of the guys that appeared in commission.
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Speaker 2: You're right, You're right. Let's go to sands and Mark
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Speaker 2: good morning, and.
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Speaker 5: Then the team has I think he's just getting psychologically
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Speaker 5: into the role and maybe the gun just needs a
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Speaker 5: bit of fresh meat, so maybe that's what he's up to.
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Speaker 1: Mark. Do you have again poster over your bet?
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Speaker 5: No, that I definitely don't have.
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Speaker 2: Okay, do you have a Yes.
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Speaker 5: You have the kicker. Yeah, he's the kicker. I do
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Speaker 5: use the lady's shower to shower.
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Speaker 2: But it's just it's.
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Speaker 5: Just so it's so smell, so fresh and son and
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Speaker 5: it's awesome.
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Speaker 2: I love the man's one when you smells like a terrain.
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Speaker 2: The woman one smells like a field of flowers.
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Speaker 5: Hey, Marg Yeah, and then especially when you're wearing it
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Speaker 5: with a cologne, it just works so much better.
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Speaker 2: I can see you say.
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Speaker 5: You know, it's in terms of it being a mindfield.
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Speaker 5: I mean, my ex was dating everybody in her company
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Speaker 5: before I figured out, so yeah, I mean it is
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Speaker 5: a minefield. They're all bumping each other out there.
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Speaker 1: And it's the big man.
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Speaker 2: It's just a big mess.
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Speaker 5: I think she's I think my exo security promotions for
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Speaker 5: the next twenty years, so her employment is definitely guarded.
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Speaker 2: So yeah, oh you know, Mark, I'm pretty sure it's
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Speaker 2: it's scary when you when in a professional environment your
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Speaker 2: ex has asked what's her favorite position in the company.
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Speaker 5: I believe it's doggy styles.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you opened the door. I'm so sorry. There's a
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Speaker 1: family show. We apologize.
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Speaker 2: I opened it, but I really thought he'd also stay dungy. Mark.
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Speaker 2: I don't want to take any more conference.
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Speaker 1: Lucia. Good morning, No Lusia, no Lucia. Let's talk to Lucia. Lucia.
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Speaker 4: Hello, good morning, Frankly, morning on law.
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Speaker 2: Your figuring out how how many months I have lived
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Speaker 2: with the same years that I have because I'm getting
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Speaker 2: a head for sure, Lucia comments stops to comments. What
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Speaker 2: do you think about the story?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been Anela I can relate to. Okayly, I've
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Speaker 4: been in a relationship before for a whole five years
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Speaker 4: Guyandee my socore partner. I was gonna full on blow
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Speaker 4: relationship with somebody else. I had no idea. I didn't
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Speaker 4: see it coming. As much as I his family knew me,
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Speaker 4: they knew the other person. So it's like, what is this,
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Speaker 4: What's what's happening? You know?
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Speaker 1: Five years.
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Speaker 2: You were married to for five years? And how long
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Speaker 2: was the other relationship?
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Speaker 4: No, we were not married. We were in a relationship.
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Speaker 4: The other relationship was the six years for thereabout.
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Speaker 2: Also you came.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I found out good and the side.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you didn't know it, but you were the side.
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Speaker 2: But who are you living with? Who was he living with?
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Speaker 2: Or was he living alone?
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Speaker 3: Who was living alone?
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Speaker 4: So I could go to I could so, I honestly
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Speaker 4: don't know. He played me good.
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Speaker 2: He did because you obviously in five years, you leave
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Speaker 2: your things. Dare you shield the aldron for women? You
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Speaker 2: leave address, you leave shoes, You buy groceries, right like
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Speaker 2: you buy things your specific spices that you like to
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Speaker 2: cook with.
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Speaker 4: So clear, Can I just tell you something funny? Can
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Speaker 4: I tell you how I found out? I found out
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Speaker 4: at his home. His mother got nice and drunk and
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Speaker 4: spilled the beans to be like, yeah.
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Speaker 2: When you guys are number two, we.
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Speaker 4: Don't even like that girl.
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Speaker 2: We like you.
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Speaker 4: That's why you are here at this family event. And
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Speaker 4: in my head I'm thinking what this women talking about?
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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, okay, so then did you break up with him?
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Speaker 4: Yeah?
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Speaker 2: I broke up with him and it's still with the
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Speaker 2: other Dolly. Probably, I believe.
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Speaker 4: I don't know, but I believe so. I believe so.
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Speaker 2: They're probably married in cases like this. Yeah, men like
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Speaker 2: to reward women who put up with their bad behavior
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Speaker 2: with marriage. Okay, then, Lucia, So what you are here
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Speaker 2: to tell us is that Frankie is correct. The dating
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Speaker 2: waters are muddy and they are dirty.
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Speaker 4: Neh, they are failsy. I am telling you.
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Speaker 2: It is Faul jump into the goverment section zero eight
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Speaker 2: four double zero double zero nine four seven callers one
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Speaker 2: one eight thirty eight nine four seven Johannesburg. Believe it
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Speaker 2: or not, the same goal, the same Janet. Another story.
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Speaker 2: And now that round.
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Speaker 3: Seem it's a financial thing and the wife leaves this stuff.
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Speaker 1: There are personally thing that she's trying to get a
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Speaker 1: third will oh think of the kids and aband.
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Speaker 6: Good friend of mine and her ex husband. They got
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Speaker 6: divorced because they were in so much debt. They wanted
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Speaker 6: to get told of their money, pension, et cetera, and
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Speaker 6: pay off debt, and then the plan was that they
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Speaker 6: would remarry again. They didn't remarry, They liquidated and then
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Speaker 6: start to get married. She was concidentally reminding him that Okay, look,
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Speaker 6: let's go make get married, because go get married.
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Speaker 2: He would always come up with some excuse, what in
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Speaker 2: the days of our lives are you people doing out there? Maroomore?
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Speaker 2: Good morning?
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Speaker 4: Hi?
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Speaker 2: Hi?
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Speaker 3: How are you guys?
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Speaker 2: Good morning? Do you know what it is? I want
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Speaker 2: to say we're fine, but the proved matter is we nosy.
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Speaker 2: What we are is nosy, and it's fine. You love
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Speaker 2: us for it. Anyway, you said you were roommates.
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Speaker 3: With someone, Yes, and stud articles could space of my own.
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Speaker 3: So we're sharing a two bedroom and captured, you know.
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Speaker 3: So this guy told his girlfriend that my boyfriend was
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Speaker 3: his roommate because then time amotion, this and the girl
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Speaker 3: from Limpop with there, and it's just like so when
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Speaker 3: you just start staying here, So in my mind, I'm
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Speaker 3: a first to you. So I'm like, I think I
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Speaker 3: signed the least like two months, so you stay up.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Madama, we're all confused. Now. So you are sharing
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Speaker 2: an apartment with this guy, right, and you are not
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Speaker 2: dating this guy at all? No, I have a person
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Speaker 2: of my Oh okay, so so your boyfriend is always there.
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Speaker 2: So this guy that you're sharing an apartment will tells
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Speaker 2: his girlfriend that we're now you are the girlfriend of
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Speaker 2: his roommate. He doesn't want to tell his girlfriend that
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Speaker 2: he shares the house with a woman. Okay, so then
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Speaker 2: it does this guy have other ladies coming around every
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Speaker 2: now and then?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so when the real girlfriend I don't even know who,
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Speaker 3: but when the important girlfriend is in limbo, there was
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Speaker 3: another girl who comes to visit him on weekends, the
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Speaker 3: long weekend, so the girl that visits were there, so
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Speaker 3: he was not taking the ball from the girl lampoble.
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Speaker 3: So the girl ended up coming.
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Speaker 2: There and announced baby go. So then she and announced
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Speaker 2: and then what happens?
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Speaker 3: So now there the door is no, she doesn't want
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Speaker 3: to open, but the other girl is inside. I want
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Speaker 3: to go to the shop. I can't come out because
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Speaker 3: they were open. The real dolfriend were coming in, so
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Speaker 3: she's bringing the door.
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Speaker 2: So did you find.
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Speaker 3: Eventually my boyfriend came because the really key he opened,
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Speaker 3: and then the lady came. Then now I do the kitchen.
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Speaker 3: So there I've been son off the conomy kitchen. Bloomers
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Speaker 3: there because the Girlseph is angry and throwing out the
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Speaker 3: girl in jokes thought and the guy.
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Speaker 2: Now get this, crows bunches, throws lightning missy in Randbourg
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Speaker 2: talk to us. No, the lines, the lines are terrible,
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Speaker 2: but okay, tell us you okay, Janet. Janet's okay, because
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Speaker 2: this is how it started. We'll say. Frankie is like
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Speaker 2: he's listening to stories of dating and he's just like
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Speaker 2: ladies in Jina's book. I feel sorry for you.
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Speaker 1: And and here's the thing when this when it's one
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Speaker 1: woman who has these two stories, I know you guys
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Speaker 1: are going through the must right. So Janet different guy,
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Speaker 1: but he she's not him for a very very long time, right,
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Speaker 1: They go way way back, always only been friends.
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Speaker 2: Also, they circling the block.
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Speaker 1: It's almost like you and your husband, like, you know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, long ago, broke up, got back together.
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Speaker 1: That only they didn't date long ago. They were just
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Speaker 1: friends and they haven't seen each other in a long time.
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Speaker 1: This oak slides into her d MS right, and at
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Speaker 1: first she like, look, I'm not really interested in this guy.
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Speaker 1: It's not it's not for me really, but this oak
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Speaker 1: is persistent. So eventually she says, Tom Cat's fine, let's
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Speaker 1: He says, let's go out for dinner. She says, he
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Speaker 1: I'll just come around. I'm gonna grab a pizza and
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Speaker 1: I come around to your place. But they but they've
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Speaker 1: known each other for a long time, so it's not
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Speaker 1: he's not a stranger. He's indeed a pilot, so it's
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Speaker 1: not broke either.
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 1: Pictures up at her house with his pizza. Okay, but
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Speaker 1: he's bought one pizza. That's fine, we can share, right.
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Speaker 1: He walks in, warms it up in the oven, puts
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Speaker 1: it on a plate. They sit on the sitting on
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Speaker 1: the couch chatting. He eats his pizza.
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Speaker 2: What do you mean?
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Speaker 1: Doesn't offer her slice, but she.
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Speaker 2: Watches him sho slices of pizza.
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Speaker 1: He sits next to him, watching him eat his pizza
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Speaker 1: like he doesn't offer. Eventually he says, can I have
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Speaker 1: a slice? He said, But you didn't tell me you
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Speaker 1: want a pizza?
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Speaker 2: HII.
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Speaker 1: Then at some stage she's poured them each a glass
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Speaker 1: of wine. At some stage he steps outside. He says,
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Speaker 1: I I'm going to step outside to make a call,
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Speaker 1: makes a call, sits outside with his wine on his
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Speaker 1: phone for an hour. She's sitting inside. There's a true story.
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Speaker 1: She's sitting inside. He can she can see him. He's
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Speaker 1: sitting outside on This is the guy who's been begging
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Speaker 1: her for a.
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Speaker 2: Date for dinner, doesn't bring dinner, doesn't spend time with her.
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Speaker 1: Right. She obviously sees that this is not going to
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Speaker 1: work out. She was correct in her first assumption. Says
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Speaker 1: to him, they wrap it up. He goes home next morning,
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Speaker 1: He says, so, when can I see you again? To do? What?
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Speaker 2: So you can go sit outside on your phone?
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Speaker 1: She said, nobody.
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Speaker 2: When are we going to go to eat? So I
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Speaker 2: can watch you eat? And I'm hungry?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the audacity, But.
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Speaker 2: You say, Janet is now looking like this.
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Speaker 1: Janet has met a nice man. I haven't met the
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Speaker 1: man yet, but she she's made the nce man.
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Speaker 2: Oh keep us posted. Frank's back to making your morning
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